Catching Up with Gideon from KinkTok

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Saji Sharma

Saji Sharma

Күн бұрын

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@psingh135
@psingh135 2 жыл бұрын
The dedication to record a video when you're in an actively haunted house and about to be cursed by a demonic doll...thank you, king 🙏🏽
@jackiedaytona2200
@jackiedaytona2200 2 жыл бұрын
We stan!!! 🙌🏻
@choco6369
@choco6369 2 жыл бұрын
kinda funny how the pillow in the upper corner of the bed is more freaky looking than the doll
@kotacaelum9428
@kotacaelum9428 2 жыл бұрын
he’s dating someone 7 years older than his son… i’m gonna cry real tears bro.
@goobertron9099
@goobertron9099 2 жыл бұрын
Same 😭😭
@rikafurude9102
@rikafurude9102 2 жыл бұрын
fr
@amber._.
@amber._. 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I can't take this; his son is closer in age to his gf than he is 🤢
@Another1ntern3tlozer
@Another1ntern3tlozer 7 ай бұрын
The age gap is literally older than his son is
@TinyGhosty
@TinyGhosty 2 жыл бұрын
The first word she uses to explain their "relationship" is explosive?? Everything is a red flag and is obviously an abusive situation based on their age and using kink to normalize physical abuse.
@otsukaharu4501
@otsukaharu4501 2 жыл бұрын
exactly, to me it sounds like they are fighting all the time...
@TinyGhosty
@TinyGhosty 2 жыл бұрын
@@otsukaharu4501 Not to mention the ethics of filming kink. I do believe there is a grey area but in a dom/sub dynamic that has other power dynamics (such as age) the state of consent is questionable. She probably does very little research on kink or interact with other kinksters and just accepts his reality of what kink is. Big yikes from me on every layer of this.
@abigailchristenson388
@abigailchristenson388 2 жыл бұрын
I really hope marley has a good support system so she has somewhere to go when this “explosive” relationship blows up. Also gideons poor son. No 12yo should be exposed to anything going on here.
@minjaarsic3327
@minjaarsic3327 2 жыл бұрын
someone’s gotta call CPS on gideon for both the son and the girlfriend
@princelyPhrog
@princelyPhrog 2 жыл бұрын
One of the first things I learned when learning about the kink/bdsm community was to never trust an older kinkster with a barely legal partner. Not only is the age gap weird, but someone who is 18/19 normally barely understands how kink relationship should work & what the "standard" should be (safe words, red flags, healthy boundaries) & can more easily be convinced into doing things under the gaze of "It's not abusive/bad its kink" unlike someone older.. just something to think about
@fleabaggins
@fleabaggins 2 жыл бұрын
Yep, relationships like that always end up being the classic abusive, controlling pseudo-fifty shades of grey dynamic, it’s icky as hell.
@blythetaylor4063
@blythetaylor4063 Жыл бұрын
Yes I’ve noticed this, especially since male dom female sub is so much the norm - there’s a very large subgroup of men in kink who just use it as an excuse to perpetuate abusive relationships. There’s also so many dominant men who are the most considerate, loving people and who make the BDSM community a better place. It’s just the there are also guys who get into it and genuinely believe things like “women were meant to serve men” outside of role play, I’ve even seen a lot of guys dismiss the role of trauma and coercion in kink (genuinely outside of RP saying that if women get off to something degrading it’s a “biological predisposition” rather than something that can be influenced by culture, trauma and experience.) It’s really important to be weary of stances like that. Be weary that just because it’s under a kink umbrella that doesn’t mean it’s okay, trust your gut.
@Smiley_Fruitcake
@Smiley_Fruitcake Жыл бұрын
Yep. When you really get into the community the first thing you'll learn is how important consent is. Consent issues pop up when older kinksters choose to involve themselves with those so much younger than them.
@lunacy3
@lunacy3 2 жыл бұрын
19 year old girl, probably with daddy issues, being with a 33 year old man who think being abusive in public is a kink just don’t sit right with me💀
@TinyGhosty
@TinyGhosty 2 жыл бұрын
Just a gentle reminder that using the term "daddy issues" stigmatizes women who have abusive, absent, and/or traumatizing fathers. The blame should be on the fathers not the daughters. Idk what terms would work better but I think it is something we should work on. Shanspeare has a great video on this topic.
@squin6959
@squin6959 2 жыл бұрын
Just 19 year old girl with a 33 year old man raises questions
@rhiannonsalt
@rhiannonsalt 2 жыл бұрын
@@TinyGhosty exactly!!
@lunacy3
@lunacy3 2 жыл бұрын
@@TinyGhosty ahhh sorry about that, I wasn’t trying to put the blame on her.
@TinyGhosty
@TinyGhosty 2 жыл бұрын
@@lunacy3 That is why I put gentle reminder because I know it is a term everyone is used to. I just want to point it out when I see it and hopefully we can move on to better describers for that kind of trauma. Highly recommend Shanspeare's video on the topic:) I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day!
@aurora8749
@aurora8749 2 жыл бұрын
Gross. I am 31 and I could never date an 18 year old. I would feel like they were a child. They would mentally be not far from a child. I have a child who is only 4 years younger than 18. My niece was 18 when she lived with me and she was definitely mentally still very immature. I had to cool all her meals and clean up after her and teach her about stranger danger because she'd go to meet men she met online so I had to teach her to meet them in a public place or have them meet me first or bring someone with her. She told me she was going to meet someone once to buy a cellphone and I was like, "It is dangerous to meet a man from the internet alone as a small woman, especially if they know you're going to have money because they can just beat you and take your money." And she actually said she never thought of that and changed her mind about going. She also called me mom several times. I sometimes had to remind her to shower and to eat breakfast so she wouldn't get nauseous. When I was 18 I thought I was grown too but looking back I was still a child and any 32 year old man would have infinitely much more power than me if I had a relationship like that at the time. Men (or women, I'm using men because it is much more common for older men to date teenagers) who do this are solely doing this because they are fully aware of the unfair power imbalance and intend to manipulate and likely psychologically abuse them. Super gross. I hate this guy too. I think he's probably part of the dark triad.
@goldensloth7
@goldensloth7 2 жыл бұрын
oh dear, i'm 37 and apparently have the maturity of an 18 year old.
@goldensloth7
@goldensloth7 2 жыл бұрын
who am i kidding, i been knew
@LordOfElysium
@LordOfElysium 7 ай бұрын
I’m going to be 18 soon and I genuinely feel so confused whenever I think about it because I was like 14 the last time I blinked.. I’m so damn lost.
@kotacaelum9428
@kotacaelum9428 2 жыл бұрын
not his kink just being him being abusive online in front of people… and of course they’re from utah… they’re always from utah…
@TurbopropPuppy
@TurbopropPuppy 2 жыл бұрын
as someone who lives in utah, fuck utah awful place, awful culture, awful cult (Mormonism, which i was raised in), awful politics, awful people the public transportation is decent tho
@goobertron9099
@goobertron9099 2 жыл бұрын
Utah’s the worst oml
@rikafurude9102
@rikafurude9102 2 жыл бұрын
we need more utah slander
@kennieskloset5848
@kennieskloset5848 2 жыл бұрын
@@rikafurude9102 i vouch for this
@kaepiper
@kaepiper 2 жыл бұрын
utah sounds so scary i’m so sorry to all the Utahns.. utaheans.. utahsians.. not sure what they go by but 🙏 i pray ur state gets the help it needs
@evggie5808
@evggie5808 2 жыл бұрын
She literally still looks so young.. like her face is still very much of a teenage girl.. cause she is one. How can a 32 year old man want to date someone that is barely an adult… ALSO NINE MONTHS? And they’re already LIVING TOGETHER????
@fleabaggins
@fleabaggins 2 жыл бұрын
It’s most likely because of her young age, she’s still quite naive and easily manipulated, which is what some fucked-up people are into. The majority of his attraction is most likely primarily built on the fact that she doesn’t fully understand kink, and so he can convince her that some of the obvious creepy shit he’s doing is just ‘harmless fun’.
@ptasie.mleczkoo
@ptasie.mleczkoo 2 жыл бұрын
I agree on everything u said but there are some people who really love each other and really have the feeling that they want to marry each other so they move in quite quickly.. my parents moved in after only two months and they are still together..but still I think that in this case it’s really concerning..the whole “relationship” in general
@isis5888
@isis5888 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I hate everything about Gideon. I have little interest in kink but he’s giving it a worse name by simply being a controlling weirdo who preys on newly legal young women. Go to jail! Go to prison again!
@rikafurude9102
@rikafurude9102 2 жыл бұрын
after watching this video i have decided to leave the internet forever and pursue my dream of being a marine scientist, now on a remote island so i never have to see shit like this again. thank you for this sudden inspiration saji.
@blue-dabad33
@blue-dabad33 2 жыл бұрын
let us know if you find that dude who's still stranded in the middle of the ocean and making tiktoks
@shannayaanayak7063
@shannayaanayak7063 2 жыл бұрын
all the best for your peaceful life
@Jadeddoxy
@Jadeddoxy 2 жыл бұрын
You got this
@karamel5644
@karamel5644 2 жыл бұрын
The comments below this supporting you, are kinda funny and wholesome. Anyway have fun!
@beanstalks8
@beanstalks8 2 жыл бұрын
there are many benefits to being a marine biologist
@crypticcrayons3276
@crypticcrayons3276 2 жыл бұрын
Age gaps are such a complicated topic but the moment it's an 18/19 with someone 6+ years older makes me loose my mind because they JUST became adults. Jesus, at least go after someone above the legal drinking age. Also, I love your hair, the colors remind me of sunflowers (and the stuffed animal setup is 10/10) 🌻
@crypticcrayons3276
@crypticcrayons3276 2 жыл бұрын
Not me forgetting the legal drinking age is 18 in some places 🤦‍♂️
@froggy5748
@froggy5748 2 жыл бұрын
It’s also 16 in some places lol
@choco6369
@choco6369 2 жыл бұрын
it's crazy to me bc like, when he was 20, she was literally 6. He was a full grown adult when she was just barely in kindergarten. Like holy hell, not cool.
@kenos911
@kenos911 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god that’s true
@robynsrikandan
@robynsrikandan 2 жыл бұрын
Ok but can we talk about the title being "I share my girlfriend with other people" like ??? she's a person not a bag of m&ms?????
@queencleopatra007
@queencleopatra007 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah he could have said "We have an open relationship" or just say "we're swingers".
@saramarsh502
@saramarsh502 2 жыл бұрын
his girlfriend looks really young too. like 19 (and 18 when they started dating) is bad enough but she could definitely pass for a minor. if I didn't know how old she was I would assume she was still in high school.
@liv_hann
@liv_hann 2 жыл бұрын
i grew up with a big age gap parents and this still makes me so uncomfy (i’ve hated it my whole life). for context: my mom and my half sister are the same age…
@kaepiper
@kaepiper 2 жыл бұрын
i’m so sorry 😭
@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy
@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my god I’m so sorry dude 💀💀💀💀 I really hope your mother wasn’t in her early twenties / a teenager when she met your dad… Also I feel super bad for your half sister, I wouldn’t be able to look at my dad the same way ever again if he started dating someone my age 💀💀
@innovadid9285
@innovadid9285 2 жыл бұрын
See there’s nothing wrong with swinging or other poly types of relationships. Swinging inherently isn’t cheating, what defines cheating is going outside the boundaries of your relationship and if everyone’s boundaries say it’s okay to explore with other people, it wouldn’t be cheating. HOWEVER having been in the kink community and poly for my whole adult life, this is an issue I’ve seen time and time again that happens with guys who don’t like to follow the rules of safe kink spaces which I’m certain he’d be banned from based on the prior video, they will leave the official BDSM community where masters and dom/me’s keep things safe for people who don’t know anything about kink and polyamory and they go to prey on young impressionable people who have barely started to look into kink and don’t understand that this situation, where he’s like mentioning wanting to starve and beat the shit out of his partner with his fists, isn’t kink… Also poly people don’t just become poly to fix their relationship like…. You’re naturally attracted to multiple people and find partners who are also okay with polyamory from the beginning, typically in what I’ve seen at least anytime there’s a relationship where it starts off monogamous with neither party mentioning being poly and someone later on is like “hey I’m poly let’s see other people” the other person is not happy and that’s not actually poly or swinging, the point is to fulfill everyone’s relationship needs and if one person feels uncomfortable and gets pressured into swinging typically people in the community can immediately see it and are like eww…. Leave. That’d be my guess for why they didn’t do any actual couple swapping after talking it all up, if a 33 year old brought his 19 year old gf to their house party if they were genuinely safely practicing kink and swinging they would’ve been like ummm… wait what?
@DollLoverKimball
@DollLoverKimball 2 жыл бұрын
YES!! THANK YOU! This is legit a similar comment I left on the first video. He is not a real Dom or he isn't really into BDSM, he just likes the thought out being able to control women and tell them to do anything he wants and hurt them as much as he wants but puts it under: "kinks/BDSM." It's a fat lie and is the feature that attracts most vanilla men who barely get bitches or have violent tendencies tend to be attracted to. He (most likely)doesn't do after care, nor have a safe word, he most likely doesn't keep playing and normal stuff separate, he just yells at her and just says they're still playing when they're not. He is just a obsessive controlling AND demeaning asshole who uses BDSM as a disguise to lure in real or just unassuming fellow play mates when he's a fake wanting to reap the benefits (most times a submissive girl who wants him sexually) but without doing the real work(doing after care and taking care of the preparations needed before hand while making sure they feel like they're in a safe enough environment to say stop or safe enough that she'll come out not feeling like she got taken advantage of) he's just abusive. Not a dominant, this feels like christian Grey all over again
@innovadid9285
@innovadid9285 2 жыл бұрын
@@DollLoverKimball ahhh yeah the Christian grey reference is great, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s one of those guys that read 50 shades and then used it as a manual without doing any other genuine research.
@AuntBee42
@AuntBee42 Жыл бұрын
This. These people give the lifestyle a horrible name.
@smexyhetalian
@smexyhetalian Жыл бұрын
@@DollLoverKimball thank you for mentioning aftercare. I feel like I only heard of it when I actively started looking into bdsm basics, and it makes it all make so much more sense. It also made it way more obvious why 50sog felt so wrong and gross. There was no talk of aftercare (beside many, many other things I've learnt of later on), and the books/films give bdsm a bad rap when bdsm and kink play are all about feeling safe and cared for.
@DudeWheresMyFish
@DudeWheresMyFish 2 жыл бұрын
Saji: "When [they got together], she was...." Me: "Ugh, I bet she's like 22-23. Maybe even 21." Saji: "...19." Me: *Gets up from desk to stare into the mirror and shed a single tear*
@philin6468
@philin6468 2 жыл бұрын
she was actually 18 which is so much worse for some reason
@serenegenerally
@serenegenerally Жыл бұрын
@@philin6468 me, in the mirror: “SHES 18. SHE’S 18. SHE’S 18-“
@Arosukir6
@Arosukir6 2 жыл бұрын
12:00 They're in Utah? Mormon Country?! That possibly explains a lot. Extremely young partners, many of them, with a focus on the man being absolutely in charge and telling his ladies they're trash and need to be punished and/or saved by him. Yup, checks out.
@peylavv
@peylavv 2 жыл бұрын
this is so so gross i really hope that she realizes what is happening soon and is okay
@sariloua
@sariloua 2 жыл бұрын
great video I just kept thinking the roses on the sheets were period stains
@Justthatguy34
@Justthatguy34 2 жыл бұрын
Are you glad that he posted your comment
@musiclistener4099
@musiclistener4099 2 жыл бұрын
love this movement of exposing the people who think they're smart but everyone actually see's that they're dumb, ur awesome for showing the male/human perspective
@aubanemana8325
@aubanemana8325 2 жыл бұрын
it's so sad that marley doesn't realize how gross this man is :// also i discovered your channel a few days ago and i'm binge watching all of your videos, love your content!!(and your hair looks sick)❤️
@jaqsre
@jaqsre 2 жыл бұрын
if your partner is younger, or almost the same age as your KID… get help (and by help i mean prison) edit: i just realised their age gap is bigger than the age of his son 😀…
@verticallettuce
@verticallettuce 2 жыл бұрын
thats a rly good point.. gideon was older than his son is now when marley was born
@cezzy3641
@cezzy3641 2 жыл бұрын
You should do a deep dive into ‘Love Don’t Judge’ , there’s so many weird relationships that’ve been showcased on it
@liftalotl4266
@liftalotl4266 2 жыл бұрын
my problem w the age gap is that most 18 year olds think that they are adults, and try so hard to be adults, but have no idea what they are actually doing (me included). so, im not sure an 18/19 year old understands the situation fully enough to consent. hello grooming.
@shesthebethest
@shesthebethest 2 жыл бұрын
You're allowed to roast this man bc this isn't a kink.... he's just abusive and gross
@notyourboi4076
@notyourboi4076 2 жыл бұрын
Really hope she gets out of that situation. Age difference is a red flag on its own, but adding swinger as his idea with it😬worry about trafficking at that point. Also concerned for his son, who shouldnt be in kinktoks and maybe not around a father like that. Overall a Yikes
@aj32769
@aj32769 2 жыл бұрын
Did no one see that song TikTok say he wrote it during his 42 month stay in PRISON??????? Is that a joke?
@Saibellus
@Saibellus 2 жыл бұрын
my mans is damn near old enough to be her dad. every time i see a dude like this preying on teenage girls i KNOW it's because women his age are too mature to put up with his edgy "daddy" demeanor.
@ren-sk7yz
@ren-sk7yz 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like an age gap like that that starts so early in adulthood can still be considered grooming especially because of the power dynamic, like 19 & 30 is just as bad to me as 15 & 22, or 15 & 30. It bothers me how people act as though legal adulthood justifies being a gross creep & grooming a new fresh baby adult who doesn’t know the world yet
@frappino4544
@frappino4544 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, no! Not the "I'm older, so I'm righter and cooler than you" argument. I subbed couple days ago, your videos are really great ❤
@adaamanze
@adaamanze 2 жыл бұрын
i’m sorry but that brown pillow you have in the back freaked the hell outta me i thought that some random dude sleeping in ur bed
@cakes6537
@cakes6537 2 жыл бұрын
holy shit it really does look like a dude 💀💀💀
@glowsack2909
@glowsack2909 2 жыл бұрын
can’t unsee it now 🤣
@Bakbok
@Bakbok Жыл бұрын
The fact they live in Utah makes sense to me because swinging is huge here. From what I’ve seen it’s typically married couples in their 30s and 40s. I really don’t think it’s typical for someone that young to be introduced to that lifestyle, especially with a much older partner. Yikes.
@HuckleberryLover
@HuckleberryLover Жыл бұрын
Do you know why swinging is so popular there? Religion?
@Bakbok
@Bakbok Жыл бұрын
@@HuckleberryLover Yeah, sort of. I’ve heard rumors of Mormon couples getting together in secretive settings but I can not confirm. Most couples seem to be exmormons who are wanting to explore their sexuality together due to living such a restrictive lifestyle their whole lives previously.
@brunamota8865
@brunamota8865 2 жыл бұрын
but saji the roses on the sheets DO look like period stains 😭
@Raspbettyjam
@Raspbettyjam 2 жыл бұрын
bruh I literally used to be in the same friend circle as a couple that was 23 & 42. I know they’d been together for 3 years so I think they met she was either 19 or 20. It was so gross, and toxic in my opinion. They were literally trying to have a threesome with any female they were friends with. I stopped hanging out with them a few months ago and apparently they are married now 🤮
@ieatlotion1232
@ieatlotion1232 2 жыл бұрын
so glad your videos are finally getting the recognition they deserve!! your videos always make my day better. thanks saji ❤️
@anna_3035
@anna_3035 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it’s really cool to see this channel grow :) Hopefully it will keep on doing so, because the videos are always very entertaining 👍🏻
@hylvic6707
@hylvic6707 2 жыл бұрын
Marley is the same age as me. It's so weird to think that like... I could be in this situation. Any of my friends could be. I'd like to say I know better, but groomers are sly. Maybe Marley knew better at one point, too. It's just so predatory and gross to think about.
@stvrkxyla
@stvrkxyla 2 жыл бұрын
Saji I'm almost done watching all of the videos on your channel even though i subbed to you a few days ago! And you're already about to reach 40k! I'll be here for the rest of your journey man. I absolutely love your content and you're super cool and funny (also i love your hair)
@kennieskloset5848
@kennieskloset5848 2 жыл бұрын
saji hair appreciation 🎉
@c1nnamodoll
@c1nnamodoll 2 жыл бұрын
"he knwos more about his sexuality than i know about my own" eueurrggg.. weird ! almost like youre a child and hes a fully grown adult😭
@jackiedaytona2200
@jackiedaytona2200 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, I'm already almost at the end of the video but I'm still mentally stuck back at that part where he said he DID FOUR YEARS IN STATE PEN?!?!?!?!?! PARDON? EXCUSE ME?!?!
@princessofhell4639
@princessofhell4639 2 жыл бұрын
I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE WHO NOTICED THIS
@jackiedaytona2200
@jackiedaytona2200 2 жыл бұрын
@@princessofhell4639 RIIIIGGGHHHTTT???? What the actual fuck was THAT?!?! 👀
@princessofhell4639
@princessofhell4639 2 жыл бұрын
@@jackiedaytona2200 WHO KNOWS, WHY DIDN'T SAJI PICK UP ON IT EITHER
@trash_bender420
@trash_bender420 2 жыл бұрын
This was some fine entertainment my good chap
@blue-dabad33
@blue-dabad33 2 жыл бұрын
their tiktoks made me physically cringe like why would you share that on purpose??? and the age gap, my heart dropped 😭 love the vid Saji but just a heads up the audio from the clips you used was a little quiet
@suhanavirdee
@suhanavirdee 2 жыл бұрын
Unrelated to the cringe but you calling your grandparents Nani and Nana warms my heart 💗
@taylor9240
@taylor9240 2 жыл бұрын
Even if he’s going to admit that Marley is close in age to his son, it’s weird that he says it while sitting next to his son
@honeyberryblue7073
@honeyberryblue7073 2 жыл бұрын
holy shit this guy is a walking red flag💀
@camik2167
@camik2167 2 жыл бұрын
When she started singing that was it
@stars_for_riri
@stars_for_riri 2 жыл бұрын
Saji your hair looks like ramen with a really dark broth and it makes me incredibly happy
@ananyaneralla5382
@ananyaneralla5382 2 жыл бұрын
After listening to the music, I think he should do another 42 months in the Utah prison. Maybe to refurbish the song a few more times. Maybe scrub the whole thing off. Also, I wanna how Dolores would feel when her grandson barely turns 18 and gets into a relationship with a 32 year old person? I am not too keen on knowing actually. She might think that would be incredibly manly or something. I feel bad for the kid.
@fleabaggins
@fleabaggins 2 жыл бұрын
*42 years
@crustaceanking3904
@crustaceanking3904 2 жыл бұрын
Kept on thinking the roses on the quilt were blood stains
@YellowLemonRedApple
@YellowLemonRedApple 2 жыл бұрын
describing a relationship as "explosive" 🚩🚩🚩🚩 oh we found some more
@kyyy48
@kyyy48 2 жыл бұрын
If I did the math right She was 12 when his son was “made” 😬😬
@mmalove98
@mmalove98 2 жыл бұрын
Even worse, she was 6 when he was conceived and 7 when he was born 💀
@atttwaa7849
@atttwaa7849 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, im from russia and you're helping me learn english. Thx for the content!
@500sensationalsalads5
@500sensationalsalads5 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@bebebagittarius5076
@bebebagittarius5076 2 жыл бұрын
It’s the Juliette bit that has me screaming
@innovadid9285
@innovadid9285 2 жыл бұрын
Dude I just realized the age gap with his son and his gf fr that’s the age gap with me and my youngest brother. Also I can’t even date someone 19 and I’m in my early twenties. And I have so many friends with siblings 7-9 years apart and it’s just like bro how can you date someone with that age gap with your SON like wtf she could be his sister!? My best friend growing up had her dad date a 20 year old when he was 36 and she and her sister were both like incredibly uncomfortable and constantly bitched at her about how she was a child and they didn’t need to listen to her (which was fair imo) and they were 13 and 14 so like… I can’t imagine he’d feel comfortable having someone in like a parental type position being that age difference that poor kid man.
@inrainbows7190
@inrainbows7190 2 жыл бұрын
hold on what the fuck is kinktok aren’t like a good amount of people on tiktok 12-19
@oulafursson
@oulafursson 2 жыл бұрын
yup, sometimes even less
@kotacaelum9428
@kotacaelum9428 2 жыл бұрын
i’ve seen 7 y/o’s on tiktok….
@TurbopropPuppy
@TurbopropPuppy 2 жыл бұрын
it's bc tiktok has like zero fuckin moderation lol nightmare platform
@goobertron9099
@goobertron9099 2 жыл бұрын
..yyeeeeeppp….😬😬😬
@oulafursson
@oulafursson 2 жыл бұрын
@@TurbopropPuppy not only that but no restriction mode for the content? like you know on reddit you have posts that are 18+ and you can, like, disable them showing to you lol. But on tictoc none of the age restriction at all
@amoraacho6181
@amoraacho6181 2 жыл бұрын
The age gap then bothers me a lot. I’m 23 but a lot of people say I look and sound 17-19. When out and about at least 1 older 40 or 50+ dude comes up to me trying to talk to me and when l tell them I’m not interested they always hit with the “l just wanna be friends with you”. No you don’t, if you wanted to be friends you would find someone your own age. One time I was at work and this man stopped me to talk to me and I thought he needed help with something but it just said that o worked really hard which I thought was nice until he said I could quit my job and let him be my sugardaddy. I straight up just walked away
@Gremvalle
@Gremvalle 2 жыл бұрын
That ain’t no couple. Man is just babysitting a 19 year old
@SaintxGlobal
@SaintxGlobal 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 18 just got out of a relationship w a 33yo man..girl run
@israeljohnson5336
@israeljohnson5336 2 жыл бұрын
Saji's at his grandparent's house, and decides the video he records should be revisiting kinktok. Wow
@fourin5690
@fourin5690 2 жыл бұрын
SAJIIIII FINALLYYY
@baums8053
@baums8053 2 жыл бұрын
my grandma got engaged to my grandpa when she was 18 and he was 34- and he was her german teacher...
@lemqnshark
@lemqnshark 2 жыл бұрын
WHAT
@kaepiper
@kaepiper 2 жыл бұрын
aw hell naw
@sourstrawberryshortcake
@sourstrawberryshortcake Жыл бұрын
I literally went to school with this girl.. i had a math class with her. I hope she’s doing okay now :(
@dillybrown
@dillybrown 2 жыл бұрын
it's nasty af but honestly, most people don't have an issue with 10+ year age gaps if the relationship seems A-okay to their families and nothing insanely creepy is occurring, but in this case, one look at his tiktoks and any family member could see that he is using her for his kink, which is gross obvs.
@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy
@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but even disregarding the wierd public “kink” stuff, 10+ year age gaps are pretty much only okay when both people in the relationship are older than their mid twenties at the very minimum. If one of the people in the relationship is in their early twenties, and ESPECIALLY if one of the people is LITERALLY A TEENAGER like Marley was, there is inevitably going to be a very obvious and creepy power imbalance. If you are in you thirties and actively want to date someone THAT much younger than you, it’s pretty clear you want someone who you can easily manipulate in a relationship.
@angfilm8790
@angfilm8790 2 жыл бұрын
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY…I have now realized that I need that “cool cats & kittens” shirt
@haley551
@haley551 2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know what he went to prison for? With the hints of DV and grooming, that feels important to address
@irock123ab
@irock123ab 2 жыл бұрын
Love that youre doing kink in grandmas house
@jongkittae
@jongkittae 2 жыл бұрын
dude I just turned 28 and I would feel INSANE if I even THOUGHT about dating an 18yo what the fucK
@ny6460
@ny6460 2 жыл бұрын
I thought the pillow behind him was a man at first😂
@500sensationalsalads5
@500sensationalsalads5 2 жыл бұрын
I see it lol. It looks like the "man" is either sleeping or pouting
@siriloveyou2653
@siriloveyou2653 2 жыл бұрын
8:28 It can't be compared to cheating because cheating is done only without the consent of your partner!
@kassygoshen1190
@kassygoshen1190 2 жыл бұрын
I have that same cool cats and kittens shirt! So glad that you're the type of dude that would also own that shirt!😻🤗
@chimchim7014
@chimchim7014 2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does the red pillow in the back look like a human head 🤨??
@valentine.enthusiast
@valentine.enthusiast 2 жыл бұрын
IT DOES
@curlyfries8308
@curlyfries8308 Жыл бұрын
age gaps of 14 arent that weird if the two people are grown adults and not barely legal?? like a 34 year old with a 48 year old, its still a age gap, but theyre both legal adults. like a 19 year old and a 33 year old is WEIRD AS HELL.
@the_fruitsalad985
@the_fruitsalad985 2 жыл бұрын
I love your shirt Saji!
@iluvme555
@iluvme555 2 жыл бұрын
that bit at the beginning was actually really funny and i enjoyed the vid!! :)
@jinkouyuki8027
@jinkouyuki8027 2 жыл бұрын
i hate the age gap... so much..... my parents have an 11 year gap, but the difference is that MY MOM WAS 35 AND NOT 18 AHHHHHH this guy is gross... i hope Marley will see the light and get outta there :(
@stormfischerr
@stormfischerr 2 жыл бұрын
genuinely thought from the intro that you were british and i imagined that you weren’t. gaslit MYSELF damn
@princessofhell4639
@princessofhell4639 2 жыл бұрын
I really think describing swinging as cheating but it's OK is sorta disrespectful like poly relationships are not cheating at all as long as everyone involved is aware and agrees and everything Edit: Poly is easiest described like this, in the same way you can love multiple friends and have multiple close friends some people can romantically love and be with multiple people. That's how my friend who is poly explained it to me.
@bombasticnoa
@bombasticnoa 2 жыл бұрын
yea thats def groomin
@BrandiG31
@BrandiG31 2 жыл бұрын
You filming this at your grandparents house is peak comedy
@garfeilt
@garfeilt 2 жыл бұрын
i cannot express how jealous i am of your shirt
@HuckleberryLover
@HuckleberryLover Жыл бұрын
I have that shirt! I love it!
@honeyberryblue7073
@honeyberryblue7073 2 жыл бұрын
as someone in a technically open relationship this is, so not it
@brushketo
@brushketo 2 жыл бұрын
Looks like a fella I knew in HS who said he was all into Blood play and knew another pal or acquaintance who said Meat hooks was his Poison. . . That truly want me to bleach my eye sockets and soul
@pikes_panic
@pikes_panic 2 жыл бұрын
You said everything I was thinking; nice video👍
@wondervol7351
@wondervol7351 2 жыл бұрын
I was 17, he was 24. The only other Gideon I've ever known 🤢 thankfully I didn't date him for long, he was gross. Told people, including my own brother, that we had a threesome with my best friend. I absolutely did not. Barf.
@lev2074
@lev2074 Жыл бұрын
Just as a 21 year old, the thought of dating a 19 year old is too much of a gap like I don’t understand these creeps
@somethingstupid1075
@somethingstupid1075 2 жыл бұрын
I just really hope that his son and his girlfriend end up ok
@alynsak
@alynsak 2 жыл бұрын
If a 32 yr old man tried to even speak to my 18 year old daughter, I don’t want to see the kind of person I would become. How in the hell does his mom even not rip him apart for grooming a young girl?? I was young an naive once and I was older than her when I started dating. I know what it’s like to feel like you’re inexperienced and you will accept men’s attention to feel loved. I’m assuming she doesn’t have a good relationship with her dad, because that’s usually a reason why someone as young as her would let him get ahold of her. You know he’s using her age as a way to entice other couples for their swinging activities which really makes me sick. This whole video just makes me angry. I appreciate you calling him out again for what a disgusting person he is. This kind of behavior should never be normalized and it’s not a “love doesn’t judge” thing. It’s just wrong for so many reasons. I guarantee that some day probably soon she will decide to leave and I hope he won’t try to stop her. I’m afraid she’s not safe with him though as evidence by his fake dom persona online. He definitely thinks he knows what he’s doing.
@izabellahubbard6114
@izabellahubbard6114 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if he pays Marly to be his internet girlfriend just for content bc they’re wild
@soggyleftoverfrenchfries
@soggyleftoverfrenchfries 2 жыл бұрын
It isn't exactly the same but I get similar vibes as that dude in the canceled show 'adults adopting adults'
@AlwaysAmTired
@AlwaysAmTired 2 жыл бұрын
My cat is going crazy over these bird sounds lol
@auntiem0thman
@auntiem0thman 2 жыл бұрын
This is so weird to me. I'm 32 and my oldest stepdaughter is 19 (her dad is 44 and we met when I was 30). I would never think of being with anyone that age, to me personally it still feels like a kid! 🤮
@kittenfarms
@kittenfarms 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who was once a very naive 18 year old- He will probably leave her the DAY she turns 19 😭😭
@evane179
@evane179 Жыл бұрын
These people are weird, but it isn't fair to call all people with multiple aware and consenting sexual partners "cheaters." Not every person like that is manipulative and unethical, and it isn't cheating if there's consent. People in open relationships and/or polyamorous relationships can still cheat if they betray the trustand set boundaries in a relationship. I don't operate anything like the people in this video, but I am polyamorous (that's different from being a swinger or in open relationships) and the joining of couples into polyamorous groups isn't all that uncommon. It's nothing like cheating.
@syd5220
@syd5220 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! I’m a new subscriber and I just wanted you to know you’re so cool n funny :)
@merryberry1113
@merryberry1113 2 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say that the bean-shaped pillow behind him kinda looks like a face.
@meimei51793
@meimei51793 2 жыл бұрын
The song around 6:40 sounds like metro station shake it era
@Emo_Catgirl0
@Emo_Catgirl0 2 жыл бұрын
The age gap is horrifying with the grooming and manipulation. With polyamory though respect and understanding and the most important UPMOST CONSENT is important to maintaining a healthy polyam relationship with your partner or partners
@victoriaskully7709
@victoriaskully7709 2 жыл бұрын
Good video saji
@chae-wolfbun
@chae-wolfbun 2 жыл бұрын
A part of me wonders if Gideon was also groomed? He had his kid at 20 which isn't super young but it's around his partner's age... doesn't validate it tho :/
@zev_zevvy
@zev_zevvy 2 жыл бұрын
saji man where can i get your shirt i NEED it
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