I love this message especially the save some money part. I strongly believe in financial independence.
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely sister! ♥️
@samshah76283 жыл бұрын
Your OWN money. Not your husbands, not your other family members but your own. Yes
@gemgem54013 жыл бұрын
true and its not only about getting divorced.If husband dies and the woman will be widow with the kids.If she has enough income,that would be a huge relief.
@wartanabadanooh71573 жыл бұрын
I'm not married but this information will one day proof useful Insha'Allah, May Allah reward your efforts ameen
@khadijahassan71303 жыл бұрын
Me too Insha'Allah ✋
@adamh17513 жыл бұрын
not only this but you have to learn alot before you go to that journey!
@khadijahassan71303 жыл бұрын
@@adamh1751 learning and being in the marriage can be different because you can also a lot in the marriage too but you can implement what you've already know
@adamh17513 жыл бұрын
@@khadijahassan7130 what i am tring to say is that we learn first about this marriage thing then we go to it. And put trust to Allah
@khadijahassan71303 жыл бұрын
@@adamh1751 💯 and also we have to learn ourselves before marriage and not expect your other half will help you change which is a nuisance. Change can only come from the individual but their positive influence can have an effect on your life. May Allah grant us all with righteous spouse 🤲
@lizz7413 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sis...I dare say this advice is for all women, regardless of faith and status...
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Indeed it can be but also most relevant to us and believing women due to the commandments of Allah that we strive to follow. Jazaka'Allahu khairan for watching sis
@tayyibahibrahim78803 жыл бұрын
aaahhhhhh thats such a nice profile picture i had a cat too but it died of cancer give your cat the best you can provide for it
@rasheedaibrahim22608 ай бұрын
Jazakallakhair. Alhamdulillah food for thought
@drmaryamazam6663 жыл бұрын
Before sleeping recite surah Mulk last two Ayat of surah baqrah surah nas falaq ikhlas 3 3 times Ayatulkursi 1 time dua of sleeping darood Sharif and Astagfarhe 10 times surah fatiha and 3 kalima 4 times May Allah protect us from Evil humans and jinn and Evil Eye Ameen
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
Jazarkhallah khair
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
Aminnn
@drmaryamazam6663 жыл бұрын
@@ifrahjama2215 waiyakkum ❤
@cobainbride3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a muslimah but I really value and appreciate a lot of what you say and I love hearing you sharing your deen 🙏❤️
@nj.o3 жыл бұрын
the vast knowledge you hold and how you communicate your knowledge is impeccable sister, subhanAllah! so glad you have made use of this platform.. may Allah reward you abundantly and always keep your intentions pure! Ameen!
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Aww, ameen. You are too kind. May Allah continue to bless you in all of your affairs too, ameen.
@aishahwilliamsmobley3 жыл бұрын
Aamin ya Rabb
@nch68073 жыл бұрын
Sister Nafisa, I discovered your channel a month ago and I have almost watched all your videos. MashaAllah, (like others sister said) your are like the older sister that never had, would be a blessing to have you as a friend. Thanks for use this platform to spread what Islam commands to us in those difficult times with so much fitna. Thanks for not being one more of those empty "youtubers" that just talk about useless things. May Allah reward you and protect you. Ameen.
@aishahwilliamsmobley3 жыл бұрын
Aamin ya Rabb
@pharoan3 жыл бұрын
You’re doing GOOD, sister. Our woman need this and many versions of it. Otherwise, Shaitan will pull our sisters away from Allah and into his path.Thank you for trying to help encourage Healthy Muslim Family Growth.
@Salma30b3 жыл бұрын
Our men are in need of advice as much as women do if not more brother. Otherwise, shaitan will our brothers away from Allah.
@pharoan3 жыл бұрын
@@Salma30b I agree with you! I might not be the most knowledgeable about everything a man needs to know before they create a Muslim family but I’ve considered making my own channel about it. I honestly watch this channel for inspiration to potentially do that.
@user-pg7zb6lr3o3 жыл бұрын
BarakAllahu feeki for this video ♥️ These are not the easiest topics to talk about, but I really like how professionally you did it. I liked the tip to wear nice clothes around the house. That really does make a difference. I still take care that my aura in terms of upper body up to the knees are covered (as it is prescribed for us), but it really helped me "to put the abayas aside" haha 👏🏼♥️
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah sister. So proud to hear that. May Allah continue to bless you in your marriage. Keep it up. 😉💕
@kahuzibiega61203 жыл бұрын
I am a married woman in my late 40’s with big grown up children at home (3) the eldest working and looking for a wife. I don’t wear abaya inside home, but I wear jogging bottoms and t-shirt both has to be loose, nice colourful African dress always loose, nowadays you ça have oversized jeans shirts etc….. I always mindful of people around me, as I am the wife, mother and the only woman in my house so always careful of what I am wearing as Muslim woman. My face and hair has to be clean. My husband can look at women with tight clothes but he will NEVER find someone like me.
@aishahwilliamsmobley3 жыл бұрын
@@NafisasPearlz Aamin ya Rabb :)
@donotdisturb65973 жыл бұрын
Not married. Not even close to marriage. But when she started talking abt the abaya I felt called out 🌝 I wear them bc I’m too lazy to keep changing for salah so I jus wear until the last prayer and then take it off but yes it’s a bad habit 😂😂
@donotdisturb65973 жыл бұрын
Also guys, I don’t recommend shein I heard that they use ughyur muslims and child labor.
@khanapakanarecipes3 жыл бұрын
@@donotdisturb6597 what is shein and ughyur muslims ?
@MaryB183 жыл бұрын
Dont expose us😂 ...but she is right tbh even we unmarried girls r like that and the only reason i do it bevause am too lazy to change for salah...!
@MaryB183 жыл бұрын
@@khanapakanarecipes shein is a clothing brand, ughyur muslims are a community of muslims in china who are being t@rtured and killed for being muslims and converting them through torture camps
@donotdisturb65973 жыл бұрын
@@khanapakanarecipes shein is a clothing brand. Ughyur muslims are Muslims in China who are in camps where they abuse them and make them denounce their religion!
@Mindful-Her2 жыл бұрын
Your advice about saving money and not gossiping about your husband and divorce is worth Gold! May Allah bless you! 🥇
@jaoujamaiga94553 жыл бұрын
Thank you sister for those wonderful advice, you are like the grande sister I'v never had. May Allah bless you and give you the husband you deserve🥰
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
You are most welcome my dear, ameen to your dua and may Allah grant you the same, ameen
@Sabiha-303 жыл бұрын
I always found Nafisa’s videos super good and when you mentioned the first point which gets neglected and that is exercise, well that was bang on! Brilliant advice as per usual! 🤩🤩
@kikib54763 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree with taking care of yourself but some husbands need to be giving allowances every month so she can keep in top shape and watch the kids etc..: some men want all this and more but they don’t come with the funds or are stingy.
@normalahabib91203 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@adelicioushome55313 жыл бұрын
I wish i could give this 10 thumbs up…JazakAllah khair sister Nafisa I really needed to hear this. I just delivered my second baby a few months ago and I really need to these things inshaAllah.
@user-uj6dc7kg3o3 жыл бұрын
it is always amazing to listen to you sis- always providing us with things to ponder on, may Allah swt reward you and guide you to what is good 💕
@aishahwilliamsmobley3 жыл бұрын
Aamin ya Rabb
@aaminahzehra75263 жыл бұрын
Iam not maried but this is helpfull thank u sister may allah pless u❤ love from somalia🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴💟
@Itsurgirl973 жыл бұрын
Sister, i really love your videos, I’ve been watching it since i was in college like 3,4 years ago regarding on how to be a good muslimah and now im 24 and watching your videos about marriage, in case if i get married in 2-4 years 😆 may Allah bless you sister for sharing us useful tips 💖
@t-renallux31253 жыл бұрын
Salam. So why are you not married? if you don't mind me asking.
@aishahwilliamsmobley3 жыл бұрын
Aamin ya Rabb
@Base.2 жыл бұрын
Wow jazakallahu khayran, sis. I love all of these tips. Definitely will try, inshaAllah.
@TheNiqabiDiaries3 жыл бұрын
Definitely agree with these points
@6015c3 жыл бұрын
Sister Nafisa is such a blessing. Feels like an elder sister is advising out of genuine care. 😭 May Allah bless and protect her.
@imamuslim3753 жыл бұрын
You are so right about badmouthing your spouse, it brings nothing but worst scenarios
@aminatasarr88263 жыл бұрын
Salam sister. This video need to be share all over the world and go VIRAL. The content is so true. On top of the Abaya some of us wear "SCARF" at home because our hair look bad. Thanks sister Nafisa 💖
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Walaikumsalam sister. Thank you for your kind words. The more shares and likes the video gets the more KZbin will recommend it to more people. Regarding the scarf, you are spot on! Even when the hair is not dirty, it can become a habit. Letting our hair breath is a must but keeping it clean is even more important. Thank you for sharing.
@rachelbanks7783 жыл бұрын
I have been watching your channel for a year, you're amazing may Allah reward you Ameen your heart is beautiful 😍 ❤
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Jazaka'Allahu khairan my dear. May Allah continue to bless you too in all of your affairs. I appreciate your support ♥️
@ndeyhaddyjoof93992 жыл бұрын
Maa sha Allah. I really learn a lot from your lectures and they’ve been very helpful.May Allah increase you in knowledge
@seriouslydontcare39803 жыл бұрын
I pray Allah grants you an amazing husband because you are going to be an incredible wife and mother ❤️🕋📿
@aishahwilliamsmobley3 жыл бұрын
Aamin ya Rabb
@tankodestranger3 жыл бұрын
Don't judge a book by it cover my friend.
@faeshanoor41293 жыл бұрын
Aaaamin if ts khayr for her for her deen ,dunia and akhera may Allah bless her abundantly amin
@hafsatyahaya55913 жыл бұрын
Jazakhumullahu khairan sis...you've dropped words of wisdom in this video
@Zeinebzee3 жыл бұрын
Allahumma barek golden advices ! Thank you sis❤️
@lanaemumin90403 жыл бұрын
Jazallahu khair dear sister for this video. I absolutely love your videos! As a revert, your channel has been so helpful for me! It’s essential to have other muslimahs that follow the deen and do not compromise for this duyna.
@ClandestineGirl16X3 жыл бұрын
I needed this today. Thank you ❤
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
@laylabalcazarouchelhlm30973 жыл бұрын
I needed it too! Subhana Allah!
@lailaa3413 жыл бұрын
Salam Sis you said it all! Thank you so much 🌸
@sonjabeasley4everlearning3 жыл бұрын
U r absolutely right about exercising. I started back and I feel so much better.
@principessailaria3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this lifechanging video,jazakiallahu khayran sis,very much appreciated barakallahu fiki
@uzmaahmed.catmoon3 жыл бұрын
Jazaakallah khair sister. I agree with all of this.
@cookiejam38123 жыл бұрын
Very good advice in this video sister Nafisa, Jizakallah.
@ladymallowyt3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I'm so glad I watched this video and found your channel. My step mum knows I'm going through some difficulties with my mental health and she said I should get some counselling bc I will not speak to anyone. The problem I have with counselling is that non-muslim counsellors will not understand what I'm going through. I had counselling sessions once a week all through secondary school, it helped to have someone to talk to but she (black Christian lady) did not understand the struggles I was going through. You have a new subscriber
@OhhYouu..MICHELLE3 жыл бұрын
Thanks sister!🤍
@None-YaBusiness3 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah, Jazak Allah khair for another beautiful reminder ..you are so right ,100% fact, may Allah continue to guide us with knowledge Ameen 🧡🧡🧡🧡💫👋🏽💎🦋
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Ameen 🤲🏾💕
@mumminam13 жыл бұрын
Such a good video to remind us ladies. Thank you
@sim_10173 жыл бұрын
Great great video Nafisa. Keep going!! Ma sha allah
@aissatasy30903 жыл бұрын
Pretty good pieces of advice as usual, thanks sister.
@The-Zaynab3 жыл бұрын
Maa sha Allah do you know your videos just come according to my thoughts?😃😃 and I was thinking about this today You're such a blessing 💕❤️
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Lol sis. They say "great minds think alike" 😁. Stay blessed 💕
@ummishaq78023 жыл бұрын
Ma shaa Allah wonderful reminders! I really appreciate the recognition you gave us in the beginning of the video balanced with the kind encouragement and reminders. Jazak’Allah khair 🌸 Going to buy more attractive house clothes now 😅
@MadinaAhmed903 жыл бұрын
جزاك اللهُ خيرًا dear Nafisa. A well needed videos for our beloved married sisters. May ALLAH عز و جل protect us all and guide us. ♥️♥️♥️ let me grab a cup of tea and enjoy this beautiful video.
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Waiyakum my dear and ameen to your duas. Enjoy 💕🧕🏾
@ramtransportllc68183 жыл бұрын
Asa, sister. your brother here. May Allah reward you for your great advice.
@humeeayisha31993 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed for my future me
@simplysafiyyah3 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes. Everything mentioned is 💯
@cookwithbasigi27083 жыл бұрын
Wearing something nice and sexy is mostly difficult in Our African homes cos we mostly live in the same house with our husband’s grown up nephews etc. May Allahu Ta’allah guide us all
@farhiyaa48803 жыл бұрын
The nephew and uncles need to live elsewhere. There needs to be house seperate from inlaws. Prophet said your brother in law is like death...same with husbands male relatives. Only 1 Queen in the kitchen- mother in law can visit but not live with couple.
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
Aminnn
@hudycat3 жыл бұрын
Ameen. You’re right, but if possible, it’s best that a husband and wife have their own separate living space/house. Even many Islamic scholars like Mufti Menk and Mufti Tariq Masood recommend it.
@Ajsbdbxh3 жыл бұрын
@@hudycat yoo you watch Tariq masood men i like that guy but i also disagree with him alot of stuff
@tasnimnaser17043 жыл бұрын
Struggling to get married. Please keep me in your prayers sisters.Sometimes I become so hopeless😟
@shireensaira23953 жыл бұрын
Much needed reminder. Jazakallah khairan sis❤️❤️
@Асия-и5в3 жыл бұрын
You are light ... mashallah.
@zahiraameen63713 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah khair sis really beautiful advice
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
Jazarkhallah khair sister
@yellow7bubblez3 жыл бұрын
Love this mashaallah
@mohammadfahim28383 жыл бұрын
Good job sister thank you
@khanapakanarecipes3 жыл бұрын
Sis What advice do you have for girls who want to get married. I turn 36 and feel depressed like there is no way around. I am building my career now as I realize financial abuse is common in marriages.
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Pray (ask Allah to give you) Get activily seeking by utilising the means you have (family, friends, be active in the Muslim community, marriage apps etc) Work on yourself ( therapy, personal development & increase your imaan) Trust Allah- for everything there is an appointed time. Ruqaiyya- Just incase
@tinimini19043 жыл бұрын
same here.
@samshah76283 жыл бұрын
@@JahannamHellfire Khadijah was a widow before she married Prophet Muhammad.
@khanapakanarecipes3 жыл бұрын
@@NafisasPearlz I don't have friends and no one in family who will do this for me. And Marriage apps I tried mostly guys are time wasters or want pre understanding before bringing matter among families. JAZAK ALLAH KHAYRAN KASEERAN...
@yu-a95963 жыл бұрын
@@JahannamHellfire There's actual no textual evidences to proof khadijas age was 40
@hulayjallow49933 жыл бұрын
Thanks sis, very interesting video
@ruqaiyahkhan81453 жыл бұрын
The video was sooo beneficial! Thank you for making this video!
@chocochips60783 жыл бұрын
Liked before I watched, already know it's going to be a gem 💎
@3rabian7ayatis303 жыл бұрын
Mashallah tabarakallah, very beneficial. Thank you sister. Allah barik
@aminatakamara6783 жыл бұрын
Thanks a bunch my sister
@liai23753 жыл бұрын
Some solid advice here 👍🏾
@lifepeace82 жыл бұрын
this talk really help please make more thanks 🥰
@ItsHusna5283 жыл бұрын
Salam alikum warahmaturullah wabarakatuh ukhty. Thank you so much for this vid 💯🙏🏾 I felt attacked 😂😂 with the abayas around the house 🏠 but yeah 😩 I need to change it
@hannabasel81523 жыл бұрын
Salam, Can u talk abort low self esteem, I have been bullied because of my looks almost my whole life, I have hard time loving my self. I keep hiding my self when I go outside because im scared people will look down on me or make fun of my looks I don’t know what to do im trying to accept how I look like because Allah gave it to me for a reason but im I’m so much pain and I can’t forget all those bad word people told me it’s effects my life I’m so isolated in my room most of the time
@jenna2455-v1f2 жыл бұрын
Try to change what you can change. Exercise, bring yourself in shape; wear nice clothes and make up at home and do your hair. Beautify yourself for yourself and self esteem can grow gradually. Try things out, wear nice clothes outside too. All these things can help you. Consider counseling too and make a lot of Dua for healing and that Allah bless you with loving yourself.
@fatimaali67993 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah keep going my sister may Allah bless you
@musahmariamdeishini62683 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@noor75483 жыл бұрын
And barakallahu feeki for this video❣️ it covers up so much truth
@Mindful-Her2 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah my dear sister
@thedrasc1465 Жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah. The menstrual cycle rule makes so much sense. If a woman is under a lot of stress, she could potentially end up with an irregular cycle. This will give her more time to recover mentally and not have to deal with a financial burden at that time. SubhanAllah, Allah swt is so merciful ❤
@ladysafk78103 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah 🙏 thanks sister ❤️
@SamaraTrollero3 жыл бұрын
I wear shorts around the house and a tight shirt. I'll change into a nice dress sometimes but it kinda suffocates me lol. I can only wear it in the winter (btw, living in KSA). Maintain my weight during pregnancy, idk about this new pregnancy, but make duaa for me and only birth related exercise 😅
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
Hehe may Allah make it easy for you
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
Mashaa'Allah on your pregnancy 🎊🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@MaryB183 жыл бұрын
Thank you sister,the video was very usefull and i'm gratefull that you reminded even us unmarried girls to take care of these things before hand,secondly in islam marrying more than 1 wife is an optional thing and it differes from person to person,for example at the time of Rasoolullah S.A.W there was a qabila which werent into the act of polygamy and would dislike it,prophet PBUH never married women from them because it wasnt likeable to them,it was practiced were it was normal to have more than one wife.Remember, Man has the right to marry if he wants to and meets certain criteria to do so,having said that,a woman(his wife) has the right to either accept his second marriage or leave the marriage as per her wish if she cant stand it,women can even make it a clause in their marriage that he should not marry after them and if he does,they'll leave or so and so and its no sin upon her either....so know ur rights,and choose wisely as per ur circumstances,conditions and ur partner involved..!Jazaakallah!
@Zazezoo8 ай бұрын
Well said SubhanAllah
@asha34043 жыл бұрын
Love this video
@agiroheylowe80333 жыл бұрын
Well said....u are really amazing ❤
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@JaiSaf3 жыл бұрын
Well said sister 🙏🏾
@shaheedalevy80973 жыл бұрын
The problem is, there is no motivation to dress prettily coz one often is never complimented.
@nabihahabibullah15773 жыл бұрын
Do it for yourself so you appreciate Allah's Blessings upon you through taking care of yourself.
@96muslimgirl3 жыл бұрын
talk to him about it.
@LaVictoria_3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for you advice sister, it’s very useful. May Allah reward you. Also about buying on Shein, I wouldn’t advise because most of their products are made by forced labor from the Uyghurs Muslims in China. So if you can try not to buy from those brands that exploits our brothers and sisters in that oppressive regime
@kahuzibiega61203 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 for this beautiful and important advice. A lot of women don’t realise the power of wearing nice underwear . I can tell you , wearing a nice clean underwear gives you confidence and makes you happy. And lift your self esteem as well.
@samshah76283 жыл бұрын
You will also smell clean.
@kahuzibiega61203 жыл бұрын
@sam shah yeees👍🏾
@Zazezoo8 ай бұрын
@@samshah7628nice and clean aren’t the same. I wear clean granny ones. I need to wear attractive ones, nothing to do with hygiene and smell
@CL-jw4ei3 жыл бұрын
Please also a video about the responsibilities of wives and husbands 💗
@ayishatusulleyman72203 жыл бұрын
Love you for the sake of Allah ❤️
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Jazaka'Allahu khairan and may Allah for whose sake you love me, love you.
@nadirakabore69843 жыл бұрын
As Salaamu Alaikum Ukht SubhanaAllah this is so needed Ma Shaa Allah shukran for this everything you said is sooo true May Allah ta’A’la Protect Us All Ameen and give us good in this life and the next Ameen 🤲🏾🤲🏾♥️💕♥️💕
@proudmama.78813 жыл бұрын
I love this sister Jazakallah khayr About the financial independence, my husband doesn’t like when i say I want to work, Alhamdulilah I get everything I need from him without asking me why I need it. But it’s the fact of asking that make me sometimes uncomfortable.
@SS-cu8se3 жыл бұрын
Salam sis do you have any savings? Or do you have a joint bank account with him? I’m the case that he randomly left you and drained the joint bank account, would you have some money to survive? There’s always the possibility of being a single mom/woman so you should always have a plan b if that happens. It’s the reason why people have emergency funds. You just never know when you will need it.
@proudmama.78813 жыл бұрын
@@SS-cu8se no sis I don’t have a joint account or know anything about his financial status, he just gives me whatever I ask for. But now I’m going back to school since my kids are going to school now. And maybe get some part time job in sha Allah.
@SS-cu8se3 жыл бұрын
Proud mama. Salam sis, are you legally married to your husband? If not u should tell your husband to create a will. If God forbid anything happens to him how will you access his money? It's always good to have a will or plans in place for these type of things especially if you solely rely on your husbands income
@proudmama.78813 жыл бұрын
@@SS-cu8se yes we legally married Alhamdulilah
@musasayyaf31013 жыл бұрын
Thanks dear madam teacher
@leilatyabbasi4823 жыл бұрын
"Girls we need to talk"
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
😂 I think I should use that more often to signify the importance of what I'm about to say 😉
@leilatyabbasi4823 жыл бұрын
@@NafisasPearlz Absolutely sister Absolutely
@houseofjamilashairamarie59113 жыл бұрын
Another gem of a video. Jazakallah khairan Sister 😌🌷
@NafisasPearlz3 жыл бұрын
Waiyakum my dear. Thank you for watching
@MysteryWorld553 жыл бұрын
mashallah love your content. i hope i can have as much views as you in the future ya rab
@nadiadansani21393 жыл бұрын
Interesting about the menstrual cycles now that birth control has become common. I wonder how that affects how long he’s supposed to care for you.
@mustaphabamba62233 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah sister jannah awaits you!
@TheLushMom2 жыл бұрын
I always love your video quality. How do you keep it so? Help a sister interested in making videos too.
@purplebear4453 жыл бұрын
Im not married ... im 24 but im really enjoying my single life.
@jama-jay81543 жыл бұрын
Am 40 and myself and my husband have no children. Everyday is a rush out the door, as looking after my elderly mother, and maintaining my marriage, holding down a job where I am being micromanaged with fibromyalgia. I actually stayed round my mums to help make her bedroom tidy, clear the kitchen as she is not coping and for the first time in months put moisturiser on my face, and walahi nearly fell off my chair when I saw how young kylie Minogue looks now,.and she's older than me. Is more hectic now I'm married than when I was when single. It's a wonderful test from Allah to be able to look after my family🧕😬
@jama-jay81543 жыл бұрын
@@Seaweed571 thank you sister 🧕💜
@fatmanassir46143 жыл бұрын
Team Deras/Batis we have been called out! Lounge wear here we come!
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
Hahaha bati is lounge wear 😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ifrahjama22153 жыл бұрын
I need to invest in some hehe
@Zazezoo8 ай бұрын
Hahaha there was this Tanzanian sheikh warning women to stop wearing house Deras for their husbands. That why is is that when meeting up with sisters they drew to impress lol 😅 🥴
@CL-jw4ei3 жыл бұрын
Is there a halal way to have the conversation about sexual needs before marriage? I’ve found that some people have wildly different needs and I could see that becoming a big problem
@annyssanakhla53563 жыл бұрын
I would discuss this with my future spouse in a respectful manner without getting too graphic if I’m 100% sure I’m going to marry him (we have a set nikkah date, etc) The mistake would be to talk about sex with someone you just met or you’re just getting to know
@Diamondraw4Real3 жыл бұрын
A woman can try to find out if he fasts weekly bc she won't be able to keep up with him forever. After the honeymoon period it slows down a little bit but you're looking at 35 years of marriage and responding to him when he wants to have s3x. Some men want more than the woman can reasonably handle which is why polygyny is an option. Talk about work and money b4 marriage too. Will he expect or let you work etc. Will he want to marry again or is he okay with one? Like the sister said, men do go looking for other wives, but women would rather have a husband of their own.
@Diamondraw4Real3 жыл бұрын
@@annyssanakhla5356 i advise against it but let someone in his family give him the book Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. Best wishes
@Diamondraw4Real3 жыл бұрын
If he has hobbies or interests is a plus. If he wants to be home doing nothing every evening after work then maybe he is only going to have one thing on his mind. If you both do fitness or you have a hobby is best. And if you have extended family or friends you will make time for them or entertaining. It's possible that being together too much can get dull after a few years. Also discuss when you want to have children.
@jenileejaramilloCL3 жыл бұрын
of course you have to discuss it, because sometimes both want really different things and have a really different idea about what sex is. Also they have to talk about their sexual problems if they have one or more of course. Because it's not nice to marry someone who had been hiding from you things like infertility (if you want to have children), impotence, traumas or even sexually transmitted diseases. In islam it's never too late you can divorce but it would be better to avoid such a situation :( So talk about it nicely together it's a need
@Асия-и5в3 жыл бұрын
Surah for rizq and against poverty surah Waqia after Magrib dayly
@pcng59903 жыл бұрын
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@sannykingston1719 Жыл бұрын
As selamu alaykum, small addition regarding the story of Khuwaylah bint Tha‘labah: the ruling that the husband should 1) free a slave, if not possible then 2) fast for two consecutive months, if not possible then 3) feed 60 poor people a wasq of dates Was because of a very specific case, which is the case of az-zihar. This was a jahiliyyah practice of divorcing one‘s wife by telling them they are like their mothers back to them. When Khuwaylahs husband told her this statement, she went to the Prophet (saw) to see what is the ruling, so the Prophet received revelation (58:1-4) regarding it. It should not be brought into wrong context that this is a general compensation for when a spouse talks bad to one another (consult tafseer ibn kathir for the full explanation). Nevertheless, I fully agree with the general point made. JazakiLlahu khayr for this very beneficial video my dear sister!
@MiSSkOCALiNA3 жыл бұрын
I’m really guilty of not looking neat at home…
@Missperfect40003 жыл бұрын
How to go about dressing when living with in laws in a small house?
@faeshanoor41293 жыл бұрын
Sister thenu can atleast dress up privately in ur room with ur husband alone in shaa Allah
@hudycat3 жыл бұрын
@@faeshanoor4129 yes that’s good, other than that, for day time look, tweak your style into something that looks elegant and modern, pleasing to your partner, but also at the same time modest looking whenever in laws are around the house. For example, have a look at the KZbin channel With Love, Leena, it’s very inspiring 🥰