6 GUYS MUSLIM GIRLS SHOULD NOT MARRY

[@michellegower1259]

I'm not a Muslim woman but felt led to watch this. You are so right with men. Sadly I was married to a Narcissist man and once I started to not always do what he wanted, he looked for another woman. He left 2 years ago for a woman half my age. I'm 54 and remained single since. My faith is Messianic/Christian but I'm starting to wear head coverings. Be blessed. Find common ground. Peace.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Michelle Torok that's so sad, however, perhaps it was best for him to leave, unfortunately for the next woman but hopefully you'll get through it and be better and stronger than before.

[@michellegower1259]

Nafisa's Pearlz Thank you. You are a good woman of strong faith. A blessing to future husband indeed. I've just enquired about buying a book of Holy Qur'an. For me, christian woman don't keep same values esp in behaviour. So I'm searching. 💖

[@NafisasPearlz]

Thanks Michelle, I would recommend a translated version so that you can get a good general picture of what its all about. Honestly, I think you will find it life changing. You Can purchase one like thiswww.amazon.co.uk/Quran-English-Translation-Modern-English-ebook/dp/B00MOIZXEE/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1519070707&sr=8-2&keywords=quran+english+translation or if you live in the UK, email me and I'll send you a starter Kit with a translation of the Quran and leaflets explaining the most common questions non Muslims have about Islam. Let me know if you're interested.

[@michellegower1259]

Nafisa's Pearlz tried to email you as im in uk but it was returned not sent. Im on facebook. Michelle Torok.

[@NafisasPearlz]

oh, perhaps there was a problem with the server some how. You can try again [e-mail]

[@Omi3101]

I’m a guy but this video is good to know what not to become. Great video Ma Shaa Allah

[@The_Other_Ghost]

You can marry a nonmuslim woman, it's in 4:24. Cheers!

[@movingdisaster]

That's awesome!

[@maxamedmukhtar1381]

@@The_Other_Ghost it's not good for the kids because the parents will have different Faith's and kids will not be practicing and maybe leave Islam Cuz kids love their mother more than the dads and they will side with her, or it could lead to problems

[@The_Other_Ghost]

@@maxamedmukhtar1381 So in the quran it says you can marry the captive woman as long as she's also Muslim?

[@The_Other_Ghost]

@@popcornto6032 You have a whole life time to explore and meet new people. If you don't put yourself out there you can miss a ton of people that could be your type. I'm an atheist, and if I see a person is good (and has brains) I can easily look past religion.

[@Fay3-]

“Sometimes it’s not the love a man has for you that makes him do the right thing, sometimes it’s the fear of Allah in his heart that makes him do the right thing” this is so so important because relationships and marriage is not always just about whether he loves you or not, it comes down to how he treats you which depends on his relationship with Allah

[@fureraisiaka3363]

My dear, you are absolutely right! It takes the fear for Allah to treat people right regardless of the situation.

[@jjacob3872]

So true...100%

[@sairaailia8691]

She's very straight forward and eloquent. Goals!

[@NafisasPearlz]

Saira Ailia jazakallahu Khairan

[@796rh]

@@NafisasPearlz hi sorry im late (like really late😄)

[@jama-jay8154]

My husband is wonderful, finally found my partner for life, pushing 40, but glad I waited to find the right person to marry, and even more blessed and grateful I'm now closer to God, after reverting. My husband is very kind and patient, and so knowledgeable when teaching and guiding me through the Quran. 🧕💜 Alhamdulliah

[@LoveCisse]

Mashallah sister, my Allah grant us single Muslim women a man that has those characteristics

[@heiresslaite2950]

SubhanAllah

[@heiresslaite2950]

@@LoveCisse Ameen

[@haleemabegum22]

Really important quote I came across, ‘do your unborn child a favour and choose your spouse wisely.’ It’s not like a job where you can quit when it comes to marrying a husband, you gotta be realistic and think long term. Sharing values and mindset helping you in this dunya and the hereafter. It’s really really deep stuff! Great video MashaAllah sis, keep it up! X

[@NafisasPearlz]

Haleema Begum very good input, your so right, thanks for watching.

[@munnieh6076]

It's hard to identify a lot in a person unless you really know them - but if you choose someone with the same faith as you, at least you know you're sharing some fundamental values. I'm not married yet, but it feels like there's only so much you can know (that should be enough to give you an idea of the person) then you get married - and figure out the rest. A person's habits is sort of an indicator of their general behaviour right?

[@Zazezoo]

@@munnieh6076of course!!!

[@sisikam4976]

Great video Nafisa! Some extra advice for ma sisters: - Never force yourself to see the good in a man. Your intuition is usually right. - The way you meet your husband says a lot about him (and about you). Meeting him on a night out, on the streets, in the club is NOT a good start. - For the sister that reached an age you think its ‘too old’ to still be unmarried: don’t marry a man with flaws you cant handle because you’re afraid to end up alone. Its deen over dunya, so live a life with Allahs satisfaction alone is better than being married to a guy that has a bad influence on you.

[@LoveCisse]

Thank you sister

[@user-yl2ef1wn9q]

Wise Words.

[@vladislava-do8mr]

Thank you very much, sister❤

[@fatimab5145]

True

[@The1Li]

"Sometimes it's not the love that a man has for you that makes him do the right thing. Sometimes it's the fear of Allah that he has in his heart that makes him do the right thing." Alhamdullilah, this right here is such an eye opener. Thank you for this wisdom!

[@manaljavid9624]

I love your videos. Finally, someone on KZbin who’s passing a positive and a correct image of Muslims.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Manal Javid jazakallahu Khairan

[@حبيبوردي-غ3س]

I am a Muslim man and I am looking for a woman who converted to Islam

[@minyoongi7005]

I always pray this to allah “ allah, grant us the ideal partner in life that you have set for us” in shaa allah we will be with the partner allah has ideally set for us

[@عبدالكريممحمدحسن-د8ت]

Inchaallah i hope that to you as soon

[@jgcvjsdxcbksdk2843]

please always Allah* with capital A

[@siegfriedia9986]

InshaAllah, a religious practicing Muslim will treat his wife like a princess, due to the fact that the Prophet Muhammad saws said: “The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character. And the best of you are those who are best to their women.”(At-Tirmidhi and authenticated by Al-Albani). and he saws said: “The best among you is the best towards his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.” (Ibn Majah and authenticated by Al-Albani). the Prophet saws also said: “And I command you to take care of the women in a good manner “al-Bukhari, Hadith 5186 hence, a religious muslim man will try to treat her wife as kindly as possible. make good dua for me please. JazakAllahu khair

[@NafisasPearlz]

winning &making peace-I Mashallah, so true.

[@siegfriedia9986]

Nafisa's Pearlz indeed. because of this hadith i am inshaAllah motivated to treat my future wife inshaAllah as good as possible.

[@sadabyamungu516]

True

[@humairahkhan8678]

winning &making peace-I ķ

[@jonriseofaesthetics6738]

winning &making peace-I what if u don't need to marry only for her money

[@sabrinasnigdha8371]

Here again, after 3 years, can't believe that time has flown so fast! I'm glad that during these 3 years, I've gotten closer to my Deen (Deen over Duniya) and have committed myself to become a better Muslimah, Alhamdulillah. Allah (SWT) has guided me. Now I'm here again to see your video as I'm finishing my Bachelor's next month (Inshallah) and my family is actively looking for someone for my nikah. I've always remembered your advice sister and just came back to refresh my memory. I'm gonna tell my mom that these are my requirements in a righteous spouse. Mashallah sister, Jazakallah Khairan!

[@LoveCisse]

Mashallah Sister may Allah give you the one that will exceed your expectations 🤲🏾🤲🏾

[@MsZahaa]

Salaam, great video, but would have loved if you added a very important one, Mr Abuser. These men are extremely dangerous to both the women and future children.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Zahaa Yessss, subhallah, he is another entire video by itself.

[@danamahmoud951]

Greetings, sister. I come from a Muslim family. I am no longer in my 20's and have people left and right insisting me and my identical twin sister hurry up and get married. Most of these family members just want a party to attend, some just are in a hurry to see grandchildren be born within our large family circle. I am not given the option to take my time or choose whom I like/want because of my age, and that really puts me off. I would like to highlight some points 1. I am not in a hurry to get married 2. I am a practicing Muslim women, who has very modern point of view 3. I am very independent due to growing up with a restricted lifestyle and brothers+father 4. Being single doesn't make me feel sad, rather, I am content Alhamdulillah If anyone disagrees or feels different, I am sorry, but this is my life and Allah knows my heart better than anyone else. Don't doom girls into marriage or a relationship just because its the necessary as part of your up bringing/culture or personal religious beliefs. May Allah always guide us and protect us from what is bad for us and guide us on a straight path. Ameen

[@hafsamsonga9773]

We are in the same shoe sister

[@SunnyTopia]

Tbh we can marry as long as we are ready to take the responsibilities. Ready our mind, our strength, our emotions, our everything in life, ready for children, ready for sudden fights, and the most important is ready to be the most important role ever in this world, being a mother. Being a mother is hard tho. 😞 good luck girls. Well im not married but we as girls need to think our future tho, what could possibly happen. 🤣😂 Moreover if you are not ready, then dont. Why? You will make people surround you worry and you will likely a burden to them. So its better to be ready tho.

[@sarahh1007]

Preach🙌

[@shareefaabouchami8608]

@@SunnyTopia got married at 19 and had my baby at 20 trust me being a wife to a narcissist husband is the hardest thing, motherhood is beautiful, alittle hard ok but nothing can compare

[@nad888]

I'm exactly in the same situation and the family pressure is unbearable at this point. I have a face time appointment with a man my aunt suggested me and I'm freaking out, I just want to disappear or play the dead and turn off my phone

[@proudmuslim1535]

My sister thought she was marring a practice Muslim but he was number 5 and number 6 and said to herself all men are the same... from engagement day until divorce... for 4 month of Hill it was like 40 years argument, loud voice, throwing everything in the wall when he is angry, no manners at all and he only want his right by the name of religion thinking that he is the best man in the world . My sister is niqabi practice Muslim mashaa Allah and he didn't deserve her 😢. Marry the one who respect you, value you, treat you well and know that you are a beautiful jewel should be protected and loved. I would like everyone to pray for my sister 😭.and thanks nafesa you made it so easy and clear 👍 keep glowing my sweet sister ✨.

[@NafisasPearlz]

علم ينتفع به subhallah, may Allah reward her for all those years of sabr, and replace her situation with a much better one, ameen.

[@revertakh9196]

علم ينتفع به subhanallah

[@mariamadombouo2334]

Number 4,5&6 all in one.

[@zainababdulmajeed9931]

علم ينتفع به May Allah take care of your sisters affairs and make it easy for her Ameen

[@shamakareemsheikh5622]

Don't worry sister, Allah will reward u hereafter,. Have patience.

[@blissfull2655]

She’s giving great advice👍🏼 who would dislike this video........the wastemen are upset sorry mate 👋🏼

[@NafisasPearlz]

Bliss full lol, exactly, man dem don't want to be exposed!😂

[@SHO-vi4uu]

So all non-muslims are waste men

[@sabbyadnan664]

@Ranjit Tyagi we are in right part ancestors doesn't matter to be a Muslim its matter only belief Allah send 1 lakh prophet all accept Islam but after sometime all are disbelieved then Allah send prophets Muhammad may peace be upon be him the his ummah in world

[@zainabshoka4219]

I am already married but this is great video like always sister.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Zainab Shoka jazakallahu Khairan

[@syedhasan3078]

as i muslim men u made me proud and keep up the good work.

[@حبيبوردي-غ3س]

Zainab Shoka

[@verynicelove390]

+حبيب وgردي zanab shoka

[@fathima256]

u have noor on ur face.. mashallah... and a very good video...

[@akaaral-nemri8380]

Samreen Fathima lol just makeup!

[@fathima256]

hmm....its not completely true.. makeup gives attractiveness(pleasing or appealing) to face but faith in allah brings noor(beauty) on face.

[@akaaral-nemri8380]

Samreen Fathima It could be. I was just joking 😁

[@fathima256]

Akaar al-nemri ok... But I am not joking....I advice u to remember my words because this is fact..☺

[@akaaral-nemri8380]

Samreen Fathima But even makeup gives you noor which is beauty on face and make it bright as well. But what I would suppose is that the faith gives the noor on the heart not on the face. What could make people' faces lightning is the money.

[@O.elmass]

May Allah subhanuhu wata'ala grant us a good spouse. Ameen

[@NafisasPearlz]

Ouss Ameen

[@laylaibrahim325]

Ouss Ameen

[@sharifamagezi9937]

Ameen ya Rabbi

[@misbahilyas7033]

Ameen

[@saraxoxo3936]

Ouss ameen😄

[@hafsae.l181]

Oh my beloved sister if u could make a video about how a Muslim men/husband need to be according to our Deen I would really appreciate it. I’ve been searching on KZbin about this topic but funny enough they always talk about women 😂 ( how a muslim wife needs to make her husband happy, what a muslim wife needs to do, Muslim wife this muslim wife that..) What about the Muslim husband?!!!!

[@NafisasPearlz]

hafssa elyoubi Good point, inshallah I'll add that to my list.

[@mynameisrenee5045]

hafssa elyoubi the channel loveAllah328 has some videos on how men should be, this is one of them kzbin.info/www/bejne/rH6tdqV8YpelrKc

[@TheFleurChic]

Mufti Menk, Nouman Ali Khan, Ali Dawah etc they talk about it. Assalam aleykum

[@amnafarooq9173]

I think Muslim man has very less responsibilities that's why ppl never teach us that part n rather keep their focus on women cuz she not only has to look after children in each n every way...but also to please her husband. Man only provide financial service. I haven't seen in my whole family n dawah community as well that what else they do.....except for financial services every other thing is a woman responsibility

[@olaadali932]

@@amnafarooq9173 no need to fabricate sister. I have never heard a shiekh say that a Muslim man doesn't need to make his wife happy. The Muslim man not only has to provide(which is a big deal because some men have to work 12hrs a day) but PROTECT his family and LEAD his family. The wife can work but can't let her work get in the way of her responsibilities in the family. If the man is working 8 or 10 or 12 hours a day, the wife can certainly do her responsibilities during that time frame as well. And when the husband comes home, he can help out if he's not really tired.

[@creativeeye2661]

I was with some guy mr.obsessed + mr. Pressure. We were engaged. But finally i got rid of him. Now im having a good life alhamdulillah.

[@misssizzy842]

Lol, alhamdulillah.

[@Gassama-lh3rc]

Thank you, great advice may Allah make easy for us and our sisters to find great companions in our life.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Kosu 1225 ameen

[@samivanov5862]

Asalamu Alaikom from a brother to a sister. Excellent video that is a product of knowledge, deep reflection and remembrance of Allah. As we are brothers and sisters in Islam, I feel compelled to give the sisters some tips on what to look for, by no means is it a perfect list. 1) Don't go for a man who swears a lot 2) a man that is obsessed with Hip Hop and rap 3) a man who argues in religion when there is a difference of opinion and who will not go to a sheikh so he uses Islam as a whip 4) a man who does not have any teachers of Islam 5) a man who cuts off his family, etc. We are not perfect but, but the more you check off this list the safer it will be for you.

[@Where_the_daffodils_grow]

So so so trueeee. Also narcissism and mysogyny is a massive problem. Mabrook on ' the channel allahumma barik laha x

[@thisthatandthird]

Really need her to make a meet & greet so she can be my bestie.. lol. Love her mashallah she’s amazing! You go girl. Give advice by bettering people & get ajar too mashallah x

[@NafisasPearlz]

Lol, inshallah we will meet one day sis. We're already more than besties, were sisters in Islam, nothing is more valuable than that.Thanks for the support hun X

[@thisthatandthird]

Nafisa's Pearlz absolutely hun! You’re welcome & I hope to see this KZbin account elevating inshallah xx

[@thisthatandthird]

“He’s forward slash Mr Wasteman but Mr Wasteman is coming later” LMFAOOOO!!! I died!!

[@NafisasPearlz]

lala omar lol, glad someone got the joke, I was beginning to think it was a one man joke there😂

[@thisthatandthird]

Nafisa's Pearlz never when I’m around sis lol legit made me laugh!

[@medinasahra8593]

loool that made me laugh too

[@blaznphoenix8013]

Thank you. I was married to a narcissistic person. So glad to be out of that marriage.

[@Nomad314]

Sister Nafisa please can you do a video on pre-marital questions with suggestions of what we should ask? Thank you

[@NafisasPearlz]

Nomad314 inshallah

[@mya6506]

Nomad314 yess lmk please

[@mya6506]

Nafisa's Pearlz ^

[@revertakh9196]

Assalam alaykum sis. Great video mashallah. I'm actually a revert myself and trying my hardest to learn the deen. Alhamdulillah Islam is great. A good wife is also hard to find though as most just want me for my looks etc. May Allah grant us all good wives and husbands ameen. Keep up the good work sis. Allah bless you with jannah.

[@Kerryberry_official]

Great video! I’m not Muslim but I definitely took some gems from this video. Thank you 😊

[@amiliaazahari1727]

You should start a podcast

[@Snowlily01]

I just found your channel and as a Muslim girl feel highly inspired and happy. I really like watching Muslim women address each other as " sisters" becoz unlike non Muslims , it really brings out the unity among women, especially Muslim women. And I hope we all Muslim women help each other when we see each other becoz even if we are unknown Allah says we are all together if we are Muslim ....!! Great video!!

[@proudcitizen4883]

Exactly Muslim by (Name)

[@حبيبوردي-غ3س]

Halima Yusuf

[@dr.amellea.yassin4769]

'"Become a muslim" marry you and then start acting the fool' well said! MashaAllah

[@NafisasPearlz]

Thanks sis

[@ladolcevita2991]

In a nutshell “no riffraff...or waste man” love it!! I had 14 years of mr obsessive!! And he actually did have the personality disorder narcissism he made my life help my mental health is still something I’m working on. The way you’re strong about the “no nonsense rule is crucial” I find it hard to meet anyone because of my past....

[@NafisasPearlz]

Mia Vita Subhallah, may Allah replace him with someone far far better and reward you for your trial. Stay positive, you can and will overcome this inshallah.

[@Noobsd]

I agree with You, Allah bless you, I also do gambling sometimes drink haram sometimes 1-2 week forget to pray or go in Masid. Thus to safe from me I am Still staying Single till 31 yrs Inshallah and to safe from me I will try till my last breath.

[@maryamf1101]

anybody who tries to pressure you into doing something you are not comfortable with and don’t want to do is not the kind of person who will be good for you as a person generally in life

[@missmuslim9760]

This video was very helpful!

[@NafisasPearlz]

Mashallah that's really good to know, may Allah make us good spouses and grant us good spouses too, ameen.

[@missmuslim9760]

Nafisa's Pearlz ameen ^^ your and my opinion about this topic is very similar.

[@zzainab9017]

JazakAllah Khair ❤️ This was very beneficial! I pray that Allah provides us all good spouses and puts barakat in all of our marriages and future marriages! Ameen :)

[@NafisasPearlz]

Z ZAINAB Ameen sis

[@heiresslaite2950]

Keep it up sister! I'm with you cos our thoughts align a lot.

[@racerx3667]

alhamdulillah I'm not in one of your categories, I was soooooo nervous, lol. By the way, excellent dawah video sister Nafisa. It will help improve characteristics of both muslim male and female. BarakAllahu feeki.

[@GlobalProductionsUK]

Racer X why are you nervous. Whatever you do is to praise Allah, not to impress sisters or any other person

[@racerx3667]

You're absolutely correct Tyrone. However, we all have our flaws like sister Nafisa said. I would have been kind of disappointed if my flaws were among her list because I, too, agree with her list. Sheikh Uthaymeen (rh) also has a list of women not to marry.

[@nadirahlovely8568]

Alhamdulillah! Great video. Ramadan Mubarak

[@RomalWasim]

Nadirah Lovely radan mubarak

[@kayleejohnson6551]

I am getting married in October and I just became Muslim. My fiancé is still Christian. Do you think I should leave him? We’ve been together for over 5 years, he isn’t a practicing Christian and he is an amazing man and he is learning Islam and helping me learn and he is even reading the Quran with me. I pretty sure he’ll let me raise our children in Islam. What’s your advice on this?

[@mrty5213]

He should use this time to learn more about Islam.

[@sherrytolani4645]

Alhamdullilah your video is really helpful jazakhallah khairan sis

[@RomalWasim]

Sherry Tolani yes

[@SirineSerenade]

I met a year ago Mr Obsessive . Worst thing ever .

[@NafisasPearlz]

Sirine lol

[@112girlie]

Yeh been there with mr obsessive stalking me after I got rid of him 😩

[@revertakh9196]

112lauren I know the feeling

[@asahmed1095]

Nafisa's Pearlz I wish i could get this news before involved wd obsessive anyway im saved alhamdulillah im free now

[@ummekulthum-pm]

Sad to see we are surrounded by these Mr obsessive. May Allah grant everyone understanding💔

[@sadafmehraj]

I love the way you say 'asalamu alaikum '... so vibrant and full of happiness..Masha Allah !

[@annashah6371]

Assalamualaikum sister. Your points are very insightful and sound advise for any person considering marriage. One thing I will add, when someone works really hard on themselves and they follow the religion it is easier to sort out and see who is deserving of their work :)

[@selakonneh2709]

Thank you very much sis May Allah bless and reward you for the concern

[@oromochic1993]

Perfect timing girl! 😔👌

[@NafisasPearlz]

Oromo Chic Alhamdulilah, thanks for watching x

[@saudahhappygirl3517]

ma sha Allah, shkuran jazeelan dearest sister in Islam

[@supritiphani1282]

Pray you get a good spouse and both are Blessed together... Please Pray for me too

[@NafisasPearlz]

Supriti Phani Ameen sister and may Allah grant you the same, ameen.

[@saidakingimwakitete9400]

Ma Shaa Allah Jazakillah sis..Great Advise..Allahu baarik

[@umaimarahman1654]

Assalamualaikum :) I agree with each and every point of yours. I absolutely love your content. May Allah swt keep all of us firm in His path. And may we all meet in Jannah :)

[@NafisasPearlz]

Umaima Rahman Ameen, jazakallahu Khairan, thank you for the support, glad your finding it useful. Stay blessed

[@naeemah34]

Shukran Jazaka'Allah Khair Nafisa. May Allah Azza Wajal bless you n this world and n the hereafter. Ameen

[@SaeedG1999]

This improved me as a guy, Thank you!

[@sharifamagezi9937]

I love this...jazakaLlahu khair sister...I love you LiLliah. Am a Muslim sister too and I will use yo video as a guide.Thanks so much

[@misshz1412]

Watching you for the first time sister and im in love with your video/videos already. May Allah reward you ❣️ new subbie 😘

[@NafisasPearlz]

Miss H Z Ameen, thank you and welcome to the family x

[@sweetsuu]

Masha Allah Nafisa sister thanks for shairing

[@saraxoxo3936]

I feel like im never be married i have very high expectations 😣😂

[@khadi818]

Franco Al-Jabiri i think she meant to say she has high standards, which would make it difficult to find someone who meets those standards..

[@conscientiousscrupulous8942]

Jazak Allah kheir my dear sister in Islam. I like what you said, and I support it genuinely. Really it is very important to every Muslim, female or male ,but especially female bear in mind the points that you raised.

[@Mikejones-tc7cm]

Wow, you told them the deep truth and it really good that you did, most females struggles to know these things, may Allah reward you for your good advice.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Ameen and you too

[@gateaspirant2383]

Masha'Allah there is noor(glow) on your face. Love and respect from India sister.

[@humaanaz112]

You should never convert into Islam for someone but for yourself once you have found out that Islam is the truthful religion as well p eaceful

[@aminah761]

I love that u begin each of ur videos with a ayat from the Quran 🙂🙂🙂

[@sweeterthantoffee]

I love new videos, I hit like before even watching

[@NafisasPearlz]

Sweet Toffee lol, thank you sis, hope your doing well?

[@sweeterthantoffee]

Nafisa's Pearlz Alhamdulillah ukhti ❤️

[@mumbejjasummaya6135]

Ma Shaa Allah very nice educative video.

[@miraa1755]

Masha Allaah 😍😙

[@revertakh9196]

Somali Queen assalaam alaykum

[@miraa1755]

revert akh wa Alaikum salaam brother 🌷

[@turkyman6686]

Somali Queen بنت الصومال hi

[@rasheedrashad2639]

Not a Muslim girl mature African American Muslim man your words were powerful made me think of the man I want to be as a Muslim husband when that day comes if it be Allah's will keep up the work of Allah you are inspirational

[@jalamangjobarteh7517]

Thanks u my dear sister, what i suggest before u marriage whether u are a girl or a boy u must look at 3 main things. 1, U must know that whether he is a Muslim or not . 2, U must know the type of Family he comes from. 3, U must look at his attitude and moral behaviour. maa Shaa Allah my sister this are some of the ideas i suggest. may Allah SWT bless you and grant u success in all ur endeavour Ameen .

[@hafsae.l181]

i

[@khalidhmiftha3389]

Masha Allah 👏 I checked all your videos Very useful topics

[@sal2ahmed]

Salaam sister, I think this just don’t apply to men, but women too.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Salma Bashir definitely can also apply to women aswell

[@zahirahchabs5400]

Moooor muslim Women too unfortunatelly, may Allah protects us from meeting bad People wallah

[@mercyrahma9501]

Jazaki Allahou khayran my Sister ❤️

[@rasheedamohammed8405]

Maa shaa Allah Tabarakallah tnx sis I really enjoyed ur videos may Allah blessed you for that

[@NafisasPearlz]

Rasheeda Mohammed ameen and may Allah bless you for seeking nearness to him

[@rasheedamohammed8405]

Nafisa's Pearlz Aameen

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Mansha'Allah Alhamdulilaah for Islam, this girl is my hero, I didn't know her before I get married, it would help my decision of marriage.

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I MISSED YOOOOU 😍 JazakAllah Khair ❤

[@NafisasPearlz]

Lina Zabalawi thanks hun, its good to be back on track with my videos. X

[@OlamideAdelaNCC]

As-Salaam-Alaikum. This was straight talk Sister Nafisa. All Muslim men should hear your thoughts on this subject. It can only make us better men, and better servants of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Thank you very much.

[@batulakhamis9643]

Shukran for the advice.It definately will come in handy someday In Shaa Allah.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Inshallah, at the right time.

[@MelissaSantos-kk3dg]

Alhamdullilah number six is amazing! Mashallah ...learning and getting better mashallah yes ! Beautiful

[@medinasahra8593]

im going through so much right now and this just cleared my head

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[@fardinvai4980]

thanks thanks thanks a lot..... keep going ...Allah bless u.....

[@sabrinasnigdha8371]

Masha Allah! She has such good knowledge. Keep up the good work dear!

[@NafisasPearlz]

Sabrina Snigdha thank you

[@minadiop5760]

Mashallah. Just subscribed I'm single and Muslim. Love from California

[@ryntidwi]

MashaAllah sis ❤❤❤❤ i love your video . This is what a muslims girls need when Ta'aruf. ❤ My wedding will be held shortly , pray for me sis, Love from Indonesia

[@NafisasPearlz]

Dwinanda Eryantie May put barakah in it for you. Ameen

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Dwinanda Eryantie barakh Allah fih

[@maryamnalumwale4118]

Assalam alaykum wa rahamtura wa barakatu sister Nafisa, good video Maa Shaa Allah,may Allah taa Allah reward you.

[@beingfatma833]

MashaAllah thanks sister your words means a lot to me

[@NafisasPearlz]

Thanks sis. xxx

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Fatima Abdul I am Muslim looking for a muslim woman

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حبيب وردي MashaAllah that good

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Fatima Abdul hi

[@salmanc1]

Every single point also applies to women aswell. Wonderful video .

[@MsPinky095]

Asalamualaikum sis, I hope this isn't intrusive or anything but can you do a video on your set of questions or set of questions that you'd suggest that girls should ask?

[@NafisasPearlz]

Inshallah I can do that

[@MsPinky095]

Jazak'Allah making the video,may Allah reward you immensely

[@sluddhu8262]

@@NafisasPearlz yess sister I will be looking at potential husbands but I dont know what questions I should ask in our first meeting. Apart from the obvious like do you pray. Please make a vid on this x

[@NafisasPearlz]

@@sluddhu8262 I have done a video on that. It was posted not too long after this one.

[@sluddhu8262]

@@NafisasPearlz just found it! JazakAllah very useful x

[@oluwafemialaka8715]

Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullahi wabarakattuhu. This is apt. Jazak ALLAHU khairan.

[@munam016]

MashaAllah this is a good advice to give sisters. I’m already married and I agree on everything you said. Great video

[@NafisasPearlz]

Luniska King alhamdulilah happy to have your input as a married sister. Jazakallahu Khairan xxx

[@muhammadkassab9179]

Nafisa's Pearlz , Jazaki Allah Khairan Sister , I have the 2nd type Ms Muslima by name. though I am always advice and encourage her to start practice

[@annaartemis4359]

As a revert I gave a huge pain to my family. My mom got sick, and she told me that if she is gonna die is because of me, my dad when I talked about the possibility to revert fall on his knees took my shirt and cried and begged to not do it. I remember that day so vividly in my head, I have never saw my dad crying, I have never saw such a dispare. Since then he doesn’t look at me in the eyes, and soon I’ll have to go away from home. I hurt my family so much because of Islam, I saw my family parents crying and crying and getting worried and sick. They asked me to not marry a Muslim and even tho they won’t ever accept me as a Muslim marrying one would be the total end for them. Call me weak but I can’t do this to my family. I want them happy and I don’t want my family to be separate forever. My dad is very traditional then, we are Greek and the Islamic empire killed our nation and he can’t get over the fact he should pass his heredity to the ones that killed his family. For that I think I’ll marry a non Muslim and also because it’s hard to find good Muslim guys nowadays. I think what matters is love and respect. I’ll teach my kids islam one day but they will be free to choose. Will I go to hell for that ?. Idk and I will be scared for the day till I’m gonna die. But I just cannot do that to my family.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Anna Artemis I think this is a test for you, where if it comes to it, who will you give preference to, Allah or your family? It is well known that there is NO obedience to anyone if it means disobedience to Allah. If you were to leave Islam for your family, I think somewhere down the line you would regret it. I understand that it's very difficult not to see your family happy with your decision however on the day of judgement even your mother will run away from you. They will say that they did not force you to leave the right path, it was your decision. Clearly from what you have written, I think you know that Islam is the truth but perhaps the pressure is just a bit much on you. Allah says "Do you think that you can say you believe and not be tested? Indeed I tested those before you.....". This is your time to show Allah that your love and obedience to him is what matters to you most. As for your family, show them that Islam has made you a better person, daughter. Treat them with utmost respect kindness and love and pray for them that they too will be guided aright. I'm going to be honest with you, leaving the right path is not the right thing to do. Perhaps if you remain strong your family may be guided too. You may think it's easy for me to say but I've also had my fair share of family members discouraging me from practising islam although I come from a Muslim family so I do understand your struggles to some extent. At the end of the day, I was kind to them, never answered them back, heard them out when they sat me down to give me the "don't do it" talk but I will be in my grave alone, stand before Allah alone and receive my judgement alone so I chose to stick to my deen even if they don't like it because this life is not all there is.

[@dr.amellea.yassin4769]

You said it, Nafisa. At the end, it's you who are alone and you who will be facing what you have done all that time you were alive. Allah created us to test us and He knows what we can bear and what we cannot well. May Allah make things easy for you, Anna, my newly returned sister to Islam. Know that you are never alone as long as you keep Allah in your heart.

[@bintadam7627]

As a muslim we should love and respect our parents. Allah says in the Holy Qur’an: The Lord has decreed that you worship none save Him alone, and behave beneficently towards parents. If either or both of them should attain old age while you are alive, say not `ugh’ to them, nor chide them, and speak kindly to them. Lower to them the wing of humility out of tenderness and pray: Lord have mercy upon them as they brought me up when I was little. Quran - (17:25) These verses are most significant on this subject. After the unity of God, human beings should, through their attitude of love, affection, and kindness, give priority over all other things to their parents who have reached an old and difficult age. Further, the verses speak of the situations when the behaviour of one or both of the parents becomes extremely trying and sometimes offensive. In response to that, not even a mild expression of disgust or disapproval should pass one’s lips. On the contrary they should be treated with profound respect. Pray for your parents, make lots of dua and ask Allah swt to guide them and make them accept you wholeheartedly as a muslim. Be patient with them. As sister Nafisa has mentioned this could be a test for you so bear it with patience and prayer. Allaah exhorts His slaves to seek help with patience and prayer when facing calamities that may befall a person. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And seek help in patience and As-Salaah (the prayer) and truly, it is extremely heavy and hard except for Al-Khaashi‘oon [i.e. the true believers in Allaah - those who obey Allaah with full submission, fear much from His punishment, and believe in His Promise (Paradise) and in His Warnings (Hell)]” [al-Baqarah 2:45] Allaah states that the victory of attaining Paradise and being saved from Hell will be won only by those who are patient, as He says (interpretation of the meaning): “Verily, I have rewarded them this Day for their patience; they are indeed the ones that are successful” [al-Mu’minoon 23:111] Allaah tells us that the desire to earn His reward and to turn away from this world and its adornments is attained only by those who are patient and are believers. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “But those who had been given (religious) knowledge said: “Woe to you! The reward of Allaah (in the Hereafter) is better for those who believe and do righteous good deeds, and this none shall attain except those who are As‑Saabiroon (the patient in following the truth)” [al-Qasas 28:80] May Allah swt make everything easy for you and May He swt guide your parents to the right path. Ameen

[@maymay5812]

Anna Artemis sister I will make dua for you. You really are a strong person for having faith in Allah surely he will reward and guide and protect you.

[@soccer90tem80]

Anna Artemis there is a story of the early sahaba similar to yours the mans mother starved herself for days in order to make her son leave Islam but the man didn't give up you shouldn't give up either

[@mals5617]

YEESSSS I AGREE. 100% sharing this with everybody IK

[@desertrose8832]

Jazakillahu khairan sister. This was helpful indeed ❤

[@NafisasPearlz]

Dr Jinjiri waiyakum sis, glad you found it useful xxx

[@dr.javaidbio-lectures4752]

good analysis my dear sister. Allah bless you

[@marziasultana4124]

Good topic for now. Salaam.

[@muhammadshahid8223]

wonderful. very good service for both men and women. solid principles. worth watching and to follow.

[@salimarose5802]

I would love to see a video on what type of Sisters a Brother should NOT Marry.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Mrs Salima Rose El-Amiin inshallah

[@The_Other_Ghost]

Number 6 wouldn't apply because of 4:24.

[@sampaguitaorigenes335]

The message is clear thanks alot. But can u plz make a video on women's too the type of women's men need to Marry?

[@buzzbee42]

Nice videos yes sisters by all mean we have to avoid these kinds of man that sister Nadia’s described in her video.Nafisa can you please make the video about what question should a sister ask if get any proposal and before considering a marriage. Because I am not sure and marriage always seem daunting to me. I know it’s not a joke it’s big responsibility of ones life making decision.

[@NafisasPearlz]

buzzbee42 inshallah I can do share that in a future video.

[@NafisasPearlz]

buzzbee42 inshallah I can do share that in a future video.