Mom I'm 15, Stop Comparing Me to My 8-Year-Old Brother! | KARAMO

Bianca says she started to notice a shift in her daughter Nola when she turned 13 years old. Between cussing or sneaking out of the house, Bianca says Nola is a troubled 15-year-old. Nola rejects her mom's point of view and says her mom favors her 8-year-old brother and puts WAY too much pressure on her as a teen. Can Karamo help this mother and daughter correct their communication style?
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[@Denisa-n5m]

having your stomach showing does not mean dressing like a sl*t. Inappropriate for school yes, but you let her get it done.

[@BrookeKnits]

And let her be a cheerleader what does her mom expect

[@fatkatt2002]

& mom allowed her to get a belly piercing? At such a young age. That's another level of maturity

[@questionresearch8721]

Sounding like Frank Mitchell from Moesha.

[@caroljordt8045]

Exactly!

[@autumnbrooks6478]

What did she expect I’m confused who gets their belly pierced at any age and not wanna show it off isn’t that the point of the piercing……. You think it’s cute

[@Boom_Bianca]

Stop comparing your children period it creates resentment and self esteem issues.

[@harutowatanabeisbae4993]

THANK U, especially my parents

[@sarasullivan2027]

Words stick in your mind. Not because they’re true, but because it hurts that a parent would even say those things to you.

[@officialedenleone]

they really do fr, my absent dad said that he never wanted me during an argument and I cannot erase that from my mind....

[@egujugapupfh7543]

ITS HURTS A PARENT THAT YOU ARE SENDING AND RECEIVING NUDES

[@KaylaWaylaa_]

this!

[@jasminebowen552]

Kids also say some mean ass shit to their parents as well and think that the parent are just supposed to understand because they are an adult . It’s their FIRST life as well. They are learning just like we are . People need to give each other more grace .

[@ddeath-nOte]

​@@jasminebowen552 kids learn it from the influences in their life so obviously a parent show regulate that influence and teach them the effect of their words before they're used to it, parents teach most kids how to be abused so could one complain when a child just mimics ur behaviour

[@iluvriah]

this is one of the best episodes I've seen , a genuine mom and daughter tryna solve basic life problems as a unit

[@larachelmcphatter9971]

Yessss❤

[@vonneal1]

Absolutely ❤ made me cry😢

[@IamStarGirl1]

It's rare to see love on this show. It's mostly just people yapping. In this case, it was a mother and daughter in a tight and hard part of their lives. I notice how both of them never say, "I hate you." But they say, "I feel like you hate me." It as a sad misunderstanding, but I'm glad they're actually mending their relationship. I'm sure it would've been fine without the show tho, the daughter's just in her teenager phase 🤣🤣

[@Hangingwiththehightowers]

Thank you!!❤ It changed everything for us! We finally saw and heard each other!

[@michaelamitchell1603]

nursing homes gonna be packed asf 😂

[@dominiquejenkins5495]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 u play to much

[@tanaejaplattenburg2791]

yen lying tho! them generation curses gone land they ahh right in nursing homes

[@DB-vt1kk]

Shady Pines for the win!

[@kameralkutie5594]

My father will be one of them.🤣 I have already made it clear to my family that I will not be participating in age care nor his funeral arrangements.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@trinathompson8587]

I would rather take my chances at the nursing home than have to depend on some of the laziest, disrespectful, and entitled kids coming out of this generation! Every generation is worse than the one before!

[@shaniya7558]

nola was who i used to be. she’s clearly intelligent, smart, and knows right from wrong. policing every small thing she does will only make her even more sneaky (not excusing the behavior) but foster an open line of communication so she’ll be able to WANT to go to you about everything. she’s not a “bad” or “difficult” kid.

[@MrNick578]

Omitting your going over your boyfriends, wearing belly button rings out in the open when told not to, teasing/bullying her brother(s) are small things?

[@temio288]

@@MrNick578yes! There’s worst thing a 15 year old is doing out here rn… at least she’s not putting her self in harms way. As her mum did teach her well!

[@maddmiyah9855]

@@MrNick578yes!!! Those are typical teenage things 😂

[@lilianasaba9846]

​@@temio288 and we should never compare with the worst because we are created for the best.

[@Shepinkfit]

Same

[@marysmith3763]

If 15 is a teenager, call them that. People make teenager adults before they get there.😮

[@Danii-jo4rh]

Umm maybe your raised different 15 “is a teenager”

[@lilianasaba9846]

Teenager should be protected, defended, taught and disciplined according to the ways of the family

[@heathab...._-_]

EXACTLY! I understand what your saying

[@kartyparty9488]

Your a teen as soon as 13

[@JMonaeTheStar]

To the person that said heal your traumas before having children…I didn’t even know some of my traumas were traumas until I had a kid….its about the willingness to learn everyday & being open honestly…that’s how you become the best parent

[@naturaladib6293]

I can definitely relate !!

[@mamameya77]

💯🦾🙏❤️ ME TOO

[@stellarvgurl]

Theres no destination to healing. It's literally an everyday thing that just happens to get easier to deal with as time passes.

[@blkluvchnl]

This is fair. As a childless woman who potentially wants kids in the future, I find myself fixated on how to be the best version of myself (childhood trauma, trying to unlearn ingrained societal biases, etc) for my potential children, but you ~really~ don’t know what you’d do or how you’d respond until you have children of your own. I think being aware of your behaviors and emotionally intelligent with your children is great ❤

[@PLEASURE_MeMe]

That’s how YOU become the best parent. You can’t say YOU as if you speaking about so many people. You think about traumas and rather if you are mentally ready to have children and that person was right about that. And may I add physically and if you do have those things going on you gotta know if you could handle those things if you still want to have children at the same time going through it hose stages. A lot of people had stories and going through trauma and being traumatized by whatever it is that you went through before having kids can trigger some very bad things in your life emotionally and physically. A lot of parents ends up not having relationships with their children, ends up in jail, end up on drugs, end up, abusing their children or the keys end up running the street their keys end up, killing them, their own parents and their end up being traumatized about things as well. You don’t really understand why that comment was made and I always make that comment as well. I also tell women to give themselves time to heal, especially getting out relationships meeting, men back to back, bringing them to their homes and around their children, but they don’t and then the unthinkable happens. Life can bring people down that’s why you deal with your traumas before you have children. The keys don’t need to be brought into this world suffering and why should parents suffer when they don’t have to think about yourself first before you have children that way more lives won’t be ruined, everybody is so quick to rush into everything when they don’t have to love yourself and find yourself before bringing life into this world.

[@mariabee7766]

Before having children please heal your own traumas. The daughter shows more emotional intelligence than her ❤

[@AquaFonic]

Judgemental much !!!

[@Krys89]

Yes indeed 💯💯🙏🙏

[@kiraherrington2454]

The mom barely did anything to garner this response worry about how you deal with your kids.

[@mariabee7766]

@@kiraherrington2454 Watch it again, cause clearly u wasn’t listening the whole thing.

[@TamTam-yw7id]

That's stupid. She said she had her young and this is NOT trauma. This is a good mother correcting her daughter BEFORE it goes too far.

[@vickisudler]

My mom did me the same, but to her last breath, i took care of her.... My brother, who she cherished, did little to nothing at the end....

[@kayotheepotato]

That sounds so painful. But I can imagine you being immensely blessed because you cared for someone who emotionally abandoned you 🫶🏽

[@mysticalindigo888]

My mom had to find out the hard way with that as well who really was a good hearted child that meant well, with out interior motives behind it.

[@trish0817]

😂 I'm sorry... but, couldn't be me.

[@kameralkutie5594]

@@trish0817this one☝️this needs to start being the norm to not feel obligated to take care of terrible parents. Just because you have a child that doesn’t grant you an automatic care taker in old age. Her mother should’ve had her favorite son take care of her.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Shlbizzy_21]

That's why u don't show favoritism and get it right the frist time

[@helpkelp3595]

I see many people talking about how the mom doesn't seem bad but you guys have to remember that although her intentions seem innocent, her words and actions aren't helping anything. She is projecting her past onto her daughter by trying to "trap" her in a way so that her daughter doesn't make the same decisions she made. I wish parents would actually explain to their children why they can't do certain things and what they did in the past that made them fearful of the same happening to them. You can't expect a teenager to blindly obey you.

[@lunacy3]

SPEAK ON IT🗣️ instead of “don’t do this” explain WHY or else they’ll see no reason as to why you don’t want them to do it.

[@larachelmcphatter9971]

Mom was amazing and her daughter was too! Mom wasn't perfect but she was present! I successfully raised four daughters. How many have you raised? I can say that this is a success story!

[@helpkelp3595]

@@larachelmcphatter9971 Congratulations! My comment wasn't intended to make the mother seem as though she somehow failed at parenting but to put things into perspective. Parents aren't perfect but so aren't children! I only wish for families especially mothers and daughters to grow together in a healthy manner both physically AND emotionally

[@gabriellabella2365]

@@helpkelp3595Exactly. It's called narcissism and generational trauma. ✨💗 Walking on eggshells being a teenager this day and age. Everyone should continue their growth, especially after becoming an “adult”.

[@user-dt4nw3gk5j]

Absolutely because those words will just make them want to do bad things.

[@l01j99]

I'm sorry, but I always question parents who want to point out there child's issues publicly knowing that it will ruin their reputation. How is this girl going to go to school now without people looking down on her? Everything said on stage could've been said privately with a therapist.

[@Kaylee563]

This part.

[@egujugapupfh7543]

SHE DIDN'T HAVE TO COME ON THE SHOW

[@l01j99]

@@egujugapupfh7543 Her daughter is a minor. So, she has to go where her mother tells her to go.

[@theycallmequeen6273]

@@egujugapupfh7543 You do realize this girl is 15. She lives at home and depends on her parents. What choice did she have?

[@keke90001]

My thoughts be similar. I just never understand why ppl would rather come on stage and publicly humiliate themselves. When it can be done at home. If they doing it for the free plane ride, hotel, money or or whatever they may be getting. It's never that serious

[@wizana]

Stop cutting your daughter off!! How can she trust and respect you if she can't even finish a sentence!!!

[@jessicawilson4211]

How old are you?

[@CMichelleWhite]

I totally agree. My daughter says the same thing…once she’s able to speak 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@fwueileen]

fr!!!

[@PLEASURE_MeMe]

@@jessicawilson4211 😂😂😂. You ain’t lying.

[@PLEASURE_MeMe]

First of all, you must be young minded and have no clue. Cutting someone off has nothing to do with trust issues 😂😂. And 2 if your mother cutting you off leads to you not having no respect for her young or grown you never had no love or respect for your mother to begin with. You sound childish and foolish. You are acting like she’s a bad mother or something. Y’all downing this mother so badly as if she’s a bad mother or something. Clearly, she’s doing something right. Her daughter isn’t that bad off at all. She’s just experiencing and looking at life the wrong way and growing but she will do better by her parents and siblings and herself soon. She’s a teenager. No parent or child is perfect no one is perfect. Sounds like you have some growing up as well. We all go through changes in life and don’t you forget that. Not a lot of mothers has a good mother like this teenager has. I’m a good mother to my children and my husband is a good father to his children.

[@nilmasantos6871]

Parents need to stop saying this harsh words to their kids.. this scars deep there are ways to discipline without traumatizing ur child

[@THEYLOVE_OLIVIA]

For real this generation is diffrent to what the parents generation was

[@Shlbizzy_21]

​@@THEYLOVE_OLIVIA no its not, they just don't care, but they'll run up on the right motherfuka to get em to act right

[@wannabefamous._.9179]

2 minutes in… so she’s doing what just about every teenager in the world does

[@Kaylee563]

I have never changed on FaceTime as a 15 year old or ever and I’m 27 now boo. No! Every teenager don’t sneak and creep and lie about there wears abouts. It could cause trust issues with the parents

[@wannabefamous._.9179]

@@Kaylee563 the FaceTime part absolutely not, but every teenager I’ve met had definitely said they were going somewhere and went somewhere else but that could also just be the area I’m in and grew up in🤷🏽‍♀️

[@egujugapupfh7543]

@@wannabefamous._.9179 Yeah in the ghetto areas

[@egujugapupfh7543]

@@Kaylee563 exactly and im 16 would NEVER do no nasty ass stuff like that

[@egujugapupfh7543]

@@Kaylee563 and blame the parents for not trusting you

[@ChrissyPoo516]

Either people in these comments didnt watch the full episode or never encountered a Mom whos raising their kids well. Shes not perfect but shes doing the best she can.

[@jadensfather4713]

I was looking for this comment! These people in the comments are the reason we have crazy kids out here today. And Karamo failed terribly this time

[@user-dt4nw3gk5j]

Her mother should pick a day out of the week to have lunch with her daughter or just make time for the both of them so she will feel special

[@wizana]

This mother is creating a future of not having her daughter in her life. Overly strict parents creates troublesome 20 year olds, when these kids get freedom they do everythinggggggg. At times lands them in jail.

[@nasiamorgan]

💯

[@olurotimijejeloye311]

Over strict ?!! What did the mother do that’s over the top??

[@MrNick578]

Where is she strict at?

[@nicoleeve1094]

exactly my story landed me in prison

[@MrNick578]

@@nicoleeve1094 how yo parents being strict on you lead you to jail?

[@lolar6225]

I’m sorry if you get a teenagers belly pierced what makes you believe they want to keep it covered 😂

[@mayagabrielle4252]

exactly that part bms

[@JessRare]

Ahhh I cried with them when mom hugged and told her sorry. The smile on Nolas face was like a weight was lifted. I pray their bond grows and hope they can move forward with a happy and healthy relationship ❤️🙏🙏

[@LoganTaliaferro]

He’s 8 and she’s older so it’s like she already had the stuff she wanted at that age

[@JessRare]

@@LoganTaliaferro I’m not talking about material things..I’m talking about the mental abuse mainly. We don’t know how long that’s been going on but either way I pray they both work on their relationship..not just one side.

[@TheNiadanielle]

I feel like at a certain age especially in your child’s teenage years, you should STOP going through your kids phone in high school otherwise you will be disappointed & see shit you don’t wanna see lol.

[@janniesjournal]

exactly. thats why she feels like she cant trust anyone. her dad going through her phone????? i wish karamo addressed that. i am all for monitoring your kids but going through messages and things like that creates a distrust that cannot be mended.

[@lllooozzz111]

Mom is not connected with her child like she is supposed to be. Otherwise, all this miscommunication could be solved. Mom needs to focus on being a mother and not a warden. You can’t project what you’ve done in your life on to your child and watch your words!

[@lunacy3]

I truly dislike seeing parents who would rather call their teens names and scold/yell at them rather than teach them about the dangers and safety of sexual education. We’ve all been teenagers at one point, some were doing things they shouldn’t while others weren’t BUT the difference is teaching them about consequences and safety of what could happen. Getting angry at them for doing stuff will only make them sneakier and push them to do things in more dangerous ways, TALK TO YOUR TEENS!

[@hazzaplayz808]

Well said 👏👏👏👏

[@KhrisMoney808]

Teach them what? She knows not to have a man in her room! Just like you knew but you did it didn't you?! Lolz Hush chile!!! SMH

[@lunacy3]

@@KhrisMoney808 teach them the consequences and the dangers of it all. It seems like you’re projecting with the “just like you knew but you did didn’t you” ma’am I don’t know you💀 reactions like this is what would make a teen want to be more secretive and push them to do things in more dangerous environments.

[@lunacy3]

@@KhrisMoney808 it’s okay to talk it out with them, they’re more likely to listen and obey if you simply COMMUNICATE with them rather than getting hostile or aggressive.

[@kholedaelam3527]

I wonder if moms husband is also her dad or just her 8yo brothers because that would explain a lot

[@mirrah3939]

That to like they only talking abt half of it I feel like the same thing gone happen

[@exodiathegod1177]

I'm curious about that as well

[@scottrogue946]

Not the mother coming on all innocent and later on we found out she like Monique in Precious. Smh!

[@opulence_prime]

Almost every time.

[@larachelmcphatter9971]

Nothing like the Mother on Precious! You must have missed 😊the show! She is a concerned Mother who didn't want her daughter to follow her path! They will be fine! Her approach was wrong but her love was present! Daughter cannot do what she wants, so Mom has to improve on her interaction with her baby to keep her on the right path! "Almost every time" is inaccurate as well because that is not the case here. Actually, people's assumptions are what is incorrect almost every time because we don't know these people or every situation. Karamo confirms that both Mom and daughter are great! I have raised four amazing daughters: I wasn't perfect, I was present! That makes the difference!

[@opulence_prime]

@@larachelmcphatter9971 OP and I follow a few of the same shows so I’m familiar with their sense of humor. You could have posted your own comment instead of responding to make your statement. I agree the comments miss the point often. But this is a reality show, art imitating life and despite OP reaching saying Monique from Precious the mom still lied and the daughter is fast. Both have room for improvement. Like most people. ☺️

[@Contessa_Savannah]

Far from it

[@eliana8834]

Don’t ever compare precious mother to this mother, you must have never actually watched that movie.

[@henrygibbons860]

Kudos to Karamo!! When I tell you he gets things DOWN to the BOTTOM, BOTTOM!!🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@misspeachy5626]

Agree 😊

[@BuddahHass2360]

Im sorry but we need more parents like her, because she loves her daughter so much that she's making the wrong mistakes and that comes from just wanting her to be successful and proud, us as parents try our best and sometimes we make mistakes just hope and pray our children understand its nothing personal its Love and care..

[@LiaDIamondsPurple]

Don’t tease your siblings! That abuse I had to deal with that when I was younger my cousins picked on me and never picked on my (light skinned) sister..that’s why I kept my distance now as grown women

[@tonieltaylor7755]

Karamo better get an Emmy for the foundational work he's doing for our community.

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

Grown man in her room with no shirt on. The mom is so nice

[@dakotajeter9542]

I wish karamo would have talked to her about her behavior as well

[@lollypopkiki1]

That's not what she said she said they was on the phone face time or video

[@unmotivatedbaddie]

no, the man in the room was another instance on New Years she said @@lollypopkiki1

[@This.is.my.family]

He wasn't in her room she Saud the internet

[@blairshand]

I had to rewatch it. She was on facetime on new year's eve and her father walked in and the boy had no shirt on.

[@janiyahthomas7725]

She’s a teenager, she’s gonna wanna explore 😂 she has a really bright future. Mom is just a helicopter parent. Poor kid just wants to be a kid, and I don’t think she got that opportunity.

[@celestecruthird7842]

She Doesn't Want Her Daughter To Have Bad Ways! It Is Hard Raising These Kids Today!

[@ParisMiley]

It certain ways you do it not degrade her. She’s still in schools and a cheerleader like she could calm down

[@DB-vt1kk]

Her mother is projecting.

[@helpkelp3595]

Her intentions may seem pure but the way she's going about parenting her daughter is more out of projection than anything. This isn't anything new, there are many people before this generation that were "fast" or reckless

[@mariaSanchez-ub7ds]

these kids today live like you owe them something and lack accountability and walk around like woe is me, and always disrespectful. this child is 15 with a boy in her room with no shirt and ppl actually defending this lmaoooooo the mom is doing the best she can and is far nice then the mother ive seen on here before u can tell she loves her and care, not saying shes right, but the child definitely putting on an act

[@leathelion]

@@mariaSanchez-ub7dsyou do owe them something , kids didn’t ASK to be here so therefore you owe them care and shelter. Lmao stop acting like the kid ASKED AND BEGGED to be born. The child is doing well in school and is in cheer. She’s doing well, she just has teenage humps to get over. Stop being mad about being a MOTHER(what you CHOSE to be)!

[@marchecadenhead3692]

Im confused on how the mom is too strict... ?? Young women be acting a fool on social media and she is telling her to sit down, focus on school, and getting better in life.. how is that a bad message. Noone talks about the parents of these kids on social media or ones outside doing whatever they want though

[@leahc731]

I was thinking the same thing!!! I mean, she was able to get her belly button peirced at 15 years old. Hell, I couldn't wear makeup until 16 and got body piercings until almost 17. LMBO!!!! 😅😅😅 😂😂

[@verisha7815]

Right

[@christianang6l]

@@leahc731well it's not the 70s no more. things change, times change. you're projecting.

[@benitanaluyima8520]

Oh hell now, life is about enjoying it, we live to do things, ain't nobody love school maybe some, we have life outside school, this a new world, accept it because this is a better healing generation, maybe because you didn't have these things but let others live gosh

[@leahc731]

@christianang6l I was born in the 90s and grew up in the 2000s. I'm not from the 70s. And you are right. Times do change, and things do change. That's still not an excuse. I was just saying that at 15 years old, her mom allowed her to get her belly button pierced, so the mom doesn't seem that strict to me. But thanks for your reply!

[@GiveHerFlowers]

0:41 Her husband walked in the room and her daughter was changing clothes? I get monitoring your children, but At a certain age, men in the house should not be just walking in girls rooms. I feel strongly about that

[@aliandmama2073]

So, let me get this straight, she brought her teenaged daughter on the show for acting like a typical teenager?!? This is sad. Smh.

[@THEYLOVE_OLIVIA]

for real nearly every teen does this now days it's not gonna be like there teen days anymore it's change

[@Kaylee563]

And that’s why it’s so many teen parents smh. NO. MoStly ALL teens don’t do stuff like get naked on FaceTime and change or be lying about there wear abouts. Her lil hot self can easily ruin everything in a blank of an eye. Y’all crazy to think this is normal

[@lamp2958]

⁠@@Kaylee563For real though. I know not everyone is me, but I NEVER acted like this as a teenager.

[@lifewithyana2924]

Is this the ONLY thing you got from this? Goodness. That girl still is disrespectful and is doing sneaky things. I'm 19 and since I was a teen I NEVER did any of those things.

[@THEYLOVE_OLIVIA]

@@lifewithyana2924 it's diffrent now she ain't u anyway?

[@TheophanyKirindongo]

This mom really loves her child and only wants what's best for her.

[@kevholt]

Sounds like mom raised a good kid….

[@geraldineboakye2957]

This was one of my favorite shows, it really had me in tears, because as you said she is a good mom and she has a beautiful respectful daughter, I know that they will be okay because it's so much love and again she's 15 trying to find herself, God bless them.

[@miekaxiii]

Before karamo said it I was like “this girl is not bad, this is a good one” but the moms stress and assumptions could actually hold her back and damage her to the point that she doesn’t do what she wants to because of all her moms negativity

[@blairshand]

She seems like she's scared of her daughter being a teenager. She doesn't respect her daughter and really wants to control her.

[@ButterflyAngels217]

I’m scared of my daughter being a teenager and she’s only 4 🥴. I think it’s just the general feelings of knowing how “teenagers “ act. That age is when they start to have their own identity. You can try to tell them how to act, dress and etc. but being that they are in a peer social environment they will unintentionally do what they feel is right

[@blairshand]

@user-iv3mr6wb8n I agree about the part having a 4 year old as I have a 3.5 year old. The mom is projecting and doesn't look at her daughter as an individual. She never let her get one thought out fully. She doesn't think what her daughter has to say is important. If she doesn't see her point of view how is she going to help her change the behavior. Why let her get her belly button pierced if she felt that showing it off makes her look like a slut. That's controlling behavior

[@kameralkutie5594]

And that’s the problem with the mother and daughter dynamic. The mother is always harder on her daughter than the son. Girls especially black girls are always seen as terrible to raise during their teenage years even before they even get a chance to get there. Prime example the woman under your comment section already placing this negative notion on her young daughter. But somehow they expect the daughter to look after them in old age.🤷🏽‍♀️😂

[@kimdean1079]

She's lucky to have a good daughter. My daughter was not driven at all. Couldn't focus on what she did right because she did no right. Her first 2 kids are with their father and I'm raising the third child. Karamo could not help us.

[@Indigal]

🙏🏿❤️

[@kingflavs9884]

Aww maybe you guys could try going there, would love to hear your story. Sending love ❤️

[@krazychilel]

They could have had this conversation at home with a therapist. They didn't have to bring this to the internet.

[@manisings7782]

hey i’m the big sister and i totally agree to what you said ❤️

[@Indigal]

Positive reinforcement is key

[@Krys89]

Yes it is 💯🙏

[@nat-o25-nir]

It’s always the mother daughter videos like this that make me tear up. Sometimes the things the daughters say are way too relatable.

[@victorysodeinde4246]

Riddle me this. She sees her daughter making the same or similar mistakes she made that led to her being a young mum, and she's trying to let her know what these decisions would lead to but she's... the problem?

[@misspeachy5626]

100%

[@snickers8970]

I’m so confused!! They said she was caught getting naked on FaceTime plus with a topless boy in their house. Her mom knows how this can end.

[@shawn6618]

It seems to me that the mom isn't strict enough! I wish a child would!!!!!

[@jojoant5928]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@roscoeswetsuit1218]

@@snickers8970 She said changing clothes, not naked. That also doesn't mean he could see anything. She's 15, having a bf is a normal part of teenage development.

[@sattasana7753]

I cried because I totally understand the mom. When you have strived to the trouble behind cross the bench mark , fear is a jammer right underneath that success and unfortunately the ones after you suffered. That’s a bandage I hope all who’s suffering will be from. Wishing them the very best ❤❤❤

[@nikkihollis5972]

No Karamo! Big sis is wrong. She just said words hurt ,calling her brother weird is not nice!

[@ladyteka2430]

Yeah, I thought he would have corrected her on that. She doesn’t want her mom calling her names.

[@hiimrafa]

yes it did come across as bullying rather than teasing. She justified his weirdness by saying if you look at him he doesn’t look popular - that’s super hurtful for an 8 year old.

[@bryantfam3846]

It’s normal fr like that’s the love of siblings not everyone grew up saying “I love you ect” ik for me I throw jokes and my siblings will come to me if I ever hurt they feelings that’s the bond of siblings

[@chilenoworry3197]

Yall act like yall never seen siblings joke around 🤣

[@kayotheepotato]

I did the same thing to my little brother and guess what, we’re the best of friends and he’s aware I’ll step about him. Rain sleet, hail or snow. I’m the first person he calls. Picking him up from sneaky links, paying parking tickets, the whole shabang 🤣

[@jeromeblackmon2329]

The fact he didn’t correct her behavior towards her brother bothers me. It’s not teasing she just said he’s weird so she messes with him. “He not one of the popular kids you know just the weird one you see” she’s going to nurture a resentful relationship with her brother.

[@hiimrafa]

I was shocked Karamo overlooked that as teasing! It def made me sad to hear how she views her brother.

[@christinegrant3066]

Do y'all not have siblings no matter what we tease each other fight each other but the next minute we are besties again siblings do it all the time it's apart of building a strong bond bc i know if she see someone bullying her brother i doubt she gonna stand up and watch bc that's her brother and no matter what she gonna love him

[@jeromeblackmon2329]

@@christinegrant3066 she literally said he’s that weird kid at school everybody picks on. Sometimes having a shitty sibling is just that.

[@Estrellitawilliams]

Is the husband her stepfather. If so. Why is that man walking into the teenagers room freely while undressing

[@GiveHerFlowers]

Yes! I was looking for this comment from someone else.

[@olamidepeters5905]

An outstanding quality that makes this woman a great mum is her ACCOUNTABILITY. It takes so much strength to be able to notice your own wrong as a mum, accept it and apologize to your child. Kudos mum!

[@terriscott1841]

Thank you, Karamo I’m 59 years old and I’m still dealing with issues of paying when I was a child

[@rebellsprout5754]

This was so touching. A+ Karamo .

[@jalisanashae4058]

First she’s smart and expresses her feelings very well. She’s going to be amazing . I hope the mend it

[@vanpeyton007]

Babygirl just needed a motherly hug.. tears of release for sure

[@Blu-Man]

In my view the mom maybe too strict and hard yet in still that 15 yr old adolescent daughter gotta listen and stop doing mischievous things

[@pamelabrown5512]

I love the way the mother and daughter listen to each other; Hopefully, they develop a better and stronger relationship.

[@rashawndaholmes2651]

Comments are saying it's the mom.. how?? Her daughter out sneaking around.. back talking and being disrespectful.. just because this girl speaks respectfully here.. doesn't mean she doesn't do it at home.. mom is worried for her and don't want her to go down the same path.. this girl could've had a mother that dont care for her.. she's lucky

[@swaguchiha3508]

did you not hear the part where he asked them if that’s how they communicate at home, and both the mother and daughter said yes? she talks exactly like at home and on camera

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

QUIT CALLING YOUR CHILDREN OUT OF THEIR NAME....DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY, YOU'RE THE ADULT SO CONTROL YOURSELF!! Omg! The Mom is doing the best she can and I saw what I needed to see at the end, they'll be just fine, Nola is amazing💜🧡💜🧡

[@renodia1]

This young lady is so intelligent.. Beautiful spirit...

[@aprilpinketon2567]

At least this mom said sorry. I hope that was a genuine apology and they can fix it.

[@444clockit]

I don’t think the mom did anything wrong. If you 15 & you going to see a boy your parents need to know, you shouldn’t be acting sneaky you ain’t grown! Especially if the boy is your homegirl brother, y’all crazy. You can be intelligent but as a child if you doing stuff like that it’s wrong period. I feel like the mother was gas lighted

[@Kaylee563]

Me too because not only that. She was on FaceTime changing in front of the boy. They definitely gaslighted the mom for sure. She know because she was a teen once and probably was doing the exact same thing. They keep saying “oh she needs to loosen up because it’s her past trauma or mistakes” but come on if I see my daughter doing stuff that I did causing bigger mistakes I’m going to stop her. They FOR SURE gaslighted her smh

[@tharealmyashacole_]

I understand where she’s coming from especially with the favoritism bc my mom treats me like I’m the worst daughter on the planet and she says things that hurts my feelings but she wants to have a good relationship with me just cause she didn’t heal from her past trauma and triggers didn’t mean she had to treat me different and my brother is also the favorite child and I go through alot at home more than my brother does can’t even talk to my mom without making excuses or she feels like im trying to start an argument with her so I just talk to god cause he’s the only one that hears me fr and understand me why I am the way I am

[@Kaylee563]

Aaaww I’m so sorry 😢 I wish I could give you a hug right now 🫶🏽

[@tharealmyashacole_]

@@Kaylee563thank you 🤎

[@nonibandz]

this episode made me cry like the mama, huffing and puffing ! damn theyre such and amazing mom and daughter, i hope they both find the strength and will to communicate with one another properly❤

[@anitamariajones1864]

She's a typical teenager, obviously mom and dad has done a great job so far, mom needs to trust the daughter more

[@Vivienne_1]

If you think this is “normal teenage behaviour” it’s very telling of how you were like in your teenage years 🤢

[@skyedavie3927]

This is why it’s so important to have open dialogue with your children. That they can trust you, and come too you for anything! I snuck around my own mom a lot! I felt like I couldn’t speak to her about regular teen things.

[@user-Tina8462]

She is a good kid. The mom is just being an over protective mom. As a mother we have to give our children grace. Tell what they do right before you start on them about doing wrong. Acknowledge their growth and grow with them. You can't tell them who to be around, tell them how you feel and pray you taught them well. My son had a friend i didn't want him around. I didn't tell him I didn't want him with him. I told my son what was expected out of him. As they got older they difted a part. My son even talks to me about why he doesn't like hanging with him now.

[@SuperLadysiren]

I think the mom is a littke too strict on her daughter

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

Wasn’t her daughter changing on FaceTime???

[@opulence_prime]

Strict in the wrong ways. Cus a navel piercing under 18? Nah. I’m not surprised she has boys watching her change on FT or she has half naked boys in her room.

[@SuperLadysiren]

@Lenasevilla-yb4ei ok then that's a whole different situation to deal with but if your kid has no kind of social life outside of the family and household don't feel bad when she can't do for herself

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

@@SuperLadysiren being naked on FaceTime and having a shirtless boy in your room don’t get you a pass. Thank god for my parents lord thank god…because I don’t know who raised yall and who yall are raising. Too busy trying to be these kids friends smh.

[@SuperLadysiren]

@Lenasevilla-yb4ei I didn't say it was a pass. But if that's all she has done and once why is she getting treated like a repeating offender. 🤔 like seriously you act like she's out here fucking and sucking which she probably isn't but trying to be her own person seperatfrom her mother. Honestly instead of her mother calling her a hoe or a slut she should be talking to her about teen pregnancy not comparing her to an 8year old boy

[@l_ric]

She’s a great mother ❤

[@fatimasg1]

They look exactly alike! I hope they continue to workout their differences.

[@damianu4082]

Nola is an amazing and respectful teen and that is all Bianca needs to know. She's got to learn to be measured in her approach and wise with words, cos these are the peak years that shapes their future. I wish both of them the best. Thank you for teaching us how to heal and grow... Amazing episode!! #KaramoShow #HealingAndGrowing

[@gift2622]

Awwwww this is among my best episodes ❤I understand where the parent is coming from and I also understand her daughter and they are both so respectful to each other ❤

[@rhodiahicks4459]

Big sister teasing little brother and become traumatic for little brother y’all can’t brush everything under the rug she can be a good kid but her actions are inappropriate for her age period

[@helpkelp3595]

Do you have siblings? Siblings do that all the time thats completely normal especially considering the age difference, again is it right? No, but its not that bad

[@rhodiahicks4459]

@@helpkelp3595 yes I have older brothers. Who yes did what sibiling do but also never traumatized me. I knew they love and cared for me.

[@sharonwhitehead1276]

Parents never called your children names. Those words will stay with a child. As parents, we can kiss our children more often and say we love them. When we discipline them, they know it comes from love.

[@olurotimijejeloye311]

Please cry me a river… a little discipline, suddenly they feel pressured… we always making excuses for kids and that’s why they grow up to have no respect… I didn’t see the child taking responsibility of what she did, why will you bully your own brother, saying he is weird …. I really don’t agree with this and they are just laying a trap for this child in the future because the world out here don’t give 2F’s about your feelings

[@okonkwoifunanya9029]

I agree

[@kaaaylah3265]

The world don’t but that’s why parents should .. like why wouldn’t want to be your child’s safe space ?? The problem isn’t discipline it’s the mom verbally breaking her daughter down she’s resentful towards her brother because of the mother she’s a child she doesn’t understand why she dislikes him that’s why she only uses the word weird ..

[@miekaxiii]

Mom makes her not care because moms not trusting who she is… trust the daughter you raised lady!! She’s so beautiful. Mom will see a different side if she expects the best from her daughter

[@amiblu2u648]

There are MANY questionable parents that grace this stage, so seeing these two is such a breath of fresh air. Keep communicating and y’all will be alright❤

[@ameliatalks123]

I ain’t never cried from watching an episode this much! Lord Karamo, Great episode!!!!!

[@DG-jm6wm]

Her to think like that about her brother is crazy. She labels her brother what society thinks of him. He’s “weird” and not “popular”. Who says that about their blood brother? Yes, he can be weird in your eyes as a little brother, but don't call him weird because that is what society thinks of him because doesn't meet the popularity standard. He should've corrected her on that.

[@Kaylee563]

EXACTLY!

[@Kaylee563]

Mind you he’s probably already bullied in school and then coming home and dealing with be picked on by big sis is just sad asf

[@msanaiyaunique3372]

Karamo did nun to help guide the teen and instead make excuses for her fast behabior. The mother is trying to save her child from the path she went down and yes her word choices couldve been better but The daughter actions isnt good. I hope the parents reinforce punishments or she will continue

[@DG-jm6wm]

That is because this new generation is all about being your child's friend and gentle parenting. It's no discipline and rules! I noticed that on his shows he always excuses the child's behavior and tries to make it seem like the child going through a mental issue and anxiety. Kids like to run that, so they continue their behavior.

[@melanier7309]

The child that's put on a pedestal is the one who neglects their parents when they're elderly.

[@mariaSanchez-ub7ds]

these kids today live like you owe them something and lack accountability and walk around like woe is me, and always disrespectful. this child is 15 with a boy in her room with no shirt and ppl actually defending this lmaoooooo the mom is doing the best she can and is far nice then the mothers I've seen on here before u can tell she loves her and care, not saying she's right about everything. but on the good side they both are mature and have time to grow, theyll be alright!

[@globalprincess5471]

I'm not trying to be perfect but teasing someone can really break their spirit, I I'm not saying she's trying to break him but if he's being teased in school and then being teased at home it can really hurt them. Hoping the best for her and her mom

[@CoconutIsle]

The Daughter is Beautiful inside and out!

[@tiara891ify]

Mom is nowhere near strict

[@Hii.missworthy]

Mom’s a joke, she’ll lose her daughter completely at 18. Hopefully she sees this and is disgusted with herself

[@Kaylee563]

Hopefully the daughter won’t be pregnant by 16 smh the way she’s moving

[@QueenRoberts]

My mom use to do that all the time until she realized I moved out

[@naomiv7133]

Did anybody miss BOY IN BEDROOM SHIRT OFF????? nah that's not ok or being a great kid

[@ChijiokeObidozie]

Let’s talk about that and let her know it isn’t proper behaviour

[@ddolcee]

girls like boys. boys like girls. they do inappropriate things sometimes and it happens. she already got in trouble for that. that doesn’t take away from her respect, her intelligence, her beauty. everyone makes mistakes in life. she could have been sending pictures back to the boys sending them to her and she could have been pregnant already. but she didn’t and she’s not. she’s trying while also growing. and her mother is trying as well. she’ll be just fine.

[@shawn6618]

After we talk about that, let's talk about the fact that mom's dropping you off at dude house.... Girl , Hell Nawh!

[@ChantaiCPT]

It's not great behavior, but it's normal behavior for a kid going through puberty. Whether right or wrong as a parent, you need to speak to your child with compassion. And never call her names. The same parents slut shaming were wild as fuck in their youth.

[@markeetarayford8885]

That’s what I’m talking about.

[@AmLetoure]

I wish ALL parents were mandated to take human development courses.

[@sharonorajekwe9569]

That is an intelligent young lady! And she has a great mom, wish them both the best❤

[@ruththole-zl7sw]

This was amazing 😍 good job mom and what a beautiful and respectful daughter you have 🙏🙏

[@sanimash8073]

This was beautiful 😢❤

[@aprilpinketon2567]

You never call your young daughter(s) derogatory names like that! Then try to excuse it or justify it by saying you didn't call her that directly! That's disgusting! Don't call your kids names period! You can break your young daughter's self-esteem! She's lying bc you're forcing her to. This is one of the better young ladies I've seen on this show! As I was writing this comment Karamo said the words I was typing about what an exceptional young lady this girl is!

[@erinamare_]

this is literally me, i am 14 year old girl who have this same problem with my mother and my father.

[@itsyagirlbluee7841]

This is a example of a mother putting too much pressure on their daughters 🙄🤣🥱

[@nicoleraheem1195]

3:02 So the producers in won't tell you if your eyelash is falling off?

[@itsdriaworld5165]

Why hasn’t karmo talked about the daughter action?

[@ZoraVada-kn7tv]

This mother is trying to teach her daughter how not to be a slut in the streets and not to become a teen mom. I hate how we normalize this as "teen behavior." It is problematic behavior. The fact that the mother went through these experiences gives her insight to see the path that her daughter is on is detrimental. The daughter having an " i don't care" attitude was not addessed and Karamo should have pointed out that her mom is just wanting the best for her and once she gets older and becomes a mom herself, she will see why her mom tried so hard with her. I dont like how Karamo was so much on the 15 year old girls side making it seem like what the 15 year old is doing is not wrong. Parenting is about guidance, and the mother is trying to guide her. The daughter is not listening, and Karamo reinforced negative behavior in this child. Remember, she is still a child.

[@user-vq7sf5zh2k]

But her mother is guiding her using harsh bullshit that the daughter doesn’t deserve. Being “hard” on her won’t help, and it’ll make things worse.

[@ZoraVada-kn7tv]

@user-vq7sf5zh2k I don't agree with the mother calling the daughter out of her name, by the way. But yes, you are right. The point of them going on Karamo was so that Karamo could give productive ways to nip her behavior in the bud, but all he did was reinforce her behavior as "normal."

[@sydnitaylor3249]

Are yall missing the poing that this child is bringing GROWN MEN IN HER FATHER'S HOME AND HAVE BEEN CLOTHELESS?! YALL NEDD TO GET A DAMN CLUE! US PARENTS ARE NOT YOUR BANK ACCOUNTS AND WE ARE NOTTTT YOUR DOORMATS! And if you treat your parents as such? SHAME ON YOU! "Honor your father and your mother. That your days may be long. I disrespected my mother at a young age and she died while i was still being rebellious at 19 years old. I WAS LOST WITHOUT HER! Everything she tried so hard to get me to understand as a teen that i rolled my eyes at?? I look back on that and im STILL Apologizing to my dead mother 7 years snd 4 children later. I AM SORRY! FOR WHAT I PUT MY MOTHER THROUGH!! WHHEEEW!!

[@y.a.d2174]

IM NOT A GROWN MAN IM 15 N MY SHIRT WAS OFF OTP I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN HER HOUSE YET WDF U TALKIN BOUT

[@miriamhector6809]

she is so pretty i hope she keep her head up and be what she want to be i can see she have great things ahead

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

I’m 57 and my Mother is 80-something and what that young woman is saying is absolute truth. My Mother and I have stopped speaking because she won’t take nor own accountability for how she has hurt me from decades ago. No…I don’t want anything from her now because it won’t be genuine.