Mom vs. Dad New Year's Resolutions

Heidi and I go over our New Year's resolutions which include tattoos, getting the snip, and "healing"!
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Hi! I'm Taylor Calmus, a Colorado-based actor/comedian. I started Dude Dad© two weeks before my son Theo was born as a way to stay creative while learning to be a father. My wife Heidi and I now have 3 kids and over 300+ videos. My purpose for the channel is to entertain, enlighten and inspire.
In addition to Dude Dad©, I have been in numerous TV shows, commercials, and have regular appearances on Jimmy Kimmel Live. I will also be hosting my own TV show called "Super Dad" on the new Magnolia Network / Discovery+. Heidi and the kids will also be a part of the show. I am originally from the rural community of Howard, South Dakota.
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[@autumnjerene]

Keep the tattoo as is. Hubby has some from his teen years as well. When the kids ask what it is, he tells them it's proof that at one point, he had more dollars than sense. It's a teaching moment.

[@slaglethorpe]

100% get a half sleeve or a full sleeve. And what tattoos you should get, make them your kid's artwork. Either use your favorite ones your kids created already, or ask them to make your tattoos. By far the coolest ones I found.

[@YoMama9021]

I disagree. Sleeves are awesome

[@YoMama9021]

He just said he doesn’t like it, dork

[@LookingForwardToChristsReturn]

Maybe he could make the tattoo into a family vine

[@caitlync.]

The "one on one time with the kids" is a great resolution! You're right, they're always better behaved by themselves rather than in the "flock" 😂 And it really does allow you to step back and see who they are ❤

[@suzannehribal4117]

Dates with your kids is so important. I didn’t do this nearly enough. And when you do, you’ll show your sons how to treat someone else they’re with, your daughter how she should be treated, you’ll give them a safe space to talk to you about what’s on their minds, and they will absolutely love you for the dedicated time. You two are very thoughtful of each other and the family as a whole. Really admire all you try to do. Taylor - talk with a tattoo artist about your concerns (find one recommended by someone you know with a tattoo you like) and figure out the options to maybe make your current one look better.

[@schulzfive]

My favorite as a mom of kiddos who have all reached 18 years old😢 - is the one on one time!!! My husband took our daughters on donut dates every Saturday until the flew the coop - actually, they still go when them come to visit. I think it’s the sweetest thing and I’m thankful for his feeding into their lives. ❤

[@fotochikyo]

So I thought I was done after my 4th pregnancy but now 4.5 years later I'm pregnant with my 5th and me and my husband and kids are all so excited to be adding to our family. So you never know, you may want another baby at some point.

[@darcistephenson5359]

Vasectomies can be reversed, so there is always that option.

[@glorygracek.1841]

That is very true! My childhood friends' parents had only wanted 2 children. Well, when I met them, they were about to have their 6th. I was about 3 years older than their oldest, so I really enjoyed the Littles as they came. They ended up having 11 children. Which was so much fun because the kiddos are trained and taught respect. A lot of people have 2 kids, and it can seem like 30 because of how they behave. 11 children really isn't that uncommon where I live though. And congratulations on welcoming your 5th bundle of love!

[@adamt4742]

@@glorygracek.1841 4th*

[@glorygracek.1841]

@Adam T she.said she's expecting her 5th, if that's what the 4th meant.

[@adamt4742]

@@glorygracek.1841 they have Theo, Juno, and Otto... what is the 4th kids name?

[@littlewhitedove12]

We had our first baby last year, and I've nursed her for almost a year. It's a huge time committment! Power to Heidi for doing that with all her kids so far. Thats incredible!

[@jadylake8200]

My baby is 1 month old and I'm breastfeeding but omg it's definitely not easy. It's exhausting and demanding. Like u said Heidi,u must be ever mindful of how u treat ur body, what u eat, how often/much u express etc etc and I'm proud to breastfeed but cudos to u for being selfless enough to do it for so long lol I know it isn't easy! Idk if I could handle doing it that long so I admire ur selflessness and amazing motherly commitment

[@jayaom4946]

He tells Heidi "don't do it like that, it's so casual" but he pulls out a pair of giant kitchen scissors to talk about vasectomy! 😮😆

[@michaelivanlee8580]

Keep the tattoo. Crown of thorns and cross has a meaning that you chose and is honorable. If someone asks about it being a barbed wire, you have an opportunity to share with them what it is and what it means to you. Glad to see how God is continuing to bless you and your family. Keep up the great work.

[@Matilda_King]

I’d imagine a tattoo artist could come up with a creative way to make your current tattoo something that better reflects who you are now without committing to an entire sleeve. Removal is always an option, but it could be fun to add or alter it to align more with Dude Dad Taylor. Let it grow with you rather than cover or remove

[@JoyWillCome]

A MOPs (mother of preschoolers) group would be great! I was hesitant to join but it was amazing meeting other Christian moms who were going though the same things as me and they're also a lot of fun.

[@CheleBoxy]

EXCELLENT ADVICE!

[@alisajoseph1585]

I loved my MOPS time with each of my kids.

[@kelleykramer1270]

Yes MOPs! It’s for mothers who are expecting thru kindergarten age children. Such a great way to meet other women in your community.

[@debbie1966]

I went to a MOPS group at my church 20 years ago. Heidi would probably love it!

[@barbshircel9154]

I completely agree. I met some amazing moms through MOPS and we have continued to hang out and support one another as our kids have moved through grade school, middle school and now high school. It started at the meetings, moved to continuing the meeting to a lunch at someone's house or McDonalds with the kids and Play area.... and maybe going to a park and then started planning some ladies dinners, movie nights, couple dinners, camping weekends..... It has been great. It is so needed to have the friendships, the laughs as well as the support during hard times.

[@vanessahennessey1875]

We thought we were done after 4 and got a surprise 5th. Loved her and love our big family. Never not wanted just not planned by us but definitely a gift

[@katkaplan3]

I love Heidi’s self care ideas. Weather you’re postpartum or dealing with three teenagers, take time for you, skip laundry one day etc, get your nails done, a massage, Netflix all day etc. be kind to you. Raising kids is exhausting. Mental and physical.

[@lizkasper]

It's so fun to see how much you love your kids and your family. You seem like wonderful parents curating a great family.

[@chadbaxter5578]

Taylor, you know what your tattoo represents. You understand the meaning of it and why you did it. Keep it for you. Don’t change it for other people. Be you. Hope this helps.

[@sarapohl742]

I was another who was surprised to learn the tattoo is supposed to be thorns and not barbed wire. A consultation with a tattoo artist to see what can be done with the existing would be my recommendation. Since you brought up family planning, what influences your family planning decisions and why. I know you'll receive several viewpoints, but I think it would be interesting to learn how you two reached a decision and why.

[@sarah-phillips]

Love one on one time with each kid! I love when my husband and I can have time with each kid, but then each of us by ourselves with each kid. They need that time for sure! And honestly, we do, too.

[@icedtea4me575]

I support keeping the tattoo as is and 5 kids.😊

[@lesliedeptowicz6603]

Heidi I’m just south of FOCO. The museum of discovery is always a fun place to take the kids and just let them explore. My kiddos are turning 5 and 2 this spring.

[@Brea890]

I vote no on the sleeve 😂 if you don’t like the one you have now you won’t like the sleeve 20+ years from now

[@JulietteSasek]

I agree with this.

[@ryansantiago941]

I would at least cover up the bad tattoo with something better

[@lauranlabelle6239]

I recommend having a new crown of thorns tatted on top of it! One that actually looks like thorns and not barbed wire. But yeah, I don't recommend the full sleeve...

[@gloriaidler1491]

I say no to the sleeve.

[@nicolemyers4584]

Absolutely no on the sleeve. I’m a 34 year old woman with six kids, I would not be happy if my husband decided to do that. It feels very juvenile. You look great the way you are.

[@shilohmjh7628]

I don’t do resolutions, but I try to focus on character qualities. This year is gratitude and deeper prayer life. ❤️

[@taylorparker3356]

Enjoyed the sincerity and the way you guys communicate! Thanks for the video!

[@lindsays8938]

Oh, my husband and I love your channel! We were so excited when you moved to Colorado! We are about two hours from you (if there is little traffic) We also have 5 little kiddos. Your family is so sweet and keeps us laughing!

[@amyandersen4419]

You two make me feel normal. 😂 We have 4 kids, my husband does NOT regret getting snipped. We also have 1 girl and 3 boys. Heidi, I hope your pregnancy continues smoothly. Along with your next BF journey. Congratulations on your beautiful family! Hoping for a great year of blessings!

[@Truth_Always_Wins_7]

No sleeve! Love you guys ❤

[@adairhenman2771]

All of a baby's progress is bittersweet when you know it's your last, so I love Heidi's goal of savoring it. Soaking up those snuggles is also easier when you know it's your last baby, even when the other kids keep you busy

[@cheshirelandry]

Heidi - as far as meeting parents in town: my youngest was born in 2020 and doing the normal Fort Collins baby/toddler activities were stripped away. I found most of my parent friends were found randomly at parks around town or doing the toddler classes at places like mountain kids or clothes pony and dandelion story time were great. Hard to meet at the local parks right now with the weather (even though it was 50 the other day hah) but my favorite parks for my 4 year old and 2 year old are: spring canyon, twin silos, Lee Martinez,and sugar beet parks. You should look into the toddler gymnastics class at mountain kids if you haven’t already that was a great one. I did it with my toddler when I was pregnant too!

[@belindahugheslifestyle]

I love-love-love your transparency and sincerity, Heidi and Taylor - and your tips and humor! Being single, childless and tat-less, I guess I'll take Heidi's tip of taking care of yourself. Stay safe and have a super year! 💙💛💖

[@jenniferbush41]

I was the youngest of 4 kids & the best memory I have of my dad growing up is him taking just me to dinner & then Putt Putt (early 80's). He passed when I was 33, so it's really special to have that memory of my one on one daddy time!

[@homethatilove4595]

Great goals Heidi! Breastfeeding is best 😊 & enjoying every moment of every child, especially the Finale baby (or baby 4 of 5).

[@yvetteerger6245]

Heidi! I live in northern Colorado also and am a mom of 5! I absolutely love watching your videos. My favorite is when you tell people you're pregnant with #4, priceless and sooooo true! now try that with number 5 haha. I've also nursed all 5 of my beebs past the year and it was amazing. It is hard work and totally a full time job, but the benefits are awesome. I love them being 1 yr old and still asking to be picked up to nurse and snuggle. AND YES, PLEASE PRIORITIZE POST PARTUM CARE!! The wound left behind from the placenta is the size of a DINNER PLATE! Im Mexican and my mama forces me to do as little and lift only the newborn for 40 days after birth to avoid my wound from tearing again. I listen because come on, its 40 days of snuggles and no work haha. Please reach out! I am apart of an awesome momma group where we are super chill and let the kids run around while we sit back and hang! We would love to have you!

[@ninjasmuffin]

I’ve been following along with your pregnancy. I’m 28 weeks and my water broke so I am having to stay in the hospital till delivery. I hope you have a healthy and uneventful pregnancy, Heidi!

[@omalley5]

God bless your delivery and give you peace and ease

[@darcistephenson5359]

I hope you and your baby are safe!

[@amandalynch9567]

Praying for you and your little one!

[@SRose-vp6ew]

My water broke early with my daughter. I’m sure you have an IV, but if not, stay hydrated and remember even foods can relax and strengthen the body. It was suggested that I avoid too many germ inducing checks. I know doctors opinions vary on this so do your own research and be an advocate for what you feel is best. 💕 praying for the both of you. I picture you at peace relaxing having a bowl of chicken soup and just working on the baby book. Ask the nurse after birth to put a footprint in it for you they are experts at that. Father God I pray that you bring peace, good health, blessing to this mother and her little one may they grow closer to you during this time and always. Amen

[@ninjasmuffin]

@@SRose-vp6ew thank you! God is good and Sovereign!

[@hairpott918]

Although the wound is placenta sized right after birth, it shrinks as the uterus deflates. So after a week or two, it should become really small! Hopefully that helps you feel better ❤️

[@timbo21]

So crazy. We moved out to Northern Colorado around the same time you all did, also with two small children, during COVID. It/has been a struggle but we were determined to keep busy with hiking around the Rockies, bike rides, and fishing. Lots of neat places to visit near Loveland and Fort Collins. My advice is to keep exploring and see what comes of it. I even bought a dirt bike to really poke out into the back country and it's been amazing.

[@potatorae8624]

“I don’t have a lot of photos of Otto” the middle child syndrome begins 😂

[@kennedyflint6140]

Hey guys! I'm a big fan of your channel! im a Christian tattoo apprentice! my advice for clients or anyone considering in getting a tattoo (wether that be a sleeve or not ) keep a few things into consideration; - Think on it for awhile. Timeframe wise, I'd say couple months to a year and reflect on the design and see if your feelings about it change or not. There's no deadline for you to make a decision, take as long as you need! - Style The most common is American traditional patchwork, but there's also Japanese, realism etc. (not going to list all of them) There are also different sleeve lengths, so you don't necessarily need to have a full arm. You could probably cover that up with a quarter or half sleeve. - Color or no color - wardrobe ( if your considering color) If your worried about colors clashing Sleeves take a lot of very careful planning, but if your able to find a reputable artist to Collab with I'd just send them what you do and don't like so that helps on the artists side. There's no rush with tattoos, if you are having second guesses just let your artist know; don't be afraid of hurting our feelings, because at the end of the day we just want to give you something to be proud of and love. If you still think about getting a sleeve later though I've seen a lot of beautiful biblical realism sleeves I think you'd like. God bless you and your family! 🙏🏻 :)

[@juliecoop]

Remove it! Imagine getting tired of the sleeve. But go you, whatever you do!!

[@jamiecarnahan-bearcreekdan1014]

We call our last little guy our "grande finale" too. When you know its the last one, I assure you that you will savor it. It's so bittersweet but so awesome too! Wishing your family all the best things always. I've enjoyed watching your journey. If we lived closer I would love that mommy hang! Heidi, see if there's a local MOMS Club chapter near you. They do just that. It saved me when I had my first.

[@guogaibnu]

Vote for the scissors! Have to say I'm very impressed about Taylor on this one. Most men push the burden of birth control to women. Thank you for taking the lead, Taylor!!!

[@beccaolivere6534]

You can cover the tattoo or redesign the tattoo without doing a whole sleeve. You could also do the tattoo going up into your shoulder as opposed to going down your arm. I got tattoos when I was younger and hated them. It took me about 10 years to figure out what I wanted to cover them with and I absolutely love the cover ups. You know how much the cover up will cost, with removal, you don't know how many sessions you'll need or what the end result will be and it could end up looking worse. Talk with a good artist, they should be able to help guide you.

[@judymcpheron5955]

We love your family & personalities. Praying for your divine guidance on deciding on #5 or not. Blessings for a happy New Year full of joyous moments. 💖🤗💖 from MI.

[@RissaRoo-ec2ge]

Yes to the sleeve! Tattoo removal would suck so much just cover it up! I am also breastfeeding with my first baby and my goal is 6 months and then pumping when we start baby food ❤️ love that H is so open about her breastfeeding journey

[@denisehelbing96]

I love watching you too. You both are such great parents. God bless you and happy new year!

[@tiffanyclayton1310]

I’m all for one on one time with kids. That way each kid can feel like they’re not competing for your attention and the time is so special for them as a memory down the road.

[@mamadukes1438]

I spit out my coffee laughing when Taylor said he wanted to get snipped lol.... Taylor I say keep the tattoo just give it an update refresh the design and colors.

[@nicolebeck591]

Love the crown of thorns idea! How great is that! Matching sleeves all the way! No resolution here.

[@aliciarobertson8187]

Make the tattoo who you are now as well as back then. Take your time and make it the best tattoo ever! I actually don’t do resolution’s. I make goals for me and my family all year long! It’s usually small goals I know I can accomplish 😊

[@mishaanderson7690]

One on one time with the kids is so important! I remember after birthdays our mom would take us out individually to go out for lunch and go shopping to spend all the birthday money. And then on our half birthday that was when dad would take us out on a father daughter date for dinner and an activity of the child’s choice. Such fond memories!

[@hannahstewart9898]

I also want to soak up all the moments with this baby due in June but it's tough with our three little boys and home to care for. Also, MOPs has been a big blessing for me!

[@ashleyweiland8295]

As a mom of 3, also going through postpartum, this was so relatable to me! I enjoy these videos! Keep it up!

[@janaeradack3865]

Definitely agree that the mommy groups or family groups are key and help you reach out in your community. Two groups I found in my home town were MOPS Mom of Preschoolers, it's like a Bible study group, and allows you to fellowship and celebrate motherhood. The other is NEM No Excuse Moms Workout Group, I love it because not only do we meet for workouts with our kids in a kid friendly environment, but we also do more. Playdates, walks, book Club meetings, mom night outs/ins etc. It's really fun and we get to know each other and expand your inner community to raise these kids. Totally know they have groups across the country, definitely recommend looking into something like those. 😊

[@Inspiringami]

Ooo the bit about one on one time with each kid ❤ I feel that one deeply. Thanks for sharing

[@jonathanandgabrielsovereig5051]

Dive into the research on the negative health impacts of tattoos. There are some pretty good reasons to avoid getting them and if you already have them removing them can be even worse. Obviously do what you think is best, but I had no idea how much harm tattoos can do to our bodies until the last few years.

[@terrandean9369]

On that same note, while discussing your options, please also check out research the links between vasectomies and prostate cancer.

[@jonathanandgabrielsovereig5051]

@@terrandean9369 yeah so many issues with that too sadly. I had no idea until last year how many long term/future issues a vasectomy can cause. :(

[@katysudlow7334]

@@terrandean9369 glad someone brought these up. :) They also don't always work long term (some people actually have multiple pregnancies after!). 😶 I feel like it's just a way God is in control and we try to be but we're really not. But yes the health side effects aren't so great!

[@janaiolson2948]

My dad always spent one on one time with each of us kids and I cannot tell you how much those memories mean to me. I'm one of 6 kids but he managed to make each one of us felt individual and important. Now I'm about to have my first and because of this plan to do the same with my kids.

[@BunsenHoneydew001]

I love that Taylor is totally open to vasectomy. It's much easier and healthier for him to get that done than for Heidi to have her tubes tied. It's very hard to decide whether or not to have any more children because it's so final, but maybe pray on it together for God's guidance. Best wishes to you beautiful people for a wonderful 2023 🙏❤️

[@jengentry06]

Wonderful advice! It is a difficult decision that, even once prayed through, may still leave you with occasional regrets or remorse pangs about later. Here's where babysitting for friends and family comes in handy. You get the baby snuggles without having to get up in the middle of the night. ;-)

[@pamelapilling6996]

Excellent plans Taylor and Heidi. Happy New Year 🎊

[@kristenbrissey8437]

I'm currently pregnant with baby #4 too! We're due on July and done a after this one. Husband wanted to get snipped as soon as we found out we were pregnant but I'm making him wait until after the baby is born too. Lol. Heidi, if you lived in FL or I lived in CO I would love to hang out! As a mom of 3 boys (we'll see what #4 is soon) I can totally relate. I need to read that boy mom book.

[@sharonmortimer3843]

You two are fun to watch. Happy New Year

[@EarthAngel88856]

Definitely the sleeve!! This is coming from someone who got a tattoo at 18 not really having the wisdom I do now. You are both awesome and hope you and your family has a healthy and happy 2023!

[@bc8351]

Heidi, I would hang with you! But I live in Washington. Taylor, I vote to just live with the tat you have. It doesn't sound like you super hate it, more like maybe you've grown tired of it or people's reactions to it. I have a small tat (and two others, with plans for another) that I would like to have sort of changed to more accurately represent what it actually is, so I get it. But I think in your case the sleeve or the removal, neither are a great option. I know this is super personal, but since you put it out there I also want to weigh in on the scissors! Don't do it! There are other ways to keep your family the size that it is, if that is what you want (we use a cycle tracking app called Clue). We have six kids, and love every minute of it! That's just my two cents. Love watching you guys! Thanks for sharing your lives with us!

[@robinnelson4516]

Live so many of them. Especially the one on one time. So important in every family.

[@RebelAlliance42]

Do a sleeve, I have my whole left arm done, and it's beautiful. Just make sure you go to the best tattooist and don't be cheap. A really good tattooist won't do it in one day, I'm not sure exactly how long mine took, but it was months, my back took another 6 months, and it cost me thousands, but oh my word it is so incredibly worth it, the work is phenomenal, and you will not regret it!

[@jengentry06]

No sleeve, keep the tattoo you have. As others have said, it's a teaching moment. Our daughter wanted (and got) a tattoo and one of the drawbacks I warned her about was that it won't look the same when she ages 20+ years and her skin isn't as smooth as it is now (it's on her wrist and forearm). Always reminds me of the jail scene in "Moms' Night Out" when the daughter sees Patricia Heaton's character's Donny Osmond tattoo and is horrified. "Is that a face?!" And then her response when daughter swears off tattoos, "Thank You Jesus, thank you Donny." Makes me laugh every time.

[@staceykazakoff-eigen3482]

I'm so happy to hear your breastfeeding goal! I haven been BFing for 9 years now and I'm working up to a full 10. Go Heidi! Whatever is best for you, do THAT

[@ritam8712]

yeaaahhh get the matching sleeve tattoos!!!! For this new year, I have decided to do short monthly goals so that I can ACTUALLY do them and make them vague, so, If I only started those goals, but didn't finish, then I won't feel like a complete failure. And if I do them, then I'll feel great because I finished a goal.

[@lisanagtegaal1736]

I chuckle at your commitment to taking more photos of your fourth. We have 4 kids, all two years apart, and I was worried, as well, of not taking enough pictures of our 4th. Problem was, I was snapping them so often because I was too busy to remember if I had taken some or not. (First 3 years of her life was prior to digital) She has, by far, the most baby pictures 😂 BTW, our four kids were busy but beyond worth it and the baby stage got easier with each one.

[@maryg6742]

LOVE that it's vasectomy! You would be amazed how many couples I know don't even consider it an option, but WILL talk about a hysterectomy - as if mom needs a major surgery on top of one or more pregnancies!

[@katwat2653]

I love Hedi wants to connect with more moms. Join mops or group that meets at the trampoline park!!!

[@milesharlan1]

Thank You two. You bring fun & laughs to KZbin with your channel!! I was looking at your tool belt. LOOKING PRETTY new & unused? I bought one similar from Perkins Builder Brothers. Keep Up The Good Work & keep the laughter coming!!

[@smadaaub]

Get the sleeve!

[@emchadwick8342]

Heidi, you might look into getting involved in a local MOPS group (Mothers of Preschoolers). They often have amazing opportunities to connect with others (and often have childcare too. 😉)

[@tinaperez7393]

Don't forget to use Audible to help listen to books too. Some other great books - - Crucial Conversations - The Four Habits of a Joy Filled Marriage - communication books by Ross Petras, and Erika Dhawan (separate authors).

[@sweetmandykay4397]

Mom of 4 boys - I can relate to SO much! We live in the Springs or I'd meet up with you since we really do have a lot in common. ❤️ Your priorities are spot on for the New Year and I'm excited for what's coming for you this year. Welcoming out 4th home was a whole different experience because our oldest responded differently than they had when they were all younger. So MUCH love! One thing you might consider getting and making room for is a second refrigerator. Once #4 starts eating soilds, our one refrigerator wasn't enough space. Our youngest is now 2 and the second fridge saved my mental health (I hated shopping every week)

[@christaehrstein]

Taylor, have you considered refreshing your existing tattoo before getting a sleeve?

[@aprilmcmillan77]

I agree! Maybe there is a way to give the existing tattoo a fresh way to convey the meaning behind the crown of thorns

[@OneDayAtATime1277]

I agree!!!

[@huuua2]

You got the ink. Own it dude! Getting the snip! Time for swim team retirement!! Haha hope you have a speedy recovery!! 🤕 Lovely goals! The both of you! GL!

[@Nunya920]

"I think we should see how this one goes" 😂😂😂 I love it, we could have made the same clip (#5 due next month)

[@annwhale4418]

Heidi, I found a M.OP.S ( mothers of preschoolers) group a good way to meet and connect with other moms. These groups often meet in churches so I want to encourage you to ask around. (By the way, the kids are busy with activities while you’re in your mops group.)

[@Sunshine6Lemons]

Heidi! How do you find time to pump with the kids running around? What’s your routine?

[@jaylenepedersen2378]

I love that you talked about being more positive about your postpartum body. I’m going to embrace the sith side of me now since my stomach looks like Darth Sidius’s forehead after having my 3 kids🫣

[@Kasumistern]

Breastfeeding IS a fulltime job! 100% agreed. I tracked the hours and I spent more hours daily with feeding my newborn than I usually spent at the office. Also the whole "maintenance" (taking care of your diet, your nipples, taking your supplements because you're low on iron, etc etc).

[@jennyp7936]

Ah I love all of these resolutions. Sorry, I can relate with Heidi more haha I just had a baby and I def need to give myself grace and find some mommy friends lol. Also, so true! The one on one time with the kiddos is so important 😊

[@4everyoung24]

Seriously, if you’re done with having kids the vasectomy is the best thing ever. Just psychological aspect of not worrying about pregnancy is so liberating!

[@Daisy_White05]

Thanks for reminding us to savour the time with our littles ones/ our family… my baby #5 is turning 16 months this month and I can’t believe that he is so big and already walking… wish he would sleep more… but yes, I am definitely want to enjoy more precious moments with my beloved ones

[@phunter198142069]

The flock, hahahaha I refer to our four kids as a pack. Such as a pack of wolves.

[@faithselleck5703]

Have Heidi look into a local MOPS group. Moms of Preschoolers. I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old and that’s where I initially met new mom friends. Also, if you’re able to sign your kids up for rec center classes that’s where I have met a lot of moms too. Or if you ever come to Summit County CO to ski (that’s where my family lives) we can all hang out at the mountain! We need some families to come and take turns watching the kids while my husband and I snowboard 😊😂

[@Sidtrav2017]

I feel you on the mom thing! I have a 5 year old girl and my husband and I literally moved to Loveland CO last month and we have zero friends here. Our daughter doesn’t have anyone to play with yet since she does start school until this year and we’ve been on the hunt for neighbors with kids 😅 it’s difficult being 28 with a 5 year old too because everyone is slightly older. We should have moved up the street to Fort Collins. Seems to be more family friendly than Loveland. Fingers crossed I can meet moms too 🤞 ❤

[@cindyclark1877]

I liked the one on one time with the kids. (Taylor) Expanding the network/finding out more about where you live. (Heidi)

[@amys684]

You two are so much fun! Love your content and your honesty. I’m on the other side of having raised three great kiddos, and am now an empty nester, so I can’t stress enough the importance of savoring every moment. We would do date nights with each kid, and they were the best! Kids got to choose the place-so fun! A talented tattoo artist could make that crown of thorns into something else. Tattoo removal is ouchy😳.

[@VinnyVidiVintage]

Good ones. I like the idea of one on one time with each of the kids... and the wife.

[@WhoRU879]

The tattoo sleeve can be a great way to tell the story of your children. I have a nature scene on my right area (gave my right arm to my family) that has various animals that represent key members of my family. For example, there is a bear cub rolled on his back, playfully batting at a butterfly, to represent my son and daughter. There is a family of white tale dear for my father and brothers…my father’s initials worked into the antlers of one of the bucks. Find meaning in your ink, and when people ask about it, you have a cool story to tell. Good luck!

[@WhoRU879]

@dudedad4244 happy to help you think through ideas.

[@LeaHartmann]

Gotta go with a sleeve, but keep the tat you already have. Every tat I have represents something to me, whether it’s a time in my life, a specific person or place, or something about me...even the one that isn't actually what it's supposed to be. I was told that it's the Japanese word "Love", but years later a Japanese lady I was close to told me that it's not a Japanese or Chinese word or symbol at all. But, it still represents a certain time in my life. They all tell a part of my story in one way or another.

[@audreykohler9054]

Why stop at 4? Once the oldest is big enough to make PBJs for everyone, things get so much easier. My oldest is 6 and it is a HUGE upgrade in helpfulness from age 5. She is incredibly helpful with the baby (now almost 15 months). We want 5 or so kids (once you’ve had 3, adding more isn’t as much of an impact-so we’ve been told by a family with 8 kids).

[@garfieldgrl1]

I’m totally in for the sleeve! But in a little partial because that’s my goal this year too. To finish my sleeve. 😂

[@jwilmer8074]

I hear you about savouring your memories. My first son has 3 albums of fabulous photos, my daughter has 1 album, my youngest son has a small booklet of 6 photos his godmother gave me as a christening gift for him. The rest of our photos are on a disc! Got videos that need converting from VHS!! Maybe future grandchildren will sort them out!?! X

[@bernadettemader9147]

Happy new year!!!! You two are so awesome!!!! A cover up on a tattoo that size is not going to be easy. Having it removed is painful and a loonnggg process. Talk to an tattoo artist and see what their ideas are.

[@anarchist_parable]

I love my tattoos. Seems like a lot of folks in the comments that just don't like tattoos. Every day that I look at them I appreciate them more. So it's up to you. A tattoo isn't a waste of money any more than any other self-care is and it lasts forever, if there's something that you really like why not?

[@daynahayes9692]

Heidi is GLOWING 👑🫄💃💎

[@aimstar11]

Heidi’s face when the scissors came out 😂😂😂

[@taylormaloney2621]

Heidi, I’ll hangout with you! I’m in FOCO and have a 3.5 year old! ☺️

[@jmassy86]

For the one on one time here is an idea. During the summer when school was out my day would pick one of three boys to take to breakfast. Early 90’s kid so about as cool as it could be. He’d sneak in around 6:30/7:00 and wake one of us up to go get breakfast at our local diner. One of my favorite childhood memories. Same waitress for years, always called her “the chocolate milk lady” between my brothers!

[@flacarada4232]

Love your videos! So do our kiddos! We have 8; four boys and four girls. The oldest is 22 and the youngest is 9. They don't stay little for long, so cherish every moment. And we have so much fun with them now that they are older, especially on yearly family vacations. We hope to go skiing in CO with them all next.

[@flacarada4232]

Thanks, but don't have Teleg.