Why do child marriages persist on Jakarta’s coast?

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@thelight25
@thelight25 27 күн бұрын
Pernikahan anak bukan solusi menghilangkan beban kemiskinan, justru memunculkan dan menimbulkan masalah baru, nambah beban ekonomi, secara mental belum siap, punya anak nambah beban ekonomi. Jadi orang tua jangan egois minta dibahagiakan tapi kebahagiaan anak dikorbankan padahal mereka gak pernah minta dilahirkan ke dunia ini dengan kondisi serba susah dan menderita hidup pas Pasan. Selama pernikahan anak dinormalisasi kemiskinan akan terus berlanjut
@shofiamanzalinifianza
@shofiamanzalinifianza 23 күн бұрын
Iya, jadi lingkaran setan malah. Sebel saya liat kasus begini. Jadi orang tua malah egois
@jorbokuentertainment3794
@jorbokuentertainment3794 18 күн бұрын
Betul bang disuruh anaknya cepat menikah biar menghilangkan beban keluarga padahal kalo nga mau punya beban ya jangan punya anak.
@ismipurisa
@ismipurisa 14 күн бұрын
Kemiskinan struktural menghasilkan SDM rendah - repeat - susah keluarnya kecuali ada keajaiban atau si anak punya pola pikir yang berbeda. Usaha keras pun belum cukup untuk keluar dari lingkaran setan tsb.
@sportsfansutah
@sportsfansutah 12 күн бұрын
Ameen, Ameen, Ameen. What you said is the truth.
@thishavenofeden2418
@thishavenofeden2418 27 күн бұрын
As a local, this hurts to see, it makes my blood boils of infact how many families have this mindset and standards.
@shofiamanzalinifianza
@shofiamanzalinifianza 23 күн бұрын
Same. The shit thing i never give tolerant for this kind people
@ПобедавРоссии
@ПобедавРоссии 19 күн бұрын
Open women markets in indonesia might help you guys prosper
@euntak3641
@euntak3641 18 күн бұрын
​@@ПобедавРоссии watch your words, please be more polite
@ismipurisa
@ismipurisa 14 күн бұрын
We have to blame the government, too.
@ПобедавРоссии
@ПобедавРоссии 14 күн бұрын
@@euntak3641 do i need to be polite to a two face country like Indonesia?
@Rchaud13
@Rchaud13 27 күн бұрын
Why do the parents blame their children for not making they proud, while viewing them as a burden? They put in so little effort in raising their child but expect so much in return
@maruko_8063
@maruko_8063 26 күн бұрын
Yakann kek heh lo tu nikahkan ank lo yg msh di bwh umur niat untuk ngurangin BEBAN ELO, TERUS LU MASIH NGAREPIN ANAKLO BAHAGIAIN ELO? ANJ BANGET KAN PEMIKIRAN ORANG TUA ITU
@arusirham3761
@arusirham3761 26 күн бұрын
Itulah Indonesia 🎵
@maruko_8063
@maruko_8063 26 күн бұрын
@arusirham3761 yakan harusny jd negara ter stress si ini😭 ortu bnyk nuntut tp gada fasilitasi apa apa anjir, kalo di korea mah banyak nuntut emng anknya cuma disuruh blajar doang kagak nyuruh kerjain kerjaan rumh, nambal genteng bocor bla bla bla😭
@MsWindWaveSea
@MsWindWaveSea 26 күн бұрын
Pake bhs Indonesia aja kalo Inggrisnya ga keruan, maksudnya apa sih
@joannaparamita7826
@joannaparamita7826 26 күн бұрын
​@@MsWindWaveSea makanya belajar!
@privaterizk4936
@privaterizk4936 28 күн бұрын
Why creating the "burden" if you want to get rid of it later? There's something weird or wrong with their mindset. I have mixed feeling watching the whole documentary.
@puffpride1714
@puffpride1714 27 күн бұрын
Sex Ed are not exactly included in the education system. Education aren't that great in general anyway in Indonesia. Even if we have well off parents, they're mindset are just the same, get a stable job, get married, and have children.
@advance8189
@advance8189 27 күн бұрын
Most of people in Indonesia consider their children as future investment. To take care of them when they were old and sick. Also they believe that every child has their own luck, more children more luck.
@ПобедавРоссии
@ПобедавРоссии 19 күн бұрын
@@puffpride1714sexed is useless without proper education
@ПобедавРоссии
@ПобедавРоссии 19 күн бұрын
@@advance8189it might be effective in communism
@YulistinaParvati
@YulistinaParvati 26 күн бұрын
Childfree must be introduced into this community.
@arieffandy8846
@arieffandy8846 23 күн бұрын
Actually, there’s a local Instagram influencer who said she decided to be childfree, and her statement went viral. And you know what the reaction among Indonesian netizens was? Many of them mocked her as an egoistic liberal, badly influenced by a Western mindset (since she’s living in Germany).
@Astro34512
@Astro34512 21 күн бұрын
no is not, it must education to introduce, child free is not answer even for overpopulation, it still useless if they childfree but still uneducated
@ПобедавРоссии
@ПобедавРоссии 19 күн бұрын
Childfree is not the solution. Communism is the solution
@sportsfansutah
@sportsfansutah 12 күн бұрын
@@arieffandy8846 she needs to come to Indonesia and tell them about this. Childfree and Antinatalism should be introduced as well.
@danielduvana
@danielduvana Ай бұрын
This is so heartbreaking… thanks for the important and excellent reporting.
@MongabayTV
@MongabayTV 27 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your kind words!🙌
@beniqnoabdillah
@beniqnoabdillah 27 күн бұрын
ngurangin beban orang tua katanya, lah yang mau beranak siapa giliran beranak malah dianggap beban
@Astro34512
@Astro34512 21 күн бұрын
ya disini kita dibuat sadar pendidikan apa lagi pendidikan tinggi itu penting, bukan soal pekerjaan,ijazah, atau kualitas SDM tapi juga pola pikir yg paling dasar
@AlamKehidupan-x4t
@AlamKehidupan-x4t 27 күн бұрын
Thanks for the report, I dont want to blame anyone. This is a big home work and this is reflecting only small part of indonesia. we need act fast to uphold their condition.
@MsMikeytt
@MsMikeytt 27 күн бұрын
They are hard working, good people. My heart goes out to them. Sadly their situation will be unlikely to change, until they can break the cycle of pre-mature marriage and seek higher education. Also, transcend the limited beliefs and mindset that their families have about work and money. Easier said than done, that is for sure. I pray for them.
@Atticus8910
@Atticus8910 25 күн бұрын
As an Indonesian, I'm glad that my parents don't force me to get married (at least for now, in my early 20s). However, I can't say the same from some of my peers. I have a 19 year old ex-coworker who wants to get married soon with her toxic boyfriend because her parents have been pressuring her about it
@ismipurisa
@ismipurisa 14 күн бұрын
F*** our evil and corrupt government too
@artsyhyd
@artsyhyd 26 күн бұрын
Gak nyangka masih ada kyk gini di Indo! 😢 Their parents failed them! Smho! Meanwhile somewhere other kids have so much better lives even studying overseas to reach their dreams!
@shofiamanzalinifianza
@shofiamanzalinifianza 23 күн бұрын
Dan ini di Jakarta, kota besar. Gimana di daerah peloksok. Miris
@dennywidya
@dennywidya 23 күн бұрын
Di jakarte pulak
@Lazuardye
@Lazuardye 20 күн бұрын
Pemda nya ga fungsi ya gini
@multatuli1
@multatuli1 27 күн бұрын
Don't marry or don't have a child when you're poor, and if you do both don't start blaming your child for it if they still poor like you.
@ichsank9138
@ichsank9138 27 күн бұрын
The outdated "many children = many fortune" mentality is also to blame
@jiaopapski
@jiaopapski 25 күн бұрын
please don't have kids if you can't provide your kids
@fahrelyusrirahmat3797
@fahrelyusrirahmat3797 26 күн бұрын
these people keep complaining about the mindset...child marriage..but what really happen is that they're a victim of injustice and climate that drives them to retain that mindset. Sheeshhh...
@muh.andianto
@muh.andianto 24 күн бұрын
I agree. Both of my parents, and my older generation neighbours were born from low class family with many children. But their parents never forced them to marry at certain ages just because the financial problem. That's because at the time, finding job is easy. At least, everyone was able to bring their own meal at the table, men or women, there were always ways to get food, wether by farming or fishing. Nowadays, you can't get that luxury. Soil, river, beach, they're all contaminated.
@catunderbook
@catunderbook 28 күн бұрын
What kind of mindset do they have? 🙄
@スキルマン
@スキルマン 25 күн бұрын
God, this is so heartbreaking...
@masarashanti7609
@masarashanti7609 26 күн бұрын
jangan salahin mereka ya guys. kemiskinan memang berpengaruh terhadap kemampuan kognitif sehingga orang miskin kerap membuat keputusan yang tidak tepat. salahin pemerintah yang melihara orang miskin untuk didulang suaranya saat pemilu, alih-alih dipenuhi kebutuhan dasarnya :(
@luluskuy
@luluskuy 25 күн бұрын
Pola pikir sesat, apa coba apa apa salah pemerintah. Pikirin dulu kalau anda jadi pemerintah emangnya semua kemiskinan bisa langsung lenyap kah?? Bahkan kemiskinan juga ada di zaman Nabi loh, apa artinya Nabi sudah berlaku dzolim??? Astagfirullah!
@Tropicalsamoyed
@Tropicalsamoyed 24 күн бұрын
​​​@@luluskuy kalau guru dpt gaji layak, pendidikan gratis & bagus, mereka bs jd SDM berkualitas, bisa punya kerjaan bagus, apa mungkin mau nikah muda?? Pemerintah itu pemimpin kita. Coba dipikir lg mereka memimpin kita secara adil ga?? Mereka susah dpt ikan juga ngaruh sm reklamasi di pik, siapa yg ngasih izin itu dibangun ??
@Tropicalsamoyed
@Tropicalsamoyed 24 күн бұрын
​@@luluskuyitu baru 1 contoh sektor korupsi loh.. masih mau sy lanjut??
@Verxx-sc2tl
@Verxx-sc2tl 24 күн бұрын
Udah tau miskin malah bikin anak 🙄
@malikarif3384
@malikarif3384 17 күн бұрын
​@@luluskuytrs gunanya ada pemerintah apa ?
@albertkamooo
@albertkamooo 26 күн бұрын
I live in the northern part of Jakarta, though it's not in Cilincing. I visited this area a month ago for my paper project, and it's so devastating to see so many young brides and wives there. Some of them are younger than me and already have 2 children. The girls are caught or even 'brainwashed' by the idea that marriage is the sole future for women
@sportsfansutah
@sportsfansutah 12 күн бұрын
very sad.
@masgalsakti
@masgalsakti 26 күн бұрын
There is a local Pesantren boarding school near my house. Jokowi, himself, is one of the council and funders. One day, there is a murder with bullying motive with their student as the victim and the suspects. Some teachers there are mutated and being suspended for that case. My sister once worked as an intern in a Muhammadiyah kindergarten and befriended with the headmaster, chief/head ustadzah maybe the correct term. So, the head ustadzah arranged a regular playdate with teachers and ex teachers. Then there is one new very young lady turn out as the new teacher joined. She is 18, and comes from Banten, following his husband (19) as the transferred teacher in that Pesantren. The night was set, the new young kindergarten teacher went home after his husband called. As a normal Indonesian, of course, we usually don't talk back but we talk behind your back. The chief of Ustadzah "heran" or "mind blown" by the marriage age of the new kindergarten teacher. My sister's reaction was like, "not surprising. She's from Banten after all". The stereotype of child marriage is stamped on Bantenese, Madurese, Bugise and Lampung people by default as their child marriage stats are spiking high.
@Atticus8910
@Atticus8910 25 күн бұрын
OOT but the "we don't talk back but we talk behind your back" IS SO TRUE 😂
@alboniussitanggang5442
@alboniussitanggang5442 29 күн бұрын
Hidup miskin, suruh nikah muda, punya anak banyak makin miskin, beban hidup tinggi, toh 20 tahun lagi yg menguasai dunia ini teknologi, IA, mesin, robot, kedepannya manusia cuma jadi operator doang, pekerjaan untuk manusia sedikit, "kalo ga nikah, ntar kan kalo tua g ada yg urus?" yaaa emang orang2 mau urusin orang tua yang sakit2an😅, peduli amat kata mereka, Lagian kalo kita mati jg pasti ada yg kuburin kok, yg penting hidup tuh berbuat baik, jangan jadi beban orang lain (anak), taqwa kepada Alloh SWT, pasti hidup dikasih kemudahan😊
@claudianapitupulu4790
@claudianapitupulu4790 28 күн бұрын
If you don't have something nice to say, don't say It!
@Someonelikemeyeah_03
@Someonelikemeyeah_03 28 күн бұрын
​@@claudianapitupulu4790 realitanya emang begitu...
@alboniussitanggang5442
@alboniussitanggang5442 28 күн бұрын
@claudianapitupulu4790 kamu harus tanya ke anakmu, "Nak apakah hidup kamu bahagia, punya orang tua yg sudah melahirkanmu?" Di Indonesia sekarang banyak yg namanya generasi Sandwich, apakah mereka hidup bahagia? Tentu tidak😁
@TM-xz1mi
@TM-xz1mi 28 күн бұрын
Biasanya ane nemu orang religius itu malah yang penting nikah urusan kehidupan finansial itu nanti aja, tapi anda sebaliknya, gokil
@Cyan_Nightingale
@Cyan_Nightingale 28 күн бұрын
​@@claudianapitupulu4790Sorry kenyataannya emang demikian. Sekarang nyari kerja makin susah, syaratnya semakin tinggi-tinggi. Banyak pekerjaan yg ilang karena teknologi, contoh aja teller di bank Mandiri udah dikurangin bahkan sekarang Mandiri gak ada antrian nasabah, konsep kantor cabangnya lebih mirip ruang tamu.
@irfanmuammar8547
@irfanmuammar8547 26 күн бұрын
If this makes you mad, imagine there are people in govs who leisurely rent out almost thousand of cars just for independence day event. Poor governance is the biggest crime of all yet so hard to fix.
@dewek865
@dewek865 25 күн бұрын
GINI NIH MELIHAT SEGI TIKTOK 😂😂😂😂😂 pdhl mereka gak tau mereka miskin sementara yg di tiktok itu emang dr sananya kaya
@privaterizk4936
@privaterizk4936 28 күн бұрын
The parent wants their children married young so there's someone to feed their children... means the man is a worker. How far their age gap... 😶
@RiskaCobaningrum
@RiskaCobaningrum 26 күн бұрын
Their parent is happier if their children would be married than get a higher education,,get married is just not for now but for the future..
@anahelmaa
@anahelmaa 25 күн бұрын
TIAP ANAK MEMANG ADA REZEKINYA TAPI KUDU DICARI BUKAN DATANG BEGITU AJA. KALAU MEMANG NIKAH MUDA DAN SECARA EKONOMI BELUM MAMPU, SILA KONSULTASI KE PUSKESMAS TERDEKAT UNTUK MENGGUNAKAN ALAT KONTRASEPSI. PERNIKAHAN ITU BUTUH KEDEWASAAN DIRI, KEMATANGAN MENTAL, KUDU SIAP LAHIR DAN BATIN, TAHU TANGGUNG JAWAB DAN SADAR UNTUK BERTANGGUNG JAWAB BAIK KE DIRI SENDIRI, SEBAGAI FIGUR SUAMI ATAU ISTRI ATAUPUN SEBAGAI ORANGTUA, IBU DAN BAPAK, BAIK BERUPA ; KASIH SAYANG, FINANSIAL, TEMPAT TINGGAL, PENDIDIKAN DSB.
@anahelmaa
@anahelmaa 25 күн бұрын
KERJAAN YANG LEBIH BAIK DIUSAHAKAN DENGAN PENDIDIKAN DAN KERJA KERAS, BERANI AMBIL RESIKO.
@ramadhanisme7
@ramadhanisme7 25 күн бұрын
Kalo mereka mampu berpikir sejauh itu, percayalah mereka ga akan se miskin itu
@angelineoktavina4290
@angelineoktavina4290 27 күн бұрын
padahal kalau bisa nikah jangan punya anak dulu, stabilin dulu finantialnya bisa mengurangi beban. tapi kagak, punya anak buat apa kalau bakal dianggap sebagai beban
@dennywidya
@dennywidya 23 күн бұрын
Dah dibilang banyak anak banyak riski wkkkkk
@iamhoneybee__
@iamhoneybee__ 24 күн бұрын
the parents wish their kids to have had a proper job but they'd viewing their children as a burden, instead of trying to provide education for the children but they're forcing their kids for married, what a joke children are there cz you want them, so take your responsibility, or don't demand anything from them
@lunix3259
@lunix3259 26 күн бұрын
United Nations don't hold so much value nowadays
@ronisugianto4416
@ronisugianto4416 25 күн бұрын
Most parents in indonesia are so selfish. They provide their children just too little but have highest expectations one day they will change family economy situations. They see their children as their assets. How disgusting they are.
@Outerspace361
@Outerspace361 28 күн бұрын
Salah pemerintah!!!!
@Outerspace361
@Outerspace361 28 күн бұрын
Kondisi materialisme mempengaruhi bagaimana kebudayaan seseorang terbentuk, sedangkan pemerintah yang seharusnya berhak meregulasi malah fokus ke yang tidak-tidak.
@prima5113
@prima5113 28 күн бұрын
​@@Outerspace361capitalism as it finest mate
@BorneoRain-l1j
@BorneoRain-l1j 28 күн бұрын
​@@Outerspace361sibuk bikin arca Garuda bang wkwkwk
@mashtomato95
@mashtomato95 27 күн бұрын
@@prima5113 how these capitalists learn to know their place is government's job. stop pampering them like babies.
@zulucruz664
@zulucruz664 24 күн бұрын
Corrupt authority + radicalized and uneducated civilians. Perfect combination. South East Asia don’t need this ticking bomb.
@andikadimasprasetyo5758
@andikadimasprasetyo5758 27 күн бұрын
selalu soroti sisi bawah dunia yang penuh asam garam supaya terbuka mata hati para elit, meski utopis
@rxxsxhux9710
@rxxsxhux9710 24 күн бұрын
I won't ever blame them, my people are hardworkers, very hardworkers, they are suffering a lot because the government corrupt system.
@sunfvalley
@sunfvalley 14 күн бұрын
dan sekarang banyak orangtua yang merasa sekolah wajib 12 tahun (yang susah-susah diperjuangkan untuk bisa gratis) cuma buang-buang waktu dan milih nyuruh anak ikut kejar paket yang kualitasnya dipastikan beda sama sekolah normal...
@SecretOnly-e1j
@SecretOnly-e1j 26 күн бұрын
Think about it: if we were in the mother’s shoes, facing the hardships of life and lacking education, we might struggle to think clearly or wisely. She likely mirrored her parents, and her mindset reflects generational trauma. She also failed to access the government’s free education program for her children. I feel sad for her and regret that she has repeated the same cycle once again, on and on.
@hepianesti4269
@hepianesti4269 24 күн бұрын
Also, sad to say that that so called free education program isn't at all free.
@haidarryan3321
@haidarryan3321 27 күн бұрын
bukti nyata kemiskinan struktural
@ahyanaanshar6297
@ahyanaanshar6297 2 күн бұрын
Menurut saya, kalo mental dan finansial belum siap, jangan nikah dulu apalagi sekarang ekonomi sedang tidak baik. Sedih banget ngeliat video ini ternyata masih banyak mindset orang tua menganggap anaknya beban padahal dia sendiri secara sadar yg memilih buat punya anak. Mudah-mudahan kedepannya mindset seperti ini punah.
@MsWindWaveSea
@MsWindWaveSea 26 күн бұрын
Harusnya pemda setempat mendidik mereka, juga BKKBN...kemana nih pem...dimana2 pemda ga ada yg kerja...
@darleneshuntee1403
@darleneshuntee1403 19 күн бұрын
komplen2 anak itu beban.. yg lahirin siapa? kaya ny cukup makan dia d banding ank2 ny. begincu lagi. geram liat ny
@alyalaurenzaaziz3071
@alyalaurenzaaziz3071 26 күн бұрын
WHYYYYY
@keluargaboyboy8
@keluargaboyboy8 24 күн бұрын
Untung orang tua ku gak pernah maksa untuk nikah padahal emak bapak ku cuma tamatan sd Padahal di sekelilingku memandang perempuan atau laki laki yang tidak menikah itu rendah dan tidak laku dan jadi bahan omongan dan di jadikan bahan tertawaan Society gave young indonesia pressured too much
@KUCING-BAHLUL
@KUCING-BAHLUL 22 күн бұрын
bner bro, laki tua ga nikah disangka ga normal gay, padahal hidupnya susah aplgi ad kekurangan fisik😢
@orangbiasa7813
@orangbiasa7813 25 күн бұрын
Knp selalu ada kata-kata rejekinya anak ada aja ya, bagus sih tp terlalu dangkal kasian anaknya kasian ibunya bapaknya jga mesti pusing.
@ramadhanisme7
@ramadhanisme7 25 күн бұрын
Rejeki anak emang ada aja KALAU ortu nya emang ADA PENDAPATAN yang LAYAK, bukan nanggur serabutan 😅😅
@concernedcitizens4110
@concernedcitizens4110 25 күн бұрын
Indonesia’s problems are very common to other developing countries in Asia, Africa and Latin America. However just like any other developing country, Indonesia is still a very religious and conservative place to be in thus these child marriages case will always be a problem as long as the people and the government still sees sex ed as a taboo this problem will continue to persist. I am also intrigued that most religious conservative countries be it Christians, Muslims, Hindus and Buddhists have almost an identical problem in terms of child marriage, child poverty, and infant mortality. Thus the separation of church and state is a must.
@abigail3879
@abigail3879 20 күн бұрын
-> Aduh ekonomi makin buruk nih -> Buat anak ah biar bantu keluarga -> wah ternyata anak saya gak bisa berpendidikan lebih tinggi dan ujung"nya sama kaya saya -> ah yaudah, suruh anak saya buat anak lagi aja, biar bantu ekonomi -> loh kok cucu saya beban banget, malah nambah biaya hidup?! all jokes aside, mereka juga sebenernya di lingkaran setan alias kemikinan struktural. mereka gak mikir kalo pendidikan itu penting, karena invest di pendidikan (sekolah 12 tahun, kuliah 4 tahun itu default, belum lagi jika ada tambahan pendidikan lain) dan returnnya (as if, bisa kerja buat nafkahin keluarga) itu butuh waktu lama. Ditambah lagi, si anak juga perlu kerja + belajar extra keras buat bersaing dengan manusia-manusia lain yang lebih ada privilege. Jadilah, anaknya disuruh langsung kawin + kerja aja biar lebih "keliatan" + cepat hasilnya. Butuh satu generasi yang gigih buat memutus rantai kemiskinan.
@cnachopchopnewsagency
@cnachopchopnewsagency 23 күн бұрын
Why? Because its fresher.
@esteraprianamanik3371
@esteraprianamanik3371 25 күн бұрын
Pusing
@zhreee9825
@zhreee9825 23 күн бұрын
kemiskinan struktural😢
@zipzikin7084
@zipzikin7084 26 күн бұрын
yaaaah MAMA MUDA!
@MsWindWaveSea
@MsWindWaveSea 26 күн бұрын
Harusnya pemda setempat mendidik mereka, juga BKKBN...kemana nih pem...dimana2 pemda ga ada yg kerja...Pemuka agama harusnya juga bisa mendidik, misalnya mengatakan bhw kalo punya anak ga bisa kasi pendidikan dan hanya bisa kasi kemiskinan itu dosa...
@khairunna100
@khairunna100 24 күн бұрын
😳😲🥴😵‍💫
@sweeyong7756
@sweeyong7756 24 күн бұрын
Is marrying a 10 year old girl legal or illegal?
@blessberries
@blessberries 24 күн бұрын
Actually, It's illegal in Indonesia. Idk why they could get married so easily but our government or law won't allow it tho.
@chikenleg45
@chikenleg45 15 күн бұрын
19 y.o is the legal age to marry in Indonesia
@sweeyong7756
@sweeyong7756 15 күн бұрын
@@chikenleg45 interesting.
@mrizkimaulidan
@mrizkimaulidan 27 күн бұрын
kan udah gua bilang
@ringoooringooo2190
@ringoooringooo2190 24 күн бұрын
1. Ortu Stress egois... gamau ngurusin anak... nyuruh anak nikah muda biar diurusin mantunya... 2. Anak belum siap mental dan finansial... harus nambah beban punya anak... jadi Stress... 3. Kembali ke nomer 1.
@yulipermana
@yulipermana 19 күн бұрын
Yaudahlah ya yg pusing kan anda 😂
@yulipermana
@yulipermana 19 күн бұрын
Ngga nyangka masih ada aja begini soalnya kemaren2 liat angka pernikahan menurun
@chikenleg45
@chikenleg45 15 күн бұрын
@@yulipermanasecara skalanya emg menurun tapi pernikahan yang secara agama (muslim) bisa terjadi nikah tanpa tercacat di negara (nikah siri), ini biasanya banyak terjadi di daerah pelosok atau kaum miskin” pinggiran, ada juga nikah secara adat, ini do nikahin aja tp ga secara negara jd ga tercatat.
@chikenleg45
@chikenleg45 15 күн бұрын
emang menurun kok tapi ini tu sesuai di video mereka nikah dibawah umur semuanya😂, berarti ini nikah siri karena nikah secara negara wajib 19 tahun ke atas sesuai Undang Undang, klo nikah agama (nikah siri) kebanyakan ga tercatat secara negara krna negara ga bisa melegalkan pernikahan yang pihaknya ada yg umur bukan 19thn
@ThAsSq30
@ThAsSq30 18 күн бұрын
anak bukan rezeki buu...anak tu sumpahan dan bebanan di zaman kapitalis. ayu cewek cewek muda gi nya malaysia singapura jadi pelayan cowok gajian tinggi 1000 dollar ke 2000 dollar sabulan.
@johaniswara8427
@johaniswara8427 28 күн бұрын
bcause their prophet did that too.
@yolasagita284
@yolasagita284 28 күн бұрын
for real, the prophet?? do you even watch the video?
@johaniswara8427
@johaniswara8427 28 күн бұрын
@yolasagita284 Soo.. you know exactly which prophet I was talking about, eh? 😏 Here's the hadith to remind you.. Sahih al-Bukhari 5134 حَدَّثَنَا مُعَلَّى بْنُ أَسَدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا وُهَيْبٌ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَزَوَّجَهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ سِتِّ سِنِينَ، وَبَنَى بِهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ‏.‏ قَالَ هِشَامٌ وَأُنْبِئْتُ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ عِنْدَهُ تِسْعَ سِنِينَ‏.‏ do you even read, bruh??
@barathacahyani769
@barathacahyani769 28 күн бұрын
Average muslim in Indonesia don't know how old Aisha r.a. was when married to Prophet s.a.w. Especially the low income ones. Most of them are less knowledgeable and easy to manipulate, let alone go to school, THEY DON'T EVEN HAVE ENOUGH TO EAT. Most non muslims always idolizing Aisha r.a. age while refusing to admit his other wives who are old and widow/ divorcee. Learned muslim will find a woman like Khadija r.a. And, do you even watch the video? The problems were described in the video, but I guess you only see the title and transform to keyboard warrior.
@johaniswara8427
@johaniswara8427 28 күн бұрын
@@barathacahyani769 I did watch the video, but I disagree that poverty and Iliteracy is the main reason of child marriage, because child marriage also commonly practiced among moderate-high income citizens in Indonesia, and the practice can be disapproved by the society too. The main question is, why the muslim society approve this practice? because their prophet also practice child marriage. I also disagree with your statement that average muslim in indonesia don't know how old aisha is being married and consumated by muhammad, since it is being taught to children in every state elementary school in Indonesia.
@barathacahyani769
@barathacahyani769 28 күн бұрын
That's news to me, to think the elementary school taught them that instead of how to read arabic, memorize short surahs, simple ethics or how to execute other pillars of Islam starting from 4th grade. May I know your source? I see that you just want to shout your opinion instead of analyzing the video. Well, I'll also shout mine. Most Indonesian are simple, therefore happy. Thinking holistically or long-term planning were not their strong suit. When presented with a problem, their answer almost never refer to said problem. We see the examples in the video and your comment. Do you think all mid-high income muslim are learned muslim? Come on, ones money didn't reflect one character. Let alone average muslim, we also have the need to identify the so-called (oportunistic) Indonesian habibs and scholars who distort the furqan and hadith. Based on several journals, child marriage persist to those in low income and less educated populations despite the religion. You will also find this trend in other cultures (modern day) like the Vietnamese, Indians, the mainland Chinese, Latin American, and even white American. These are only small examples. Legal age in Indonesia is 17, while social ministry still 'allows' females as old as 16 and male as old as 18 to marry. Edit : I think I will stop here because arguing is not recommended in hadith. Thank you for reading.
@EtaniPitri
@EtaniPitri 24 күн бұрын
Sy menikah umur 17 th baik baik saja selama hidup terjamin dari suami pendidikan juaga bisa di lanjutkan setelah punya anak anak suami juga s2 semua cuma sy yg d3😂😂
@kukukakikakakkukaku
@kukukakikakakkukaku 23 күн бұрын
Good for you! Tapi inget mbak, gak semua orang yang menikah di usia dini nasibnya bisa semujur kamu. Malah kalau boleh dibilang, lebih dominan yang nasibnya berakhir tragis 😢
@KUCING-BAHLUL
@KUCING-BAHLUL 22 күн бұрын
wah anda beruntung ya, dan spertiny bangga sekali
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