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[@latoyaforever]

“Im bosssssssy babyyyyyy” AMENNN 😂😂😂

[@smoonlight02021]

😂😂😂

[@BeautybyBritt]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@latoyaforever]

@@BeautybyBritt😂😂😂😂

[@latoyaforever]

@@smoonlight02021😂😂😂😂

[@solainedoeman8691]

@@latoyaforever I'm bipolar with seasonal depression and I get triggered so I have to block and delete friends and family. 😆 🤣 😂 😹

[@TynieshaNicole1]

The way I would have blocked Auntie “Pooh”. She sounds like a witch. Latoya thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this part of your life. It will touch a lot of women dealing with similar challenges. Setting boundaries is 🔑 and don’t let anyone make you feel bad about enforcing them

[@ladyJ_000]

Periot!❤

[@ZariaFitz]

sounds like she likes to hear herself talk! because there wasn’t much thought behind those voice messages 😭

[@Angelicaremy]

I would've blocked her immediately. 😂

[@chantelledunkley9895]

It is definitely giving witch

[@ms.j1713]

They better stop playing with God! Amen

[@samirahamirah6425]

That voice note sent me over the freaking roof Latoya, I’m so inspired to share my story. These parents have caused so much Trauma!

[@latoyaforever]

LMAAAAAAO the voice note sent meeeee yoooooooooo I can’t 🤣🤣🤣

[@nolimitkk2715]

@@latoyaforever😂🤣😂😂 They are so overwhelming especially when there is no self reflection or accountability on their end, cant make sense of their bs actions towards you, but have all the answers for you, because God said so. If I didn’t have my own relationship with God, i would be so annoyed with God always going to the opps with my next “alleged” move 😂

[@Scharel129]

Lol what this voice note no saaa

[@Scharel129]

Please use the scriptures in the correct context and not to weaponise Latoya.

[@tlee1]

Parents and trauma, tell me about it. My mom side of family have mental health concerns, and so does she. But, I just distance myself, until I'm treated the way I deserve.

[@qgordon64]

Slick was created just fa you cause y’all too together are hilarious🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@latoyaforever]

Bahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣

[@Jazeerakiko]

@@qgordon64And not only love ❤️ also the way how she does her things The way how she handles things. She’s one of a kind ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@morgangrove6726]

“She’s not even Caribbean” I hollered😂

[@latoyaforever]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Mspowell30]

😂😂😂

[@ForeverBeyondMe]

Lol the equivalent of "she doesn't even go here!" The audacity smh

[@manilo-j8n]

@@latoyaforever I will simply give you this little advice and perhaps remove it later. My wife's mother is EXACTLY like yours. You see, the Bible verses she's quoting is design to manipulate and guilt you; those are classic moves of narcissists period! the friend is the same kind of bird too, or a copycat that even learn a new accent,telling you that you are like her. Believe it or not, these folks have studied you well, and they are winning. Pray for them, but do not entertain them, love them from afar. Anyone that disturb your peace over and over again is not worthy of your presence. My wife is an em path who attract these covert narcissist who uses bible verses whenever convenient, confused, she never knew why nothing worked for her, why she was so depressed, but when she dumped everyone of those contacts, everything started working out. She's free.

[@mdwyaaaa]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Iyannakabria]

Latoya you listening to them audio messages had me crying😂 People will always have the audacity! Keep doing what’s best for you and your family❤️

[@latoyaforever]

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!

[@Shaniquebeckfor]

Even as a pastor the whole “amen” and over spiritualizing thing is annoying!

[@latoyaforever]

Pastor Shanique, any advice from a spiritual position on how someone should move forward dealing with ongoing challenges with a Mother? Help lol

[@pettymunye1589]

@@latoyaforeverI’m not a pastor but I truly believe it’s better to pray for her and continue to love her from a distance.

[@deborah8056]

@@latoyaforever Latoya my mom is almost just the same as yours. Just love her from a distance. Set up your boundaries and communicate them with her.

[@alysekelly5752]

Reactive abuse is when the other shames you for reacting to their mistreatment. Parents need to remember that the impact of their actions or inaction matter more than their intentions and the only acceptable apology is changed behavior. Boundaries are very important when you’re a parentified child. I am so sorry your mother is using family member to triangulate you and further manipulate and betray you. Sending lots of love your way!

[@TheLifeofStephh]

Exactly ! I almost turned off the entire video

[@user-ff5wo9zf4q]

Therapist here… healthy boundaries are necessary. Please feel free to talk to your therapist about the boundaries you set in your life, in terms of how you want to be treated (what feels right to you), and how you can respect your own boundaries with ALL significant others in your life (it feels bad when we shift our boundaries for certain people because then we are then breaking our own boundaries to allow behaviours that we’ve already determined aren’t healthy for us). Boundaries are love. Love for ourselves and also helping others understand that we can love each other in a healthy way. This is the standard. And if they can’t meet us there, we must love from a distance ❤. You got this ❤ Many blessings

[@nyemer]

This is perfect and quite literally what my therapist told me years ago and it truly saved my life! I’ve always been a people pleaser to some degree being the older sister and doing everything for everyone including my mother. To be fair my mother and i’s relationship is nowhere like this, but I needed to set boundaries and understand it’s not personal or restricting and instead it gives more freedom for people to explore their relationships because at least now you truly understand this persons relational architecture. I’ve resigned myself to the belief that this is the only way you can actually begin to move toward a peaceful life. As far as the Bible scriptures Latoya, I’m a Christian and I felt compelled to tell you that all a Christian is is a follower of Christ and someone who try’s to model their life after him. Should we reference scripture and share with others? Yes but by no means do we use scripture to beat people over the heads. Christ didn’t do any of that in the Bible but instead approached everyone with love and compassion. Everyone conversation doesn’t have to be “thank the Lord for this lip gloss, or the Lord knew my chicken sandwich was etc…” we can recognize when God shows up and thank God all through our days without making a show of it, and I actually think it’s important we are intentional about not making a show out of it because it can lead to us glorifying ourselves or using that as a thing to make others glorify us subtly even if we aren’t intentionally doing it all . Please don’t let your mother or anyone chase you from your faith by giving such poor examples of it. Manipulation is hard to see when you have no boundaries. I wish you the best, but this advice from this therapist will help. Dear therapist above , thank you for all you, and thank you for this comment of a gem. We need more of you in this world 🤍

[@NettlesFam]

Amen! This is something that I had to learn & work through in therapy & since I've decided to stand on my boundaries I've been much happier & less angry! I've had to leave some people behind & love from a distance but I wouldn't have it any other way my life has such peace now

[@user-ff5wo9zf4q]

@@nyemer Thank you so much for your comment and for sharing your journey 💕

[@user-ff5wo9zf4q]

@@NettlesFam So happy to hear this ❤️

[@thatgirlana]

A lot of adult children of Caribbean parents can relate to this

[@EncouragedTogether]

😳 The gaslighting using faith is INSANE. -Signed, a Bible believing Christian.

[@EncouragedTogether]

“It costs to be a boss” from Jesus is CRAZY. If God says anything, it would be in his word.

[@Khadijahgirrrrrl]

That is not a true Christian. She is literally criticizing and gaslighting. Mam pleaseee. She would be blocked immediately.

[@jaydapo123]

i love how latoya says she’s gonna call us back lol it definitely feels like facetime 🤣

[@latoyaforever]

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

[@sunnyctv7526]

Love her from a distance . I deal with my mom when I feel like it . I don't try to change her I just know what to expect

[@GetSlappedPlease]

I love how Latoya been giving us real vlogs for ages now

[@leadinglady6724]

If the person doesn’t bring you peace, it’s ok to set boundaries or distance yourself to protect your peace. Love them from a distance.

[@DianaRukemanganizi]

The fact that you are still willing to fight for a relationship with your Mum even though shes being difficult shows you really have a good heart. Most kids when grown would just avoid her...until she comes around.

[@jahsmain5279]

The reason why we watch you...is because we love you

[@latoyaforever]

And I love youuuu! ❤❤❤

[@kimmy7185]

Not all parents are supportive, and not all siblings have a strong bond. Sometimes, families can be more harmful than strangers. We need to normalize accepting this

[@Alorajones19]

100%

[@jasmineador7963]

The part at the end when you and Slick were singing/rapping to Yari cracked me up omg 😂😭💀 Yari got some crazy parents

[@AJD7233]

It had me c r a c k i n g UP😂😂😂😂 omggg lovee itttt

[@Tammyxo100]

LaToya this vlog had me cracking up, your facial expressions alone during those voice notes had me CRYING. You're so naturally funny, I promise you, we come to the vlogs for you not Toronto. Your family is just an added bonus.

[@sassyh100]

I’ve always gotten the vibe that she envied your relationship with Auntie Jillian.

[@leaveittomarcialand2368]

“She’s not even Caribbean” 😂

[@thatgirlana]

@@leaveittomarcialand2368 tht sent meeee😂😂😂

[@chanparislynn8919]

That took me out like lady talk normal

[@syndiesteethwhiteningllc5454]

That lady’s voice who left the voice note drove me to go get myself a drink 🙄 😂. She was not very demure or mindful

[@wmulbah1]

Using faith as a weapon is crazy.

[@AvasView]

It felt like a manipulation tactic

[@lesleyeffah6735]

In this situation, yes

[@desiredc9641]

Forgiveness move on wait for time.

[@ms.j1713]

Witchcraft

[@ZacheraV]

Spiritual manipulation

[@RichnReneeJ]

Boundaries.. all about boundaries

[@NicoleTheAlchemist]

I have a very similar experience with my mother. She has caused me soo much trauma and takes zero accountability. Gaslights me. Constantly victimises herself and so much more! Also, that woman using religion to justify f'd up behaviour and not take accountability is very manipulative! Thanks for sharing your story because from one caribbean girl to another... I can really relate! Sending you love ❤️

[@kelseymussio]

I have never seen two people more perfectly made for each other than yall lol between the tarp holding the board on the roof and the singing with the baby in the back 😭😭

[@docterKelp]

I’ve been watching you since I was 14 LaToya. 14!!!!! Im 24 now and I relate to you so much when you speak about the issues that develops with young mothers and their DAUGHTERS especially. It’s painful 😣 and i think I’ll be healing from those issues for awhile but it’s so comforting to see this realness from you. I love you girl !!!

[@latoyaforever]

I love you tooo!

[@latoyaforever]

We in this together!!!

[@ravenmurphy7791]

I am experiencing similar issues with my mom. Honestly, I’ve been getting through it through prayer, giving it to God bc He can touch people in a way that I can’t. And I love my mom and set my boundaries when I need to

[@tamekaseymore9809]

Absolutely! I have been doing the same thing . Prayer Truly helps heal me from the Trama of my Mother. God bless you in your healing journey. ❤

[@AshleyChevalier]

I just love that you’re opening up bc the mother and daughter relationship when is always so rocky and us daughters gotta “ forgive” & dismiss our feelings/boundaries.

[@douny91]

Latoya! Stop overthinking, your vlogs are fine!!

[@latoyaforever]

I know right. I overthink everything omg!

[@AL-ALady]

Latoya you are not obligated to have toxic people in your life no matter who they are. Periodt. Peace, love and light hunty! 🫶🏾

[@LashayneHampton]

That BUT SHES YA MUDDAAHH!! is so triggering! Same as you only get one. Wow!!! It’s been on my heart with my mom, it’s heartbreaking 💔to love someone so much and they just are set on finding fault in you no compassion no love competition jealousy the narcissism smh. Sending flying monkeys like an aunt to shame you into reaching out to your abuser mom. To see someone else showing it really helps to know I’m not alone. This is more common than we admit it’s time we speak up. Thank you Latoya for being vulnerable. I’m going to definitely tell my story 🙏🏾✨💕

[@simoneandrews215]

Speak it

[@LashayneHampton]

@@simoneandrews215 thank you ❤️‍🩹

[@seanjean9677]

Yes! You only get one mother lol….and she only gets one me.

[@RebeccaPerez-mm6ue]

Your latest upload is a testament to your relentless effort, it's both motivating and enlightening.

[@latoyaforever]

Wow, thank you

[@RishieRish]

Yes She’s your mother BUT you’re also HER DAUGHTER!!!! Why do they always forget that part 😭💆🏾‍♀️

[@NatashaWilson21]

The vlogs in Canada were all about your family there. We get to feel you on a more personal level these days, like we’re on FaceTime, you know? You’re evolving and growing, we’re here with you ❤

[@amenariley2310]

“I think he likes rap music”😂😂 slick is hilarious

[@RishieRish]

It’s so crazy because my mom’s friend (who knew nothiiiiing about our latest fall out) showed up to my house and insisted that I had a grudge on my mother simply because I put up healthy boundaries and decided not to react to my mom’s ways. She admitted she knew nothing about the situation but then proceeded to double down on trying to convince ME to believe the assumptions she had already made based off hearing only my mom’s side. I’m telling you their friends and just as delulu as them💆🏾‍♀️ Do not allow them to twist God’s words. Just remain positive and focus on yourself and your family.

[@NaTashaMKilgore]

That message your mom’s friend sent is audacious. Wow. And let’s not ignore the gaslighting going on here. And who the hell says that pimples come from too much masculine energy? Did I hear that right?

[@Perre_vim]

I understand why God gave Latoya a huge sense of humor, because to deal with this nonsense, bruh!

[@latoyaforever]

@@Perre_vimI have to laugh to keep from crying! lol

[@chanparislynn8919]

Lmaooo Toya talking bout “right” when she said she shouldn’t be saying shit to you😂😂😂

[@latoyaforever]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dsa526]

Why do i feel like your previous marriage failing has a lot to do with your mother? Don't let your mother ruin this relationship! you and slick are doing great

[@maddmax4148]

We all can see that her mother is jealous of her I have been watching Latoya since 2011 when she was in that apartment and how her mother forced her to get married honestly her mother is jealous of her and if she’s using scriptures the Bible also says parent should not anger there children.

[@arcjackson1]

GIRL POST ANYTHING! WE LOVE YOU!!!

[@raventyshe747]

16:22 The amens took me outttt😂😂 I thought it was over then she kept going, lorddd give this lady strength to bite her tongue🤦🏽‍♀️ AMENN

[@latoyaforever]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Amennnn 🙏🏽

[@tamaramkandawire4599]

@@latoyaforever Don’t allow your mother to push you to anger. We have control over how we react to others, and it's important to let go of that anger. Otherwise, it may create a cycle that could affect your children in the future. Even if you're not directly facing the issue, they might be. You are a loving and beautiful mother and partner, full of love and positivity-and I love and enjoy your vlogs for that! Show your children, most importantly, that you can forgive and move forward, no matter how your mother treats you. Be strong and seek God's presence because His peace surpasses all understanding. When you truly forgive, you won’t feel this anger and frustration anymore. In time, your mother will stop her behavior once she realizes that you've moved on and are no longer reacting to her nonsense. The message you received was truthful, but it was hard to accept because of the anger you feel toward your mother. Once you forgive her, that message will make much more sense to you. Also, it may have been a mistake to share that voice note with others. Some things are best kept private.

[@marstomoe]

That voice message?? Hollaaaaay take a shot for every time she said “amen”

[@latoyaforever]

I’d be drunk 🤣🤣🤣

[@dime12345]

It cost to be a boss took me out 😂😂😂😂😂 but this isn’t someone I will want near me it’s like she’s throwing shade but hiding it at the same time. YOU can bless your own baby!!! Say a prayer over Yari and call it a day 😂

[@latoyaforever]

Listen the “I’m bosssssy baby” tooo me alll the way out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dime12345]

@@latoyaforever I was laughing I missed that part😂😩amen . hallelujah.

[@arcjackson1]

Some folks don't change hun and we are NOT going to accomodate toxicity because it's FAMILY. Set Boundaries no matter who it is! I got them in my family too but i value my peace of mind over a toxic relationship! Ain't no way fam!

[@AlexaBabcock-uc6ur]

Thanks for sharing your wisdom, the effort and passion you inject into your videos are truly valued.

[@latoyaforever]

I appreciate that! Thank you hunty 🥰

[@frostsupreme6152]

Tell your Auntie to have several seats just coming out of nowhere up in people's business. She is so phoney!!!

[@tamekaseymore9809]

Girl... We love your vlogs. Please don't stop, No matter where you are. ❤

[@tarynmoses2854]

You have to set very strong boundaries, and when they cross them, let them face the consequences of their actions. I grew up with a narcissist and my mom never protected me the way a parent should. Now as an adult I know right from wrong and when someone hurts me, I’m able to protect myself by either removing myself from their life or letting them get very little access to me. It’s not an easy journey but honestly I went to therapy for understanding and it HELPS! I now have relationships with both my mom and aunt (the narcissist) and I avoid them when I can tell they trying to get me into a corner. Will pray for you Toya! 🙏🏾 you got this.

[@andrea1fabmama951]

Abuse is abuse. Moms are abusive too. You can’t forgive someone who continues to hurt you and trigger you. Then people want to say you broken. No you can forgive and wish them well.

[@junaynahb]

Nahhh is no one gonna talk about how genius it was for slick to hook that thing up to the car like that 😂😂😂

[@everythingshanae9857]

Social media will make you cut off everybody even your man. The truth is nobody will be your peace not even your spouse. People come with issues because they are humans and not everyone is working on healing from past trauma. You don’t have to cut off anyone. Just keep a healthy distance. Enough to protect your mental peace. Reach out to them when you want to. Let them know your stance.

[@andreasmakwarsanden]

The mother and daughter relationship is so real. I think everyone can relate somehow❤

[@BishopBlue]

No we love the vlogs because of you ,you have helped me in my darkest times over the years. I thank you for being here, you need to watch the cleaning lady , I can see you feeling free in your vlogs and not holding anything back , can't wait for the next vlog. ❤

[@stacyb6461]

Love is an ACTION word. I can relate so much to this vlog especially with Caribbean parents. Saying a lot of verses with no actions is so wild to me

[@tyshiagenevee]

“She just like my muddah “ 😂😂Yeah they doing too much, it’s like they want something from you cause they going way too hard- grandma can still speak to her grandkids and love on her grandkids- yall relationship have nothing to do with the kids. Stick your ground. You can love someone from a distance especially if they keep doing it more than once, choose what brings you peace.

[@lesleyeffah6735]

So do all of her friends talk that way? Amen after every sentence… I mean yes but at the same time no, can we be serious

[@Lavidabeautyy]

I knew something was off with the accent. “ She’s not even Caribbean “ 😂

[@shellyfrancois]

🤣🤣🤣

[@latoyaforever]

At all 😂😂😂

[@tejka93]

Yoooo the beginning was INTENSE!!! 😮 You are hella strong woman!

[@Monique215_]

I been watching for years and It seems like as long as you’re single , you and your mom are the best of friends and the moment you’re in a relationship again she’s back on her bs. Wipe your hands clean with her , you’re her daughter with children young children . They don’t need to hear or see these things or they will get older and want that same kind of relationship with you . Keep your mom in your prayers and love her from a distance . Especially if she doesn’t see where she’s wrong at .

[@latoyaforever]

Omg! This right here is facts!

[@NikiaCorayCooks]

4 kids where.. i will never get over how great u look🥰🥰🥰 Loved the vid toyaaa ❤️❤️❤️

[@butterfly8382]

In all seriousness I click so fast and watch more entirely when you was in Canada. Speaking from a day 1 supporter you really see more joy and happiness from you and your family while in Canada!

[@latoyaforever]

Okay you you want nothing to do with me in ATL? Got it 🤣🤣🤣

[@delindawilliams3935]

😂😂 Slick is funny. That ending made me laugh so hard with tears because I remember that my older brother used to climb into my twin's crib(they would look so frightened then they would start to smile). He passed years ago.

[@mishad5980]

First i just want to say how much i love seeing this new loved on Latoya… ❤Coming from a Jamaican household i can sympathize with you when it comes on to your mother. It wasn’t until i got into therapy myself that it hit me that your own mother can be jealous of you and what you accomplish without even knowing. Having a baby at sixteen being a child yourself is so hard so i don’t want to take that away from her but her learning to be a mother to you shouldn’t be so hurtful. The truth of the matter is hurt people hurt people. Her taking her hurt and frustration out on you was something she has always done and who are you now not allowing her to do so. Anyways i pray for your healing and your growth as you navigate your journey into motherhood i pray that your inner child gets all the love you need from your babies. ❤❤❤❤

[@MyoshaDanisha]

I can absolutely relate! My mom was a young mom as well & what you were saying was literally my life. She never takes accountability & throws God into it or she becomes the victim. What worked for me, after I started therapy I started putting her on what I call "time out". I no longer argue, i cut it short & she wont hear or see me or my son until she get some act right. I'm protecting my peace & if you cant respect me you cant be around me period. Family or not, my peace is everything. Of course Id love that perfect mother daughter relationship but Ive also gained what i call "other mothers" which are women Ive met in my life that give me what Im missing with my mom. I love her but sometimes I gotta love her from a distance. & my mom is an evangelist so baby I know. Ive experienced Christians using the word as a weapon when things dont go how they want it to go. Absolutely not, God has not given me the spirit of fear either so pls move around with that!

[@latoyaforever]

Thank you for sharing. I’m trying to figure out what “time out” looks like in my situation. Im not arguing with her anymore, I’m not playing her game anymore, im over the toxicity.

[@MyoshaDanisha]

Yep, same thing I did. No more arguing & falling into her toxic lil games. My mom still tries to bait me & I simply tell her, Nope I will not & end communication b/c you gone learn how to talk to me or don't talk at all. You gone realize I'm an adult with my own children & you can't keep pulling that "I'm your mom" card with me. Yeaaaa no. I'll be praying for you, your peace & your mental b/c I definitely know how it is & how it can take such a toll mentality. & Thank you for sharing as well ❤​@latoyaforever

[@ashleyf8545]

Auntie is definitely a fan. Block her 😂

[@latoyaforever]

Lmaaaaaao

[@Shaniquebeckfor]

As a pastor this is my honest response re your mom. Cutting her off is hard but forgiveness is a must. Forgiveness tho does not mean reconciliation. Even family we have to live from a far sometimes. Talk when necessary, help where you can check up etc but guard your heart and not open up to the point where you’ll be hurt over and over again. Caribbean moms don’t know how to apologize and admit they are wrong. Guard your heart because you have a family to care for especially a young baby and they need the best you. Nothing or no one should have that power to your peace of mind. This has been on going

[@yf6349]

I loved the video. When slick put that tarp in the car window I fell out laughing 😂. It may not be pretty but slick made it work! also you can forgive people without letting them have total access to you. You set the boundaries.

[@SuperstarSEVHN]

Latoya please do not let your mother and her friends attempt at trying to spiritually abuse you affect your personal relationship with God, he would never send someone that says foul things and mask it as coming from the scriptures, THEY are in the wrong,leave all of their bitterness, envy, and hatefulness with God, let him carry that burden for you and move forward with your on life, cut them off if you have to. ❤

[@sierraatkins2609]

& latoya you are the vlog. anywhere you go you are the light atlanta, canada, alaska. what we love is that when you are in canada you are the most vulnerable and comfortable and that radiates!!! find that feeling in atlanta, your amazing!!!

[@latoyaforever]

Thank you Si Si 🥰🥰🥰

[@sierraatkins2609]

@@latoyaforever ❤️❤️

[@jahsmain5279]

Girllllllllll!!!!!!..... Bless Yari??...No one who is wishy-washy can bless my child.

[@justcallmebon2684]

The fact that the Auntie isn’t even Caribbean is so hilarious to me! 😂 “Yuh muddaaah”

[@latoyaforever]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@janeliabailey9743]

Mom sounds like she is a little narcissistic and if she is she probably won’t change unfortunately 😢. Since she’s your mom just try to be firm on your boundaries

[@tonnieemm33]

Chileeee I would have to sage myself after listening to those voice messages. The problem with dealing with a toxic parent is that they tell their support system what they want them to know and not the whole truth about their behavior. It’s so exhausting but you’re not alone girl. Love and light ❤️

[@ajthegoatduh]

Auntie would’ve gotten blocked🤣💯🥴🙄I only listen to people that I can tell have done the self work‼️

[@sugabay]

😂 your moms friend a mess , block that narcissist fast shes a worker for the head narcissist 😂😂😂 I cried laughing

[@latoyaforever]

It’s so funny omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sugabay]

@@latoyaforever 🤭

[@bamiangelo2166]

Thank you for being vulnerable with us, it takes a lot of courage and strength. Concerning your mum my advice is pray for her, forgive her but it’s up to you whether you want her in your life. Put healthy emotional boundaries that’ll protect you from being hurt and disappointed ❤

[@abiolacodrington1246]

We can’t change who our families are ie, our parents. We have to love them as is and create boundaries for your life.

[@letterstoamina]

I haven’t talked to my mother for months for the exact reasons you stated it’s okay to love someone from a distance. That pain is something that they will never understand no matter how you try to explain it, deal with it, and give unlimited changes. After a while there are not many chances to give… you are loved Toya 💖

[@kitat6765]

My mama always told me "no one has the right to hurt you, not even me"

[@Soulprettyso]

Yari’s kicks at 22:52 were sending me, I had to keep playing it back 😂 the beginning of the vlog had me stressed, sending you love Latoya ❤

[@Iamnot_myhair]

We watch these blogs because we love you, not for your family and entourage. Your family is beautiful , but so is the one that you created. We actually love seeing this dynamic. 🎉 Keep pushing girl❤❤❤

[@OfficialNikki4Real]

Girl! I had to play that voice note TWICE! Would’ve been her last time getting through to me. Keep ya head up.

[@soufwesthoustontx]

Those messages are so creepy and manipulative. Especially for someone that doesn't know you like that. I would have just blocked the account. If she sends more messages from a different account, then she's definitely off.

[@Tamiarene]

They love to say I’m your mom .. I’m your father… like huh that doesn’t mean you get to disrespect me

[@please-wake-up-now]

Omg, the drama is real!! 😂 But seriously, I love how you just keep it real and share all the ups and downs. Makes me feel like I'm not alone in this crazy life! And Yari is such a vibe, love the energy! Keep doing you! 💖✨

[@aaliyahrose9098]

Latoya, I am so sorry that you are going through this. If you need to cut ties with your mother, do so. While she is your mother, if she doesn't respect you as her daughter or honor your boundaries, it creates a cycle of toxicity that only leads to more trauma. You have a wonderful family and a successful career to protect. It seems your mother may have narcissistic tendencies which for the most part won’t change 😢 and you shouldn't allow yourself to be caught in an endless cycle with someone who refuses to address their own deep-rooted issues and gaslight you for their own wrong doing. It’s a never ending game.

[@ShelbyLynnPoati]

Loved the vlog, going through separation and can relate to similar feelings, really beautiful to see your relationship with Slick, gives me hope ❤

[@allyson781]

It’s Latoya singing for me 😂😂😂😂 We watch the vlogs for you girl! You’re the hot ticket not your friends or family lol 😂 we love you hunty!!!! 🎉🎉 also I’d give your mom some space lol Debbie is tew much

[@latoyaforever]

I love you hunty and I’m cracking up! Her behavior id diabolical 🤣🤣🤣

[@béthiacén]

Masculine energy causes breakouts?😕🤔 .. she got my confused.

[@rerem3393]

Right? Seems manipulative to me.

[@Maskedupshordi]

Remove her from your life right now. Literally ghost her. She will learn then and come around with a different tone when she sees you cut her off for a few years. I did this with my mom. I stopped talking to her for 8 years. Shes the same way. And let me tell you, she felt that, and she seen that I meant business. I know it will hurt but girl, let her go! And circle back when you know its the right time. If she continues again with the same bs, lock her off again for another few years.

[@EricaAndrea]

Your vlogs are so good! I fell off watching the vlogs and recently have been binge watching but I’ve been a subscriber since before Sami was born. 🥹 So proud of you

[@latoyaforever]

Thank you for coming back 🤣🤣💕💕

[@loriamonique]

Hey Latoya!!! Happy Sunday to you and the Hunty’s❤ Just continue to pray to God for strength when dealing with drama. Our Father God hears our prayers sweetheart and he loves us all🫶🏽🙏🏽 Keep your faith my love😊

[@Jameerfamilychannel]

Continue to set those boundaries regardless of what others may think. You’re on the path to heal from past trauma. Also, distance from those who caused the trauma is necessary. Even if it’s family members.❤

[@bluedivababy]

Your vlogs are NOT dry!!

[@rerem3393]

Forgiveness don't always mean reconciliation.

[@theearlychildhoodguide4687]

This vlog was so relatable ❤️🙏🏽 As caribbean women, this mother/daughter dynamic is SO common. I’m praying for your healing. ❤️

[@latoyaforever]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽

[@keelahmcintosh]

Latoya! Please Remember The Devil Can Pray, Speak In Tongues As Well. Remove Yourself From This Toxic Situation This Is Beyond Foolishness. Focus On What’s Important And Not The Locust Around You. Don’t Make Your Mother And Her Friends Throw You Off Your Track.

[@fadiaf2474]

It’s so refreshing to know am not the only one going through this. I been back and forth with narcissist behaviors with my parents for years, I dusted everything under the rug never answered never gave my real feelings cause when I would even slight I was told am your mom your rude, something happened a few months ago she left me uncalled for messages on my phone it was nasty and ugly, I blocked her one time and I never unblocked her until recently it took me 8 months. Even now am I barely answer, only if in the mood. It didn’t make sense to go back and forth cause I don’t want to hear nothing to make feel am wrong.

[@fadiaf2474]

Always throwing am your mom, and the lord into it. I don’t wanna hear shit leave me in peace honey.

[@TheLifeofStephh]

I’m going through same thing with my mom. Going on 2 years and it’s a problem within her that I stopped trying to fix. It hurts but I cut my whole family off bc they enable her. My mom is wicked and it’s ridiculous. All you can do Toya is keep praying for her. Older ppl are set in their ways..