More Shocking Stories: Family Abruptly Leaves Merida Mexico for Good!

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

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[@lolasdogrescue]

Great advice. And no, no place is perfect. Or even close. I'm STiLL trying to adapt, I'm not in my "dream" town, I got kind of trapped in a dumpy town after a car wreck driving around looking for my Perfect Spot. But I'm on the west coast of Sonora and it's dry as a bone, hasn't rained in a YEAR but it's 80 degrees as a high most days and 40% humidity and no mosquitos. it's ugly as hell in this town and there's no shopping, no clothing, no fancy foods, no restaurants...just 2 taco carts and a hotdog place. I'm the only foreigner because no one comes here on purpose and it's 3 hours on a crappy highway to get to Hermosillo. But we're near the Sea of Cortez and my rent is cheap and I have a good fenced area to rescue all the sad dogs in town and my power bill is $20 and I walk everywhere because the van was totaled and there's nothing to buy here. Not even an address to get a delivery. It took me a MINUTE to deal with that. I need clothes, I'd like a desk chair, I'd love some parmesan cheese and a vet in town would be great...but it's small and safe and little kids can get an ice cream and walk around at 10pm no problem and there's fresh fish to be had and good carne asada on the corner. I have acquaintances...but I'm kinda quiet and solo no matter what. I speak pretty good Spanish but the dialect here is different than what I'm used to and so it's a challenge. Culturally I'm still learning things and you'll never REALLY understand Mexicans...and I've been working with and traveling here for 25 years. It's way different than you think. BUT The US was just NOT working for me and I bolted back during the C o v i d scandal. If you want to be free you have to make some concessions. You can't have it both ways and you decide what you can deal with. Avoiding floods and Landslides and violent cartel activity is more important than having a Costco nearby. So I'll get fancy cheeses on my next go round. Sometimes you have to have the discipline to suck it up and power through the moments when you want to run. Change is hard, but in the end, it's the only way. Cartess is giving some good dad advice here.

[@Quilt4Joy]

Your current spot sounds like heaven to me. I love to sew, so, if I could have my machines and tools, I’d be so happy there. 😊

[@rui37CdjOe]

Preach brother! People need to do their research and learn how to live like the locals instead of tourists.

[@vikvik2816]

I made a move to Georgia back in 2000 and I could not adjust. It’s something about making a move out of your comfort zone if you are not prepared mentally to know and understand that things are going to be different. My advice would be to know and embrace your why, otherwise it will be a living hell. Also, if you’re running to a place in search of happiness, you will forever be running! You must find happiness within yourself first before running off to another town, state or country for that matter.

[@pearlperlitavenegas2023]

I agree but your environment & people around you does affect your happiness (it does for me) It's tough to be happy surrounded by angry, agressive, stressed out, unhappy people coping with meds, drugs, & alcohol. It can be done but it's difficult.

[@vikvik2816]

@@pearlperlitavenegas2023 Absolutely!

[@YogaBlissDance]

Georgia the country or region of U.S.?

[@vikvik2816]

@@YogaBlissDance ATL

[@DebbieD7777]

Very wise😊

[@nativenomad001]

Yes Sir! People let themselves get caught up in fantasies. Relocating is not about living a fantasy life, it’s all about living your same life with better quality and being where you feel you’re treated best.

[@michellemorrin5498]

Amen!

[@fionaslife]

The reason why some people are leaving their home country is because other people are doing it, not because they've done their research and understand the challenges that come with moving. As for the family that didn't listen to your advice, there's a Jamaican saying my mother always use to say to me when I was a child 'If you can't hear you must feel'🤣

[@inmytravelstoday]

Exactly! Most people are just going by what Facebook group, KZbin channel that they're following about "Black people abroad". This is not easy to do. I've done it for years in Europe and in Asia and I wouldn't have it any other way, however, there's just too many folks who really aren't thinking carefully when it comes to moving abroad.

[@YouTubeBlueButterflies]

Right, too much of this random moving by our people online, almost like a mass exodus but is it right for you? People are motivated by emotion and what is in their ears.

[@fdm2155]

My mother used to say, a hard head makes a soft behind... 🤣 Why connect with Cartess for advice and then ignore his advice...?

[@walterprimerano4860]

Boring is good! Cortez you and your family are amazing! We like your style...you're are an amazing husband and father. God bless you in all that you set your hand to.

[@travelingman9763]

Thought he was divorced.

[@CuratedVibes]

I just made 3 years in Merida this month. I hate the heat more than anything but I tolerate it because it's very safe here. Being a single women, I just can't imagine myself being anywhere else in Mexico. I don't want to have to watch over my back all the time. So I will just stay put.

[@dday3322]

Congratulations! I have been viewing and researching Merida since the end of ‘20. It’s good to hear a single woman’s perspective as I too will be solo traveling/ relocating. 👏🏽👏🏽

[@tonyetheselfcaremaven]

Good to hear about the safety. I’m catching up on the replays and your take helps because I too am single so safety is always top of mind for me. The heat is what has me concerned even though I’m used to hot weather here in the US and the tropics. I loved San Miguel de allende as well. I’ll have to make an honest scouting trip to Merida to see if I can deal with the heat.

[@marilynpeoples5099]

Go to Cuernavaca! Temps 68 -82

[@Svenoli-]

I have a question- are there any Korean resteraunts in the Merida area?

[@armindagracia5857]

You are absolutely right, one of my kids is having problems right now, because he needs two job to keep his house, but if he comes here he would only need to work for food and bills, because I bought a house that is two houses.

[@dday3322]

❤❤❤

[@lasantisima6446]

That’s Awesome!!!

[@johnramsey2782]

I've been in Merida for 2 years. You speak the truth.

[@dianelevario6943]

Do you even know how important this message is? Thank you, thank you for your very Real videos, your very Real advice and the very Real facts you share with all of us. Blessings to you and your family, friend ❤ ❤❤

[@PeaceforLisa]

The heat of Merida is no secret 🥵 I would be in Merida right now if the temps were lower. My whys for wanting to leave the USA are intensifying. I may have to invent an umbrella with air conditioning and get on out to Merida. Love and peace to you and your beautiful family.

[@hildazaid6684]

You should try Bucerias, Ajijic, Queretaro or Cuernavaca, very pretty and safe places to live with small children or couples!

[@PeaceforLisa]

@@hildazaid6684 My other issue is high elevation. (I’m a mess 😂). I see that Bucerias could work for me. Time for research. Thank you very much for the suggestions that was super kind of you.

[@lolasvow3732]

Lol when you do that let me know so I can purchase one

[@sesomnoslen5729]

This Brother is down to earth and inspiring. Thanks

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

I appreciate that

[@TheVtaylor123]

Hi Cortess! I appreciate your honesty! I have been in Merida for 2 years and it is not for the faint of heart. You have to stick to the why! That's what keeps me moving forward.

[@fassmith5276]

If it’s such a fight help me understand why you stay?

[@professlch6347]

This was filled with so many gems? It's like being inside a jewelry store; goodness. Thank you for -- again -- choosing to share so much boots-on-ground experience and "lived life" wisdom with us.

[@shemari0129]

I have been hearing a lot of wonderful things about Merida. It sounds really tempting to move there. But I've heard one to many people say that it's HOT. That was enough for me to know that Merida isn't for ME. I'd love to visit and hang out...in the cooler months.

[@BlackExpatMom]

Would love to be on your show. We're spending 4 weeks in Merida and have some pros and cons from a visitor perspective.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Email me: [e-mail]

[@daniellejohnson9512]

It's sounds like a relaxing life. Nothing boring about rest and relaxation. Glad I found your channel!

[@dianacook6337]

We learned real fast not to go to Centro during the day when the temperature is high. All that concrete absorbs and reflects the heat. We learned to walk on the shady side of the street. We learned to do more activities inside with AC during the day. Take advantage of the pool and beaches. Evenings are beautiful to go to parks and explore different parts of the city. We are from a desert town in Southern California. Our temps can get up to 113 F. However it is a dry heat. The humidity in Merida will be the biggest adjustment for us. We have been there different times of the year. With planning and research we know what we will have to acclimate to in order to live in Merida. Life is a trade off. It just depends what you want.

[@dday3322]

❤

[@kathyodaniel4044]

Oh lord i need your help moving to mexico. Im 61 and no savings goin broke trying to live in az. Help. Please

[@marilynpeoples5099]

Such good “ subtle “ info. Loved your commentary about “ no perfect place “ . That’s something I had been stressing about. I feel better knowing that multiple moves , is totally reasonable.

[@angeebb3080]

Merida appears to be a dream place to live but I can't do the heat. I like a breezy climate and lots of rain. I hate it in the summer in the US on the east coast when it's 90 degrees, so I know Merida is not going to work for me, but it appears to be a lovely place to live in.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Yes. The heat aint no exaggeration. Its real 🔥🔥🔥

[@inmytravelstoday]

I'm glad that you're saying this. Most people are just moving abroad with NO PLAN whatsoever. They are just moving abroad based on who they follow on Facebook or Instagram. The wake up call is going to be REAL. You have to know your WHY. I've lived, worked and thrived abroad for years in Europe and Asia. It's always hard in the beginning and this life is not for everyone. For some it may be best just to live abroad for a month or two each year.

[@ICreateMyPath]

Thanks for always keeping it real! Just what I needed to hear.

[@gigi-merida-moreno]

The first day I arrived in Merida it was 101. I had arrived from Isla Mujeres an island off Cancun so it was cooler there. However I was able to weigh the pros versus the cons for Merida and decided its still on my radar. Each person hopefully can make a rational and not rash decision as to what's best for them.

[@gigi-merida-moreno]

@belltowndaisy right I agree. It was ok, however I won't be returning anytime soon.

[@rosalindhb]

It's going to be in the 100's this week in Austin, TX. When the grid gets stressed from over use, they take the power down. Sounds like another case of those people didn't do the research. You would think weather would be on top 5 to research in your place to live. Me having asthma, high heat index would be tough. But at least they cut their loses and didn't waste money.

[@CoachDeBora]

I don't know that there's a "right" way to move abroad. It depends on the person. On May 1, 2021, sight unseen, I "moved" to Merida. But I had a bird in the bush...as I'd also booked a week in Playa del Carmen. Merida was too hot for this chica. On Mother's Day, May 9, I took the ADO to Playa and fell in love. But for the 3 months that I traveled throughout Europe in the summer of 2022, I've lived in Playa. I keep in mind, I'm not a tree I can move. And the US is just one of many places in the world one can live. We get to choose comfort or courage, we can't do both. Life's short, I say be brave.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Amen. Thanks for sharing!!

[@dday3322]

❤❤❤❤

[@warningeagle8558]

I’m in Hinesville Georgia If you are not where you need to be before 11:00 for get it, summertime don’t start till the 21 of June!

[@Ebony-u8w]

I have been in Merida for one month and prior to that in Puerto Vallarta for one year working as a teacher. Prior to arriving, I planned and researched all there is to know about moving abroad and specifically Mexico, having viewed countless articles and videos. Needless to say, living and working abroad is not nearly as glamorous as most KZbinrs make it seem. I am ready to leave Mexico and return to the U.S., and my top three reasons for wanting to do so do not include the weather. In both places that I have lived right in the tourist centers of the cities and even in the best private school in the country, there have been numerous random, lengthy and accepted electricity and water shut-offs (most not weather related) and often the wifi cuts out, making virtual employment unstable. I knew that not drinking tap water, not flushing toilet paper and strong sewer smells coming from every open drain was par for the course here, but it gets old real quick and are some of the small things that we take for granted in the U.S.; I have more appreciation and respect for my country now than I ever have had before. Yes, racism exists here in Mexico too (including xenophobia with other Latinos from different countries). Yes, people here stare as if you are not another human being going about your business as they are. Yes, you will be told unequivocally that "this is a Spanish speaking country" if you are not bilingual, something that I have never said to any Mexican or foreign national regarding struggling to speak English back in the States. The nationalism here could give the U.S. a run for its money, just saying. Many expats will demean those of us who want to return or who don't consider leaving the U.S. at all, making the choice bilateral only - choose comfort or choose freedom. Well, individuals are not just bilateral and every person's circumstances and experiences are unique. I enjoy both comfort and adventure, and now that the adventure has worn off, I want my comfort back - that is my right. Freedom is a state of mind that noone can take away from me unless I allow them to. KZbinrs will guilt people for profit with an agenda and claim that they are weak, as there is a long standing diatribe that the U.S. is all bad and almost anywhere else in the world is good or better; As a Black woman I disagree. Personally, I appreciate customer service, getting receipts for my payments and stores honoring their pricing and money handling errors, getting exactly what you pay for, honest and straightforward interactions with eye contact and knowing what animal I am dealing with from the get go by seeing hate and discrimination towards me up front instead of behind my back or through passive agressive means. I appreciate my rights as a U.S. citizen and I appreciate having law enforcement who actually enforce laws, faults and all. Those of us whose ancestors built our country, and their descendants who continue to sustain the world's number one superpower through our creativity and contributions, those of us who are steadfast in staying put where we rightfully belong, are the strongest and most free from being bullied out. We do not flee. However, no judgment and to each his own.

[@dday3322]

Very well said and received!!! I appreciate your perspective and advice!! ❤

[@cra256]

Great points! I think Mexico can work for those that want adventure and want to reach financial milestones. Certainly you can make it and withstand a lot of the inconvenience if you have a particular goal and timeline in mind.

[@godschild2-yd3jy]

I appreciate your perspective but mine is different. For the first time in my sixties I am contemplating leaving America due to escalating racism! We have been fighting for so long. Yet, things are getting worse. My research is being focused on Africa. We visited Rwanda for a month recently and loved it. Imo, blacks have the best chance in places where we are the majority. I know the motherland has its challenges too. However, I think blacks worldwide should unite with Africans to save it. It's our last hope. I suggest visiting, investing in, and when feasible moving to Africa. There are 54 countries.

[@smf427]

@@godschild2-yd3jyI’ve been watching these videos and wonder why blks aren’t going to Africa instead where we are the majority or the Caribbeans 🤔

[@smf427]

Interesting perspectives

[@sl2427]

Love your lovely family and beautiful Wife❤🎉

[@tinamama6954]

Love your transparency Cartess and thanks for keeping it real!🤪

[@jj-bp3fr]

I think people need to give it more than 2 hrs to determine of the place will be for you. They could be missing out on a place that is excellent for them. Sometimes it takes about 1 month or more, the benefits can outway the negatives. Like Cartress said, remember the reason why you left, focus your attention on why your moving abroad. He's a very smart man.

[@ICreateMyPath]

I did a masters thesis on relocation and reassimilation. Because of the way the average human processes substantial changes such as moving to a different country it takes about 6 months before we truly come back to ourselves. The advice offered here is from the school of experience and reality. It's spot on and backed by research.

[@BrendaZallito]

This is a great resource for people looking to escape. I hope that folks will follow your advice for a better life.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Thanks for watching

[@cathybroadus4411]

I’m delighted at my brethren and sisters making that move but I never hear them speak on the geopolitics. I knew I would always be a gentrifier but at least I’m trying to learn the language. Just my 3 months in Puerto Escondido taught me many hard truths.

[@MadeNCda]

Cartess, this is the BEST video you've posted to date! I have to pause it to get online for work. But, you are speaking the truth. Overcoming and being calm during our doubts, impulses, loneliness etc requires clarity of "why." Also, I was in Merida July 2019 and it was HOT! 🔥 My Jamaican friend was even struggling. So I just want to say to that family, do what is right for you. The heat in Yucatan is real! God bless everyone just trying to find happiness in this life. 🙏🏻 I'll watch rest of the video on my lunch break. Thanks Cartess ✌🏻

[@TheGianagarel]

Sound and sage sermon before you start any journey. You have so many amazing sound bites that encourage and inform. Well well done!!

[@RobbyD-p3p]

I really appreciate your candor. I am looking forward to meeting you in 1/2026. This is my goal and I am working hard to saving as much as I can before retiring. I will be staying about 20+ days during the Christmas holiday. I will become a member soon and will reach out to you. Your content is very informative and REAL. I appreciate that as many should.

[@rose4u111]

Always great to see one of your videos, Cartess!🙋🏾‍♀️

[@annjean8709]

Outstanding video! Thank you for sharing.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@joedyeranch1]

Great Video. Thanks. We are planning to do 6 months in Mex. and 6 months up north somewhere. 63 years of Texas heat is enough for us. Your Video touches on just about everything we've taken into consideration . I'm sure each time we come back we'll try a new place/Town. Thanks again.

[@CVBibliosoph]

You give good information, Cartess. I just listened to this video for a second time next door while painting. I haven't had time to peruse your website yet, so mebbe it's covered already on your site. Another viable way to explore the world on a budget is to work as a volunteer in areas of the world that a person is considering as a new home. For USA people, the first organization that comes to mind is the Peace Corps. Here in Belize, as well as many parts of the world, there are both international and national NGO's always looking for extra people to lend a hand for a day, a week, or longer [with the proper permits]. If a person is involved in the church or some other accredited group in the US, they can check to see if there are mission trips available in the place of their interest for short term projects. Again, one must be aware of questionable groups out there who just wanting to fill dere own pockets under the guise of volunteerism; however, with due diligence, it's possible to network with reputable groups to explore the world and give back in return.

[@jeffreyfoster4260]

OUTSTANDING!!!

[@SaltNLightTV-01]

Thank you for keeping it real and setting the right expectations 🔥

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

🙌🙌🙌

[@travelsis3669]

I traveled from Playa Del Carmen to Merida about 2 weeks ago for business tried to take a walk...whew chilllle... I made it about 2 blocks and had to get an Uber. Glad to be back by the BEACH!

[@anthonysmith9170]

Great video and your knowledge is invaluable.

[@analalove419]

Thank you. This video is what I needed to hear at exactly the right time. Thank you.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

You are so welcome

[@tarascott5890]

This is wonderful information! Thank you for sharing!

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

You are so welcome!

[@maricryz]

It’s just like the opposite to extreme cold in places like Canada . You can’t go outside for like 2-3 months because it’s dangerous. Here it’s the same but with the heat ☀️🥵just try to stay inside during the day and do the minimal thins you can outside because from May to June it’s extremely hot . But you can live with you conditioner air. And during the night the temperatures are acceptable for hanging out with friends or family or going to the beach like progreso Lots of love to you all 🧡✨

[@hjdreams1429]

So many good points here! Truth and wisdom 🙌 ❤

[@CasaELM]

Glad they took a research trip, but sounds like they did no other research about Merida or Mexico... Oh, and if you're not into the heat, don't move to the depth of hell, Merida. Lol! Great Video Cartess!

[@dhobby7771]

Thanks bro for giving the total picture to the people. ATB from lovely Cancun. 😎

[@rui37CdjOe]

Cortes - You have SO much common sense, what my mother called „mother wit.“ If folks listen to your guidance they can make a smoother transition wherever they go in the world, without making a bunch of unecessary mistakes and wasting a lot of money.

[@Bible_Culture]

My experience is different, I love being in the country im in and its waaay more fun than when I was in the states. I never think about going back.

[@dragonwithagirltattoo598]

Good for you

[@michellemorrin5498]

Great video! Remember your "Why"!

[@roberthill1540]

Thanks

[@YouTubeBlueButterflies]

that's my TED talk for today, lol😅 that was real cute lol. You're 100% correct!

[@Troy-nc5br]

Merida in December is fantastic great weather I live in Nashville TN some it's hot in TN in the summer it is similar compared to Merida one day Merida will be a permanent home

[@hildazaid6684]

SO HAPPY TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE LEAVING!!!!

[@tinamama6954]

Moving around multiple times is part of the fun in Mexico my peeps Hot mess!!!, welcome...Bien benido folks!!🤭😂😂🤣😆🤣

[@marilynpeoples5099]

PREACH Cartess !!!

[@erickajones9023]

Great content 👌

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Thank you 🙌

[@marilynpeoples5099]

Loved my “ Privada” in Oaxaca.

[@jacqueparr4175]

🤣 lol… we have 107 days in our forecast for this week and part of next.🥵 with humidity of 87% I’m originally from New Orleans Hot 🥵 and very humid! My legs would sweat with shorts 🩳 Merida sounds very familiar to me here in the USA 🇺🇸 we get black outs often too! In the summer…

[@only1lisalove]

That's Real Talk!

[@byfaith48jr]

😅😂 Let me just say I visited in February, and that is considered the winter for Merida, I was told this by my Uber driver. So I was able to actually get out and about to really see what Merida was about without having to worry about the temperatures.

[@theone7371]

Great. Video...Cartess !!!

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Thanks for watching!

[@kendrabrownpersistence2178]

Im in AZ - Feels good to me... So I can take it LOL Love the channel

[@fdm2155]

Yeah, I spent a month in the Yucatan and realized the summers are too hot for me. That said, I thought CDMX weather was fine. I plan to check out some other places in that region next summer.

[@ronicmwest]

Thanks! I sent a message through your site but didn't see where to book a consultation or scouting trip. I'm planning for the fall. Merida is one of my possible cities. Please let me know if there is another way to reach out.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Hmmm. Shoot me an email: [e-mail]

[@Quilt4Joy]

I use to run, cycle, and hike in 105-107 weather. I don’t know why, but I thrive in heat. But 20 degrees feels like I’m in the Antarctic. I could never live where it snows, not even visit where it’s cold.

[@YogaBlissDance]

YOU ARE SO FUNNY! And great DJ voice! Like Satchmo... The fact that family WASN'T WILLING to visit other cities/places in MEXICO tells me one of them at least wasn't into it! I mean come on, pretty places book a B&B. They were 1 not prepared, or not commited.

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Exactly!! Agree 100%

[@cindyk3076]

Really good advice!

[@LK-by2cq]

Thanks for the info! How easy is it to buy a home in Merida?

[@sl2427]

My journey Muture female living abroad is to London ...can't wait to leave!! Btw obtaining Pilots license Super fantastic...👌🏽 is fun and great $$most expensive part is your plane training $150-279.00 gas per hour & Pilot and in flight training..US prices

[@MsLBN]

Wow, Thank you for the down to earth blood and guts reality. My question is, how many times do I have to go back to the US to redo the visa. The back and forth, that's expensive. It sounds like I have to stay in the US for 90 days. I need an upfront expectation of what's in store. I'd like it from you because you break it down, even tho Your dollars sounds longer than mine. I'm determined to come and investigate, and I want more of a "country" environment. Thanks for keeping it real!

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

It's an easy process getting a Resident Visa you just have to qualify financially. If not you would have to do border runs evey 180 days.Then after a year or so of doing that you can prove you are able to afford to live here and they will let you get your visa. You would have to go through a lawyer that is familiar with Immigration law Section 2, Article 54, Clause 3 that basically states that if can show you are able to live here you are eligible for a residence visa. Buena suerte!

[@erikablanco9135]

Can you recommend a video regarding online school for kids while traveling in Mexico?? Thanks!

[@jimenaguevara87]

Bravo 🎉

[@kohjhart]

Those people wanted to fall in love with Merida but they didn't so they left immediately. Why should someone stay at a place if they are not truly in love with it. They knew it early so they wasted no time and left Kudos to them.

[@lolasvow3732]

Heck I moved to a place in the US and thought I loved it but I ended up hating it. It can go either way.

[@fassmith5276]

Where did you move from Cartess? How long have you lived in Merida?

[@gm-qn8ri]

I already know merida or anywhere in the yucatan area is not for me .I don't mind the heat but i don't like high humidity.I'm interested in cool places like up in the mountains

[@ICreateMyPath]

Just spent 10 days in San Miguel de Allende on a relocation tour! Might be the perfect weather for you. Check our Michelle at Casa ELM.

[@CathAlexandra]

I would love to try Merida, but my old body can't take the heat. Still plan to visit during cooler months. I mean, I'm in the SE USA, and our summers are like winter up north. You don't go outside much. I stay in A/C July - September. Hot and humid, but not over 100s. Not sure if I want to keep doing this. Gotta' weight costs and benefits.

[@jvahl8747]

4th of July in SC has 109° heat index 🤮

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

wow

[@jvahl8747]

@@MoveAbroadandThrive with the heat & humidity in SC, it would be better in Mexico, where you could at least afford to live!

[@Mexicobeanpole]

Wanted to say about the family that landed in Merida and then wanted to leave right away. Have you ever landed in a place and said “this sucks”, and then stuck it out and 2 days later said wow, I was wrong this place is fantastic? Well, I have. This can happen for a variety of reasons. Maybe the day you landed it was an over cast day. Then someone was semi rude to you in a store. Then you had transportation problems. Plus, you were exhausted from travel and had it “up to here.” It wasn’t necessarily the fault of the place you landed. No place is perfect, you will have bad days where everything you touch seems to turn to 💩 , no matter where you are in the world. But, without giving it a few days to let it play out, you may pass on a gem. My only reason for leaving a place immediately is if I feel unsafe. Did that in Jamaica where in a few day visit I felt unsafe several times. But, all the other stuff? Small potatoes.

[@jkenho]

Safety is a big factor. Agree. AC made Las Vegas. Just need to up the electric resources in Merida area and it will boom even more.

[@AhemItsApril]

What do schools do with the kids when it's that hot? Is it like back east when they have "snow days?"

[@terrysmith8539]

It seems like they just didn't like Mexico as a whole. What's the rush and going back home so quickly? Why Didn't they go to a few other cities and check it out To see if the weather was More of what they were looking for?

[@shemari0129]

They should have had other options. Mexico is a huge place like the US so has a huge variety of living conditions. KZbin has people, Black people even, living in various places in Mexico. Why not do more research before landing? What a waste of time and money because of poor planning.

[@hildazaid6684]

Mexico has enough retirees, we dont really need anymore negative people!

[@terrysmith8539]

@@hildazaid6684 People should just do a little more research before they go to mexico . I mean it's not hard to Google a weather chart of marita to see what the average temperature there is I would know just by looking at the chart I wouldn't want to live there In the summertime . Come on people just do a little research for christ sake!

[@marilynpeoples5099]

So very, very important… Do Something!!!

[@mariavaldes7855]

Valle de Bravo Estado de Mexico looks like Sweden. Cool year around, but property is very expensive.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

That area is one of the expensive places to live in all of Mexico.

[@exploringwithbellanoche1286]

I’m hearing Portugal is nice👌

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

They tax all of your income, including SS and they have changed their visa requirements. I have some fairly well off friends who lived there for a couple of years and now they are moving to Mexico after visiting me.

[@richardhowe5583]

Maybe they should try lake chapala Mexico? What do you think about that place in Mexico for a good year around climate?

[@chasingtheAmericanDream]

Lake Chapala would have been a better option for them in terms of climate, however in lake Chapala they don’t have Uber, Uber eats, and some other things… but Chapala is a very nice area Ajijic is more smaller and has more of an older population and more expats in Ajijic.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

@@chasingtheAmericanDreamDid you two ever make it through the Ensenada area? It's one of the few beach towns that has a great climate year round and it's not a main tourist/gringo hotspot. It's a safe working town and everywhere I go people are happy and friendly.

[@chasingtheAmericanDream]

@@davidsebastianelli1326 No, we have never been there but hopefully one day we will visit! 😀🌊

[@heru-tehutire1329]

See I'm like due to fall and Winter in Meredith and Spring and summer in wahaka right😅

[@richardhowe5583]

Where is wahaka?

[@p.c.h.6721]

I hope one day you can compare living in Colombia to living in Mexico

[@moi20003]

Traveling without doing some research first is foolish! You can leave some room for spontaneity and discovery, but for the most part you should know what to expect.

[@jimmyjones1031]

What are the other places that you recommend that are not as hot

[@neshellerichardson1515]

Look we getting full anyway 😂😂 if it's too hot let em go 😂😂😂

[@TheyCallMeJTK]

They should come to Costa Rica

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

🙏🙏🙏

[@pearlperlitavenegas2023]

Cartess people go through the same process after they retire. It's fun & exciting for a few weeks, like they're on vacation Then reality sinks in. They're not going back to work. They get bored sitting in front of the TV day after day with nothing to do, no friends, no commute, no office gossip, no purpose etc. 🤯

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

Sometimes it's nice to do nothing all day and afterwards to rest. Although yesterday I jogged for an hour or so on the beach and surfed for two+ hours before going for a long walk down the malecon to get lunch at the world famous La Guerrerense and then walking back to my car.

[@chasingtheAmericanDream]

I couldn’t live in Merida because it’s too hot and I’m heat sensitive 🥵🔥 If Merida was cooler I would probably love it P.S Come to Michoacan! The weather is great here! Minus the heat wave we just got over (which is very very rare)

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

I'll have to look this city up Michoacan

[@chasingtheAmericanDream]

@@MoveAbroadandThrive Morelia specifically 👍

[@lovelyapples7708]

@@chasingtheAmericanDream Zacatecas is beautiful!!

[@enyahargett4897]

Truth!!!!!

[@lynnebolduc5026]

I think finding your "why" and setting what your expectations are for your new standard of life. If you want USA/Canada Life, stay put. If you're ready for a new experience and living at a slower pace, Mexico might be for you!

[@MoveAbroadandThrive]

Perfectly said!

[@CathAlexandra]

I sell used stuff here in the states. Is selling on secondhand markets a thing there? Flea markets? Is it frowned upon for US Americans to sell stuff, if not illegal? Guessing you need permits or residency status?