Sexual Harassment | Real Talk Season 2 Episode 4

[@sherylcyril6091]

Please have more of jade, I miss her a lot

[@user-zx5js1xc1l]

She’s honestly Super informative

[@angelskypad]

I really appreciate Kishan's statements towards the end of the episode empowering people to speak up and how it's annoying that society still loves labelling people by things like race or sexual orientation when that shouldnt be the case

[@rostallahahas]

Rly like Kishan as a cast here. He brings a mature view calling for societal change. Great chemistry w Jade especially!!

[@chelsstells96]

I LOVE JADE she is not just a pretty face aaaahh

[@onelifelorc1629]

PLASTIC SURGERY HAHAHA..

[@933roastduck]

She is an awesome mommy too.

[@ewong1432]

She has brain and looks, perfect

[@taeijuan9899]

Who is jade? Can you tell me their names?

[@NoMercyLaVoyage]

EL W i mean. She licked a chicken cuz she didnt wanna eat but the guy didnt wana share

[@luquier599]

the opening minutes of them scaring John had me laughing hahaa

[@JohnathanChuaa]

But cannot play ahhhh

[@luquier599]

@@JohnathanChuaa yaya that one cannot joke

[@zarmishazakaria8720]

I really like Jade, she is genius & said wise word

[@NaziYul]

Beauty with brains like a rare gem.

[@knightsljx]

5:30 As they always say, 50 Shades of Grey is a love story because the guy is rich. If the guy stay HDB, then it would be an episode of Crimewatch

[@LittleStrawbirdy]

Hmm, to offer a different POV - it's not that it would be an episode of Crimewatch *just because* the guy is poor/unattractive but rather, in the 50 Shades of Grey situation - the woman is clearly attracted to the rich guy and he happens to be her secret fantasy kind of guy, it's just that she's naive and new to sex. It's a love story *because* it is written to be one. It's essentially porn for women who like that kind of grey area/blurry line stuff in their fantasies (key point being fantasies). Just like how in mainstream porn, there's always sexy plumber/babysitter/teacher/student porn, etc - these obviously don't play out in real life & if it did, it'd be a Crimewatch episode too.

[@nil-8026]

Twilight/handsome too

[@frostbitepokin9520]

😂😂 ikr

[@shirlynn297]

DED

[@CuePie]

ago 😂

[@tyencee]

tho its a fresh sight to see a new set of cast, i really feel like their really calm speakers and super informative while being polite like i love the way kishan speaks up about humanity and the injustice towards the gay community!

[@johnnyhs_ngnng5554]

Can any body please tell me who is YZY who picked on me when I comment abt China, recently but does not leave any email address for me to reply him.

[@elliotw.888]

so glad that they made the video longer for such a loaded topic

[@xalch]

Glad to see Jade back in Real Talk!

[@LittleStrawbirdy]

I feel like the "If a good looking guy does it, it's not sexual harassment" argument always comes up but let me just share my perspective - It's not "creepy" nor sexual harassment because if an attractive guy does it, then the attraction is more likely mutual (only in instances where it *is* mutual; of course not 100% of the time women will fancy such advances made on them no matter how handsome the guy is) & the woman reciprocates the man's advances, e.g. wants to sleep with him too. Also, when women (or men) calls a person "creepy" it's not so much the action that is creepy (Or else, this would mean that letting your partner touch your butt but not a random stranger touch your butt is considered a double standard, which it is not) but the vibe they give off before & after the action - E.g. a woman gets asked for her number by a guy in a respectful way - not creepy. If she gets asked for her number by a guy who kept staring at her & leering & whistling at her - creepy. But people always misunderstand this as, "Oh, so if a handsome guy asks for your number, it's not creepy?" without understanding the nuances. Anyway, to re-emphasise my points - It doesn't mean that everything an unattractive person does is considered "creepy". A handsome guy can be considered "creepy" too. Also... I VOLUNTEER TO TOUCH JADE!

[@encesolezera506]

louder for the girls who thinks attractive guys are allowed to commit sexual harassment. its like they close one eyes on them. idk why. sexual harassment is sexual harassment no matter how the the person looks.

[@shukailu6731]

Wow that's actually really insightful

[@CrystalSnowKiss]

Totally agree! And not just out in public places / social hangouts, i feel that another point to bring up is when the situation occurs at your office/company. In this case, it may not go to 'direct' sexual harassment, but more like general discomfort towards a certain person, be it whether they are good looking or not. To me, my creep-o-meter goes up when someone like that is around. It is harder to tell when someone is a creep as they are being their 'work' selves, and only during occasional social/informal gatherings, their true selves may creep out (pun intended), and that's when i was shocked and doubtful because I thought they weren't like that during the (however long) period I got to know them. Not really sure what my point is but just a scenario that i experienced in my workplace. I guess its just to warn people that's how creeps creep up to you in the workplace, it will always be actions and words towards me that makes that person a creep to me, whether they are good looking or not. Their true selves will always reveal themselves and i guess that you have to be careful, especially at a place where you have to deal with them long term. :/ I have so much more to say about warning signs but i can't really organize my thoughts and experience at the moment... What the hosts said is right, ALWAYS trust your instincts!!

[@RonLarhz]

And that includes lesbians and gays... I'm les, can vouch. Had a hot-ish person creepily grab my ass in a crowd. If she had approached normally, maybe got chance. But super NOPE when it's unwanted/consentless. The only relieve i had was discovering it's at least a female and not a male.

[@Eiav.k]

But more often than not it really comes down to bias , and most of the times people who are not considered good looking get bashed on . If you're good looking , you already have a good impression without having to converse or introduce yourself to anyone. It just can't be helped .

[@teambark2]

Love how the topics are something people are not open to talk about. Watching this helps people who experienced such things to understand what happened to them, accept that our feelings are legit and share how we can felt regarding such issues.

[@lisaoppa5784]

If I’m not wrong for the gym case. The trainer who filmed it actually did approach the victim and talked about it before posting it. She also asked the victim for permission to share this story with everyone. The purpose of the video was to let girls know that this is not normal and not be afraid to ask for help or call these people out.

[@ame196]

Wow i just love Jade! She is so informative and damn chill.

[@soapy2587]

jade is literally definition of brains and beauty. intellectual queen

[@berenice3626]

okay but what if you get harrassed by people close to you, it's another level of difficulty of speaking up and the trauma and guilt you feel

[@JohnLee-dk5zz]

YES JADE. her commentary is so informative and also entertaining. and props to eric for being visible for the gay community. we stan a diverse and well educated cast 👍🏻

[@chelseachintari3455]

I love this episode. And Jade is smart, know about the law and know the community for the topic

[@Shortofheight]

Chemistry between everyone here is a lot better

[@hughmadson5131]

Yes their discussion is really deep and meaningful with great points not just “locker room talk” like it was before.

[@Iendleasereit]

yes... have JADE or one of the OGs a mainstay

[@cashmerehazel21]

I think it's because the rest of the new crew suddenly became more well-behaved and more sober. The previous episodes were as if they were trying to one-up each other to see who is a better clown (except Farah who was more serious and respectful).

[@churrowaffless]

TRUEEE

[@eveamy1608]

@hugh madson i agree!

[@SnowFire05]

Johnathan be like, no nononono don't get me into trouble pls, my wife will kill me ;-;

[@SnowFire05]

Okay this is one of the rarest times I got over 100 likes, I appreciate it but we can stop now, i want to stay in my 1-like zone

[@SmileyStarz]

This was a really great episode, and I love the points that Kishan and Jade brought to the table. Keep it up, will look forward to future episodes like this!

[@ShewDieBro]

Kishan's word of wisdom :o

[@kurama3811]

very mature talks and this is an amazing episode, thank you for this!

[@amadcamey575]

This is one of the reasons i watch them. They share their experience and advice people to be careful

[@user-yr6wk6us5t]

Thanks Jade for highlighting the 377A issue

[@xionggor2146]

When Jade is in the house, the video is twice longer than the others. Awesome. Keep it up 💪 But still all of the episode content is awesome as well

[@ashechua5803]

The recent voyeurism case at Ntu Hall 14 and the different reactions compared to the Monica Baey case last year, it's quite disappointing. The Hall 14 case was a guy on guy crime and the comments made it look less serious when it wasn't :(

[@ashechua5803]

And the culprit gave excuses that it was because he was playful and that he was curious. He also tried to settle the matter with cash in private.

[@RonLarhz]

The Monica baey one is already disappointing. Many r siding/shielding the guy and saying she did it for likes/revenge etc.

[@ErryDainialBonch]

Jade never fail to impress me everytime!!! Damn! I would love and enjoy talking and listening to her with all these topic issues. I believe she can and will make me think hard, cry and have a huge impact / lesson learnt for me

[@RonLarhz]

If ugly person say the same thing will u listen? 🤣🤣🤣

[@genevieveyen6960]

I loved this episode. So informative and educational while being entertaining. I hope future episodes are like this!

[@glennteyjc]

Kishan looked genuinely uncomfortable when farah moved in on him so sensually lol

[@jjaikishan7625]

Just Cause the topic was sexual Harassment😏

[@sunsetorchard5171]

Because.Kishan is a good person

[@Jejdjejbfjf]

Thanks for pointing out the double standard... I have good looking friends who make extremely graphic comments to girls, and the girls laugh it off. I know I can't do the same without getting called a creep. Sometimes simply talking to a girl makes me seem creepy even though I dont intend to do anything weird to them, idk what to do lol.

[@tyencee]

this video is not only eye-opening but also super informative! i enjoyed this ep!

[@soobeomgi2801]

“girls can touch me” I PANICKED >

[@xavierucblur5076]

John, the main reason I keep watching Real Talk since season 1.. And yes, wild John appeared today.. !

[@rbfloaty]

I think a good rule of thumb is if it's: 1. unwanted 2. and uninvited Then it can be considered sexual harassment. Of course this isn't a be all end all, but generally if intimate contact falls into both of those categories it's safe to assume it's harassment

[@lialia3796]

the thing is sometimes being nice translated by guy as inviting.

[@FLSVince]

“no ahh don’t play ah this kind of thing”

[@BurnPhoenix135]

I liked this episode a lot, it's my favourite! The chemistry here was great and real points were made tbh

[@kxyr28]

jade is amazing in this episode. already knew she was smart but love how she's using her platform to inform and educate!

[@Joekool88]

Wished to see more of John! But glad he is expanding his role by being a producer :)

[@MinahBelohz]

This is probably one of the best episode i've ever watch on real talk.. 👍🏼👍🏼

[@smallboss1826]

Personally liked this video more from the previous one!! Great chemistry 😬

[@VillainShow]

Why does this smell like Dee Kosh all over it???

[@NiqTAM]

Siao

[@EMBAR93]

Love hearing Jade and Kishan here in this episode

[@dwbyzance5193]

Kishan is very awesome!! Loving the way he speaks with alot of clarity

[@ImANightCreature]

Tbh I don't think looks change the harassment aspect. If someone is being creepy and their action / behaviour is putting you off it's harassment. I wouldn't feel flattered if it was someone that's hot but not my type (or if I'm not in the mood) shoot suggestive comments / actions at me, I'll be similarly angry. The 'hot people get away with it' stereotype is probably because there's a higher chance of mutual appreciation hitting off so the women/men did not feel uncomfortable / creeped out. Objectively speaking I had a prof who didn't look half that bad but he was always being inappropriate around female students (he's married!! ugh) and we all think he's creepy (we used to find him attractive before we saw his true colours). Also welcome back Jade!!

[@calista2933]

I'M EARLY AND I SEE JADE!!!!!!

[@DeionizedLife]

Woah early to this vid. So does that mean Jade is in Real Talk and Just saying? Haha

[@hyeeeyoungieee]

best episode ever. thank you for using your platform to create more awareness with your viewers in regards to this topic, and hopefully give courage to whoever needs it.

[@shafsitrhshafsitrh8634]

They should do this type of topic often!!! Love jade!!

[@learngrow9496]

Great episode. Very useful resources and advice. Thanks for doing this!

[@localbreakfastproductions4431]

Hi there Real Talk. You guys have inspired me to make a show that also speaks about certain issues in an open and entertaining manner. But I have a few things that I REALLY would like to share with you guys. First and foremost, the first season of Real Talk was extremely entertaining with the original four, Jade, Dew, John and Saff. Saff and her Holoq Holoq, Jade and her wealth of experience and information, Dew and John as the cherry atop the icing. The first season was awesome. Now, I also too love the Second Season. Kishan, bro, keep being the gel that binds all the information of all the new members of Real Talk. Good job team. Really love the effort.

[@dontalktomebye]

This video with Jade is sooo much better than the previous ones 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@weednim1272]

Finally! One "decent" episode of Real Talk. Well done Kishan!

[@christophersinambela]

this episode was coolll no capp

[@xxuaan]

Then just talk to the manager lah "Tf u calling me a Karen?"

[@gawd_jihyo]

There used to be many creeps near my school (girls school) like flashers and molesters. In our school, we wear shirt, shorts,(p.e. attire) and a pinafore over. We were told one time this girl was walking home after school, and she wasnt wearing her pinafore, just pe shirt and shorts. Then someone asked the student for directions and when she was looking at the map, the person pulled her pe shorts down and ran away. So now, it is a rule that we have to put on our pinafore before leaving the school. Some students gave their opinion that we can put "sexual harrasment is illegal" posters around but that didnt happen. So some girls "rebelled" and left the school without their pinafore, got caught and punished. The school is very sensitive about these things but even now, there are still creeps lurking near the school. This is so nice.....

[@raysongoh]

Impressed with Jai Kishan on that part about humanity, awesome!

[@luciferrr3153]

Damn Jade! The definition of beauty and brains. How broad her general knowledge is. 🔥🔥🔥

[@brandonong1354]

Saw Jade once in Arena bar KL. Hot in pictures, hotter in person . She asked me to go on stage . Was nervous af . But she was nice. Reallll nice 😍

[@lolz2435]

Farah is the kind of friend you know will always have your back. Strong personality, has an air of righteousness around her

[@KelvinCrLin]

Jade made a difference with her experience in talk show, the new casts is good too

[@christontan1341]

Love this Episode! Keep Speaking the truth MOSG!!

[@faizso]

Great episode. Love it! I miss Jade and the others.

[@asdfghjcjy2504]

pls get more of kishan and jade AND SUCH TOPICS!!!! bringing up a notch to Real Talk.

[@maomi3672]

Bring Jade back more pls, she's so insightful!!

[@villmettlevine7869]

Best episode yet...Good job guys👍🏻

[@natashaadelina7325]

Real talk being reaaalest ever. such a great episode

[@iffah2025]

the ending part when kishan was telling us to stand up for ourselves no matter our sexual orientation whatsoever made me cry :(

[@ardinalukita98]

learned a lot from this vid! well said 😭❤ love from indonesia!

[@M3lified]

This is a very informative episode, thanks for it!!!

[@kristie8413]

Kishan is awesome at keeping things on topic and steering the discussion the right way. I love the old Real Talk, but this new one is maybe even better cos of the deep discussion and food for thought. More Jon back on camera though please!

[@nisyyahzulkifly7921]

I JUST LOVE KISHAN'S PREACH AND THAT'S IT.

[@k_iara8999]

I really love the diversity in this season! keep up the good work Real Talk team!!

[@HKspurs10]

0:50 john!!! hahaha

[@Wint3rVi0l3t]

I cannot bring myself to finish watching this. It's too painful as it brings me back to my darkest place. 😢

[@sizzleyou]

I'm sorry you had to go through such a traumatic experience. Stay strong!

[@btbtbtstrash7953]

i swear i saw this a few minutes ago ?? pressed it and it said it was private HAHHAHA

[@lovelyapril26]

I loved this episode. Thank you so much

[@oliviaatthesea]

Thanks for bringing this up! Good topic to create awareness

[@PBSCOTCH]

Some people think a sorry is okay and give all sorts of excuses why they did it,for example, they are drunk but it still reflects you as a person.Disgusting.

[@danielletan521]

Love this ep! Full w contents! Love it x3!

[@sharmaineang2991]

so happy to see Jade back

[@FIFO_fastIn_fastout]

Really like this episode 👍🏽

[@herocreature]

Not a lot of things to laugh about in this video, but thanks for such an informative episode!

[@Steffyduffyy]

This is great content!! Love jade and eric!!

[@mildredbethany988]

I don't know why but I noticed how Jade was talking about like the gut feeling/instincts(at about like 14:20) and like she kinda looked sad or affected :(🥺

[@RoyalCaoCao]

As an athlete & personal trainer myself. There is NO WAY I would be touching my client in that way, be it male or female. It's simply sexual harassment.

[@elisabaath735]

I’m happy Jade is back this episode!! hahaha

[@nickkamila]

Jade is the Queen!

[@rachellin2253]

Singapore penal code that recognises what is harassment isn’t comprehensive, so most sexual harassment cases have not enough grounds for the police to make an arrest. But let’s say you do call the police and you tell them that you feel threatened, the police will arrest the perpetrator, but it’s up to the court to finally decide whether the person is guilty. That is for police cases. But what if you don’t have evidence or you don’t call the police immediately? Then it’s a civil case and you have to actually find a lawyer and then go to the court and get a protection order, which is not easy to get. My point is that the law set against sexual harassment is so LACKING and getting justice is so hard which should not be. We have to create a culture to speak up whenever you feel sexually harassed and feel uncomfortable. This is not a call out culture, it’s different, it’s to build courage and rationality. We should also start building a culture of correction, NOT condemnation. And that also depends on the perpetrator, are you open to being corrected? Or are you so defensive that you don’t want to admit that although you may not have bad intentions, your actions had bad reactions.

[@lolz2435]

really impressed with jade' s thought process. Keep it up!

[@JiaoJiaoSon]

Kishan is superb!

[@nurinsofiah]

such a good informative video~

[@wondersoulz]

GREAT EPISODE. LOVE THIS CAST!

[@lyrehsoet]

Really good episode!

[@ryanyeo5344]

damn. what kishan said is so true.

[@meboomzxc]

Jade made it so much better 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@arroilenehtsirk132]

More people need to know this...

[@MegaWorkwork]

finally a long episodeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[@Fadil19-84]

OG member Jade Rasif 😍😍

[@firsfdm2782]

i think it's simply consent when it comes to sexual harassment. If you want to be touched so be it..that's fine. If you don't wanna get touched and the person still touches you, yeah that is definite harassment. the severity depends on where you have been touched. Just respect the person. period.