Healthy parents teach their children independence and self-reliance. But alienating parents foster dependency and vulnerability in their children. Alienators need to be needed. Healthy parents love their children more than they need their children. But alienators need their children more than they love their children. In younger children alienators sow seeds of fear. In older children they sow seeds of hatred. This ensures the child's undivided love. Healthy parents teach a child that the world is full of imperfect people who sometimes make mistakes and sometimes disappoint us. But alienators teach a child to see the world in black and white; people are either all-good or all-bad. Any real mistakes an "all-bad" person makes become the entirety of who they are. Alienators are masters of manipulation, and there are two main subtypes. Alienators with narcissistic traits (mostly men) are control freaks. They see themselves as perfect and anyone who dares to oppose them as inferior. They speak with charisma and conviction. Alienators with borderline traits (mostly women) are sympathy freaks. They see themselves as victims and anyone who dares to oppose them as abusers. They speak with passion and drama. Regardless of the subtype, alienators are very convincing. Most people are duped. And by most people I mean friends, family members, teachers, coaches, counselors, custody evaluators, guardians ad litem, and, of course, their own children. The end result of all this manipulation is that the child aligns themself almost completely with the alienating parent. There are many reasons for this, and comparisons have been made to Stockholm syndrome/trauma bonding, but I believe a better analogy is that of cults. Whenever the child agrees with, or sympathizes with, or shows devotion to the alienator, then the alienator lavishes them with affection and makes them feel like a million dollars. But if the child ever falters in their devotion, then the alienator responds with the opposite extreme. This is exactly how cult leaders are able to manipulate adults over a period of months. Now imagine a vulnerable child, who has no escape, being conditioned like this their entire life. The psychopathology underlying parental alienation has been referred to as pathological enmeshment, since the child's personality is basically subsumed by that of the alienator. It has also been called the gatekeeper phenomenon, since the alienator becomes the gatekeeper of the child's heart and mind. Whatever the alienator likes, the child reflexively likes; whatever the alienator hates, the child reflexively hates. All of this happens long before the divorce, long before the actual alienation. And then, at the time of divorce, when the alienator feels rejected by their spouse, and the alienator fears they might lose the undivided devotion of their children, the actual alienation takes place surprisingly quickly. The gatekeeper simply closes the gate. This is also why the mental health and legal professionals often get parental alienation cases wrong. They cannot imagine why a child would suddenly reject a normal, loving parent. They fail to recognize that what looks like a warm, close relationship between the child and the favored parent is actually a longstanding form of co-dependency. It's a folie à deux. It's emotional incest. "Just listen to my child!" the alienator cries to the court. "They'll tell you how inferior/abusive the other parent is!" But it is no longer the child who speaks. Alienated children grow up hating half of who they are. They are prone to a host of psychosocial problems later in life. This is why Parental Alienation is NOT a child custody issue. It's a child PROTECTION issue.
@RicardoCray3 жыл бұрын
Amen 2 tht‼️
@foreste853 жыл бұрын
What do I do to get my son back?
@dappa3112 жыл бұрын
Very interesting read and I understood all of quite clear. You must be a physcologist ?
@martinspalding16622 жыл бұрын
I profoundly disagree about mostly men that alienated their children. It's obvious in this video that women can be nefarious. I have dealt/ dealing with a narcissistic parental alienation ex. I have worked her out and by God I hope my children do too . Courts cost money, I am spent emotionally, financially, spiritually and mentally. Everything else you have said, "100% spot on the mark ".
@dappa3112 жыл бұрын
@@martinspalding1662 man I feel your pain brother , trust me, I can relate to everything you said . I deal with the same thing and yeah the courts will drain you and leave you bankrupt. The sad part about it all is it shouldn’t be that way but it is and it’s all for profit , the state government and private law firms. Children are used as commercial instruments to profit off of and the women are incentivized to behave poorly ; because the know they can run to the government and they will be protected and allowed to do as they please with your offspring.
@TampaJohn5 жыл бұрын
If the dad did that, he would have gotten 15 years. Not 15 days.
@jeromegarcia53964 жыл бұрын
Bruh, we don't come close to equality...
@cultofmalgus13104 жыл бұрын
equality is not apart of our system. It discriminates in terms of gender and race on a daily basis. She should have gotten 1 day in jail for everyday that the father and child didnt see each other.
@Allsmilelovee4 жыл бұрын
Did I not understand what the judge said correctly?? Because I calculated it to be 90 days over the course of 6 years. Which I agree it’s definitely a slap on the wrist and she deserves much more than that. But I’m just checking to see if I understood the time spent in jail correct or not
@Allsmilelovee4 жыл бұрын
Goodim Glad I’m so sorry!!!😭
@michaelw36344 жыл бұрын
She should get 3 years in jail!
@measl5 жыл бұрын
*This "sentencing" is a slap on the wrist, and inappropriate to the severity of her acts.*
@starscream89365 жыл бұрын
imagine if genders were reversed.
@jw74364 жыл бұрын
The state should’ve file criminal charges
@porkchop21394 жыл бұрын
Jail her for 6 YRS + sentence time. The same duration of time she alienated the father + time of the crime
@florian85994 жыл бұрын
The true punishment for her is: She has no family anymore. And as J. C. pointed out: This is a family court. The judge didn't have the jurisdiction to impose higher sentences... But I bet, she would have, if she could.
@sledgenwedge4 жыл бұрын
should have gotten day-for-day that she deprived her husband of their children
@weeannie4955 жыл бұрын
Children grow into adults. They remember everything! Who’s good - who’s bad.
@foreverchained90704 жыл бұрын
Thats what my mom should have thought about before almost killing me as a child cause of munchausen by proxy. Now im an adult and both her and her wallet are not enjoying my court case against her il tell u that!!! 😂
@lastpringle89044 жыл бұрын
@@foreverchained9070 I can only imagine the well deserved smug grin on your face right now
@TheHumanVirus4 жыл бұрын
Yeah if the child survives long enough. My son never got that chance. My son died Dec. 2nd 2017 from having a syringe shoved down his throat while in his mothers care. My son was 2 and a half years old.
@foreverchained90704 жыл бұрын
@@TheHumanVirus omg that is absolutely horrendous!!! I am so sorry for both you and your son having to go thru that. Just because someone is a woman doesnt mean they should be a mother, i strongly believe EVERYONE should have a psych evaluation before they are able to have and raise a child for the childs safety and it shocks me there still isnt something like that in place as a precaution. Sending love and healing prayers your way♥
@thesunbehindthesun15744 жыл бұрын
@@TheHumanVirus that is one of the most heartbreaking and infuriating things I have read in awhile. I am so sorry man.
@chuckhancock4551 Жыл бұрын
She should have done a day in jail for every day she kept the kids from their father.
@BirdDogey15 жыл бұрын
She got less than a year in jail for keeping the children away from Dad for 6 years. Unbelievable.
@jillsmith18465 жыл бұрын
944 days
@robertyanes47514 жыл бұрын
Outrageous...basically gave her the right to continue to abuse her children, and their Father. Feel so bad for the Father.
@nikkid48904 жыл бұрын
@@robertyanes4751 If she does it again, it will be far worse for her next time, and easier to prove too as she has a history of it. My heart breaks for this father, and his children
@NativeNYerChicHK4 жыл бұрын
No where near 6 years, there are 365 days a year and the judge clearly said she had kidnapped them for 944 days, that makes it just a little over 2 and a half years. Not that, that makes it much better, but no need to exaggerate.
@johnholdson76304 жыл бұрын
Worst human to be in this world- White American Male
@lullubelljingles95674 жыл бұрын
When you hate the other parent more than you love your child. The suffering inflicted is a tragedy
@taraarrington22852 жыл бұрын
It's very sad.
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
UM, wo-MEN do this to MEN, MEN do not do this to wo-MEN
@jenshaw8085 Жыл бұрын
@@josephesposito3499Men absolutely do it to women too 🙄 It’s not a gender issue.
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
@@jenshaw8085 Um, >NOPE! wo-MEN initiate 85% of divorce, wo-MEN have SEVEN TIMES more sexual partners than a MAN, by the age of 24, wo-MEN perpetrate 83% of child abuse, wo-MEN perpetrate TWICE as many child murders as MEN, and it is MOSTLY >wo-MEN who deny MEN axcess to their child, NOT MEN! Same with FALSE accusations, >mostly >wo-MEN who do this. Sorry, NOPE, YES it >IS a GENDER issue, mostly caused by>wo-MEN
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
LAUGH OUT LOUD! >YOU KNOW DAMM WELL IT IS MOSTLY >wo-MEN who do this to MEN! It is NOT equal, >MOSTLY the MOTHERS who do this! Bullshit on your post!
@adriannehubbert78254 жыл бұрын
She’s punishing her kids more than her ex-husband. Shame on her.
@tyronehuston12604 жыл бұрын
And that sentence is ridiculous!!!
@adriannehubbert78254 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry about my grammar, worry about those kids being punished for something that’s no fault of their own. Go troll somebody else cause I’m not the one. However , if you want to do this I most definitely have time for your shit.
@tyronehuston12604 жыл бұрын
@@adriannehubbert7825 I'm talking about the sentence passed by the judge 😒 it's too light
@tyronehuston12604 жыл бұрын
@UCkrKPpvp9o11SoA5x7LwPHg story of my life on Facebook lol I understand. No worries
@adriannehubbert78254 жыл бұрын
Tyrone Huston and I was just a character in that story. On another note, that was F’d up what this lady did
@emilymacabhiocair Жыл бұрын
Parental alienation is massively difficult to prove. I'm glad this man was able to do this and protect his children.
@darylrichardson8567 Жыл бұрын
No it’s not. If the mother makes a claim, it should be investigated. However, when they file false DV cases, the men roll over & say: ‘that’s my child’s mother & I don’t want to stress her anymore’. Notice she tried physical abuse, but was proven a liar. However, the Courts let the female maintain custody (the child will be irrevocably traumatized if they change school or daycare FOH) & this 💩 takes YEARS FOR TO MAKE HIM GIVE UP! They’ll fast track ANYTHING she wants though. It’s JUDICIAL OVERREACH
@emilymacabhiocair Жыл бұрын
@@darylrichardson8567 you'll be alright bud. I totally had a different experience with my case. My child was removed due to a false claim the father made. He was irreversibly traumatized by going from my care to his father's care. It took 9 months for a custody evaluation to be done and in that time my son suffered intense psychological, verbal and mental abuse. When I did get my son back into my care and the father was appropriately charged for his tall tale bullshit and he was required to pay back all the state benefits he stole while he had temporary custody, justice was served for me. But it does not only happen to men when females claim DV. It happens in reverse too.
@emilymacabhiocair Жыл бұрын
@@darylrichardson8567 "that's my child's mother and I don't want to stress her anymore" 😂 I wish. My ex railroaded me and buried me to the best of his ability. I paid over 100k in court costs. NOTHING about my case was fast tracked. The whole thing took 3 years, 9 months and 2 weeks. Luckily they gave me my son back after the first 9ish months but the damage was done.
@dorbie Жыл бұрын
Kidnap is pretty conclusive evidence.
@MrsTruthTeller Жыл бұрын
Not that hard. A tell-tell sign is when kids can’t tell you any details about what their parent is doing to them that is so bad. They can usually tell you why they hate the parent and they can usually tell you how they feel but they almost always struggle with providing any details that led to those feelings. Usually when you ask them enough questions, they’re unable to really describe anything. Or when they do describe it, it doesn’t sound like something that should warrant such a dramatic and emotional reaction.
@noproblem2big3375 жыл бұрын
This man has gone through hell and back, parental alienation is a cancer in our society...
@Hawaiiansky114 жыл бұрын
It is regarded as literal child abuse. As I tell people, I listened to my mother run down my father every chance she got (they stayed together for reasons only satan knows), and all it did was make me feel closer to him and more alienated from her. So to my bf's ex, "Keep up the good work, b."
@anitabonghit27584 жыл бұрын
Family loyalty is subversive to a state that demmands loyalty from its subjects. Luckily the state found a way to destroy those bonds; the woman
@sandyherron43914 жыл бұрын
yes it is and almost impossible to prove.
@charlotteferdinand12464 жыл бұрын
@@anitabonghit2758 exactly my man is dealing with this right now. He just filed contempt of court paperwork against both his son's moms. I let my ex see my kid every weekend. Parental alienation is evil. I wanna punch certain mother's in their faces for this. I wanna murder my boyfriend's exes.
@anitabonghit27584 жыл бұрын
@Chief Big Bob ok, boomer. You brainwashed idealogue piece of shit
@lindac24127 жыл бұрын
The utter selfishness of any person who uses their child/children to punish their ex-partner is something I find inexcusable and reprehensible.
6 жыл бұрын
Linda C Exactly! After all, women already have alimony laws to punish their ex-husbands, they don't need to use their children too.
@herbertcarrillo-ramos37726 жыл бұрын
Linda C I agree , this happens DAILY in the LATIN WORLD....
@hvvbgbdcxd6 жыл бұрын
Not to mention psychotic.
@jessejennings38286 жыл бұрын
The only reason women have kids is to get paid.
@dranzerjetli51266 жыл бұрын
In the wild mother animals kill their child if they are in trouble to save themselves so you can see that the evolutionary system is such that mother's will hurt their children for their self gain
@johnnyreb41954 жыл бұрын
My kids and I have been going through this for 9 YEARS. May God punish these malignant narcissist women/men who do these horrible things
@joeysprezza74 Жыл бұрын
I'm with you man. 10 years in
@c.1211 Жыл бұрын
@@joeysprezza74 im with you. Im 6 years in.
@ChuckLilly Жыл бұрын
Coming up on 6 years myself.
@johnnyreb4195 Жыл бұрын
@@ChuckLilly it's almost 9 now... good luck brother and God bless you and yours
@markjohnson157 Жыл бұрын
7 for me
@user-peach408 Жыл бұрын
She deserved the same time in jail that was stolen from the father. Shame on the judge and that state judicial system!!
@KS-zc4jn Жыл бұрын
I had the same thought. At the least, it should be one day served for each day the kids were missing. Maybe even multiply that by two since there were two children missing.
@3adgamd3r Жыл бұрын
Female privilege bro
@user-peach408 Жыл бұрын
@@3adgamd3r not a bro!
@3adgamd3r Жыл бұрын
@@user-peach408 okay sis
@cherylhuot4436 Жыл бұрын
Typical Minnesota justice system results.
@gunnyjwells19774 жыл бұрын
SALUTE TO THE FATHER FOR FIGHTING FOR HIS OWN
@asafaust88694 жыл бұрын
Stupid woman hated him more than she loved her children. She needs mental help.
@cellogirl11rw554 жыл бұрын
@@asafaust8869 I agree. I hope she has to undergo psychiatric treatment during her probationary period.
@dominiquejenkins54954 жыл бұрын
@@asafaust8869 oooh you said a mouthful there
@dominiquejenkins54954 жыл бұрын
@playlists exactly
@omalone11694 жыл бұрын
@@dominiquejenkins5495 what is parental alienation
@vickylawrence39585 жыл бұрын
An example why a mother is not always the best parent.
@amandarecoveryjones82164 жыл бұрын
Facts
@pennydls50734 жыл бұрын
Louder for the people at the back 🙌
@kaitietheukulelelady56454 жыл бұрын
@Be Frank most child abusers are the mother because mothers make up a significantly higher percentage of caregivers than fathers. The important statistic is as caregivers, are mothers or fathers more likely to commit abuse, and the answer is fathers. This article discusses the math www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/statistics.html
@kaitietheukulelelady56454 жыл бұрын
@Be Frank That said we shouldn't judge either group by a statistic. Both mothers and fathers can be amazing caregivers
@kaitietheukulelelady56454 жыл бұрын
@Be Frank I 100 percent agree with your first comment and that the father should have control in this case. Women do perpertrate more abuse, but if you adjust the numbers to make it equal amounts of male and female caregivers males are commiting more abuse. Numbers are difficult to interpret correctly until you do the correct statistical analysis and adjustments. I hope you have a nice day or night
@MusicIsARainbow4 жыл бұрын
Shame on parents who use their children as weapons against each other!
@Hawaiiansky114 жыл бұрын
They need more than shame. They need to be held accountable.
@dariuszb79534 жыл бұрын
Can't you afford to admit that it's women who handicap their children to tease their fathers? If fathers were given full parental rights and not mothers, the children would then have both parents. Fathers act for the good of their children and find meaning in their lives in this. They understand that children need contact with their mother. It's that simple, but impossible for female judges.
@Nevertrustalawyer4 жыл бұрын
And sex!
@iAmNothingness4 жыл бұрын
Sorry but the system is very much AGAINST MEN. In 99% of the cases IT'S THE MOTHER THAT DOES THIS. NOT THE FATHER. Because the mother, unless she's drinking hard and abusing drugs, she's always seen as the better parent. My mother almost killed me. Because this stupid system is designed for Women and not for Men. Instead of supporting both and giving BOTH the same chances. Men do not get any chances. It's not people. It's mothers destroying soooo many kids lifes and their Mens. Seriously.
@kapildhingra204 жыл бұрын
Every woman seems to say that until they are in the position of power
@mamaraya88183 жыл бұрын
How lucky those children are to have a father who loves them enough to fight for them. And shame on any mother who would try and destroy that.
@krysdanielle1973 Жыл бұрын
Mothers are not the only ones that do this stuff. My ex-boyfriend has not let me have my son in 1.5 years and only allows me to video chat 3 times a week. If they do answer on those days, they always have my son distracted. He lives states away.
@epicsshadesmaster-animatio439810 ай бұрын
My mum tried it I felt bad for my dad atfirst but after I saw how he was to me and my brother I didn’t feel any remorse for him she did it out of selfish reasons but I couldn’t imagine going sooner to my dads
@ronnie53292 ай бұрын
She belongs in jail, for a long time.
@Bkruegs006 жыл бұрын
Many, many more mothers should be going to jail for this.
@uk93835 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me mecause i told his mother that i dont want to move into the apartment next to hers so sh manipulated him against me.
@carriefatino27025 жыл бұрын
My dad obliterated the relationship between me and my son. ANYONE who does this must be held accountable.
@Withoutlimitsagk45 жыл бұрын
Amen
@lizzann25354 жыл бұрын
I agree with u it's high time they stopped turning kids against their daddy.parents dispute shouldnt be used to turn kids against their dads
@k.l.hollister81284 жыл бұрын
Dads do it too. I think studies show it is almost equal. Many times stepparents play a big role in this also. My ex husband is a narcissist and has tried to do this, luckily I had a great attorney and custody evaluator who were able to show the judge what was really going on. He was a master at the smear campaign but when it came down to it, people figured it out. It cost me about $80k to fight his lies, but my child is worth it. This is so sick.
@aliciagreen54117 жыл бұрын
Dads don't usually get a whole lot of respect in family court so this was refreshing to see. What a horrible woman to do that to her family out of spite.
@shoneywilliams44537 жыл бұрын
Alicia Green. Agreed. The mother was pure evil and a waste of a human life. I hope her children have a bright future knowing their father loves them and they don't have to deal with her again
@BigFackah6 жыл бұрын
Tons of women do this to men, there is literally millions of these cases. I've never heard of a man doing it to a woman before though. Not saying it doesn't happen, but I've never heard of it.
@bobbysealejunior65906 жыл бұрын
I’m going through something similar right now...so sad.
@TheChrismsanchez16 жыл бұрын
So true, sadly it takes such wicked women in order for courts to see good fathers.
@TheChrismsanchez16 жыл бұрын
Bobby Seale Junior wish you all the best.
@Gamecockinnc14 жыл бұрын
I did a deep dive into this case after seeing this video. I am horrified by the mother and her gang of conspirators. Including her family attorney and friends. Her family attorney had her license suspended for at least 60 days and her crazy friend went to jail for 6 months. The Fox reporter and station never apologized. It’s scary how this so called mother was able to manipulate people. That so called boyfriend should run.
@salattu Жыл бұрын
What was the family attorney doing to be considered a conspirator? (I realise this is two years old comment, but I want to know what sort of line was crossed from "a lawyer on your side in law" and "a lawyer on your side illegally"
@jamesyoung187 Жыл бұрын
Women are masters at emotional manipulation. I grew up with 5 sisters....I know it well.
@3adgamd3r Жыл бұрын
@@jamesyoung187I grew up with two older sisters, 4 and 5 years older respectively, they’re the primary reason I can’t trust women enough to be in long term stable relationships as an adult After 16 years of it, you see all the sneaky shit women do and you learn it whilst they’re at their absolute worst, when they’re teenagers
@kokoskokso Жыл бұрын
Why wouldn't the Fox journalist be sued? I need to do a deep dive too it seems, first time I'm hearing about this case.. I had a similar upbringing with mommy dearest messing with my head, terrible and still impacts me decades later. Poor man and children. That bi@tch should get a lifetime restraining order.
@michelleduncan9965 Жыл бұрын
It's so unfortunate that malignant narcissists can, & often DO quite successfully FOOL & MANIPULATE a large group of people to join them in their quest to destroy an innocent person, couple, or group of people. My husband & I have experienced this in our family. It profoundly shatters relationships & families. Ultimately, God will deal with people who have purposely caused such pervasive destruction.
@AnonyMous-rr1rv Жыл бұрын
That evil woman got off light. The damage caused by parental alienation will last those kids a lifetime. As for dad, my heart breaks for him. All that time lost, all that misery. I've worn his shoes.
@vanessacamilleri4414 жыл бұрын
As Judge Judy says, "you have to love your children more than you hate each other." End of
@antoinettenovella1630 Жыл бұрын
Don't pee and tell me it's raining, awesome woman, very logical. This judge is phenomenal also but should have given her a much longer sentence.
@TheModernMusicsucks6 ай бұрын
@@antoinettenovella1630there are sometimes good reasons why the sentence is shorter than expected.
@TheModernMusicsucks6 ай бұрын
Judith Sheindlin had a father she still looks up to, and made her very aware of the advantages given to children of having both parents.
@RealityChick775 жыл бұрын
She should’ve had to serve 940 days, no credit for time served
@SozeKartel5 жыл бұрын
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@ahabsbane5 жыл бұрын
Indeed.
@LibertyWolf14 жыл бұрын
940 days? Try 940 days + 15yrs.
@omalone11694 жыл бұрын
@@LibertyWolf1 Thanks for this . Keep sharing his work. As much quality as Marc Rudov who prefers to hide his older work .
@marc-andreservant2013 жыл бұрын
MN state law mandates credit for time served (Minn. R. Crim. P. 27.03, subd 4(b)) This is intended to incentivize the government to ensure a speedy trial, and that poor defendants who can't afford bail don't get effectively harsher sentences.
@daddyj59295 жыл бұрын
My ex did the same thing to me. I didn’t see my son for a very long time and I had to fight for him and won. I have my son five days a week and now she’s a weekend mom.
@yoursblameless83944 жыл бұрын
Teach me.
@luciousbattlecat26184 жыл бұрын
God bless you! Be better than her.
@Gfkd20014 жыл бұрын
Karmas a bitch
@redcell96364 жыл бұрын
I hope you and your family prosper. Good on you.
@Deadlyvoltage34 жыл бұрын
That kind of sucks. They’ll associate you with school and her with doing fun activities
@MrMenefrego1 Жыл бұрын
My ex-wife hid our son from me for almost 9 years; he was 5 when I last saw him, and the next time she allowed me to see him (via a court order under threat of jail), he was an unrecognizable teenager of 14. The expression in his eyes when I first saw him again was unmistakable to everyone observing; "Why?" That was 20 years ago, and even though we have tried to heal our relationship, we are strangers and most likely always will be.
@pamelah9807 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢💔💔❤️🩹
@paulinthailand Жыл бұрын
my ex has ran off with my children as we speak, they had lived with me for the last 5 months she came to visit them 5 times for 20 mins a time then she turned up said "the girls are coming home with me now" she took them and ran away in the middle of the night
@MrMenefrego1 Жыл бұрын
@@paulinthailand If "she took them and ran away in the middle of the night," inferring stealth, how was she able to say: "the girls are coming home with me now," or am I misunderstanding your statement?
@benjaminjames9712 Жыл бұрын
Sorry brother. I've been though similar. I'm here for ya if you need to talk to someone that understands. Love ya man
@pamelah9807 Жыл бұрын
😭😭 I am so sorry, this is bringing a tear to my 👀
@5O4evr5 жыл бұрын
My son turned 5 last week. His mother had pretended to be afraid of me and had refused to let me see him. I've been terminally ill since he was born. The pain had been unbearable. Now today I go to court because the mother wants to change his last name to hers. Please pray for me and him, and even her.
@lilmelvt57383 жыл бұрын
I pray you recover
@fr133 жыл бұрын
God Bless you!
@jaac70273 жыл бұрын
Mr Gunn I truly hope you have resolved with her before you are called. Bless you.
@mhurd3903 жыл бұрын
God bless you, sir.
@trustinmyselfalways63103 жыл бұрын
Prayers your a strong great father.
@wed1101975 жыл бұрын
I am a victim of this behavior. It's been 4 years since I've heard from or seen my oldest daughter.
@missperot5 жыл бұрын
Praying the alienation ends quickly.
@rlsweeneyjr15 жыл бұрын
That's a shame. I feel for you.
@principlemethods52815 жыл бұрын
Im sorry im going thru the same
@nomorekidsforcash53205 жыл бұрын
We are victims too. Alienation is child abuse. But most courts seem just fine with that.
@leavoliabinder33855 жыл бұрын
Crucible777 I feel you I have a son that his father kept from me years and until this day I’m still looking for him and he is 22 now he joined the army but still I can’t find him. 😭😭😭😭😭😭this hurts my heart ❤️ I did nothing wrong to deserve this!
@PeaceDayCortez7 жыл бұрын
Honestly don’t think she received a harsh enough sentence
@laurenmanzano58565 жыл бұрын
@Brad keeping that mindself is not only harmful to actual, kind woman but to yourself.
@masterpopeyoda32905 жыл бұрын
@Present Sort Of lol
@BasedOpinionsPodcast13 күн бұрын
What sentence do u think is appropriate
@amyelizabeth135 Жыл бұрын
Parental alienation destroys people. It destroys the kids, for the rest of their lives. Its just so heartbreaking 💔 😢
@MorganBuchanan5 жыл бұрын
I feel as though 944 days in prison would've been a fair sentence.
@Hawaiiansky114 жыл бұрын
@@miamyerssinger "custodial parent" can't be considered a kidnapper. Just the way the law is.
@63076topher4 жыл бұрын
@@Hawaiiansky11 Did she have FULL custody or joint?
@kristens11134 жыл бұрын
Same
@ashzole4 жыл бұрын
all i heard was ,” ...a sentence will not heal the wounds , so as a judge there is no point in punishment even though you are guilty, female power . “ - judge karen asphaug
@omalone11694 жыл бұрын
@@ashzole Marcus Garvey was wrong. RazorBladeKandy was white. Chinweizu synthesized both their ideas but it was Rollo Tomassi who perfected them. His text The Rational Male currently has far more appeal than the myriad of black nationalist literature already in circulation. It so happens that he published it the same year Tommy Curry challenged the fantasy of male privilege, referring to being a black male as a death sentence . His The Man Not however was not the first text to address the shortcomings of fem-centric pan-africanism. Nor was his recent 'Decolonising the Intersection' despite highlighting his attempts to emphasise the role of misandry in black female thinking. Chinweizu (Anamtomy of female power) and Shahrazad Ali (The Black Mans Guide) also made similar efforts but it was George Subira (1992) who hit the mark . Unlike Chinweizu, Subira did not draw upon Esther Vilar's 1976 classic, The Manipulated Man. Unlike most disciplined minds, Subira was an original thinker and one of the first to advocate a programme of economic leadership. Most modern black rhetoricians can offer no such programme or agenda because they are largely victims of black female programming. Their minds were long domesticated meaning they are reduced to reproducing aimless echo chambers almost every time they talk. Neely Fuller (1957) was not hostage to such conditioning but his programme seems to have a key fault. Despite realising the incredible driving motivating force of sexual expression , he still managed to downplay it's role, especially how it compares to the larger logic of antiblackness and global white terror domination. Although Charles Mills (1997) did indirectly develop his ideas, he neglected to integrate the foundation his own work borrowed from, "The Sexual Contract." (1996) Neil Postman, like Jeff Schmidtt, was one of the few people capable of making sense of these divergent ideas (much like John Gatto and Jan Matthews were two of those rare individuals with the pieces of the puzzle.) Conventional panafrikanism doesn't even realise there is a jigsaw to be solved. It has a distorted conception of itself because it views the world through a damaged lens incapable of accountability and self-reflection. PanAfrikanism will not produce any quick results either because unlike Chinweizu, Subira and Curry, it still refuses the interrogate and recognise the role of women in sabotaging the afrikan agenda. Texts like Addicted to White work towards this, only, in this age of intersectional confusion and fragmented voices in the wind, it isn't necessary to silence this perspective; it is enough just to drown it out. Jacques Ellul and Guy Debord surely foresaw this tragic arrangement, when few others could. Men have been fooled, black and white. It is no longer a question of race-first but male first, if not black-male first at the very least. Men are going to have to muster the clarity and courage to challenge the corporate-feminine regime dominating their "emptied" lives. If anything is to be redeemed black thinkers will need to prioritise the black pill and realise that the fundamental question of what it means to be a woman is as urgent as the need to ask what it means to be white. Gwiz +447939642873 Omalone11@gmail.com Addendum: 1. Attention to a woman is like a blowjob to a man 2. When a man's contempt for women surpasses his lust for them, only then shall he become wise 3. Women think all men are the same - that is their strength. Men think all women are different - that is their weakness 4. A man's facade of strength is his biggest weakness; a woman's facade of weakness is her biggest strength 5. Men fake interest, women fake orgasms A. Women are not to be loved; they are to be handled B. Women are not complicated; they are complicating C. A man must value his time the same way women put premiums on their body D. Men struggle for physical dominance but women opt for social domination E. Men compete; women conspire archive.org/details/antifeministiskamanifestet2
@StrawberryFields4ever655 жыл бұрын
A ridiculously short sentence for a serious offense. I cannot begin to understand why this judge didn't impose a longer incarceration period. Another slap in this father's face, as well as the children's. UNBELIEVABLE!
@DoanDeland Жыл бұрын
Because she is a woman.
@darleneballinger5410 Жыл бұрын
That’s not enough time!!!
@gsmith5140 Жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@erinmalone2669 Жыл бұрын
State regulated maximums. It’s not all up to the judge
@cherylhuot4436 Жыл бұрын
Typical Minnesota justice system results.
@ericulator3915 жыл бұрын
34 days for a Woman..... 934 days for a Man
@scottbrannan48174 жыл бұрын
How could this situation be used to help other women prevent themselves from making similar mistakes?
@shmockette71584 жыл бұрын
@Angela Riendeau A male would be in prison for a long ass time compared to a female
@queenjeski5914 жыл бұрын
Angela Riendeau why won’t she do all the time consecutively?
@jeanetteinthisorn49554 жыл бұрын
@Angela Riendeau thats still 574 days too few for her.
@johnfloodberg57573 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t matter it’s recorded she’s was convicted
@charde9739 Жыл бұрын
Every thanksgiving for the next few year she will spend it alone. Absolutely stunning insight from the judge and a fabulous punishment
@goodcomps6 жыл бұрын
People that weaponize their children... smh
@nomorekidsforcash53205 жыл бұрын
ANd yet most judges empower the alienator. They claim there is no such thing as alienation. They are lawyers and know nothing abut chiild psychogy. They are not required to take one single class in child development. Because lawyers already know everything.
@sipo705 жыл бұрын
Not people....the mothers do. Why? Because they can and get away with it. Oh and please spare the old "but what about the physical harm that um...MEN do to the women?" Umm nope! Mostly men get abused from the women. Not my stats. Oh and as far as "equality" goes, the father gets to go to jail if he doesn't "PAY" and if ever a mother doesn't pay, she gets counseling. Yup there is a wage gap.
@chrisd46555 жыл бұрын
sipo70 exactly. By “people” you mean “mothers”
@nomorekidsforcash53205 жыл бұрын
@@chrisd4655 Almost always, yes
@ZeroTolerance-gs4fp5 жыл бұрын
It's so backwards how we are so terrified and lately now practice for active shooters in our warped society when many of our children we dearly love are walking guns. God have mercy on us all!
@deborahtawadros5674 жыл бұрын
she probably severed any relationship with her children. They could never trust her again, what a shame.
@fattymcfatfat54 жыл бұрын
Well they really didn't lose anything
@deborahtawadros5674 жыл бұрын
ulhurusurf club - I think you misunderstood what I was saying. She deserves as much time as they can give her. I was saying in addition to getting jail time she lost her children.
@valwestbrook7 жыл бұрын
Yay!! Finally! My sweet husband lost 10 years with his children from alienation & permanently lost his eldest daughter to suicide... parental alienation is extreme child abuse & the abusers must be held accountable. Thank you so much Judge!!♡♡♡
@Wimberleytradingcomp7 жыл бұрын
My heart hurts for your daughter's lost life, the grief and deep, deep pain of knowing her hopelessness. And yes, Judge Asphaug did the right thing. A true pioneer in her profession.
@wkdemers7 жыл бұрын
Valerie Gray omg! thats the worst :'(
@joelrichardson37617 жыл бұрын
Valerie Gray that bitch should never be allowed to be released prison, until she dies.
@practicing17 жыл бұрын
Hearts go out to you and your Husband. Will you go to London and testify in UK Supreme Court?
@abonyir7 жыл бұрын
:(
@elizabethrose3667 Жыл бұрын
My cousin documented everything for 2 years. Calls , text messages, all times he couldn’t see his 3 boys. He sold his classic car, hired a good attorney got custody of his kids, his other child mother left him. He has 4 boys and doing great. Sad what parents do to their children.
@michellecayson5967 жыл бұрын
My mum did a number on alienating my 4 siblings and I from our dad. When I was in my late teens, I reached out to my dad. I needed to know if all she said was truth or lies. His side of the story was completely different. Everything, from trying to fight for visitation and custody of us. To what happened to Christmas, Birthday presents he had sent. letters, pictures etc..., It took a few years of hard emotions to sort through it all from all 3 sides of this. My mum's, my dad and my own. My siblings, they will have to find their own truth in this mess. I finally made peace with my dad and was rebuilding what was destroyed and lost. 2 years later he died of a stroke. I thank Lord JESUS for the time to make amends and to find peace through forgiveness. I will cherish the last years of his life as my dad.
@BilderbergCEO7 жыл бұрын
What made you reach out to your dad? Did something specific happen that triggered the process?
@dranzerjetli51266 жыл бұрын
Sad for u
@dranzerjetli51266 жыл бұрын
@ amen it's the illiterate and the poor who have more children not the educated literate and well off ones
@lyssakate6 жыл бұрын
@@esmooth300 jesus christ dude. Let go of the anger. Men behave badly, women behave badly. The human race is selfish and fickle and hedonistic. Hating all or most women isn't going to make life easier though, it's just going to fuck up your interactions with 50% of your surrounding population.
@exgovernorroyromer35226 жыл бұрын
Yes. Thank JESUS for people that alienate their children from loving patents. [Yawn]
@Nestta52525 жыл бұрын
15 days each year. 😂😂 if it were the other way around the father would not see the light of day for a very long time.
@kingjesus8725 жыл бұрын
Without ANY DOUBT.
@dejachhun3385 жыл бұрын
45 day sentence is only 30 days for real because of 'good time'.
@karenvayssie96354 жыл бұрын
My mother had an ugly break up with my father, but never let her feelings of him stop him from seeing me and my siblings. What a terrible woman for not allowing this amazing father to see his OWN children.
@kweeniepiez3 жыл бұрын
same, my mom loathed my father but still would write him letters to come see us more than once a year and how important it was for us to see him and have a relationship with him... it's entirely true
@whalesong999 Жыл бұрын
Oh, this hits me pretty squarely. I'm over 80 and seeing how my manipulative mother fits the example in the description. I was raised as her only child and groomed to meet her needs which haunt me to this day. Any time I try to step out of the mold, the mental pain and confusion are extremely painful. She's been deceased since 2010 but the wounds I find were all inserted during my formative years. I could see she was an ill person when I began my teens but it was no shield for what had already been done. My hope that others who encounter these highly disturbing demons can endure and realize what had been cast on them wasn't their fault which is one of the main crippling beliefs that come with it. I now have a better idea of what some elderly have been coping with that makes them look so socially awkward and some probably don't realize the source.
@timorthelame1 Жыл бұрын
I'm pushing fifty and I can relate. I'm very sorry for what you've been through and I hope you're happy now.
@danielkaiser8971 Жыл бұрын
You're exactly correct. Today we have a term for it, narcissistic abuse. It's a Cluster B personality disorder. And awareness of this type of abuse has been prevalent and is still increasing through social media with people across the world talking about it with each other. I wish you continued healing.
@ChanelGreer5 жыл бұрын
He had every right to rip into that woman and destroy her with words but he choose not to. Such a better person than I. You can tell he genuinely cares about his children. He's an amazing father.
@uk93835 жыл бұрын
You cant tell this by one speech. Anyone can talk like this. Yes his wife is horrible but this says nothing about him.
@ChanelGreer5 жыл бұрын
@@uk9383 I disagree. I think his words and actions speak a lot about him.
@megaboss81407 жыл бұрын
Poor guy sounds like he's on the verge of drowning in his tears.
@thelittlefamily72315 жыл бұрын
He almost had the skills of a trial lawyer, there is a method to tbe madness.
@THE-zv7vj7 жыл бұрын
great Judge wish there were more like her.
@EqualSharedParenting7 жыл бұрын
These judges deliberately destroy this family and most families for money. Dakota county court allowed Sandra to have sole custody for more than 1 year after reports of parental alienation. Years later, Judge Asphaug was forced to punish Sandra, only because this woman's kidnapping actions made it to the national news. See the details in the larger comment posted.
@THXx11386 жыл бұрын
+John W It's very real.
@jeffreyrivers19836 жыл бұрын
THE 1, amen!
@herbertcarrillo-ramos37726 жыл бұрын
KidsNeed ParentsEqually ¡ WRONG ! She VIOLATED THE LAW !! Women( not all but MAJORITY) invest their beautiful lives and time to HATE the men they sleep, marry and choose to have babies with. The manipulation, bullying and the practice of not following the sentencing of the court's ruling is why children TODAY are DISFUNTIONAL. The judge didnt give a rats ass about the father or the mother's feelings or believes but only the welfare of those children. Eventually, those children will see with their own eyes the truth of it all and as s divorced father of a 28 year old son. I WILL PROMISE YOU, those children will EVENTUALLY HATE their mother....Do you get it ? DO YOU GET IT ? So before you write gibberish on social media that this judge separates families, just realize that CHILDREN are not negotiable regards who the mothrrs are. PERIOD ! And if this case went to the news THEN GOOD......It was the mothers fault for having bad choices and its why the Judge made her decision. This is a wakeup call for all custodial mothers who think they may have the write to control, mistreat the father of their children buy manipulating the society and by using the children to get what she wants illegally. AMERICA needs more strick Judges as this Judge is.
@herbertcarrillo-ramos37726 жыл бұрын
Randy Boone exactly
@DebbieWilson4 Жыл бұрын
Fight back, dad's! Your children need you, you are needed to raise them. Don't give up on your children! You can hear the heartbreak in this man's voice, it's so sad.
@michaeljordan-xt9hk Жыл бұрын
I’m fighting right now I’ve had two hearings with ex girlfriend and she’s hasn’t shown up for none of them. The judge granted me split custody but I gotta bad she’s not going to show up with my daughter at the drop off 😢 we’re scheduled to meet this Sunday at 6pm
@christianmiracle6054 Жыл бұрын
@@michaeljordan-xt9hk just call the police if she don't show and have a dashcamera when you do it and stand in front of the camera when you see her allegations can ruin someone's life also
@looking4therealrepairmanjack Жыл бұрын
Fight back, dads! *There! I fixed it for you.😁
@vegetaismydad5382 Жыл бұрын
Not all children need their dads. I certainly didn't.
@manuelmtz9125 Жыл бұрын
I just came from my ex house. She refused to give me my son. I called the police with court order in hand. They said there's nothing they can do and told me to go back to court. I have gone to court 3 times. She keeps disobeying court orders. Any help.
@romaking67135 жыл бұрын
A family member was in this situation. My brother-in-laws ex-wife never missed an opportunity to attempt to turn their daughter against him. He, on the other hand took the high road and refused to sink to her level. It took about 10 years for my niece to mature to the point that she saw her mom's behavior for what it was. She and her dad now have a very happy and loving relationship.
@dappa3112 жыл бұрын
Thank god his daughter saw her mother for who she was, lots of times the kids are so mentally destroyed , the mother turns them against their dad that the fathers just walk away.
@MK-Hogan Жыл бұрын
Exactly what happened to me. Taking the high road was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life, but I did it for 18 years while having to share joint custody with a man who actively worked to alienate our daughter from me every day he spent time with her. When she reached about 14-15 she started to realize what he was doing. By 18 she was fully disgusted with him and has barely spoken to him in over 2 years. These psychos don’t realize that kids grow up and realize that you’ve used and manipulated them, instead of the being their protector and safe person. It’s disgusting.
@amberhopkins22296 жыл бұрын
If the Reporter knew and didn't tell Law enforcement, It seems as though she should be charged. This is messed up. The dad said it could have ended 10 days after they went missing and all she had to do is tell them. Wth? I guess the Reporter only cared about the story, and her being able to cover the story, instead of the safety and well being of these children. She needs to be charged with Hindering a investigation and child endangerment. Anyone else would have been. That lady is heartless.
@dro4085 жыл бұрын
TOTALLY AGREE...…..
@sniperdoug19695 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately she is protected by the first amendment.
@tellurye5 жыл бұрын
@@sniperdoug1969 uh, no. Sorry. People throw "First amendment" like they know what it means, and they dont. There are hundreds of exceptions. For example, it can be used in commission of a crime, libel / slander, fraud, false testimony, etc. This reporter was impeding an investigation and she absolutely could have been charged and absolutely was NOT protected under the 1st A. this has already been decided in Branzburg v. Hayes. Now the problem, is the bitch lied so much, they probably believed the father was abusive and that may have been why they didnt charge the reporter.
@wandawoman83925 жыл бұрын
There was a very similar case in Australia last year, where a woman ran off with her two kids (making the usual abuse allegations against the father) and stayed in hiding for 3 years. She was eventually discovered living at her mother's place, having moved back when her mother developed cancer. The law charged the older woman for subverting the course of justice by hiding her daughter and grandchildren and both women were arrested and charged. The grandmother got 1 year in jail and the mother is serving 3 years. The children now live with their father. That's justice.
@lilianflower30175 жыл бұрын
wandawoman but was abuse charges true???
@MAGA333215 жыл бұрын
“Family is the cornerstone of our community.” Love that judge.
@madmarduk1936 Жыл бұрын
Holy crap, there are judges that will actually do something about parental alienation?! Need one of those in my county.
@Bubblegumdum5 жыл бұрын
My mother tried this on me. I learned later how wrong she was, but the hardest part growing up was not knowing which parent was the good guy and which was the bad guy. Because that’s what my mother made me feel like.
@myahc4942 жыл бұрын
Currently going through this right now
@SasukeUchiha-xy4vj2 жыл бұрын
Because I lost out on so much and struggle so much mentally, financially and with making long lasting bonds. After I lost my daughter to a woman just like her, I almost lost myself. I let go of family bonds
@dreadlord86282 жыл бұрын
So, there was no try, she straight up did this on you
@succulentqueen7737 Жыл бұрын
If one parent seems to be respectful of the other parent not criticizing him or her, that may be the healthy parent. The one criticizing the other parent in front of a child is more likely the messed up parent, even if there is some truth in what they are saying. Why would a parent want to psychologically mess up their kid (just to win?)
@eleonoraschotsborg Жыл бұрын
The one who keep you from the other parent is the bad one. Selfish and evil
@FreeJulianAssange235 жыл бұрын
If there’s any kids reading this please know your mommy or daddy who was Alienated loves you more than you can ever know and feels you in their heart so strongly and misses you every second of the day
@ionthegravity25 жыл бұрын
Holy hell, I've seen everything. A mother ACTUALLY HELD ACCOUNTABLE for parental alienation!
@Queenofwands323455 жыл бұрын
I dont think its gender specific. My sons dad alienates me. I would like to see him get a jail sentence for his actions
@Sparkyspage5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@rndmukn5 жыл бұрын
Eeeeehhhh kinda. Slap on the wrist, which is, granted, more than women usually get.
@Sparkyspage5 жыл бұрын
Erica Taylor Please... It’s absolutely gender biased.
@andreasleonlandgren30925 жыл бұрын
I know right!
@teressaparker8667 Жыл бұрын
I will never understand why anyone would do this to their children or the other parent. The amount of selfishness this act takes is just unbelievable!!! She deserves far more time than what she received.
@troypeck41286 жыл бұрын
Going through this right now. Been 2 years and I’ve found out that the woman is always right and a father has to fight for every second of time with his children.
@shanghunter76975 жыл бұрын
@Kitten Lyric You're obviously a young kid.
@victoriadelaney11235 жыл бұрын
Troy Peck Hope things worked out for you...
@donnacullman41034 жыл бұрын
I love that she has a yearly reminder of her mistakes!
@CrackedCandy3 жыл бұрын
Yes, a minor inconvenience, boo hood, she sure learned her lesson.
@Rich-yj4ub3 жыл бұрын
You do realize why right? In the event during those years she is just one minute late returning those kids she will be in contempt of court & serve years. So this keeps her from any shenanigans. 👍👏
@CrackedCandy3 жыл бұрын
@@Rich-yj4ub are you reading tea leaves? Where are you getting that?
@shadowscreamer14 жыл бұрын
The law is always on the mothers side even when they are guilty...appalling
Not true. I have known both dads and moms who have gotten their children despite their history of manipulation and abuse. Those evil people who have made lifelong careers of manipulation and lies are extremely good at what they do and often pull the wool over the judge's eyes. This is done easily because the offending parent doesn't care about the long term effects it may have on their children, so they hold back nothing and spare no tricks. It seems that the people who are willing to do these thing, whether male or female are generally the ones who win.
@christianvineyard66703 жыл бұрын
@@carbonf2051 I agree with you.. I was this child, My mother did not receive custody in the divorce, and she was very bitter because of it. She ended up taking me and my sister to Colorado for about six months alienating us completely from my father. She would always tell us that my father chose my brother over the two of us, but the reality is, she took us when we got out from school without notifying my father. The only reason she did not take my brother was because He usually got home about the same time as my father and he would’ve already picked up on her idea by then. Well about six months after we left Texas my father had invested thousands of dollars into private investigators to find us. The only way they found us was because at the time we were at my aunt and uncle house and My dad got in contact with my uncle. He threatened to press charges against them for knowing we were being withheld from him and choosing to let it happen. So they gave him their address and the next day my father was there. I can honestly say that was the happiest day of my life. I thought my father had given up on me, little did I know he could hardly sleep every night not knowing his children were safe. He worked everything out, and I can not ask for a better father. But, in the end my mother lost everything. Not only did she lose her connection with her children, but she was charged just like this woman and it will be on her record for the rest of her life. I am now 23, it has been about 11 years since all of this occurred. My mother calls me maybe twice a year.. but I’ve ignored her ever since. The only time I speak to her is when I am forced to by dad. A lot of people tell me I need to let it go, find peace with it. Much easier said than done. As far as I’m concerned, she was never a mother to me. She always had her self interest above ours and it seems the only reason she reaches out so that she could know that we are not mad about it anymore. Well I am, and I will never forgive her. Sorry I know this is a lot I just haven’t vented about this situation an it builds up.
@shadowscreamer13 жыл бұрын
@@carbonf2051 either way, that doesn’t dispel the fact that the law sides with mothers as a default and it’s always the dad’s fight to prove they are worthy
@somecatyoudontknow6471 Жыл бұрын
She should have been locked up immediately, for a period no shorter than 944 days...
@samtrujillojr7 жыл бұрын
That reporter belongs in jail.
@madingo027 жыл бұрын
If it was the other way around would she do the same?
@DavidFMayerPhD6 жыл бұрын
It is called "Obstruction of Justice" and is good for a vacation in the slammer.
@drmayeda19306 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately she's protected under the bill of right freedom of the press. The girls are a source and are protected by law. The reporter must decide what to do. If she promised to keep their location a secret, she has to decide if contact information should be shared. She could have given him the option of writing or recording a message for them and giving them the message and contact information and allow them to decide whether to contact him. We don't know how badly they were affected by events. Psychological damage is hard to repair.
@tellurye5 жыл бұрын
@@drmayeda1930 uh, no. Sorry. the reporter is NOT protected by law.. Check out Branzburg V. Hayes. - Courts have already said you cannot hide behind the 1st amend as a defense in all cases. There are hundreds of exceptions. For example, it can be used in commission of a crime, libel / slander, fraud, false testimony, etc. This reporter was impeding an investigation and she absolutely could have been charged and absolutely was NOT protected under the 1st A. Now the problem, is the bitch mother lied so much, they probably believed the father was abusive and that may have been why they didnt charge the reporter or force her to disclose the location of the girls. However, now that the truth has come out (and barring statute of limitations) the reporter absolutely can be charged.
@dwightgrant81995 жыл бұрын
💀
@seangotts64706 жыл бұрын
pfft bias sentance yet again if that was a man he would be doing 30 years for kidnapping
@SozeKartel5 жыл бұрын
Sean Gotts real talk.
@BigRedLuteror5 жыл бұрын
Probably because the father and the lawyer may have decided to not pursue a kidnapping charge, either because the courts favor women, or the father is a genuinely good man who wants the best for his children
@nawlinsdoc4205 жыл бұрын
True
@toddfoley82065 жыл бұрын
It's mother's like this who give good mother's a bad name
@ozarksfarmerhansen87825 жыл бұрын
@Stacy Stover's Story Of course you do.
@splodgenessabounds1507 жыл бұрын
Fathers - blokes generally - get a rough deal in family courts. It's heartening to see that there are judges - female judges indeed - who get what fathers mean to their children.
@cmsbeth7 жыл бұрын
splodgenessabounds In America, the present court system allows for 50/50 custody in most cases. The party making the highest salary is generally mandated to pay child support. Many times, that is the female. So, in America it has become advantageous for the man to be the alienator. Either way...male or female...it is abusive.
@procrastinator97 жыл бұрын
I've seen court decisions that appear fair and unbiased but the enforcement of the ruling and the protection of the father's legal rights are often times lacking unless he pressures the system (at great personal expense) to grant him equal protection not only on paper but in practice. The system often times does not care if the mother defies court orders. Enforcement of those orders will only be enacted if the father pushes hard for it. I would wager that was the case for this Zucki family. I'd guess she would have gotten away with it if the father hadn't pressured the court to enforce it's own laws.
@tidefanyankee24287 жыл бұрын
procrastinator9. I saw first hand what you're talking about with my cousin. He would go to his kid's house (she had custody) on his day. He would drive 75 miles, get there at 9 a.m. Saturday morning as agreed upon but no one would be home. His ex would take the kids out for breakfast and shopping and video games or even a movie. They would get back at noon or after, and my cousin waited outside the entire time. His ex came to his door with a police officer once because she wanted to tuck the kids in, at his house. But in reality she wanted to "take a look" at what he had. During his scheduled 2 weeks in the summer is when his ex would schedule his son and daughter to go to summer camp, so he only got one week with them. When he was finally fed up, he took her back to court. The outcome was the judge finally told his ex that if she didn't abide by both the letter and spirit of the custody agreement, then my cousin would get custody, and she would be paying him child support. The ex-wife caused an outburst over this and the judge told her to sit down or he would find her in contempt. The ex-wife's Lutheran minister dad told her in open court to "sit down and shut-up". This kind of thing happens all the time, and rarely do the mom's have to answer for it. But let that child support the dad's have to pay be one day late and all hell breaks lose......
@dnw0097 жыл бұрын
All of them should take it to court and if it is not recorded have it be on tape themselves just to be sure. If you are a parent who is being alienated, on either side. You should drag their ass to court and if they delay and constantly make up excuses take action. Preferably by seeking help from organisations that work to help fight alienating parents.
@nunyabuisness75526 жыл бұрын
Parental Alienation does not get the attention it deserves in courts! It's only used when the duration last many months or even years. Parental Alienation should be considered by courts for as little as 1 lost day of visitation and after a warning a second offense should require mandatory community service or a night in jail. The only acceptable reason to not allow visitation is when the child would be in danger and should require a report to child protective services or police if the parent does not allow visitation based on safety for child. Without filing a report they should always be found in contempt and face a punishment.
@lKiwarlord963 Жыл бұрын
That was way too lenient of a punishment for the mother. She should’ve been sentenced for longer. This is one of many examples of where accountability in the American justice system has gone to shit.
@valeriekehrt7566 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately our law makers are more concerned about their next vacation than they are children.😢
@TazyBaby Жыл бұрын
They can’t do sentencing any higher than that in family court, there’s still a chance for this to go to criminal proceedings
@mefford676 жыл бұрын
How the hell can any parent deliberately hurt their child/children?!? This is utter insanity and truly incredible cruelty from this so called mother...
@EARTHANGELTAROT6 жыл бұрын
Because the parent only cares about themselves. Not their children. Which is absolutely sick
@anneofgreengables16195 жыл бұрын
Because their narcissistic lust for revenge & having to win at all cost outweighs any consideration for the wellbeing of their children. The kids are just pawns in the game. My story.
@wtf66945 жыл бұрын
Let me explain... A bitchy wife knows that divorce is evil act against God. She may have been 'forced' to have an affair with another guy because of sth (but she won't admit that). She is full of guilt. She is alienating the child so it doesn't find out the truth about the divorce and evil mother. Another reason ~ revenge on husband for 'being forced" to file a divorce or have an affair. Pure hate.
@lori-annfabian23164 жыл бұрын
a mother needs to learn not the judge
@PeaceDayCortez7 жыл бұрын
Very sad, I’m and adult now of a mother who did this and the pain she caused me and my siblings has been life lasting. I was 4 when this happened and I’m 53 now, sadly the pain never ends. My mother stole a relationship with my father I can never get back. Shame on parents who do things like this!
@debarmstrong98257 жыл бұрын
doriestes2468 : I hope you can regain a relationship. It can never go back... So, I pray that you can forge a new, deep relationship with your family. It's never to late. I wish the best for you.
6 жыл бұрын
The family court system encourages father-child alienation.
@markporter81965 жыл бұрын
About time a woman is held accountable for her bad behavior.
@jeaninepetty49235 жыл бұрын
About time you learned woman is singular (one adult female) and women is plural (more than one adult female.) Anyone who causes parental alienation is reprehensible, regardless of gender.
@RailingRutsNailingSluts5 жыл бұрын
Agree. Way too many shitty mothers out there
@unaninanine37435 жыл бұрын
@@jeaninepetty4923 It's so common these days to read women instead of woman. And irritating too.
@markporter81965 жыл бұрын
@@jeaninepetty4923 Typo. I still stand by my statement. Women have been doing this for decades. Most often they don't think about the long term effect it has on a child.
@markporter81964 жыл бұрын
@TheMrMarple very true
@lindaharris5094 Жыл бұрын
The mother, the journalist, her attorneys, her co-conspirators, received nothing but a slap on the wrist… This is indicative of today’s not only acceptance, but encouragement of child abusers. This court failed terribly. Shame.
@Ixaglet6 жыл бұрын
My mother tried to alienate my siblings and I from our father. I've seen women do this so much, it's disgusting, and totally normalised. Every single one of my friends who has a child, EVERY ONE, has been threatened with never being allowed to see his child again, for seemingly no reason. #toxicfemininity
@SamIAmB4 жыл бұрын
As a part of a family who has been directly impacted by *severe* parental alienation, thank you for posting this!!!
@AnthonyWrightEsq6 жыл бұрын
This is a tragic case of extreme parental alienation. Parents who steal away their kids have mental and emotional problems.
@aday1637 Жыл бұрын
"Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn".
@eleonoraschotsborg Жыл бұрын
Nee, ze zijn egoïstische monsters.
@troubledspirit3328 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! I know exactly how this man and family feel. Good job Judge, prosecutors and jury. Peace and Love be with that family and all the families suffering ❤️🙏
@WatermelonPeppermint7 жыл бұрын
My mom did this to me and my siblings. It's hard, cus now I feel alienated from my dad even though he's not a bad person. She's narcissistic and I fear for my youngest sister who's still to young to escape her psychological abuse. :(
@JESUSCHRISTISLORD9116 жыл бұрын
WatermelonPeppermint praying for healing and protection🙏🏽
@stbam19656 жыл бұрын
But she still loves you. Maybe she is mentally unstable but she loves you.
@anitavaughn19686 жыл бұрын
Reach out to your dad.....
@tinahuttner72806 жыл бұрын
So sorry you went through that.unfortunatly people that are narcissistic dont change for the better.theyre main goal is to act like the victim and to cause drama.i say this cause I've had people like this in my life.
@gomphrena-beautifulflower-80436 жыл бұрын
WatermelonPeppermint • You wrote this comment almost a year ago. Have things changed for the better? You didn’t mention you and your siblings’ ages - nowadays there are a lot of support services that might be able to help. If you’re in school, talk to your guidance counselor. He or she will be able to offer some contacts for you. Please check in and let us know how you’re doing! Praying for you.
@d.straham36047 жыл бұрын
I can not believe what I just watched! A fair Judge.
@TheJSpencer817 жыл бұрын
My baby girl has been missing since Oct of 2016 , and I have full custody the person who gave birth to her has taken her into hiding and the Nebraska law enforcement wont help me. I am glad someone got justice
@magrittemcmaster52447 жыл бұрын
Rooting for you. Be well.
@tayloraprile38517 жыл бұрын
That is terrible... I do hope it turns out well for you.
@equalizertime53507 жыл бұрын
TheJSpencer81 IM SORRY TO HEAR THAT HAVE FAITH AND PRAY GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME AND ALL THE TIME GOD IS GOOD
@shoneywilliams44537 жыл бұрын
TheJSpencer81 im so sorry 💝 i wish you the absolute best and hope you will be reunited with your little one very soon!!!. Never give up! 💝
@lolwtnick43627 жыл бұрын
lol. I'll take "not the whole story" for 200 Alex.
@katiecampbell91912 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is going thru this right now. Hope she gets her karma in court
@fproszek10 ай бұрын
Run away.
@JoshWise10107 ай бұрын
She won’t.
@BigRed76 ай бұрын
They are broken up already garanteed
@jalenking8105 жыл бұрын
That “journalist” needs to be black balled and never allowed to do that job again.
@Gottiline_Ace6 жыл бұрын
This happens every day, and women get away with it every day. Glad to see a fair and honest judge in the room. To try and keep a man that actually wants to raise their children away from them is ignorant and counterproductive. You always destroy yourself, and all of your relationships.
@boostedbeast33595 жыл бұрын
It's a sad reality that children suffer the most by stripping them of a father due to parent alienation and false allegations.
@captainswan30795 жыл бұрын
It's not only men who suffer. My ex-husband has used money, and manipulation to get our children living with him. He refuses to send me pictures, let me be on paperwork, doesn't let me speak to them ever. Just because. It goes both ways. But regardless it's sick and evil.
@boostedbeast33595 жыл бұрын
@@captainswan3079 sorry to hear that, and my apologies for assuming I'm just trying to process my situation thinking this is the case with everyone but your, right it does go both ways. Good luck, don't stop fighting.
@captainswan30795 жыл бұрын
Thank you. :) Same to you if you're in the middle of this kind of stuff too. Yeah I just want people to know it goes both ways. It's just sad people do this at all.
@boostedbeast33595 жыл бұрын
@@captainswan3079 I wish it was a bad dream but it's a sad reality you know. What state are you in if you don't mind me asking?
@SouthernBelleReviews4 жыл бұрын
*Even when there were voices in the house, two were missing. Even when the house was full, two were missing.*
@PepeDeezNutz4 жыл бұрын
Hi
@amandamarie740 Жыл бұрын
This is so disgusting. I know both mothers and fathers who do this. Unfortunately it’s mostly mothers bc they usually are the primary residence. I have two boys and I have NEVER with held them and never would. When we split… and it was a bad one for me, I was devastated… It didn’t even cross my mind. I even agreed to pretty much 50/50 even though it literally sent me into a bad depression bc I wasn’t used to not being with my boys… the separation for me, was horrible. But it’s not about me… it’s about them. We suffer so they don’t. And we don’t let them see that suffering. We don’t put them in the middle. I explain to them that crying is ok, it’s ok to be sad bc I would cry and they would sometimes see… but I never tell him why. I never talk bad about their father. One of my friends almost died of a heart attack bc of the stress the mother put on him by withholding and threaten to, and honestly just being awful. I will never respect a parent who does this
@bloodbuddy7 Жыл бұрын
A lot of fathers abuse their wives and children. I met a woman a few years ago who acted the same as you- holier than thou about how she would never separate the kid from the father. Meanwhile, the father literally beat her in front of the kid and emotional rages and outburst from him were a norm, including in front of the child. He was subjecting the child (4 years old at the time) to violence and emotional abuse regularly, and her Pick-Me mother thought she was a 'good person' for not thinking about trying to get sole custody. Both parents failed the child, the father for his violence and immaturity, and the mother for putting her obsession with appeasing him and society over protecting her daughter.
@rodneyblh7 жыл бұрын
This is very encouraging as a father whose in this similar situation. I hope that I have a judge like this in my case. Fathers keep fighting for the right to be dads and protectors of our children!
@ScottLanders7707 жыл бұрын
Rodney Bradley Good luck brother. I seriously wish you the best.
@EqualSharedParenting7 жыл бұрын
These judges deliberately destroy this family and most families for money. Dakota county court allowed Sandra to have sole custody for more than 1 year after evidence of parental alienation. Years later, Judge Asphaug was forced to give Sandra a small punishment for kidnapping, and only because this time a woman's kidnapping actions made it to the national news and a jury decided the case! See the details in the larger comment posted.
@THXx11386 жыл бұрын
I couldn't fight and 2 of my 4 are permanently estranged.
@kateym78366 жыл бұрын
Rodney Bradley n
@jazminewaters24046 жыл бұрын
I work for court system . The system is not for males at all gender bias is disgusting. My advise for men, sign prenup before you marry. Also a separation agreement prior to getting lawyers involved. Even if she asking for extra money, put a termination date on her payments. Better to settle outside courts system with mediator then allowing fake justice system to help you.
@annblack31465 жыл бұрын
Sadly this happens everyday and the children never win in these types of situations.
@ixxgxx4 жыл бұрын
Ann Black either do dads
@omalone11694 жыл бұрын
@@ixxgxx Mel Feit debates stuff like this
@MusicIsARainbow4 жыл бұрын
Clever sentence! Instead of a vacation every year, she gets 15 days of jail! 🤣
@marcopalazzo93494 ай бұрын
Yes the jail time and then every vacation in jail to think on it. Brilliant.
@c.12116 жыл бұрын
The judge was real soft on her. The law needs to be more harsh on women like this. Its not fair for the good fathers out there. I haven't seen my kids since march of 2018 but my moment will come.
@mimime53765 жыл бұрын
If you were granted visitation or dual custody, there is no excuse why you shouldn't see your children. I hope for your sake and that of your children, things have since changed since your post.
@rndmukn5 жыл бұрын
It will come, dont worry, even if you have to wait until they're 18. I promise that it's worth it.
@wtf66945 жыл бұрын
In Poland bitches like this don't go to jail at all. They rarely get fined. They are almost 'holy' mothers.
@thelittlefamily72315 жыл бұрын
These are not laws.
@420420ALLTHETIME5 жыл бұрын
Good luck brother wish you the best
@youngmendoza91705 жыл бұрын
😔 I'm about to go through this somewhat same predicament God give me the strength.
@colinholzmann15864 жыл бұрын
I'm going through it right now, my son is 6 months and I've never met him. Stay strong brother
@luciousbattlecat26184 жыл бұрын
Buckle up brother. Mine lasted 7 years, and I didn't do shit wrong
@Hawaiiansky114 жыл бұрын
Prayers for you, young Mendoza. Also, find that rage that is sitting deep in the pit of your being and let is rise up, saying, "Never again." That's not to say you should go get drunk or be violent. But it is to say, you will never allow what you allowed to happen to you, ever happen again. And mean it.
@Shornandkenny4 жыл бұрын
Me to.
@aarontharaldson48385 жыл бұрын
Minnesota family court is unjust I’m going through this nightmare right now.
@Hawaiiansky114 жыл бұрын
Fight like hell for full custody. Only the non-custodial parent can be charged with kidnapping.
@Thepathof772 жыл бұрын
I watched this 2 1/2 years ago when my daughter left. It’s now been a year since my son left. I pray for this every hour of every day. I just want my children back so badly and I desire nothing more than to be their mom again. I can’t even fathom what they were told to go from a loving relationship to absolutely blocked from their lives, overnight. I miss you and love you dearly, Emerson and Hudson. I’ll fight for forever if I have to
@FUNNYMANERICWHITE2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear. Don’t give up. Save up for her lawyer and get your rights for custody or joint custody
@Thepathof772 жыл бұрын
@@FUNNYMANERICWHITE I have joint custody
@MAX-vn1sy5 жыл бұрын
If this was a man - He would of received many years in Jail
@carbonf20513 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily. I have actually known men who pulled the same tricks and got away with it. Sad but true. Good liars play the system.
@BEAUTYnIQ3 жыл бұрын
@@carbonf2051 yes . Exactly . thanQ .
@susanhigh36335 жыл бұрын
Men need to be more careful about who they allow to have their children.
@bdizzle53594 жыл бұрын
Parents*
@darksidehavok4 жыл бұрын
Right because men have the ability to decide when and if a child is born... and I know what you going to say. "Well you can decide who to sleep with". I wonder how that would go over if I said that to a woman complaining about a deadbeat dad...
@misscarolinaqueen56734 жыл бұрын
@@darksidehavok it would apply the exact same way
@misscarolinaqueen56734 жыл бұрын
@@darksidehavok women have just as much responsibility with that as men do
@darksidehavok4 жыл бұрын
@@misscarolinaqueen5673 I didn't say it wouldn't apply... it definitely would... I said how it would go over... as in how people would react. Most look at it as me trying to make excuses for men being deadbeats.
@amberhopkins22296 жыл бұрын
I don't care how much you can't stand your ex. Weather or not it's the mom or dad who has custody of the children. U have to find a way to Co Parent. Trust and belive me when I say your kids will grow up to not want nothing to do with u, if they grow up and find out, you were being selfish and not allowing them to see there other parent. My oldest son's dad was told by the court he had no right to our son. If he wanted to change that he had to take me to family court. Now mind u this had nothing to do with me. It stemmed from his older daughter. I always let him see our son when ever he wanted to. And that was far a few between. I made it a point to keep in touch with my son's family so he could see the ones who wanted to be in his life. That is what I thought was the best for my son. As he got older my son's dad came around more and he tried to blame me for why he didn't see him when he was younger. Well needless to say our son is now 20. His dad made a comment to our son about how your mom wouldn't let me have you. I couldn't call you ect ect. So my son let his dad have it. He remembered the times he waited for his dad and he didn't show up. And how I always made it a point and took the time for him to see his dad's side of the family. Needless to say my son and his dad don't have a relationship anymore due to what he said about me as a mom. When he knows how much I tried for his dad's side of the family to be in his life. Don't take it out on the kid's. They didn't ask for this life , we as there parents gave them life. And it's our job to do what needs to be done for the sake of our kid's
@shanghunter76975 жыл бұрын
A great educational comment ! Your son has a great momma and hope he'll be fine. I happily drove to another state every week for yrs to see my sons, this is what i wrote above : Sorry to hear your children and you went through this as well ! So happy for your children and you that you have them !!! This is what i just wrote above to another unfortunate father like us, best wishes to you and your children Rob......It's always the children who suffer most ! Same here out of n.y. state.......our 2 boys suffered and currently suffering immensely ! Now they're adults (early 20's) but i'd NEVER ever give up. The court sided with her after a few yrs of severe long suffering & (court proceedings) and the judge actually took my God given rights away to love, protect, honor, guide and cherish my little sons with no proof of accusations Psychologists even on my side (n.y. family court is atrocious) . I'd NEVER let a judge or anyone ever tell me i couldn't be around my sons, so i quickly mastered the art of disguise (as an old man). They were also a state away but i NEVER missed an event ! Plays at school, all their sporting events and even graduation. Half the time i was standing or sitting unintentionally right next to her and no one ever knew. My sons and i have gone through hell. Definitely risked going to jail and i'd do it all over again, our sons have no idea that i did these things. When a father loves and honors his children, he will do whatever it takes. They hate me but i'll never give up ! Ever !! I was blessed in life to have had the very best father and just wanted to pass that along....No one can ever take my hope & effort away. Amber, one of the best things you said is finding a way to co-parent for the sake of the children....much respect as there is NOTHING in the world more important than our children, you're obviously a great mom !!
@jamesanderika40595 жыл бұрын
Amber Hopkins you speak my language. It shouldn’t be about you or your ex. It should be about how you’re child feels. Co parenting can at least show civilness and maturity and not make a child feel there in the middle. You are a wonderful person Amber Hopkins, I appreciate you! ♥️
@ibrahimantondalo91842 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing with my three children!! She is overseas and won't bring them back. Even though I have full and legal Custody!! Evil mother!!! I pray every day for their safe return soon!!! I know how this man feels, horrible feeling!!!! Trust me!!!! Poor children... God bless you
@mikem41626 жыл бұрын
wouldn't the journalist keeping that info be obstruction of justice? God I dislike "journalists".
@boostedbeast33595 жыл бұрын
No I believe they are able to withhold any information.
@jackduffy53294 жыл бұрын
I feel this man. I am a survivor of this exact situation, however I, and my children, have not got closure.....yet. 18 years now
@notjenny26383 жыл бұрын
My x went through hell for 18 years fighting and all her drama she keep Facebook busy he sadly gave up fighting her
@monsierlemaire8282 Жыл бұрын
Same. It's been 10 years for me with little progress yet to regain my kids. The devil still has my children tightly wound around her finger, even though some of them are adults now. My kids are unable to leave the nest while focusing on caring for her every need while continuing to vilify their dad.
@shanebrock68174 жыл бұрын
That woman got off easy what a joke when will women learn a child needs both parents
@uk93834 жыл бұрын
Sadly they wont any time soon. They like it like this. Their agenda is not to do whats best for the child but to do whats best for her. She will manipulate the child and make the child her caregiver untill she dies. Thats her agenda. She knows shes evil and she doesnt want to stay alone
@karenmossbryan79324 жыл бұрын
When will society acknowledge the severity of emotional abuse? When will the sovereignty of parents, family be overturned? And why are children continually devalued, dismissed, sacrificed in the service of illusory stability. Abuse reveals chaos. Cowardice sustains abuse.
@MR-vk2rj4 жыл бұрын
When will it be enforced the bitch be punished as wed be for the same shit. Wheres that energy?
@OscarD0014 жыл бұрын
@@MR-vk2rj so true! Other question is when will real women admit that the law should be applied equally to women as it has been to men. Have you ever noticed how yeomen will comment on videos like this but they tippy toe around directly calling the woman out? Instead it will be a comment like "both parents". I saw one of Judge Judy's videos on the same issue and a woman made a comment about men doing the same thing.
@persefone8184 жыл бұрын
Well I think someone finally admitted to me the thought process behind punishing men much more than women. You see, they are concerned about whether there will be an actual physical retaliation against them for punishing someone. Isn't that crazy???? But yes. People actually think that way. I think this thought process must occur for people who have experienced extreme physical abuse of some kind. It kind of makes them crazy and they are much more lenient on some people instead of others and don't think objectively. And I think people who have this experience are attracted to jobs like being policemen or possibly judges. They like to have the authority to punish criminals.
@Mehmet-rw9bu Жыл бұрын
No matter what your ex-husband has done to you, you have absolutely no right to decide for your children. As a matter of fact, it's your obligation as a mother to protectect your children from parental conflicts. If you include your children in the conflict, that alone is abuse.
@danielkaiser8971 Жыл бұрын
Parental alienation isn't typically caused by what the ex did. In this case, I strongly believe it was caused by a mother who didn't love her children or anyone else because she is a pathological narcissist who didn't get her way. Narcissists' behaviors are what "evil" is based on in the movies. If a narcissist can't control you, they will try to control what everyone else thinks of you.
@juliemarie70186 жыл бұрын
It is unbelievable the things someone will say just to keep children from wanting to know or see the non custodial parent. I am happy justice was in this man's favor.
@andreasleonlandgren30925 жыл бұрын
Julie Smith yes its so sick.
@carolbradley48453 жыл бұрын
My husband’s ex-wife was so toxic she managed to basically ruin any chance of a relationship with their dad. He was a great father too. His son is a liar, thief and stays in constant trouble with the police. He is 34 years old now and has nothing. His daughter decided to have nothing to do with her father after she grew up. Basically believed whatever lies her mother told her. Really tragic. I believe that God will hold these heartless people accountable for all of this.
@Living_Legend853 жыл бұрын
My daughters mom is doing this same thing to me... submitting lies , half truths and of course I can do no right and she can do no wrong. haven’t seen mydaughter in 1 1/2 years, she’s 5, and I can’t afford a lawyer for the trial set in April. Say a prayer for me or wish me luck please!
@stickerlady1774 Жыл бұрын
How did it go
@Living_Legend85 Жыл бұрын
@@stickerlady1774 not good, bankrupted
@nick32995 ай бұрын
How are things now?
@dnk4559 Жыл бұрын
This has happened to my husband. His ex wife has alienated all four of his children from him. It’s such a heartbreaking situation. We pray for them daily and hope they will wake up someday and see the truth that their father was not the villian their mother made him out to be.
@jerrybrenton61405 жыл бұрын
Those kids belong to the father as much as the mother. Good deal
@omalone11694 жыл бұрын
Mel Feit watched this
@DaphneWilkinsMoeller7 жыл бұрын
God Bless this Dad, his children, and God Bless this Judge for throwing the book at this evil mother. Looks like she'll have plenty of time to reflect over Thanksgiving holidays. Oh, the irony.
@f3f3luvz7 жыл бұрын
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@williampalmer98287 жыл бұрын
Daphne Moeller Agree. Very evil. "Media mother O" needs to be reprimanded and doesn't deserve any promotion. Why do people put greed before the young ones lives. There's no excuse.
@shoneywilliams44537 жыл бұрын
This is such a good man! Hope God continues to watch over and protect him and his children 💝
@mayhem73167 жыл бұрын
"Throwing the book???" Are you serious!?! 34 days plus 15 days for 6 years?? I want that "tough" judge the next time i have to go to court. LMAO!!!!
@Blessed1Jesta7 жыл бұрын
Wasn't the book but it was a very thoughtful sentence that with the children in mind was along the right lines
@micmic77955 жыл бұрын
My dad abandoned us when we were babies , my mom never remarried because he was always lurking around but he never did anything for us, but my mom NEVER put him down or said a bad things about him, as we got older we realized he was a deadbeat but my mom refuses to talk bad about him to this day
@burly6363 жыл бұрын
Good for your mom, she knew you would get older and decide for yourself. I didn't talk bad about my son's father. I got them talking last year, now he is 33. He stopped seeing him when he was 11, hurtfully. I was furious about that.
@Mik359592 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my own personal nightmare. I pray for anyone going through this and I pray for the courage to remain strong during this. Right now my kids are teens and they are using my position to extort me for anything they can get. This is something their mother encourages and tells them that I should have to pay for my actions through bribes and gifts. This is very difficult because I would give them the world. I am forced to say no alot of the time because I can't endorse this behavior because I think it will continue to carry on in how to view and treat the rest of the world.
@mydogsioux Жыл бұрын
Raising emotionally healthy children is extremely difficult. Learning to accept disappointment gracefully is one of the most important things to teach your children.
@JaymieandRachel Жыл бұрын
Please keep saying no and let them know why, without anger. It will be one of the best life lessons you can give them in position you find yourself in now. In the end, it may not pay off depending on how strongly your ex instills her hatred of you in them, but at least you'll know you did everything you were supposed to as a parent. Your children may not be able to understand the unconditional love of a parent because she is their primary model. It won't be until they become one themselves and can imagine the same happening to them and their own children that they really appreciate how difficult it has been for you to stand firm in fatherly love. Best wishes for continued strength and God's blessing for a healed relationship with your children.