MOVE TO LONDON WITH ME !!!

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as promised, you can find my secret playlist for times of healing and great change here: bio.site/unjadedjade ✨
hi friends. thank you so much for being in this lil corner of the internet and following my turbulent recent journey. the first few days in my london flat were some of the loneliest of my life, but in feeling them to their full extent i began to redefine what 'alone' can mean to me 🌷 sending you all the love and i hope this video makes you feel less alone!!
Timestamps:
00:00 intro: moving makes me feel 'alone'
00:42 move to london with me! rearranging my bedroom furniture
1:41 unpacking!
4:14 everything is scarier in your head!! the power of leaning on people
5:30 go find my secret playlist for times of change
7:07 grounding myself with my morning routine 🌞
9:02 crying to my friend 😭
11:28 a rainy trip to central london
12:02 crying in the public toilets (a low point)
13:04 emotions just want to be felt!! nourishing my inner child
16:51 build my new desk with me!
17:31 cry with me (again) lol
18:20 let your friends see you in undesirable states
19:32 let's make this house feel like a home 🥺
Music:
Music by Chinsaku - Cozy - thmatc.co/?l=8C186DCE
Music by Prath - Another Syndrome - thmatc.co/?l=AF3A3DB4
Music by Breathing Piano - Back to the Cradle - thmatc.co/?l=B848197C
Music by Naomi - 1995 - thmatc.co/?l=2034CA30
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Casual Magic of the Day: walking my dog Willow (i'm home for the weekend) and someone thinking she must be 1 or 2 years old (she's 11...!) because of how energetic and healthy she is. I felt so proud to have nurtured such a gorgeous, healthful animal. I love Willow so much!!
Song of the Day: two things can be true by fletcher
Currently Reading: anam cara by john o'donohue
What are YOU grateful for today?
FAQ:
How old are you? ~ 24
Where are you from? ~ The UK! Near London.
Where did you go to university? ~ Minerva Schools at KGI
One of the best decisions you ever made? ~ Taking a gap year!
if no one has told you today, you are enough. 💛

[@UnJadedJade]

Hi friends!! Eeeeeep welcome to the new London chapter! So many new chapters recently 🥲 if you enjoyed this style of video, please give it a thumbs up so I know to keep vlogging

[@heyitisjude3226]

Awww Jade, I just moved to London and have felt the same way. Wondering why I moved here and wondering if I should just go home. I too ended up on the floor in a bathroom stall, of a book store, feeling so alone. And then trying to hide my red eyes with sunglasses, which got even more weird looks for wearing sunglasses inside and on the tube 🤣 it’s such a brave thing to reset and re-build life elsewhere, but we’ll get there eventually💕

[@aigul3724]

love your videos Jade! I also moved to London 5 months ago from another country. it would be so lovely if you ever decide to organize your subscribers' community gathering here 🫶

[@DylanX0]

No one talks about loneliness post-uni/ in your 20s when everyone is doing their own things, so thank you for that Jade. “My housemate is a lawyer” instantly summed that up for me. It’s a fine balance because humans thrive in relationships but we do have to learn like being alone (but not lonely).

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

no one talks about people who have been lonely and outcast there whole life, all through school, uni and afterwards, who have never had a single friend/

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

and humans dont always thrive in relationships, studies show single childless women are the happiest and healthiest demographic.

[@annaz3266]

@@maneskinnnnn7190 but they surely have good relationships with friends :)

[@florafabian5073]

Dear Jade, I've been a silent follower of yours for years, I've never commented before but I want to now - I hope you know how deeply inspiring you are with all the authenticity and vulnerability you share and give us in your content. Not any youtuber / creator has ever had this deep effect on me; your videos are soothing, beautiful, they always make me feel things, and they make me want to live life more openly, with more purpose and with an eye for all the beauty around. Your videos lately have made me cry without fail, it's somehow incredibly heartbreaking and beautiful at the same time, the way you let your followers into such intimate and personal moments without putting on a brave face for the internet. And you are so so brave; it could be so easy to just get off social media and not film in this difficult time, or make pretty vlogs only showing the easy parts and no one would absolutely blame you. But you chose to be truthful, authentic & vulnerable and I'm so grateful that you did - it inspires me to be more authentic & vulnerable in my human relations even when it gets hard. I wish you all the best, I wish that you continue to work through this hard time with the same wisdom and strength and softness you show here. And I hope you'll find peace & true joy at the end of this process.

[@MukteeJaireth]

wow... Beautifully written

[@amina2072]

This. Couldn’t have said it better ❤❤

[@jennystewart3298]

As someone that recently moved to london and is going through a breakup and is feeling overwhelmed, I couldn’t appreciate these videos more😌 You’re so brave to be here and we’re going to be okay!

[@123canadagirl]

Maybe you and Jade should get together and have a coffee or something

[@Sarah-Henderson]

@@123canadagirlI came to say the same thing!

[@Rayowag]

Your friend asking you how many breakdowns you already had since moving in is such an early adulthood vibe 😂

[@red3pants]

Jade crying while trying to assemble furniture alone is one of the most relatable things I’ve seen on the internet.

[@amyvictoriab]

Dear Jade, your videos are my coping mechanism right now. I’m similar to your age living in UK, graduated last year, going through some really uncomfortable changes- a fresh breakup after many years of a relationship, moving, etc. It’s so nice to see someone I admire and look up to with such a similar life to mine going through the same thing. I have no friends close to me, and I really don’t know what to do with myself. I relate so much to feeling alone and lost, regretting life decisions, so you are not alone my lovely. We will get through this mourning phase of our past lives, our past plans and past relationships. Each time we stop doing something and cry is a step towards healing. We’ve got this. Sending so much love and a virtual hug.

[@Lucy-pn9yb]

I feel the EXACT same. We are not alone ❤️

[@Ryan-op1tz]

Wake up early and Do a 5k in the park this weekend. Either walk, jog or run! You will feel 10x better

[@amyvictoriab]

@@Ryan-op1tz I really do need to do something like that. Getting up early for work everyday day makes me want to do nothing on the weekend😂

[@amyvictoriab]

@@Lucy-pn9yb you’ve got this❤️ lmk if you want to vent or anything :)

[@marlo8253]

It’s ok to cry jn public!!! I REALIZED WHEN i had a big problem in december i lost my bff and was depressed!!! I was like why do people not cry in public ?? They smile theyre neutral, theyre angry but you never see anyone cry why? Made me feel good to cry in public and now i do if i want to i dont feel weird about it anymore. I dont wanna supress any of my emotions and feelings. I love feeling. We have to accept our humaness

[@123canadagirl]

I have also cried in public, especially when my brother died and also when my mother died. I think you get to the point where you just don’t care if somebody’s judging you. I think the reason we don’t cry in public is because we’re afraid of being judged by other people. Many of us spend most of our lives, worried about what other people think of us. no matter what you do. People are going to judge you. Because of this, I’m just myself now I don’t really worry about it. I try to be kind to other people and I also try not to hide my emotions regarding sadness. I feel like crying then I cry.it’s understandable there’s a lot of things that happened to people deaths and families, relationships job losses, etc. All the best to you

[@lottecooper4370]

I'm so sorry for all of your hard times!!

[@lottecooper4370]

Whenever I cry in public I think about that there is someone seeing me and thinking "yes she's so right, we should not be afraid of that and next time I'll cry in public and not think of others" - so we're slowly changing the stigma and empowering others by showing our pain (:

[@amyforrestxo]

When I first moved to London (from a very friendly northern town) my grandma once said to me that a big city can be the loneliest place in the world. In the first few months, I noted every couple, friendship group and family that I passed and my heart ached… after a while, once I’d built my community I remember looking at all of my friends and feeling so thankful. I just wanted to go back to tell younger me that everything would work out 🫶🏻 your day will come ❤

[@mosaic2476]

that whispered "it will be ok, it will be ok" i hope those loving awareness parts (as well as all parts of you) are feeling proud and can celebrate themselves and if those parts of you can't quite get there, please know that i'm proud of you, and celebrate you.

[@avadrysdale8676]

i know the feeling of being in a ‘rebirth’ and then being hit by another wave of grief. it’s frustrating and it feels like a step back, but what i’ve learned going through my first breakup is that the feeling of moving forward doesn’t need to be permanent for it to be real. and the grief and sadness moves you forward too (although is obviously very shit). embrace all of the little wins and keep looking after yourself

[@UnJadedJade]

damn i love this, thank you for sharing

[@Jeta_]

Thank you for sharing this Jade, it’s an honour to be able to sit with your vulnerability for a bit, but it’s also so comforting too; loneliness catches us through phases of our lives, often when we don’t expect it, but this video made me feel so much less alone and I am so grateful for your little corner of the internet xx Sending you all the virtual hugs; you’ve got this

[@cinephile1712]

Moving into a new place, even if it’s where you want to be, even if it’s a great living space, can be incredibly lonely at first. No one really talks about it, at least not publicly and, sometimes, not even privately. Fwiw, I’ve cried in a bathroom stall at work and in my car during rush hour. Hang in there. Be good to yourself. Talk to people who love you and can hold your emotions. And do whatever you need to do to feel grounded. It’ll come together before you know it and the bad feelings will dissipate. For now, though, they’re totally normal and there’s no way around except through (I know, that’s cheesy) ❤

[@UnJadedJade]

🥺🥺🥺 thank you so much

[@dhwanibhandari5887]

don't get me wrong but seeing you cry and be so real and vulnerable was the bravest and most wholesome thing that I really needed to see and just learn to be honest with myself and accept my feelings instead of shunning them down or forcing them away

[@graceblackhall4236]

Hi Jade, one of your usually silent followers here. Firstly, feeling lonely, lost and questioning the decision to move to a new place is completely normal. I felt the same when I moved many hours away from home for my first job. Like a plant you just need to develop your roots to the place (which takes time) and then it feels less alien. Things that helped me, which may work for you: - explore and find places to escape to e.g. parks. Familiarity makes a place feel more like home. - join a sporting club and go regularly. This helped me build community and make new friends - keep yourself busy. This give you less time to dwell on feeling alone. I hope this helps and makes you feel less alone.

[@ellevince5879]

This is really really good advice. I wish someone had told me this when I left uni! I think this is such a common experience that is not talked about enough. I was in the same boat too when I got my first job away from home

[@sarachilton6579]

I think moving to a new city is always very difficult in general but London in particular. So many people go through loneliness in London that's not talked about enough. It seems on Instagram that everyone is living the time of their lives whereas many people feel like they don't belong. London is one of those cities that you really have to be resilient with and keep building your social circle and put yourself out there. I've moved here June 2023 and felt very lonely for months. Only since this Jan 2024 I feel settled here and connected to people. Feeling at home in London takes much longer than you'd imagine at first. Your video will give so much comfort and reassurance to recent Londoners! ❤

[@theworldofpaula]

I cried so much in public in my life and this made me feel less lonely. You are great Jade ❤ It’s ok to let your emotions go.

[@meetmechelsea708]

i feel you so much… i’ve been feeling lonely and lost for the last two months. and it’s so calming to see that i’m no the only one feeling this way and it’s part of a life and i don’t always need to be happy and positive. and thank you for saying that it’s okay to share these hard moments with frineds because sometimes i feel guilty to do that. sending love and support ❤

[@lais743]

thank you for sharing vulnerable parts of yourself with us 🤍 you are so brave for moving in and embracing uncertainty but I'm truly sorry you felt lonely, I hope by now you have settled in and started to find your people 🦋

[@peadschie]

thank you soo much for sharing! the feeling of aloneness you describe when moving to a new place is so relatable and it's a huge relief to see someone is feeling the same way

[@martamota2340]

How vulnerable of you Jade to post this video. This is probably one of the most relatable videos I've watched, navigating the post-uni life, moving to a new (huge) city with so many people yet not feeling like you have a solid support system with you everyday. It's isolating and building a community takes time and a lot of tears in the process. It can take some time for a place to feel like home, but just know that you are definitely not alone and this low is just going to make you appreciate the highs so much more.

[@naamagabay7146]

Dear wonderful Jade! For three whole years now I’ve been watching your videos. I see you’re going through a hard time so I thought it would be nice for you to hear this from many people as possible: YOU CHANGED MY LIFE. Completely- top to bottom. When I first started watching your videos positivity was just a word and regulating my feelings a strange concept. You showed me there’s a different way. My life is just SO MUCH BETTER because of you. And this is one of the best videos I’ve ever seen in the internet. I feel like for the first time on social media I see a REAL human being showing bravely and vulnerably- their completely normal human AMAZING pain. Please remember this pain means you are full of magic and love - you’re a living wonder. Sending you all the love in the world - Naama❤

[@marketasevcikova7218]

Seeing you talk about how you feel so openly and honestly was meaningful to me ✨🦋🌷🫀🥹

[@charlottemyee3625]

you are so strong!! even when it feels like you're alone, you will make it through

[@UnJadedJade]

so much love for u, thank u!!

[@Indigojackson8130]

Thank you Jade for making these videos. They have also really helped me through my moving process and tough times. They make me feel less alone and help me tremendously. I don’t even have the words to express my gratitude. I always get very excited seeing when a new video comes out from you and am truly looking forward to the upcoming ones! Take care of yourself.

[@chrismear8159]

Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Your strength in doing this helps others to feel strong enough to be okay with having these feelings too.

[@kasiamiskwcz]

So many times I've moved and felt exactly like this - thanks for improving the internet, such content can help many people who think their experience is somehow not normal, blame themselves and don't realise it's just part of life :)

[@lill16]

Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable moments with us💕, definitely makes me feel less alone that I am not the only one who breaks down in public. I am in my last year of university and the fear of uncertainty kills me inside, the fact that I don’t know which job I’ll have, relationships, parents just feels so overwhelming and I feel disconnected and isolated from people around me so much.I feel no matter what I do I find it so hard to let my friends help me or ask for help when I am in need.

[@hopefullhaleema1125]

Thank you for sharing your moving in experience Jade, with all its highs and lows ❤ Appreciate this so much! 😊Hope you're feeling better and more at home, sending you an abundance of joy and love! 💗

[@bellaboo1611]

Sending love and I hope the day you wake up feeling less alone comes soon :) I think its really special that you are sharing this with us. It's such a relief to see the real wave of emotions we have as humans, and seeing someone let there feelings express themselves.

[@user-ut7rw4gm3b]

Your videos help me so much. The vulnerability you show online and the effort you put into coping with your emotions in a healthy way are so, so inspiring. I’m very grateful for this channel and I wish you better days 💖

[@JoB822]

hearing you ground yourself out loud is so powerful!

[@tjade17_]

I’ve been going through an emotional roller coaster as well Jade, and your videos have been such a comfort and instantly make me realize that yes emotions do exist to be felt. I am in awe of your honesty, your vulnerability, your growth, and your courage. I hope you know just how supported you are ❤

[@katinkaf7856]

Crying along felt so good! Feeling low really is something that we don’t show our friends often and now I feel less alone with those feelings. Thank you, Jade, for creating such honest and pure videos

[@sharvaripatil1966]

Thank you so much for being so vulnerable Jade!! Your recent videos have helped me prioritise just BEING and FEELING rather than DOING. Sending you so much love ❤

[@agatealbekeite]

i just went through a similar experience, i finished uni and moved to the city, into a shared flat (lived in a dorm during uni) and moving into a shared flat is so weird because it's your home but people already live there so you need to adapt to their way of domestic customs and you only start feeling like it after a couple of months. I was surprised that i also craved human interactions so much in the beginning, inviting friends over helped a lot. After a while, as you fill the room with your trinkets and get mad about how much stuff you're accumulation, as you start to have real conversations with your flatmates and they invite you to their wedding and you start thinking of them as friends, as get to know the streets and the local shop inside out, the place will feel like home and you won't feel alone anymore.

[@ellevince5879]

Oh my love, I feel this in my soul. I moved to London after uni and it too was the loneliest experience of my life. I think it can be a struggle to find your people in the big city - being surrounded can make you feel all alone. Sending you lots of love in this turbulent time - you are stronger than you know ❤

[@Madelin_maria]

Hi Jade, thank you so much for showing this side of life. I think so many people recognize these feelings and it's so important to be honest about how we truly feel❤️

[@sage9756]

you will get through this! going through a breakup and the trials and tribulations of a new city oh my the emotions you must be feeling. Honestly, i moved to edinburgh alone in january and i told myself that its ok if the first 6 weeks kind of sucked and if i felt alone and purpose-less and cried often because thats how long it takes to build a new home

[@marth5326]

i needed this so much today, i had a lot of complicated feelings today bc i met some new ppl but surprisingly did not like how they acted towards me. im always very postive about ppl and rarely talk bad about others, but i just felt this wave of anger of being mistreated by these ppl and I'm still struggling to truly accept those feelings of anger and hurt. so tysm for this video jade, ilysm and your videos make me feel seen and less alone. ❤

[@EmEmJee89]

I love you Jade!! big huge hug with all the love in the world for you. I struggle with loneliness even though I have lots of people that care for me. So I feel you, I can relate. Trusting the universe is sometimes hard!! and feeling the feelings too. One moment at a time.

[@lyd1017]

I'm literally 30 and your videos are teaching me to self soothe! Such a breath of fresh air, I love how kind you are to yourself and others x

[@Eden_Mesfin]

Thank you for showing this side of starting over and moving to a new place, thank you for being vulnerable with us Jade🤍 As someone who moved to London 6 month ago I felt so much of this video. Know that you are Loved!!

[@bagginses_]

This video feels like a warm hug❤️today's the first day of me living by myself, and so much of what you said really resonates with me. This is exactly what I needed, thank you Jade💕I wish you all the best and can't wait to watch you heal and grow in this new chapter of your life xx

[@Mushroom1512]

I cannot thank you enough for being so vulnerable and real. As an autistic person i struggle so greatly with lifes transitions and changes, but this is such a sweet reminder that *nobody* finds it easy. We all get anxious and lonely ect... but change has to be embraced! I was so tempted to not move away for uni this year but this weirdly reminded me im doing the right thing 🤍

[@lydiloulou]

Hey yall, just a little reminder to anyone struggling or feeling alone or burdened rn. Isaiah 58:11 ‘The Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your soul in drought, and strengthen your bones. You shall be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail.’ Praying for anyone going through a tough time. It’ll get better. ❤

[@marticiabi]

thank you for sharing and for showing that moving in a new big city alone might be overwhelming and frightening - loneliness is part of the journey and there is no shame in that. it will get better I swear! :) sending virtual hugs

[@wonderwoman5528]

I’ve been so lonely in crowded rooms, exam halls… it is a gnawing deep ache and time passing is felt so acutely. I feel you ❤ you and all your followers are connected when we watch your videos, we are all with you

[@sums-yl3yo]

The vulnerability you share with us is so beautiful and inspiring and has really helped me with accepting that it is not a weakness and that everyone is going through it. We’re here for you always. 🫶🏻❤

[@UnJadedJade]

Thank you so much for your kind words!! I've felt so empowered to be vulnerable recently and comments like this continually affirm my courage eeeeep. You mean the world 🦋

[@user-tr7yl5bh1x]

Jade you are so so brave! And trust me it only gets better, allowing yourself to feel low and crying it out is a good thing because it helps you process the change. You’ll look back at this video one day and be so proud of yourself for making this move and how far you’ve come❤You got this 💪🏽💕❤

[@ellyann6353]

GOOD FOR YOU GIRL for being so honest, not everyone can cope with be so open and vulnerable (especially on the internet!) that takes a tremendous amount of inner strength so really really well done. Also, I remember first moving to London and walking through Waterloo station at rush hour, on a Monday, on the way to my first grad job - hands down the loneliest moment of my life. But that pain was a growing pain, no doubt the same as you’re feeling now. You got this 💪🏼

[@thinkingyas4245]

I felt this when I moved to Chiswick alone after a breakup and leaving my uni town. It was horrible but day by day, slowly and then suddenly life just gets so much better 💕💟💕

[@BTMoon28]

I hope you enjoy this new environment lots of love for you jade❤

[@oopsgirl44]

So happy to see you grow. Sending you the warmest hugs, Jade 🥰⭐

[@ailishmayx]

Dearest Jade I hope you can find peace in London - it is such a wonderful city. Just know that you are stronger than you think. You can do this! I’ve been where you are, going through a break up is horrendous. I beat myself up over ending my relationship for months. And then one day I realised why I did it. It wasn’t healthy, it wasn’t even a relationship, we were going around in circles and it was going no where. You, my dear, are so inspiring!! YOU can get through this! 🦋 Here’s to new beginnings! Xx

[@agusm7743]

I JUST came back from London and I LOVED it, everything is so well connected and you are constantly moving and everything is beautiful and full of history. I grew up in Buenos Aires but I've been living in California for years now so I love cities and love public transportation to move around.

[@keziahobeng5511]

Hi Jade! Change is scary. And I have experienced it a lot. But, it does does get better. You are a huge inspiration to me. You are so kind. And I am sure you will find people in London who see that too. I also struggle with loneliness sometimes as I think I am the only one experiencing this. This video is very encouraging ❤. And I thank you are because you are just amazing.

[@gabrielamunozova798]

You are my favorite youtuber of all times. I relate to you and to what you are currently going through and I am so grateful for having a role model that is not afraid to also show the vulnerable parts of her life. Thank you

[@noname-hp2nd]

Thanks for being here just the way you are. You're an inspiration especially in the vulnerable messy moments and it makes it easier for me to feel connected and less alone in my sad hours❤ So thank you jade, you're great!!

[@teresagallardo710]

Hey! I used to watch your videos religiously when I was going through a very rough patch in my life, now I've come back and I wish I could give back the favour you did without knowing of helping me navigate heartbreak and change. Sending you a huge hug from Spain, it'll pass, you're doing great ❤️

[@tungtranthanh1677]

Thank you for showing your vulnerable emotions to us. Emotions are there just to be felt and I'm glad you did that. Me too. I'm going through a tough time right now and I do feel alone but I'm glad that I can keep moving with you through harsh time like these.

[@ThabileMhlanga-fe1mn]

watching your videos is so healing , thank you for this jade

[@axeaile]

I love how your videos are pure and authentic, you bring so much to all of us

[@sayalivarkhedkar7046]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and real. Watching your videos helps me be comfortable with my feelings and gives me motivation & hope✨✨✨

[@melissagrindon9074]

Awww girly, I am so sorry you are going through all of these feelings right now 😢 It may not feel clear right now but you will feel a lot better soon 🫶 I moved into my own place mid lockdown after a 6 year relationship breakdown and the loneliness was REAL! 4 years on and my life could not be any more full with love and friends and new adventures 🙏🤍 It WILL pass as you build your new and exciting life in London ❤🎉😊

[@francescabenazzi4811]

I feel like I’m living a similar phase of life, I’m connecting so deeply to the last videos, and I feel a strange sense of relief. It’s death and rebirth, and it’s not supposed to be easy. There’re days where I feel powerful, and others where I’m just defeated, and that’s ok. It’s a powerful transition towards a more authentic version of us. I wish you a soft heart, a light mind and a warm light ❤️

[@isabelletenorio2911]

Im watching this video here from brazil and i can relate so much to what you are saying. This is a new chapter in your journey, a different phase of your life, fear will always appear in front of new and unknown things but im sure you will be fine, you will learn how to deal with things and grow to become an even more wise human than you already are. I hope peace, health and laughter and happiness will also be constant in your days. Thank you for sharing with us ❤

[@emmarijsman04]

Today was a 'mothering' day for me and watching this video I realized how much I learned from you about accepting my feelings and being nice to myself, just by watching your videos over the years. I really appreciate it so much❤️

[@UnJadedJade]

Wow, this means more than you know. Thank you for being soft with yourself

[@Caatje-op3jy]

Hi Jade, you're video's are helping me so much, especially since the last month. We're going through a lot of similar things: figuring out what to do with our life, getting through a break-up, connecting with friends at times and at other times feeling really alone, starting a new phase in life. I'm really hopeful that I'll be okay, but also SO SCARED of what is yet to come: worklife is gonna start soon for me, I'm finishing up my bachelor thesis and my love life is all one big question mark it feels like. So thank you so much for your support and talking so openly about what you're feeling, you have no idea how much it helps ❤

[@natashapelletier3903]

Today is my first day moving back to my old apartment after an internship abroad… thank you for feeling your feelings and giving me a real example of the process!! So much love for you❤️

[@janabanasova6715]

Oh wow, I took so many deep breaths during this video. Thank you for this, Jade!

[@merlyn20]

jade😢you are so so brade to say these things to us…I wish you all the best and sometimes it's incredibly hard for us to go on. so you are doing great❤

[@malutourinho4246]

I literally cried with you Jade, I just moved to a big city because of university and living alone is just so hard. I miss my family, friends, boyfriend. And today is one of the ones that I simply just feel like shit. But I know is gonna pass, it always does. Thank you so much for being so real, lots of love ti you from Brazil!

[@khansamiyah99]

I have been IN LOVE with you and your content for years and I'm so very proud of how far you have come. You are so strong and you can surpass any obstacle the biggest being the feeling of loneliness. Sending lots and lots of love.❤🌻

[@UnJadedJade]

gahhh thank you so much, this means the world!! 🦋🌷

[@zaasaa_art]

Sending you a big hug sweet jade, it's all gonna be alright! 🤍

[@isabellapap2676]

Wow as someone who recently started making some videos on youtube for fun, seeing you go through this struggle and sadness and still managing to film, edit, and upload is so inspiring. When I go through a sad phase like this I can barely function, let alone have a hint of structure to my days and perform tasks. You are doing great Jade 🦋 Wishing you a lot of luck and serendipity in your new chapter 🍀

[@Malin-us3jr]

I went through this when I moved from home properly for Uni, starting new, far away from family and friends, it's terrifying, truly. But you're doing great! A big thing that has helped me is to join a creative painting/meditation group through Peach, I think having something scheduled, like a routine that includes a social component with the same people for an extended time really helped with feeling alone - even though I don't hang out with the people I met it still feels like a place where I "belong". Keep going!

[@vonHNnachMTKnachS]

Jade, I cannot express to you how much your openness and vulnerability is changing peoples lives. It changes mine! Thank you! We are all in this together. You are not alone. Change is hard and this too shall pass. Also, I started at a social impact coworking space and this made SUCH a difference. I get out of the house and I meet the most gentle, inspiring and beautiful people every day. Today I met another KZbinr and it made me think of you. I highly recommend! You got this! Much love from Canada!

[@victoriageorgopoulou4292]

Thanks for sharing the emotions that come up with your transition to London...It allows people to see that even super successful people who have coped with billions of transitions can somehow experience low points....hence it normalises the whole thing for all of us...emotions simply need to be expressed and then they let us in peace...thank you Jade!

[@s.k.henkle]

I had emotional moments pop up myself when watching just now. Your videos inspire me & it is such a pleasure to watch you speak to yourself so kindly - like when you said you would mother yourself & having self soothing practices. I’m glad you could share with your friends too, because it can be warming for them to know you feel comfortable opening up to them. At least that is how I feel when a friend confides in me 🤍🫶 best of luck! You got this, things will always change. Thanks for feeling and sharing your feelings w us

[@sophiec9685]

I feel you Jade!! You are not alone and these times will pass... sending you hugs xxxx

[@AbigailDenley]

thank you for being so real ❤️

[@audreyblaine3022]

your honesty makes me feel less alone. sending you love, always!

[@seasonoffaithministry9902]

You will make it Jade, you will. This video inspired me. Change is sometimes hard, just allow yourself to grow with the change and experience all of the beauty that your new life has to offer because beauty and love is all around you because of the beauty, love, and joy that you bring and give to others. Blessings, hope, and love❤️

[@FloridaTesfay]

Thank you for being vulnerable and I'm proud for living on your own but also showing the difficulty of that. You're trying your best and it's always inspiring >33333

[@insakolby]

I know exactly how you feel. I feel so lonely too since moving to Lisbon. Some days it’s worse than others. But don’t overthink these feelings. It’s normal. And you will not be alone forever. It’s temporary. Try to focus on the freedom instead of the separation. I also cried many times in public. Very embarrassing but it shouldn’t be. It’s all gonna balance out. 😊

[@nambashi]

Dear Jade, congratulations for this new chapter of your life! I'm right there with you! Just recently made the move to Lisbon solo to kickstart a new job (only two weeks ago), and I've felt those same butterflies in my stomach. Every now and then, they still flutter around, but life's too short to not embrace new adventures! Stepping out of our comfort zones is where the magic happens, after all. Let's have faith in what the universe has in store for us and listen to our instincts

[@anamihalache8699]

Thank you for your autenticity and courage to talk about things we all go throgh... Sending you much love, Jade❤️❤️❤️

[@emielou]

Moving home and Ending a relationship are two of the most stressful times in our lives, you've done both at the same time and allowing yourself to just be in the emotion you feel is the greatest kindness you can give your future self.

[@zarza9]

Oh Jade I felt so alone when I first moved to London, not knowing anyone here - it can feel like a very unwelcoming city at the beginning. I felt all the things you are feeling, I wondered whether it was a mistake too (I've had my fair share of public crying on the tube!). It took a while but I built a new life here, and I now have a great community and have made some of the best memories of my life in London ❤ I'm no longer alone and overwhelmed, and I think soon you won't be too :)

[@sophietulip5459]

This is the most relatable video. I graduated last year and moved into a flat at Christmas with a new person and eventhough I had friends to go and see I still felt lonely or as if I wasn't doing anything with my life. I thought to myself "how am I suppose to love this place like a home". After 4months I can now say that I'll miss my place when I move out and eventhough I still have some breakdowns I feel more comfortable and settled with my new working and kind off independent self. ❤❤ It always gets better.

[@furkan43345]

Hi Jade, I think we all wanted to be that friend that you can lean on while watching, and finally seeing your friend show up is a relief. Thanks for showing everything.

[@yogapreetha7879]

jade, i wanna give you a big hug. i have always felt the way you feel and i’m telling you, YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS!! ❤

[@user-hr6dw8rd2d]

OHH jade! i love your videos because they are always sooo relatable! i just moved to spain and feel the EXACT same - just lonely and with no community when actually i have my familie and my friends its so good to know that im not the only one feeling like this. also love all the comments bih hug

[@ellarowley9956]

i absolutely adore your raw honesty Jade, it feels like I’m actually watching a real human which isn’t all that common these days🤍 Moving to a new city and starting from zero is so hard. I moved to Paris last August to start my year abroad from uni and I genuinely had the loneliest 3 days of my life to date before my internship there started😭And 3 days doesn’t sound like a lot but when you don’t know a single soul in the city it’s almost like there’s too many hours to fill in a day. You’ve got this, you’ll build up your community so quickly xx

[@user-gi3yr1gl7j]

That feeling of crying in the middle of the street in London is the most upsetting feeling, and it hits you so hard. I feel you Jade, you aren't the only one

[@christadresch8683]

I think I’m to German to show my feelings like you do (as you know we are feeling swallower…). I just wanted to say be proud of you Jade to do these steps being able to show (publicly) how you feel! Love your content it gives so much comfort and help. Thank you. Greetings from Germany 😊

[@JotItDownQuick]

Watching this beautiful video brings me back to 4 years ago, when I moved across the country by myself. Ngl the first five or six months of being here were some of the most mentally taxing days of my life; I felt so alone, I felt like I wasn't a main character in anyone else's life, like I was just a comic relief side character that people were happy to see but didn't miss if I wasn't there. It was very sad. In fact, I only healed from that sadness when I learned to accept it and really FEEL it. And around the sadness, new relationships grew, and a new relationship with myself grew, and I came to love my new home because I love myself and I am my own home. I wish you all the best Jade, I hope you continue to feel and find home in yourself.

[@clairesneed2081]

thank you so much for this, Jade. College senior here! I'm about to move out west to the middle of nowhere for work following graduation, where I won't know anyone. Your videos and authenticity are unbelievably comforting❤

[@AndromedaMoon888]

Jade, I'm praying for you right now. And it's so amazing that you're willing to cry in public---it shows you have a tender heart