Moving to Malaysia from NYC: Differences between New York City and Kuala Lumpur

[@kennyng2289]

Crime rate has reduced in Malaysia. However, it doesn't mean that it's crime free. When you walk, it's better to walk against the traffic so that you can see the cars or motorbikes that are driving towards you. When you carry your handbag, make sure that it is further away from the oncoming vehicles so that it won't be easy for the snatch thieves to snatch your bag. As mentioned earlier, crime rate is pretty low as compared to 10 years ago. So, you don't have to worry, but you still have to be alert.

[@cutakecare2020]

Yes be careful of petty theft. Be alert.

[@desi533]

Snatch thief cases were most rampant 10 years...i was robbed ard 2013/ 2014 by a snatch thief at KL Sentral/Hilton walkway...but such cases almost unheard of nowadays, still better to exercise caution, especially be wary of motorcyclists getting by you.

[@ZainiZaudi]

​@@desi53310 tahun lepas banyak Kes, Maka kerajaan dahulu upgrade kelemahan perbanyakan polis Dan kawalan. Semua main peranan dalam memberi nasihat cuma jangan langgar garisan yang tak patut sahaja itu je mudah bagi semua jika saling menghormati😅

[@Married2Travel]

Thank you, definitely better to be cautious.

[@Married2Travel]

Wow, we're sorry that happened. Thank you, we will try to be cautious.

[@janeoliew5931]

My younger self just loved to dream about living in NYC, but right now I think I am pretty grateful to be living in Malaysia. Hope you two enjoy living here and don't forget to plan your long weekend holidays in advance!

[@nickloong]

You'll also notice that there's not much honking from cars or bikes in Kuala Lumpur city. Sometimes it's really really quiet even in the city centre!😅😊

[@Married2Travel]

Very true!

[@bakafrayaborja896]

When they honk, they must be upset or angry of something😊

[@KHAI_137]

Thanks for reminding me that my car has a horn. now i will try it for the first time. 😅😂

[@EGO0808]

I live in KLCC on Jalan Ampang and can tell from experience there is continuous honking and streetnoise from traffic. Add to that the notorious mat rempits during the night, loud music from night clubd and you may realize this city is nót quiet at all.

[@hplagt6880]

Here in Malaysia, there isn't that much street food which you see set up along the road because there are usually designated area for hawkers to set up their stalls. Usually the local council will require workers to get typhoid vaccinations, owners should have their permits and the premises must be clean. There will be spot checks by the local officials also. Any illegal stalls set up will be taken down especially when they are reported. Since you are planning to organise your holidays around the country's holidays, i suggest that you buy an Almanac, your colleagues should know about it. It tells you what type of events or festivals are being celebrated. Also it helps, as you can do your own research on what these events or festivals are about. Then maybe plan your holidays to coincide with these events so that you can experience more of the local culture.

[@Married2Travel]

We're glad there are strict regulations for food safety. As for the holidays, that's a really great advice. Thank you!

[@sharilsamad9727]

First thing comes to mind; loving the fashion. Handsome couple, definitely. Thank you for all the recommendations. Good taste, is one big plus for this couple.

[@Married2Travel]

Thank you for watching😊

[@VirtousStoic]

Tysm❤ love ur content since I am considering relocating from north america to KL

[@Married2Travel]

Awesome! Let us know if you have any questions about relocating

[@MilinBiokJunior-qj6jh]

U will definitely regrets why don't make it earlier to relocate in Malaysia. U will find quality of life in Malaysia, we worked but we must have good quality of life & don't bring your work stress back home. If you go through long day in workplace just take time to chill out before go back home because our mental health most important in giving productive job.

[@ajibaziz446]

Tq...promote my country...i hope you guys happy in Malaysia ok...come to Malacca n Penang...

[@Married2Travel]

Thank you for watching. We would love to go back to Malacca and Penang

[@buburbasi3983]

I mostly tip the Grab and Lalamove guys when the weather is bad.

[@Married2Travel]

Same here. Most deliveries are on scooters which is not great for the riders when it's raining

[@moiramaine8986]

they appreciate cash tip more than in the app ones

[@4b1dd3n]

Tipping is not a culture here, it is not necessary or even expected. However, depending on the location or the service, if you do tip, it is still well appreciated and there tends to be a greater sense of gratitude for receiving such a tip. TBH, service staff do not get paid much in Malaysia, so there is nothing wrong with tipping if you feel like they deserve a tip. Personally, I only tip when the service provided was excellent or to grab riders and drivers who were very friendly and helpful, or even to the bellboy in a hotel if they helped to carry my luggage up to the room. But at the end of the day, you should never feel a need to tip. A tip should be a sign of appreciation and not a right. Just glad we dont have a tipping culture here, makes the act of tipping more meaningful.

[@amadlachowski2965]

bye for now..can’t wait for your next update. i love your vlog btw.. keep it up ❤❤❤

[@Married2Travel]

Thank you so much!! see you in the next video

[@wolfscent8386]

The angles where you put the phone camera somewhere to have still-shot is actually a very nice touch to these videos you make. Glad you're settling in the country happily

[@hasfaris]

Hi Welcome to Malaysia. Hope you enjoy your vacation here

[@rachelchong1529]

Your camera is really good. Every corner look so pretty and colorful.

[@Married2Travel]

These vlogs are shot with the google pixel 8 pro 😍

[@Yasin_Affandi]

Yes, both the cities, NYC and KL have their own attractions, vibes, charm and beauty from the places and their people, food, art, culture, tradition and history. Hope that you guys blend in well with the local culture in KL. Most of the differences are quite obvious.

[@kamrulz659]

Glad to see many visitors to enjoy the differences in our country compared to their home country.we are msian n msia is truly asia😊

[@Married2Travel]

We're glad to be here😊

[@nurfatihahofficial]

Selamat datang ke Malaysia. Make sure pergi semua tempat yg best2 dekat Malaysia

[@BrandonT-qm9in]

Glad you guys are settling down pretty well. Like anywhere, crimes are inevitable buy yeah, it's much more safer than many other countries I have visited. So blessed to have access to food anywhere anytime, literally 24 hours if u really look for it. Try supper in KL guys, you ll be amazed what's in the offer. As you know, we Malaysians always take pride in our food - literally eating our way from dawn to dust😂

[@Married2Travel]

Definitely agree, it feels safer overall. The food is one of the reasons why we love it here. Any recommendations?

[@makkienleong6865]

@@Married2Travel Try... Nasi Lemak (Coconut rice) - Nasi Lemak Wanjo at Kampung Baru or VIllage Park Restaurant at Damansara Utama Nasi Kerabu and Nasi Dagang - Kak Som at Kampung Baru Beef Ball Noodles - Soong Kee Beef Ball noodles Lala (Clam) noodles - Lai Foong Lala noodles Chinese mixed rice - Temple located at Lorong Ceylon next to Boustead (Back entrance) car park block. Opens only on Mon-Thu (12pm recommended). Medan Selera Boustead - There is another food court at Boustead car park block at 8th floor. Lift just next to car park entrance. You can find Indian selling fried rice and some noodles for chaep at breakfast hours (7.30am). Chinese sells soup varieties (ABC is my favorite), claypot chicken rice and hot pan noodles for lunch (12pm). Indian sells mixed rice for lunch as well. Opens only on working days. Try Asam laksa, curry laksa, roti canai (and some varients), nasi kandar, steamed bun and glutinous chicken rice, mee tarik (pulled noodles) by chinese muslim, pan mee, dry mee siam, hokkien mee, cantonese ying yong (vermicelli and flat rice noodle), loh mee (fat noodles cooked in cantonese style) for other dishes, Too many to list. I'll stop here.

[@VirtousStoic]

The biggest 2 things I would ❤ if u cover in a future video are Are there events or festivals every single weekend (not referring to nightlife, just fun things for a couple not kids) And how open are local malay to friendships with expats, and how do couples become friends with local couples. Besides meetup and expat facebook groups and societies (which connect u with other expats)

[@Married2Travel]

Those are all good suggestions, I actually wrote them down. Thanks for the ideas😊

[@nimay13]

While crime rate is low, don’t let your guard down. Be wary of snatch thieves. Rule of thumb, don’t make yourself a target. Also, take your time to distinguish between Malaysians and migrants. Also, while tipping isn’t the culture here, some restaurants do ask for “service charge” (around 6-10%). This is actually tip already included in your bill.

[@lizy8000]

I’m so happy to hear New Yorkers loving KL and M’sia a lot more than NY!! I’m M’sian born, but have been in SG for years, after a week’s trip to KL last week and all these videos by foreigners about loving their stay in M’sia, I intend to move back to M’sia (likely PJ) after I retire from the hectic life in SG. The other amazing thing about M’sia are the food and of course, friendly warm people! You’re of course comparing prices in USD terms, and that for sure makes M’sia “cheaper” than the States. But TBH cost of living in M’sia especially food prices have sky rocketed in recent years! Even with my strong SGD spending power in M’sia, I still find it very expensive so I really feel it for the locals 😓

[@MrLtoos]

Try to come back for shorter stays first and see how u feel.Reason why there’s so many KZbinrs in Malaysia is becos it’s very easy to get views here..especially from locals..in fact 99% of viewers are Malaysians..KZbinrs know that as long as they say nice things about Malaysia the videos would fare well. Ultimately you hv to rmb after living in Singapore and getting used to the efficiency,safety and cleanliness it may take a while to adjust back.

[@matttechbrick]

Showering 2 times a day is normal over this side of the world. 3 times normally is when you do some extra activities. SO now your mission is to learn the mix languages so you interact better with the local.

[@Married2Travel]

We're learning slowly, and would love to eventually take formal classes.😊

[@bakafrayaborja896]

​@@Married2Travel so u can use 3 or 4 different languages in 1 sentence.... hahahah😅

[@aerolaeious]

great candid insights guys:)

[@iskhrm1688]

NYC - KL: To go - takeaway/tapau. Two flights up - two floors up. Do not tailgate - keep ur distance. Handicap - disabled U got the time - whats the time now. Service plaza - R & R. 2 blocks away - 2 junctions/intersections. - any additions/corrections ? 😀 - i'm M'sian, but i hate large malls, would rather go to midsize ones like Sunway Velocity, NU Sentral, MyTown etc. I prefer the American way such as stand alone stores or Premium outlets style of layout. - whenever i visit the US, i book rental cars, took me about 5 minutes to acclimatize to the right side driving position. Strangely, i found it driving in CT, VT & NJ is easier than in MA, NH & NY. Thing that still "unexplainable" to me 😀

[@Married2Travel]

Traffic - jam Gas - petrol Definitely - confirm can 😁

[@AlanKangBanMeng-sv5en]

Take a trip to Genting Highlands as the weather is cooler. Its just 45 minutes bus journey from KL and another 15 minutes cable car ride to the top of the resort. U.S travellers and europeon travellers call it the Las Vegas of malaysia.

[@asrie1234]

*Malaysia is save for family holidays here, enjoyable*

[@williamlee7782]

Gasoline is subsidized in MY which is why Grab is so cheap. I'm on my third week here in Malaysia. Originally from NYC via Manhattan; been nomadic since 2010. An hour and a half Grab ride to the Batu Caves from KL costed 60-70 ringgit. Food is cheap and as much as I avoid malls, I succumbed as there's not much other things to do or areas to hang out in within KL which is sad (to me). Even their nightlife street are mainly British style pubs which is not my speed. I had higher hopes for the city but don't think I'd be entertained enough to stay longer. The ppl are amazing however and I was impressed with almost all I had encountered. Very safe.

[@zzzmobilelegend9871]

Malaysia is more family oriented country which explains the food, cars and the relaxed life. People usually choose Thailand for fun. You can come back when you settle down with kids and have fun in Malaysian theme park,island and forest. It's a shame one can't be good at everything 😂

[@options888]

You should consider going to desa park city. Best place to live in KL with lots of expats. lots of greeneries and great condos. You will love it for sure

[@Married2Travel]

Thanks for the tip. Considered it, but we prioritized being close to mark's office which is in Bangsar South. Found a place that's walking distance

[@alinasimon6399]

I love giving gifts of bottled drinks n snacks n occasionally extra money to the delivery boys cause they are so hard-working. I am a retiree n regarded them as my children. An extra rm10 or rm15 is my way of helping boost their morale n make them smile when it's raining or hot days outside. Glad that you two are enjoying your stay in Malaysia. Yes the work culture is very like family..my work family was very friendly n warm.

[@Married2Travel]

That's great! Thank you. Definitely good reasons to tip.

[@mrvip90210]

For street food, you might want to check out Jalan Alor at night.

[@Married2Travel]

Thanks! We're thinking of going back there soon.

[@hplagt6880]

@@Married2Travel Maybe you should check out the longest night market called the Connaught night market which happens every Wednesday.

[@zanzillahsaruji9966]

Malaysia is a commonwealth country and.most British colonial countries drive on the right side...Malaysia is a multi racial country....

[@Married2Travel]

That makes sense.

[@Yamoukawchowa]

As a Malaysian, some Malaysians walk too slow for my liking. And some dont understand the escalator concept of moving to the left to allow some people to climb up the escalator rather than wait and stand on it. Especially if they dont use public transport often or out of towners.

[@orangelily935]

What kind visa you guys have now ? I like your videos... 😊

[@Married2Travel]

Thank you. It's a work visa for Mark and I have a dependent visa.

[@band1t9999]

Moving from NYC to KL is a HUGEEEE DIFFERENCEEE

[@asrie1234]

*Welcome to Malaysia truly Asia good foods beach jungle can try durian fruit Musang King Malaysia it's delicious too 🇲🇾*

[@makkienleong6865]

The reason people walk slower here is you'll sweat a lot less. Also, give it time. Eventually your body will get adapted to our climate like us.

[@penukulbesi4006]

The weather in KL is very hot that's why we only go out walking in the evening and at night

[@SyedFaizalAlYahya]

If u don't like to hang out or need privacy u can just tell us....we Malaysian are very open on privacy

[@Married2Travel]

Actually it's the opposite here. We have become more social and we love it. We love hanging out with our Malaysian friends.😊

[@keangwooichoo6138]

Tipping is not a culture here

[@VirtousStoic]

Amazing omg, I hate having to tip every human who says hi to me in some countries I visited. Tysm❤ for confirming this

[@AMSWingsOfLiberty]

​@@VirtousStoictipping from western culture..asians doesn't do this 😅

[@VirtousStoic]

@AMSWingsOfLiberty amazing. Europe is the same no tipping. Tipping is a bonus not a requirement or expectation. Rich people make tipping a culture so they can pay staff nothing and make us normal humans pay each other with tips and waste our money I am not joking

[@AMSWingsOfLiberty]

@@VirtousStoic yea it's rich ppl thingy..here if we want to help people like giving them some money we call it charity

[@nuurulbasarmohdbaki6046]

We don't tips we sedekah which has a different reason. If I have more money I won't mind given a bit to the staff. Or we usually just pay other people tab strangers in the room

[@ELIZ542]

Malls are not just for shopping here, there are many other activities. We do have many dogs, they are kept at home

[@LasiusJulian]

Driving on the Right Hand Side follows the British Road System even the traffic signages too likewise in the US driving is on the Left Hand Side..Talking about crime just becareful and ensure your bags holds firmly in between your hands otherwise those Robbers Prey on the Loose handbags😂..Whatever it is always stay alert whilst walking around or crossing down the streets anywhere in the city..workplace or your place of accomodation..You will never expect the unexpected to happen anytime of the day or night..Greetings from Borneo Sabah East Malaysia..🫶

[@Married2Travel]

Thank you. You are right! Always good to be cautious at all times.

[@LasiusJulian]

@@Married2Travel My Pleasure..Exactly..

[@kennywong544]

What's the restaurant in the background at the beginning of the video? Mural is so nice

[@Married2Travel]

It's called Breakfast Spot. 142, Jalan Petaling, City Centre, 50000 Kuala Lumpur, Wilayah Persekutuan Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

[@chongpengsan7425]

Next trip to genting highlands amazing. 😊

[@Married2Travel]

Thats the plan😊

[@xiaomashitu]

🎉🎉

[@samng-i2h]

Tq guys Yorkers, well u guys in kl city It’s an idea u guys post some clips at NYC building n transportation there, we Malaysian gets curious too N many Malaysian don’t about the Bronx Anyway it’s the of Spider-Man, its because the building is so close that he swings where he likes,,ha….haha

[@shamfazrul9775]

How do you guys compare malls in KL and NYC?

[@Married2Travel]

It's 10x better in KL

[@vincentchin88]

What's the Jimmy O Yang tip level in NYC?

[@amiryazidali7659]

Tipping is not a must / culture in Malaysia. You only tip when you appreciate the extra service given to you😊

[@BenHifni]

The only times I tip here were to hotel bellboys.

[@Married2Travel]

Ah good to know.

[@piscodesignprint247]

Working for enjoy your life, just relax

[@TheSryn1]

Please do not tip and spoil the honest day's work in the country- just pay the due, and smile for thanks.

[@bldomain]

I agree

[@maklangchombie]

We have a 24-hour mamak restaurant

[@ryanphilip5983]

We don't tip, don't make it a habit here. We drive on the left side on the road here. Most people eat spicy food here. Here we speak MANGLISH, our version of english here. But people here mostly understand english! Our goods and services here included taxes. So you pay the exact price unless otherwise stated.

[@cutakecare2020]

Malaysia got rid of tipping culture when the govt. introduced sales and service tax. As far as i can remember tipping was prevalent back in the 60’s and 70’s as I was told by my parents

[@Married2Travel]

Interesting, thanks for the info!

[@kleew5840]

And taxes doesn’t go to the workers unlike tips

[@kamarudinbinhanipah7918]

Mostly Malay Muslims eat using our hand. The right hand obviously😂

[@arii1987]

So do Indians bro

[@Married2Travel]

😊😂

[@neku2741]

Do not tip, if you have extra cash please donate to charity. Most local shops have charity boxes at the cashier.

[@bosansangat1373]

Every country has its own pros and cons. We just try to make Malaysia's pros 100% more than the cons. 🤗

[@Married2Travel]

We love it! Makes it a better place to be

[@zanzillahsaruji9966]

Asian and western culture is totally different......

[@B1ackC3t]

Tips ❎ Charity ✅

[@snifey7694]

one thing for sure KL was built to prevent fire

[@Ameng3471]

Malls are where people cooling off from the hot sweaty tropical summer sun

[@arifazizcoach]

american : its so hot in malaysia arab : habibi, wheres my sweater jacket

[@Married2Travel]

Surprising to see shops here in KL selling sweaters and jackets

[@iantravels2406]

Do check out holy rosary church in kl

[@Married2Travel]

It looks beautiful from the photos. Thanks for the recommendation.

[@iantravels2406]

@@Married2Travel our lady of lourdes in klang, and the 3 main catholic churches in Melaka, the older churches in ipoh and in Penang are also very beuatiful. Holy name of jesus church in balik pulau has the most stunning interior while the largest is st anne basilica in bukit mertajam where ten thousand go every year for the largest catholic event in asia outside Phillipines

[@hc8714]

we dont have china town and that is not a china town. KL itself was founded by chinese mine expedition.

[@MM-tj3ko]

I just watched This Is Why I Stay Home youtube videos. Hope NYC is not like that

[@zachucw2995]

NYC vs KLCC

[@keangwooichoo6138]

New York city/ new york state have a larger area compared to kl

[@Married2Travel]

Definitely, and culture and lifestyle in NYC is different compared to the rest of the state.

[@bulukaki]

Nowadays, London is more dangerous than Kuala Lumpur. But still, stay vigilant but not until you feel hostile. Have fun in KL!

[@Married2Travel]

Thank you. It feels safer than NY, but it's good to be cautious no matter where in the world.

[@babadar6148]

Your face like sabahan women, your hubby face like Malay guys

[@drewh3224]

He does look like Malay.

[@jmxxx123]

We are much better than USA especially you noticed right away there's a homeless crisis especially in City of LA now

[@Married2Travel]

Unfortunately it's everywhere, but the quality of life for us is better here. There's more sense of community.

[@Brisamars-q1c]

Corporations and lobby groups "tip" their politicians too. 😂 It's Tipperary Street in Washington.

[@jonidjoharijonidjohari5385]

Kl ada hotel untuk anjing dan kucing anjing kucing mereka tak bawa ke bandar sebab orang ramai

[@TeohLieongChuan]

you wont get carjacked and killed anytime!!!

[@Married2Travel]

We hope not

[@shaufiqfauzi6640]

Please don’t do tipping here in Malaysia, we don’t want anyone bring tipping culture here.

[@Joseah_Martin]

Both of you face like malay people 100%😂

[@cutakecare2020]

Lots of Mall coz’ of the weather in Malaysia. Hot and humid so its so comfortable shopping in the mall then street shopping. FYI, The first mall was Ampang Park (70’s) already demolished to make way for the MRT. Anyway eversince then Malaysia built malls by the hundreds if not thousand till today, LOL just joking 🤣🤣

[@Married2Travel]

lol, maybe in a few years. Thank's for the history lesson😊

[@AMSWingsOfLiberty]

yea malls are popular here because it's tropical weather

[@sinalbertckwong6406]

Welcome to the RIGHT SIDE WORLD. Hope you LEFTSIDERS will have adjust to us, RIGHTSIDERS in this (our alway) RIGHT WORLD. 😅😅😅

[@JeliTastar-bn6ff]

Just stay in NYC....

[@leealex24]

Haha, why would someone punch you because you're Asian? You are in Malaysia, everyone or at least 90% are Asian lol.

[@thungwalaen548]

I stayed in Brooklyn and Staten Island then moved back to Brooklyn again. Oh, I miss Bo Kee 's (or Ky?)noodle in Mott Street (cross Bowery Street if I could remember it correctly) , NYC.

[@fahiruzrazali]

You need to adjust to use the Metric systems too meter/km instead of miles..Celcius instead of F

[@fahiruzrazali]

1:19 wait until you come across the Mainland China tourists in tour groups

[@bobbob-s3l]

kl clean. Nyc dirty

[@fahiruzrazali]

You need to adjust to use the Metric systems too meter/km instead of miles..Celcius instead of Fahrenheit