Mrs. Wheelchair Dad Overcoming Abandonment, Infertility & Embracing Love | Mother’s Day Special Pt 1

[@Stormbringer106]

The happiest people are the people who has been thru the hardest times. I can testify

[@sarahchambers4381]

I'm sorry for all the pain you've endured in your life, "Mrs. Wheelchair Dad." I'm thankful "the Lord heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." He cares . He redeems and restores. I'm in my 40's now, and my husband and I have never been able to conceive. But God had a different plan for our lives. We were able to adopt 4 beautiful children, through the foster system. Two boys and two girls. They became our children in every way. Now, our youngest is getting ready to graduate high school! We're working hard, getting our yard ready for her Graduation party. (I have chronic health issues, and pain which make things more challenging. But you do what you can, when you can, right?) Thank you for sharing your story with us! I'm Looking forward to hearing Part 2!😊 Keeping your family in my prayers.🙏❤

[@MarieHatcher-n2y]

Why did you kids not go with your Birth Mother.

[@MarieHatcher-n2y]

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[@Regina4Truth]

They should have a movie on Angel network!!!!!

[@donnareis6862]

God bless you for all you have done for or your family you are a blessing to so many. ❤❤

[@FemiNelson-sb1em]

​@user-gi1es3fe2u THAT I would think would be mentioned IF it's relevant or IF a subject that is a open topic. The fact that these beautiful children were 1st in the Foster system, pretty much says it all to me. I know 1st hand what its like. I so pray you consider certain questions before asking. Maybe research those thoughts so as to learn that feelings are involved here. Just to give you an idea of possibly WHY the Birth Mother isn't involved, to hopefully understand. When a child or children are placed in Foster, sadly the Birth Mother & Birth Father are usually not healthy. After awhile, IF its deemed that the Birth Parents are sadly not showing a healthy growth in their lives & hopefully said child/children status changes from possibly returning to Birth parent/s to possibly meant to have their TRUE loving, healthy parents. Of course it's a process & its not who picks who & sadly like in Biological family setting, nothing is perfect. These 4 children & the couple involved were clearly meant for one another. The Birth parents may not be in the picture bc they just are NOT meant to be. Its not to say that the Birth parents didn't care or love their child/ren, then again sadly there are Birth parent/s that truly do not love their child/ren & use for status & $. Not saying this is the case. What matters is the love this family of 6 managed to maintain despite life's challenges which turn to Life Lessons. Infact, this moment that I pray you're learning about these situations, is also a Life Lesson. Paz be with us all 🙏. "Isa"

[@maryhirsch863]

The way Dan looks at you. Im tearing up. I’ve never had a man look at me that way. With so much love. And so much understanding, U2 complement each other, and so many levels.

[@9ers4L]

My prayers 4 this lovely couple is healing spiritually, mentally, and physically. That God can restore d use of his legs so that God's glory may b revealed 2 d world

[@maryquinn1496]

I have always believed that no one knows what goes on behind closed doors but God!!! Always remember this and hold your head high!!!

[@janebraden9542]

Your My inspiration "WheelchairDad" your my HERO.broke my neck n back in May 2023.My legs do the same thing.I definitely feel your pain hun.God Bless ❤

[@lonesomebayou]

May you both and your children always be blessed....Hugs to all... you are much admired for your inner strenght and commitment to your family.

[@judyclark5544]

Praying for healing and peace in your hearts. Life is so difficult at times. You're a great couple together

[@laurasimpson7211]

You went through a lot, Now look! You have your kids and the best husband in the world who loves you so much! I know when visiting the past, it can be hard, but now you know what true love and happiness is! You see, God had your back all along!❤

[@KimOfford-c7x]

I'm a mom and there is no judgement here. I can only imagine what you went through. But I get what you must have been feeling. I think you are an AMAZING women and mother!! God bless you and your whole beautiful family. I know I don't know you and Dan and your kids. But I truly have so much love and respect for you both! 🙏💜

[@judyackley153]

You guys are so amazing and such a beautiful couple with all your children love watching you all you are so sweet and so is Dad

[@Regina4Truth]

This is a story for Angel network for sure,God Bless you noth,your beutiful Thanks!

[@TheWheelchairDad]

You are so kind. Thank you 💜💜💜.

[@jangles1839]

Mornin' my friends! Much love to you both, your kiddos and definitely anyone else who sees this! MLAR (much love and respect) 💙🙏🏻💙

[@okeating3663]

You never know the strength you have , till life challenges you. My husband had a bilateral stroke in his 30's , we had an 18 month old child. After he awoke after the first stroke. I had hopes of recovering. 3 days later a 2nd stroke. Now in a coma, a doctor recommended pulling the plug. After more tests we found brain activity. So I said we wait. By this time he was in a medically induced coma to help him recover. On a ventilator, trach feeding tube , catheter, yet my hopes only thought of him coming back. I spent almost 3 nights at the hospital, away from our son. Holding my husband's hand, talking to him, watching his favorite shows in the hospital. Some folks came in and read the sports page to him. On the 4th day while holding his had watching his shows. I felt his hand squeeze mine. I asked him to do it again, he did. I knew in my heart he was there fighting to get back to use. One doctor said no thats muscle spasms. I said know as I asked him to do it again. Slowly he woke. But was in and out of sleep for many months. Over the next 6 months while in a nursing home he started to improve, recognizing us, smiling, he was only able to use his left hand and and his left leg. One day he teased his neice while her family came to visit. She was mad at him. He pulled her hair, she told him uncle don't do that. I was watching him, he smiled at me , pointed to her and yup pulled her hair again. She was so mad, turned around and said,"Uncle i said don't pull my hair" he smiled as if laughing, so I called out his name and he looked at me. Immediately I got the speech therapist. Told her what happened, and she came back to his room. She knew my husband knew us, over the next week she tested him. Sure enough my husband knew everyone in the family including our son. During the next 14 years , my husband lived in a nursing home, occasionally we would bring him home and a few times we took him to church. Hiwever being bound to a wheelchair , still having a trach, feeding tube and catheter. Made some of these trips very hard. Our son during this time had difficulty, stopped talking for years, , speech issues , but both our son and husband bonded together. Playing cuddling, watching tv. I even took a few photos of them sleeping. I stood by my husband , he was my rock. As much as we were apart, my heart was forever with him. The dark side was his mother, toxic and belittling to me and my family. Sadly I was living with her, working very long hours 6 days aweek, and nothing appeased her. She blame so much on me 9 years ago I finally moved out. She went to live with her daughter. I no longer speak with my sil. Sad really as she even questioned my live for my husband. It wasn't till recently I finally realized what others outside of the inlaws had truly seen. My dedication to my husband and son, my love I had for both. The willingness to venture forward despite the hardship we all went thru, and my devotion I had at church, I was methodist, my husband Catholic. One day at Catholic church with our son, I felt God speak to me, its time . I knew what that meant and one year later after catechuma classes, I became Catholic. I was welcomed with open arms. They all knew me well , knew what happened to my husband, and knew I was raising our son Catholic. I became Catholic the year before my sons confirmation . My husband was so proud when he saw I was now catholic. I showed him my certificate. His family was not so pleased. I didn't care hod called me and I was fully happy. Still am today. Sadly a few months after our sons confirmation, my husband passed , peacefully. I miss his still its been 12 years. But though we went through so many unknowns, surgeries, illness with my husband, I keep hope, faith and love for my husband. Despite the ridicule from my mil and the belief, my sister in thought, I didn't love my husband. Though so many others saw differently. Friends, work, nursing home staff, and finally church. God saw more and believed enough to call me to be with him. My good memories finally outweigh the toxic and bad ones. I thank my husband's strength and God's graces. I love your story, I hear your sadness , im glad you found love , faith and happiness. Thank you for your story today. Stay strong. ❤

[@cyiaslappy8596]

With that touching testimony, maybe you need your own channel. Your are an example of how God proves Himself so faithful to those who love and trust him. And what a beautiful love story, too! I pray that one day, your mil and sil will fully embrace and honor your journey. Peace and blessings to you.

[@okeating3663]

@@cyiaslappy8596 thank you, its taken me many years to realize I was supportive. Sadly my mil has passed with no hope of understanding why she was cruel. As for my sil as said we never speak. Maybe some day she will . Till then I live knowing how blessed my son and I have been, while my husband was alive. I'm grateful for the many folks that were around us in support. Even though I was unaware they were supporting us or that I needed it. But my faith was my biggest support and I have been blessed knowing , even though I was going to church before I converted, was showing my son what it meant and what you do. The church was gracious to me and welcomed me every step of the way. It wasn't till after a conversation with the priest and head nun, telling me I was doing this for my son and they and God would never turn us away. That God saw I was devoted , as they saw and thats why the never said I couldn't do everything as a catholic. To me that was my a huge relief and I knew I was fully supported. My inlaws didn't know till I was confirmed, before that they were unhappy I was acting as a catholic in everyday. It bothered them so much. Which was why I spoke with the church only to know I did nothing wrong. Later I learned I was more a catholic than they inlaws were. Even before I converted. I have thought about my story many times, however not very good at writing a story and shy at taking videos. But when I can I do share my story for moral support of others and encouragement . It takes a special person to navigate these kinds of life challenges, a road of self-awareness, love, determination, true grit. You learn a lot about yourself, and realize support comes to you in the most amazing way. From those you never expect. I learned to cry over and over , I challenged God, hated him ,blamed him, I even cursed him in the hospitals chapel, make this better , right, how dare he do this to us. Then said, please help, that would do anything even go to church . Just give us a sign. When my husband was still with us, but on thst long road to some kind of recovery, I went to church. It took a few years till God said I was finally ready to convert. And I have never looked back. I guess our story is so full if loving devotion, and I see it more and more now. I welcome the memories, and I feel for those going through their journey today. And I see myself in them , and see their love and devotion. They too are very blessed.

[@dorelyconsuelo2474]

Que el señor bendiga a esta hermosa familia que el señor les conceda el deseo de su corazón que el señor les de la sanidad a este varón agarre se del señor siempre confíen en el el señor Jesucristo dijo que por sus llagas todos fuimos sanados 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@elizabethtank1123]

Hello Mr.and Mrs. i admire guys,I just finish watching your video and i can tell how strong you guys are specially your wife, she's amazing and very brave Woman.I will always pray for you guys, just remember that with God in our side everything will be fine.God Bless.

[@Ourealationship]

Thank you for sharing with us. You did it with grace! May God continue to watch over you and your family ❤

[@RAF.912]

I already wrote this ...and I AGAIN. YOU ARE A MAN OF HONOR.. YOU had been and you are great...and you have a beautiful family. And you have the courage to do everything. And that is beautiful!!!... And Your wife is a good example about how a real woman must be. GOD bless you both of you!

[@angelagrant2943]

I'm crying. At the end still listening. I love you dearly sister ❣️. I'm so sorry people judge . That's not of God and those people don't know Him like you do. Last year Father started removing the scales from my eyes about my husband. We were married twice . He and his mom never leaves and cleaved. Father showed me he and his mom both were covert narcissist. They gaslighted me for decades and the demons in them slowly killing me and my Calling with Jesus as I'm a Disciple of Jesus and do full-time ministry. God literally said this.... legal do it legal . and like you as I've shared before deal with autoimmune and of course Alot of fatigue and time in bed . So because you're so gracious and holding back A LOT I'm sharing because I feel the Lord prompting me to share because Father is Exposing Narcissism in these last days. My calling is working with dementia patients so when you shared working on Alzheimer's unit I just was like WOW that's exactly how my calling started in 2000. You are SO Amazing sister. My legs hurt so bad everyday and I always think of Dan and say to myself....Dan goes through worse , oh dear Jesus help Dan , oh I have so much compassion for Dan and you . Y'all are SUCH A INSPIRATION TO SO MANY OF US. I totally know the Father told you to move on and anyone who has a relationship with Him hears His voice and He knows what's best for us so I so get Him telling you it's ok and HE knew what HE had for you and your children around the corner and Dan needed you just as much as you needed him ❤. God is SO FAITHFUL. YOUR SUCH A BEAUTIFUL SOUL, DAUGHTER, SISTER,WIFE, MOTHER, FRIEND AND MOST OF ALL A CHILD OF GOD ...AS I'm typing this I hear the Holy Spirit saying....she's full of GRACE ❤ which only comes from the Father and He has Bestowed that upon you because of how much love and compassion you have ❤🙏🏼

[@Halmak3]

Just found you today and I am so invested in your story. You two are beautiful together and have an amazing family. It hurts my heart that you even worry about other people judging you and your life and truth. You are so strong, don't even listen to any negatives that come from people. As you have said, God has guided you, and he knows your truth. Love you guys, and I can't wait for part 2 of your story! ❤

[@gabrielahowe9639]

Hi, good morning. All my prayers for this wonderful and blessed couple..God with you..big hugs from my heart❤

[@florecitacaoili998]

Happy Mother's day Andrea

[@rhondajohnson6982]

I totally understand what you have went through. My ex husband received a frontal lobe head injury at work. Our marriage had difficulties as well on his side of the story before the accident. And I was also unaware of until roughly year from that day. I also agree with you, that day was when mentally my husband died. He has never been the same. I hung in there for 4 years after till our therapist and Jesus opened that door for me. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do. We was together for 22 years. I have 3 children from my first marriage that turned physically abusing. I was never going to remarry again. Well the good Lord brought me a man back into my life that I had dated 28 years ago! Don’t worry about what other people say or think. They have not walked in our shoes and lived our life. I love your family and your strength to face the storms! Love and prayers to you all.

[@quarantina3593]

I AM SO PROUD OF YOU ANDREA!! I cannot imagine how difficult this was to finally share your story. It is beyond courageous to share such personal details and put yourself in such a vunerable position just to share with those in similar situations that they are not alone!! One thing you have now that you didn't then is a HUGE FAMILY OF AMAZING SURVIVORS & DAN & MORE AHHMAZING KIDS!! All of us see and know the truth and I need you to know that WE LOVE YOU, YOU ARE AMAZING, YOU DID WHAT YOU COULD, YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE!! Anyone that feels they can judge, I hope this also helps you take a step back and evaluate you own life! You too can choose to grow in your own path. You likely have something in your life that you wished were different but you could not change or fix. God does not "give YOU more than YOU can handle" he gives you a voice and the ability to know if you have reached your point. To be clear, when Andrea left, life was NOT EASIER...EVER! God knew she had more coming ... She still fights daily and Andrea and Dan will tell you "God doesn't just give blessings...He gives trials constantly, it will never be easy but believing his plan for your life is both the most amazing blessing and also 24/7 proof of how Our strength in God, even through the toughest times, is exactly how you find a way to keep moving forward! God never promised a cake walk. Andrea and Dan are as real as it gets. They dedicate their lives and time to opening doors and creating change to make life easier for those with and without disabilities! They bring attention to many disorders including the severe pain of Spinal adhesive arachnoiditis and educate others so one day, you won't have to! They have NEVER ASKED ME TO SHARE LIKE THIS! I see them, the lives they change, the amazing online family they've created and how they have never deceived or tried to for benefit. I have watched as their own donations were passed to single moms who had no money for kiddos birthdays!! They are two STELLER HUMANS I am lucky to support! **If you would like to donate, learn more about them, join as a channel member, purchase Andreas skin care line...head over to:* www.thewheelchairdad.com/

[@TheWheelchairDad]

Thank you so much. You are so kind and always say the perfect thing. ❤❤❤🥹

[@Everett-eh4nn]

You look native American. You're beautiful and you have a beautiful family and I wish I had a tenth of the strength you folks have. God bless, from Connecticut. I am 56 next month and I too am disabled. Your family inspires me to carry on. I watch all your stuff. Took a lot of courage to do this. God bless again

[@TheWheelchairDad]

Thank you for being here❤

[@rohanasimpson458]

I really admire the way your family cares for each other! I’m sure this was hard to share. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable. This really goes to show that everybody is going through something. We just have to learn to be kind and compassionate to everybody around us - even on our worst days. I am trusting God to continue to envelope you guys in His love and care. Stay safe.

[@deedavis1950]

I have much respect for both of you. With Christ all things are possible. I have experienced the arachnoid spasms, only on three occasions, in the middle of the night, after days of "stretching therapy" for my lower back. Waking up abruptly, with literally teeth gritting pain, was so frightening! I don't know how you cope! Your beautiful wife is a very strong woman, who seems to be so genuine and so present. Your childen are so fortunate to have you both.

[@kakiesigman6581]

Your story will be so relate-able to so many people. I left an abuser and couldn’t talk about him or my situation for years. Miscarriages, alcohol abuse and physical abuse kept me so ashamed. I am now sober, married 25+ years with step sons, and finally have the grace of God I was missing. Your story shows how can you move forward and reconcile a hurt filled past.

[@angelajoy4829]

Thank you for sharing your difficult story. I see so much courage in you. I wish you the best.

[@prescillataylor8291]

Hey you two, I hope you both are doing well and enjoying life to the fullest ❤

[@carolmauer-koster1389]

Thank you for charing your life story with all that struggle and pain. It's very precious that your talk about your faith and trust in God in all these times. God bless you and your husband and family from Germany ❤🙌🙏

[@nicolagunther8776]

Die Indianer sagen, verurteile niemals einen Menschen, in dessen Mokassins du nicht gelaufen bist..... So wahr! Danke für deine Offenheit und deinen Mut 🙏

[@elfenmaus1440]

Gruß aus Kassel 😊 das ist wahr

[@Idc99982]

We need more honesty, loving, and strong women in the world, thank you, and above all, thank you for sharing. I know it felt very complicated and tough to get through, but you did it. You have a good, hearted, and strong man next to you. Above all, God is there with you always. With all my love and prayers Amen ❤

[@ljohnson669]

You are a strong couple in so many ways, continue to pull from God’s strength and you’re family and friends 🙏🏻💜🤗

[@VTAnnie435]

Thank you for sharing this very personal experience with us.

[@elizabethpappas5697]

You are so brave to try and protect your family and even the people that have hurt you. I really see christ through your stories. Thank you for shairing.

[@bulfonidayoon6254]

Im just so touched with your story.. I know if we dont know the whole story of someone, we easily judge.. I really wish you not to be judged and just loved ❤ you are inspiring me alot! My husband needs wheelchairs too for the moment (ms) I know how hard it can be to be a helper. You are saying you are so blessed! I agree and I am too! You and your loving husband Dan and your beautiful childrens! You are so blessed and you deserve it. Our Father in heaven wants for you❤ thank you so much for this video. + we are going through a hard time of infertility just now.. I could understand how hard it could have been for you.. we have a beautiful 7 yrs old daughter and I wish so desperately a little brother or sister (or both) to her. Our situation doesn't seems so favorable to have bigger family but God put in my heart a desire of many children.. i dont know if I can say this but as we are sisters in Christ, I love you and your family ❤️ bless you and thank you

[@ileansrivero4252]

Ustedes son admirable y una inspiración

[@dianewristen]

THANK YOU, I WILL ANXIOUSLY WAIT FOR THE REST. YOU TWO ARE STRONG TOGETHER AND I BELIEVE IT ALL LED TO THIS. BLESSING ALWAYS. YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY.

[@RockinWheelsAuctions]

Love u guys, you're both the absolute best! ❤

[@barbaraherron-mangel1116]

You are a tenderhearted lady that has been through a lot. Nobody should be judging you. That’s God’s decision. Not ours. God bless you and your beautiful family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@GodlovesMe77733]

You made me cried 🙏🏻😔😥 thank you for sharing your story.❤

[@cherylehubicsak3070]

Mrs. You're a strong woman. Your dealt a hand that God knows you can play. ❤

[@breezeh1127]

Thank you for sharing your story and your heartbreaking struggles. I can relate to many things you said.(the infertility and also the being married to a person who was not who you thought and feelings the betrayal all while also trying to care for them) 😢 I'm sure many people who are struggling in silence can relate to your story too❤ I'm truly sorry for the sadness and pain but I'm thankful for your faith. Heavenly Farther has been walking with you the whole time and showing His love for you in the tender mercies of the every day friends, church members and in the smiles of your beautiful kids. I will pray for your and Dan's strength, your marriage, your health, for Dan's pain to leave his body forever and for miracles to make their way to your home ❤ So much love to you 💗

[@supercat380]

Wonderful couple who is blessed with wonderful children!❤❤❤❤❤

[@laur290121]

I admire you immensely Andrea❤

[@dianetyler2547]

Thank you for sharing very difficult time

[@everythingjen1]

Thank you so much for sharing your story... you are such a strong woman with a beautiful Testimony. God definitely has had His hand on you through these hard trials. I really appreciate this video, it is full of trials, tribulation, hope & joy.. I needed to hear this. I am so glad you found Dan.. I am always amazed by women who have a loving husband, who talks to them & cares what they have to say.. & lets them say it. It's good to know that's out there 🙏

[@lydiaroman4803]

Blessings to you both 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@debbiebammann8444]

Hi Andrea and Dan!!!missed you guys!!!!❤❤❤❤ Love you so much! I ended up in a nursing home for tehab. Feeling better. You are awesome!!!!

[@TheWheelchairDad]

Debbie! Glad you are feeling better ❤❤❤!

[@debbiebammann8444]

@@TheWheelchairDad thank you guys. Hugs to all of you! Dan that bedroom you made is wonderful! I'm sure the girls are enjoying it!!!!

[@waynemiller7692]

Praying for you and your family and may GOD continue to heal you🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@julianndobbie846]

My love and prayers are with you both and your family god bless you both

[@ChaiCrimes]

I absolutely love you all and share your videos. ❤ BTW your hair is always amazing 🎉

[@familymajor]

Wow! What an awesome story and experience! You two are so authentic...yet start blushing! LOVE THIS! Haha!❤😅😉🙃

[@ChrissyCavalieri]

We understand. You are a beautiful woman, mom and wife. God bless you all

[@janicetoolson6382]

Wow Mrs Wheelchair mom! My childhood story almost exactly follows yours until I was age10. My mom was the "perfect" mom like yours until I was 10 and there were some only 3 of us. She too was pulled away into addictions that never left her. My parents stayed together in that toxic environment until I was 12 and then they divorced. Unfortunately my dad died unexpectedly when I was 17 and it was my grandmother and aunt who stepped in to help us. We belong to the same organized Religion as you do and we received many blessings ( tender mercies) during the hardships from ward members as well. I only had to go through one divorce through 😅. Love you guys so much. ❤

[@wojtasiksinski9351]

I've seen many of your films and I admire them. love and family can survive ANYTHING. Respect❤❤❤❤❤❤👍👍👍✌️💪💪💪💪

[@PaulineRobson]

I love you guys, you both warm my heart ❤️ 💙

[@maryhirsch863]

You Are both so strong. God bless you and yours always!!!

[@one4truth236]

May God continue to bless you and guide you in His path. Your testimony is powerful.

[@ernestinsalopez7418]

No hay duda que esta pareja esta sirviendo de bendición a muchas familias 👏👏👏💪💪🙏🙏

[@jeffreyessex248]

Much love to you both and your beautiful family. The videos are an inspiration. If only we all had that feeling, the planet would be a much better place. Thank you for sharing your life with us. May the Lord always keep you safe. Love & Light to All of the Creations

[@PinkMauveMonkey]

Hi Andrea & Dan im in bed from 2 treatments this week. The day after the hardest mothers day. Tomorrow i must get out of bed . Cant believe its 1 year. Nobody has the right to ever judge you. You did what you needed to give yourself your babies a good life. You even still showed compassion where im not sure truthfully i could.you know my story. I believe i kind of left this world when mom went to heaven. Ive prayed everyday ,you guys and thomas your grandma are included. But ive not been able to get to aplace where i can wake up& still accept she's not here to talk love hold be with. If im judged 4 that than i justcan'tt care of the judgment. Its myfamily. i worry of how im affecting them. They worry and love me. As i love them. But my mom well words cant describe. So i say to you. First you made a comment on your hair ,your hair is beautiful as are you. But your hearts are amazing i have seen first hand. Ive prayed for life to be easier less pain ,cures if possible. So many things ive prayed for you. Please dont ever put guilt in your heart. God has led you ,you have followed. I know ive let guilt in it destroys you. I saw you reunite hug with you best girlfriend. You've let us see more than others have let you see of them. So please. God and us your extended family love you feel you. Dan you are an amazing daddy husband mentor. You have done what so many have not helping with an ex. I saw you were starting pain holding your needle and pills. But you wanted Andrea to ssy her feelings so you tried to let her continue. The kleenex u new was going 2 b needed because you know her.im in bed but i needed you to know your loved ,your understood and god loves your family and will be there for everything. Never forget your xmas miracle please. I ask you pray tomorrow for me to get out bed and be with my family and with my mom in heaven. We have one more fisrt after that . Its a request she asked before she left. We will fulfill that on the 25th. Than i pray god will guide me . Help me with my emotional and physical pain. I found someone unfortunately in the us who thinks they could help my injuries but with no insurance and the dr are saying no here because of my disease im not sure what will be. Thankyou for sharing your life your love your journey. May godbless you all and keep you safe always.❤❤❤❤❤❤💞 😇😭💔🪽🪽

[@athenacaz]

You both are such an inspiration ❤

[@livieth]

You are so strong Andrea. You have been through a lot.

[@tiffanythomas82]

I just love u 2 and the love u share!! Godbless❤

[@kathyknight8081]

Omgoodness with MS that's terrible 😞 I'm so sorry God heal you from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet 🐾 Dan's a wonderful Father and Happy Mother's day 💐❤️ to you you both are great parents 😘 hug's and lollipops to all of you ‼️

[@janellegrieco6077]

You are such a beautiful person! I know how people are so judgmental! The thing of it is that people don’t understand what it’s like until they walk through it themselves. My husband had not only physical disabilities, but he was a paranoid schizophrenic. I had to make a decision that was going to be best for Jason and best for my mental health and well-being. It was the hardest decision to make. I realized when the doctors and the psychiatrist and psychologist told me that he looks like he’s gonna go into an episode in which he may never recover from it made me really cry because I couldn’t see him having to go through that again when he just got out of an episode that was over a year long. They told me that he needed to live environment and the only person that he could really take care of was his self. For me in order for me to be the best mom that I could be to my kids and to do what was right for Jason was for him to live in a quiet environment by himself. Four girls and I are not quiet by any means as you all probably know! I will tell you that my favorite thing about Jason was that he very much was committed to his family even when we were divorced. he very much loved us all, and he definitely felt very responsible for his family! What was very painful to watch how much it disturbed him that he couldn’t always Perform well in being the best dad and husband because his body and his mind wouldn’t always allow him to be the best! This disturbed Jason to the point where he would get very, very depressed! I am very happy that you shared this story and you are correct. Everybody’s situation is different and you have to do what’s best because if you don’t take care of yourself, you will not be able to take care of your kids! I’m so happy that you found Dan! Jason died on January 22 of 2022 from a stroke! I am not sure what’s going to happen to me in my life moving forward however I know that God has a plan and taking care of my girls on a daily basis with no help from Jason is the worst thing ever! I feel very alone in my daily life not having a person there too support me! My mom is really good help! My mom loves Jason very much as well, and she always felt that he was like her son! Nobody else either side can help neither live too far or they have their own things in their life! I want to say thank you very much. You are a very good mom. I really appreciate your story and I think that you are a very loving person!!!!

[@TheWheelchairDad]

Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you! I’m sure He has so many good things in store for you and your girls!!! ❤❤❤

[@carolynek1875]

You are correct God does have a plan for each and everyone of us..when I see all you have gone through each and everyone of you including the children..God let's me see all the miracles you have been blessed with .though you have so many struggles God has always made a way for you all.when I look at you all i see a family of fighters ,a family that loves..and most of all a family that believes in God and knows he will always get you through..it's rough but know that you never walk alone..God's right there..and remember you are truly blessed. God bless you all!.. Happy Mothers Day!!

[@chrisc6772]

Andrea you are a very Strong person. You followed what the Holy Ghost whispered to you and what you were prompted to do. I’m proud of you. You’re a Great Mother and have a Great husband now to support you. Much Love to the both of you and your cute Family ❤

[@donettekinser2404]

Thanks so much for sharing your story. Your family is surely blessed. God has taken care of you and blessed you with an awesome man of God, Dan. Your family is so inspirational to me. I lost my soulmate to suicide. And have had infertility problems. My 2 sons are Clomid babies. They are now 33 and 18. I've lost a son at 5 months pregnant. Anyways had more loss and tragedy in my life. Just saying God bless you and your family!!! ❤

[@geraldkor8307]

Just joined you tonight and I was very impressed how you put everything in God’s hands. I admire you for not putting information out that could hurt your children. I look forward to hearing more of your story. Just leave it all in God’s hands. We had a friend who had a major brain injury on a four wheeler. Their marriage was in trouble and they had two small children. She had to make the decision to divorce him and he never recovered from advancing beyond a ten year old.

[@brendaferrier8132]

God knows our heart. We have no right to judge others as you said no one knows the things you were dealing with, but the Lord does. I had to quite worrying what others think of me as they do not know what we are going through or have been through. I think. You are a lovely family, I enjoy watching the love in your house. God is good.. all the time. All the time God is good. Thank you for sharing, I can’t imagine how hard it must be to open up and feel vulnerable. You are loved. Keep on keeping on.

[@SandraNelson-on3pe]

God knew where your father needed to be for you he has always been watching over you.

[@SandraNelson-on3pe]

You two are such a beautiful couple anybody can see the love in your family it's awesome and I love the fact that God is also in your family, life is hard enough But with God in your life it's a little easier he helps you to understand things better and guides you. You guys are so precious. I love your family I understand the hard times you've been through because I've been through a lot of hard times with my mother she didn't drink but she took my daughter from me when I had my son because my husband left me when I was 4 months pregnant. So I understand all of the hard times with your mother. It's a different way but God help me through it. My son was 3 months old and she came in and took my daughter and said I couldn't raise two kids. I am so glad you had a good strong father. I will keep praying for your family.

[@seeking.rainbows]

🩷🩵💛 Thank you for sharing your story

[@jeffreyessex248]

Much love to you both, and your beautiful family. Your videos are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your love to love with us. If only we all had that feeling, the planet would be so much better. May the Lord always keep you safe. Love & Light to All of the Creations.

[@debglaizer]

Andrea, you are incredible. You are a good and loving woman. God knows you and loves you. No one else should judge. But, and here I go, judging, you did the right thing. You need to take care of the children and yourself. You still, in all that this to be good to your ex-husband AND you spoke to God first. God bless you both! I know that God loves you. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤Bless you both. Bless you all! No regrets. I know that's hard, but God loves you. God bless you. PS, you keep saying you could have done it but at the cost of you and your children. Situations are different, there may be very slight similarities but overall they are so different.

[@kathyknight8081]

God always gives his hardest battles to his strongest Soldiers 🙏💪❤️ praise God we love y'all Amen Hallelujah you have beautiful children Now ‼️

[@Therian4li]

You made the right decision you had to move on for yourself and your kids that’s just part of life and it’s ok this is your life take care of you.People will be judge mental anyway. I love you both and take care of yourselves I love Dan for you and I love you Dan.Sincerely, Tanya

[@patacosta710]

Love this couple

[@chicapalao6712]

Hola . 👋 sus historia me fascino. La fuerza que tiene . De vivir la vida. De ustedes mucho de aprender ❤les deseos 👍👊🏻

[@cindygardner8775]

Wishing you both a very happy future

[@sherri-harding]

Life is a mystery....you care so deeply! Med beds will give you your freedom ❤ Both of you ❤

[@nazarzuyev7115]

Ребята слушаю вас ! И ещё раз убеждаюсь что Бог велик ! Dan у тебя большое сердце! А твоя жена Hero! Очень приятно наблюдать за вашей жизнью! Вы просто даёт силы жить ! Бороться ! Любить ! Благословений вам !!

[@brummiali1998]

The wheelchair dad 👋 hellow from uk Aslaam alkam Beautiful couple Ive watched you first time I want to say we appreciate you how you bullt that bed room for your princesses honestly it was so appreciated we was so humbled too see you do this You are so inspirational man Please keep going Your wife is amazinging We do watch see your hard work We appreciate it watching You hav a gift A real gift ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 Keep going Your effort the tick tock vidios you make r soo much appreciated Wish i could jump on plane Give both of you flowrz and cake🎉❤❤❤❤

[@khadoballahi61]

I miss you so much Andrea and Daniel Nice couple ❤❤❤❤❤ Beautiful familly

[@Hfbssowbw]

TwD❤ You're so strong❤ Wow!

[@judyackley153]

All happy tears 😢

[@annlatham880]

I think ur an awesome person, and God is blessed you richly you’ve made all the right decisions. You deserve to be happy and you have the best man in the world with you besides God in heaven I love you for all that you’ve gone through that it made you such a good person.

[@susanjakubiec4009]

My daughter went thru the same thing. The guilt hurt her so bad too ❤

[@elizabethtorrales7170]

Yes Andrea, but look next to you at the person God had waiting for you. Like you said when you saw him for the first time "you are a stud" (I remember, and laugh in my heart). So, there, we can go through many things and sometimes question why, but God always knows the plan. Blessings to you and your beautiful family.

[@elizeulima5973]

Essa é a família que mais admiro... abraços...brasil

[@AuntJulie-Jacob]

Well, from the outside looking in lol, I can see God working in your life, I can literally hear it, Him, in your pain throughout your life. My prayer, that God will continue to carry y'all through this journey called life!

[@bran702]

Thank You Lord for letting us sees You in them. Loving wife & husband with amazing Caring Loving children. Please remember that your family has impacted millions and millions around the world. God has His purpose. Lots of love and thanks🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@TheWheelchairDad]

🥹💜 Thank you.

[@walrus2796]

This is affirmation of a higher power

[@jolaherbot5245]

Kochani,całym ❤ z Wami,pozdrawiamy z Polski 😊😊😊

[@sea302]

Listen to me young lady, there's alot of positive words in this thread. I'm going straight for the hard truth. DO NOT EXCEPT GUILT THAT DOESN'T BELONG TO YOU! No responsible man with a family would be out driving fast on a motorcycle. He threw it all away for a selfish thrill. Look at his fruit. Go forth and prosper. I love your family.

[@TheWheelchairDad]

I love you for this content. Thank you 🥹💜💜💜

[@SarahPepper-e1j]

What a wonderful family God bless

[@bless7942]

So True to feel the kinship with Mary and what she went through with her Son Jesus. Such RESPECT🙏🙏 God whispered to you it’s ok to leave to love yourself as god chose you your first job to look after your children and he will look after your ex. Life is a jigsaw puzzle I to have lived your life from little but it all was guided by our Heavenly Father I have so much RESPECT for you🙏💐💞

[@kathrinekrogstad4965]

♥️Started to follow You from NORWAY 🇳🇴God Bless 🙏🙏🧚‍♂️🧚‍♂️🌷

[@judyackley153]

Ouch your so awesome