7 Ways to Become More Alluring to Men || Successful Dating and Attraction

[@torimiller3110]

"If you love something, set it free. And I'm not talking about him. I'm talking about yourself." YES MA'AM

[@torimiller3110]

@Christ's Anointed & Beloved Aww good for you!!

[@rndmkt]

This is a great quote from her 💯💯💯💯💯

[@msbbdarling1328]

This this thisssss!!!

[@mel818]

I thought she said "And i'm not talking about ham", this makes more sense yeah.

[@jadcasen8995]

I guess it's kinda off topic but does anyone know a good site to stream new movies online ?

[@julia9557]

“If you want him to chase you, you have to be moving.”

[@sashenkadumerve3017]

Oooh that’s good 🤭

[@sashenkadumerve3017]

S.A.W. Me too it’s so gorgeous 🌸🌷

[@nathaliadantaz9251]

How’d that work in practical ways? Thank you 😊 🤍

[@cityfairy6342]

@@nathaliadantaz9251 do your thing (your hobbies and activities) but still make space for him in your life if he pursues you at any time.

[@dianaf9997]

we must be a privilege not an option

[@ericthered1140]

A privilege???🤔🤔🙄🙄

[@dianaf9997]

@@ericthered1140 Like Bob Marley said: The world is full of beautiful eyes. But eyes that look at you with sincerity and love there are few.

[@RG-jf5ep]

Wow I love that!

[@sashenkadumerve3017]

Yes, and we have to act like it too 😃

[@animeninja4]

One of the things that helped me was learning when to step back from someone. It took me a long time to find my husband, but if someone doesn't like you romantically, it's okay to step back. If you feel like it's not working and your values are different, it's okay to step back. You will find someone. It took me 4 years to find the love of my life, but I'm so happy I was patient

[@serena3361]

I'm always thankful that God gave me a loving dad. When I go out into the world and meet new people, I require them to treat me with respect. Because I know my dad loves me, I know I don't have to let anyone mistreat me. My dad gives me higher expectations in men. I want to marry someone who loves all people like my dad does.

[@shelbyspivey253]

This is so amazing to see. I am the same way. 💖

[@lynnnduhhx0]

this is true for everyone regardless of who their father is because our heavenly father is like the dad you described 😭😭💗🙏🏽

[@lindastapleton2324]

Yes A girls Father should be the most important person in her life! Because he is the model in which she looks for in the man she should marry! Even though my Dad was not my biological Father, he was that man that set the standard in which helped me to find the right help mate!

[@fandoms5ever]

Amen.

[@heidijay5902]

That’s so sweet, I’m looking for the polar opposite of my own father, so far I’ve rejected a bunch of men who are just like him. One day a real man will come along.

[@blueazura]

1. Maximise Your Looks - Appear as healthy and vibrant as possible. 4 pillars of vibrancy & beauty: Avoiding stress, eating healthy, staying active, getting sleep. Use makeup, use flattering clothing, health & fitness, floss & brush. Dress femininely. 2. Develop Humility - Be humble, have the ability to laugh at yourself. Don't take yourself too seriously. 3. Make Space For A Man In Your Life - Don't sit at home every weekend, or stay in your barricaded girl group when hanging out. 4. Be Friendly & Warm - Smile and make eye contact. 5. Deal With Your Baggage - Deal with your trauma, heal from your past. Get involved with counselling if needed, make sure your mental health is stable. 6. Gain Confidence In Who You Are 7. Let Him Chase You - Do not be overly clingy, do not be overly available, do not be at his side all the time.

[@DK-eu2op]

thank you🎉

[@MightyMouse169]

I absolutely love the fact that you mentioned humility and that you don't have to look like a different ethnicity. Its sad to see women and girls today putting all of this money into changing their features instead of embracing what God us.

[@sriyakanduri1895]

Soo true... And also make up is to highlight our features not hide them.

[@xardev]

@@sriyakanduri1895 I mean I agree with the rest but that’s just flat out wrong(the last statement)

[@marissarollins1459]

Currently working towards being that “prize woman” and it feels amazing! It’s tough, but the result will be so worth it 🥰

[@juliam.8147]

Here's another great dating tip that has changed my view on dating: if someone likes you, they will want to let you know. (no playing games like texting back late or playing hard to get) 😊

[@Sweetlightsoul22]

Also, the text back late thing, please do note that most providing type men (which is what i hope most women on this channel are looking for) are busy at their jobs and or extra activities after work. That’s why it’s important for us women to have hobbies and things outside of our men. Never be too available to answer his every text right away, what I’m saying might sound crazy but make him WAIT just a little 😌✨

[@juliam.8147]

I totally agree but just as you said: texting back late should come from actually not looking on the phone because you do something you love and not because you are sitting alone waiting for enough minutes passing by for it being "appropiate" to reply

[@amandacatarina14]

You know how hard it is to date these days. it is a nightmare. So many men want to play mind games with you :S

[@arkonem2933]

@@Sweetlightsoul22 This is such bad advice, most guys I know don't care how long it takes for their woman to respond aslong as it's not too long. However to make us wait on purpose is just waiting our time, especially if we're busy working on our career/self.

[@reginasemenenko148]

I was raised by a traditional Christian praying woman and she taught me not to put too much emphasis on outward appearance. She always raised us to spend a lot more time on our spirituality and engaging in acts of Christian service to others. I really think she was right because I never put a lot of time into dating and seeking boyfriends and that really worked for me. She said the right man will come along and she was right. I've always paid attention to cleanliness, but I've never wanted to change everything about myself.

[@cbebop5]

This is beautiful and so true. It's so important to cultivate the qualities surrounding charachter and acts of service. Would you mind sharing briefly how you met your husband? :)

[@SOHALEE91]

Could you share us your story how and when you met your husband?

[@kirstendssing4578]

I agree. Vanity isn't attractive, it is offputting. Being vain shows that you place emphasis on shallow things which indicates that something is off with your values. Vanity also indicates that you are selfabsorbed.

[@rachelpredicts]

There is nothing wrong with beautifying yourself. Some people really need the tips to improve their appearance. I appreciate beauty routines and curating my beauty. It helps me feel more confident.

[@YogiOabsReborn]

You were raised well!

[@vonnieb4685]

Hey could you do a video about expressing anger and disagreement in a feminine way. I want to improve in this area of my heart. Please pray for me you guys!

[@lechewinggum8491]

I just watched this video about that very topic, and even though the vid might seem a bit dated, the advice it gives is very solid, hope it helps kzbin.info/www/bejne/i6ethmColrmYqbc

[@desireebeardsley6292]

Yes! Please, I would love that.

[@fainag1617]

Mrs Midwest- I second this. I become a bit of an entitled princess more than a lady when I dont have my way and could benefit from what CheVon asked for....

[@sakuraesther6309]

@mariamme. We are human and we get angry, we disagree ,this is human nature ,yes it can be done more maturely but your advise is not good

[@RachelW1997]

I would love to see a video of you talking about your Bible! As a fellow Christian I love seeing people share their faith!

[@christshandmaiden]

SPOT ON With the advice and tips Caitlin! I love your wisdom because I follow other feminine women that are talking about High-Value Women and the one thing I have a difficult time is how they encourage seduction to get your way... and that's where I disconnect. With you, I know since you're a Christian, I trust your advice lol. Summary (but please still watch the video) 1. Maximize your looks (2:53) 2. Develop humility (5:24) 3. Make space for a man in your life (7:33) 4. Warm & Friendly (9:35) 5. Deal with your Baggage (11:19) 6. Gain Confidence in Who You Are (12:58) 7. Let them (men) chase you (14:30) SAY IT AGAIN

[@justynafletcher841]

Men. want. to. pursue! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 They want to feel like they got a prize. Amen! We women ARE a prize and it's our responsibility to ensure the man who "catches" us are worthy of that prize; are worthy of us. But in the same token, we need to ensure we're a prize worth getting. Very well said Mrs. Midwest. Love you bunches!

[@adriangotti1717]

> Genius, Caitlin! Love that.

[@PS-fk5zv]

That's true about dressing femininely. In my workplace the uniform is androgynous, so when we do those team hangouts outside work where we get to wear our normal clothes, I definitely see a difference in how my co-workers treat me LOL.

[@darling_darby]

Another way to become alluring is to stop asking the typical questions in conversation. Instead ask interesting questions! There is more to ask a man than “what do you do for work?” Every woman he talks to asks him that. Ask him instead what he is passionate about in his hobbies. Ask him what was the most dangerous situation he has ever been in. Ask him who his best friend is. These types of questions will help you see who he really is as a person AND you will automatically be more interesting to him and stand apart from the usual humdrum of conversation.

[@arkonem2933]

I know this comment is more than a year old but this is the best advice I've seen. If there's any comment the women here learn something from it's this one. I'm almost a doctor now and women love talking about this on dates, but I've had that convo a million times. I love it when they ask about my passions and try to find out more about me rather than just my career. This goes for most of my other succesful guy friends aswell. Great advice!

[@jenniferrodriguez1550]

Clarity is very important. I finally had the confidence of asking a man what were his intentions with me with full intention of walking away if he was going to skirt around the question. He pleasantly surprised me when he point blank said he wanted me and says it often. We’re still in the courting phase but I’m learning to step back and let him lead. I throw in my two cents here and there on what I want from him but overall I wait until he asks for my thoughts on things and then see what he does. Giving up control has been my biggest struggle, but once I did it became refreshing to see someone genuinely want to get to know me and enjoy talking with me.

[@nbip2845]

Most men are like that...

[@rosastrohhut]

I tend to ask pretty early what their intentions are. Most just want "fun" or a physical relationship. I say I am not interested in only that. And then the date is over.

[@RP-cn8si]

I feel like this is a personal flaw I need to work on (propensity to 'lead on' because I don't like confronting this issue), thank you for mentioning this! Do you have advice for going about it tactfully?

[@lyublyuisusa]

I think it would be cool if you made a video for younger girls about not allowing yourself to fall in love with the wrong men and not wasting your life

[@imsorryleo8549]

I spent two years of my life trying to keep someone that didn’t want to stay and was very abusive when I finally gave up and ran away I met my husband and I realized how much time I lost and I just knew he was the one from day one .I hope that all of u who are struggling in a bad relationship manage to get out .Blessings for all of u and caitlin you look lovely in the video like always, keep up the good work.

[@MaynightMemory]

I really couldn't agree more. Especially with the last point - I often notice that many people (men and women) get this whole chasing aspect wrong. They think it's playing hard to get or some other stupid game, while in reality it is the simplest and most useful way to find out if someone truly likes you. If they don't care about you, don't get in touch etc. then there's no point in running after them. Sticking to this very basic rule can save ladies out there so much heartache and so many months and years of running after guys who are not really interested in them.

[@isabeljenneman]

Thank you so much! It's so hard to find real, practical, and feminine advice with a Christian worldview. I've known I want to be a homemaker and stay-at-home mom since I was young (this was on my own, not pushed on me by culture). Traditional femininity and masculinity is so beautiful!

[@g-cellatwork5406]

This makeup looks good on you 👌

[@MrsMidwest]

I'm testing out different looks!! Thank you!!

[@em-co4mo]

Mrs Midwest updated tutorial once you‘ve settled on something please !!

[@ajsam4881]

The part about letting him chase you is so true. I used to go for the guys who were hard to get because I felt it was something special. The kind of guys who weren’t clear about their intentions with me and played games. Once I changed my strategy and set standards for the type of love I want/expect is when everything changed! I changed up my strategy and began pursing men who I usually wouldn’t have before. Ultimately, this lead to finding my current boyfriend! I’ve never been happier. We share similar beliefs and values and that compatibility goes a long way. Long story short, we as women need to be aware of what we are dealing with and if it’s worth it or not!

[@ljwjsl2011]

Could you do a video of how to handle a fight/argument with your husband? How do you handle the struggles and hard times in marriage? I love your videos. 💙

[@a.b.2405]

ljwjsl2011 that would be awesome! I need all the prayers for my marriage.

[@sriyakanduri1895]

Communication is the effective key.

[@MoonFoxASMR]

ljwjsl2011 I want to know who won the fight about the Christmas tree train? 🤣

[@calistarenee4786]

Kaitlin you are like a big sister to me! This video was so especially helpful. I want to be a homemaker in a few years and you have inspired me to be a traditional feminine young woman. I’ve enjoyed trying to implement some homemaking into my everyday life. I’ve never dated before but this video is such a great step to take. I’m going to be a senior in high school next year and I can’t thank you enough for helping me grow as a lady and in my faith. God bless ! ❤️

[@JP-1990]

The classical definition of beauty is "the splendor of the truth". That is why authenticity is key.

[@sammyb861]

Using this as “how to be more appealing to my husband” because he’s an amazing God loving man that does so much for me (and us) and deserves that extra bit of care in his life ❤️

[@bayanbishara6666]

that's so adorable god praise you and your family

[@Sarah-ty5ev]

I love that you mentioned counseling! Seeing a therapist helped with my confidence and relationship skills so much!

[@sydneyandrae5265]

YES!

[@jf5419]

I've been considering this but have always hesitated because I don't believe my problems are "big enough" to warrant seeing a therapist...

[@Sarah-ty5ev]

J F every single person can benefit from a therapist! Even if you don’t see your problems as big, it’s extremely helpful to have a person to objectively help you work through things. My therapist has really helped me correct negative aspects of my own behavior I was not even aware of!

[@sydneyandrae5265]

@@jf5419 that's what I thought! Even as a kid I was recommended to do counseling through the school and within a couple meetings they said they thought I didnt need it. And then later on in life I did it through my church and I didnt realize I had so much stuff that was bothering me sub consciously

[@jf5419]

Thank you for your responses guys

[@elijahdennings913]

As a traditional man it’s so refreshing to see this, I really wish I knew how to attract and recognize traditional women :(

[@JessiicaxXOXx]

I NEEDED to hear that point about letting a man chase you, not the other way around. Thank you for this video! x

[@autisticheadscarf]

Caitlin, this is my new favorite video of yours! From your introduction to every single point you made, this video was so perfectly presented. I especially really loved your emphases on how we shouldn’t take pride in being a heart breaker, enhancing our appearances does not mean having cosmetic procedures, and how important it is to have a real set of beliefs/interests/values before we enter the dating game. Even though I’m in a serious relationship with a wonderful traditional man of God, I still love hearing advice like this. I wish today’s culture embraced the traditional woman and that I knew about your channel when I was in high school (I’m 21 now) because I was so brainwashed by feminism and society’s emphasis on being a bad b*** and what not. You are such a beautiful role model inside and out and I cannot thank you enough for how much you’ve helped me grow as a woman. God bless you! 💕💕💕

[@nonamehi]

You have an amazing ability to smack us in the face with the brutal truth in the most gentle way. Loving your content.

[@msdd04]

Mrs Midwest, you make videos on topics we didn’t even know we needed. Thanks so much :)

[@Anne-oq8vc]

I haven’t even watched the video yet and I’ve already liked!💕 you’re always so inspiring and positive. Your sweet personality even led me to read more about your faith and I’m now starting my journey to become Christian! Thank you so much :)

[@a.b.2405]

Anne Milo OMG THAT IS SO AMAZING! God bless your soul! Omg I’m crying jajaja. 🥰

[@cbebop5]

Anne, welcome to the feminine *faith* family!

[@TheWellNourishedHomemaker]

I admire your work. As a homemaker and KZbinr myself, its nice to have someone to watch that likes the same things..Thanks sis!

[@shaynac3965]

i checked out your channel. Love the content! ill subscribe ❤❤

[@alalala3181]

I subscribed too!!

[@varunigarg6220]

You are amazing Catline, Your content is so helpful that I can't even imagine it will be available on KZbin. Thankyou for being here on this platform.

[@Jesuslovesme137]

As a single woman, I really appreciate this ❤

[@melissamelissa2603]

I like what you said about focusing on health and then outer appearance will follow in the way it was meant too. Being kind and spiritual involves proper respect for health and caring about people that have bodies. I look a lot better than I used too and it’s because of proper care and nutrition🌹. Detoxing from the world and negative people and connecting with God is important too.

[@hunny585]

[@xoxCarolxox]

I went through a weird period where I tried so hard to give into what I thought everyone else was doing. Dating around, being overly casual. (Which I KNEW wasn't me.) I either feel the connection and we date, or I don't. I ended up with so much anxiety and a full panic attack I didn't know what to do. I really wish I had your channel back then. I had honestly begun to think there was something wrong with me. I just wish this was more prevalent. I gave into the mentality of hook-up culture being the norm which is SO wrong. I wish I could go back in time and tell myself to not even try it. It was a short lived experience and then I went back to just being me with no forcing myself to do anything I didn't believe in but the fact that I even considered and tried to act on it really made me disappointed with myself. Anyways, Caitlin, thank you for your channel. I absolutely adore your content and as always am so, so, SO glad that you're unashamed to be feminine and girly. I love your videos, I love what you have to say. Thank you!

[@rachaeld.4753]

I don't necessarily want to be a homemaker. I am currently in school to become a registered nurse, but I love these videos and I value Mrs. Midwest's opinion. I am grateful that Mrs. Midwest has provided me with so many tips on embracing my femininity. Mrs. Midwest has helped me to tap into my feminine side a whole lot more and it looks way better on me than the androgynous look I had in my teen years! Now I specifically look for feminine details when I shop and add them into my everyday life.

[@stationaryobsessed5832]

You’ve really helped me embrace my womanhood in ways I never knew how and I feel so much more myself ☺️

[@rannahoot22]

I needed to hear this. I never have felt like I'm worth being pursued. Thanks for posting this. :)

[@lifewitholga_]

Oooohhh the intro logo is new. Also you look so warm in those colors 😘

[@admirbarucija2018]

I’m looking forward to hearing your advice, I struggle when it comes to dating!! I hope you’re having a wonderful day 💕

[@msbbdarling1328]

"Walk away" Such good advice, difficult to actually go through, but I really want to internalize this and keep this close to my heart. I love this video, thank you dear Cait!

[@sashenkadumerve3017]

Never forget that You can do all things through Christ. 🥰Loving my feminine family, saving this for femininity Friday though

[@AnnieeBubble]

I love how light and airy your mentality is - I think that's the key to femininity! I was always like that but, after two very difficult years, have noticed my disposition souring a bit, so am trying to develop a lighter and kinder self-talk too as I think that's very feminine and is the soft counsel men really need and feel lacks in their hard world!

[@nicolebenner9748]

I love this channel. Just stumbled upon it a few weeks ago. I so appreciate your confidence and speaking the truth with charity, even when it may go against the popular narrative fed to us. Keep up the great work.

[@Daydreamerrr574]

"2 am , u up?" " no I am not" "I WON'T EVEN ANSWER TO THAT " that is so funny🤣

[@Deb12365]

Hi Catlin, I am older (probably your mother's age) and I think you are lovely. I love your beliefs and that you are a christian. I would love it if you could have your mom on sometime and you could ask her questions and she could answer. She obviously brought you up so well. Anyway, I think that would be an awesome video. Blessings to you...

[@sashinistrickler5910]

That sounds like a great idea! 🌷

[@Budapestrentdotcom]

Thank you. I’m happy to see women like you still exist😌

[@nikkishana201]

I really love the way you define beauty! ❤️❤️ More women should know about this...

[@samaramcmanimon-myers7719]

PREACH!! 🙌 This is great advice, very similar to the advice I've tried to pass along to my friends and family. And since I'm getting married in about two weeks, it seems to have paid off for me! 🥰

[@CC-yf2ll]

Aww congratulations girl 😊🎉🍾!

[@samaramcmanimon-myers7719]

@@CC-yf2ll thank you! 🥰

[@junkfoodlover2391]

Congratulations ...wishing you a blessed life ahead 😍😍

[@samaramcmanimon-myers7719]

@@junkfoodlover2391 thank you!

[@rainsara2795]

I LOVE the healthy and viibrant advice!! Its so true, and also you feel more beautiful when taking care of health and that changes how you carry yourself

[@rissroo4325]

I would love to know your thoughts on privileges other than sex that should be reserved for marriage. Like should a woman reserve cooking for her man for until he put a ring on it?

[@Ashwin-oq1xt]

Don't let the feminists fool you. Men are more than crazy-eager to see if you can cook, clean or other stuff of motherhood.

[@Ashwin-oq1xt]

A masculine guy will have standards and thus has an expectancy list. While a pu**ified male (excuse the language, can't call him a man) will cook, Lick women's toes and even get pregnant. He doesn't feel his worth as a man thus he does all these acts.

[@hummingbird4335]

@@Ashwin-oq1xt wow. your view is quite distorted. Cooking is a vital life skill. If this pandemic has taught us nothing else, at least that would be a glaring lesson especially for those of us living in countries where food delivery is not common. There is nothing effeminate about cooking. Men & women need this skill for health & survival (especially in the case of unforseen crises where going out to buy cooked meals has been severely limited). To the original commenter, I really believe cooking, cleaning, & other domestic favours when done regularly (not because he may be sick,etc) is a privilege that should not be extended to just a boyfriend. It's like playing house in my opinion.

[@nataliagiraldo9814]

@@Ashwin-oq1xt Well, that's very sexist, cooking is a basic skill, it has nothing to do with being man and women.

[@YogiOabsReborn]

Practice marriage before you get married!

[@melindaroop1346]

I believe we are goddesses, but that includes taking care of our looks and personalities. Take care of your body, your skin, your hair, your clothing.

[@julietteishimwe2274]

No we're not♥️ "goddesses "are perfect

[@lydiawashburn9063]

Independent and feminine 😍 I love this! They do not have to be separate :)

[@katherineliriano6164]

Dating is so frustrating haha. I feel like I will never find someone

[@Ella-ug7wj]

Same lol I’m scared I’ll be alone forever

[@elijahdennings913]

It’s super hard for traditional men too :( most women my age think the idea of marriage is super terrible and oppressive

[@cruzs12]

I'm a 20 year old girl & lm almost finishing my carreer! Yes, this video is for me. I love her phrase: You can be the best version of yourself & you can be the 100% version of yourself at the same time. 🌸

[@paigehana3890]

I’m in a happy relationship, but I’m still gonna watch it cause it’s mrs Midwest 😍🤍

[@kelss3630]

I'll be honest, my nose job DRASTICALLY improved my look, along with my confidence. Do what you need to do to be happy and feel your best! If you get anything done just DO YOUR RESEARCH!

[@bluemoon7561]

very true

[@wildpuddle]

Would you ever consider doing a what you eat in a day kind of vlog? I know you put in your breakfast and dinner and such, but I think it would be interesting to see what you eat generally and snacks you like etc! 💕

[@melindaroop1346]

Just gonna throw this out there...that makeup look is probably one of the most flattering that I have seen on you.

[@seatedwithchrist8268]

Love this video, such great tips! . Ive been finding that it’s so difficult to meet a masculine man of God who wants a homemaker as a wife 😭🙏🏾

[@nessparadis6948]

I understand sis. It’s hard nowadays, but they still exist. Let’s Trust God 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.

[@seatedwithchrist8268]

Ness Paradis amen sis ❤️

[@ericthered1140]

What are you bringing to the table?

[@seatedwithchrist8268]

Eric Glenn a lot of things lol

[@YogiOabsReborn]

There are men waiting for you for sure! Keep it up!

[@megpolm]

Thank you for touching on humility in dating! I just came out of a bad relationship that lasted too long and everything you said is so true and helpful and you've confirmed everything I've learned from this experience. Bless you and I can't wait for more videos!

[@xiaonanz9411]

Love you so much!!! Every point is speaking to me!

[@Hiyori97_]

Thank you for another amazing video ❤️️ Everything you said is on point, as always I liked when you talked about how it's not inauthentic to be a better version of yourself, because this popular "be yourself= don't work on yourself" mindset has always driven me crazy, I also really appreciate when you encouraged us that we still can fix the bad habits we picked growing up, that was very encouraging to hear :) And about the the sixth point "Who are you" it reminded me of an analogy I've read, it say to imagine a man is holding a plant, if he comes to find you in a bare garden, sitting there doing nothing and just waiting for him to give you the plant, chances are he wouldn't want to put his plant in your garden, where else if he finds you sitting in a beautiful garden that you are lovingly and passionately growing, he would want to plant with you and be a part of that beautiful world of yours 💕

[@notsomuchhere1387]

I wish I knew this at like 15-19,I was so brainwashed by feminism and during that period of my life I was involved in so many activities and had met so many guys 😭,now I'm 21,most feminine I've been in my life but meeting zero guys,funny how life works but then again I've become more of a home body the older I got but I promise once things are normal I'll be going out more , you can't expect to noticed when you don't even show up

[@Zonnyzone96]

21 is still young. Just go out more and dress more femininely and you'll find someone who is interested

[@Mimz2000]

You're honestly one of the most beautiful women i have ever seen and im not exaggerating

[@shanaeb4814]

This is one of the best videos you’ve ever made! Very true and very needed in this society!

[@deepmala6376]

Could you please make a video about how to have faith in marriage? It’s hard when you haven’t seen many happy/successful marriages around you growing up, especially if you’re a child of divorce. Love from India. I love your channel. ❤️❤️

[@تۈتَههۂٰء]

This video really helped me with getting better , I really love your videos since quarantine started till now I’ve been watching your videos and it has helped me ily🥺🥰

[@maggie5493]

What a great video! There is always room for self growth. And in doing so, we attract what we like and desire.

[@srilakshmiv996]

Have been loving your recent hairstyles on all your Instagram stories 😍🤗 Make a *daily hairstyles tutorial* video please 😘❤️

[@myrandarosenbaum9332]

I so wish that I had seen your inspiring videos during highschool and early college. I wasted SO much time with men who didn't want to be with me.

[@claresutton2819]

You have such wisdom, Dear. Thank you! My daughter (17) and I watch you every new video. Hugs from Australia! xo

[@anjalikumarisingh7440]

Never been this early, love from India💛💚💖

[@MrsMidwest]

Thank you Anjali!! Sending love to you too!!

[@anjalikumarisingh7440]

Thankyou 😍😍😍

[@Mom_of_the_Chickies]

Yay! I love your videos ❤️. I was wondering if you would ever do a video on skincare? 🥰

[@deealf8519]

I love you’re videos, please would u talk about life after marriage? How to find balance? And how to find yourself after marriage. Not losing ur identity please..

[@julia9557]

Self-improvement is always a noble goal ❤️

[@flutenanyidk1806]

Being more feminine is something I love to do at home in an environment with family who doesn't judge me. I actually love wearing dresses specifically, but whenever I dress up in public I feel kind of like people are judging me. It is a source of confidence to be more feminine for me, I just have that problem. Any ideas?

[@schwester6523]

If you feel like a lady, act like that, dress like that ppl will eventually treat you like one!

[@meganheinz9729]

I would love if you did a video on "transitioning" into a more feminine woman. I feel that for myself personally I have the feminine look down for what I want. Although I am working on wearing brighter colors. However, I feel like I have done so much in the past that I really struggle to feel like the actions and mindsets that I strive for are achievable for me. I love your videos about mannerisms and style. I find them so helpful, but something like a guide (a series??) that has almost like a step-by-step layout, would be amazing!

[@michelletackett9489]

Exactly. Other people can tell when you feel good about yourself. If you don't feel good about yourself, other people will notice.

[@jademondia6537]

Ahhhh, just new here but I'm LOVING your channel & blog so far already! Hope to see more! 😍👏🏽 God bless you, Caitlyn!

[@harshajha]

Was waiting for your video I just want to watch you every single day Have watched all your videos and felt in love with the whole you You have such a positive vibe ❤️ you are very beautiful and I follow all your tips and can't wait to see myself as I want and allthe credits goes to you you are such an inspiration Love from India

[@MrsMidwest]

Thank you Harsha!! Such sweet words. I am so happy to be part of your life!! Wishing you all the best on your journey!

[@harshajha]

@@MrsMidwest Thank you so so much beautiful ♥️ love you always

[@aslozbilen6555]

I am traditional when it comes to dating but with this video I want to say we as woman, especially if we are traditional we make time for a man literally whenever. I don't think we need to try to make more time. It's 1-unatractive (he wont chase you) 2-you can be emotionally dependent on him easily. So idk really. I think we should tell men that, make time for women if you wanna be with one. Some still don't know this (I know weird, they are not the brihgtest)

[@rachelarmel7547]

Absolutely phenomenal advice!! So important for women to hear and so needed especially in these confusing times we're living in. Thank you sister! Btw you look especially beautiful in this video.

[@thevroom4988]

yes set your standards ladies!

[@rndmkt]

I just found your youtube channel and youre already like the sister Ive never had. Recently I fell for this fboi and almost gave him my Vcard, but thank God im strong enough to resist the urge and realized now how God was protecting me, and finding your channel just helping me more with my confidence. Thanks for making the videos.

[@meganslonesings]

Just be yourself, be open to God’s will, and put yourself in Bible Studies...Christiansingle etc, and let God take care of the rest. Girl, you are SO pretty!

[@flowerssmile]

You are my rolemodel❤️ omg you are the best. You know i always felt weird as a traditional and religious girl around my peers but now i know that there are many feminine and traditional women out there and i dont feel alone. Thank you 🙏🏻❣️

[@GirlyTipsEtc]

Thanks for sharing I would love to see a video of how to keep a happy marriage loved how to bless your husband but would love to see more things regarding intimacy, how to handle conflicts etc. If you are comfortable talking about this. Thank you have a blessed day!

[@ypham2453]

Wow, your makeup and dress look especially so beautiful today! Thank you very much for the video btw.

[@mariahfedosov1516]

I love your new makeup looks you've been trying out ❤️

[@RC-dp1gu]

Absolutely! The more I improve, the more myself I feel!!

[@Qwertyuiop-xz3kj]

am I the only one that thinks its time for a masculine men to make a youtube channel? like of course it is amazing that the feminine community grows but y'all we need that growth in mens comminity too.

[@staywoke9352]

m o o n c r e a t u r e Watch jesse lee peterson

[@arkonem2933]

There are millions of those channels lmao what

[@Qwertyuiop-xz3kj]

@@arkonem2933 name one please

[@kelss3630]

So I think this is great all around advice. A problem I am finding is, most men expect to go 50/50 financially and with bills once you are serious. A lot have lost the traditional value of providing as a man. Where and how can traditional provider men be found?

[@notsomuchhere1387]

I think it depends on culture like for example I've seen in the middle east amongst Arabs men are still very much traditional

[@notsomuchhere1387]

@Agatha z alot of women don't get that in order to receive these 'masculine' gestures of protection and provision , you can't act manly and show no feminity,then wonder why men are not attracted to you it's sad that a lot of the Arab culture is now westernised and women are becoming so manly and the men are becoming so feminine,but biology never lies

[@waltervillacorta32]

Great advice for women, if I may add one more advice would be just be genuine, we love that

[@mrssasharose]

A big tell is being with someone that propels and pushes you towards your best self. We should be with someone that loves you but also gets just as excited as you when it comes to blooming into your best self. same goes for them . You should be encouraging them to reach for their dreams support them along the way. Getting stronger together as you BOTH grow. Stagnant relationships are like that saying about idle hands.