How did it get even better?! Dax - "To Be A Man" Remix (Feat. Darius Rucker) [Official Video]

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[@rickywinchester3884]

Every single version of this song makes me cry :( I am truly so grateful for my wife and all that she has done with/for me, especially during my time in service and after deployments and all that we went through while I got my self back together again.

[@MrsRealistic]

Thank you for your service sir! I'm happy to hear you have a loving supportive wife! God bless you both!

[@paulineandrushuk8923]

Hi, this is such an historic song that I hope reaches many people, that didn't even know they needed to hear it. That T.V. morning show helped to spread it, but of course there are always those who will poo poo it. On a side note, my brother won custody of his 2 children when his wife ran off with a "let's party" naughty cop. She lost again 5 yrs later when she wanted ONLY the daughter. Needless to say, my brother is a fantastic parent and went on to happilyremarry

[@MrsRealistic]

I love to hear it! He sounds like a true stand up guy!

[@lynngatlin4469]

I had to go look it up after you reply to my comment on the other version. Thank you for this reaction.

[@MrsRealistic]

Oh, you're welcome! Thank you for watching! 😁

[@j-dub4720]

As a Veteran this song hits so hard, we don't get the help we deserve and have to fight for it. It could take years to just get thrown away and denied the medication or help we need. My wife and I have been together for 17 years and not until about 5 years ago I told her about my struggles because I was ashamed and didn't want to feel weak.

[@MrsRealistic]

Thank you for your service sir. 🫡 I hope your wife supports you in your healing. God bless you 🙏

[@jaspermalan3640]

To be a man!!! There are so many different meanings from some. We get up and work from dusk till dawn. Providing for our families and never complaining is the right perspective, am I right ? I love my wife and my family, and supporting them makes me so happy. Seeing the world via my kids' eyes is priceless. Who cares how I feel, who cares if I am scared, who cares if I feel like a failure, who cares if I am stressed. Who sees the suicide cuts on my arms. Or is it just viewed as attention seeking at the end of the day. Thank you for covering this song. Amazing. This song means a lot to me. Crying in the quiet and getting an outlet release.

[@MrsRealistic]

My husband and I have talked about this a lot as well. He feels the same way. Altho, he does complain about work... let's face it, it usually sucks lol! It's his job to be the "man" and lead our family... but that doesn't mean he can't show emotions. However, he's usually emotional about things involving our kids like if he hears a song like "You're gonna miss this"... because our kids are everything to him. I've only ever seen him truly cry when his mother passed away. Other than that, it's happy things that affect him like the birth of our children. I think that even if you have to cry alone, letting it out is absolutely important. I wish you nothing but the best in your life. God bless you and your family! 🙏

[@jaspermalan3640]

@MrsRealistic your husband energy is absolutely great. I like the metal respect between you guys. You are a becon of light for others to see and follow. Much respect to the both of you.

[@dmwiggy7661]

I feel blessed to share my life with a woman who values and respects me just like I honor and respect her

[@MrsRealistic]

God bless you both!

[@johnpegues5701]

Thanks! I don't listen to much popular music these days, but what little I have heard has come through the reaction world in the last few months...it has been a strange experience...having randomly listened to 2 songs on a reaction site to take my mind off of the ending of my career (Johnny Cash - Hurt and Ren - Hi Ren) took me down this trail and I have found it therapeutic and entertaining. You make good choices...thanks again.

[@MrsRealistic]

Thanks so much John! It's been the same for me, being introduced to all these artists and I never would have found them if I hadn't started this channel!

[@AcornPro]

It's a great song I would consider it a national manthen. Men will never open up we have in the past and it's been used against us. We will continue to suffer.

[@MrsRealistic]

I'm sorry you've experienced this. And I LOVE the term "Manthem"! That's perfect! Hopefully this song will help women "unlearn" the brainwashing!

[@ronsisikefu9838]

Very powerful message Dax 😯😥🙏❤️👍👌

[@user-tu7ti1yr6i]

Worth a comment because you're genuine. Thank God for women like you. I won't rave on but for the real ones God bless

[@MrsRealistic]

Aww thank you! I appreciate that! 🙏

[@lucasdevore5443]

I understand feeling that home is not my home. I feel that way 100% everyday. As long as i continue to try and fix that, hopefully one day home will be home

[@MrsRealistic]

I'll pray that for you too! God bless you my friend 🙏

[@Steve-gn8zn]

In this difficult world we live in , this song is important for all men and women to evaluate the difficult times in our lives. Talk to each other, care for each other. Pray to God for a Better understanding of each other. Gid is the answer.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💞

[@MrsRealistic]

Amen to that my friend! 🙏

[@mikebowers3256]

this got me real good much love Dax i feeel this deep

[@MrsRealistic]

It's a great colab!

[@dillon9447]

When I first started as a firefighter I almost lost my dad and myself in the most devastating fire of our lives, our own we got our gear and went back in. Our family lost everything but I can’t explain their faces when we walked out of our burning house okay. Things are things, humans are humans, no person should have to be alone❤ ❤

[@MrsRealistic]

Amen to that! I'm glad you made it out alive! God bless you and your family! 🙏

[@lynngatlin4469]

In 1985 a 186 of my fellow brothers friends soldiers died in a plane crash coming home from Saudi Arabian. Our detail for days was to place those 186 caskets draped with a American flag over it. For two days in full dress uniforms hot in summer brought one at a time few words name rank accomplishment prayer an a 21 gun salute an taps played 186 times. I tell you this story an even though it's only a small story. I tell you because I'm not so sure even if its a little story like this can imagine or grasp the sacrifice the horror the lost that a soldier endures. An in all this chaos would gladly give his life for you so that you can live to tell the story. Once a soldier always a soldier an when someone takes time even if its just a minute or even a few seconds to recognize an comment about a soldier when i say thank you i mean exactly that from the bottom of my heart. Thank You

[@ramdan8512]

Appreciate the intergenerational emphasis, I have come to realise I am raised by narcissistic parents and have desperately been working on myself to maintain my mental health, thankfully have survived it but I lost my identity (lived 40 years serving parents needs) and am just rebuilding it. I certainly plan to make sure I heal properly with therapy before I enter a relationship or start a family. As a man I was invalidated at any opportunity to express any distress or even my own opinion (it feeds narcissistic behaviour to be used against you). I am now training as a practitioner in a mental health therapy while also doing my own work and am just now realising the abuse I have experienced. It would have broke me eventually had I not taken this route. I really hope men get support in private if they can, guys don't even get the chance to build emotional intelligence in this social climate to deal with problems.

[@MrsRealistic]

You're breaking that "generational curse"! Hopefully you can be that help for men who have no one to talk to! God Bless you!

[@ertikengel9477]

Thanks for reacting to this........... as a man, a husband, and father........ My dad said these things efect us......... My (ex) Wife said shes seeing these things......... I dont want to have my DAUGHTER to have to see all this, but to understand it...................... As i sit here, with tears down my face, and a few beers to numb the feelings....... Please, STOP all our pains

[@ertikengel9477]

Other then whats said above, its not just older vets....... Within the last 20 years........... We have MANY soldiers that have been left behind....... AND no one listens to them....... PLEASE help us all........ there has been alot that has happened in the last 20 years,,,,,,, help us all

[@MrsRealistic]

Yes, I agree... that's why I mentioned veterans, it's not just the older guys... but everyone who has served! I pray you find healing and happiness. God bless you 🙏

[@brianl3089]

I have been struggling since losing everything from COVID, broke a leg and after almost 2 years ended up having it amputated. This song came out and I thought, “Hey, if I show this to my wife, maybe she will realize I am hurting. Showed all three versions and I was crying for all three she went back to reading and never mentioned it. That may be worse than the Truth if the song…I guess it’s bottle it up and go forward. N don’t know what else to do…

[@MrsRealistic]

I'm so sorry. I can't believe any good human would react like that, let alone a wife who is supposed to love and cherish you. I'm sorry but that's disgusting, If I acted like that I have no doubt that my husband would be filing for divorce. I hope you find some peace. God bless you 🙏

[@brittgayle467]

Same here. Just shared it with my wife and got a “like” and that was it. She then reminded me to clean the table before I leave for my sixth day of work this week (like every week).

[@MrsRealistic]

@@brittgayle467 clean the table? I don't know if my husband has ever cleaned a table 😆 I hate hearing that so many men are seemingly just shrugged off by their wives! Does she work outside the home?

[@roblafreniere7847]

All I have to say is, Thank You.

[@MrsRealistic]

Aww, and thank YOU! 😊

[@anthonyjenkin1205]

As somebody that works 80+ hrs a week to provide for my children this song hits me so hard...

[@MrsRealistic]

Good bless you my friend. I hope you get the appreciation you deserve!

[@lucasdevore5443]

Same brother. I get 200 hr paychecks and still have to listen to bs everyday. Lets just keep grinding for a better tmrw, hopefully we will get our due someday

[@buttkicker44]

Women become upset when men don't reveal their feelings yet when the do, quite often the women lose respect for their man. Damned if they do, damned if they don't.

[@MrsRealistic]

It's sad... it really is. I wish more women were open about that.

[@Michael_k_DK]

Have no one I trust enough to fully Open up

[@MrsRealistic]

I hope you have an outlet for your emotions. God bless you 🙏

[@chrismcfc88]

Talk to a stranger it's easier. Don't stay silent, I'm here for you if you need to talk.

[@MrsRealistic]

@chrismcfc88 That's so amazing of you Chris! God bless you 🙏

[@chrismcfc88]

@@MrsRealistic I'm only doing what any human being should do. Helping each other is the way it should always be.

[@Michael_k_DK]

I am 55 i have Been here for a long time i Will manage on my Own trust me

[@jayowens9520]

The pressure is real. I worked hard my entire life. Now I'm almost 50, and i have health issues and can't work. I am constantly ridiculed, and it hurts more because it's coming from people who should have my back. You can only push through so much pain. I find myself alone crying a lot. I'm Gen x, I can't let them see it. I think that would only make it worse. I'm a survivor, i will find a way to hold on storms only last for so long, and then the sun comes back out. So have patience with others, you don't know their struggles.

[@MrsRealistic]

I pray you find peace and better health. You're right, they should have your back. God bless 🙏

[@aaronblack5772]

My ex-wife left when I started having seizures 6 months after our son was born...she left with him while I was in the hospital. A year later I was unfortunately diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and epilepsy... It's funny how far "in sickness and health" goes when you become disabled

[@MrsRealistic]

OMG... that HORRIBLE! I'm so sorry! My husband nearly died last July and I was there by his side the entire time he was in the ICU. It was the scariest time of my life and our kids were terrified. I can't imagine our lives without him. I pray you find peace and healing. God bless you my friend 🙏

[@JJLovesMusic87]

Cant wait for you to check out dax new video. Pay close attention to the words.

[@MrsRealistic]

I saw he had a new one out! I can't wait!

[@JJLovesMusic87]

@@MrsRealistic ❤❤❤its deep and powerful. Fantastic song. You'll love it. Dax never misses. This song has actually been out for a year or 2 but just released a music video for it. Im glad he did because i never heard of this song til now.

[@MrsRealistic]

@@JJLovesMusic87 I'll do that one next on the "Dax list" probably next week 😁👍

[@JJLovesMusic87]

@@MrsRealistic Sounds like a plan❤

[@JamieDLGD78]

Yes! Yes ma’am. You get it. I agree with it all and I def agree with the feminist ruining everything. I love your view on all the reactions I have seen so far. 🙏🏻 Thank you.

[@MrsRealistic]

Thanks so much mamacita! I see the downfall every day. Feminism isn't the same as it was during the fight for the right to vote. It's now just man hating and telling women that being a mother and raising a family is less admirable that being a "boss bitch". My husband and I knew we didn't want our kids in daycare. I'm extremely grateful to him for taking care of and protecting us, so that I can stay at home and home school the kids. I wish all women could (who want to).

[@paulwilliams7700]

And the ones who see them as less strong are usually those same wives. It is written for other men though. And maybe our sons.

[@MrsRealistic]

I think it's for everyone, but when he says "I don't expect you to understand"...I think that's for the women out there who shrug off issues that their husbands have.

[@lukesouthworth9310]

This is my song to my son I'm a dad trying to rase a man

[@MrsRealistic]

Good for you! We need good dads out there raising boys! 😁🙌

[@lukesouthworth9310]

@@MrsRealistic I'm trying it really scary the shit out of me how this world is going to be like when he is my age

[@MrsRealistic]

@@lukesouthworth9310 I feel that on a spiritual level. I'm hoping we can raise our kids to discern between good people with real values and those who don't care about love, respect and family. The fact that you're concerned about it means you're already ahead of the game. A lot of parents aren't involved in their kids lives, who they're hanging out with, etc and it shows. This is a huge reason why we home school. I know how much crap I learned that I shouldn't have, simply because of peer pressure, things my friends told me or introduced me to, etc. My parents didn't know any of my friend's parents and I pretty much had free reign at far too early an age. And that was a totally different time. I'm 48 and the things that kids have to deal with now are WAY worse than what we were exposed to. Our kids don't have free access to the internet, our 16 year old has a phone with no browser or ability to get online. It's simply for phone calls or if she wants to text us and they have no social media. You get one chance and you can't ever go back after they've seen something or interacted with the wrong person. I've seen young kids on Omegle when I've covered Harry mack videos... and their parents probably have no idea they're even on it. That's why Omegle got shut down, because of online predators interacting with children. 😳

[@lukesouthworth9310]

@@MrsRealistic wow I don't ever know what to say now thank you for that

[@brianl3089]

Please do a reaction to DAX Eternity

[@MrsRealistic]

Thanks! Yes, I have that one coming up next for him!

[@GrandPitoVic]

People don't believe in vows anymore. It's as long as she is hPpy and the money is rolling in. When it stops. The Marriage is over.

[@MrsRealistic]

That seems to be a theme... you're right. I think social media is the downfall of a lot of values people once had. Nothing but Instagram booty "models" and only fans who only care about money but have lost sight of what truly matters.

[@GrandPitoVic]

It seems like Gen X were the last true vows taken. After us, it seems it has become a contract of convenience. In sickness and in health, richer or poorer is just filler words now. Social media is destroying society. Men are watching porn and women are watching women crying because they got ghosted lol. I got married in 2000. I meant the vows I took. I'm 47 and I see the younger generation and they are lost. Social media is raising the kids now. It's sad.

[@MrsRealistic]

@@GrandPitoVic Yup, I agree 100%... our kids have no social media and no phones with access to the internet. If they want to be online it's in front of us. Women are obsessed with botox, fillers, plastic surgery, purses, shoes etc...and just scroll through vapid, narcissistic accounts, comparing themselves to other women... and if their man can't buy them what those other women have, (because don't forget, they're "queens" who need to be catered to in every way...) then he's out. It's really sad. Let yourself age, and stop thinking your life's worth is based on how you look and what STUFF you have to show off to other women. My husband thinks it's ridiculous. He's told me that no man cares what purse a woman has, or how fantastic their fake nails are. Lol! I swear, all of that stuff, women do for other women!🤦‍♀️

[@jerrimilsteen5427]

Now...react to Dax's Mega Remix with other independent KZbinrs...2 of them are women... you'll need tissues but it's well worth it.

[@MrsRealistic]

I commented on this in the beginning...I did it a while back but Sony keeps blocking it after I have it up for a couple of weeks. I've uploaded it twice. I'll try again in a while and hope that it gets to stay visible. It's frustrating to say the least because I really loved the song and I bawled my eyes out! 😭

[@LeonardKaleta]

ive tried multipul time to get my girl to watch the original and (specifically) your reaction and she stops and walks away, and or claims she watched (i believe is a lie) but wont respond but has alot to say about about other peoples problems. it really sucks i try to talk but she gets defensive, but when she talks BUT WHEN I LISTEN AND RESPOND .... SHE GETS DEFENSIVE...?????? but i will NOT kick her to the curb because i will not put her through in the struggle i went through to get what little i (we) have. just wish she would listen and understand. because of this there are thing i cant just cant talk to her about (why Bother?)

[@MrsRealistic]

It seems very one sided. I'm sorry you have to go through that. When people won't take accountability there's not much you can do to get through to them. I don't think you should have to haul all the weight in the relationship. But that is, of course, your choice. I wish you happiness in the future. God bless you my friend. 🙏

[@kevinlapp8182]

Yeah I tried to get help…. And got ridiculed by my wife for it. “Why can’t you just talk to me?!?!?!?” Really…. The person that has used my emotions against me? I would love for her to be my safe place. But she has proven through her actions she isn’t. So I keep plugging on for my kids

[@MrsRealistic]

I'm so sorry. You deserve to be heard. God bless you 🙏

[@kevinlapp8182]

@@MrsRealistic I appreciate the sentiment… but herd is for cattle. My kids will never see anything but the cowboy.

[@user-hr7cc3lo4e]

The slow death of a good man is a nagging wife !!!! Married once …. Never again 😂 I‘m perfectly fine on my own !! Peace !

[@MrsRealistic]

Haha! I get it dude! I don't blame you! The women I see these days are vapid and self centered. They're all about "living their best life". Feminism ruins everything it touches. I wish you continued happiness! God bless!

[@corystupid]

Wants amazing is they still smile even tho we all know every one of them veterans have seen and been tho more then most can even try to understand

[@MrsRealistic]

Yes, that's so true... and so heartbreaking.

[@alendovzan6768]

everything you said is true, actually there is more to it, being a good man does not mean that you should make fun of him...because he doesn't get into discussions and avoids conflicts...he is obedient at first...but some women can't even understand that when they go to a course on healthy interaction with their chosen one...actually he is irrelevant to them, they only look at themselves and how to fulfill their needs...affinities or fetishes...actually these are poor women because such is their reaction to events in the environment that the weapon is actually their lack because they can't realize themselves as such, so they heal their frustrations by making fun of others...it's the same as with obesity...unhappy people seek comfort in food, so they thrive until it becomes a health problem and until it becomes they say that they are happy ... so that's not why they chose their chosen one to make fun of him with their friends over coffee ... poor grief .... greetings from Croatia ... eu

[@MrsRealistic]

Very true! Thank you for your comment!