Ms. Pat On Getting Pregnant By A 21 Year Old At 13: Reveals Her Mother's Hurtful Response

www.comedyhype.com/ - Continuing her talk with CH, Ms. Pat opens up about when she would be come a teen mom by a 21 year old man. She would later go on to express her mother's shocking response. Instagram: @ComedyHype & Twitter: @ComedyHype_

[@DonaldSeymourjr]

This really hurts my heart. I hate when things like this happen.

[@RockerT1000]

Thats why parents need to be parents. Keep watch over your kids. Boy or girl.

[@jamalvines2133]

WELL THIS WAS NORMAL FROM THE BEGINNING. IF YOU DID YOUR HOMEWORK

[@HarajukuBarbie504]

@@jamalvines2133 bruh wtf ?

[@jamalvines2133]

@@HarajukuBarbie504 CHECK HISTORY INTERNET CLOWN

[@JM-cx6ze]

@@jamalvines2133 this isn’t normal but little black girls regardless of if they lived in the hood or middle class they normally will talk to an older guy at a young age because they’re looking for a father figure if their father wasn’t in their life. And it’s not really just black girls all girls in general sad but it’s true.

[@jamalvines2133]

@@JM-cx6ze WHITE MEN PAY FOR BREAST IMPLANTS AT 16.

[@arethawalker1724]

Ms Pat is right about "hurt people...hurt people". Anyone that's battered mentally and physically without an understanding of why, will hurt anyone in their life.

[@whoa6884]

This is why R Kelly lasted so long. Most women dealt with older men. So when they get older they look the other way.

[@Jaedon1981]

Some do....

[@goldbrosproduction2394]

ty for saying it. that color purple shit is still happen.

[@jasonboyd4747]

Exactly 💯

[@ddoubleu170]

Most were *groomed* by older men. Let’s call a thing, a thing. They were groomed by perverts with a need for dominance.

[@PantherParty84]

And it was other dudes who played the father or uncle figre in the day but preying on the youngins at night. Women to and it still going on.

[@matrix2030x]

fathers please stay in your daughter's lives, love and treat them with respect...it will lower the chances of them going to find love with an older man that will treat them like 💩

[@briannathomas4646]

Not just older men...Any men, when you are at your lowest you will fall for anything

[@kenyettaready]

not always true. a two parent home does not guarantee this won't happen. even if she's a daddy girl. just ask my cousin. she still got pregnant at 17.

[@matrix2030x]

@@kenyettaready of course its not guaranteed, thats why i said lower the chances

[@shakeshake9375]

*Right*

[@shakeshake9375]

@@kenyettaready *Facts* 🙇🏽‍♀️

[@courtsohsodivaable]

What’s crazy is I initially saw her on the breakfast club. All I know is she’s funny and I love to hear her speak. But my God, hearing her story just makes me fall in love with her even more. What an awesome lady.

[@annzeeg4217]

She has a book called Rabbit about her childhood it's a sad story but the way she tells it is hilarious

[@courtsohsodivaable]

@@annzeeg4217 thanks you ima check it out! I appreciate it!

[@drufly1]

Terrifying as a father . Keep your daughters close

[@drufly1]

Very true

[@drinkwatereatmelons7048]

Don't suffocate your child...but do make it your business to know their whereabouts, their company and make it known they can talk you or the other parent about whatever.

[@DakotaLenn0x]

Keeping them close still won't stop something like this from happening.

[@jamalvines2133]

WELL YOU SHOULDN'T MESS WITH ANYONE'S DAUGHTER UNTIL MARRIAGE. STOP CHOOSING YOUR SO CALLED SINS

[@NamasteInYourLane]

So all yall can focus on is this woman having two kids by 15 instead of a grown man preying on her at 13 years old? Yall are sick and sadistic.

[@juswavvy9634]

Blame the men as usual 🙄 at 13 i knew not to engage in sexual activities

[@shayr.3412]

@@juswavvy9634 The man was an adult. Why blame the underaged teenager? Your experiences growing up are unique to you. God forbid you have a daughter that ended up in this woman's predicament.

[@RandomRoger]

@@juswavvy9634 I'm pretty sure at 13 you also had more than one outfit to wear the school and you got to eat everyday. She didn't.

[@fitnessexpert2010]

@@juswavvy9634 A grown man should Know not to touch a 13 year old girl. It’s simple, leave the babies alone. He knew exactly what he was doing when he approached her.

[@JaeBee11.11]

@@juswavvy9634 some of y’all focus so much on being misogynoiristic you can’t even use common sense. A 13 year old is a CHILD. Regardless of sex or gender. They don’t have the experience nor capacity of someone in their 20s. I pray you don’t have kids. Hell even allowed to be around them period cause you’re weird.

[@Prayalone515]

Ms Pat is a LEGEND for everything she has gone through and overcome. God Bless her.

[@torriebrown9607]

Thank you Ms. Pat for sharing your story. I am a product of a teen mom and it was some hard times. I still carry a little anger and over protective with my children.

[@allyymays2358]

Man I love her so much! The stories and nuggets she shares are golden. I love you Mama Pat🤞🏾💪🏾👑

[@ayalibra]

This brought back so many horrible memories..I would never forget this twenty-eight year old man that moved on my block. He would watch me daily as I traveled to school alone. I was about twelve at the time, in the late 80s... One day he ask me what size sneaker I wore.. The next day, as I'm coming from school, he had a pair of new balances in a box for me.. My mother never ask me where did I get a pair of new sneakers nor did she cared that I was in this perv house who ask for a kiss. I did share this with her a few years ago. She showed some concern but it wasn't genuine 😔 I believe that's why I never been attracted to older men. Always been touched and violated by them growing up

[@ayalibra]

@Jacki P There wasn't a dad in my home, unfortunately

[@susanhurst3292]

@@ayalibra blessing to you, everything you said is facts on. It start with them eyeing you first and it's a mission from that point how to prey on you. It happen to alot of my friends back in the days.

[@ayalibra]

@@susanhurst3292 Appreciate it

[@danabenson4125]

I am sorry you experienced that type of violation. It's always sad to hear that parents aren't concerned about things like this, or weren't concerned when they needed to be.

[@ayalibra]

@@danabenson4125 Appreciate it 😊

[@C.kirk1287]

I hope she writes a book. I was a teenage mother but I thank God that I had 2 supportive, active parents in my life that were able to help me out with being a teenage mother!

[@aminsmith9657]

She already wrote one. Rabbit by Patricia Williams

[@deronreed2945]

she has a book

[@miszjackson7957]

She has a book that’s why she being interviewed. This book is to motivate fast teens that should be reading instead of screwing grown men.

[@bellaapple2166]

If you had 2 active supportive parents in your life, how did you become a teen mom?

[@SwissMissss]

@@bellaapple2166 Easy, she had sex. I have the same type of story. I have 2 loving, supportive parents and still found a way to go creep with my little boyfriend, resulting in getting pregnant at 17. My son's father was the same age as me, so they had no reason to suspect he was a predator or anything like that. They thought we were being normal kids, going to the movies, the park etc when in reality we went to people's houses and would be smoking, drinking, etc. My parents had no clue. It was easy to get away with things when you have parents who trust you. I never gave them reasons to doubt me, so whe I turned up pregnant they were VERY surprised. They were still there for me and still are til this day. There's always different circumstances to every situation. Not every parent who's kid decides to do bad, is a bad parent.

[@chrisgilyard1]

She's 50 with a hard past

[@TrakouriJackson]

It all makes sense now.....from her demeanor to the way she handles situations personally and business

[@Hellseventeen]

That is heart breaking …..

[@zzizahacallar]

It is.

[@crs62685cs]

2 kids at 15 WOW.

[@twinkd7012]

My sister was 18 with 3 kid’s they’re in their 30’s now

[@dgib9449]

My cousin got pregnant at 13 by a 21 yr old too

[@zzizahacallar]

Yep it's sad and more common than one might think.

[@leazzyduzit]

It’s so sad how common this is in the black community like it’s VERY common and goes wayyyy back decades ago older men have always openly pursued younger females and never were held accountable because it was sickly the “norm” fathers yal are SO important in your daughters lives. Because this will damn near ALWAYS be the results when a young black girl has no father figure.

[@dezinechic]

yes in the black community but i always hear black mayles saying how much whyte men are pee dough files as if they are totally and completely benevolent and dont do abhorrent heinous things like that

[@chadtep7571]

It's prevalent in every community. Black people just talk about it.

[@camillejarrett5008]

It’s more prevalent than you think and nit just in black communities.

[@leazzyduzit]

@@dezinechic yeah it’s def common in all races just was speaking on the black community

[@leazzyduzit]

@@chadtep7571 100% just was speaking on the black community

[@carlas67]

😱 🤔🤔Oh my God when described her mother being so depressed and cried a lot it's like she described me. I am 39 😔..... 🤔🤔🤔 I heard that loud and clear..... Point taken...

[@raquelevans5973]

I pray you find some joy& release the pain tht is attached to you lil sista

[@megae859]

What's going on? Why do you feel depressed?

[@RobMaddenMadeIt]

Love Ms. Pat. This was heartbreaking to listen to.

[@cheyenneowens89]

He should not be getting with a 12/13 year old girl! And this lady should not be talking to a GROWN ASS MAN! PERIOD! That shit is SICK🤢😷

[@neshaoinspopolk4417]

So sorry for your experience

[@shakirahill885]

Unfortunate situations happen but this woman rose above! I'll be watching her special now to support ms pat !

[@trooper190]

❤🙏🏽 to Ms. Pat and all of those with those same struggles. God still loves us and sees and heals.

[@rhondawilson2494]

That's real talk! Thank God she made it through 🙏

[@queenq6080]

Just purchased her book and all I can do is smh. That woman is strong as hell & I'm forever a fan

[@YC-dx5vl]

We have got do better in our community.

[@drinkwatereatmelons7048]

This is WHY it is so important for fathers to develop a bonding relationship with their daughters.(Sons also included) Daughters need to hear from their dad "You're beautiful smart, talented." Say this to her everyday or show her everyday she's important in the family. One day a guy will whisper "pillow talk" to her and she'll say, I know my dad tells me all the time how pretty I am. Knowing her father is in her life....less chance of looking for validation from any guy.

[@Fragileinketernity22]

I fuck with Comedy Hype. Something about the background music and the host voice that make these videos so soothing.

[@Ayesha_Michelle]

Her story definitely needs to be heard, so many young people who aren't feeling loved and seen fall into so many dysfunctional relationships ❤

[@xxPantherBabe]

It happens a lot in the hood. Parents if it's not a single parent home are working. Most kids left to raise themselves. It happend to me. Was in a relationship what I thought with a 24 yr old and I was 14. Smh. I'm happy I didn't get pregnant but he did try a few times. He was mentally abusive. Physical twice. He got mad at me because I broke up w him. He would stalk me. Then it just stopped. He found his next victim. She was also underage.

[@stoplayin21]

15 with two kids sounds unimaginable so sorry 😢

[@avanulaneway8418]

sorry if it was 1. But 2 is purposeful

[@danabenson4125]

I see it daily. There are young people who have multiple kids before they are even 18 or 21. In today's society, like she said her mother said, many of these teen parents and their parents see the babies as another reason to get more government assistance.

[@sheskates6551]

Stole her youth but her star will still shine bright !!

[@kingdavid6535]

This happens a lot! I knew a lady friend that told me she met a 30 year old at 15 and they had a weekly routine of meeting after school! Smh I was blown away and scared 😱 and overly possessive of my daughter at how non chalant she was when telling me like nothing was wrong with this!!! Smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@zxcccccc1]

This happens often.

[@kingdavid6535]

@@zxcccccc1 Thank you 🙏🏿

[@yvonneharris4087]

I love her personality she been thru A lot but made the best of her life out of it thankgod she is doing great things she has a great testimony

[@chrisgilyard1]

Just saw her on 85 south show real, raw Westside Atlanta

[@jazzy5041]

This is sad but so common. I was hit on by more grown men at 14 than now at 27.

[@juswavvy9634]

When i was 16 year old boy this lady who looked like she was in her 40s use to hit on me... i would just laugh cause i thought it was funny 😄

[@sdseals2076]

I just saw her in a clip-on KZbin. I have never heard before that. I swear I never know about comedians until they get a tv show.

[@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove]

Blessings of Love to you and your loved ones always✨🌈✨✨

[@squarebiz71]

You guys should definitely check her show out. ..best show on right now. 💯

[@amj4441]

Damn this was real deep.

[@godsavethecoffeecake]

Damn is her mama still alive? That’s fucked. Glad Pat got herself to this point, she’s amazing.

[@flirty28able]

She said her mom died at 39

[@susanhurst3292]

M R, go on Amazon, and get her Memoir, once you start reading it you can't put it down!!! Her mom is a Mommie Dearest!

[@lRod0j0]

That’s creepy as heck

[@robbinsally3982]

So sad that so many of our children aren’t protected. Men need to stay in the household to raise your kids. If you can’t, stay involved as much as possible.

[@ashermanjames2709]

God bless her mom soul and her family with good health and good blessings

[@helen5118]

She seems more upset with her mother than the dude; she smiles when she speak of him and frowns when speaking of her mother.

[@zzizahacallar]

I noticed that. Remember she said she hated her mother for the longest.

[@helen5118]

Yep, when he asked her what was dude’s reaction to her pregnancy she never did answer instead she went straight to her mother’s reaction… think I’ll wait for her second book when she forgives herself and her mother and stop giving him a pass.

[@zzizahacallar]

@@helen5118 I'm gonna start reading her first book, can't wait to fully know her story. She's cone a long way and I agree I hope she holds that pedaphile accountable..

[@kieramarshall9319]

Her mom turned her into a vulnerable 12 year old who accepted the first chance of “love” she got. He gave her two kids that ultimately saved her life and motivated her to do better. It’s understandable. Very sad but understandable.

[@nanettematthews2264]

Her mother had one job…

[@neshaoinspopolk4417]

You did amazing Empress

[@QueenGleaux]

I love Ms Pat her story is so real I can relate to the abusive aspect. She’s probably the best comedian out right now

[@Creolegem]

I got pregnant at 16 when I tell you this my mf story foreal but I succeeded in the end I made it mission that two kids will never know what poverty, neglect abuse and abandonment feels like

[@lanettemccoy4690]

Someone that takes, control over you! You don't need that person in your life! He totally taken advantage of her as well as her situation! Everything starts at home! You learn as you grow older, we suppose too! That's why? It's very important to have mom and dad around! Ms. Pat seems like she's okay now, with life long lessons!! 💘😻 many blessings to her...

[@Ilovechicago100]

Wow. That’s is really sad😢😢

[@kaharold]

THIS STORY is Why I Literally Stop Complaining About My childhood Because I Now Realize that Other People had it Worser Than ME, Love You Mrs Pat...

[@sharonjackson268]

12...21, he needs to still be sitting in jail! 😔

[@rosemarysurgick3883]

Speak your truth Mrs. Pat

[@vickiemckay4259]

I can remember when I was in school and seeing young girls pregnant. And then after they've had the baby I used to ask them what did you have they told me a boy. So I said is that what you wanted they told me yes! I was talking to a schoolmate about the conversation she said to me the reason why she wanted a boy is because the "GIRLS BRINGS HOME ALL THE BABIES".

[@dntwachmewachtv]

This happens way more often than we think!!!!

[@horacehenderson6202]

Wow. She is deep

[@dreadheadc]

Ms pat is the best.

[@basilthompson7515]

The Ms. Pat Show Now Streaming on BET+ Season 2 Coming Soon

[@Jaedon1981]

......He didn't give you love.....it was a certain type of male energy... That's a sad situation....

[@Jaedon1981]

@CeeESSS911 Indeed. Direction. Which is why I called it a sad situation. Because she didn't know what positive male influence/energy looks like. He preyed upon her. It's quite depressing, actually...

[@Bonnielarue1245]

I can relate, a little bit.

[@PantherParty84]

She spoke some stuff tht goes on in our community

[@queeniwearth]

Ms. Pat is gorgeous!

[@yolithacarter1105]

WE NEED HEALING JESUS 💔❤

[@MaintainHealthyHair]

A woman should’ve interviewed her.

[@nakitapalmer656]

She seems cool as shit! So down to earth.

[@sofiabutterflies1635]

That's y I said not everyone deserve to be parents some parents just don't care and their kids have a lack of education when it comes to life inviting ppl in they have no business dealing with. Hurt ppl do hurt ppl man sorry u had to go through that Ms.Pat.

[@firesign4297]

And THIS IS WHY * GOOD!!! ..FATHER'S!!! NEED TO BE IN THE .....HOME!!!😪💔🙏💔😪 P S GOD🙏 BLESS🙏🙏🙏 HER🙏😪 HEART!!!🙏😪💔🙏😪

[@sharonjackson268]

This is sad, their mother was never a mother to them... So 😔😟🙁

[@lifestylewithlisa_1976]

My God her mother died at 39 years old 💔 I need to find out more about Miss Pat I wonder do she have a book out or have she ever considered writing one. Because her story my God 13 years old & pregnant by a 21-year-old 😳 his ass should have never been allowed at the rec center smh maybe I should go over and see if she have an Instagram page

[@RaeKay248]

Yes, Rabbit by Patricia Williams. The audible is real good

[@susanhurst3292]

It's in Amazon, very good book

[@SMP2390]

The most messed up thing about this us is that this is still happening

[@TheAfterLife-bb4je]

Ms pat is a strong women thank good someone takes good care of her ❤ Ms pat and her show forget about that old apple freak and you do you girl

[@iammahalieka]

That's so sad. Sorry for the loss of her mom, she could only give what she had in her. May God be pleased with her. On another note, that wicked man groomed Pat. He knew exactly how he was going to get her. I wonder what he's doing today, how is he living with the fact that he raped a 12-year-old girl. I wonder if his children and current wife or girlfriends know/knew that he is/was a rapist. I wonder how many other girls he violated. Now I understand Pat's mannerisms better, this makes sense to me.

[@crissoa]

That’s why I’m thinking. How can you live with yourself knowing you raped a child.

[@autumnskai6383]

This is far too common... When will it end.

[@Quoteablemoments]

Wow this is 😞 sad sad 😢

[@morrisliveletlive2078]

This happens to men too lots of cougars prey on young boys have kids with them

[@jasminedelee2286]

Wow, My God

[@rebeccamiller9420]

So sad 😥

[@tammygamble8313]

I love Ms. Pat. She is brutally honest about her life. Always keeps it real. Now the grown ass man that took her innocence should be rotting in jail😡 having the same thing he did to Ms. Pat done to him on the daily. Nasty ass😡!!

[@lee-lee1596]

The fact that she’s laughing shows that there’s still a issue in her heart head and self esteem unfortunately

[@averyfisher9967]

Terrible parenting…period!!!

[@ladygemini5967]

Yeah I can relate to her My dad was there but not there So yeah

[@housewhitney7274]

BREAK THE GENERATIONAL CURSE CYCLE..🙌

[@b-rosekindle5354]

Most times its impossible to stay home and focus on kids even in a two parents home, and now with everything going on it's double hard for a parent to stay home with the economy being the way that it is . I just say parents keep doing the best you can raising kids and go to work at the same time. People keep looking at that kids are just theirs but they are humans too who will have to face the world and what comes with it, and as they start to grow up and get curious about life all u can do is prepare them for what life and their life can or could be like with all the pros and cons and. Parents can't lock kids up in the house forever so all you can do is raise them to be decent human beings and hope they be better and safer than you when you were their ages.

[@kelleysaint8606]

Girl …….let yourself cry ….. you have been through it ………………..

[@beautyluv2370]

This is some real life trauma. Wow to have to even think about it at a tender age of 15

[@DJDREXTV]

They way she talk lovingly about this man is disgusting.

[@RaeKay248]

It's not love, she don't have hate for him anymore she has a husband over 20 years. If she was trying to protect him she wouldn't speak on it

[@trinityantoinette]

I really hate the wording of these questions 🥴

[@igotthemunchies7292]

Girls love older guys

[@Kikigreentea]

Children love attention.

[@ISaidWhatISaid8463]

Smh it always amazed me how grown people blame a child and not the adult rapist. Smh oh this happens to black boys too. Just black folks blame the child. Smh

[@eugeniaboone5602]

The comment her mother made...👀😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😒☹️😑😑😑

[@johndoe-gh2or]

15 with 2 kids damn!

[@bornA_diva]

She was traumatized by some dusty who needs to be 6 ft under

[@deonnadyson]

Well aretha franklin had 2 kids under 14...

[@johndoe-gh2or]

@@deonnadyson damn! to that too

[@danabenson4125]

Just think about it this way, if miscarriages wouldn't happen, there might be many more 15 year olds with kids. There have been little girls as young as 11 who have been pregnant. That's the course of the reproductive system. Once you start menstrual cycles, you can likely produce a baby.

[@banditsixtyfive3900]

OH MY GOD NAW SHE DIDN'T SAY BOOTLEG HOUSE?! MAN DAT PHRASE TAKES ME BACK! I'm sure they do but can anyone confirm they still exist?!

[@javonnemotley5980]

Sad part family members do this too

[@83msbear]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@neshaoinspopolk4417]

🙏🏿🥺💫💕👑

[@leahjames6870]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@Peach-wx4qu]

Her parents failed her. For her to laugh at a pedophile raping her. He basically GROOMED HER😢

[@yubeluchiha]

I mean if the daddy really apart of her and the kids life and really being a father meh to each they own the lady turn out ok in the end

[@Matches_Malone0]

Naw that's not right and dude shot her in the head

[@yubeluchiha]

@@Matches_Malone0 I didn’t know all that damn

[@annzeeg4217]

He was also married at the time too. He was never apart of the kids life and he had other women or girls pregnant at the same time. He has like twenty kids

[@yubeluchiha]

@@annzeeg4217 damn I didn’t know that