What Happened When Ms. Pat Confronted the Man Who Molested Her

[@bandit2211]

She’s one of them lady’s that calls u baby in the store and it makes your day

[@AngelLoeza]

Oh for sure 110%

[@justalonelyman994]

Wished that happened to me

[@MrRemmington]

I can just picture it xD

[@Jackjackfrm33]

On godddd

[@dewilew2137]

She’s not even old enough to be that type of woman who would do that. Just say you have a narrow opinion of Black women.

[@tanyabarboza4759]

Her strength reminds me I got some bullshit to let go of for real.

[@smokedoubt1262]

Tanya Barboza frfr

[@obedientconsumer5056]

For sure. Attachment and dwelling on shit you can't change only leads to misery. Letting go of all the anxieties and self doubt is a tough process, but it's the ultimate freedom when reached.

[@tanyabarboza4759]

David Thomas Definitely working on it.

[@tanyabarboza4759]

g sierra91 Thank you

[@team3gaming749]

Tanya Barboza Same.

[@jromeo8247]

Deep respect for this woman. She laughed in the devil's face. Not once but her entire life. And now she has company. Love a story of redemption. This is one of them

[@chop9suey]

J Romeo “she laughed in the devils face” I like that

[@loudmouf9246]

J Romeo I could not of put it any better. Thank you.

[@jordangibson8295]

I like dat damn quote bro

[@LILMIKEOG]

I love the way you put that.

[@perry6712]

Why doesn't people blame God if bad stuff happens hell nobody blames God for anything

[@manuel007dragon]

Ms.Pat probably one of my top 5 favorite guests on Joe Rogan.

[@hoshkotheboy]

Manuel Guedz easily

[@glochosen]

Facts

[@usef2941]

She’s the best guest for me

[@sirwoodofeast9497]

I feel the same way, but I feel like she could easily be top 10 or even top 5 of all time.

[@Hakhoumbha]

Yeah but the way she fuckin crackles and makes weird noises into the microphone

[@andrewr471]

Loved this woman within a minute and a half of hearing her talk

[@X64813]

Bro she got that southern hospitality in her voice.

[@alex-cj9mb]

she's hilarious

[@GamerSkinny]

@K Korona oh fuck off

[@PRYVTgomerPYLE]

@K Korona "the kind of person who gets angry at people for no reason." Oh the cruel irony of that statement. You are a seriously demented fuck. I cannot even begin to explain it to you, because you're a special kind of stupid. It would be a waste of my time to do so.

[@seandoe3042]

What a beautiful strong woman.

[@20takers]

Mr Rogan, I have watched probably 90% of all of your episodes. This woman is by far in my top 3 guest of all time. She had me crying and laughing in the same breath. Thank you for your diversity of guest and thank you for sharing this womans life and her story. The size of your heart and the amount of compassion and empathy you possess, is inspirational and admirable!

[@darkcoeficient]

This podcast really has to be commended for the variety of guests. Scientists. Philosophers. Commedians. Journalists. Psychologists. List goes on. To top it off they should bring a random person from the street.

[@deydis0758]

Who are your other favorite guests?

[@truejewel213]

Tim Akers me tew💕

[@darkcoeficient]

@5,ooo LightYears Away thanks!

[@LiveLoveLaugh_44]

I totally agree

[@motorcityjudy]

I swear she has been through things that would kill some people. She has an awesome outlook on life.

[@gordonfry2644]

Like a bullet in the boob

[@icingcake]

BOSS.

[@absolutegarbage3654]

I would have crumbled like a piece of paper honestly

[@0oohnegative]

I needed this. She is so right on. Asking an abusive person for an apology or closure is like watering a dead plant. You are never going to get what you want or expect. That thing is never going to flower. Forgiveness is throwing that dead plant away and moving on with your nourishing water.

[@victoriab.6601]

you re right..at least that was my experience

[@beevsosa7693]

...... Can y'all show me how... I try so hard to take that step and I end up back where I started.....

[@beevsosa7693]

@Pine Trees 🤗 well said! Thank you!!

[@mcsuibhne005]

I would like to think that f it happened to me, I would plan the most beautiful revenge of all time. Like go off grid and dedicate my life to destroying theirs for like at least a solid year or so

[@nikitapardis2739]

@Pine Trees you can forgive without forgetting. You can accept their apology when they come back. You dont have to be mad at the person who hurt you. But you dont need to give them another opportunity to hurt you again

[@sobored9317]

Never even heard of you but you are an incredible person, respect.

[@nycgirllauren]

Jack Black you absolutely have to listen to her on Ari’s show and on Joey Diaz podcast

[@fitzwellingtonbouregard3505]

D G more incredible than anything you’ve done with your life lol, clown

[@AgnesKoteles]

She’s a stand-up comedian. She’s funny 😊

[@christophercharles1937]

She’s better than most people I’ll tell you that.

[@Superdog-gr5yh]

I love her she's a badass

[@dynamist]

She's not just one of the funniest people, but also one of the most admirable, humble, and authentic. This episode is HILARIOUS and I was in tears at the end. Love this lady.

[@fatherhoodpodcast7977]

That’s crazy, I hope she has infinite peace from this day forward. Man Joe has a gift to genuinely communicate with and bond with the most diverse groups of people and personalities that I’ve ever seen. And it’s never forced.

[@cassidyerickson7408]

He's the best man he really is

[@bmo3271]

He’s done a lot of psychedelics that’s why lol

[@Charmer4856]

Her story is very prevalent in the black community. People dont wanna admit it but I saw some things growing up in the hood. Its sad

[@knes167]

All it takes is raw honesty. Some ppl can't handle that

[@f67739]

Brandon In Progress not that deep, he just lets the person talk, listens for basic understanding and asks good questions to give them more to talk about

[@usedtobearandomcombination9680]

The strength it takes to laugh about stuff like that, is damn inspiring

[@justaguy8648]

You know she meant that. Just by the way she was stumbling over her words. 😥 mad respect

[@ry4986]

Justa Guy no. Wrong.

[@justaguy8648]

@@ry4986 how ?

[@lilymarie5312]

Mad mad mad mad MAD respect

[@lilymarie5312]

He means like she's sincere, at least that's how I read it

[@corpmex]

"I can't change the past, but let's laugh today" - Ms .Pat's I haven't heard any better words then those of Ms.pats , in a loooooong time! A true modern hero ladies and gentlemen.

[@92cgray]

💯💯

[@tonysmith4250]

She's entirely too real for the mainstream

[@sheruns8579]

I’m sorry Ms. Pat. You needed love and protection and that wasn’t given to you. You’re strength is beyond admirable. I love you.

[@billydog1954]

Could you imagine going to a cemetery and seeing a grave on fire LOL Someone should make a movie of Pat's life

[@lovingme1st973]

She has a book about her life "Rabbit"

[@Bruceleroy-of5br]

Now she haves a show 😍😍🥲🥲😂😂

[@thaconqueror777]

Listen I just told my mom if they make a movie that person is gonna get an Oscar. I feel it.

[@steviebob4]

No idea who this lady is...I instantly love her.

[@Charmer4856]

SAME!

[@iorilamia]

Try listening to black comedians sometime

[@steviebob4]

@@Calilou52 Exactly. No idea why people have to virtue signal and act as if the world just ignores black comedians and they're here to call it out and save the blacks. Fucking cringe! My two favorite comedians of all time are Patrice O'Neal and George Carlin, may they rest in peace. My two favorite living ones are Dave Chappelle and Ricky Gervais. For my top ten I would probably add Charlie Murphy (RIP), Tracy Morgan, Mo'Nique, Bernie Mac (RIP), Patton Oswalt and Bill Burr. 6 out of my top 10 are black.

[@DocBelle2]

Now she is a survivor not a victim a woman who chose to thrive in the darkness. She is amazing!

[@jarrybarry7969]

Who ever disliked this video is probably a child molester. Love Ms. Pat!!!

[@Mayabee321]

She has been through SO much and she’s still upright and functioning, that is some serious mental strength. And she can laugh about it all, that’s amazing.

[@toladep]

The way she said “you know he shot me in the back of the head” Lmaoo. Man this woman is awesome, god bless her.

[@pyrohero2010]

Ms. Pat is such a change from Joe's regular guests. She is so raw and real and I love it. I feel like she is someone who is just so healthy to hear speak and she's hilarious. You can tell Joe was not faking any laughs. His stomach must hurt this morning from laughing too much. God Bless Ms. Pat

[@howiestyles4938]

We all love ms pat

[@Dondada31]

“Hey, how do you get rid of an Ant Bed?” “Pour gasoline on it and set it on fire.” 🤣🤣🤣

[@aShamelessHigh]

"How do you get rid of ants on a gravestone?" ... "You light that bitch on fire and never go back"

[@aShamelessHigh]

😂😂☠️

[@moonlit6311]

My brother and dad did that too when I was a kid.

[@arriibacon531]

@@aShamelessHigh 😂😂😂😭💀

[@jajimenezfamily]

Talk about a closure ritual!

[@chrismeagain119]

WHEN YOU CAN LAUGH ABOUT IT....YOU GOT CONTROL OF IT - PAT

[@Robertoni7]

So many people just go through too much in life. Many black women go through so much from the time they’re little girls and once they start puberty (which usually happens early) they are rarely seen as a little girls anymore. Abusers come out of woodworks. First-hand experience. Happy Ms. Pat was able to overcome and love in spite of what happened to her.

[@richardwise7813]

What race abuses them:? Is it their own men typically or other men?

[@vinayaksivadas1181]

@@richardwise7813 these kind of things usually happens in poor neighbourhoods, and statistically if you are black you are most likely to be from a poor neighbourhood, in her story, she got molested because she was poor. and she was raped by a black dude obviouly because she lived in a black neighbourhood. i feel like you were tryna make what you thought was a point but its just obvious shit. racism isnt always a white person doing something to a black person, the real world is more complicated that that. the poverty she faced because of which he had to go through that shit was the result of a long history of racism in america.

[@richardwise7813]

@@vinayaksivadas1181 I think I pretty much agree with you.

[@monotonya4506]

@@richardwise7813 their own for sure like most demographics

[@sydneyboyd615]

@@vinayaksivadas1181 spot on.

[@TulsaDriller918]

“When you can laugh about it, you’ve got control of it”.

[@jessicaveylan4265]

This is the most positive comment section I have read, that gives me hope that we can have people tell there stories and nobody is tearing her down like they do for other people. It really speaks to her character. She really gives me hope.

[@tsian7]

This randomly showed up on my feed and now I’m a fan! Appreciate Joe Rogan for having real conversations with ppl from different walks of life!

[@judemiller]

That's a hell of a story, she's an amazing woman to come this far. That's what a survivor looks like, y'all.

[@nataliafranco8348]

I respect her, it’s crazy how you can feel someone’s energy sometimes and I can feel that she’s a good person

[@allhaildrewzavic2838]

I just need Darryls last name. Trust me he'll apologize. Won't be doing much else after but he'll apologize. Put that on everything.

[@anakinsky3576]

ms pat is such a well rounded person who has had the burden of seeing all insights of life but so still can spread such positivity and teach others. one of the top guests in my opinion.

[@Chuck_Deuces]

We need to find Darrell & John and “talk” to them.

[@OMFGITSVIKKI]

She’s so strong for taking her situation and making it into something positive, seriously an inspiration. 💖

[@cooperwhite7325]

I just wanted to hug her bro that’s the most inspirational shit I’ve ever heard she’s a fuckin insanely great person

[@CiGambino]

31 Daryl's disliked this video.

[@divasbraidz]

Right how can anyone who actually listened to this dislike this smh fucking darryls

[@darrylturner7627]

CiGambino 😂😂😂😂😂

[@aronlane4664]

Is this the start of a new insult, like calling someone a Karen , or did it already exist ?

[@kylew.4896]

Probably just some alt right assholes who need to make up a reason to hate her juat because she's black

[@CGKA2020]

@@aronlane4664 The guy that molested her...(her child's father)

[@InnaVitamina777]

I'm teary eyed...sounds like she's been through sooo much. What a powerful woman! Ms Pat, you just melted my heart when you said you were put on this earth because you could handle it and to tell others it was okay . You are a beautiful person!!

[@churchillcoins8519]

Joe and Pat are great together. The way they laugh, talk and exchange is fantastic. The chemistry they have Is superb. This is real stuff, she laughs though it. God bless you Ms Pat.

[@blacklea20]

I love listening to everything this gorgeous woman says! What a real down to earth voice of reason and looking at life in the cold hard light of day. What a powerful presence you have Ms Pat. You’re amazing.

[@jorgerodriguez1796]

I was looking into your podcast for DMT talk and my god, this woman made my depression go away 😂😂😂😂😂 her strength is admiring

[@riom.6091]

So you don’t have depression...

[@NW_Blessed]

She’s amazing. Truly something rare and special. Good show Joe🤙

[@realdealmedia4169]

God bless her, a very strong women.

[@AhmedAli-bh4xb]

MD MEDIA save your blessings for someone else she’s strong enough on her own!

[@jennifermartinez6102]

Ms. Pat is the epitome of strength. God bless you girl and thank you for putting a smile on so many of our faces!

[@NemeanLion-]

I never heard of this lady before, but she’s a genius. She can make you laugh till your sides split and tell you stories that will captivate everyone’s attention. She needs her own show.

[@justmimee01]

She does lol the Ms pat show bet plus 3 seasons and it’s hilarious

[@allisoncastle]

I don’t know what many of her views are, but no matter what, she is very brave and the type of person I’m inspired by.

[@jbruner17]

Allison Castle word!

[@pickmeup95]

You a politician? Or consider yourself into politics

[@thismothafuckasaid7304]

"What her views are"??!! Can't you just be inspired by that one story w/o having to know what she thinks about the Wall at the border or Transgender bathrooms at Target?!

[@thehonestman2288]

Why are her views important? Dumb comment.

[@amila_]

Allison Castle then why mention it in the first place

[@angelbrynner]

She set the grave on fire to kill the ants. The visual of that will stay with me for Forever.

[@Ps-tc9ko]

Ms Pat I went through some of the same thing, my life was very 50/50, you know it's going to happen but when and how bad this time, you know that 'loved ones' know but they don't protect you. How can a child defend themselves against an adult..I will never forgive my Mother and the others, I've missed funerals of the guilty and I'll miss hers too, she's still with him and sold me out for less than 30 pieces of silver. Ive heard people speak ill of children that dont have a relationship with their parents but would they feel the same. Very judgemental. You are a very brave philosophical lady. Best of luck😊

[@swimmerzo]

her words on overcoming the memories and trauma of a hard life is a lottttt like my grandmother's. she grew up in war torn greece..... her father was hung when she was 5 and her mom sent to a prison camp. her mom came back alcoholic and abusive. she dropped out of school in 6th grade to start working and went lots of time without eating. ms pat reminds me of her with the steel will and emotional strength to look back at total peace with their past. she says "you can be victimized but you decide if you stay a victim" at i feel ms pat shares a similar sentiment. shes an incredible woman to look up to

[@erizoshultz959]

This clip was so up lifting for me. Has given me clarity, made me smile and cry. Such a strong woman. This woman is my new role model.

[@TheSingingGardener]

I’ve never heard of this amazing woman before but now I can’t stop watching any videos with her in it! What an AMAZING and INSPIRATIONAL human being she is ❤️

[@rachelr3230]

Same! I'm a fan!

[@sharoncohen318]

I love how Joe sits back and lets her talk, and gives her a platform and a broader audience. She definitely deserves it.

[@jed52]

That was incredibly dark, and somehow inspiring at the same time. I feel like a big softy for even thinking I have problems lol

[@maryjoana5954]

Dawg i hate people that think this stuff is hard. Fuck you and your priviledged lives.

[@Sarcasmtomasksadness]

Mary Joana are you okay?

[@riom.6091]

You can have problems even if people have it worse. People always have it worse, there’s people who have it worse than Ms. Pat did. I say this; someone may have broken 10 bones and you’ve only broken 1, they have it worse yes, but your broken arm still hurts.

[@TheKristenMC]

I went from being so extraordinary to being depressed and fearful/shy thanks to an experience with an ex, her family and her friends, I was talking to everyone about it and nothing helped me as much as Mrs. Pat posture on that 💗 I am so grateful I found this, they never apologize for doing to me such things, so I forgive them 💗 thank you Mrs. Pat 💗

[@whitleygail25]

Her story is so similar to mine...I'm just now getting to the point in my life where I can simply say, "F them!" We know what was done to us and those who took advantage will pay in the end. Her mother's husband may think he got the last word by burying himself next to her mother...but I know he isn't "resting in peace". Keep letting your light shine Ms. Pat ❤❤❤

[@SketchySandy34]

The image of Ms Pat lighting a grave on fire with gasoline is wild😂 I love her. Inspires me to laugh and live more

[@gabriellagelir2027]

That's it, my kids will be enrolled in martial arts/self-defense classes to defend themselves from the daryl's of the world. They might be tiny but they can break a nose or a jaw, bust an ear drum etc etc. Mandatory martial arts/ self-defense up until college. I'm not takin' chances.

[@ZTrueBlueS3]

Gabriella Ruiz do it!

[@sir.bendover3299]

Yes, makes sure it's some form of MMA tho, karate ain't good for practical self defense. Also, consider that a lot of high schools have wrestling programs, so there's some additional grappling skills for free

[@missouribushwhacker9449]

She said she was looking for love... With the first guy... At 12 years old

[@serenity2655]

Watch out for the instructors!!

[@nope5003]

Mrs. Pat! Your story is helping many people who have experienced being abused. You remind people that there is such thing as coming out on top when others let you down. It is important we are reminded that we are survivors we are strong and we are not to carry around shame. An abuser wants victims down in themselves because it helps them continue destroying others. I love your message of thriving despite being through life experiences that most couldn’t handle. May we all remember that we do not ever have to repeat the situation we experienced. May we help each other and encourage us all to be better people. Do not allow our souls to be overtaken by the evils of others! We thrive💕

[@manashdhar9846]

This is who Marvel needs to cast as Captain Marvel , a real hero

[@2323Linz]

Just ran across this interview today. And what an important message. Her best retribution to those who defiled and abused her, is being exactly who she is! Mrs. Pat, you are for sure here for a wonderful purpose. Your light is so bright. Not one person would be able to dim that. This lesson helped heal a bit of the pain in my heart today. Thanks for the laughs, the vulnerability, and the inspiration. ❤️☮️

[@astralfluxaf]

Wow I just started crying. Ms. Pat is sooo inspiring and comforting! She’s truly amazing 🖤

[@anonymouse7773]

I honestly wasn’t sure whether to laugh or cry when I watched this...even when she smiles about it, you can see it’s a pained smile. But her story is truly one of inspiration❤️

[@AntonioLiberato08]

Wise Soul - pay attention it’s free:) ❤️🙏🏼

[@benicedarnit]

What a truly incredible woman. Wow I can’t believe people are this damn resilient and she’s still wonderful to be around

[@vincygarifuna]

Ms Pat much love and blessings from the Uk 🇬🇧. Your strength of character is amazing. I can relate to a lot of what you say,

[@mayte_j4008]

I love u Ms. Pat this is like the best inspirational selfhelp talk 'cause she makes u laugh about it. Its perfect!

[@Food4thought1234]

So glad she figured it out. I keep trying to tell others forgiveness is for you. The more you refuse to forgive someone the more that person wins. You don't even have to tell them. Just do it for yourself.

[@laurenbareilles1157]

Her power is unstoppable and I’m so grateful to have listened to her strength. Incredible person!

[@mississippimud7046]

This woman has strength that can not be measured ! I wish her peace and love .😚

[@thehypequeeng7690]

She’s the only person so far that I’ve seen that has joe cracking TF up with great story telling

[@NoDumbBlondeHere]

Ms. Pat has such a dope soul 💜 she took the things that should have broken her and used them as stepping stones to a better life and a higher purpose

[@agskater1914]

Amazing story of forgiveness and strength. Thank you Joe and Ms. Pat

[@inorganicproduce]

I have wanted my abusive father to apologize to me and my family, but this talk put me straight. He won’t do it, and I really need to forgive him - which I thought I did but never really did. Thanks for posting this.

[@j.demarco8937]

This woman just said she was Chosen to Survive. Holy fucking shit.

[@umaberry]

Ms Pat has been all that!!!! Always so impress with the diversity you have on this show.🙏🏿

[@BrianMax]

She learned that forgiveness isn't for the person who wronged you, it's so you can get past the shit they laid on you.

[@rosaazul88]

This got to me on so many levels! I been through the same thing but with cousins. It was hard especially with people blaming me but I got through this. And now I protect my kids like crazy as much as I can.

[@streetglidehd6888]

Ms. Pat, listening to your story gave me strength. With all respect i just want to thank you.

[@MarkArandjus]

It's true. My grandmother told me this how for years she frustrated over what a controlling horrible person my great grandmother was to her. But then one day she decided to just forgive her and moved on, she said it made things better to just let all that baggage go, even tough her mother didn't perhaps deserve forgiveness my grandmother needed the peace of mind. So what was said in the video really is true.

[@TeaLeaf222]

OMG the comment brought me to tears. She is so strong and I'm grateful for her share. I remember being really curvy at a young age and having grown men make sick comments to me. Blessings to Ms Pat. She reminds me of the women from the hair salon my mom would go to, just talking and having a good time. ❤

[@julz9378]

the Man who molested her was not sorry that’s why he didn’t say he was sorry. He showed his sickness with his answer

[@willardjoee]

She is someone people tell stories about. Strong. Beautiful. Legend.

[@nadda698]

This made me cry damnn, this is actually a good philosophy to live life.

[@Gerolinger]

„I can’t change the past, but let’s laugh together today“ what a wonderful quote

[@Innovationlu]

Joe thank you for bringing the beautiful soul to my attention

[@rickjames4786]

First time hearing of this woman and I LOVE her... Joe Rogan much respect for having her on your show

[@MrNiceGuy2323]

Forgiveness is the only way to break certain cycles of evil.

[@pokyme]

some people cry , rage , resent due to trauma. She chooses to laugh. bless her heart

[@carolinedaly7386]

This women is a SOLDIER ✊✊❤❤

[@pungkutspapowinisumpuvtuku195]

Such a powerful woman. With her mentality, nothing is impossible to overcome

[@Warn_A_Brotha]

I was molested @ 8 years old for a couple years... never got pregnant tho...i blamed my family too because he was a drunk and harassed all of us and my family didn't do anything about it... she's a very strong woman, i appreciate this episode. Made me feel alil better about forgiveness

[@tpatt3511]

Can't help but love her and her story. These are the type of people who need extra blessings because they have been through so much.

[@solidkingcobra]

she is just a lovely lady.

[@fantase.a114]

idk why but this lady makes me feel safe when she speaks, i bet her kids feel so secure having a mother like this ❤

[@HalIOfFamer]

How can she make me sad, proud and laughing my ass off in the same sentence should be a nobel price award for that.

[@dannygogan2117]

Bless this woman.

[@tammarah.7165]

Ms Pat is one of my favorite!! She is the kind of person you want in your family or as a good friend, especially when you feel down. So glad she became such a strong and hilarious person thru her tragic journey. She is exceptional and beautiful!!!

[@maddiedogg939]

I saw her on this not happening. best damned female comedian and according to this pod cast, person. just love the shit out of her.

[@youngarnold4]

She seems really cool. Real down to earth and she seems like the type of person that would bend over backwards to help someone even though they didn't have to.