Bretman Rock Gets Emotional While Confronting Past Traumas | Ep. 3 | MTV's Following Season 2

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[@Nobody-kp9ri]

This guy should be taking out back an shot immediately lmao 😂😂

[@handleisGG]

I feel like princess needs EMOTIONAL support in general, but couldn't articulate that. I am glad they have one another though that's definitely a good thing ❤

[@exaltationofthecaveoracles6176]

Miss K is dope af. She's like a freaking Guru. Her advice is so sound. They're so lucky to have her in their lives.

[@aerielcoats]

Who is Miss K to them?

[@smileyjazy]

@@aerielcoats Their cousin

[@ahxel8173]

yeah. at first, i was like princess, i don't understand what miss k was getting to. but when she said, what if bretman is not there to "water" or support her, is she just going to not "water" or support herself? i was like "there, she said it. she said what needed to said. what needed to be heard"

[@byeonghyeonmusic]

I need a friend like Miss K in my life

[@AXVVX]

She looks so good!

[@chelzeaaa]

“I’m happily taken” “Oh periodttt that’s all we need to know”😂😂😂

[@KaiTheBoujieSportsBrat]

I was screaming 😭

[@voila1016]

IM DEAAAAD 😂😂😂💀

[@snareyshot2879]

I SCRUMT😂

[@loveyoukimy1]

I loved that part

[@xXGracXx]

🤣🤣🤣👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@harenromerofuentes8901]

I love how Ms Kay really is happier with herself, how she really fought her depression and her self to become a better person for herself it’s really inspiring to see 💛

[@mommyissue]

She's glowing more then everrr

[@chrisavenport6456]

I'm sorry but Kieffer needs her own show. She truly is a personality and she really is the moment.

[@skypie5374]

Literally! We love her

[@maeganleelimsantera6580]

whats herr instaa

[@327outkast]

Purrrr

[@ainzalvarez8446]

Im happy that shes smiling alot after she got her teeth fixed🥰more confidence

[@simonesherron7921]

"Keeping a promise to yourself increases your self worth" - just what I needed to hear

[@lenale9612]

Me too

[@TheHilaryous1]

@wnnalis cioov that was the therapist, not Keifer.

[@paulinapelaez4604]

We need a Netflix special bc these episodes AREN’T long enough 😫

[@TheLunarLex]

Literally this

[@racel99]

ikr! i hope this continues too.. if the Kardashians can do it, so can they 😭

[@judfrancisco5921]

Exactlyyyyt

[@chaotic1223]

Honestly yesssss

[@Ariesstar29]

Yesss

[@pg5180]

It’s crazy bretman and princess are examples of what happens when you grow up with emotionally unavailable parents. You either become hyper independent and don’t allow yourself to show emotion to protect yourself or you become co dependent and need constant reassurance. At least they are going to therapy and taking steps to heal generational trauma.

[@channtalmorales8316]

OMG! I’ve never knew how to put into words what I feel about myself 🤯 thank you for sharing!

[@nicholassookdeo9441]

This is the one

[@Maddienmk]

This!! I never want to be like my mom sorry to say, I love my mom but she always depended on men and other people, I’m 13 and already wanting to work and already doing babysitting. I always want to be okay by myself. I don’t want to not be okay if this “somebody” leaves. I don’t want my happiness to rely on anyone but God. And yea I get awkward when I talk about my feelings.. I’m like okay… but I don’t mind comforting someone else.

[@Jillydisco]

@@Maddienmk good on ur girlie❤️🥰 I’m nearly 30 and still working at it!

[@Maddienmk]

@@Jillydisco I pray you have the strength to get through it!

[@anakenway]

I would literally spend a whole day with miss Kay. I’m pretty sure she would cure all my insecurities and make me love myself in 24 hours. She is AMAZING. What a pure soul.

[@ajlinasaljunovic5081]

i love miss kay so much

[@rbh0107]

Right, I need a friend like her😭😭

[@janb.7760]

Yeah I would talk to her

[@sargewilliams252]

Everyone needs a miss kay in there lives

[@MJ-wc1gm]

Personally, i feel like what Princess tries to tell Bretman flies over his head quite a bit. Bretman does support and provide for the family through his work and efforts but I think what Princess is asking for is emotional support. She needs someone to believe in her and encourage her. Bretman cannot support her in that field because he needs to see results, but Princess can’t show results if she doesn’t have that foundation of support, this this cycle. Although, Bretman’s form of encouragement is telling her what to do, Princess’ form of encouragement is words of affirmation. It seems like a lot of things Princess talks about goes against what Bretman thinks towards himself, thus them constantly not seeing eye to eye, and it seems like there is a lot of miscommunication happening. I hope this gets resolved in a future episode, but this was my take on the matter.

[@dumplings0018]

I agree with this. It seemed that they have a different definition of support. I feel like it would clear some misunderstandings if Princess could show appreciation and acknowledge all Bret's efforts and support that he's been giving, because that's where Bretman felt uncredited for. Although like what you mentioned, it is emotional support that Princess is asking and that's a different issue. I think it's a bit challenging for them to actually meet halfway because of their dynamics and the way they communicate as well. Like how they don't usually say I love you to each other 'cause they weren't used to that growing up. Also like when Bret perceived her comment about his toe as dissing when, in my opinion, she's just kidding around. Tho it seems normal for them to diss each other as a joke, like whenever Bret would ask Princess why she built like that and stuff, we all know he's just trying to annoy her lmao, but even with those comments even Princess gets hurt. They diss each other for fun and ends up really getting annoyed with each other. There's definitely a lot of layers to unpack and work on.

[@kenia7771]

Agreed, there was a brief mention about love languages in one of the previous episodes and I feel like that would give them both the clarity and understanding to know what each other needs.

[@kane3383]

@@dumplings0018 but in order to get that emotional support from Bretman, she also needs to understand that sometimes - girl, people have moments where all they want is to be alone and grow alone .. she needs to understand that and respect that area and use that moment to grow for herself as well. Ms Kay said it perfectly that they can still grow together despite being apart and that is what scares Princess. she feels like if they grow alone then they grow apart to which I can understand can stem from her parents being away from each other and growing apart

[@brocco_iee7263]

She didn't even tried to swim, even when encouraged.

[@PilotEarhart]

Bretman is dealing with childhood trauma as well. He can't take care of Princess and her kids all the time. Bretman has his own wounds and he also needs to live his life.

[@Yaya.89]

Keifer is a blessing and an amazing balance to both of their lives (Princess and Bret.) She is kind with her words but still will tell you what is on her mind and give honest advice.

[@WinterStones]

she's the best of both worlds

[@MC32595]

for sure I don’t think they realize how important she is

[@lainyverse]

I really love how Kieffer put it that way! “What if he’s (Bretman) not there to water you? You will have to water yourself (to grow.)”

[@jonathanorta8815]

yeah i loved that she said that.

[@pikabiga]

Honestly that hit my heart too. She’s got really good insight

[@heyyyTG]

This season is giving everyone a free therapy session. I feel like every episode gives off realization and learning- making everyone better one episode at a time.

[@cleahjoy]

I love you, Thet. 💕

[@idk_streaming7464]

I love Miss K’s approach to sensitive conversations. She asked “Can I be honest?” before she laid down the truth so princess can understand Bretman. She is so patient with trying to explain things to Princess.

[@mommyissue]

Ikr I love her

[@3xplore875]

Can I just say This season is SOO much better than last season already and we’re only on ep 3?! Loving Brett Miss K Princess everyone in this so much self growth!!

[@hopewallis8053]

Miss K really makes me want to cry every time I see her bc I love her so much. She’s one of those people I hope all of her dreams come true bc she seems so pure

[@Sxmie.n]

Bretman having to go through that trauma of exposing his dad to his mom so innocently.. is something I would think about everyday of my life just like he did and I also would feel like it’s my fault for certain things.. I feel so bad for him. You can tell it really stuck to him.

[@dsr.w]

I love that Bret is surrounded by good people. Even his manager is there for him as a person first rather than just business.

[@AlexciaWHY]

So glad Bretman got to talk about what he went through. That’s so much to carry. Poor baby.

[@x3Stoopid]

Miss Kay’s glow up is REAL! 🙌🙌 Also, Bretman is such a good brother. Sometimes it’s hard to show these emotions, but LOVE that if he’s eating; his family’s eating, PERIOD! ♥️

[@creamcheez87]

Shout out to the therapist for speaking in a way Bretman would feel comfortable with, “Bitch you need boundaries” 💀❤️

[@fatimamebarki4599]

Still can’t believe that Bretman came this far. I remember when his content first showed up on my IG page and I was only like 15 years old and I was stunned at his confidence and funny ass content. I’m already 20 now, so 5 years later and here we are now. I’m so happy for him and he just always been real and I just love that about him. It’s also soo crazy to see his sisters daughter grow up because I also remember the time when she was born and Bretman was just in love with her and it was just the cutest thing ever. Bretman is the definition of a hustler and got it all alone.

[@Tranquilbutterfly28]

Bret is also probably feeling pressure of being a father figure for princess and now her kids. It was heartbreaking to hear Princess say "where else am I going to hear I love you from" back in episode 1 I cried along with her. She wants emotional support and Bretman is just emotionally drained from maintaining his own career/life. What Ms.K is said is actually deep "You have to water yourself. Sometimes others can't hold the weight of helping others to evolve why also trying to evolve themselves. This is where the self love and care comes in, and is why it's soooooo important. You have to take care of yourself in some chapters of your life so that you may help others eventually. This season shows how generous Bret is, and shows how loving Princess can be. I really like the theme of this season.

[@patyd7463]

Omg this episode made me cry and the hurt he has been carrying 😞 he doesn't nor did he deserve to carry that burden on him but glad he is finally speaking up ❤️

[@ozi1578]

Ikr literally it WAS NEVER HIS FAULT !!!

[@annakhan7046]

I think from Bretmans perspective he has done everything he has set out to do and continues to, for him he has worked hard and never forgotten his family. I don’t think he disregards his sisters role as a mother and sister but the fact that everything that she has wanted to do he has been there for and probably hasn’t seen her motivate herself as much as he wanted her to. At least he is honest when he says he isn’t proud of her, he’s not saying he isn’t proud of her as a mother but in fact the goals she has set for herself she hasn’t achieved.

[@itsjustali2104]

I think he doesnt take into account her being a single mother is its own job and he just wants her to go about things the way he does and their two different ppl.

[@TheDeathframe]

He expects things from her and that speaks for itself. He is so kind to others as well but yet when it comes to princess he finds that he can’t bring up that same kindness he shows to others. He really should be able to be proud she just exists. But he can’t be because he c somehow thinks it’s alright to just expect more from her… as if he’s her parent.

[@TheDeathframe]

He’s been there for her but why? It seems like he is saying he’s been there for her because he wants her to accomplish certain things etc but why isn’t he okay with just being there for her because he loves her or something like c that. It’s like live princess has to do something big or become something big in order to justify Brettman investing his time in her. But princess is it a project or a unfinished outcome, she’s princess and she’s just going through the motions of life just like anyone else. I find it really childish that Bretmen can’t see that. It seems he’s out of touch with the reality that just about a majority of us can find ourselves in the same shoes as princess: just trying to balance finding ourselves, realizing our goals, and balancing what’s before us in this thing called life. He lacks the patience for her but yet on the internet or how he holds himself for others and in front of others it is entirely different. You shouldn’t treat those you love like this and tbh it must hurt princess a ton

[@dalatuy104]

Keiffer is such a blessing to them all. Such a beautiful person inside and out. Someone u can depend on to tell u how it is straight up but also have that level of emotional understanding to keep them grounded. She's been the brightest star in their galaxy and u can see how much she cares for them both. I would love a friend like her because of her empathy and grounded demeanor. She's worked so hard for herself and I'm glad she's able to give the same advice she took for herself in becoming this beautiful butterfly. If anything, I'd be disappointed in upsetting her after all the trials and tribulations she's had to face and coming out of it with high hopes for herself and still think so much of others going through that as well. Bless her soul 💜

[@tinatot1175]

Bretman has gone through a lot at such a young age. The trauma that was instilled in him is heartbreaking. I do hope that he realized that it’s not his fault. All things happen for a reason and I wish he'd find the peace of mind he deserves, as well as come to terms with Princess. Family is love.

[@tinatot1175]

@alida flus glad that ms k is there to support and understands him

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

Nope not every single thing happens for a reason

[@tinatot1175]

@@joshuabuchanan1141 respecting your opinion

[@Phoebe2k]

Miss Kay: "are you single, married, in a relationship?" Instructor: "I am happily taken" Miss Kay: "oh period let's go" Princess: "that's all we need to know"

[@debycarreto7659]

I laughed so loud when they walked away😭💀

[@oclover8994]

@@debycarreto7659 Same with their floaties and all!!! 🤣

[@paajRose]

"I feel like I don't want to work on my relationship with my sister but at the same time, I don't want to leave her in the dust, too." That explains a lot of relationships right now, whether it's marital or sibling, etc. We hold ourselves accountable for others, especially for the ones we love and that's why in Princess's case, she is dependent on Bret. I hope she learns to go out of her comfort zone and be her own person. Love Bret to the moon and back bc he is MY VIBE - always the one holding it down for the family and friends. Take a break girrrrl and do not feel bad about it bc you'll come back stronger than ever! ❤

[@sahravelasquez9632]

Probably my favorite KZbin comment ever. Very well said! I could relate to this and Bret. It’s very hard to let go & set that boundary for yourself.

[@latreaseollie1733]

Hi

[@AlexciaWHY]

Exactly! You have to let people do things on their own so they can learn how to stand strong 💪🏾

[@sarac444]

I love what the therapist said about when you make a promise to yourself that ur gonna do something and you follow through with it your self respect grows that's sound advice

[@V.aldete]

Yess like the therapist said IT NEVER YOUR FAULT It’s your dads fault.. I’m proud of you Bret ❤

[@thebasicsofbasic8117]

The very fact that what happened to their family actually happened to Princess is honestly cutting my heart to pieces. They dont need boundaries, they need each other, their the only ones who could understand their pains. You can't be given a burden that you can't handle. You can always overcome them and you'll see that it makes you stronger after.

[@GhailTV]

This had me in tears.. so proud of Bret for opening up. It’s very tough, especially in Filipino culture to let your guard down and show vulnerability. #selflove

[@nialeim.5348]

it was love at first sight with that swimming instructor until he told them he was happily taken they quickly moved on 😂😂💅🏻 AS THEY SHOULD , we don’t do messssyyyyy.

[@ku9145]

Right? Very respectful of them to move on

[@princessgoals212]

Okay but can we take a moment to Hype up Miss K !!!! I love how she’s always so positive! She is the moment💅🏽

[@_HiKai]

I’m so glad he said no to flying to LA for x minutes. It shows how he’s setting boundaries and working in his goals. In addition, space is sometimes a good thing, just make sure it’s not too long that you start to isolate yourself. Love this show! ❤️

[@ashutoshsinghe]

NGL but miss Kay really be glowing more and more and more and she be shining in the confessionals

[@ashutoshsinghe]

Honestly talking to miss Kay is kinda therapy too ..I mean the question she asks is kinda intriguing and deep

[@peterpansplayground]

Miss Kay looks even MORE fabulous this season! Love her! Love them all! :D I miss Larray too!

[@yellow0518]

Regardless of being harsh and critical at times, I see a very humble Bretman. Despite his successes, he remains very grateful for his blessings. He's never forgotten how Princess was instrumental to his successful career. He always acknowledges his sister's contribution even though he also worked hard for where he is now. Bretman is a very generous, thoughtful, and considerate son, sibling, and friend. God bless him. I hope he stays grounded and keeps himself away from social media drama.

[@ln7989]

I genuinely don’t understand the argument at the beach. Seems like Bretman over reacted majorly because I thought princess was just joking around like he does 24/7. He says don’t say anything at all if it’s not nice but he’s constantly saying things to her like “why are you built like that” Like I don’t get it. It’s almost like you just don’t know when he’s gonna take something sensitively or not and that’s probably hard to navigate for his sister

[@sarasaved]

exactly like she was just joking so if he want to match her energy he should make a joke also

[@cassiopeia__]

I definitely see your point here.

[@eryldljn]

That's the point their relationship is broken every lil thing might trigger even the most nonsense thing.

[@ln7989]

@@eryldljn I mean duh that’s the point of therapy. But my point is that this behavior is not something that is acknowledged by bretman or princess or the therapist or frankly anyone that knows them. Instead it’s almost always princess doing something “wrong” so he stops talking to her for months when in reality it’s bretman overreacting

[@LiriBrightstar]

Remember the beach scene was after when Princess told Brett that he doesn't support her enough. That leaves a mark, especially for Brett who has done his best to support his family. I think at that point Brett was just mad at anything Princess does that annoys him.

[@chella.mp3]

I can understand where Brett is coming from. Same situation, different circumstances. As someone who is the main bread winner of the family with an older sister who is co-dependant on me, the little sister, to guide her through life and be there to hold her hand all the time can be extremely exhausting and draining. With my sister, she has no drive, never looks at the bigger picture, doesn't learn from her mistakes, and is extremely selfish. I am NOT saying this is how Princess is, but I do understand what it's like to support someone who always gives up when the going gets rough.. even with unconditional support. My sister and I came from an abusive upbringing, but we absorbed those times differently. I was determined to never end up like them, my sister let those memories scar her permanently. I know that it's emotional support that she's looking for from Brett, but honestly, Princess needs to properly heal from her own emotional wounds, love herself more, and work on her confidence. Write all her dreams and ambitions down, create realistic goals around them, and work out a schedule for herself to achieve what she wants in her own time, no rush. I can see that she masks her pain. She needs real friends who will ground her and love her unconditionally. And Brett can't help but match her energy every time it's up because it's an issues that's gone on longer than they anticipated and he has no time. Keifer is a real one. A true gem. A beautiful soul, and that's the type of energy Brett wished Princess had and was. Free spirited, comfortable in her own skin, unafraid to speak her mind while being considerate of their feelings, down to earth and authentic. Brett and Keifer balance each other out really well, she humbles Brett and keeps him grounded. Princess needs her Keifer, and it isn't Brett.

[@molly5314]

THISSS!!!!!💯

[@ariescai]

She needs to work on herself more than bret.

[@giveyograndpaahug3153]

Thiiisssss!!

[@JGat19]

I’m glad they talked about Keiffer’s glow up! When i saw her in this episode, my jaw dropped!

[@jepsea]

"You're not just gonna water yourself?" I felt that. Take care of yourself!

[@mochi-oo7bd]

Keifer is 100% right though, if you have been watching bretman for years you can visually see how hard he works as an influencer. when you’re so busy that you can barely make the amount of time you want for yourself especially when you still have inner healing to do, it becomes difficult to focus on healing friendships and relationships. And i think she has a hard time understanding that she is a little too codependent on him. & Its not that bretman does not love her, hes supported her in so many ways on camera and i can only imagine what hes done for her off camera. I know how important it must be to hear someone close to you actually say the words “i love you”, but bretmans actions are just louder than words. & although their relationship could use some work. the reality is, you can’t force everyone to love you the way you want to be loved. They are going to love you the best way they can and its up to you to accept it or not. I feel like this acceptance could really bring them together. To not set so many unrealistic expectations and just understand eachothers love languages. A lot of people struggle with this, i think thats why they won’t admit how princess is wrong in certain ways.

[@staciii]

Bretman compliments Miss K more than his own sister 😂😂😭😭 funny and sad

[@8luediamond747]

He RARELY compliments princess lol smh

[@ryry33ms]

Miss k does a lot for Bretman, lol and he actually sees miss K doing a lot for himself. Bretman likes to see people actual follow thru what they say. So since princess is struggling and just saying “I wanna do this, I wanna do that” Bretman is just waiting for her to actually follow thru one thing lol

[@brendanevarez2024]

@@ryry33ms yes but he pays him that’s his job to do things for him, but princess doesn’t and he still should compliment her and support her they way he does for miss K

[@jarrellidk]

I mean... they've always had that relationship, it goes both ways. Even when they made videos when they were younger they were always going at it. Not to mention thats his cousin vs his sister. Not really anything to be sad about. The only difference being now princess would like to see a more emotionally supportive side of bretman.

[@brendanevarez2024]

@@jarrellidk I honesty only saw Bret being mean to princess first. She never starts it or like gets annoyed with random things he says like he does with her

[@racel99]

their reaction after he said “happily taken” 😂😂😂

[@racel99]

@Joi jellybean i literally died, esp the sound effects right after

[@mirunnue7488]

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[@desseramabadjema3840]

@@mirunnue7488 starting at 10:57

[@1606]

Omg, I never thought, behind Bretman being funny and entertaining, he has a lot of loads that he carries since he was a kid. I am happy he opened it up. It will make him unload a lot of baggage. Hope he will be better after his therapy.

[@Momatwerrrrk]

26:55 why is nobody talking about how supportive and understanding Bretmans Manager is!!!

[@aderasnook]

Yeah…I feel like she made certain point that touched on both Bret and mae

[@jessicac2233]

I cannot wait for episode 3!! So glad Bret got a second season, girl! LOVE this show

[@marcellanacarri]

This is one of the bad toxic traits when it comes to Filipino culture. You'll have a family member who is making it big, then the rest of the family all of a sudden have this entitled expectation for that person to give them hand-outs. Then out of the 99 times that person did for them, all they remember is that 1 time they weren't there to help out.

[@Toniii1422]

no this is so real. I moved to the US in 5th grade and my classmates from 4th grade would message me and ask me for money and im literally living paycheck to paycheck . its wild

[@Roooooooi08]

Agree

[@natashadame4397]

This happens in Indonesia as well :(

[@sashaweasley6141]

that happens everywhere

[@Noneyabusinesshtx]

Keifer is such a beautiful soul, I love how she/they pushes bretman and princess out of their comfort zones for the betterment of themselves… and can we talk about that glow up??? BABBBYYYYY MISS KAY IS GLOWING

[@itseury4012]

Seeing Keifer try and show Princess, Bretmans perspective was very nice to witness because having someone be able to mediate between 2 different people and their different mindsets is very refreshing. Also I loved Bretmans therapy session, it truly showed his vulnerability and it was beautiful seeing him figure out how to feel better about his trauma and ways to heal. I love this season soo much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jesseniamarin4711]

I loved bretman & his sis for the longest time, that therapy Clip with Bret made me respect him so much more, the way they explained his trauma brought me to tears because I couldn’t relate to it more about always feeling disappointed in yourself. But your amazing Bret inside and out!

[@JstvR706]

“I really want my back broken in half” “How’d it go from the beach to that!?” I THOUGHT WE WERE SAYING THINGS WE WANT!😂😂😂. Bretman giving us the content we need!!

[@stephanievillaflor1134]

Princess has to learn that she needs to learn how to grow by herself, because there is a point in life where Bretman won't be there anymore to be on her side 24/7 helping her

[@LeTania2]

I love Ms. keiffer sm she really seems like such a great soul to have in your life, you can see she has such a big heart and is always there for everyone. I hope you have someone like yourself in your life Ms. Keiffer and especially hope you’re happy and well 🤍

[@YouTube]

sibling love

[@haleynic]

hey KZbin

[@Inhalingtoxins]

yuh

[@phieulonguyen]

Miss Kay is that bestie that you need in life!! I love her personality and she’s actually so intelligent. The way that she worked on herself really is inspiring ❤️

[@moralesmaria0108]

13:21 Princess: "I can't do it" Swim instructor: "Just do it 😐" Lmao he was so over it 😂

[@giveyograndpaahug3153]

So truuueeee princess being a princess

[@AngieMahalKitaLa]

Honestly I love love love how they’re touching on mental health this season like this is something that really needs to be talked about more and I really appreciate all of them being so vulnerable it’s really touching and comforting for a lot of people 🥹

[@TheCeeVeezy]

The way those mics didn’t pick up an OUNCE of wind during that therapy session though. Lol

[@UjamesH]

Lmao! 👂

[@TheCeeVeezy]

@@UjamesH lololol

[@lissettedominguez3491]

This episode hits home for me. These past two years I’ve been hustling hard to be where I want to be at the sametime of always putting family first & giving my all with no boundaries.. it’s exhausting trying to build out of a toxic environment. This actually helped me in a way 🫶🏼🤍 I love you !

[@bml1259]

I love that you are showing steps toward your mental health and breaking generation barriers! Thank you Bretman, Princess and Miss Kay!

[@her.ani.]

Bretman is "I'll be honest" kind of person he has is an icon and who wouldn't love him? I'm just honestly sad that they had to go through that and everybody goes through hard times once in their life but no one would understand but it really helps talking to someone so I'm so proud of him and princess

[@teresaavalos4804]

Thank you Bretman for being vulnerable and speaking on work-life balance.

[@chello7262]

I felt Bret opening up about that whole thing about “oh ya we got a maid, dad and her are always kissing” Cause I remember being around 5/6 the same age and my dad asked me how my day went and I told him “we met some guy with a big truck that’s loud” I didn’t know what I was saying and ruining a marriage.. I ask my dad till this day “did you know or did I tell you” he always goes “I had a feeling but you just confirmed it! I’m more mad that your mom took you guys with her to do that”

[@saltandpeppers8788]

Such a loving father, not putting any blame on you and for putting the wrongness of your exposure to things like that first

[@athenahera3273]

Ms. Kay voguing at the pool is a moment! Luv it!

[@sparky3514]

Miss Kay is just like my mom when she says “what, you’re just not gonna water yourself”

[@apriceroks]

I LOVE MISS KAY!!! SHES THE REAL BADDEST!!! She read Princess when she said “what you gonna do if he’s not there to water you?”

[@applecider2855]

Princess wants things but doesn’t do it. Bret has opened up ways but she is still not giving her all. Bret is busy and wants to focus on things on personal level and princess is so young and being a mother is tough ngl but sis break from your comfort zone. I hope she keeps her relationship private and no more kids. She isn’t up for it. Princess do the music, you’ll get better even with time. We want to see you grow , glow, get the bag.

[@jazziesworld103]

That’s easier said then done and especially now with how judgmental society

[@AnneSwiss]

Indeed! Being such a instagramie baddie but in real life is just SMH -.- so annoying which is why I understand Bret situation

[@mleezuni1987]

Because she’s always been a princess lol.. now that she actually has to put in some work she’s struggling, once she get the hang of it then she’ll thrive.

[@HannahxBeee]

I think princess has 4 children in total now and is pregnant with a 5th 😩

[@cadence3141]

Let us protect Drew at all costs. It was truly great that she allowed Bret to put himself first 🥰💕

[@kevinchavez6172]

Bret sister sees him like a father so that separation hurts her without realizing he is her brother not her father

[@lightthedark9725]

Ms Kay is soo deep when they said "he's(bret) is busy watering himself, you(princess) have to water your own self, what if he's not here to water you, what would you do". we really need to be independent and have our own self first above others.

[@sumayaabdihadi7802]

Princess laughing at keifer almost drowning is sending me💀😂

[@ljmarquez4562]

Love how this series shows how uplifting Bretman is to his friends and family, like how he allows Miss Kay to shine and acknowledge how proud he is with miss kays transformation. Bretman is not making the show just about him, we can see the Selfless part of Bretman.

[@jennyfranco7199]

I think the confusion with Bret is he thinks financial and material support is enough. But princess wants emotional support 🤧

[@danielarubio5321]

Exactly!

[@jhianaquipel7288]

I'm proud of you, Princess. For being and breathing. For trying to undo the version of love you saw and settled for by relearning it to set a good example for your kids to grow up to. All the mistakes you've made so far are only lessons, something that you'll learn to cherish forever in your heart as they bring you closer to your true form of what feels right and what feels wrong. Though I may not relate to your story as a mother of two, I'm proud of you for opening up and showing a true side of yourself that only yearns for the validation of the path your choices have driven you. I thank you deeply for staying strong, even without the loud cheers you wish to hear around you. As for your brother, he's extremely self-taught and driven to succeed in his life which will always, in turn, brings blessings to you and your family. You two have been caught in your own fires as children and I do think it is a true struggle for him to be the breadwinner of the family as the spotlight he was blessed with carries more weight than anyone else. Yet, I applaud him for being his own motivation and support, and I hope you look to him as guidance as its own proof, that you, Princess, can do the same too. Though he may not offer the love you wish you could get from him, and often get more remarks and insults by him more than anyone else. He was never taught better and neither were you, but it's a first step to teaching each other kindness even when it's not needed. The most loving moment is to say "thank you" to each other in a room full of silence. Sometimes when it comes to family, the hardest part is doing something you don't want to do but should try to do. Saying "I love you" is hard, but there's always a start. The easiest and most comforting start is with someone who has been standing next to you, receiving the same view as you, knowing that what you see is what they see too, and there's nothing more reassuring to know that a bond like that will always stay aligned when faced with a family that never knew better. I think these two love each other deeply. There's no way they don't despite the things they may say and do. But there comes a time where both weights should be invisible; should it be a second, a minute, and or a day. To see each other for who they are and not what you wish them to be, might be the answer to finding a true bond and love that no one else could ever share with another. All the best to you both, Bretman and Princess. I am in love with you two for sharing your story and I can't wait to see progress in the works. Stay beautiful and forever queens.

[@dexterseptember5787]

Miss K’s glow up is epic, every time shes on the screen i stare. Stunning girl, couldn’t have happened to a nicer person.

[@denisedarcell7124]

I love the convo Ms.K had with Princess and the manager is very considerate.

[@gildacorrea864]

Go Haylin! So happy to see such a professional & healthy description of therapy on television. & go Bret! For being brave & vulnerable with us all ❤️❤️

[@Haylindennisonlcsw]

Thank you, that means so much to me!🤍

[@mormzv.2232]

I’m sorry but not sorry.. yall giving princess too much slack.. yes she is a mother.. but WITH resources. Bretman has provided her with everything plus more.. he basically the father of the children at this point. There’s a HUGE difference between a rich mother and a poor mother. I’m not saying it’s not hard anymore.. but she is definitely blessed because she had NO ONE when she was a teen mom except who.. BRET. So y’all need to calm down Bret has the RIGHT to feel this way.

[@storyhill22]

Singularly the best therapist I have seen on reality tv. - A clinical psychologist

[@turkceasmrkanalm9934]

I love how miss k is happy and enjoying her life .... she deserves it all

[@larocha7264]

I love these three so so much. Each are going through their own inner mind battles, yet they love and care for one another so much it’s beautiful. Keiffer is a gorgeous soul and Princess just wants to be hugged and loved, Bretman just wants to be told he’s doing good. I love them.

[@adelepenguin13]

Bret makes a good point. For families and siblings or partners, it’s always better to have a therapist who is not any individual’s personal therapist

[@mida7777]

This makes me want to speak to a therapist I’m crying watching the convo they had I’m so proud of you Bret ❤

[@christavinson]

I have soooooo much respect for Bretman. He is such a great representation of what a real hard working passionate human is. I wish to be like him one day. I love his personality soo much.

[@MTV]

Catch up on Season 2 from the beginning! kzbin.info/www/bejne/p4nPk3ajosmlbck

[@bellahager6994]

MS KAY THE BEAUTIFUL AND WISE QUEEN

[@YeeHaww]

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[@YeeHaww]

But he with a miss USA or Miss universe or whatever he winning already good for him I was just thirsty for him 😍

[@blackqplaylists6751]

doing my self care while listening to their episodes.. your show encourages me to be more productive for sure. thank you for that

[@gabriellarios1714]

To say I’m proud of how far Bretman has come, would be an understatement. I can’t wait to continue to watch your journey Bret, you are going far places💜

[@p6dro]

can we just appreciate the therapist, we stan her.

[@Haylindennisonlcsw]

Ilysm!

[@p6dro]

@@Haylindennisonlcsw OMG 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@ValeriaRhodes]

I like how we wanted longer episodes and they delivered longer episodes. Thank you to whoever goes through the comment section!

[@SM-bv7wh]

I think one major thing is to stop calling each other bitch. Stop sneak dissing. Start respecting each other.

[@Wanshkl]

I love what Miss K said about watering yourself when noone is there to water you. Cry if needed, to squeeze out the tears that will norture you.

[@greatlife2763]

I feel like Princess is beginning to be toxic. She needs to work with herself, especially her fears. She has a lot of ideas and wanted to do and she even started it but it was not successful because of her fears. She does not need Bretman to boost her confidence and validate her. She needs to accept what her life lies ahead and work for it alone.

[@asiahsyakirin4255]

Yes! It is like shes selfish

[@_.nicaaa]

MTV, we need longer episodes

[@sinx-eq4er]

I adore princess but she does tend to use motherhood as a crotch/excuse. And I get it, shes a mom of two kids at only 21 here (22 now) but realistically speaking she has the resources and two active dads that coparent with her. And if 2 or 3 ppl are telling u that the math ain't mathing, you need to look at what ur doing wrong. Bretman is right, I wouldn't be lying to her either when she hasn't accomplished much of anything. He's not saying she needs to prove herself to him, but more so that she needs to prove herself to herself and at that point he'll be genuinely proud of her. Princess is on stand still just saying "I can't do this", "I'm scared", "I don't wanna grow apart" but honestly doesn't seem to be putting the work besides voicing out HER wants just like her swimming lesson. She literally had a safety net to catch her in case she drowned (the lifeguard=bretman) and she just stopped.

[@ameliaward3708]

True 👏👏👏

[@AwesomeKarma]

Am I the only one that feels like Bretman blew up at the beach for nothing? Like Princess was just playing with him and he took it to heart..

[@lelainerduh]

I would actually watch this. It seems more real and I would like to see them develop and grow throughout the show

[@dailyshananigans]

also bretman thank you for being open and showing that you go to therapy! definitely needs to be normalised in our community and in general 💜🇵🇭

[@bubblesnuggles7727]

thank you Bretman for being vulnerable and sharing your story. This made me cry. Hopefully we can all learn from this that just because someone is successful and happy on the outside, they really carry their own trauma and challenges. Let's all be kind to each other.