Mums Train Kids to Be Gold-Diggers on Tyra Show

www.overgroundo... Tyra Banks speaks to mothers who are training their young daughters to be gold-diggers.

[@michelle2k163]

My old biology teacher got divorced because his wife thought he wasn't making enough money to afford her luxury lifestyle. He won 5.5 million on the jackpot a month later haha.

[@TianaCoats]

+Michelle Smolly Omg! That's amazing. Lol

[@michellesparks7207]

Lol that's awesome,I bet he blew out on strippers and booze 😂

[@paulazamora1930]

+Michelle Smolly lol is that a real story? if it is I'm happy for him n jokes on her!

[@sosmcs]

Why do u know such personal info bout ur teacher lol?

[@onehellofanopinion2313]

+MLG Doge (much 360 noskope) You can't fucking get half of someone's money after you divorce them. Maybe in the process of divorce, but this is after the fact.

[@zennymaq9043]

My mom never told me who to marry, she just said if I want money I should work my butt for it and be independent. Depending on people's money can put me in uncomfortable situations.

[@jackiebao9144]

Ivona Humplot life is too short to be independent and make money for yourself?

[@ivonahumplot8916]

Quelin owo That's the mentality of someone who has a slave soul and very low self esteem. Being independent ups her self esteem. Women being "independent" is the number 2 reason there are so many divorces today and so many screwed up kids. There are many happy marriages out there with women being dependent on their husbands. All these backwards thoughts, principles, morality and crap life will teach you the hard way that it is a waste; usually when you are old. Do what's best for you and the rest is commentary. "Depending on people's money can put me in uncomfortable situations." If you don't use your brain, yes.

[@jackiebao9144]

So u don't want women to be independent.

[@ivonahumplot8916]

Quelin owo I want humans to stop living by other people's standards and outdated beliefs and use their brain while on this rock, which is for a very short time. Humans are more complicated than the masks they wear in society. We are all playing to win and some people will use moral justifications to advance their side. This is a wolf eating wolf world and life is too short to spend it on the silliness. If you don't eat the wolf, the wolf will eat you.

[@jackiebao9144]

k then :/

[@Unintelligentful]

Why don't you teach your daughters to work hard and make their money themselves and became a strong independent human who relies on herself to survive.

[@Unintelligentful]

Whitney Titus I totally disagree with you. I think most men are much more attracted to women with good work ethic and a drive to success than a "I just want a rich man to take care of me" attitude. I'm not saying "I don't need no man" as in a relationship sense. I think most people want love. I mean, they don't need a man to get money etc.

[@Unintelligentful]

Whitney Titus I see your point and I totally understand what you mean. In my opinion to say "I don't want to work, I just want to be a housewife" is extremely inspirational and weak. Yes, I mean that. Why should a woman have to expect something from the man to offer? That's ridiculous. I feel relationships are far more than just "What can you give me?". It's about what you do for each OTHER. NOT just selfish gains. But i feel to grow up, with the sole purpose of your life to give birth and stay at home to raise another bunch of uninspired women is a bad thing.

[@raymondharvey1821]

James So then who's going to take care of her kids? The government? A bunch of strangers? Please, men and women were made for each other. There's nothing wrong with a woman expecting her husband to be financially secure. Yes some are overkill but don't expect the system to just take care of your kids.

[@squenneville1]

+Whitney Titus I think love and relationships are a little more nuanced than that. successful relationships are not about "needing" one another. They're about WANTING one another- and wanting to share your lives.

[@EllaM58]

+Whitney Titus LOL i agree with u tho! if you're too strong u gonna end up on your own.

[@SammyYammy505]

I agree marrying for LOVE, that's the very first thing. But at the same time, that man needs to be FINANCIALLY STABLE. Even while I'm working in my career field being independent, I will not marry someone who does not work, or is always in debt. I mean, is not being a gold digger, is being REALISTIC. Do I want to see myself struggling financially and constantly worrying about not having anything to eat, or my lights being out due to the bills not getting paid, etc.. Money IS important, that's what keeps us alive. Without money we would have no home, no food, no nothing! Would I marry someone just for their money? No, never. My happiness and self worth comes first, but I will not marry someone that isn't financially stable. With that being said, both love and money are important. :)

[@kaywill1850]

Marisol R I agree. Financial stability is important. You don't need to be a millionaire or a billionaire but you do need to have that financial stability. Again, marrying for money is a no go. But marrying someone whom you love and adore AND who is also financially stable is a YES.

[@kaywill1850]

***** I didn't know being black is equated to being materialistic?... I just want to know what is wrong with wanting to marry someone not only whom you love, has respect for you and themselves and has their shit together, but is also financially secure? What is wrong with that?

[@americanmouth15]

Marisol R Right, stability is different from having change to throw. I think this can be easily misinterpreted..

[@americanmouth15]

***** You sound very ignorant and narrow-minded...what about all the women who are independent and financially stable? You can't base the entire female population on your personal group of acquaintances, friends, ex-girlfriends, etc...

[@americanmouth15]

***** Then I categorize you as biased, right-winged and your statement is unjustifiable, so I don't see any worth in your argument :/

[@br7241]

Instead of relying on a man with money, I'd rather make my own money and be successful.

[@KatherineLiburd]

my sentiments

[@princessmenen9064]

Sabrina Ramirez YAAAASSSSS ❤

[@tuberoyful]

😂😂😂

[@bumblebee9918]

Way to go girl

[@gingerellacookie5641]

Preach pull your own weight!

[@Enidrheexx]

I feel sorry for the little boy the women was talking about when he got her little girl a teddy bear and said it looked "cheap" That poor little boy could of been saving up all his pocket money to get her that teddy!!

[@filipealmeida7301]

But at least he will learn his lesson, never spend money on women until you are actually certain you two like each other and she is willing to do the same for you. Most men learn it later on in life (like me for example) so while yes, it hurts at first to realize that being "nice" will only get women to step over you, it teaches you what not to do so you can have meaningful relationships in the future

[@Arizona_lilly]

saved his lunch money . maybe took it from his sister u never know is wrong

[@XxpurplezombiexX]

My mom never gave me the talk about marriage. It's usually just focus on the school and get into a good college. Marriage comes after you get your shot together. These girls are thinking about marriage and money too early.

[@gissellec1559]

I know right! My parents taught me the same. And also my dad was show protective with the "boyfriend issue" he always said I can't date until I'm like 24 but I know that's exaggerated. I'm 16 now and don't really want to date but God it's like pressured on you. The other day my cousin who i haven't seen in 6 years asked me if I had a BF and kept questioning why not and insisted I needed to have a boyfriend. Like hell no I don't.

[@sofiarodriguez6768]

SAME HERE!!!!!! I feel like girls really only look for these things nowadays and I always hear the whole "your so nice and gorgeous why aren't you dating?!" And I'm neither and I don't need a man. I need a good education and happiness. If happiness comes in the form of a man one day I will happily open my arms to him but I will not search for a guy. And it's hard thinking this way at sixteen with cousins and friends all the same age questioning it and pressuring me. But I'll stay strong and keep on the right track and all those little girls should do the same. Get a good education and live life happily.

[@obnoxiousjumper279]

+Metalforlife they are not, their mothers are thinking for them thats the biggest problem...cause their mothers are dumbasses

[@saragallardo5780]

Hell yea💯

[@XxpurplezombiexX]

I find it pretty sad to see how the mothers are putting a damaging mindset for their kids. hopefully their kids will grow up and learn to do shit themselves, realizing that their mother`s are wrong.

[@kysfallen1795]

Someone needs to tell these girls that being the garbage man (for the city) actually pays a truckload XD

[@TheVirtuousWoman31]

exactly

[@toriwalthers9916]

Lmao this made me giggle Bc it's sorta true

[@gogogoat7551]

Exactly what I was thinking! Lol

[@gogogoat7551]

louis tournas well that's fancy

[@Abike1999]

Well, I'd hope to be making a lot more than 60K by the time I'm that age..

[@nabihamoses4511]

How about falling in love with and marrying someone for who they are instead of what they have?

[@TristanNinjaBoy121]

Well. Because divorce.

[@venger]

FlynnYaung My grandparents were married for 60 years. They didn't have money.

[@idkidc8147]

Nabiha Moses yeah captain obvious

[@venger]

Whitney Titus What a load of crap. You do realise that most of the western world is in financial crisis, right? He might have a job, but not a place of his own. Also, what about 'equal rights'? Why should it be a man's sole responsibility to do everything? It's supposed to be a PARTNERSHIP.. 50/50

[@sakurakou2009]

Nabiha Moses sorry Love doesn't put food on table , money does

[@yousafzaikhan8745]

How about teaching them to get a education so they can earn their own money!

[@pbower4378]

The mother that said marry for love said that... To get an ed to make your own money

[@uhegbu]

'You can marry more money in five minutes than you can make in a lifetime'. I feel uncomfortable about this that could lead to more messed up individuals than ever before, financially, emotionally, psychologically, etc.

[@PamelaReyes]

exactly

[@jerenicelouw4174]

I wish I could double like this💯

[@Charis-productions]

Money buys fun, not happiness.

[@nooralahmar9207]

Well said.

[@ROCEMPOWERMENT]

+Charis Productions Love it..that should be a T-shirt

[@themagicalfox6]

yep, nobody only wants to work to only pay bills and nothing else

[@sienna6907]

Fun = Happiness

[@SunshineMeLove]

It buys happiness too, but not the kind that stands the test of time...

[@SevenTailedWolf72]

A cookie can be here today and gone tomorrow 😂

[@anikatommerup2676]

😂

[@jasminebates4514]

Leave me in a room with a cookie and it won't even last a day xD There's a difference between money and cookies

[@chrispham6599]

+Jasmine Bates yeah, you can use more money to buy more cookies!

[@EveClark-gy6li]

SevenTailedWolf72 in my case a cookie can be here now and gone in 3 seconds... and back in 2 days 😂

[@tuberoyful]

+Chris Pham 😂

[@sunsuci]

"Cool stuff like a blackberry"

[@DesminTaylor]

I cringed when she said that.

[@zae73]

WOOO I choked when I heard that lawdness! 😂😂😂

[@laquilamarie8032]

Lmfao

[@yellurbandana]

She meant the fruit, implying that she only eats one blackberry per bunch.

[@zae73]

Mrs. Cliffoconda​ I highly doubt she meant that 😂

[@toriwalthers9916]

Well I ain't saying she a gold digger

[@robstencool3]

+Tori Walthers Now i ain't sayin he a gold nigga but he ain't messing with a broke digger

[@LeDubKitty]

+Tori Walthers Original.

[@cadencesheny5542]

yass lol

[@torilove8130]

Get down girl gone head get down 😂

[@deebry4228]

Tori Love but she ain't messn wit no broke broke🎼🎵🎶 drop da mic🎤

[@hperrio]

"I want her to be independent" by being a parasite. Parenting 101

[@denysedenyse4070]

I know she keeps contradicting herself

[@xheidix1974]

My sister lives in a $2-million home, has access to all the money she could need. Her children from a previous marriage who are 15 and 11 and she doesn't work. She is literally the most miserable person I know. Stability is a good thing but saying money makes a person happy is BS. I live paycheck to paycheck and I have happier in my life than my sister will ever be because my happiness doesn't come from money.

[@Lillllvhackit1289]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@sisis6395]

preach!

[@dooshtoomun]

That's because your sister knows she's a bitch.

[@xheidix1974]

She's been that way for as long as I can remember. It's whatever. She can live her rich miserable life and I'll live my happy poor one.

[@ivonahumplot8916]

***** Sabina, and later you are complaining about money and being unhappy. You and I know very well you are not a happy person. It's just a facade and you know it well, Sabina Karsan. It's all a facade.

[@chloweful]

It's easy to say money doesn't buy happiness when you have shit... Guess what. Money buys less stress. Money buys experiences. Ect ect... It's just easier for the rich.

[@subzfit]

It doesn't buy you love and respect

[@chloweful]

+Slade R. Wilson Neither does being poor. Your point?

[@grantreed9790]

Actually having enough money does give you a certain degree of respect, whether you earned it or not. Really, money buys fleeting happiness, but not long-lasting happiness, that can only come from within.

[@grantreed9790]

Perhaps it would.

[@ajc8815]

Sure it requires money to have memories. But when money blinds you and if you're only after the money to buy material things, you're not able to enjoy life with someone who you love the most.

[@ItsMePhoebe]

Omg I cant believe these mothers encourage their daughters to this, If they want money so bad how about encouraging them to do good in school and work hard and hopefully they'll be the ones making a lot of money instead of wasting their time looking for a rich dude! Plus in my opinion a relationship where the both parties aren't equal doesn't work out in the long run, cause one has more power than the other one!

[@kortneydent1420]

ik fuck feminism

[@maddyk94]

+kortney dent feminism is about what she^ said, not this marrying for money shit

[@kortneydent1420]

The modern feminist is all about using for money basically a "fuck men" kind of organization which is just totally illogical bcus I don't know if many feminist are Christian but that doesn't even fit with Christian values

[@maddyk94]

kortney dent modern feminist here, not at all about the 'fuck men' logic.

[@kortneydent1420]

Majority of feminist tho

[@ashieez24]

In Australia, the garbage man can actually make a lot of money (:

[@evanmcclure4672]

to Australia I shall go😀😁

[@HelloMyNamelsBanana]

soohyunq same in the US

[@bluekeet]

soohyunq to put things into perspective, some police departments in america pay policemen about the same as garbage truckers in union

[@anikat6783]

In Germany too. They make a lot 😯

[@taymay4894]

Same in America. They make hella money the job just "stinks" tho lol😂😂😂

[@AyakKuot]

"has a lot of money, and a BlackBerry" haha

[@michaelgutierrez7975]

yeah when I was 12 my mom married my old stepdad for his money (cause he was in the military and was getting benefits) It was all good in the beginning, new house, new swimming pool, new clothes. But it all went back on her, and sadly cause of her decision it effected my sister and I too. We went from that nice big house, to an apartment that she struggled to keep up working 2 jobs. We lost the apartment, she found a new boyfriend to provide for her then suddenly I was out of the picture. I was 14 and moved in with my dad, he ended up teaching me how to be independent and to provide for myself unlike my mother. Now I'm 17, go to school and work part time. I have money saved up in the account if I ever need anything, because I realized that I would rather have for myself then mooch off of other people's earnings. That's just me though (:

[@catloverfurever00]

sorry that she has not been a better example for you, maybe she grew up being less well off and therefore learn ed to place a greater emphasis on money. keep up your good work

[@liyaah85]

its a shame to talk like that about your mom that brought you to this world, took care of you, provided for you smh.

[@gingerellacookie5641]

You young man, are incredibly responsible and mature more so then some people twice your age. You will go far in life.

[@adriancrevan]

@@liyaah85 It's a shame you think parents are some sort of saints who can aget away with dumb shit just because they're parents.

[@fnyaung]

the children should have been experimented individually, because one child's response will influence the other response.

[@APerson-ok7jv]

ya- especially that age group

[@lujiawang9713]

Let's be honest that money CAN buy happiness, at least to some extent.

[@naylani7790]

I agree

[@naylani7790]

But at the same time I feel like when you marry someone it shouldn't be mainly based on what's in his or her's bank account...

[@lujiawang9713]

+Naylani Rider ya... If you want financial security you should gain it by yourself, and find someone match you... Financially, emotionally and physically;)

[@naylani7790]

+Lujia Wang true dat

[@lovemuppet9300]

Money makes life easier but is not the essence of happiness

[@SarahCrummy]

'Conversate' is not a word.

[@Mari-ci7xs]

it is

[@Mari-ci7xs]

There is no proper term its just a different word for the same meaning; I searched it up in the dictionary.

[@Mari-ci7xs]

That so I searched the meaning and its used alot in actual conversations it seem a little technical tho

[@911ambulancegirl]

+Mariam Arous A lot is actually two words... just a heads up. Sorry total pet peeve of mine... LOL

[@markshanecoetzee7184]

+Mariam Arous its not a word,its converse

[@TheLadyT_93]

Nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone who has money, good job and knowing they will be able to provide for their family, but just wanting that person for their money , man or woman IS wrong.

[@nathanielsnipe1656]

It's beyond wrong. It's GENDER ARROGANCE. It's putting a premium on your self worth. These little girls are being taught that they are intrinsically BETTER than their male counterparts. Usually, it's rooted in narcissim and them (females) BELIEVING that they have the god given right to be catered to BECAUSE they have a vagina. How utterly ARROGANT. Can you imagine one of the little boys dismissing one of the girls because the cookie she gave him was not up to par? Simply unimaginable.

[@TheLadyT_93]

Nathaniel Snipe I think female and males should be equal, but as if that'll happen because this is the type of world we live in. As a female I don't expect to be catered to, I was taught by both my parents to learn to take care of myself before I let anyone do it for me. Now I don't see it as these little girls being taught they are better, its them being taught just because they are female , males are obligated to give them whatever but thats not true, just like females are not obligated to give males whatever they want. This can go both ways

[@nathanielsnipe1656]

Arc San I understand that YOU (Arc San) don’t expect to be catered to but the YOUNG GIRLS in this video ( Mum Trains Kids to Be Gold-Diggers) are being CONDITIONED to think that BEING CATERED TO is some sort of ENTITLEMENT (and this is wrong). It’s usually as a result of FEMALES, I repeat, FEMALES looking into the mirror and falling in love with what they see. These are the beginning stages of becoming a narcissist. Example: I went to a fireworks display on 7/4/14 here in NYC. Most of the spectators were casually dressed (shorts, tee shirts, cut off blouses, sneakers, etc) but there were a few FEMALES that dressed TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE for the fireworks display. They were dressed as if they were attending an UP SCALE gala were people sipped on fine wine bought around on trays by waiters/ waitress. Please look up the name Tiarra Monet on face book to get a EXCELLENT EXAMPLE, as far as the faces, bodies, SHOES, and style of clothing is concern. I saw more than a few females who resemble Tiarra Monet and the VERY SAD part about it was that THEY WERE ALONE. This was probably the result of no one being good enough for them especially in the area of FINANCES. Don’t forget to look up Tiarra Monet on Face Book.

[@TheLadyT_93]

***** I said " good job and knowing they will be able to provide for their family" As in children and the household, being sure they are happy and are taken care of. I know so many people that are together that can't even provide because of poor choices, literally poor choices in life. But its important to marry/be with someone you're actually in love with AND they have actual goals in life to be successful and happy, not to bring you down. I'm not saying marry someone just for a good job or money. Love is important, but love won't pay bills :/

[@utpye6554]

Totally agree. Everyone should work to take care of themselves and be financially independent. And men are suppose to be providers, but these women keep using the term rich. If you meet someone it is either through, school, work, or a social club/organization you are involved in. You either meet the person directly or through mutual friends. So if you don't have the grades or the money to get into that circle of people, how are you going to meet this rich person. Let's just say it is all about money. Is this person wanting to get married or be a playboy (are you willing to deal with someone that is unfaithful) , is he interested in you, does his family have a major say in who he marries, and I am sure there are more things. Also, are you ok with marrying an old guy. They will just be out there doing anything for a dollar bill, if they don't realize that educating yourself is the only key to a productive life and so is working to earn your own living.

[@buhreeze]

"nice house, nice clothes.. blackberry " whhhhaaat lmao the blackberry added on at the end made me laugh hahhahaha

[@laurieepstein453]

this show was literally so good

[@yourtornpictures]

People who say ''money can't buy happiness' have never lived hand to mouth, have never had to beg or ask for money. They've never had to choose between college and helping your parents pay the bills, you've never had to sacrifice trips with your friends or high school rites of passage because you just couldn't afford it. You've never had to choose between paying the bills or eating for that week. If I had money, I know I would be happy. I would have access to higher education, I would have access to healthy food, I wouldn't have to break my back working minimum wage jobs, I wouldn't have to have my mom worry about where the gas is going to come from to take me to my hospital and therapy appointments. I would be able to take trips all over the world and learn and explore cultures. I would be able to give money to those in need and make other people happy. Money can buy happiness. Financial security can buy happiness. You just have to know what to do with it.

[@briancouturier3702]

AGREED! Too many people say money can't buy happiness. Haha!!! This comes from rich people and the main stream media telling you that to keep you in line so they can keep collecting money because of your insecurities. Anyone that thinks that any of the people that have money are unhappy then they need to wake up and stop being in denial. I totally agree with your assessment as well and I quote you on this "You just have to know what to do with it." Too many people do not know what to do with their money!!!

[@ruvimbombeve9437]

Yourtonetures money can't by happynesd trust me it cant

[@patsfactz3169]

weather money buys happiness or not is irrelevant. money is not for happines its for comfortability, power and status happiness is irrelivant

[@tashannon1745]

it may could buy security, but not true happiness....

[@yourtornpictures]

TAShannon1 I'm sorry, but I guess you're not aware of what that actually means? Like, to me Financial Security ALLOWS ME the ABILITY to be happy. If I had the ABILITY to not stress to the point of sickness about bills, food, and my health I KNOW I would be happy because the few times where that didn't happen I was able to de-stress, relax and get better. Like I said before, you just have to know what to do with the money.

[@filipealmeida7301]

To be honest, if a man is beta enough to spend his hard earned money on a woman just "because he likes her" then he deserves to be taken advantage of. Learn how to say no. Tell her to buy you a drink or tell her when the bill comes that you're splitting it and if she starts with the "oh but you're the man blah blah" bullshit, then just get up and leave. We owe them NOTHING. So simple, there are over 3 billion women in this world, i'm pretty sure these men will find cool chicks that aren't leeches, but if you're always giving and giving like a dumbass then I don't blame them for using you at all.

[@filipealmeida7301]

lidia quintana So if I don't want to spend money on you, i'm stingy and cheap. Okay, but if you are not comfortable splitting a bill, what does that make you then? It has nothing to do with the monetary value (Bentley or Sandwich) is what it entails. "Buying affection" is like digging your own hole and it's the quickest way to land yourself in the "friend zone". And ALL (100%) of the alphas that I personally know that are in my social circle "get laid" on a frequent basis without needing to buy a woman's affection just by being INTERESTING MEN. Character is enough to seduce most women. If you are not interested in me because of my personality and presence alone, then i will move on to the next one, simple. It's pointless to try to convince someone to feel attracted to you, which is what all these beta bucks do. "Oh let me take her to a nice 5 star restaurant, so she will see that i'm well off financially and hopefully she will like me back, maybe she will even kiss me in the end of the night!" I honestly do not mind spending money on my girls, but ONLY AFTER they have shown that they are willing to do the same, this is called not being a push over dumb fuck. I treat everyone of my girls, whether its the ones I sleep with or the ones I do not, like good friends. I don't make a distinction between guys/girls when it comes to buying them stuff, or spending money on them, BUT it takes a while to be put into this category. You have to show me that you are willing to treat me nicely as well and that you have to pull your own weight.

[@filipealmeida7301]

Yusiley Sierra First of all, I really don't think you read everything I wrote. Probably just skipped around. I said that the only reason I ask to split bills is when she hasn't proven herself to me, usually when i'm first getting to know her and she means literally nothing, she's just a cute girl that i want to get to know. There is no point in starting off a relationship when you're already leading with your wallet to try to impress her. I am Latino, so yes, I do NOT mind paying for my girls (I don't like old women, doesn't mean they're underage....) but like I said, only after we already like each other for our personalities then I will buy them stuff, but not because they're girls, because I don't mind pleasing my friends. I consider all of them my friends. I don't lie to my girls, as matter of fact, a main point in being alpha is that we never have to lie, I am completely upfront with them, I tell them that I am young and that I am not going to stop seeing/meeting other women because there have been many times that i thought the girl was "THE ONE" and I was backstabbed so until I know for sure she's the girl I want to be with exclusively that's how I choose to live life. If they think it's repulsive, nasty or whatever, they are free to leave and not talk to me anymore, that's completely fine. But guess what? I NEVER LIE TO THEM. They will never "catch me cheating".

[@buhbuhHZR]

Filipe That's the best response I've heard ! And so true

[@Prince-vx8tl]

Well said. My girlfriend is a fox (seriously, heads turn when we go places and people look at us funny because they probably wonder why she's with me lol), but she's also smart, rational, and independently minded. We treat each other to dates. When we go to a movie I'll usually cover the tickets and she'll get the snacks. Some times she'll pay for my drinks and sometimes I'll pay for hers. It's a tit-for-tat thing. Men owe women jack shit, and the same holds true in reverse. And sometimes just to fuck with people, she'll even hold doors open for me in places where we know will be full of people who hold those arcaine beliefs that men should be showering women with money, like in nice restaraunts and where ever else. And for the women who do think like that, they're never going to find a real man with any substance to him... he certainly won't be assertive. And even if they do, that woman will eventually be dropped when the next bombshell comes across that man's path anyway. This isn't a very hard equation to figure out. Be with someone because you legitmately enjoy their company with or without money and everything else will fall into place.

[@calebramsey6217]

***** yeah brus i think America's full of bloody pooftas

[@PineapplesCoconut]

Bottom line a marriage needs both love and money, it can't survive one without the other

[@texascameron8483]

pineapple_coconut 3768 it's possible to live without money it's called faith

[@PineapplesCoconut]

you still need money to survive otherwise your faith alone will lead you to be homeless

[@texascameron8483]

For now money is are currency but it could change

[@LifestylewithAbby]

@@texascameron8483 visit your local grocer, boutique, bill collector and tell them 'I don't have money, but I have faith' see how far that gets you. Let's have faith your home won't go into foreclosure, your lights will remain on, and you will not starve. 😂

[@texascameron8483]

@@LifestylewithAbby Okay but what about the church or the homeless shelter is that not a leap of faith

[@AbiZolanski]

Actually Garbage men get paid quite a bit... lol

[@ama3583]

really like how much?

[@AbiZolanski]

More than a teacher I know that...

[@keyblaemaster]

O.o even in UK?

[@alexia8469]

And they get benefits I've never met a garbage man but hey

[@sadaeuzumaki666]

Fatima Granja they do. my uncle is one and he has a nice house and cars and always go places

[@SagaCrew1]

I love when she said if you marry for money, It'll be karma. It'll come back on you

[@XoXoG]

why can't it be LOVE AND MONEY ???? why do we have to choose? dig for gold and love....shit dont make it so complicated.

[@rayd408]

That woman teaching her kid talk to someone only if he gives something. Kidnappers usually gives something to children before they kidnap them.

[@megastacker727]

AMEN!

[@DemocraticGoddess12]

I wouldn't marry for money, I just don't want to provide for a lazy bum, lucky thing my boyfriend doesn't ask me for money nor do I ask him.

[@gingerellacookie5641]

DeplorableGoddess thats great

[@TheQualityrkc]

This is how a lot of girls are raised. The emphasis tends to be on finding a man who is a good profession like a doctor instead of becoming a doctor themselves. Its the reason why we have so many weak women walking around this country.

[@sharlenahassani2459]

That is very true but you should change that a little bit.. There's a lot of weak PEOPLE walking around in the WORLD...

[@mybeautifuldarknessx]

Yes! If you want something go & get it dont look for someone to do it for you.

[@kimberleygunnings8558]

TheQualityrkc Um... not in my mother's house. She was focused on me going to med school or law school from day one.

[@greencherrybutterfly]

Everyone is missing the real problem here....Tyra's f***king earrings!

[@deepquirks4489]

haha ikr😂😂

[@greencherrybutterfly]

+Ange Ntirandekura Gurll, I'm so serious. kml

[@abwin7917]

vintage from the 90s lol

[@masibandafarry1172]

yu ryt

[@freyamcguire1502]

trust me, its why I clicked on the video

[@throwanitback]

watching in 2016 : "A Blackberry" HAHAHAHAH

[@sosad5501]

if money cant buy happines, then why is it so fabulous

[@lonelyheartsclub3192]

SoSad poPPY

[@oliviavp1080]

lmao

[@Green-nm3ft]

When the little girl said blackberry I could help but laugh aah those were the days

[@golddigger0325]

Why does she keep saying that she wants her daughter to be independent, yet she is teaching her to stay away from "poor" guys. Doesn't that imply that she would be depending on the man for money? Why don't you teach your girl to be the best woman she can be, and get an education so she can make her own money, and than marry someone for love? Just a crazy thought there..

[@golddigger0325]

+golddigger0325 btw I chose my username after a song by LudaCris :P

[@rooslauraalqarni6357]

well she can be independent and with guy with good stage ☺

[@LeDubKitty]

+golddigger0325 I see it like this. When you're cohabiting you need to go half and half on expenses. If I make 5k a month and my husband makes 1.5k odds are we are going to be living in a very small, shitty apartment OR I'm going to be paying for more than just half the expenses. Ideally I want someone on my level so I can afford to pay for nice places to live without having to fully support another human being. So if he isn't willing to work as hard as I did to get on that level why should I be with him? I cannot love someone who chooses to just live off of me. So if I was making good money I would stay away from poor guys, unless they were in school or working on their career. I would probably not get married to them until they were financially secure. For the record, I've been dating a guy for 3 years and started dating him before he even had a job. They have to be working towards something to be taken serious by me.

[@fabiantavares1320]

👍

[@z15503]

little Kim k 's in the making... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 smh...

[@hafsahussein365]

Zhanon Morales 😑

[@princessmenen9064]

Zhanon Morales 😂😂😂😂

[@tuberoyful]

😂😂😂😆😆

[@evermore7212]

I think Eric Cartman said it best: "Chicks dont want to eat pop-tarts for dinner after they get married".

[@onehellofanopinion2313]

I like pop tarts.

[@rocknrollch1ck]

lololol

[@themanwithnoname2595]

Why the hell are these kids talking about getting married already? this is disturbing

[@sangeliastorck8283]

+The man with no name That was expected even centuries ago. Girls would be groomed by their parents to want to be married. To continue the family genetics. Because it was also expected for the gal to have kids while married. But unlike even two hundred years ago. We don't marry our kids off almost after they have gone thru puberty in most cases. Look at Marie Antoinette. She was married by the time she was 14 years old to the future king(at that time) of France. Even younger was Joan of France (who married King Louis XII in 1476 at the age of 12) was promised to the French throne only eight days after she was born. Although there are laws in place throughout the western world to prevent child marriages, there are still many girls under the age of 16 in unofficial cohabiting relationships even in countries such as the USA and UK. The practice of marrying your offspring off while they were young was started due to mortality rates of both mother and offspring. As well as back then, they were considered to be adults due to them going thru puberty in many ways. -------------------------- Thing is, the habit known as 'tradition' is a hard one to get rid of unfortunately in many cases. Because it is something many folks have grown up with.

[@xoceline1050]

The man with no name..its not there fault its the mom that must show them the right way

[@lostintranslation2985]

really you're teaching a 7 year old about this....let them discover themselves first

[@IU_fanboy]

3:07 "nice clothes, nice house, *a blackberry* " wow havent heard that in a long time 💀💀

[@BellicaTV]

7 year olds flirting?

[@mdavid22]

These are the same women that scream equal rights and that women can do anything a man can do. Obviously not if you have to wait for prince charming.

[@RosieBrownie]

^^^^ Truth has been spoken!

[@NerdLady100]

Trust me, those are not the same women.

[@Green-nm3ft]

NerdLady100 so true

[@evolvedtg6799]

Mark David . You had better learn to see, dude. You obviously don't know what's what. You're as dumb and shallow as the women on this show.

[@NerdLady100]

evolvedtg Don't insult, educate.

[@GoldenSparkz]

I also think that money can buy happiness.

[@IsiMahone]

***** it's true

[@GoldenSparkz]

Some of y'all sit here talking bout ''money can't buy happiness'' ... yes it can. Imagine an african kid who lives in poverty EVERYDAY in his/her country. Can't even afford a dollar or two , hell yea money can buy happiness. Get off your high horse.

[@GoldenSparkz]

I'd marry for money. No shame , no game. I honestly don't care. Some of these girls got men working at mc.donalds and as soon as they turn pregant ... THE GUYS DON'T HAVE ANY MONEY. Well not me , I deserve the best. I'm not stooping on down to minium wage salary's. When I grow up , I'm going to contribute to society .. MAKE MONEY and MARRY FOR MONEY. Because at the end of the day MONEY can buy MY HAPPINESS.

[@zayinthesky]

You must be a very emotionally and spiritually empty person.

[@nishukudi2953]

Lina Lin I run a multi-million business. I would love to marry you. But you have to accept, once your face is getting old and bored, I will go to a younger beeeeeiiitch. Thats something attached with money

[@NatalieAuroraS]

I moments like this I thank God for the parents I have.

[@cordycake6705]

I'm glad I have an awesome mom that taught me to be independent

[@yas3450]

I'm so glad my mother taught my sisters and I better. She always taught us to do well in school, and make my own money and never be financially dependent on someone. Today my sister is 6 months away from graduating law school as an attorney, I hope to do the same one day. Thank you ma.

[@angelsilver.]

My mom wants me to marry another Christian, but I say I will marry whoever I love and if he loves me back!

[@gingerellacookie5641]

Mij Beth thats ok too. And you being a christain can possibly influence them. My dad used to be a christain and is now an athiest. But i respect his beliefs.

[@vinishbnair]

Theres nothing wrong in getting married to someone who is financially stable & self sufficient. Money actually CAN buy happiness. Imagine sitting home wihout a job & no source of income. Would you be happy for a day ? The old day adage that "Love" is all that is needed , doesnt hold good at all in today's times. If you have money you can buy stuff you want & live a happy life . Im not against it if parents teach kids to get along with successful, financially stable people. At the same time though, parents must teach their kids the value of hard work & make them stand on their own two feet & teach them the value of money

[@Logan30001]

Interesting point I must admit.

[@Whitby_Abbeys_Ghost]

Well said, sir. I have a sister who married a manipulative leech who did nothing. Wouldn't get a job, and even when he did he refused to keep it for more than three months. At least when a man is financially stable you know he's at least responsible, which is a major plus in a relationship.

[@megastacker727]

Money can buy happiness, I agree, but marrying someone rich doesn't mean they don't work because their husbands have a prestigious income...

[@lilblackfish2009]

Money cant buy love and love dosent pay the bills is a two way street and their both bad pick your poison lol

[@carlosjgm1286]

I agree with you. When you are mentioning about the children, but in this tv show what they want to portray us and the world is? the new sterotypical children and what they want to pursue in a not far future as a new society.

[@mandybrown7146]

I think that Asian mother has watched way too much 'Family Guy' with that whole 'cookie' reference lol.

[@bluebobbyjack]

I thought she was black?

[@uchihaavenger2068]

+Amanda Brown She's black xD

[@fredrechid3754]

She's mixed

[@bluebobbyjack]

ugh i hate men like you but I also hate women like her and 2 wrongs don't make a right

[@ms.williams6009]

Mandy Bodor Asian? What? Shes clearly black. The only Asian thing about her is that cheap wig she brought from the beauty supply store.

[@8Metaphysicist8]

Those girls are so young. Whatever the case, they shouldn't even be thinking about marriage at that age.

[@gingerellacookie5641]

Fire and Wind they should be outside playing.

[@shutee5047]

I can't believe that these kids actually think money can buy happiness that's just pathetic

[@ronniecoleman7647]

But money can buy happiness

[@tan89284]

thats why they're called "kids" durrrrr....

[@ama3583]

***** forever in their debt you mean like a puppet

[@puppieskittens541]

My parents taught me that love is patient & kind, and to always be independent because if you need a rich man or women it's like disrespecting yourself and your worth. I rather Mary a poor guy that loves me for me than a man that loves me for my money.

[@peterashley829]

Proves how some women can't stand on their own two feet despite all the work been done to promote equal rights.

[@mysweetp1ano]

john smith so what if i say that all men cheat. all men are players and can't maintain a relationship without cheating and having more than 1 girl at their side. don't get mad though you can handle the truth to right?

[@mysweetp1ano]

john smith tell me why all girls are insignificant? why do you feel the way you do? what's your evidence?

[@mysweetp1ano]

john smith do men bleed from their crotch every month? do they have to give birth? females can be strong. look at these women and their doing fine on their own. Oprah Winfrey, Tyra banks, and so many more women. one day you are gonna meet the love of your life and she's gonna mean the world to you and your gonna mean the world to her. that's love and women can experience that too.

[@mysweetp1ano]

john smith you do? wow i feel bad for her. but anyway girls don't rely on parents all their lives. are you this sexist around your gf?

[@mysweetp1ano]

john smith do you think women stand on their mom and dad all their life you can't grow up like that! don't you understand no one is exactly the same some people including guys rely on parents others don't. to make a descissoin that a type of person black, white, hispanic, asian, girl or boy, is not only ignorant but stupid.

[@kimikann2090]

Vile

[@5142232093]

'murican values 101

[@lizvill73]

If women can this upfront about their expectations, then men should be looking at women with an economically critical eye, as well. If she's dependent on the state, gets alimony and child support, is in an entry level job, has kids instead of a degree or technical training, she might not be good marriage material. Hey, it goes both ways.

[@dramallama5088]

People who say money can't buy happiness is wrong because you can buy things with money to make you happy

[@puredust5797]

A faithful man, a sweet man, a respectful man, who supports your passions as a woman, an understanding man, a patient man, a provider, All better qualities than simply a man with 💰money

[@moneycultural102]

This is what a gold digger is. When a gold digger finds a man, she doesn't get a man with gold. And the something will happened to those young girls if they're follow they're mother's footsteps.

[@NoraGreen1992]

I used to sound like those little kids when I was young. But as I grow old, I learnt the values about life and real happiness and my attitude towards money/fame have changed. I'm sure those kids will learn something day by day as they grow old. You can't judge a kid thru a videotape on random topic.

[@mollyhatch9558]

a man with money will get up and leave u soo damn fast smh....i hope these young girls grew up and realized life is much more than money!! young black girl had her head on straight, that's right baby

[@edgeof1956]

Money doesn't buy happiness . . . just rents it for a while.

[@태형김-i4u]

My father always told me, find someone who will love you just as much as he loved me, a good education, hard working, and someone who treats you like your the only girl in the world. ☆彡

[@221cherry]

Make your own money with something called.. oh, I don't know, HARD WORK.

[@seb1050]

I am 13, I am scared now. THis is very sad, I am just very shocked that woman will like me just because I have money. 50% marriages fail because of money?! this is madness. WHAT A INHUMAIN WORLD

[@trutenon]

there's 8 billion people on earth and most of it are more females than male, you're seriously gonna judge all women bc of one stupid fucking ghetto ass video?

[@seb1050]

I know, but still.Our society is only growing with cold-blooded ethical principles

[@seb1050]

and btw 107 boys for every 100 girls born is the actuall ratio. ( India?China's fault)

[@derekjetter4039]

+Sebastien Addison: the laws of marriage have made it possible for women to marry men and then take a bunch of money from him after divorce. That doesn't mean women are gold digger but it does mean that gold digging women can easily take advantage of men. Its generally safer to marry a woman that makes as much money as you and doesn't stop working because she meets you.

[@seb1050]

yes, you are right. Thanks for your point

[@flavs9548]

I have people in my family that married for money, won't get into it cause it's personal. However, I learned one crucial thing while it's awesome to have tons of money available to buy whatever you wish.. You will grow to care (maybe not love) the person you married for the money. Eventually that won't be enough because as you age and become more mature, you crave the freedom to fall in love with someone you are truly attracted to, then things fell apart..and in the end you hurt different people in the process including yourself. For me it's always, better have less than a heavy mind full of guilt, which will haunt you for ever. To bad it takes us so long to realize what we really need, by that time we get old. I'm glad someone told me these things while I'm still in my 20's ..sometimes it's hard to make the right choices, but we have to do it ! better for us in the long run.

[@jieognare7936]

I wonder how's these kids now?

[@dilara8]

Why don't you just make your own money? Get educated, get a good job, earn for yourself. Don't take someone else's hard work.

[@ooyo8253]

Just because someone works at a fast food restaurant doesn't mean they don't value a career or having nice things... alot of people come from situations that don't allow them much economic mobility. There's also tons of very smart people who could excel at law, business or medical/dental school but don't have the money to go and don't have access to scholarships or have to drop out of highschool to help their family like I did and then only able to go to a community college or trade program.

[@Ffay011]

Jo Molly thank u

[@gingerellacookie5641]

True and there's also educated poor people don't forget that. People with liberal arts degrees don't make much money.

[@WingsofHeaven322]

Its incredible how much you can see how the kids think by the way their parents have influenced them. How much what they tell their kids has an impact on the way they think

[@RoyalsOGs]

This world is fucked up

[@ama3583]

well go back to Planet Mobius and take me with you

[@GoldenSparkz]

Money can buy my happiness. Point.Blank.Period. Y'all can talk all that ish , but the end of the day I live in the ghetto. Y'all don't know what its like to live in poverty. Theres people out here robbing stores for some $1.50 dollar ramyun. And y'all wanna sit here like '' oh thats so shallow'' ... ''thats a bad reason to get married''. I'm sorry , but if he's nice and he has money. Then I'm going to LEARN how to love him , because money can buy MY happiness.

[@etherealdeal1792]

Fairy Princess amen honey

[@ElleyNesakysiu]

I'd rather be poor, struggling for food and very happy with the man I am, than rich with money and no love.

[@ElleyNesakysiu]

***** Maybe. I think that money come and goes. If you love someone money will never be a problem as you inspire each other and make each other a better person. If you look at people who owns a lot of money they only seem happy to the media, to the people, but inside or when they are away from all attention they are miserable, so why choose miserable rich life when you can have happy and rich life at the same time.

[@KM-rh5ji]

"awww tear - Terele" she a savage 🤣🤣🤣

[@ken45y]

Poor kids will be slapped with the harsh reality once they get out in the real world.

[@F95GHomestead]

My fience does concrete for his family company and works 16 hours a day 6 days a week and loves his job. He went to collage to be an accountent and quit because he wasn't happy working in an office. he works very hard and long hours but it's something he loves to do he's the most sweetest man I have ever met and he still makes good money doing concrete and I'd rather him do that and be happy then work in an office and make a lot of money and come home sad everyday

[@squenneville1]

aaaand that's why I'm teaching my sons to be good judges of character, and to recognize and avoid people who would use them. There is more to a man than his paycheck.

[@chelseytyler88]

7 years with mine. He had jobs, lost jobs, and then had jobs... I was still there- I love him. I will have his back as long as he stays.

[@ericgarvin3292]

God isn't Tyra beautiful....that is a great memory from my childhood, hanging out with my sister and us watching MTV and America's Next Top Model!!!!!!

[@RedTigeru]

A real mom teaches a girl to be a strong women that don't need to depend on anybody. A weak traditional minded mom would teach their girls to marry into money. Disgusting.

[@chrispham6599]

Conversate? Where the fuck is my dictionary?

[@callmethecoolestduckontheb5358]

Chris Pham ppl now in days: goes on google searches up what a dictionary is XD

[@chrispham6599]

That's depressing! That's absolutely fucking depressing!

[@callmethecoolestduckontheb5358]

Chris Pham ik but once I asked a third grader if she knew what a dictionary is and she said what's that

[@kubasotornik9693]

Jujjubee: just say talk ;)

[@GarageStudio7]

*"You can marry more money in 5 minutes than you can make in a lifetime"* Wow that's actually true if there's no prenup etc.

[@candlecane]

9:00 I don't really feel bad for men like this because it is SOOOO easy to tell a gold digger! To say you had no idea is BS. He married her because she was hot and her beauty was more important than her being a gold digger. Her beauty remained but his money didn't. Both are superficial. Simple as that.

[@Alpay__Kara]

She sounds like Nicki minaj😂

[@loveu2956]

I hate that woman... having a great husband and leaving him because she was a gold digger. I wonder what attracted him to her

[@tokyoqueen6738]

The real question is this: WHY are these moms talking to their daughter's about marriage, who to marry and why, when these kids aren't even at the age of even considering a boyfriend? Instead of teaching children to marry someone who has a lot of money, we should be teaching them to grow up to be independent and successful adults. If you're just marrying because the person has a lot of money, than you don't love them as a person, you love what they can give you.

[@liloboy911808]

Teach your daughters to never marry a guy who will put there hands on her. teach your kids to be strong hard Independent Women who don't need a guy with a fat wallet to care for them. Teach your kids that it is ok to marry a guy who at least has a job and knows how to handle money the right way. In other words.. does not spend money on crack, booze, or any stupid junk that leaves you and your family pennyless. But never never marry a guy only just for money.

[@k-lynnzeno-medina9305]

these moms that teach their daughters to marry for money r awful! I agree with the other mom on there teaching her daughter self independence, self worth n self respect!! as a mom I never want my son to grow u relying on his significant other in life to get by, bc well "one day u have the cookie the next u don't!"(I love that analogy) my son is still a baby, he is a ur n a half old but I will always teach him to b independent, to have respect, and know his worth and not let anyone use him for his money 💯 now jumpin to the twit who divorced her husband bc he wasn't rich anymore .... first let me say, that sets an awful example for their daughter! marriage is supposed to bind ppl together until death parts them... hell that's even in classic vows! my husband n I were best friends for a long time, and like her now ex mine helped me financially when I was down, we started dating bc we fell in love, n yeah he's lost his job, had a few since then even n is not working now but awaiting a call from several potential places. we struggle with money n bills sometimes n we go with out things we want but we stick together! we stand by each other n support each other bc that's what husband and wife do!! and want our son to see that, to learn that, that when u marry for love it's stronger then any obstacle. just saying these mfs need a reality check n to get their priorities in line tho fr!!

[@Amy2Pretty]

Money buys happiness, people who say no just haven't found the right store or lifestyle and hobby. Not saying you should be a gold digger but its important to make money and have a partner who does the same. Just my opinion. Love doesn't even exist romantically after 2 years its simply personality partnership.

[@onehellofanopinion2313]

LOOOL. You've never been in love then.

[@haruhisuzumiya6650]

+Taylor Burt he's half right, the threshold is 50K a year. then it has no effect.

[@ems8717]

i'm broke and happy. alot of rich people kill themselve so nah. sure money can give you a better life but it can't make you happy

[@Amy2Pretty]

Jana Roos thats ur point of view

[@Amy2Pretty]

Jana Roos its not a good statement, most rich people don't kill themselves its just a fact. Poor people have a harder life than rich people, therefore are more likely to do crimes and struggle. Money does make you happy, if it doesn't ur doing nothing with it or your anti-social.

[@CherokeeTheLyricist]

"Don't conversate." It was at that moment that Tyra knew all hope was lost 😂😂😂 #TRIBE

[@ThisisBrak]

Women are fantastic and great and SHOULD NOT marry for money. Women should also be educated and hard working. What if their "Rich" husband dies? They need to see their self worth and not do this...

[@sleepy-peepy]

The "social experiment" is so weirdly put together. If you asked most grown women "Would you rather date a man who works on Wallstreet and a man who works at McDonalds?" Most would prefer the former, most women prefer financially stable guys over ones making minimum wage. They should have just started with the second part where they showed one man at a time.

[@CherryStudios2]

I'm very career driven, so I actually wouldn't mind a having a stay-at-home husband to be with the kids lol

[@lahorelanotte]

Why are they assuming that a poorer option means having love, care and spirituality?