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@NateOBrien3 жыл бұрын
Beware of scammers in the comment section impersonating me! I will never solicit you for money or ask you to join some sketchy crypto scheme. I will NEVER randomly give you my phone number, scammers are everywhere :)
@JozeManuLOL3 жыл бұрын
Please don't forget to do the European apps and webs to buy stocks that you mentioned in the stock tutorial video.
@Tree.house4243 жыл бұрын
I always report them. They seem to fo it on a lot of ppl I follow.
@team33833 жыл бұрын
1:34 - Being submissive when 12 other people like a logo and you don't example. I'm sure you mean well Nate, but when you are outspoken by 12 to one its called democracy, not submissive thinking. If you don't agree, nothing will change their decision. You then have to put in balance what YOU gain by telling them that IN YOUR MIND (Subjectively) they have made the wrong decision. If you just say "Oh what the heck", then your decision is simply not to let these people benefit from your better judgement, expertise and to learn from it. Just let THEM dig their hole. Im not going any farther in this video. PS: next look after the beard phase is short or close-cut hair . Experience never fails one ...
@-natmac3 жыл бұрын
@@team3383 but part of democracy would be everyone getting their vote. he’s not saying speaking up in opposition would change 12 other minds, but that you should speak up for your actual choice regardless.
@akshithreddythokala97093 жыл бұрын
Yes we wanna see you traveling in the truck
@sergei65983 жыл бұрын
Hi Nate! You are not *INTJ* for sure! I live in _Switzerland_ in Basel in the area of Carl Jung who developed this theory of personality types. It is great and I was researching it for the last 5 years. However, the way to define the type is not always accurate when you use online questionaries or try to base it on your behaviour (which is very individual). Please get in touch to find out why you are an *INTP* (Mastermind) and what does it really mean (not from behavioural perspective but rather the way your brain processes information). Reliable way to define a type is to analyse semantics (the words) you use in your speech as a representative of information you naturally pay attention to. Another way (yet experimental) is using portable electroencephalograph. It is mind blowing! I am creating a community for people like you and me to be able to find deep and meaningful connections.
@user-uq4wt4gz6e3 жыл бұрын
yes/ i agree / I saw that everyone else thought otherwise
@horseman84673 жыл бұрын
A community for such people is a great idea!
@sergei65983 жыл бұрын
@@horseman8467 thanks)
@gregt1943 жыл бұрын
INTP is not the mastermind, INTJ is the mastermind
@sergei65983 жыл бұрын
@@gregt194 I quoted Wikipedia regarding the nicknames
@senorromantico77233 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Tupac said that Jim Carrey was his favorite actor. While Tupac was in jail, Jim Carrey send letters to make him laugh & smile.
@blueshanks13 жыл бұрын
🧢🧢🧢
@kernostwinsisters62813 жыл бұрын
@@blueshanks1 no cap, thats a fact
@Bbelblelo3 жыл бұрын
thats a very fun fact lol
@IshaSharma113 жыл бұрын
✌✌
@JackDuffley3 жыл бұрын
_"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything."_ - Mark Twain
@rasheemthebestfirstone32743 жыл бұрын
Yep I learned that pretty soon
@lightghost75243 жыл бұрын
*If you tell the truth, blue pill normies will cancel you.*
@Teklad_3 жыл бұрын
Can you explain in detail please
@JackDuffley3 жыл бұрын
@@Teklad_ lying is difficult long term since you have to remember what you lied about in order to avoid being caught easily. If you tell the truth you don't have to do that...
@Itsnoahscott2 жыл бұрын
Wish my older sister could see that.
@ICEcoldJT3 жыл бұрын
If you stress too much about something before it happens, you basically put yourself through it twice. 🙌🏽
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
Soooo true 💯
@coraymcmanus10153 жыл бұрын
Every video i watch you have put a good insightful comment right on dude 👍👍
@DiamondScuff3 жыл бұрын
This is something i've really worked on my self. I think it was a thing i developed in middle school. Terrible terrible mind set. Pretty much torturing yourself. Its a result of living in the future/past. Stay present. Its best place to be:)
@simonevocabulario28853 жыл бұрын
Ma man
@Quickonomics3 жыл бұрын
I always thought groupthink wasn't a real thing... but once I saw that everyone else thought otherwise, I kind of changed my mind.
@JaveriaYousuf3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, I see what you did there.
@melochan3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@pratahbhatt59103 жыл бұрын
Clever
@DuncanCalder3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your humor very good
@RodrigoSantos-xs5kt3 жыл бұрын
The irony
@TheDhammaHub3 жыл бұрын
The sooner you notice the regrets, the earlier you can focus on the things that really matter! Its a mixed blessing
People say never regret anything, but it's actually okay to regret some things in life. It's okay to accept that we were wrong. Life is a journey, we are supposed to learn from the mistakes and fight for a better tomorrow. Stay positive ❤
@cheekymonkeygirl33783 жыл бұрын
Well said. 💕
@kinotime933 жыл бұрын
Will site💖💖💖
@Brent.Hammer3 жыл бұрын
It's silly how much wisdom is inside you, Nate. Thanks for sharing. I'm inspired. 🙏☮️❤️😀💯
@David.Marquez3 жыл бұрын
I love the sheet authenticity of this video, would love if more creators talked about their regrets and mistakes since that's where you learn the most.
@robertotorres34913 жыл бұрын
Just want to say thank you, Nate! Currently 20 years old and you have shared and instilled values into me that people at the end of their lives barely realize. So thank you!
@1x0x3 жыл бұрын
@@michellecd4722 there are just as many introverts as there are extroverts. you only know extroverts because that is who comes up and talks to you.
@NickPeitsch3 жыл бұрын
Nate - I’m a long time subscriber. You’ve definitely evolved for the better over the years. You’re also very mature for your age! Appreciate your wisdom. Learning tons as a 25 year old!
@fdavie23 жыл бұрын
You’re 22 man, most of your life is ahead of you. No regrets 👍
@theranpeek29503 жыл бұрын
How can you tell him that he has nothing to be regretful for? That's like saying he's a black woman
@fdavie23 жыл бұрын
@@theranpeek2950 Learn from mistakes, not regret.
@rasheemthebestfirstone32743 жыл бұрын
I get what your saying I think it’s a matter of word choice he could have said something like things I could do better. I like the title anyway tho💯
@theranpeek29503 жыл бұрын
@@fdavie2 mistakes produce regrets + most regrets come from mistakes that're made habitually & internally
@theranpeek29503 жыл бұрын
@@fdavie2 my point is that you can't tell someone how they should feel and they'll just be like "oh what I didn't think of that?" Same thing w/the black girl example- you can't just tell someone who they are. It's just how things work w/society
@foodmadewithlove3243 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!Nate.😊For sharing!
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
Agreed ❤️
@Dvetkn3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your honesty Nate, wise people learn from people of all ages!
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!
@tusharroy67123 жыл бұрын
1. Not speaking my mind - not being honest e.g. in a meeting with 12 people and they all agree on something. Many people fall into 'group think' where you decide to be submissive and not disagree, even if you did. But maybe not everybody liked the thing but just went with it. Be bold, be honest and speak up even if you think it might get a bad reaction. E.g. 2 Don't focus only on building your friends up - also give constructive help and be honest if you think somebody is doing something right. Don't just tell people what they want to hear. But don't be stupid though, sometimes you should just be nice (e.g. on a date) 2. Don't be too afraid to invest in things you're confident in - only if you've spent time analysing it 3. Losing genuine people - 1 in 20 people will genuinely be interested in you, your wellbeing and care about how you are doing. You'll have lots of shallow friendships where you just enjoy hanging out with them or doing certain activities. Then you'll have some friends who you can go deeper with and who will genuienly support you. Nurture those relationships even if frictions emerge - just phone them and actively keep in touch. Make sure you have genuine people in your life. 4. Avoiding public speaking. People are more scared of public speaking than death. But you shouldn't ever shy away from things because you're scared - lean into the fear and overcome it and you never know what doors it will open. How to get better and calmer with it? If you can have a conversation, you can talk to a group of 5 people. If you can do that, you can talk in front of 10 people. And so on until you get used to having lots of people hear what you have to say. And more importantly, prepare and practise what you want to say. 5. Be authentic to yourself and your personality. You can make larger changes over a long period of time but only small changes in the short-term
@AFGZSKHAN2 жыл бұрын
Oh thanks a lot!😍
@damahom923 жыл бұрын
3:44 “Don’t be Stupid with it” 😂🤣🤷🏽♂️ Made my day. Thanks for the wonderful advice! Appreciate all your videos
@yaelmaimonartist3 жыл бұрын
This is basically why the concept of time travel is so appealing. Getting the opportunity to reverse what "I should have done differently", make a different decision or choice, reverse a so called irreversible mistake or regret in life
To be brutally honest with you Nate, wish you'd upload more
@xpforevergaming86093 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but imo quality over quantity is more important.
@krabbykrabby88183 жыл бұрын
@@xpforevergaming8609 Agreed There's enough KZbinrs who prioritize quantity consistent uploads over great quality uploads.
@xbirdsofparadise3 жыл бұрын
I agree!! Thanks for the confirmation. And being honest can extend to larger things; if someone’s honest with you and tells you you have bigger potential or should follow your dreams or you’re in the wrong career bc it’s clearly making you miserable, or you shouldn’t be with a toxic person in your life, that can lead to bigger positive right choices in your life!!!
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
Totally 💯💯
@PracticalInspiration3 жыл бұрын
Not sharing thoughts is something I think most people struggle with. A shame as people have more value to share than they realise
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I noticed this issue with people a lot in my law school days
@KevinYang3 жыл бұрын
Being able to step back and analyze or break down all these things about yourself is already such a valuable skill!
@Featureman2 жыл бұрын
KZbin is probably the best ever platform for public speaking.If you like something and know how to do it, you will enhoy sharing your expertise, For some it will be auto repair and for others flying a drone over the Grand Canyon. You will gain confidence if you are familiar with the subject. Great advice.
@giovannibonanno8103 жыл бұрын
I love how This guy is so Calm ❤️
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
He’s very grounded! Agreed ✌🏻
@iluvmusic983 жыл бұрын
Hi Nate! I totally agree on the part of genuine friends! A good genuine friend will always be there for you without any second thoughts. you would feel very comfortable sharing your true deep down stories with them. Everyone got an Extrovert and introvert side. For Introverts, they are Extroverts to people they trust more. For Extroverts, likewise. For Extroverts when you are more comfortable with the person you will tend to listen to the person more and provide advice or help. For Introverts, you will share more about yourself to seek advice and opinion. Don't mind people who force you to do things you don't like, be with those that can support you and not sway you! Those are your genuine friends
I can totally relate you to that, Nate. My three regrets is that I focused too much on the internet while I was in school, didn’t talked to people that much and not being able to spend a lot of time with my uncle and grandpa before they passed away in 2018. I once tried to be extrovert few times when I was younger and it didn’t work for me, but now I’m 23 and I’m an introvert which I also get a lot of energy and thoughts for myself. Everybody has regrets. This was an honest video and thanks for sharing 👍
@financeabcs3 жыл бұрын
I identify with this!! Also an introvert here
@paulsargeant32943 жыл бұрын
Hey just seen your video on minimalism, I have adopted that lifestyle so thank you
@sofiadossantos5073 жыл бұрын
Teaching helped me a lot on speaking in public! learning some technical for sure helps as believing that you have something that your audience truly wants!! I´m an extrovert and sometimes I have to correct myself on stepping back which is very important as well ! You have great content !!
@rodrigobalestrini80053 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video, lots of great knowledge!
@c.m.3032 жыл бұрын
It usually takes people into their 50's to realize it is just better to be who you are and appreciate yourself. You are way ahead of the curve!
@umonk3 жыл бұрын
Just started my youtube Chanel this week about mental health (in Hindi for now), which I recognize as my core niche. Thank you for encouraging me to put myself out there. I am feeling liberated and motivated to create more valuable content for people who cannot access a lot of common wisdom (in Western society) due to linguistic barriers. You are really inspirational. 🙏🏽
@sanoski243 жыл бұрын
The best thing is to learn and grow from past regrets! Great video, Nate.
@financeabcs3 жыл бұрын
Agree 100%!
@tealcoconut3 жыл бұрын
I attempted to be more extroverted a few years ago, as well. I was in my final years of college and president of an organization on campus. It was weird to have people know my name and have heard me speak before I knew who they were. Different from everything I had ever experienced in my introverted life. When I graduated I felt closer to a much larger group of people than I ever would have had I been my normal introverted self. It was such a different experience to say goodbye to people I didn't know extremely well at the end of the day, but still felt close to. I appreciated that part of the experience. Still, I am a huge introvert at the end of the day (INFJ now, was an INTJ the very first time I took the test). I decided it's better to be myself and appreciate what comes from that.
@robellis37053 жыл бұрын
Awesome Video Nate !!! Looking forward to seeing the trip out west !!!
@successwithstacee92903 жыл бұрын
Once again this video is unique and gives actual helpful information. I appreciate people that speak their mind especially when their unpopular opinions are presented in a a logical and respectful way. That is something I really need to work on. I know people that think their way of thinking is the only way and are not open to a discussion or debate with someone that doesn't think like them. On a side note, my kid lived in her truck for a little while while traveling and it was so impressive they way she set it up and even had a comfortable bed with storage under in the truck bed. The pictures you posted with your truck reminded me a little of her set up.
@scishow81883 жыл бұрын
That’s very true I have something real big I would love to introduce you to I hope you would Love to hear them +1,eight,6..,four,7..,seven,7,.,zero.,1:,eight.,
@timsmith51333 жыл бұрын
I'm a decent speaker today but I didn't start this way. Years ago my director pulled me aside after I filled in for a colleague who was stuck in traffic. (Zoom fixes this problem.) He told me I was pretty bad and recommended I visit a Toastmasters meeting. I resisted for a long time but eventually visited and liked it. I still hate speaking in front of others but I'm getting better.
@financeabcs3 жыл бұрын
Love Dale Carnegie!!
@Juan-gf2hg3 жыл бұрын
Nate Dropping knowledge 💯💪
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 always ready for him to share
@markperry15563 жыл бұрын
Hey Nate, I really love this type of video, it’s somthing different and gets people out of their head, I love it
I completely agree with people being straight up with me. It allows me to be able to build a trusting relationship with them. Yes...sometimes the truth hurts but I will respect someone's honesty compared to someone who is transparent with their B.S, fluff and trying to pacify. Thanks Nate - finally someone on the same page!! 💯‼️🙌
Well done for being so humble at your age, what an inspiration! (brutally honest compliment)
@grinning_owl3 жыл бұрын
The is only the 2nd video of yours I have watched. The first involved the tour you gave of your minimalist home, which I enjoyed very much, mainly because it helped me realize that some can actually have very little and still be content. My youngest brother was like that, so your video reminded me of him. I also enjoyed this video and appreciate your honesty. Thanks for sharing the info on storyblocks. I had been wanting to create another video using nature scenes as a background for one of my poems. I was wondering where I might find some, so I am looking forward to checking out what storyblocks has to offer. The folks at KZbin must have been reading my mind (nervous twitch) and that's why they recommended your channel. One more thing: Thanks for the warning about the scammers impersonating you. Hopefully, there's a special place in Hell awaiting them in the next realm.
@carptodragon61223 жыл бұрын
I regret wasting my time on video games when I was younger. Feels like my childhood was just a timeskip until now, not many significant memories.😶
@carptodragon61223 жыл бұрын
@@user-lz4vj6xp7g trying to scam me with a fake acc 😂 Better luck next time buddy
@go4growthsllimited3 жыл бұрын
My mentor. how are you? Great to have this awesome content. thanks. I just like you been so natural
@wildfoodietours67023 жыл бұрын
It's cool to be an introvert. Most important thing is to just be who you are. It's sickening how the media pushes all of us to be someone who we're not. "Just be yourself," is a great motto.
Keep up the inspiring content man. Just watched your retire at 24 vid and multiple others. I have to say, never thought you were the introvert type. I can be both intro and extrovert when I want haha.
@dmytroyarchuk44443 жыл бұрын
Great advice Nate! Also do the truck video, I think that would be interesting for many people!
Luckily you have plenty of time to rekindle those relationships, and I met most significant people in my life after 22. I'm sure you'll meet lots of great people and cherish the relationships ☀️
@xbdjdjcdbdnndbdndb16133 жыл бұрын
I salute you for sharing this m8:)
@joelcervantes22082 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this, Nate I just turned 21 and took some notes 📝
@hannyverryna38913 жыл бұрын
At my 22 years old, I try not to regret upon everything in my life. Yes, I am an introvert (INTP) and it makes me so different with other people. The way of my thinking is just, they don’t get it. I am too visioner. Yet, here I am, have reached the supervisor level at the company that I work for just a month before my 23 birthday. While all of my friends are just starting to work at that age. Your video is always inspiring me, Nate. Though my biggest regret is I didn’t learn any foreign language when I was at college. And the best decision I’ve ever made is to start investing at the age 19.
@abdelrahmanabualafyeh11443 жыл бұрын
It's like you imagine them to understand but they don't
@cece64953 жыл бұрын
I am introvert and I used to try to change my personality by finding new people to meet, hangout with. Ultimately though, I realized my personality didn’t change to being more extrovert.
@StockPlug_3 жыл бұрын
Dope channel bro keep grinding 🚀
@miriamstrauss3 жыл бұрын
Agreed ✌🏻
@FrontPageFinance3 жыл бұрын
I’m just sitting here in awe wondering how someone can get 100 friends
@FrontPageFinance3 жыл бұрын
@@dustyoldhat lol that’s my real name but a girl’s dad in HS did say I couldn’t date his daughter because my name was too weird
@SenorJuan20233 жыл бұрын
That probably includes colleagues, ex colleague, acquantainces, etc.
@cumplomissuenos27083 жыл бұрын
@@dustyoldhat what's the problem with his name? Sorry, english is not my native language so I don't get it
@cumplomissuenos27083 жыл бұрын
@@dustyoldhat oh, okay 😅 now I get it
@cumplomissuenos27083 жыл бұрын
@@dustyoldhat thank you
@IrishWarrior433 жыл бұрын
Very honest and open video 👍
@pearl_greytea3 жыл бұрын
AGH I just love this channel and the valuable content! 🤧✨
@scishow81883 жыл бұрын
I have something real big I would love to introduce you to I hope you would Love to hear them +1,eight,6..,four,7..,seven,7,.,zero.,1:,eight.,
@JemimasOutcome3 жыл бұрын
Maintaining healthy relationships can be hard work, building connection requires vulnerability, prioritising and sacrifice. However, when you have a friend who you know genuinely cares for you, the special bond makes life become a little more meaningful and enjoyable ✨
I’m so guilty of dabbling in investments personally as well. One of the tricks I used to combat this is that I gave myself the rule that if I ever buy any position, it has to at least be 1% of my portfolio. That way if it goes up the gain will actually make a dent in my portfolio. Great Video!
@financeabcs3 жыл бұрын
Good point!! Agree 100%! Make it at least 1% so that it is relevant but not more than 4% so that you have proper diversification!!
@corneliusfriesen67683 жыл бұрын
Those are some really good points there and I think almost everyone can probably relate to at least a few of these. Yes please show your camper build. 😀
@rachelan23023 жыл бұрын
Yes please with the truck updates and road trip vlogs!
Nate, you should do a video like this, if even just for yourself, every 10 years. You'll be amazed by your life's course and what will be deemed "regrets" and the things you choose to let go. Sincerely, old person. 🙂
@neilschipper37413 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving your viewers a heads up about the scammers. It has happened to me 3 times. Just hit the three dots on the upper right and report them! I'm one of your long time since scribers you are much wiser than your years! Thanks for always giving good advice!
One comment on not being submissive in a team - I tried to speak up in a few workplaces and believe me, in the long run, it cost me a job as I ended up being bullied and people did not appreciate me giving my opinions. I think that is the very reason why people do not speak up, it is a smooth way to stay in a company for many years. Do I regret doing it? No, as I stayed truth to myself, however, I still have to figure out how to pay my bills ;)
@TylerSinden3 жыл бұрын
Being a genuine person will help get you with the right people in your life. People will truly like you for you who are and you are exactly as you want to be.
You are wise beyond your year's mate you are very switched on for a young lad, I'm keen to see this Van are you planning on living out of it for a while?
@kinotime933 жыл бұрын
such a sweet and funny person. straight handsome💖💖💖
@nateobrien47863 жыл бұрын
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@sage4nowty1293 жыл бұрын
Great video! You are an introvert, but you are not excessively shy because you make these publicly seen videos. I don't think I could make videos like this because I am too shy.
nate don't be so serious in life, you're only 22. you're meant to make mistakes at your 20s. life isn't over when you go off course. have fun, experience everything so you know which one you like more than the other, there's no one size fits all in life.
Nate, Congrats on wonderful experiences sharing video. Please, Please do a video of your van, or truck, or vehicle you're moving into and your travel. Thank you. I couldn't remember what Vehicle you was referring to. 👍👏🙏❤
@theavidinvestor9713 жыл бұрын
These type of videos are great I love the financial videos as well but these are epic.
Nate, You have the same personality type as Louis Thomas, but have ten times as many viewers and still haven't noticed me on Instagram, but I spent hours listening to your instructions while building my website. Wish I was there in Philadelphia so I could stop in and see you. I am grateful for all your help, Nate.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Wow,✨ Thank you for sharing your.I'm one year behind you.And this was very educational for me , Thank You ✨
@Daniel_Braun3 жыл бұрын
My motto has always been "No Ragrets"... Thinking of getting it tattooed on me soon
@Ohboycommentsection3 жыл бұрын
Is the misspelling intentional? I can't detect whether you're being serious or not, no offense
@Daniel_Braun3 жыл бұрын
@@Ohboycommentsection Lol sorry its tough to tell if you don't know the reference. Its from a movie called "We're The Millers" where a guy had a tattoo like this and misspelled "regrets" the same way haha
@Painfulwhale3603 жыл бұрын
@@dustyoldhat ouch lol
@scottward10023 жыл бұрын
Go for the Forehead!!! ✅✅✅✅✅🍿🍿🍿
@rava4773 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and told myself "this guy should be an intj" Omg 😂😂 12:08
Yeaaaaah Nate make a video about living in this truck !
@mohammedabakar97113 жыл бұрын
thank you men .i hope u r dong well .👍
@melochan3 жыл бұрын
Just saw you’ve surpassed 1 M subs now. Congratulations!!
@melochan3 жыл бұрын
Scammer above!!!! ^^^
@michaeljames39183 жыл бұрын
Nurture friendships. Thanks for the reminder. So many of those I need to take the time to reconnect with. BTW - You are an introverted extrovert. There need not be one or the other. We are all on the same spectrum.