Why We Lose Motivation (And How To Fix It)

In this video, I share my personal experiences on how I cope with a loss of motivation.
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[@NateOBrien]

Alright everyone! After taking a break for most of the summer, I will start uploading every week for the rest of the year! Comment your video requests and ideas below!

[@lubomirhristev9103]

Good job buddy you are doing great!

[@kylie8244]

How to network, how to get the job you want, how to invest for beginners, book recommendations

[@bilbai2024]

My requestion: how to think with a clear mind or how to overcome indecisiveness. Like Nate decided to put all focus on making videos for 2 years and succeeded but some of us has hard time deciding what to choose from 8 things or ideas and even find it harder to stick to that idea for more than few weeks let alone 2 years. In the end, we know well what caused our failure but we keep on repeating same mistake and never get anywhere. Pardon my long explanation but I will appreciate Nate's making a video on the request.

[@toby_demoss]

I think it'd be neat to make a video about how to network without being a jerk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@gabrielgrigore526]

I'd love to see some more videos that dig into your mindset regarding everyday things. The tips you provide would be so much more helpful if we could see them in action!

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Making mistakes is better than faking perfection.” -- Anonymous

[@samobrien3829]

Mistakes and failure bring out success!!

[@elementnature3966]

Sum up : HOW to keep motivation (for those who don't have 8 min to watch) 1 : You need to SEE YOUR PROGRESS (make it accountable) but first make sure that you work SMARTER than Harder 2 : Set REALISTIC GOALS not too big not too small (those you really think and feel that is possible to achieve) 3 : Find your LEVERAGE, What DRIVES you ? It need to be bigger than just you and your personal disire. I would like to personally add that finding a MENTOR, someone who represent for you a SOURCE OF MOTIVATION is so helpful. When I feel lost or demotivated I just watch or read Contend made by persons who inspire me. As soon as I hear their voice my motivation instantly get back ! For me it's Tony Robbins, Nick Santonastasso, John Lynskey and Nate of curse !!

[@sarrondan4178]

Thank you

[@user-xl8dt2vc5q]

Thank you!!

[@LoRdDyY45]

What drives me is wanting to be alone not have to pay bills not having to wake up and work everyday but not of that will ever happen so why be motivated if I have to do all the work and get no where in life

[@MisterPol]

One of the main reason we lose motivation is because we are stuck in a routine. Find ways to change it up a bit

[@NateOBrien]

Shock routine... always shock routine

[@rajdipshah532]

Couldn't agree more

[@IxonixYT]

@@NateOBrien what's that

[@samtheman7860]

@@IxonixYT Shock is a verb in the sentence. Shock your routine by changing it.

[@danielsclement860]

He will guide you on how to make $10500 and above weekly

[@yaelmaimonartist]

"Those who have a why to live can bear with almost any how" - Frankl (Man's Search For Meaning, book)

[@themidweekfixture5059]

I thought that was a Jordan Peterson quote

[@Yolodihno]

It's actually Nietszche. Jordan peterson loves to quote him

[@Yolodihno]

Although victor frankl's book is very inspirational too.

[@themidweekfixture5059]

@@Yolodihno he is a good man to quote

[@yaelmaimonartist]

In his book Frankl quotes Nietzsche's words

[@JazminBautista]

Focusing on improving by 1% everyday helps me stay motivated! Another great video Nate

[@NateOBrien]

Keep it up

[@thequickwit8174]

1% is alot

[@gabrielgrigore526]

It's only just natural to loose motivation. Motivation is not a permanent thing. It's like a monthly subscription. You have to always look for it, or else it fades away.

[@WhiteBoardFinance]

Great video Nate. People should follow the "SMART" system for setting goals ;)

[@heshamk4824]

Specific , Measurable, Attainable, Realistic , Time Bound ... GOALS

[@TheBaldyheed]

@Vagabond now now, keep that envy in check mate 👍🏼

[@CountrySongTeacher]

Great videos brother! Keep them up! Getting that million subs soon!

[@rudig5698]

I just couldn’t live any longer without this content! You are even one of the people who inspired me most for my own channel, thank you so much! 🥺❤️

[@fredchang-investingmadefun3974]

NEVER GIVE UP! ...and ALWAYS reflect and look for ways to improve!

[@prettysweetlimegreen8481]

The more you give the more you receive! You freely share so much Nate and I pray you get one hundred fold🙏🏿. Love from Bahamas

[@successpill9645]

Please don't change man. You're honest and you're actually trying to help us become successful. You just earn my sub 🤝

[@DemetriPanici]

The man is BACK! Missed the consistent uploads! Excited for more motivation from you every week 😊

[@NateOBrien]

Took a hiatus, but I'm officially back!

[@alessaray6050]

It happens to me all the time. Your KZbin channel is my favorite. THANK YOU NATE!

[@sighridh]

I just love listening to you. Thank you for the new video, Nate!

[@HoneyDJeong]

It's like you are in my head..I am getting out of a slump myself. One of the hard ones came last week out of nowhere, and I've been trying to figure out why. I'm so happy to see this video sharing your own experience with feeling unmotivated and tips to get out of it. It reminds me of that I am not alone feeling this way. Thank you!

[@123thedarkness]

This was the video I needed to watch in order to reinforce my perspective that sometimes progress isn't always going to be seen but I have to trust the progress! Truly inspirational.

[@mkrowenp]

Thank you so much for this I really needed this 😭

[@enzosoir9869]

Thank you for making this video! It really helped me out a lot.

[@voiceinthechaos]

I love your intelligence and thought clarity. I am glad to have found your channel. Greetings from Germany.

[@theceramicrepairstudio]

Good timing, I needed this video. Many thanks.

[@doyalkrishna5656]

Dude that was a bad ass video! Solid, practical, inspirational. Thank you so much Nate

[@thebookofbrenda]

You look so energized after your break Nate! Happy to see that. This video came at a good timing because I've been feeling really off this week.

[@EddieGM]

Love the new cinematic direction and overall theme here. And I definitely agree on how critical it is to shake things up if you want to reach new levels. Excited for the next ones Nate! 🔥

[@carmenparsons5744]

Love your video's Nate. Even though I'm 25 years older than you, what you say resonates with me and I'm still pushing myself to be a better me for myself and my maturing sons!

[@purplerain3269]

I need this video and thank you for making this one. Keep up the amazing content, Nate!

[@torrenyou]

iv cleared out my youtube unsubscribed from so may pages inc world re-known motivators but kept yours. keep up the great content brother!

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

Motivation and inspiration are fleeting. What you need is a strong why to give you the DRIVE that pushes you forward each and every day

[@Chahlie]

Yes. Anytime I feel like giving up on my working from home career, I just drive into town during rush hour, that soon brings the motivation back!

[@redfoxorganics28]

I think it's very easy to lose motivation when you are so overwhelmed with the upcoming tasks that need to be completed. As a small business owner, I have so many things that need accomplishing each day, and some days it can be paralyzing. Not complaining, just stating a fact.... Life is Great!!!! :)

[@NateOBrien]

Read the E-Myth

[@redfoxorganics28]

@@NateOBrien Thank you for the suggestion! I can't wait to check it out! Thanks for putting out such great videos BTW.

[@redfoxorganics28]

@@NateOBrien I just watched a keynote lecture from the author! He is awesome! The audiobook playing now. :)

[@TheFinanceZone]

Love this new style of video. Cool that you're not boxed into being a finance youtuber but exploring new paths!

[@maxsip2002]

Love the energy at the very end of the video thou... You are amazing keep doing what you are doing!! MUCH LOVE

[@motivate-today]

Thanks, I appreciate these videos, seeing positive results in other peoples' lives because of my input is extremely rewarding, and you're helping me do that.

[@annieescobedo3306]

I love your videos. Lots of good information plus motivation for my every day life.

[@markgrove2561]

thank you as always Nate.Gresat tip on doing what we need to focus on not just for success,but to help others. i think your success on youtube drives us to do well. thanks man

[@pedrocovas8140]

I love the way you show your vulnerability. Just shows the great guy you are. Motivates me :) Great video. Keep producing these sort of videos.

[@chanceatfinance]

Been struggling with this a ton recently! Thanks Nate! 🙌🏼

[@ponlaya6724]

Been looking for someone like you. Your very motivating and have a great vibe i can feel how genuine you are as a person and that is huge when trying to help others. I just found your channel a couple of days ago and ive binge watching your videos. Loveem. Super helpful and and also very calming at the same time. Keep it up man for reals. Your doing a great thing with your channel. *sips coffee* Thank you so much.

[@reestabor3657]

Well done, Nate. I particularly liked your 1st point about losing motivation when progress slows/stops. Work smart and persevere. Thanks

[@alessaray6050]

In our podcast we talked about Woking smarter rather than harder. I feel blessed to have met you Nate. You are making contributions to the world and you’re such a great human being.

[@sanoski24]

It's so important to both challenge and reward yourself with goal setting! Finding the right variation where you can both achieve certain goals and potentially reach others is key.

[@jeremycondotta4399]

Honestly Nate, every video you make inspires me to work harder, smarter, and gives me the energy I need! I've been looking for more financial freedom, been looking to minimalise, been looking to budget my spendings, .... all because of you. You've inspired me to start a KZbin channel, which I've been thinking about for a while now, but I've been procrastinating. Any idea/video/book how to help me with that? (Or maybe an idea for your next video) A lot of what happens on KZbin doesn't get the recognition that it deserves. You deserve recognition. Thank you for everything.

[@Alexis_Marcelo]

I'm loving these motivation videos from Nate!

[@thegeekviking5427]

Thank you Nate!! That really changed my perceptions. I will make changes small changes in my life

[@DogtorPete]

The harder you work for something, the greater you'll feel when you achieve it. Thanks Nate! Really inspiring words that I'm sure will help lots of people to put in the grind to achieve their dreams! :)

[@amanalymkanov8594]

Awesome! As always your videos are great! Very helpful! Thank you!

[@FinancialBeanstalk]

Super important! Thanks for making this one.

[@fegarupa7638]

Right on time. Thanks, Nate!

[@cristhianfernandezmkt]

Just in TIME This is what I need to continue on mi way 🔥🔥🔥 Thanksss

[@coach_adam_dare]

Agreed 💯. As a personal trainer and a mindset coach I always coach my clients on the science and mindset of motivation. The setting light days vs grinding always is a proven strategy. Thanks for sharing mate!

[@JadeTrading]

Thank you for motivating us with great content Nate 🙏

[@ParalumanPH]

I was actually gonna stop trying making new good habits, thanks for this refreshment.

[@Slayheim]

Hey Nate, discovered you recently and I love your vids. I started a new job on night shift and it’s been rough. I ran a marathon recently, I was running a lot. Lately I haven’t made time for it and just got in a slump. I’m working to get it back as quickly as possible because I miss it a lot. Thanks for your vids.

[@camilozafra7884]

I love your videos like you explain O everything you told 😊

[@sheebal1331]

I find out everyone out of this topic.. YOU are the BEST EVER .

[@40finance]

Great as always! It is actually easier to work harder which is why a lot of us fall in that trap. Taking the time to think about your business and how to expand it requires honesty and change. Thank you for the motivation boost!

[@mdrigioia]

Great advice Nate. I change my routines and add daily exercise to keep myself motivated. I also find that if my goals are too easy, I tend to dismiss them. Challenging goals (not impossible) is the sweet spot for me.

[@dntl408]

Why does everyone comment "first" when it doesn't mean a thing? Not trying to be negative, just trying to understand it.

[@HomebaseLHR]

Danny Luu coz it makes them feel good about themselves to show off that they have no life and spend every second on KZbin

[@wint3rl0v]

I've never commented "first" on a video, but have you ever clicked on a video when it just got posted? You do somehow get a strange sense of accomplishment as silly as that may sound.

[@dntl408]

Thanks everyone for the clarification!

[@dvrds]

because there's always people like you who get pissed and complain about it HA.

[@dntl408]

@@dvrds I'm not even complaining. That's why I mentioned I want to understand it lol

[@TheSavingSecret]

Keep moving forward to reach goals. I believe it's all about being intentional!!

[@kriskenny5481]

Very uplifting, thank you.

[@maxgeller3331]

Nice Video, thanks for Sharing Nate. I love your Videos!

[@nicoleonfeels]

This couldn’t have come a better time! I was looking at my October goals feeling stressed because daunted. Time to re-evaluate & work smarter, rather than harder 🤓👍🏽

[@NateOBrien]

Happy to hear it Nicole!

[@inthenameoffood9793]

Just watched one of your videos for the first time ( 11 unique side hustles for 2020). I thought your video gonna be like most of these people who are on youtube and say do surveys and all those non-sense stuff, but I watched your video until the end. Keep up with great work.

[@KeithJones31]

I can definitely relate. Work smarter than harder

[@financerules972]

Nate I've noticed from the decrease number of videos you post this is what you must have personally gone through, thanks for sharing! Btw love the new couch 😉❤

[@SearchingforSage]

Great advice! Thank you for sharing.

[@JakeFields92]

You've given me some fire in life again my friend. Thank you.

[@jackingramonline5333]

Love this style of video. Keep em coming Nate :) everything sounds better when it is coming from the heart and not a script. I can tell you have gone through things and actually had experience with this heavily.

[@theonlinefam6227]

Repetition makes life boring and too predictable. Some people in those time lose a little bit of motivation. Great video , liked and subbed 👍

[@chocolatefudge5263]

Im so happy to hear that it also happen to a successful guy like him

[@ReynaSingh]

Quitting never got anyone anywhere. Slow progress is still progress. Good luck everyone!

[@MalluStyleMultiMedia]

Yep 👍

[@Aliusmi]

Powerful intro and great video as always.

[@francistech7757]

perfect timing, exactly what I need right now, thanks nate, appreciate it always 🙏🏼

[@NateOBrien]

Perfect!

[@CalebOliver]

We also need discipline to reach our goals. That will help us reach them even when we don’t feel like it. Great Video Nate! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@PierceJordan]

Awesome video and great tips. Just gotta believe in yourself or nobody will!

[@mphorapeo1789]

This was much needed. Thanks much!!!

[@hopefullytruee]

A much needed video during this weird year this year 👌🏼👌🏼 share this with everyone!

[@chiragsharma_]

That's the thing, you can get motivated but staying on track is difficult 🔥

[@KlaasVictor]

You are great! Thank you to comment on Andrew his youtube. Glad to know you!

[@johnmoon3848]

Nate, you continue to impress!

[@FlipManDan]

Your vids are my go-to watch! All of this absolutely helped me re-evaluate my daily habits to help me earn more wealth. A million thanks! I wouldn't be doing what I'm doing with my youtube if it wasn't for you.

[@Theredsurge99]

Helpful advice man thanks

[@karlivanjamescaras702]

Thanks for the video sir. Really helpful

[@DanielGaiya]

This is just what I needed, thanks man. God bless

[@sumyum]

You are amazing!!! Wish I was like you in my 20s!!!

[@9543102234]

Thank you Nate.

[@livingyes]

Thanks for the inspiration

[@LuisRamos-fk1em]

Nate, great job like always. I do appreciate you videos. Keep up the excellent work. 👍👏😁🙏❤

[@zfernchimelis2726]

I needed this video, thanks nate!

[@FarzanasLaw]

This was video was too good!!! Loved it!!

[@bhavyanayak4342]

Great video though. Helped me a lot to analyze what's wrong with my studies. Thank you so much 🙂

[@jennyherzog9872]

Great video! Thanks for your tips!

[@smartiekate6312]

I just kept looking at you and thinking "Nice haircut"! Anyway, I think you presented some excellent points and I agree with them. I'm constantly surprised by how many people don't actually have a strategy in place. You might need to adjust it but at least try to have some sort of plan so you don't waste time on things that won't help you get to your goal. I would also add that you need to constantly remind yourself of your goals. Many times people lose motivation as a result of getting distracted and forgetting why they were doing something in the first place. Write down your goals and your "why" and reread regularly to remind yourself.

[@mmacasual-]

Thanks @nate. This video changed me !!!

[@bushrakaunain5931]

I like your videos coz they are very simple but motivating!!

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.” ― Oscar Wilde

[@cerealis_5432]

That makes me feel even worse

[@sag409]

Thanks for this video :) greetings from Morocco! it always happens to me, I will try to follow your pieces of advice

[@alexinvests]

“Take the long road, its faster.” Keeping motivation and discipline is super important to take the long road. Thanks for this video, I needed this reminder!

[@samobrien3829]

Believe in yourself, and you can do anything in this world. Anything is possible when you BELIEVE💪

[@alexinvests]

Sam O'Brien thanks for the motivation Sam

[@hermelasheferaw7030]

Thanks that was really helpful I was passing through that phase but I think this helped😊

[@levelthefield]

Hello! I am watching this in 2022, yet, this is sososososososo helpful and applicable. I am a sophomore in high school who had a strong desire to do well in school to get into an Ivy League. However, it seems as if I have lost my ambition/drive these last couple of months. I’ve realized it’s because I don’t have a clear purpose, and my goals are extremely unrealistic. I have to take a deep breath, take things easy, and focus on the journey- not the result. I’m going to track my mood/progress in these next couple of weeks. It may feel extremely easy to give up, but I’m not going to; I know this is going to make me a stronger, more insightful, and practical person. Using your words here, I will create simple tasks to carry out each day so I don’t intimidate myself. Thank you so much for giving me the motivation to complete my workout right now (I’ve stopped to take a break and had no motivation to continue due to the subconscious lack of belief I’ve had in attaining my goals.) :))