MY BIRTH STORY. natural birth. no epidural. (*not what I wanted) | baby #2.

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[@stitchingupdisney7902]

Such a sweet video keep the full story to share when its your daughters turn to be a mother. 3 out of my 4 was all natural and I wouldn't have it any other way. so much faster. I now have 12 grandkids and my youngest went all natural and said she's done.

[@Silkenpetal]

Wow, this video is an emotional rollar coaster!!! Congrats to Allie, Adam, Landon and Jax on their new family member!!!

[@themissalliecakes]

such an emotional roller coaster haha thank you so much for watching and for your kind words !!!

[@jesstolson]

I’m 18 weeks & can’t wait to be holding my little one! It’s my second pregnancy as well. Congratulations to your family, I was tearing up with all the details & just seeing you glow with happiness! I’m so very happy for you and can only hope to have the same experience!

[@themissalliecakes]

awww this comment brings so so much joy to my heart ❤️ thank you so much for your kind words! Congrats on your pregnancy as well! I repay this labor and delivery in my head daily haha

[@mik-moon]

Wow… how magical! You are a WARRIOR! What a beautiful birth story!!! You must feel like a freaking beast birthing two beautiful babies!! You go momma and Ellie!!

[@PaolaSanchez-hc5my]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

[@squirlle6]

Congratulations 🎉 to you and your family. I'm so happy everything went well for you guys. Ellie is such a cutie and Landon will be an amazing big brother. I can't wait to see what the future holds for your family. Love you Allie ❤️

[@shaunalee7826]

I’m 37 weeks with my second and literally sobbed through this whole video 😂 it made me so excited to meet my sweet baby girl, Della ❤️ you’re such a warrior Allie!!!! So proud of you!!! Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl ❤️❤️

[@lucyfletcher3752]

Congratulations to both you and Adam on the new member of your family! (And congrats to Landon on becoming a big brother 👏🏻)

[@themissalliecakes]

thank you so so much for watching ♥️♥️ Landon has been the best big brother in the world :) happy holidays to you and yours

[@alisonlauria4846]

The best thing for your baby is a healthy mommy! Killin it, mama!

[@BernadetteTheRealest]

Breastfeeding was horrible all 3 times I tried… I was depressed until I stopped. No one ever talks about that part. The minute I stopped breastfeeding and I started to sleep my depression went away. This happened with all 3 of my children. Congratulations on your beautiful baby❤️

[@rosyapplekitchen635]

I had 18 hours labour after waters breaking and it was horrific. I don’t know how I am going to do this again. Great storytelling, brought me to tears.

[@kerrylewisRN]

That is so nice about the midwife. Nosy 71 y o woman back with comments. Having a midwife for your practitioner is wonderful. That’s what I’d chose if I was childbearing now too. I had the “ easy” deliveries of 4 hrs, 2 hrs and 9 hrs labor with my three kids.

[@courtneyshanicereviews6433]

Loved hearing your story. You look so happy and glowing 🥰 love to you and your family xx

[@themissalliecakes]

Thank you so much 😊 this postpartum experience has been a blessing so far :)

[@carolynparker918]

Thanks for sharing your labor and delivery with Ellie. Wonderful story💗 I totally agree about midwives, I had one for both of my children. Best of luck and God Bless ♥️🙏

[@radhikar7628]

I teared up so many times during this video ❤️❤️ you’re amazing thanks for sharing this

[@leahbenson549]

I'm so,so proud of you and so excited for your birth of your little girl, i bottle fed for my second child, i felt so much better for it,

[@themissalliecakes]

Thank you so so much for sharing that you had a positive experience with bottle feedings as well ♥️ breast is beautiful. Bottle is beautiful. Feeding your baby and nourishing your baby is beautiful :)

[@dulcevaldes7769]

Welcome to the world Miss Ellie. God bless her ❤️

[@shawnarose8496]

Congratulations on your baby girl! 💕 you are literally the best mommy!!! ❤️

[@alexafillinger1549]

Allie, I love the way you spoke and carried yourself in this video in comparison to the videos you talk in, “TikTok speak” please keep it up!!

[@mariaulloa31]

Congratulations!!! I too found out the gender of my babies when they were born. What beautiful surprises. A son then a daughter.

[@angelwings7866]

43 hours of labor with my first son.....total of 3 kids and never had an epidural. I was always too afraid to get one. Congrats on your new baby girl.

[@lorifriel2379]

Congratulations and what a beautiful story and little blessing. I gave birth 4 times naturally and I never wanted an epidural because my doctor told me it could slow down the birthing process. I was able to go back to my room, take a shower and put my own nice comfy clothes on. It definitely hurts and you definitely feel everything but I feel it was worth the pain. Merry Christmas ❤️

[@kaitlinfolsom5602]

Thank you for sharing! I’m seven weeks and this is so helpful! Congratulations!

[@ladyerynicorn3863]

Our stories are so similar!! My first son was named Landon Carter too and I had an epidural. My second born Jan 8, I needed to be induced due to pre-eclampsia symptoms and that made things progress so fast that I didn't have time for the epidural and yup 4 pushes later and my Finn was out 😍 and my recovery naturally vs with epidural was sooo.much easier, I didn't tear at all. it's so cool to be able to experience it both! Now my son is almost 1. Congrats Allie!!! ❤️ Ellie is precious ❤️

[@Michelle-zd9xs]

Your emotions just show how important it is to have compassionate care ❤

[@reannemichellem]

Thanks for sharing your story, Allie! You’re amazing ❤️ Something similar happened to me with my second baby. I had an unplanned emergency c-section with my first daughter, so the plan for my second daughter’s birth was scheduled c-section. Long story short, though, my labour progressed way too quickly and I wasn’t able to get a c-section or even an epidural, so it ended up being an unmedicated VBAC. It was AWFUL and so so hard, but I got through it! It’s amazing what our bodies can do - I’m super proud of myself, and you should be proud of yourself too! 💕

[@themissalliecakes]

you SHOULD be SO proud of yourself. Thank you so much for sharing! I can’t even image the pain you must have felt but agreed the female body is a wonderland ♥️♥️♥️ females are hero’s lol

[@bridgetclement8167]

@@themissalliecakes I was in Labor for 17hrs!! I had 2 epidurals. I got FULLY DILATED and my Son wouldn't COME OUT!!! So I had a C section. My son is now a Healthy 5.5yr old.

[@jenniferlemmons7838]

Congratulations on your baby girl and to you and Adam and Landon love all of your videos they make my day hope you have a merry Christmas and happy new year

[@SketchMyStory]

You and your baby girl Eille is so beautiful. Nice story!

[@themissalliecakes]

you are so kind thank you. She is a blessing ♥️

[@ashleyhealey3518]

Congratulations! So happy for your little family 🥰 My husband and I are expecting our first baby in February and I am low key happy that hospital is limiting people as well.

[@KatieFagan81]

Congratulations to you all!! I have been watching since you and Adam first moved in together and the Disney engagement etc! I love your story and am thankful for you sharing these precious moments with me and everyone! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your beautiful family!

[@JBIRDRN8]

Congratulations! She is beautiful. I had my twins natural without epidural or anything. It was worth every pain!

[@breealexander3924]

Congratulations again!! What a great story. So happy that you are feeling good after delivery! She’s beautiful and I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a Happy Nee Year!

[@themissalliecakes]

happiest holidays to you and yours as well. Thank you so much for watching ♥️

[@skrink1981]

Congrats!!! I had my second son last year and I so wanted to go natural. I tried, I just couldn’t do it. Way to go!!!

[@themissalliecakes]

blessing that she came so fast because I don’t think I could have done it if it was a long delivery haha the most intense pain I’ve ever felt in my life! Thank you so much for your kind words and thank you for watching 🥰 and congrats on your second baby

[@emtwomen56]

Love your Birth Stories ! Thanks for sharing ! And CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎊🎈🍾 🍼👶🏻

[@redonmyhead]

Oh my gosh you look AMAZING!

[@lifewithlindsay7327]

You know how proud I am of you!!!! You are amazing, and we are true super hero’s! 52 minutes of no epidural and pushing with CJ, so I feel you bestie! I love you and I love baby Ellie so so much!

[@tamaraemerson4785]

Congratulations 😇👶I had both my daughters with midwives and agree about the exceptional comfort and calm care! 😊

[@kerryanndellapasqua7356]

Congratulations. What a story. Thanks for sharing.

[@katikawoniNTV]

I had my 1st baby natural and she came out in 20mins I do think natural may be faster. Congrats on baby ellie ❤ so cute

[@themissalliecakes]

It totally make sense that natural would make you go faster because you are so aware of the skin haha bless you for going natural

[@kerrylewisRN]

I love your story 100%. Finding out at birth is wonderful. Back in my day they only gave pain meds for the last 15 mins of birth. My third was no time for meds. I was pushing when I got to the hospital. The doctor was washing his hands and saying, “pant, pant”. My water broke as I was pushing when I got the go ahead to push. I kept thinking geez, I would have chosen this had I know how “easy” it was.

[@kerrylewisRN]

Ps, I totally respect your not showing the child. Protecting the baby is paramount.

[@artbyshawntejohnson]

Loved your transparency of your entire experience! Thank you for sharing! Also, thought your 712 numbers was so cool and that it would be fun to share that in many places in the world they write the date with the day first and then month making your numbers 7/12, 7:12, 7lb12oz ! What a cool detail to remember about your birth.

[@tashly1621]

Congratulations 🎊🎈 she is sooo adorable! Landon’s going to be an amazing big brother to his little sister 💙💜

[@themissalliecakes]

LAndon has been a super incredible big brother ♥️ we are so blessed thank you so so much for watching and for your kind words

[@Nessyv84]

I had 3 babies, only 1 epidural. The second was the same situation as yours, by the third I didn’t want the epidural. It’s so much easier to go without an epidural, IMO. My deliveries were also really fast! Congrats on your little family!!!

[@themissalliecakes]

We only want two kids but if I ever was to get pregnant again I truly think I do natural again as well ♥️ the recovery was fantastic thank God. Thank you so so much for sharing your story.

[@kayjay570]

Moms are rockstars!!!! Thank you for sharing, congratulations!!!!💗

[@melinap3284]

You are absolutely amazing!!! So glad you had a positive labor and delivery experience even if it didn't go how you originally planned. Welcome to the world Ellie!! 💖👶💗

[@whimsical_lyddie]

Congratulations. What a crazy labor story. I'm so glad you're happy with it despite the pain in the moment. I'm planning to combo feed baby #2 and I'm so nervous about talking to the lactation consultants. My doctor was super supportive. I gave her a brief description of my breastfeeding issues with my son and she said, "You were so relieved when you started formula, right?". "OH yes. I'm planning to combo feed from the beginning this time." "That's wonderful. That works well for many women." So I'm not worried about doctors or nurses, but the lactation consultants....I'm so glad it was in your file and they didn't bother you. That was encouraging. I'm going to ask my doctor to put that I will be both breast and formula feeding my baby in my chart to maybe prevent some of the formula shaming (I got formula shamed in the hospital with my son).

[@nellyalier-pina3444]

I had both of my daughters thru natural no epidural birth.. no doubt that is one of the most painful experiences but the good part was that an hour later I was up taking a shower and carrying my baby!! Congrats to you and your husband you are both troopers!!

[@louisacoote2337]

I think midwives want a fed baby above all, whether you breastfeed or bottle/formula feed! You look radiant! Congratulations!

[@isabelle8836]

Ellie is so cute!! I am so happy you have one of each!

[@CupcakeFairy777]

She's beautiful just like her mommy congratulations 🤩 Allie and Adam y'all did great job

[@noelkempster]

Congratulations and happy to know you and baby are happy and healthy

[@cherylg5002]

Congratulations! You are an awesome momma! ❤️

[@theashleighdiaries]

Congratulations! You guys are beautiful and I'm so glad it went well and you're all safe and well! This story was really relatable - "give me an epidural" was the main point in my birth plan too, but my midwives definitely weren't sweet and calming once they realised I was 10cm and didn't have one because it happened too quickly, they PANICKED and the run to get me from the triage in the ward where they'd left me to get to the birth suite was CRAZY and I got told not to have a baby in the elevator too lmao. I still ended up pushing for nearly 2 hours though, so I think it may be a first time vs second-time baby thing for pushing to go that quickly! I stayed in the hospital for 5 days, but I gave birth 5 years ago - right now there are people giving birth where I live who are giving birth naturally with no epidural and being sent home after 6 hours, you're very much pushed out, even if you're a first-time parent which is absolutely terrifying to think about!

[@coralharvey7957]

I think the trend sending girls home too early is very concerning. I think it's scary to know that even C section patients are discharged day or two after birth . With my first baby even after a high forceps delivery Christmas eve I was encouraged to stay the full week. I realise it's due to staffing pressures bed shortage etc. But women are having a higher proportion of c section theses days and it's important that they are receiving good quality nursing and adequate rest after major surgery.

[@coralharvey7957]

And massive congratulations by the way folks ! 😊☺️ xxx

[@yvonnebarrera5313]

Congratulations she's so beautiful. Merry Christmas and happy new year

[@themissalliecakes]

thank you ♥️ gearing up to be the best Christmas ever :)

[@kellysalinas9930]

Congratulations to you and your family on your baby girl. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I love her name 🎀 I love how you added you liked that it was just your husband, you and your daughter in the delivery room to have that bond experience. I feel that is something i would want to consider for sure. I totally understand that.

[@lornabanks6174]

As a fellow Rhode Islander, as soon as I heard you say “women and infants” I felt SO connected with you!! What an empowering birth story. I love the name you chose for her❤ congrats!

[@melodiephoenix]

I completely agree birth and early postpartum is a private time.

[@traciebrown8741]

Love her name glad she's here for you

[@Hollibot4000]

I wish I had given up breastfeeding sooner. I really hated it and I had trouble bonding with my baby because of it. I finally started formula after 3 months, and it was incredible. I also had a great pediatrician who told me on my first newborn appointment that his kids were all 100% bottle fed and not to worry about it if I needed to switch. Fed is best!

[@themissalliecakes]

This !!!!! This needs to be talked about more. Breastfeeding is NOT for everyone (definitely not for me) and for so many other moms out there. The pressure that “breast is best” is so intense! I’m so happy that you did what you needed for your happiness and the happiness of your baby ♥️♥️

[@Gabyinspiredlife]

Same thing happened with my firstborn. Breastfeeding was not for me, then I tried pumping, but it was exhausting trying to keep up with it, spending time with my son and working from home as well. It was very overwhelming, I was constantly stressed about it. At 3ish or so months I also started formula and it was another story, I was a happy mama again! I’m about to have my second baby in 3 days, and honestly I’m already bothered by the breastfeeding subject 😩

[@glitterginger]

Breast is best. Dont you see the lawsuits? Lol

[@MissTraceyAnn]

Thank you for sharing your story and (parts of) your family with us Allison ♡♡♡ Congratulations and Blessings

[@themissalliecakes]

thank you so much for being here ♥️♥️

[@amymhecker]

Congrats on the baby girl! 💗

[@disneydreamlightfan]

Congratulations on baby Ellie Merry Christmas

[@themissalliecakes]

The best Christmas ever thank you so so much !!

[@stephaniearevalo7104]

YAY I’m so happy you had a girl I love the name that you picked out for her.

[@15cakemaker]

Congrats! Thanks for sharing your story. I’m due with my second in March and it’s so helpful to hear how different your two stories were and encouraging to know that even if I can’t get the epidural I can do it too! Great job!!! And I LOVE the name Ellie 💕

[@marissablack6232]

I’m due with my second in March too! I agree that hearing her story is so helpful and encouraging!

[@themissalliecakes]

yessss you can do it with or without an epidural. The relief really does come from pushing that baby out. Instant relief ♥️♥️♥️ congrats on your beautiful bundle coming soon :) thank you so much for watching and sharing

[@nicoleosborn7187]

I’m due in March with my second too, and I loved my epidural with my first. I do hope I can get it again.

[@missm-m]

Due with my second in March too ;) hopefully I can have a natural birth this time after 25hrs and an emergency c-section I hope it goes better the second time around :)

[@CupcakeFairy777]

Also wow 😲 you look amazing ☺️ and I love the outfit

[@stopusingmystuffloveashley705]

YES! I just had my baby the 7th of December also

[@redonmyhead]

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️

[@carolynwill9519]

Congrats you guys are wonderful parents great job

[@themissalliecakes]

aww thank you so much for such a kind comment!!!

[@pixiedustrun3521]

Congratz to your baby girl!

[@rhiannonmurphy9034]

Congrats on your new bundle of joy!!!!! Absolutely beautiful!!!!

[@themissalliecakes]

thank you I can’t stop staring at her ♥️ she’s just so precious

[@iqraahmed9530]

Aww she is adorable

[@jess25411]

So excited! Love your video and just so happy for you😊 baby Ellie is so beautiful and her name is so perfect 💕😊

[@themissalliecakes]

thank you so so much for watching and for your kind words

[@ernurse3699]

Ok , first of all, you look AMAZING!!! Go miss Allie!!!

[@nellieisbelle]

I have has 3 natural births. All boys and they were all a pound bigger than the last. For me it was the most wonderful experience. Congratulations on your baby girl.

[@themissalliecakes]

This is so sweet to read. Honestly would not change it for the world. The worst pain I have ever felt in my life but wouldn’t change it for the world ☺️

[@jenlaprincipessa]

That's so awesome that the same midwife delivered both your babies.

[@stephpolt6477]

Your experience with check in was just like what I had with my oldest.

[@beverly.disneygranny6304]

Congrats on the baby

[@leidyaraujo6843]

I completely agree about the breastfeeding! I was easy with my first but so hard with my second! I’ll never forget the lactation consultant telling me that my baby was thriving at my expense.

[@kylies2948]

Congratulations!!! I have been so excited to find out what you guys were having😊congratulations on your baby girl💖

[@themissalliecakes]

a little baby girl ♥️♥️♥️ yayyy. thank you so so much for watching and thank you for your kind words.

[@kailasav21]

I had an epidural with both of my labour/deliveries! First one was 10 mins pushing and believe it or not the second one took 20 mins!

[@Steph568]

Congratulations Allie! You have a beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@themissalliecakes]

you are so sweet thank you so much for your kind words and for watching / supporting me

[@ashleygraham6983]

Congratulations!! 🎉 Girl you look amazing for just having a baby! Radiant!🙌👏🥰 I was along the same pregnancy journey with you had my baby girl 3 months ago and also craved coffee when I was pregnant with her. 🥰 Also love the outfit! Where did you get it? 💕

[@findmeinnature]

yay, congratulations! how incredible

[@themissalliecakes]

awww thank you ever so so much

[@caroleflynn761]

Congratulations on your Beautiful Family.

[@themissalliecakes]

you are so sweet thank you so so much

[@alyssacarey9430]

Congratulations! Fed is best, some people can't produce or when they do produce its not enough, strictly breast feeding is an incredible commitment that may not be best for mama and her mental health. I had a friend who couldn't produce. She breast fed for 6 months and supplemented with formula and donated breast milk. Another friend gave birth right before you and decided to strictly breastfeed and just said her nipples were incredibly sore. If you are giving your baby nourishment. Whether it be from the breast or a bottle with formula as long as you are feeding your baby you shouldn't be judged or mom shamed. You are doing what is best for you and for your baby in either situation. So rock on mama!

[@cassidyoro-gast34]

Congratulations on baby Ellie.

[@themissalliecakes]

thank you so so much ♥️ our sweet little princess

[@kenadeet383]

Congratulations!! So happy for you guys 💜💜💜

[@juliephillips5848]

My son had his baby on the 7th of February. Her name is Athena River Phillips. She was 8lbs 6oz and 21.75 inches long. Congratulations

[@EstrellaT13]

Congratulations!! ❤💫

[@thesamarlife7135]

Congrats!! I’ve been looking forward to this video!! I know you don’t put her on social media and it is probably hard to tell, but does she look more like you or your husband? Just curious, and you probably can’t tell yet, so it’s fine if you can’t answer

[@PlayDatesandTravels]

Congrats on your 2nd baby!! I did see your IG announcement and was so happy to see you had a healthy delivery. Ack to no epidural though! I went in with my second baby asking what my options were too after they told me he would be arriving a little late and we were able to make an appointment. I didn't know you could make an appt if you were not doing a C-section so that was great news to me, and it made the annoying check in hospital process smoother because I wasn't in pain (so I totally get what you were complaining about there. I also want hospitals to streamline that!). About 45 minutes after I checked in I was able to get Pitocin and an epidural and smooth sailing from there! In my hospital the triage part happened with my husband in the room (they do ask if that is ok with me first) so it is also interesting to hear how different hospitals handle that. Also so cool to hear about the numerology!! It was definitely fate! So happy for your family. Enjoy these precious weeks and congrats again!!

[@morgansmith3230]

Your story is so similar to mine! I had my 3rd baby boy 11/2 at 2am. He was 8.5 and was born within 45 mins of making it to the hospital. I was in SOOO much pain when we got there. They rushed me to the emergency area to check in and be checked. I couldn’t even focus to sign in and everything it was all scribbles. So they hooked me up and checked me and I was a 7. They took my blood and told me they needed to get me upstairs to L&D. I got up there and they checked me again and I was a 10. They said I couldn’t get the epidural and I cried and cried! I thought I was gonna die! I told the ER dr over and over that I was gonna die! He was a blessing though, he coached me through it all and my baby was born safe and fast! He did end up having to cut me and I still had a 3rd degree tear but my recovery was still so much better than the other 2. I wouldn’t change a thing!!

[@88kellychan]

Omg I love ur room Winnie the Pooh

[@glitterginger]

Due dates are estimates. I wish women would understand this. 42 weeks is still a NORMAL due date. Rushing the natural process can end up hurting mom and baby.

[@joliendhollander]

Congratulations 🎊

[@lyndsaysrebornnurseryoffib4241]

Congratulations I love her name!

[@SWEETMCKAY]

Beautiful name❤️

[@laurita2225]

Allie thanks so much for sharing this I really appreciate the candor. I’m planning to start a family with my husband and I’m freaking terrified 😩 🤣

[@Sarah-yv8dn]

Congratulations on your baby girl. I'm so happy your birth was positive. My birth so was scary and traumatic it's nice to know there are postive birth experiences out there. Idk why people feel the need to judge a momma on how they feed their baby bottles and formula are a thing for a reason

[@moonstar4605]

Congrats, my niece was born on the same day too 💖💖

[@themissalliecakes]

awwwww yay congratulations auntie