My Boyfriend Beat The Sh*t Out Of My Brother And Sent Him To The ER, And Honestly, I'm Glad He Di...

[@JEDISKYEChannel]

1st story....damn put a ring on that man OP

[@Maj-SHIPWRECKED]

shame its fake. Hold that L

[@yourworstnightmare7343]

How entitled do you need to be to want your inlaws to apologise to you & essentially not have kids to spare tour feelings... ridiculous

[@justablackscreen9832]

That's obviously not what they want the apology for. It's for the in-laws not even once going "maybe this is hard for them. Lets give them some space"

[@GAMINGLEGACYTHE4TH]

​@@justablackscreen9832 You're right.

[@sadiiie]

@@justablackscreen9832 the story literally said the father locked himself in his study for TWO DAYS in mourning- yall are crazzzyyy if you think OP is in the right even at all

[@scpfoundation8376]

Wait I just realized, second OP didn’t even want kids. THE FXCK IS SHE MAD FOR?!

[@banespeace9079]

People like that just love drama and very self absorbed.

[@RylieRiddle]

Because she always had the ability until she married her husband, so if she changed her mind, she still had a chance. Now, unless she divorces her husband, she can't have kids since they don't like IVF, don't want to use a donor, and don't want to adopt. She should have been in therapy a long time ago about her thoughts but she just let things fester instead.

[@Mel_Love135]

⁠@@RylieRiddlehonestly I think the IVF was all her idea. She’s seems like the type to want a baby naturally

[@eric98292]

I'm sorry, bit is everyone supposed to be barren and not talk about kids just because they can't have kids? They don't want a donor or adopt so just shut up and get therapy.

[@yaoilover0]

I guess people can’t change their mind huh? Lol The lady had a whole miscarriage and no one cared. Then they shove someone else’s pregnancy in her face right after

[@laquietagray9323]

Story 1 why didn’t anyone else bother putting a end to the nonsense before. The brother has A Flowers in the Attic complex.

[@RenardNox]

A what complex? I’ve never heard of that before? Could you please explain.

[@juliepepin3988]

​@RenardNox, they meant V. C. Andrews books, Flower in the attic

[@sweeety969]

​@@RenardNoxit's a book about an incestuous relationship between two siblings that was caused by their mom abandoning them and shutting them away in the attic of her parents' house for years during their adolescence.

[@sweeety969]

Idk I get the vibe OP is leaving stuff out to paint herself as the victim. Like for all we know she could have been trying to date old guys or gangbangers. Even the guy she started dating at 17 was technically an adult already so maybe there's some info missing.

[@RenardNox]

@@sweeety969 thanks for the info pal! Also holy crap!

[@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121]

Feuding with a baby is WILD. I don’t think OP2 is a horrible person or anything but she needed therapy like a year ago. She’s not handling things well at all.

[@questions3983]

She's not even the infertile one, but the everything is about her. I don't think she truely took the time with the actual infertile person (her husband) and asked what he wanted to do and what he feels. She made it about herself and just drops the word husband in there every now and then. I feel for the husband. She made his infertility about herself. Instead of supporting and helping him through it, she basically wants him to cut off family for celebrating life. From the telling of her story, it seems the husband is playing off of her or trying to appease her in how she feels when he's the one person she needed to support the most. She went attack mode the moment someone else got preggo. Seems like it was a while before SiL got preggo, but OP not once ever thought to seek councelling to help her husband through it. Not only that, they only tried 1 fricken time and gave up. Didn't skund like OP tried very hard or for very long to try and concieve. Many people tried for many years before finally giving up. But they were also happy for others who did not have to endure their hardship. But here is OP EXPECTING his family to be the one who should have supported her husband when it should have been her. She pretty much layed all the blame on his family being happy a baby is born rather then helping her husband. Heck, she probably would have told SiL to get an abortion to make her feel better. The way she talked about SiL having to get a c-section was disgusting. She is someone who should never be a mother. The world doesn't or put itself on hold for anyone else.

[@thebestscientificmethod9304]

It’s seemed more like she was angry about the family not caring about the infertility and miscarriages more than the baby but yeah she needs serious help

[@Waluigi7891]

No she's definitely a horrible person.

[@thesheassheis]

I spent most of story 2 hoping it ends with divorce and husband finds a woman more accepting of his condition to the extent of even finding ways for them to have kids

[@clicksclacks]

OP in 2 is beyond bitter, get help like God damn. "UGH, she's getting fit to give birth? Wtf" "WOOOOOW, she REALLY doesn't know absolutely every risk involved with fertilization techniques WOOOOOW" "They WANT me to understand the baby will STILL be at gatherings? AIEEEEE!" "He said things will "get weird?!?" THREATS AND TERRORIST!" Is she gonna have a mental breakdown every time she sees a kid now? Her husband needs to divorce this psycho asap, yeesh.

[@cloroxflavoredbleach9362]

Honestly the family isn't blameless here either they're very hypocritical in some ways and insensitive in others

[@Adam-km2vf]

@@cloroxflavoredbleach9362 I agree to an extent, but when I look at it with the lense of the person telling the story always trying to make themselves look as good as possible, it makes me question how unreasonable the family were being, nothing that was said about them being bad came up until the updates, likely after the poster was getting reamed for being batshit crazy.

[@GAMINGLEGACYTHE4TH]

​@@Adam-km2vfNot everyone makes themselves look good, dude.

[@Adam-km2vf]

@@GAMINGLEGACYTHE4TH True, some people will tell the story as honestly as possible but I think we can agree most people try to spin stories to make themselves look the best they can.

[@mayeram]

Holy shit! How can op2 not see that she is the villain?

[@MiraTheWarlock]

The brothers obsession with OP is seriously creepy Sure when she was younger and such maybe overprotection's not so bad, but this level of possessiveness is sus. Good thing OPs boyfriend let the wannabe Targaryen know what's up

[@happilyevernever4289]

Calling him a Targaryan is a violation😂

[@SimonsafSimonsaf]

Did you not hear the part ! She freaking love it when brither play shiny knight ? Instead of putting a stop to it ? Yeah sister is sick in the head to !

[@Jarock316]

Unfortunately, the brother now has legal grounds to sue him for assault.

[@sweeety969]

Idk I think OP is leaving stuff out. Like, what kind of dudes was she trying to date? If it was old guys or wannabe gangsters there might be a reason he was so protective.

[@zierragacha5089]

@@Jarock316 He attacked first though, he was just defending himself

[@HirosukeMioji]

So glad everyone seems to have similar opinions about story 2, the only real victim here is OP's husband, jeez. He is the one who is infertile, not OP, he is the one who wants children, not OP, and he is the one being caught between his spouse and his blood-related family, not OP. Despite this, she insists on making everything about her and isn't even bothering to consider her husband's feelings on the matter and even blames him multiple times for trying to keep the peace instead of immediately taking her side on everything in life. Their situation and circumstances are very unfortunate but that does not give her a free pass to act however she wants towards everyone else. She was even given an opportunity to try and defuse the situation but she refused any outcome that didn't paint her as the one-sided victim. Her poor husband is being held hostage and forced to get dragged along with whatever his wife decides even if it means losing contact with the rest of his family, or else go through a really painful divorce.

[@yoshiyajoshuakiryu3198]

That baby woman needs serious therapy. She’s such a horrible person. I can’t have kids. My sister had four. One went to adoption behind us, two of them to the ex husband, and the one she has now. I shower the heck out of my nephew. I know that sometimes people can’t have kids and you’re not obligated to. It happened. Move on. If I were the husband I would’ve left because she’s essentially bullying him that he’s sterile.

[@RoseFloofer]

That second story is so, aggravating. I understand how infertility is so hard to deal with, but theyre making the whole situation about them and not the new baby. And whats worse is that I dont think the partner was that upset by it but was made to be by her.

[@nikkonreinold3317]

I think husband IS suffering the Most Just AS men usually do completely in silence untill ITS too much. I Just don't Like His inactivity. Obviously He IS in a Bad place but He needs to Take Action since He IS the one WHO will be affected the most

[@pirateskeleton7828]

Second story summary: “I’m miserable due to things beyond my control and expect everyone to also be miserable so I can feel better about myself. “

[@randomsheep1165]

The brother in story 1 literally sounds like he's romantically obsessed with his own sister

[@unaagabii6584]

The second OP is selfish and toxic. Infertility can be hard, but she's acting like the baby existing is an offense against her in particular, like she's the only person in the world that can't have children and is making the baby's birth all about herself. She needs therapy, but she just wants her in-laws to enable her and act like she's the center of the universe.

[@suem8591]

She is struggling and clearly her in laws and rest of family have had no empathy or sympathy for her situation. I mean unless one goes through infertility issues one would not understand the heartbreak of it, even the therapist has said how awful family's behaviour has been. Did you not read that?

[@matthewrossi3923]

I think I am emotionally unable to respond to what you’re saying with civility. That’s not your fault and I’m fighting very hard not to lash out at you because you don’t even know me and you’re certainly not trying to hurt me. But as the husband to a woman who is having hysterectomy Because she might die, I feel like your statement is very selfish and blames someone else for being unable to quickly emotionally process their trauma. I will never have children not because I personally can’t but because the person I love can’t I think you’re not catching that that’s part of the trauma for this woman that She’s fertile but because of the actions of other people situation she didn’t sign up for has been inflicted on her. It’s no one‘s fault, but it’s still hard to deal with when someone you love goes through this kind of thing and you realize that you are never going to have, what other people will have it hurts. I empathize with her because I understand how she just wants to be able to pull back from the rest of this family. It’s not that she hates her sister-in-law or her sister-in-law‘s baby, it’s just that she needs the ability to be left alone and deal with her pain, and she can’t do that. They won’t stop pushing her , so I disagree with your statement. Again, I understand that you meant nothing malicious by it, but you need to understand that for a lot of people like myself the pain can get so intense and you just need a little time to not be forced to act like you’re happy when you’re not.

[@michaell872]

​@suem8591 She isn't infertile, her husband is. They could use a donor. Plus she said she never wanted kids until she found out her husband couldn't have them. And it sounds like her husband wants to be involved but OP is demanding he have no relationship with his niece.

[@unaagabii6584]

@@suem8591 I also read that she's happy that her SIL is having a c-section and mocking the situation, and that she's been lashing out at the family for the SIL's whole pregnancy, at least because of what BIL said. She also expects not to have reminders of SIL's pregnancy in family functions or family group chats, and even when she steps out of said functions still resents the family for celebrating the pregnancy when she's not there. She did mention that MIL toned it down in her presence, but it's not realistic to expect the family not to celebrate or talk about the birth. I get that infertility is a struggle, but I think she's handling it the wrong way, and I think it's sad that the husband wants to be a part of the baby's life to feel like he has a baby of his own, but he doesn't have OP's support when he's the infertile one. That poor man must feel devastated, but I don't think the way OP is posting/reacting is healthy.

[@kotorisama3080]

I get that people cope differently but gf needs to step off the entitled platform and chill tf out. She acts as if the in laws were maliciously rubbing it in their faces or mocking them for being infertile. They were literally just behaving how a family would with a new born. Biiitch sit down. Hubs needs to divorce her azz

[@artemislove2941]

story 2 this woman just wants yes men. thats why she keeps getting mad at people downvoting her

[@miarbnsn]

She's not infertile, her husband is but she never talks about her husband and his struggles

[@thatoneguy9816]

She doesn’t care lol

[@aishas2497]

I feel she is angry with her husband being infertile but doesn't want to dump him for it in case of the backlash. Technically, nothing is forcing her from leaving and starting afresh, but she is afraid to do it and instead hates on her sil.

[@MissBoxxx]

Okay, OP of second story is just UNHINGED.

[@jamaicangirl8933]

Nope we need a stronger word than unhinged

[@kotorisama3080]

She’s in some far far off delulu land

[@artemislove2941]

story 2 they’re definitely not telling the therapist the whole truth about op’s feelings and reactions. she literally was happy her sil got a c-section, an extremely traumatic surgery for the mind and body

[@Svensk7119]

2nd OP is subconsciously jealous that her husband can't have kids, while his sister can.

[@scpfoundation8376]

While she doesn’t even want kids herself. The narcissism is real.

[@Svensk7119]

@scpfoundation8376 Possibly. But they did put effort into artificial insemination. The fact that they were unsure of kids doesn't make the inability less difficult. Also, that she could if her husband could just makes it more emotionally complex, I'd bet.

[@shilawebb708]

​@@scpfoundation8376for real, and I'm confused if the husband was infertile how did she get pregnant? 🤦‍♀️

[@Brit626]

​@@shilawebb708His sperm count is likely very low? I dunno that could be a possibility. I'm talking LOW low.

[@Zan140]

Story 2: The wife is demonic She’s hurt yet she retaliates by hurting everyone and stopping them from : A- forbidding the husband from being an uncle and be in the child’s life B- ruining the SIL pregnancy experience C- celebrating the addition in the family This lady needs therapy and yet. The only thing that I would hold the family accountable for is thatbthey didn’t suggest it to her especially the BIL who chose to make that statement

[@kandaceanderson8262]

Second story no disrespect to anybody that can't have kids. But what the f*** do you expect? People to just not have kids. She needs major therapy. Because at this point, you need to just stay in your house by yourself all the time. No TV, no internet, no nothing, because you're gonna see a baby. And again, I understand her hurt and her pain, but what do you expect? People aren't just gonna stop living their lives.Because you can't have kids

[@sweeety969]

I think she wanted to be the first to have kids and now that someone else beat her to it and got the spotlight she's fuming.

[@Hazbiological-bn3ox]

Sounds like she didn’t want competition, typical.. she now had everyone supporting her, calling the Sister in Law, entitled.

[@gremlinsmasher9720]

Story1: op needs to sue the brother and put a restraining order on a creepy brother who is obviously in-love with the sister. Lol op awards best gift to bf.

[@questions3983]

Okay, story 2, in order for the husband to get better and actually heal, he needs to lose the wife. All I hear is me, me, me and what about my feelings when she ain't even the damn one with the fertility issues. And honestly, it sounds like quite a bit of the "us" and "our" decision were mainly hers. She was soooooo offended that he said he wanted to be a part of HIS NIECES LIFE! And it looks like their fertility issue was learned long before the sister in law got preggo. OP is delusional to think that a baby would not be celebrated by family and taken to every family event. Like others said, OP didn't even want kids. She just want the drama and focus on her because of husbands infertility. I feel like OP left out a lot of things in regards to how the husbands family actually treated them and how she treated his family. She litterally took BiLs words and twisted it into a threat. It was not a threat, but sounded more like a statement, but BiL is right. They do need to figure someone out for themselves because that baby is family and it would get awkward fast if they death glare a newborn for attending a family function. It honestly sounded like the husband wanted to try, but the crazy OP decided for them they should have nothing to do with the baby. Therapy should have been done a long time ago. Long before SiL found out she was preggo. But OP is definately not a supportive loving wife. She litterally looking for drama to make it about herself.

[@johnnyhall9154]

Story 2 sounds like she is horrible and does blame her husband for this.

[@laquietagray9323]

The husband needs a divorce!

[@Brit626]

Why would she blame her husband for his feritility issues? The only thing it sounds like she's incredibly frustrated by is that her husband is obviously steuggling with his new reality, and his family doesn't give a damn. In fact, his own brother tells him to get over it. I would be LIVID if someone told my husband that. Nevermind the fact that they shoved SIL's pregnacy down OP and her husband's throat not too long after they'd have a miscarriage. His family are shitty people who obviously don't care about the suffering and mental wellness of one child over celebrating the achievement of another. If anything, Husband's family has won an express, one way ticket to No Contactville.

[@nikkonreinold3317]

​@@Brit626huh? Sorry to Hit you with this reality Check but your Statement that the in-laws handle IT badly IS Just bs. I think they werent even too far Off from doing what they can so. OP IS Just at apoint where she hateblames everybody except herself and her husband. She even blamed her Mil and fil for the genes. That's Not Something a Person in their right mind would do. And also this IS a conflict of perspectives so ITS OK for the participants to highly emotional with the Situation. But an Outsider Like You should have the necessary distance to judge fairly. The in-laws Not being in Here Shit after her miscarriage IS Just one of 2 Options they Had. How often do you hear people that they don't want to be treated Like victims. You can never be 100% certain that the choice you are taking IS the right one. I think the in-laws are very respectful, i think OP IS very selfabsorbed but for her circumstances she is doing okayish. I don't Like that she is manipulating her husband into this wedge but again she doesn't think clearly and how could she. But f the husband, He might be at the lowest but Dude really needs to get a GRIP and make a decision, any decision. He IS Just dangling from day to day and IS deer in headlights that all His relationships are going to Shit. How does He Not have an opinion

[@tellingreallife]

Even though we might never meet, my best wishes are with everyone who reads this. I wish you happiness, success, and prosperity in every aspect of your life.

[@joyceshelton1654]

Story 2: Wife is really angry with husband for being infertile and taking it out on everyone else instead of dealing with the real issue. She should just stop punishing her husband, divorce him and find a man she can have children with.

[@scpfoundation8376]

Just one problem. She doesn’t want kids. The fxck is she even mad for?

[@I_urge_to_count]

Does anyone else think the wife in the second story is actually kind of a jackass. Like on some things I get, but does she just want everyone to ignore the baby that has been born?

[@ScottBub]

Yeah, she’s so ridiculous.

[@RaeofSun88]

She's the biggest asshole.

[@scpfoundation8376]

@@RaeofSun88 Crazy that people in her comments actually support her but I guess that is an infertility sub. Most would be sympathetic to her even if what she says is beyond outlandish.

[@gitanjalipanigrahi4483]

I mean she herself said she never wanted to have a baby. Bro fr pick a side. I think the only reason she wasn't informed beforehand of the baby shower because everyone knew she is bitter over her SIL having a baby. Like is it a crime to BE PREGNANT?

[@questions3983]

The major issues I have with this OP is that she ain't even the infertile one, but she made it all about herself. World is gonna keep moving and that includes the fertile family memebers. Why should they put their life on hold for OP ajd her husband? To spare them their feelings? OP needs to get over herself and should have actually started support her husband a long time ago instead of expecting his family to do it. It's a failure as a wife and good thing she ain't a mother.

[@dianaclark3916]

Story 2 really rubbed me the wrong way. Idk if its how shes telling it or what, but 1. She said she didn't want kids 2. Shes not infertile, her husband is and while being married to him means his infertility affects her...idk it seems like she makes her feelings on the topic priority and her husbands only matter if he agrees with her 3. Why does she want his parents to feel guilty about something they didn't know? They weren't engaging in " at risk " behavior. They had multiple children together, probably never crossed their minds they were both carriers of infertility genes 4. It really feels like op wants the family to be in mourning for the husband being infertile and not celebrate the new baby in the family. 5. Its fair that op fskw because their was no condolences given when she miscarried, however miscarriage is DEEPLY personal. If OP was giving the statement that they were ok being child free and that she really didn't want kids in the first place...i can see why no one would make a fuss. Idk I'm trying to be empathetic and understanding especially since this isn't anything ive personally experienced or ever will, but its very off putting. Its reading like her feelings are the only ones that matter...not even her husband's feelings matter and HE'S the infertile one.

[@Skylar_glasser]

Agreed 100% I hate that pos woman

[@Pennyadodumuss]

If one's fine with not having kids, why be bothered by someone who can and is?

[@Skylar_glasser]

@@Pennyadodumuss exactly

[@dianaclark3916]

@@Pennyadodumuss exactly

[@Thaddius0]

I can see where OP2 is coming from, but the BIL was 1000% when he said she was pregnant for a whole 9 months. There was ample time to emotionally prepare for it without trying to make everything about herself. This is a story how 5+ people got sick of her being insufferable so they quit trying to appease her

[@blueroses4373]

Op 2 is such a Karen.

[@heyyitsjanea]

2nd op needs a psychiatrist

[@chocolatemonster07]

OP 2 is so so bitter, she's an obstacle in her own life, she airs her bitterness publicly but gets offended by people disagreeing and calling her out.

[@Loafster_P]

OP 2 is a selfish pig of a woman. Nothing but “me, me, me, my feelings, what about me?” I think one of the most telling statements was when she said in reference to her spouse being extremely depressed “my heart is breaking for him so hard, I can’t even think about my own” hopefully there’s divorce paper in the future

[@missybuchanan9631]

Weirdly enough, I’ve always kinda wanted kids but never bothered to peruse having them. My SIL had my niece 7 years ago then got pregnant again straight away. A friend repeatedly told her she didn’t want the new baby so she should give it to me as I clearly adored my niece. I was so happy to be an aunt and a SIL, and I knew how SIL and bro truely felt about their Irish twins. Nothing made me upset about never having kids except those comments. Like the audacity some people have to speak on other people’s babies is wild!

[@Nicholem718-1]

Jealousy is so freakin ugly.

[@sir-ani8927]

28:19 i fuckibg hate this op. Hope they divorce. Shes being so weirdly controlling of whether or not her husband has a relationship with his familt and feels personally attacked by things that arent a problem at all

[@Whooachannel]

For the second story i really could NOT stand the OP. She was acting extremely entitled and selfish. And now she's driving a huge wedge between her husband and his family by forcing him to choose sides when shes the one creating issues. She blames the parents for her husband's infertility as if they knew there was an issue or a possibility of passing alone a genetic illness. Then shes mad the mil didnt feel guilty for passing along a genetic problem she didnt even know she had, mil has no reason to feel guilty about that. Were her comments a little mean? Maybe, but shes not wrong that she has nothing to feel guilty for. And sil wanting to talk to her family about her pregnancy and being excited to share the news YEARS after the OPs miscarriage isnt wrong. OP has been fine around other kids and babies so why would sil assume her baby would be an issue? And then claiming she treated sil politely the entire time she she openly talked about how her husband and herself were cold and distant while the sil talked about her pregnancy and borderline rude? And then denying her husband the right to have a relationship with his own nephew just because SHE cant handle it? Were there some asshole moves on the part of the inlaws? Yea, there were without a dount, but overall OP is the problem. Also telling sil she doesnt have a seat at the table or say on what happens with HER OWN CHILD is a whole new level of entitlement ive never seen before. And yea she SHOULD have a sit down with sil and air everything out. Communication is a GOOD way to solve problems and is the ADULT thing to do. Especially considering it concerns her wanting to have access to sils baby. Does she owe her an apology for not attending the baby shower? No, sil was not entitled to OPs presence, but she should have a heart to heart with sil to help her understand why its so hard for her to be around the baby, and why she needs the distance until she can come to terms with the fact that she will likely never have a bio child with her husband. Also she cant claim to love her husband and watch him be torn apart as she cracks open the wedge between him and his family further and further because she cant get out of her own head about sils baby

[@Zminator1986]

Jeez what's wrong with OP 2? First she says she's her husband is infertile, but suddenly she gives a damn that someone else has a baby and is somehow offended by it? Get over yourself! The world DOESN'T revolve around you!

[@donnamason938]

S1, is brother in love with sister? His involvement almost sounds incestuous.

[@mriddley]

19:50 translation: I'm only here so you can all say I'm right and everyone else is wrong if you dont agree with me go away hope the husband leaves this crazy lady soon what will she do if she goes to the grocery store and sees a baby while shes getting her coping wine just leave her shopping and run out the store she needs to get over herself

[@vang-n3t]

Imagine having to walk on egg shells around someone like op2. Sheesh. Imagine beefing with an infant. Sheeeesssshhhh.

[@UchuKejiMovan]

OP's brother was on that Tony Montana no one's good enough for my sister because I'm in love with my sister stuff 😂. Boyfriend avoided a serious charge because of who his parents were not because of eyewitness testimony. The law says the Boyfriend went overboard protecting himself if OP's description is true

[@far2noble386]

He is lucky her brother didn’t come back around with a firearm

[@Levithos]

"I'm just using the mentality the police have: When force enters the equation, it becomes the equation."

[@lashunelillie9896]

Story1 The brother is a little weird. That's his sister

[@sweeety969]

Honestly thinks there's missing info. Like maybe she was trying to date 20yos at 16 or something like that. I wouldn't pass judgement unless I hear more on that one.

[@thesixthkid7689]

I actually do get the brother *to an extent*. As brothers, and one myself, I don't want my sister to be with someone who's unsafe or screwed up plus they're young. OP said she was 18 when this happened, you don't have your life mapped out at that age so I get his protectiveness. That ended when the brother took a swing at the bf at first sight. There's keeping your siblings safe and keeping your siblings alone. If he wanted to be guarded and skeptical that's fine but only be aggressive when you need to be, brother got aggressive for no reason.

[@nikkonreinold3317]

Sad to see that the comments are this harsh for the second story. Its obvious that op and her husband are emotionally burnt out to the point where there is no other emotion beside hate and the dilusion how she regards her own actions. But i dont consider her malicious she is just very, very lost and obviously needs help

[@Daisy-ue9vk]

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[@ImmerGenau2624]

S2: op needs a therapist big time. Feels like rage bait. They are selfish? Nah, she’s selfish and doesn’t communicate directly and expects everyone to just know. ETA: they are all awful at the end of it. Just, what.

[@HeoBaby24]

crazy looking in the comments of the second op, crazy to see how many people are actually agreeing with and thinking she not wrong for expecting people to put they're life on hold on having kids. going as far as to blame the in-laws for her for her husbands being infertile. and then she not even infertile yet she fucking whining? even her husband doesn't care like wtf

[@gitanjalipanigrahi4483]

S2- like this lady is somehow nuts me think. She didn't want children. Husband is infertile. Everyone must have been extremely accomodating to them until SIL had a baby. I mean, is it really a crime for her to have a baby? Do you have to go to this extreme as much as avoiding family event. Op kept repeating people disrespecting her but who actually did? Just because his sister had a baby doesn't mean he has to cut his family off..... She kept saying "it is her right to write a PR" but the husbands family doesn't have any rights?

[@scpfoundation8376]

Okay, I understand infertility does stuff to you mentally. But this is a whole load of “ignore baby and other family because I’m hurt baby exists” word vomit. She can’t be this much of an insecure a$$hole that her own husband can’t be an uncle. He’s kinda spineless for going along with her honestly. Therapy should’ve already been a thing in their life if this is what’s making them cut contact with family.

[@happilyevernever4289]

You do realize this all stems from the family not showing her support when she and his husband needed it the most? Once U get neglected like that repeatedly, resentment is bound to brew

[@scpfoundation8376]

@@happilyevernever4289 so take it out on a baby? Plus this is only her side we’re getting. We don’t get her husbands version or any other family members version. And if the entire family is against her and even her husband started fizzling to his family’s side despite being with OP most of the time. I think that says something. Plus, it’s obvious she NEVER got any sort of therapy prior to all of this. So is that the perfect life? Locking yourself and your husband away from everyone, not going anywhere or looking at social media, no tv, nothing, because GoD fOrBiD bAbY eXisTs AnD mAkEs Me CrY? Also keep in mind that SHES NOT INFERTLE, HER HUSBAND IS! SHE DIDNT EVEN WANT KIDS, HOW THE FXCK DOES SHE HAVE ANY RIGHT TO BE MAD AT PEOPLE FOR HAVING BABIES?!?!?!

[@Brit626]

​@@happilyevernever4289And to be frank, you can sense OP's frustration throughout this whole second post and its consecutive updates; she isn't mad that SIL had a baby, she's upset and hurt that they're focusing solely on SIL while chucking hubby to the wayside. -- BIL is also well within his rights to feel frustrated, but what he sent was uncalled for and needlessly cruel. I would be LIVID if someone told my husband what BIL said to Hubs.

[@DCD762]

Sorry but in story 2 OP and husband are in the wrong If the shoe was in the other foot, and sil did the same to OP, she would be posting how unfair their behaviour towards her was Guess what, others don't have to give up on their happiness because you haven't achieved yours

[@scpfoundation8376]

Here, let me help you. OP, the one who is NOT INFERTLE and DOESN’T want kids the one crying about it. Not her Husband. Husband wants to be in his nieces life, but OP won’t allow it.

[@DCD762]

@@scpfoundation8376 he wanted that afterwards I posted this before he declared such

[@adya7958]

S2: She really wants to make everything about herself. Wow! Spouse's family isn't all that great since they were not supportive furing their infertility struggles.

[@Chubbasaurus]

Story 2. Honestly, OP sounds like a chronic martyr and possibly a narcissist who is seriously projecting. Everything has to be about her and her feelings. Everyone has to coddle her and her feelings. Every hardship has to be about her - even though it's her husband who is suffering with infertility and she openly admits she doesn't even want children. By the way she's acting, she wants everyone to be constantly apologetic and sympathetic and pitying, and turn every celebration for the SIL and baby into a pity party for her - "honouring her situation". She has to be the center of attention no matter what, and everyone who doesn't placate her is "entitled" and "insensitive" and "disrespectful". And after all this, she outright enjoys any suffering SIL has to endure.

[@zierragacha5089]

The title made me laugh 🤣

[@s4meerbankupalli164]

The OP in second story is giving major "blue haired karen" vibes 😂

[@wegeaastrike25]

The thumbnail holy crap😂

[@RylieRiddle]

S2: she keeps saying her infertility. It's not hers, it's the husband's! OP can still have kids herself but husband doesn't want them, having accepted his infertility and embraced it. She should have divorced him once she realized she really did want kids and he didn't want to do anything about it.

[@RepellentJeff]

That’s what I was thinking. She’s not even the one who’s infertile! _And she doesn’t even want kids!_ What is in this woman’s ear!?

[@RylieRiddle]

@@RepellentJeff she needed therapy a long time ago because she clearly does want them, but is trying to keep up the child free thing because of her husband. He's okay with his infertility while it's awakened anger and jealousy in his wife towards his sister.

[@laquietagray9323]

Yeah these 2 need to divorce like yesterday.

[@DCD762]

Why would SIL in story 2 lessen her happiness? Fine it's ducked up what happened to her brother, but why should others walk on eggshells around him? This OP sounds very entitled, besides she said she didn't want kids Only outrage is OP behaviour

[@marcushallin4594]

S1 I love the last part I really do hope they marry eachother

[@vikaastrakh2828]

I actually pity OP from 2 story. No one in her husband's gave sh*t about their problems (before the SIL's baby, miscarriage and all that), and they keep forcing her to see the baby. However, I think she needed to attend therapy regarding their infertility issues long ago, and maybe get off her husband a little, so he can see his niece/nephew

[@sweeety969]

No one is forcing her to do shit. She expects them to cater to her completely and keep baby and BM in a separate room, isolated from her during events like a leper for daring to do something she couldn't. She expects them to put her in first class and feels entitled to it so she wouldn't have to see the baby on the plane, and probably thinks they should put her up elsewhere on holiday too. She's literally getting a free trip on their dime and has all these expectations of special treatment from everyone just because she has a chip on her shoulder. I would have sympathised a little if she hadn't acted so entitled about the plane tickets and gone all "oh they're rich, they can afford it" when she admitted they bought her first class tickets when she threw a fit.

[@iggritjelnov6249]

THIS 1000%​@@sweeety969

[@vikaastrakh2828]

@sweeety969 they (SIL) made a big deal when OP didn't attend babyshower. They also made a big deal when OP left group chat

[@66DoodleGal]

Story 1: The brother is obviously attracted to OP and can't take ANY male being around her

[@Ks9999-sa]

Some people can mourn a miscarriage quietly and 'gracefully' and some people truly cant. Its kind of sad that theres no space in this world for the latter.

[@Sg190th]

Overprotective behavior is crazy

[@eldenlion5850]

Story 1: Well Brother knows who the f*ck BF is now, and I'm sure he won't forget.

[@Vipre-]

18:39 Story 2: Lady, get some therapy or just call the marriage done and go find someone to have a kid with.

[@cloroxflavoredbleach9362]

Honestly for the second story it seems like everyone here has problems, the op is vindictive and the family is overly controlling in terms of what they want the family to be like while being insensitive to their problems

[@hedgehog7775]

Story 2 is kind of an everyone is an asshole. The family clearly hates her, and she clearly hates them back, and she should if they never have her any support (especially the MIL because she miscarried and didn't say anything after her own Stillborn and grief). SIL and OP both have the right to feel the way they do, and they are both extremely selfish and hostile so nothing will get better. No one in this story knows how to communicate appropriately with someone about a topic without it being a full blown confrontation. They all frankly need to go to therapy and become better people.

[@HeoBaby24]

only op sucks she shouldn't expect everyone to put they're life on hold for her

[@sweeety969]

OP is going out of her way to maximise the drama though. She removes herself from the group chat the day her SIL gives birth?! Then when confronted god forbid she let her husband make a statement to save face, no, she needs to completely control him and his relationship with his family and any chance he takes to smooth things over she backtracks because she's trying to alienate him from his family until the only people in their scope are childless people, so basically just nobody.

[@BleachDemon69]

Dude had a sister complex

[@VioletWolf22]

The second story op needs therapy and i think the husband should probably divorce her because that's his family, he wants to have a relationship with baby to help him deal with the fact he can't start a family like he would have liked too

[@YahavehsSoldier]

This may not be liked much, but for Story 2... I'm of the ESH line of thinking. OP is bitter. Straight up. I get the feelings she has dealing with infertility and the miscarriage. She needs therapy to deal with it and deal with the fact that she will have to see that child at family gatherings. Her and husband need couples therapy. The family: They could have been much kinder. The fact that no one came forward to offer understanding in the beginning is rough. Especially the way MIL handled it. I hate the way some people handle having grandchildren and the way they treat people if they can't have them. How callous she was with OP while dealing with the miscarriage and commentsto her son about passing along the infertility gene. BIL... yeah, I get wanting to protect your wife and child, but the way he goes about it is not okay. SIL needs no apology.

[@Zenossma]

The thumbnail 😭😭😭

[@Scyon13]

The Minecraft is driving me crazy

[@therealkixkingz]

I cant believe a therapist actually agreed with this nut husband is a simp that follows his wife orders

[@creator_redwood552]

first time W op's boyfriend and op made their boyfriend a happy man

[@Jarock316]

That W is gonna turn into an L as they just gave the brother a new weapon he can use, the courts.

[@creator_redwood552]

@@Jarock316 nah the brother was in the wrong and the family member witness him throwing the first hit. so he's now his own. so it's still a W man

[@HyattDeValois]

Op2 is bitter yes, unhinged yes, but also i think she is subconciously upset with her husband being infertile and the fact that her biological clock is running. Also i think this all started because of the lack of support they recieved when they were going through ivf and had the infertility news and now shes watching everyone rejoicing over a new baby she cant have. Its sad but i could see how her spiral started based on what she says

[@therealkixkingz]

Story 2 OP is a weird witch and controlling, thats his family why would the husband not want to be apart of the babies life

[@VioletWolf22]

Op in the second story wasn't telling the therapist the whole correct story and also the therapist words are going by what was said

[@sinbadwilliams7186]

Day 62 of telling secretvoices to have a good day

[@SecretVoices25]

Day 62 of telling you to have a great day

[@Aman1ta_Muscar1a]

OP in story 2 is acting like she's the one that's infertile. Get over yourself lady, you're not the sun.

[@boneboy711]

I got bored of the second story.

[@austinfowler2707]

So, a peak into the mind of men. As adults, we should absolutely do our best to be better, do better. We should try to talk things out and be rational. But sometimes Violence just makes things faster. Doesn't make it the best solution. But I would be lying if I said I'd never wished to get violent to make the current problem go away faster. Brother throwing hands the literal moment he found out his sister brought a man honestly satisfied that primal emotion. It made the problem real. It made it simple. I do wish brother was a better person. Willing to listen to OP when she asked him to stop. Hopefully, brother learns. Not learns to attack better. But to learn to mind his own business and let OP be a person. Which was his biggest flaw here. By trying to baby OP, he was treating her like an object. That it was his right to do with her as he pleases. By getting inbetween her love interests, it gave him an ego and sense of control. He needs to learn to let OP be a person. Not "well, I'll just attack vocally so I don't get punched in the future".

[@dmanic-pq8wp]

Op 1 sucks as much as her bother. Instead of solving her own problems like a grown ass women she put in boyfriend in a dangerous situation for nothing. Like, what if he took a bad hit and gotten seriously hurt? What if he got arrested?

[@SenatiaA]

She tried, but her family was enabling him. But hold on, her brother attacked a man without provocation, and you are blaming her for that?

[@66DoodleGal]

@@SenatiaA Way to victim blame

[@sweeety969]

Ok but how old were the other guys first op was trying to pick up cause she was dating an 18yo at 17 so maybe the reason she was copping so much shit from her brother was cause she was going after grown men. Her childish attitude about her bf putting her brother in hospital and lack of foresight (if he can do that to her brother what can he do to her?) is alarming. Im not advocating for the brother being abusive but theres definitely a lack of info on OP's behalf that is extremely suspicious under these circumstances.

[@N..P..]

Oh look, another fake story 😂

[@CyberweaverVT]

Does anyone have “comment doubting the legitimacy of one or more of the stories” on their bingo card?

[@tedlaver]

@@CyberweaverVTStory two smells awfully like rage bait, but it is the kind of thing that can come from untreated trauma compounded by the influence of an echo chamber (like Reddit can be). IMO probably not fake, but I can’t blame anyone for thinking it is.

[@tweety3893]

The I Don’t Negotiate With T3reori$t Took Me Out 🤣😂🤣 🫨

[@Emil_LLscpfan]

Day 277 of commenting to help secretvoices

[@thiquepineappletv4510]

This the type of shit I come to reddit KZbin for YESS ABSOLUTELY YESS🤌🏾🤌🏾