my breakup: what I learned from my 5-year relationship

[@karalee21]

i love the variety in content ur giving us! it lets us get to know u even better and makes u feel like even more of a best friend ❤️

[@PaigeSecosky]

♥️♥️♥️

[@l0lliezoe3x]

Couldn’t agree more! You’re getting more and more relatable x

[@destinyking8218]

i've been following you since your college days & it's been so so beautiful to see you grow up, esp being similar in age! you've always been like an older sister! ty for sharing

[@PaigeSecosky]

omgg 🥹 I love love love you!

[@valerysanchez]

thanks for such an open and honest talk, i loved this.

[@PaigeSecosky]

🥹♥️

[@sabrinarenee8204]

“People fall SO in love with potential” wow

[@ПолинаКудряшова-м1х]

the phrase 'fall in love in people, not in their potential' has given SOOO many thoughts to me.... now it feels like an insight

[@viktorialode]

You should do more podcast, loved the vid

[@PaigeSecosky]

Hehe 🤭

[@chiinyecerezo_]

Wow I really loved this conversation. I went through my first breakup this year and at first I hated myself for not crying or doing anything, my emotions were numb and everything seemed pointless but with time I realized that we were not made for each other. It was my first relationship and I didn’t really know how to express my thoughts and concerns, but I learned so many things from it and it made me mature so much mentally. I haven’t started to date other people yet because I can’t force myself to meet new people and get hurt, but honestly I feel so seen with this convo and the guilt is really going away with time!! Thank u so much guys❤️

[@chiinyecerezo_]

Also I’m so sorry for any possible mistakes my first language is not English 😭🙏🏽

[@sherylneptune]

When you spoke about rather being alone, I felt so seen. I'm really okay with being alone and so if I do have a partner, they really need to align with me and make my life better.

[@1031gem]

Omggg yay ! Been waiting for this one , ty for sharing

[@carlisimoneee]

Ahhh! I've been waiting for this! I was in a very similar position around the same time of the life of your relationship and your breakup. Seeing you thrive after the breakup gave me so much strength to move forward with what I wanted for myself.

[@PaigeSecosky]

Be so proud of yourself!! ♥️

[@loup7182]

I LOVE this, you are in the exact situation my boyfriend was in, we found each other at the perfect time on our lives and this video helped me to understand him better. Thank you so much for that, and your authenticity

[@jazminjimenez1929]

the way i resonated with this video is insane. thank you for your vulnerability & in sharing your experience paige ♥️

[@jbarragann]

I’ve been watching you for so long since the high school vlogs 🥲 you’ve always been an inspiration and thanks for sharing with us!!!

[@Lexsi.marie14]

I liked this style video! Thanks for sharing. I left my 10 year relationship a few months ago and it’s been hard. This was a relatable topic and good perspective

[@cklove3]

I’m going through the same situation right now and seeing this video has felt like a big positive affirmation on a lot of things that have been on my mind since the break up with my ex of 4 years. loved this sm ♥️needed 2 hear this

[@Princessm2025]

Omg love both of you guys! Such different but amazing energies! And I’m glad you are free 🫶🏽

[@coatminus6370]

Thank you for being so vulnerable with us❤

[@abigailargueta6721]

Love you and Christina together ❤ thank you for being open and vulnerable with us

[@PaigeSecosky]

♥️♥️♥️

[@perriewinkle]

Hi Paige, I was just brokenup with literally a few days ago after 5 years and a few months. I relate so much. Thank you for sharing, you seem like a wonderful person! This is also the first video of yours I see. Podcasts definitely suit you!

[@emmaeck2626]

Loved this 🫶🏻 thank you Paige for being so open and vulnerable with us ❤️

[@catherine1211]

I’ve literally been subscribed since you did outfit of the days back in high school. I’m now 25 and I have a son. And about to be divorced, I really enjoyed this video and your thoughts. I completely agree.

[@PaigeSecosky]

so cute we got to grow together, I wish you the best angel ♥️

[@catherine1211]

@@PaigeSecosky same to you pretty girly 💗

[@oliviacolone]

we love you Paige, thank you for this video!! 🤍♥️

[@PaigeSecosky]

♥️♥️♥️

[@lustinasea9755]

im loving this new podcast style format, we want moooooore sending you love from morocco❤️

[@JulissaAlvarez18]

I loved this video! I hope you do more like this ❤️

[@jaisofiaxo]

Proud of you always Queen ❤❤

[@PaigeSecosky]

thanks angel 🥹

[@opinionatednobody5631]

the zoom ins were kinda distracting and a bit unnessarry imo but great video anyway love you paige will be saving this for the day i get out of a long term relationship. first step: get in one.

[@PaigeSecosky]

thanks for the feedback, love you ♥️

[@christiancoleman4396]

"will be saving this for the day i get out of a long term relationship" That's so weird to say. The fact that you're planning for the end of a long term relationship. Just don't get in a relationship lol

[@sherylneptune]

This conversation was so important

[@jasminesophia5009]

I absolutely lovvvvveddd this podcast type vibe video! The conversation was soo good and I think a lot of us girlies can resonate with it or just simply take away something important from this. Xoxo

[@amiraelara]

just what i neede at this moment in my life, currently going thru it

[@kennedysmith6967]

Please do more podcast!! Love this

[@lovebugssoup161]

Needed this, currently in LDR

[@loomyyy17]

lovedd this!

[@PaigeSecosky]

♥️♥️♥️

[@sherylneptune]

I haven't been in long relationships because I always wanted to focus on my future. It was really hard to come to terms with this because I had met someone I really got on well with but truthfully I had no intentions on sacrificing some of my time so I had to give up on that. It's hard to be selfish at times because there's this feeling of what if I never get to experience this again. I would still encourage people to be selfish nonetheless.

[@leledawg83]

You can hear the wine kick in towards the end 😂

[@JJ-lf4vq]

Very interesting, thanks for sharing. From someone that’s been in a relationship for 10 years & high school sweethearts, I don’t know if a long distance relationship is comparable to someone that spent the same amount of time with someone and it wasn’t long distance. Also when she said high school sweetheart relationships do the same thing years later. I wouldn’t say that’s always true if you’re not long distance. I think that plays a huge role in how a break up can affect someone/how a relationship grows. Just an opinion to share.

[@PaigeSecosky]

Yes, I’m definitely speaking from a personal experience! Everyone’s relationship is different and some people can stay with their high school sweetheart forever but this was just my experience (:

[@arathypanicker6052]

Love you girl

[@PaigeSecosky]

Love you ♥️

[@anisafarooq1426]

This was amazing

[@PaigeSecosky]

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[@v1ct0r1aas]

We love you!❤

[@PaigeSecosky]

Love you!! ♥️

[@alexandracano5738]

This helped me so much I really needed to hear this for my long term relationship and how we are also going on different paths ! Thank you for this 🩷

[@PaigeSecosky]

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[@MabelPerez]

omg!!!!! i love it

[@PaigeSecosky]

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[@sherylneptune]

Can you do a segment with an anonymous advice thing. Like we send in scenarios about our live and you give us advice? Or we just send in things we want to hear other people's perspectives

[@parad.i]

We need a podcast!

[@PaigeSecosky]

COMING SOON ILY

[@racheleleanor101]

collectively single era 🎀

[@sherylneptune]

Please link Christina's podcast below😢

[@ligiamarquesz]

i want moreeee podcast!!

[@PaigeSecosky]

Coming soon hehe

[@Dayo_kid]

What’s her friends page?

[@PaigeSecosky]

Beautychickee!

[@shelby1335]

u have a blog???? omg what world am i living? i didnt know this

[@PaigeSecosky]

I’m working on one

[@ksmts_1]

Paige sundays🩷

[@Princessm2025]

Also! Can you tag Christina’s podcast?

[@PaigeSecosky]

yes!! here: kzbin.info/door/ixA_L-Y76JrIUnkKyxXILA

[@ruebennomura9143]

That was amazing story of your relationship and you have to break up with your boyfriend

[@lujainfiras222]

lmaooo

[@NgoLaude]

hi

[@l0lliezoe3x]

Why does she keep calling billy “they/them”

[@bluerain1719]

It might just be how she speaks, they both referred to him as, "him" later.

[@msactionpacked]

Hmm why is Paige calling her ex they/them?

[@backthen4449]

5:47

[@elizaeli]

Hiiii❤❤❤ from 🇷🇴

[@Lphjl18]

Love u 🫶🏽

[@PaigeSecosky]

Love you sm!!

[@nfvy8111]

“When you’re younger, be selfish” that is actually terrible advice. This main character syndrome is the reason young people now are as unhappier as ever, despite overconsumption and increased mobility.

[@KadriRoos]

qq

[@wee2424]

its girls high standards that cause most relationships to end

[@Dayo_kid]

I think if we were to really get to the bottom of it though, it’s miscommunication. Cause almost anything between people can be resolved or rephrased or get a second life and repurposed . But most of the time people want to give up quickly, or not properly and mutually communicate the issues the have .

[@Dayo_kid]

Also is it really a high standard to want to be around the person you want to be in a relationship with when y’all get to control your situation? It’s not to say the guy was bad just to ask the question maybe this situation is revealing they’re not for me when the solution is for them to live in the same city and they’re unable to. If they were married it would be a different story because they made a convenient to be together no matter what but in this case you’re in a relationship to be partners as you pursue your purpose and if it’s in two different cities for 5 years idk how effective you are for eachother

[@sophiecampos4860]

Been watching you since your ootw vids by the staircase so i feel like i watched you grow and im so proud of how far you’ve got 🫶

[@PaigeSecosky]

Love u sm 🥹

[@harriettbarton7372]

Honestly going through such a bad and confusing time with my partner and this has helped so much, you made me realise my life isn’t over and being alone and happy is better than being in a comfortable situation where your unhappy. Thank you so much for being so open and honest, exactly what I needed to hear today🤍🤍

[@angievanessacarigutierrez6741]

amé 🤍

[@Lisaaaa_____]

thank you for this, don't really want to elaborate but just : thank you