My Dad Cheated on Mom so I took his HOUSE, his SAVINGS, his FURNITURE and his LIFE - Reddit Podcast

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[@edouglasroche]

This story reminds me of a old joke that says something along the lines of “I reached my mid-life crisis and had the choice of either a sports car and a mistress. I choose the sports car because it was much much cheaper.” The Dad probably wishes he choose the sports car instead.

[@aki_aki27._.masquerade25]

Lol

[@jakevex4198]

Actually fun fact some states actually do have an infidelity clause and I believe you can get a very big fine or even prison time but I don't think it's enforced here in the states

[@sailoriris4]

The last story wasn’t nuclear revenge but supernova revenge

[@zcreates6988]

What I see is that the cheating was the last straw for the op in my opinion

[@miket3827]

If you do what you can to harm your children, then shocked Pikachu face when they turn against you, AND harm their mom? Yeah, this would be justified. No more, maybe slightly less. But enough

[@nitinsaxena4906]

OMG!!!!!!!! what a story!!! The op is definitely not a jerk and he didn't overdo the revenge at all. For giving his son metal problems, cheating on his wife and many other bad stuff, the dad definitely deserved what came to him!!!!

[@manufran02]

no shit, holly Molly

[@SweetlyFaith]

Yeah I’m glad the son got revenge cheating is bad

[@rest1585]

If your not being sarcastic Istg

[@gabrielfreire3732]

I thinked He went way to much Nice as He said He could make him sleep on the streets só i would have done that

[@dreddit]

I'm watching rn

[@somemydayy]

Damn they need to make a drama out of this story. Op is a boss, not only did he slam the book of justice on his dad he also was able to protect his family.

[@bella96000]

OP said the family line ends with him, but it doesn't have to. He can donate some sperm for the intended use of having his own children. Or he can use a gestational carrier/surrogate. I would definitely say if he is still able, I would recommend either option

[@nashwa6615]

Moral of the story: Never underestimate Mom's gossip Circle.

[@rest1585]

Just from the title, I am shook. They have to be trolling. Otherwise what the actual hell.

[@wyatt3302]

I took his house and his LIFE

[@Benuse08]

fr I was like wtf

[@Bazsi_the_brave]

How did you post this comment an hour earlier than the video's posting time

[@alxgacha4276]

I didn’t even read the title but as soon as I heard my dad cheated on my mom I read the title I was in shock

[@dangerworld_yt7421]

@@Bazsi_the_brave maybe theres some kind of membership thing

[@IsThereAnyHandleThatIsntTaken]

The only way you can overdo revenge against a cheater is maybe killing them.

[@storm-brawlstars9513]

That's not over kill, for my belief is that i would kidnap him and torture him for the same amount of time he has been cheating, and then bring any evil relatives that he loves like his children etc and torture them Infront of him and then kill him, and take everything away from his family, anything beyond that is a bit much

[@threecheeseburrito]

I think the punishment should fit the crime here. OP's dad turned his side of the family against OP's mom and turned her life upside down, so OP turned the family against him and turned his life upside down.

[@DetElliottStabler]

If the husband was in prison he would not be so tough and would become a prisoner's bitch 😂😂😂😂

[@OGMercator]

@@threecheeseburritoin my opinion, I think his hands were tied, he couldn’t really ignore it as his mother didn’t want to divorce him. But I somewhat agree it didn’t need this much

[@OGMercator]

@@threecheeseburritowrong comment I replied to my bad there was one like 3 comments down that I’m replying to

[@threecheeseburrito]

I'm surprised this man didn't do more. Super proud of him! Don't ever let anyone disrespect the people you hold close, especially those you also hold close!

[@shrimps_clips254]

The dad: "ah yes, the consequences of my actions" NTA definitely but I would understand if people say they were. But they aren't, this is just sweet karma in my opinion but I do feel you did go a bit overboard by the end of it

[@urm0m69]

I'M SO GLAD THE OP DID WHAT I COULDN'T, HE DEFINITELY ISN'T A JERK AND DIDN'T OVERDO ANYTHING. BAD PARENTS LIKE THIS CANNOT HAVE ANY FORGIVENESS.

[@darkcarnage9188]

i do not think the jerk. as ex-mil myself we held to a stardar and one fo those is no cheat/adultry. you scrw up you loose everything in mil court no if and or butts. he knew, still did it(which already bad enough) so he earned this pro revenge.

[@phoeniiiix]

Damn , the op in story 1 took the sentence "do shit get hit" to a whole other level

[@offsetpixel]

"I should have also taken the recliner because my back hurts, even tho I'm in my late 20's" This sentence cannot be more relatable.

[@GarretTheHedeghog]

My parents have taught me very early and very strictly that cheating is one of the worst things you can do to someone. So if there comes a day where I hear one of my parents cheating on the other then its instant scorched earth.

[@1FriendlyFries]

Dude went nuclear damn I didn't even finish yet

[@antonyc.7173]

Yes.

[@omaomakudasai1990]

The main character of this story is his mothers gossip circle

[@eaglesdungeon5288]

Nahhh the mom gossip circle is crazy😭

[@davidhuy3868]

Never underestimate the Gossip Circle!

[@masonmiller941]

She sent in the thugs I mean the police got me laughing lol

[@ItzAprilLOL]

The guy was definitely not a jerk especially after his parents have spent so many years together it’s devastating to get cheated on and I am glad he did what he did to father deserved it

[@CoraErickson-cz3zp]

The mom deserved to get cheated on because she was clearly emotionally absent. And if she's going to throw away 35 years of marriage because of the consequences of emotional absence, that's her loss, not his. And yeah the son is the biggest jerk here.

[@float1364]

Bro went God mode

[@dreamimgflowerd976]

Tbf I don't think I can judge. I wouldn't go that far, but as in OP's culture it is seen as a major crime they would think it's justified.

[@SwapnilBBagul]

Cheating and betrayal always change people fundamentally beyond the wildest dreams. So it isn't as simple "as am I the jerk."

[@johnny8214]

Nuclear? This is more Like anailation of the uneverse! I mean damm they destroyed the man's complete live! Btw good Video

[@Nothing.Nugget]

Its like every powerful anime move combined

[@akatsukilockheart2597]

This seems like Supernova revenge almost imo

[@antonyc.7173]

@@akatsukilockheart2597 Yes.

[@TheFlowerGuy2.0]

Damn from what I hear the whole family is like basically the IRL Hyuga clan they have branches and elders like 💀 how big are they and how important? And no the OP is not the jerk but the father is

[@nahnottodayfam7879]

So so proud of OP for taking care of his mental health. Wish I could give him a massive hug.

[@SenseiRaisen]

Basically he did it because "he can" .... and because he was a sore thumb on OP, on top of been the typical jerk military father. So getting the consequence of your own actions its literally what he deserve too. OP just play the right cards to make justice to be serve.

[@Lunar_fox27]

I’m gonna say what the father did was horrible, but that is too damn far!! I get getting revenge because you know that’s your mother, but basically ripping this man’s life in half and taking away some of the only things he had left after his mistress left op justs ruining his life because he didn’t love someone anymore. Sure he was a cheating bastard and was just a shitty person. Overall, everyone deserves to have a life you could’ve just gotten revenge and let the man move on now it’s a constant reminder that he’s such an asshole while he’s sitting in his house that’s basically empty because of op!

[@mayuravirus6134]

Its a problem in Asia sadly and some or most of the time it involves being physical abuse

[@kool3765]

ops mothers gossip circle knows everything at this point

[@saishuanax0522]

AITJ For not watching Am I The Jerk?

[@gillerdaduck]

Yes you are, for not subscribing And hitting the bell

[@gillerdaduck]

Wait why do i hsve 3 comments

[@saishuanax0522]

@@gillerdaduck I already subscribed and hit the bell.

[@skylermichaud6700]

Now this. This is the proper way of revenge for a cheating parent

[@supertigress9124]

Oh my gosh!!! What a wild story!!! The OP was definitely not the jerk and he didn't even overdo the revenge at all in any way, shape or form. For giving his son mental problems, cheating on his wife and all the other bad things he did, the dad's punishment was 100% well deserved for him, hands down. Would love to see something like this story made into a film. Make it happen, Netflix!!!

[@nothingtolookat22]

I dont blame the mother for having a soft side I may be a pacifist but I know when someone gets karma when they get it so I completely understand the mother just wanting to be nice

[@randiken]

Ok so the revenge story against the father and his family was over the top. I get wanting revenge but that was to the point of being hateful & heartless.

[@renusharma6485]

Other Revenge stories:*win because of the smart OP* This Story:*Wins because of mom's gossip circle*

[@AzureTheEnbyCat]

Gotta say it, the moral of the story is to have a gossip circle.

[@jaimeebidwell9305]

Nothing is extreme in my opinion. If he hadn't have cheated, nothing would have happened. If he hadn't have lied about what happened, then the gossip wouldn't be as effective. If he hadn't have fought the divorce lawyer, then he may have been left with something. If he had have acknowledged his wrong, he may have had some kind of redemption, but he kept the mistress and fought tooth and nail because he didn't see what he did was wrong. So honestly, all it was, was karma, no matter how brutal.

[@sadalien9049]

Cheating, especially in a marriage, is still very much looked down on in the U.S.A.. Although it's probably not technically legal, it can definitely give you the upper hand in a divorce. Especially with a pre-nup.

[@Rosebuddutchess1313]

NOT A JERK!! You did awesome!!!!

[@brutebandit5939]

I was like oh boy this is some savage revenge, then the OP goes, this is where prorevenge starts. I was like, huh? Sh!t hasn't even started and I'm all in for it tbh.

[@christianmarshal6117]

“He’s your father after all…” “Yeah…. And she’s my mother after all too, so you’re point is moot!”

[@entllty]

If I had a bf/husband and he cheated on me I would -move out -tell my parents -tell my friends -cry -break up without a divorce -try to recover What I would do is tell my close family and friends and break up with him, and try to recover :)

[@granmammy6889]

Definitely not a jerk. I went through two of my most serious relationships, one being the father of my my youngest child, who both cheated on me. If I could have, I would have done the same. They had nothing but family and both had children and I could see destroying their lives.

[@malcire]

Good on you for working on your issues. It’s hard to do.

[@willscastleofcards2456]

So I am not condoning the cheaters actions BUT I just hope everyone saying this was legit remembers to never make a mistake themselves or face DIRE and life changing/ending consequences. The OP did what he thought was right and protected his mother and I can respect that but there is a line and it’s borderline crossed. I have been cheated on and it’s devastating but I acted like a big boy, pulled up my pants and moved on with my life. Sometimes being the bigger person and just walking away and showing it doesn’t affect you is a far greater revenge

[@That_BrownGirl]

were you cheated after giving that person 30 years ?? And not to mention the abuse OP went through

[@sandral7829]

Dam now thats what they call karma 🤣 op didn't do anything wrong he just taught his dad some good lessons for his little future 🤣🤣

[@craigstafford6360]

Did the revenge go to far i dont know.... getting revenge, hell yea. But putting myself in the shoes not sure how far is too far.

[@alexandermacgloin7983]

God the op is definitely not the jerk I would have gone 5x further so he should great restraint

[@fearedwolf1731]

The first 10 seconds was good but how I would start it is "My dad cheated on my mom so I stole everything of his. Would it be epic yes, would it be extremely epic yes, would it be the greatest heist I pulled off yes!"

[@tomtosavage9722]

At this point mom's gossip circle working for the feds

[@moonmaidenaudios536]

Not the jerk!!! Man this revenge is like absolutely amazing!

[@babaythedog2045]

Definitely not a jerk that's nuclear Revenge right there that's how you get even on a cheater definitely

[@zoramae825]

He didn't just cheat on your mother. He was abusive to you and your sister, so you're not a jerk.

[@FennixTheMelanisticFox]

Not a jerk and 100% justified

[@thegamersiblings1294]

I was so confused when I found out he was gay i’m not judging i was just caught off guard with that

[@themysteriousoa4466]

Next video idea: All narrators of the Am I The Jerk KZbin channel takes a turn narrating a story for a video.

[@yuraraina]

This should be an epic movie! I would watch it, like wowzer. Most certainly NTA you father deserved every bit of what he got. The epic revenge though. Woo!

[@SondraPlaggemeyer-hg4ot]

The very last story where he ruined his dad's life was perfect absolutely perfect down to the last minut detail 👌

[@homerjones4296]

YES

[@watershuriken2755]

Fuck yeah the op pulled all the stops and forcefully threw all karma and then some at his father and put him below his place and ruin his pathetic life! It’s safe to say he wasn’t the jerk he was just determined.

[@Yesiputbianpurposely]

I feel he deserves worse for trying to strike the mom and the sister and her husband had to jump in if they didn't he would be charged for assault and maybe go to prison so I think they went easy on him considering his action

[@bartin7427]

i love that infidality is a crime in vietnam, it should ve everywhere else too.

[@golden_jjba]

This is the next step from nuclear revenge

[@antonyc.7173]

This seems like Supernova revenge almost imo

[@JonSho9829]

That's awesome

[@khethulomasetlwa1842]

Infedility should be a crime everywhere tho...

[@moonprincess500]

Not the jerk! He was his dad’s karma!

[@sethjr9815]

Every country military works so weird, got tinnitus, multiple fracture on both ankles but not covered by my country’s military pension

[@helplessbuddy9335]

I dunno... so they basically left him to die (because of cancer I mean) or I missed something? I mean I'm not American nor Vietnamese so idk but if its really like this it's definitely too far

[@emeeeful]

Vietnamese people are pretty petty. I come from a viet family. It’s pretty satisfying tbh. If he was a decent person he wouldn’t be in this situation. He caused it not the op.

[@EbiNimbus]

The way I describe this is “extreme but deserved”

[@peytonjay4515]

I have a story I've considered posting to the reddit but it's super long. Should I go ahead and post it?

[@samlong1]

-should have kept the recliner though -OP 2022 Lol

[@gamingnector8997]

In Michigan, USA infidelity is illegal only when the person getting cheated on reports it within a year and if you still live with your ex after the divorce you can still be accused if you start seeing someone else. Its also illegal to "seduce and debauche" an unmarried woman.

[@randomdudeoti]

I think they were both in the wrong. He went to far. He should have only done the house and the family tradition party. Think of the golden rule. Also, if you believe in Christianity, then you will know that the dad will suffer in hell is he doesn’t change his ways. The better thing to do is to try to make him become a better person. Revenge might feel good, but it will only make them stoop to his level. So, the OP is somewhat the jerk, and he should’ve been the bigger man

[@lukalovesalhaitham]

OP SLAYED!!!! Honestly, he should have done more, but I understand why he didn't tho because of the love he has for his mother. You could tell that OP loves his family (Sister, Niece, Nephew, and Boyfriend). OP did what he did to protect his mother. The father's side of the family(Aunt) was doing too much.

[@thebrokencr0wn]

You should use some of these and write books based on these eventa

[@Paul-yn2zy]

I think the revenge went too far in that last story. I think he should have lost his rank in the family the land and the house, but his things and his pension were a little to much.

[@xaviertong5671]

Actually, after hearing the story, I think the OP underdid it

[@justinmyers9515]

Don't have kids problem solve cuz you can always bury the wife

[@melindapupos8668]

I Think the Op took this way too far. It was all about him, not about his dad cheated on his mom. He wanted to take revenge for all the years of mental abuse his dad put him trough! I think he is an evil person. You have to accept that people getting divorce and it is very normal nowadays. Have your dad get 50% less pension that was really out of line. Taking all the furnitures and then don't even use them it's a shame! Throwing back the cancer money that they spent on him is disgusting as well. So this story is full of shit people. The jerk in this story is the op and his dad. It is about their war

[@monroerobbins7551]

16:00 leave dogs out of it, at least they’re loyal

[@justaweirdo3162]

When AITJ gives a fully fledged 20 min story: MORE ENTERTAINMENT

[@Scary_EldrichThing]

This needs to be a movie

[@jonwalker8945]

If this didn’t happen in Japan, I’ll eat my hat. Only at the 14:18 mark so far. Lol, ok I was wrong. (Boiling hat, adding salt.)

[@victoriastang]

It seems like a bit much. Like I feel like the very last thing, making his family mad at him, sounds far more reasonable. Not the other stuff. Also it's kind of surprising to hear that cheating is an actual crime but it's okay to be openly gay.

[@russellgrover3022]

I am actually planning a nuclear revenge against my dad, only because he is my father do I even consider him a person, but I avoid him as best as possible, because 1 he is abusive if he doesn't get his way, 2, he has drove me to the point of suicide on I want to say about 2 to 5 different times in less than 1 year, 3, he has never been honest with me and he basically treated me like I was trash from 11 to now, and 4 he keeps trying to tell me I owe him 20,000 because he raised me by himself and other lies, first if my mom really wanted to she could charge him over 10,000 which he owed in child support, because I am no longer a child and the judge ruled that he had to pay until I was 18 or I came to live with him, 2nd he has been with my stepmom since I was about 2 and a half officially, last but not least, I have only lived with him for about 26 months my entire life, my stepmom is also going to regret he choices because she hated me since she and my dad got together, she just pretended she loved me, and she disowned her own son because he chose to live with his father and visit her every other weekend, and the day she came home from court about that, me and 2 of my siblings on that side were told he was ran over by an ambulance, so me, my stepbrother, and the rest of his family are working on getting their kids taken, my father being in jail for the rest of his life which honestly probably won't be for more than 2 decades, and my siblings choosing their own path without those two two judge them, lie to them, and hurt physically, emotionally, and somewhat mentally because my oldest little brother is not going to end up in a good place if his behavior doesn't change, but he is 18 so ge can do what he wants, my sister who is becoming a boy, who was told by her own mother that she has to marry a Jewish male doctor and she is only 16, and they have been telling her that for at least 7 years, and my dad's youngest kid who, is only 9 and is very clearly the favorite and is probably being raised to lie, cheat, and steal, since my father has taught every one of his kids from my step brother/ cousin to the 9 year old because that's what my family on that side has taught for about 3 generations, I struggle with depression, addiction and anxiety, and my father has always been the guy who pulls the old you have nothing to be sad about card, and believe if you aren't doing what he wants he can get physical, although he is terrified of trying that with me anymore, because the last time he did, he threatened to kill me if I didn't pay him the 20k, my friend was coming over already that day, and he does own a gun and will kill you if he feels the need too, and he saw my father pull out a knife my friend called the cops and then pointed his gun at my father, the cops arrived a few minutes later, and we decided not to press charges, because we both knew my dad would be out the same day, so we asked them to go around the corner and if he didn't leave in 5 minutes we would press charges, and my friend put the gun straight in between his eyes and told him if he ever came within 100 feet of me he would be in the morgue, I got a restraining order that's says he can talk to me but only on the phone and he even comes within 500 feet of me or my property, he would be jailed for life

[@SwapnilBBagul]

"She sent in the thugs..." 10:20😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@willykastilahn]

Man... I don't buy any of these stories. They sound like amateur Hallmark channel stories that get rejected.

[@cricketboy0185]

When I read the title, and saw "...took his life!" I was in shock. But I heard ruin his life so I realised what it meant

[@chrismc410]

Wondering what country that is. In most of them, Divorce is a civil matter not criminal. If it was criminal, there wouldn't be enough jails or prisons hold them all and not enough courts to try them either. No way to really enforce it

[@lialia8800]

Am I the only one that thought when the title said “and I took his life” I thought the op killed his father?

[@Broteen42]

Me to

[@levimarkakis7884]

you have an amazing mother

[@artimator4714]

when I got to the end, I forgot the whole purpose of the revenge

[@pixiesanchez9195]

I know this is random but technically if he wanted he could get a surrogate to have a baby. Just cause you’re gay doesn’t mean you can’t have kids like if you don’t want kids fair enough just had to say you also could adopt

[@M_ikeyl]

Damn, juicy revenge

[@ericvo2648]

The mom gossip group know everything

[@darkcarnage9188]

never under estimate a woman's gospic circle, they can reach light speed intel gathering.

[@MaybeBinzo]

It’s horrible to listen to this as my country Vietnam allows this, Since “respect” is one of the most important aspect of a traditional branch of your the youngest you have no power to speak.

[@clayrobins4740]

LOL !! @ nuclear revenge maybe a little too far because if he is left with nothing desnt that mean that taxes pay for his welfare ?However the father is a big man he and his girl can take care of themselves