My dad's new girlfriend makes him forget and neglect me, so I told her what a disgusting piece of...

My dad's new girlfriend makes him forget and neglect me, so I told her what a disgusting piece of trash she was, and he kicked me out. Plus two updates.
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[@constantdemonics]

The dad is disgusting for choosing a woman over his own child.

[@chessieray1465]

Nicole is a homewrecker and her father is a lost cause. The maternal grandfather needs to go ahead and take in OP, since the paternal grandparents are no help whatsoever. The fact that their birth mother was swiftly removed from their lives and their father is neglecting them is heartbreaking. OP needs to take this L over what she said about Nicole and demand to stay at the other grandfather's place.

[@darkriku12]

OP lost both of her parents in that crash. The noodle of a man he is now isn't alive and will only admit his regrets decades too late.

[@danteerskine7678]

Op, the simp you call your Dad is no longer your Dad, he sold out a long time ago and it's baffling that op still overlooked these red flags. Just mourn your dead relationship and move on, by the way OP, just wish your dad a great journey into a crappy retirement home when his golden child won't be willing to take care of him. Getting rid of family members like op dad is not a loss, it's a clear win

[@Maninawig]

Well, your grandma just made herself unfit by showing she neglects your mental health with that last stunt. That said, check to see if you can stay with your friend for a week. Especially since you talked with the councilor, running away will most likely seem like a cry for help.

[@kilamkam]

Yea that wasn't very Jesus of her....

[@Maninawig]

@@kilamkam nor Moses or Abraham

[@user-ld7kk2sk2s]

Only thing I can say is run away

[@lodunost]

The father here isn't a father. Never treat him that way again. OP needs to recognize the abuse and start recording and documenting everything. Should have started a long time ago. Put it Infront of your councilor and anyone else that will listen. You don't need to be around those people.

[@rhiarebecca2000]

A parent who puts their partner above their child is a person who shouldn’t be a parent. Hopefully one day that woman leaves OPs dad and he realises he’s alone and he only has himself to blame.

[@rhiarebecca2000]

Seems like he thought ‘hey I’ve got a new child coming soon, I can cut my older child off’

[@rhiarebecca2000]

You have to be truly heartless to be able to completely cut off your child without a second thought

[@RedX101]

FBI open up

[@tatianhaarchange5296]

There was an Update: Hi everyone, I’m only making a mini update. During the meeting with the counselor and police officer, my father knew to expect a wellness check. In fact, he’s been home early every single day last week which is unlike him. My sister texted me last Tuesday that our father came home early from work and told her to behave. She was panicking and freaking out, so I called her to help her calm down. I explained to her that a police officer might come over for a wellness check, and she should answer the police officer’s questions honestly. I again don’t know specifically what transpired during the wellness check, but my sister told me that the officer came to ask my father some questions and asked her if she was ok. I asked her what she told the officer, and she told him that she was fine. Nothing has come out of it. As soon as my sister texted me on that Tuesday, I tried sneaking out to go over to my dad’s home before the officer comes, but my grandpa caught me. He brought me back inside, and we had a yelling match to put it lightly. I yelled at him saying he doesn’t care for my sister and I. He yelled at me saying he was tired of my spoiled ass and that I should be grateful that I still get food and a bed after “the foolishness” I recently pulled at school. I left in the middle of his rant to calm down in my room. My grandma came up shortly afterwards to check on me. She said that your dad and grandpa are going through a lot to figure out this mess and to please not make it worse for her sake and for mine. I asked her what she meant by for my sake and hers. She said that I need to mature and act like an adult and to not cause her stress. Then, she said, “ You need to stop stressing Nicole. You know, the poor woman has been calling me crying about what you did. She’s scared for the baby.” After she said that, I did not have the energy to enter into another yelling match, so I told my grandma that I needed some space and left. The counselor did not follow up with me during school last week. Also, I think it’s for the best right now. My sister had a panic attack last week. They almost called paramedics because she couldn’t stop hyperventilating. I know she is suffering and doesn’t need anything else placed on her mentally. I also don’t want to break her trust again after going to the counselor. She is the type of person to keep things to herself if there isn’t a strong rapport. If she is going through something, she will not tell you unless you force her hand. I still want her to feel safe and open when she speaks with me. I’m still evaluating my options and trying to find the best path forward. Side note: I keep getting questions about this in my dms 1) My father, as far as I know, currently does not drink excessively or do hard drugs. 2) No, Nicole is not my stepmother. She is just engaged to my father. 3) I am not going to run away. I'm not careless enough to do that given everything.

[@brighterphantom4530]

There should be a paper trail of text messages...

[@fumkioyuki8457]

Not me in tears by the end of the vidoe I hope OP get better

[@hotspotsportal6699]

OP needs to run away and never look back. My friend has had a somewhat similar situation, where she told her mom that she didn't like her moms boyfriend. Ever since then, her mom is a total. heartless bitch to her. Her dad also wants nothing to do with her, so she basically has no parents and it's really sad, she's only 22 and she's basically teaching herself how to do things.

[@amandanieves4570]

Father of the year

[@anonymousinternetperson]

was there any further updates on this story? Is OP okay? What about her sister?

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

Why can't op live with the sister?

[@nehcrum]

The younger sister? That still lives at home with her dad?

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

@@nehcrum nvm

[@gregmiller4387]

Once you started talking about getting therapy from the deluded believer in Shy Pixies I lost all hope for Op . Unfortunately Op your only recourse is to leave them all ,none of your family is supporting you, so you only have yourself, get a job , rent a room , make a plan for your future, it's hard , I know ,but they have left you no choice, your father and family have deserted you, they have given you no support ,all they do is blame you.. Good Luck