My Divorce Story

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Sar_carolyn

Sar_carolyn

Күн бұрын

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@kyibobpeb
@kyibobpeb Ай бұрын
Speaking out isn't easy. I applaud your bravery and vulnerability. I'm just an internet stranger but I love you and Emily so much! Keep up the good work with fostering the kitties too.
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Thank you love. Its scary but I hope it resonates with someone
@hannahwatts43
@hannahwatts43 Ай бұрын
I feel like you should release it, because it's your truth and your truth deserves to be heard! We love you, and we are all here for you❤
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
I agree! I have nothing to hide. nothing to be afraid of.
@hannahwatts43
@hannahwatts43 Ай бұрын
@sarcarolyn exactly. She doesn't want you to say your truth, because she wants her story to stay in people's heads. Unfortunately, just like she said her side, you have a right to say yours.
@brandiepeppers6660
@brandiepeppers6660 Ай бұрын
What is her side? I unfallowed her after they split and only follow sarah​@@hannahwatts43
@Alexiax13
@Alexiax13 Ай бұрын
@@hannahwatts43where/when did she say her side? I haven’t seen them on my fyp in so long this was all news to me that they got divorced. 😢
@AlexysNorthrup-i1f
@AlexysNorthrup-i1f Ай бұрын
My heart broke when I saw that message you posted on your story, I never one doubted that you raising emily was not the truth, and to see someone both of you loved, spread the narrative that you didn't, I was at a loss for words. I'm so proud of you sharing your story and I'll be waiting for the next video, when you feel like it's the right time to post it.
@maricrisnarag1718
@maricrisnarag1718 Ай бұрын
where can i see this?
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Thank you xoxo
@AshlynDavid-h9s
@AshlynDavid-h9s Ай бұрын
@@maricrisnarag1718it was on her instagram story but I think she made a video about it on TikTok. It’s seriously so heartbreaking…
@wickedmurph
@wickedmurph Ай бұрын
As someone that was in an abusive relationship for 4 years and finally this year spoke about it, don’t let your fear hold you back because you will truly feel better once other people know ❤❤ We will always be here for you ❤
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Thank you xoxo.
@madisonduplessis9721
@madisonduplessis9721 Ай бұрын
It’s also very weird how she posted for so long how her parents disowned her for being gay but after your divorce it’s like that never happened and they are back to perfect, loving family.. like eww.. that energy honestly made me sick
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
that made me SO upset. Because her parents were soo mean to me :(
@alopardo
@alopardo Ай бұрын
I noticed that too. Sick!!!!
@clayjackson5352
@clayjackson5352 Ай бұрын
i just don't get it,her parents are ok with the girlfriend she has now but wasn't with her ex wife?
@Alexiax13
@Alexiax13 Ай бұрын
Omg!! I totally forgot they did that! That is terrible & so weird.
@gabbyanderson7443
@gabbyanderson7443 Ай бұрын
I have been following you on TikTok for a while but never found your KZbin!! You’re so strong and inspiring and I can’t believe this is the video I discovered you by!!!
@MirandaPowellAlaska
@MirandaPowellAlaska Ай бұрын
Started following you in 2021. I’ve loved watching your journey and will continue to do so. You are amazing and so strong! You deserve the world and all the happiness in the world! ❤
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Wish I could give you a huge hug
@FRAMELESSFOX
@FRAMELESSFOX Ай бұрын
Im so proud to see this. Speaking up is never easy but you're doing just that. A prime example of self advocacy!!! Many can learn from you ❤
@adrianetropiano3243
@adrianetropiano3243 Ай бұрын
Her clause alone should show people how wrong she is! Don’t feel bad about hurting her. Let your truth shine!
@katyeleanor7827
@katyeleanor7827 Ай бұрын
silent follower from tiktok here, you deserve to speak your truth and i’m proud you did. i’ve seen you be villainised and slated by people on tiktok for the divorce and i hope everyone who was mean sees now you were never a bad person. keep being you, keep being there for emily, and keep doing your best -a fellow gay girl x
@courtneyhiggins7887
@courtneyhiggins7887 Ай бұрын
I've been following you for a while and I just discovered your youtube from your instagram story-I cannot begin to imagine the emotonal turmoil you've gone through, not to mention the financial hurt since divorces can be expensive. I just want to let you know that no matter what your ex wife said about your parenting to your little sister, you are doing an amazing job and please dont think any less of yourself about ANYTHING she's said. Sending much love from my family to yours, sorry I'm just an internet follower. 💖
@nolawola
@nolawola Ай бұрын
People don’t ask for a clause if they have nothing to worry about. Thinking of you and Emily. Lots of love
@Tatyannaaa00
@Tatyannaaa00 Ай бұрын
You are liked. Don’t say that. Don’t hide. Thanks for sharing girl! You’ll find the right one she will come when you least expect it! I’m manifesting and praying that into your life.
@kidonacorner58
@kidonacorner58 17 күн бұрын
You are loved. You doing this will help someone else in a situation.
@katha123456789
@katha123456789 Ай бұрын
I've been following you for quite a while now and seeing you suffering really makes me sad. I've experienced toxic relationships too, and being gaslighted is the worst because you won't trust yourself and your feelings anymore. Thank you for sharing your story. Wishing you all the best
@kidonacorner58
@kidonacorner58 17 күн бұрын
Gaslighting is the absolute worst. It fucks with your mind so much where you question everything until you get the clarity
@heyitsangharad
@heyitsangharad Ай бұрын
I've always been following you on Tiktok and I only now am discovering your KZbin channel. I'm so sorry that this has been going on and I wish I could give you a hug right now - I can feel the anxiety. The disrespect coming from her is absolutely awful, I hope you do what's best for you, and I'm sending my love to Emily too. You deserved better than what you got and I wish there was more I could do, but you're not alone. Your emotions are valid. Allow yourself to feel what you feel. It's going to be okay. People show their true colours at a time of need and I hope you know that you'll find your people if you haven't already. They will show up when you need it and they'll show you love and support. I may not know you personally, but I'll always be here to listen and to send love. Take care of yourself and mind yourself. All the love to you, Emily, and the cats from Ireland ❤️
@leighlucky2631
@leighlucky2631 Ай бұрын
Your strength and accountability is truly amazing. Emily has an amazing role model!
@mafiababexoox
@mafiababexoox Ай бұрын
I am so beyond proud of you, babe. To go from losing yourself to loving yourself is an INCREDIBLE accomplishment and you should be so fking proud of yourself. Emily thinks the WORLD of you and loves you sooo much. And you absolutely know in your heart the truth. You should release it. And you wanna know why? Because regardless of the divorce, you don’t hurt the people you’re supposed to love and care about. I mean at one point you were her wife. No matter what, your feelings should have been taken into consideration. Above anything else - Emily should have never been brought into the conversation. She disrespected her privacy to hurt you. That’s sick. I live in Lancaster, babe. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. Let’s hang! You deserve to have ACTUAL friends. (I’ve replied to your stories a few times lolol) Keep being you babe. You’re brave. You’re beautiful. (Inside and out) You’re inspiring. Keep your head up. 🫶🏼
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Thank you gorgeous girl
@gracewhite272
@gracewhite272 Ай бұрын
We are with you! Please share it because it’s your truth and your story! We love you 😘
@MarilynChen-j1k
@MarilynChen-j1k 29 күн бұрын
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j 29 күн бұрын
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
@MarilynChen-j1k
@MarilynChen-j1k 29 күн бұрын
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j 29 күн бұрын
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j 29 күн бұрын
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
@MarilynChen-j1k
@MarilynChen-j1k 29 күн бұрын
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
@Jwells00
@Jwells00 Ай бұрын
I've been one to protect someone who didn't want everyone to know the person he was. I've come to the decision if someone doesn't want people to know how horrible they are, don't be a horrible person!
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
AMEN!!!
@poppy_pixie
@poppy_pixie Ай бұрын
As a long-time quiet watcher: I’m so sorry you are in this position of having to share details of such a personal matter. But I’m incredibly proud of you for being able to speak out and for getting through such a difficult time, while taking care of Emily, all of your cats and yourself, at the same time. You did so well & kept everyone safe and tried to shield them, while no one else was there to shield you. And that must have been hard. You did SO good! Sending so much love
@victoriam8663
@victoriam8663 Ай бұрын
I’m sorry that you went through this. No one deserves that type of treatment after a divorce. Everything that happened behind closed doors should be told because your side of the story matters. For someone hiding behind a fake persona rather than owning up to their mistakes just shows who is a better person out of this situation. Regardless what people say there is nothing wrong for you sharing your side. Wishing you nothing but the best for you and Emily. 🙏
@alexisrowan9948
@alexisrowan9948 Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry. I’m going through something similar with physical violence. I’m here for your voice that has been silenced and wanted to be silenced. I 100% am with you. Your posts on TikTok give me hope for better things to come.
@GG-pv6fi
@GG-pv6fi Ай бұрын
Do you need help getting out?
@bethanybarnett7057
@bethanybarnett7057 Ай бұрын
As a divorced, single mom…. i feel this. My divorce took over 2yrs. It is so painful, but I can honestly say time heals these wounds. Keep your family close and keep being yourself!
@mylesgonzalez8401
@mylesgonzalez8401 Ай бұрын
As a child of a single parent I'm proud of you stranger on the Internet ❤️ any one who ever had to divorce someone deserves to be told that someone is proud of them because it's not easy
@bethanybarnett7057
@bethanybarnett7057 Ай бұрын
@ i deeply appreciate your kindness. Thank you.
@MeganRose2018
@MeganRose2018 Ай бұрын
You story is so important, and I want you to know you’re not alone and so many people have your back and love you. Also I loved listening to you and your kitty’s purring. Sending you all the love, Sarah. ❤❤
@TheMastersons22
@TheMastersons22 Ай бұрын
As someone who was in an mentally/ psychological abusive relationship with the exact same stuff going on the “I didn’t say that” knowing they full well did, it can literally drive you batsh*t crazy. I’m so proud of you keep pushing and keep going gorgeous!
@ashleysadewasser4844
@ashleysadewasser4844 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! You’re brave! We see you girl. Keep growing ❤ we love you and Emily bunches! 😊
@mercedesj739
@mercedesj739 Ай бұрын
i’m so happy you can bring this to light. I am praying for your happiness in the near future. I truly respect you being 100% vulnerable and honest with the world that shows maturity. I promise everything will fall into place. ❤❤
@sobasic9672
@sobasic9672 Ай бұрын
You got this! No matter what happens you’ve done nothing but be honest, which is something not everyone can do💫
@UrFerbzz
@UrFerbzz Ай бұрын
Share your truth girl. We love you and Emily and Simon and all your babies. I’ll always be a supporter. I’m sorry for what you’ve gone through.
@ashlynnkent604
@ashlynnkent604 Ай бұрын
The truth needs to come out. You’re showing people that may not be able to speak out to speak out ! If I was going through something I’d be happy to see this and know it’s ok to speak out. Thank you for sharing
@tiffanytorres3791
@tiffanytorres3791 Ай бұрын
I’m from the IG family! I’m so proud of u! Sending hugs ❤❤❤
@mollyeg5443
@mollyeg5443 Ай бұрын
You and Emily are loved and appreciated by so many. I’m so glad you are speaking out. It’s sad how it’s end for Emily but honestly Emily deserves so much better. I hope you and Emily continue to heal. You will find someone who is going to love you and Emily as a package, don’t settle. You are such an amazing sister to your sister. ❤
@lesliestephens5061
@lesliestephens5061 Ай бұрын
Release it girl it’s your truth ❤ you need to be able to tell your truth!!! We are hear to listen not judge and we believe you.
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
That means the world to me thank you xoxo
@SelenaFan85
@SelenaFan85 Ай бұрын
I'm proud of you for telling your story. I'm heartbroken how she treated Emily. Emily has feelings and to hurt her like that, was cruel and the most painful. I'm sorry all of you guys are going through this. Your a true and genuine person. I appreciate you telling your story and your videos. Your cat's are very precious. I am glad you guys can stay strong. Don't let BS lies and stories get you guys down. I hope I'm making sense. Many positive blessings and thoughts for you guys. ❤️
@TheChroniclesofAri
@TheChroniclesofAri Ай бұрын
I appreciate this so much! As someone who went through a divorce and one with similarities with yours, thank you for speaking out and up. We can often be portrayed as the villain in someone’s story but we know the origin. Continue to walk in your truth! There is a beautiful world on the other side of divorce. Trust me, good things are coming your way!
@Whocares-v6x
@Whocares-v6x Ай бұрын
As someone who was in a very abusive marriage than lasted literally 2 weeks because the second we married a switch flipped in him. I stayed silent I’m still silent waiting for my divorce to finalize which I filed for 3 weeks after we married I can’t wait to heal out loud when it is done. Thank you ❤
@wickedmurph
@wickedmurph Ай бұрын
Thank you for being so open❤ We love you and Emily so much ❤❤
@Sophiaagut
@Sophiaagut Ай бұрын
So proud of you for speaking your truth ❤ you deserve to be at peace and all the happiness in the world 🫂
@sarahludwig7436
@sarahludwig7436 Ай бұрын
I wasn’t married but I also had a shared space with my ex at one point and I was the bread winner and he was the one who cheated and I furnished the home and he through me out and so I had to pack up an entire apartment and move while also setting up an appointment for the furniture to be returned to the company we went through that he wanted that I had no space for. I moved out all on my own in the matter of under 48 hours and then it was thrown in my face because it “took too long, there was no reason you needed a whole two days to move” when our landlords were helping me get out safely and gave me a weeks time to be FULLY out.
@beccasummerford9373
@beccasummerford9373 Ай бұрын
I’m glad you’re able to say your peace. No one realizes that things are never what they appear to be on social media. It’s the white picket fence syndrome. And when you love someone, you go through great lengths to hide the toxicity of the person and relationship. I’m glad you’ve come to a realization
@heatherfrantz7063
@heatherfrantz7063 Ай бұрын
I wish I could reach through the screen and give you the biggest hug! You are SO strong, don't ever doubt yourself. I love you and Emily, you have an army behind you. ❤️
@shwifty4209
@shwifty4209 Ай бұрын
You are so brave for sharing such a vulnerable moment in your life with us,, I understand how scary that can be finally speaking YOUR truth. No matter what anyone else says, keep speaking out. Keep telling your story because in the end it will not only help you, but also help other people that are in similar situations get out of something like that.Whatever you decide to do just know we’ll be here for you! I do wanna hear the tea tho😏
@100gymstar
@100gymstar Ай бұрын
So much love for you ❤ moving forward and building yourself back up after something so traumatic for so long is not an easy thing to do but you deserve happiness and you deserve love, you will get there
@marissaclifford4882
@marissaclifford4882 Ай бұрын
Subscribed, not that that’s the most important thing right now. I’m here for you and I’m so proud of you for sharing your truth. It’s okay for you to have the feeling your feeling that you feel bad about it even though you knew it was right. I’m so glad to be here online for you! Emily is the luckiest person to have you. Same with all your super sweet and adorable cats. Im so glad that you went to therapy and learned a lot and you and Emily are still together now and in a safe place. I feel for Emily and I feel for you! I love you guys so much! I care about you and Emily so much! i think Medusa by Skydxddy would mean a lot to you because it’s about truth and self worth and validation from SA survivors if you watch the music video on KZbin, I love you! 💜💜💜💜🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
@phoebekiekhofer
@phoebekiekhofer Ай бұрын
Well damn, this is all really saddening to hear. Thank you for sharing it with us, and I'm sorry for everything you've been going through. That sounds like a really painful ending to a relationship you loved and I'm glad you are able to move forward.
@Tarantel_lla
@Tarantel_lla Ай бұрын
I'm gonna be honest with You girl: i was really sceptical about You sharing all of that as I'm not a fan of throwing personal stuff online. But now, after watching all of it, I understand why You have decided to do it and I wish You and Em nothing but peace and serenity. Because You both deserve it. The way You addressed all of this was very mature and don't let anyone devalue the effort You have put (and still do) in raising Emily. Not everyone would do it in Your situation. I'm sorry for what happened to You, for all the nasty comments I have seen myself in Your Instagram profile. Hugs from Poland (that's why my English may suck as I'm not a native), stay strong girl, You have so much to offer to the world, especially to Your lil sister. Hope You find new friends thay will deserve being called friends because it's clearly what You need right now. Xoxo 🫂
@Jessicaa022
@Jessicaa022 Ай бұрын
I really hope opening up and sharing this has truly given you that sense of freedom that you deserve, you have every right as a human person to have. Blows My mind, that sharing your truth has been such a restriction for you and all other people who are going through similar circumstances. Your a strong girl. A warrior. You shouldn't have to live with this anxiety and overwhelm. You got this 💪
@shelbyhager1422
@shelbyhager1422 Ай бұрын
Always make sure your voice is heard! You have that right! I’ll always support you even did before you posting this and not really knowing what happened. I always had a feeling she turned worse. But girlll do you!!
@Ilan.20
@Ilan.20 Ай бұрын
That takes a lot of courage to share the truth and it's quite inspiring to see this honesty and strength in you I hope this chapter brings you healing and peace thank you for being so real!
@kortneyvillagran2669
@kortneyvillagran2669 Ай бұрын
You made me cry talking about Emily! I love that she is always your main focus you are being so vulnerable about your divorce and what you went through and still said she can say whatever she wants about me but all you really cared about what was the treatment of Emily 🥰 we all love you! Don’t let this hateful person stop your shine!!!! ❤❤❤❤
@savannahlange9682
@savannahlange9682 Ай бұрын
I’ve followed you for awhile now on TikTok and absolutely love you and your sister. Let it out so you can let it go. The people meant for you will always be for you and that includes fans. Proud of you and wanted to make sure you were given your flowers. ❤
@shaunaturner3145
@shaunaturner3145 Ай бұрын
Sending love 💙 The hate you have received isn’t warranted. I hope you find closure and peace, you deserve it 💙
@athenaatwar475
@athenaatwar475 Ай бұрын
Have followed you and rooted so hard for you and your sister so hard since you came on to TikTok ❤
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Thank you so so so much xoxo
@athenaatwar475
@athenaatwar475 Ай бұрын
@@sarcarolynafter listening, I am so sorry Reddit threads have been a part of the cruelty you’ve faced. I know exactly what kind of pages you’re talking about, and it makes me so sad when good, normal people (imperfect, but so is everyone) get people online with WAY too much time on their hands to hyperfocus and nitpick and post every detail they have and speculate wildly…all on a Reddit page dedicated to the cause. They think they’re bringing vigilante justice when it’s usually just perpetuating and distorting rumors with the sole intention of hurting or “exposing” someone they don’t like. It’s such an awful targeted kind of “bullying” Internet creators get nowadays. You do not deserve that! You are only a regular human being who happens to make mistakes AND make millions of people smile with your sister content ❤
@deannamarie8887
@deannamarie8887 Ай бұрын
I’m so glad you aren’t letting this break you being someone that started following you both but have only chosen to keep following you because I could see the fake pages and the horrible things in comments towards you it was terrible and I pray for peace for you to be able to heal and share as much as you’d like my girl don’t let anyone keep you down Billy Ray freaking Cyrus we love you girl 💖💖
@steffcaulton1
@steffcaulton1 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤ You are a beautiful human and I love following yours and Emily's journey. I'm sorry for your pain ♥️
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Thank you xoxo
@ElleChamberlain-mq5ni
@ElleChamberlain-mq5ni Ай бұрын
The cat is being so clingy and purring bc their purrs have vibrations to help you heal faster. That's so cute he just wants his mommy to get better
@michellemelissarivera4
@michellemelissarivera4 Ай бұрын
Something always told me you loved her more than she loved you and that her family was not a fan of you whatsoever …. And this just proved it .. you and Emily will overcome this . Easier said than done but you already took a huge step with divorce
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
Her parents strongly disliked me. Thats another video I will be making.
@michellemelissarivera4
@michellemelissarivera4 Ай бұрын
Well I freaking adore you ! And thank god they are out of your life !
@jordanpowell3361
@jordanpowell3361 Ай бұрын
Literally went through the same situation with my ex being an avoidant. The only difference is I actually wanted to keep a relationship with her son but he unfortunately had to go through the process of being ripped away from a parent figure. It’s honestly hard on everyone involved and I feel you you mama I really do
@natsus4816
@natsus4816 Ай бұрын
I love how you take accountability for your actions. You’re very strong, and I will continue to support you❤️ 7:53
@Lauren-ud1dk
@Lauren-ud1dk Ай бұрын
Release it if it will help with healing and not interfere with anything legally. It’s totally up to you. We are all here for you ❤
@mariageorgieva1716
@mariageorgieva1716 24 күн бұрын
There are good and bad things in life. You can't do without both, because it's a balance. But the important thing is that you managed to move forward even if not completely and not to give up. Sometimes the people we love the most are the ones who hurt us. But this is also the moment when we become stronger. Even if you were at fault in your relationship...it doesn't make you a bad person. Because we all make mistakes and learn from mistakes. There is another thing, no one has the right to hurt you with the most valuable and most important thing for you. When a person shares something personal with someone, it doesn't mean the whole world has to know. Because it's your past, your story, and it's not right for people to make fun of it. There are people who have not lived through much, but there are also those who have grown up too soon. Don't give up on yourself or the people you love and care about. Don't give up on love either. You will find the right person who, in addition to love, will give you care and security. You are a strong girl and you have to tell yourself that every day. In addition to people, show yourself that you are strong, kind and caring
@karinepaquette8132
@karinepaquette8132 Ай бұрын
I admire your courage and knowledge of your mistakes. To talk about your version of the stories in front of social media takes a lot of courage, knowing you can't get destroyed with haters, but to keep the silence, you do not heel from it. I began to watch your TikTok video a while ago, and the love and care for Emily have no word to express how a good human being you are, and she is lucky to have you. Hopefully, sharing with us the truth stories will make a closure and move on to a new chapter for you, guy. I really wish you the best you deserved happiness.
@courtneyenriquez6939
@courtneyenriquez6939 Ай бұрын
Some of the most sage advice I was ever given is “live in truth, because whether it’s in the moment, or years later, the truth always comes to light.” For folks saying this is “dragging it out” or “seeking attention”, this video and ones to come wouldn’t be necessary if the truth wasn’t being hidden or altered from the other side of things. She has every right to tell her truth as their relationship was public and the separation wasn’t private. Had things been cleared up from the other side or false narratives spoken against, then there would be no reason to clear things up now. Everyone has the right to their truth. We have free speech. Don’t be “morality” police when you have no idea what really happened. Sarah, the floor is yours, we are here to listen. Ignore people who try and invalidate you or your experience. You know your truth and at the end of the day that’s all that matters. I’m sorry you have been put in a situation where you feel that you in a way have to prove yourself. Heartbreak is already painful enough and the healing journey is a lot. I hope this helps you heal even more when it is all out there. Support from southern California ❤
@Chloe_Louise23
@Chloe_Louise23 Ай бұрын
Please share your truth it’ll help so many going through the same thing or similar thing and it’ll be inspiring to others when and if you share your story and I’m sorry you and Emily went through all of what you have gone through 💯 you both deserve better and deserve the world I’m sorry it didn’t work out this time but I know one day it will x🫶🏻🥰 sending you both love, hugs and comfort x🥰🫶🏻
@nehasrivastava9886
@nehasrivastava9886 Ай бұрын
“Even when you’re doing something right, it hurts because it’s going to hurt someone else” 🥹 spoken like a true empath. Those of us who battle our brain every damn day, this hits. We never defend ourselves to protect because we understand empathy. Most of us had to prove why we are deserving of the same empathy and can’t fathom doing that to someone else. I love you, Sarah. You’re inspiring a lot of people to speak their truth and defend themselves. We are NOT crazy for having reactions to being hurt. Keep going, we got you. ❤✨
@AbigailsCorner4444
@AbigailsCorner4444 Ай бұрын
Thanks for being vulnerable. This video could help so many other people who are in similar situations.
@Delaney.N
@Delaney.N Ай бұрын
I’m sorry you went through all that ! Your story and your voice matters ! Been watching you on TikTok big fan love you and your sister 🥺🥺💜💜💜💜
@chastitydusser3
@chastitydusser3 Ай бұрын
I relate to you so much with the avoidant personality stuff. My wife and I have been struggling for years because she refuses to take responsibility for her actions, meanwhile I'm the one to blame... for everything. This has really put a strain on our marriage. We have been working on this for the past 5 years. (We've been together for almost 20 years) To make shit worse, we have an 11 year old girl. I too am no saint. But I have gone through therapy and actually applied things that I've learned, and I have been changing my bad behaviors. My wife on the other hand, has not. All she does it talk shit about me to her therapist, and is in complete denial about her roll in the destruction of our marriage. So. Yea. Unless she can change, I'm really not sure how long I can deal with her.
@megumidoragon
@megumidoragon Ай бұрын
It's hard to speak up in these kinds of situations. I didn't when my ex decided to say all manner of things about me and our life after the split and I've only in the last few years started to speak the truth about it. You're strong for speaking your truth and the reality of your life in this regard. It takes bravery. 💜💜 It's hard but you're amazing and so is your sister. You are each other's strength.
@Victoriavanasse
@Victoriavanasse Ай бұрын
never be afraid to share your truth, it will heal you in the end and if they heal from spreading lies that’s their problem… xo❤
@inezwalker6566
@inezwalker6566 Ай бұрын
I am so proud of you, Sarah. It takes a great deal of strength and character to go through what you did and come out on the other side. I admire you. You're not just a beautiful woman but you also have a very beautiful soul. God bless you, Sarah. ❤
@chellee591
@chellee591 Ай бұрын
I love your ch. Your wisdom, your humor, your awesomeness. You have many wonderful blessings ahead.
@sheenafox3099
@sheenafox3099 Ай бұрын
Cant wait for the next video. Youre so amazing no matter what anyone says and just know youre Emilys safe place and yall so lucky to have each other ❤️
@Mn_catmom
@Mn_catmom Ай бұрын
I am so sorry you went through this. I had a similar experience in 2016. I brought myself to therapy because I thought I was developing schizophrenia, but nope 🙃 just abuse from a narcissistic sociopath. Sending you love and healing ❤
@emilyyyy1133
@emilyyyy1133 Ай бұрын
Girl, first you’re really pretty. Secondly I’m so sorry you went through all that! You’re such a good person and have done so much let alone you’ve been through a lot. Keep telling yourself that story it’s deserved to be hard & use your voice!! Love you.
@Brittnee123410
@Brittnee123410 Ай бұрын
We’re human and we all can reflect on a time where we could’ve done something different and handle things better, but all we can do is learn and grow. You’re incredibly strong and braver than you realize and I applaud you for being so open and honest. I’m so sorry this has been so hard on you and Emily both, but just remember we all love you guys so much and will support ya however we can. Even if it’s just listening as you continue to navigate through it all 🫶🏻❤️
@MB-jn1sx
@MB-jn1sx Ай бұрын
omg pls release it!! i’m so proud of you ❤
@Maddievics
@Maddievics Ай бұрын
Happy that you are finally able to speak your truth! I used to see you around Rochester a decent amount and you have such a bright personality, it’s good to see you getting back to that :)
@sarcarolyn
@sarcarolyn Ай бұрын
@@Maddievics oh my gosh!!! We need to hangout love ❤️❤️
@Maddievics
@Maddievics Ай бұрын
For sure!
@maricrisnarag1718
@maricrisnarag1718 Ай бұрын
I'm so proud of you for speaking your truth. I wish I could hug you and Emily. 🫂
@Isa-b8j
@Isa-b8j Ай бұрын
In my opinion you deserve so much better, just remember you’re gorgeous and if someone treats you like that there’s better people that deserve your love. Also remember it’s okay to break sometimes love.
@nikitacrumb6005
@nikitacrumb6005 Ай бұрын
You are a beautiful person. Dont ever let anyone make you feel like youre not worth the world. ❤
@onestepdownonestepup9788
@onestepdownonestepup9788 Ай бұрын
I watched this whole video and thank you for sharing your truth. You do an amazing job with Emily❤️
@mollygreen7754
@mollygreen7754 Ай бұрын
Watched the entire thing from start to finish. I know it doesn't seem like it, but we're here for you! Even if you need to just rant and get things off your heart! Love you and your sister, stay strong!
@haleymurray1702
@haleymurray1702 Ай бұрын
You got this! We all have a voice and we need to use! I hear you! It’s hard when things can go bad like that when you once loved each other l. Btw Love seeing the videos you and Emily make on TikTok
@gabby5083
@gabby5083 Ай бұрын
I have always been a silent fan/viewer, I’ve been following for some time like a few years now. But I really wanted to come on here and condemn you for your braveness and say that I am so proud of you for speaking your truth. You didn’t owe it to anybody to share what happened, but I am really glad that you did. you handled it better than a lot of people would’ve. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us❤️ much love to you and Emily
@pearl2254
@pearl2254 Ай бұрын
I think you might mean commend not condemn haha
@brittneymacklin7979
@brittneymacklin7979 Ай бұрын
I was in a narcissistic marriage. That then a child was brought into. I then found out all of the truth threw snooping threw social media and was cheated on the whole marriage. I served him papers and filed for full custody. Divorce went on for two years and the child we had together doesn’t know who he is as after I filled and cut everything off he wanted nothing to do with our child but won’t give up his rights. I am now in a new marriage with an old childhood friend and my child thinks that he is their father and I am perfectly fine with that. He doesn’t pay child support or anything and I had to pay for the lawyer all by myself.
@brittneymacklin7979
@brittneymacklin7979 Ай бұрын
Then to go off and tell me the day I served him papers that his new gf was pregnant and I wasn’t going to get anything anyways. But still won’t give up his rights so that way my child can share the same name with the person they think is their father and mother and sibling. I was extremely thin from all of the stress and depression of the whole situation. I feel you. I love you and I have been following you for a while. You are loved.
@HLA302
@HLA302 Ай бұрын
Speak your truth, even if your voice shakes. Having empathy is a blessing and a curse sometimes. Sending you love from Vancouver ❤️
@AllisonSherman7
@AllisonSherman7 Ай бұрын
Cool-video! My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life as anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I'm saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him*
@anatinoco7924
@anatinoco7924 Ай бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to you love I hope one day you are able to post your full truth ❤️I hope Emily is able to heal from this and you as well ❤️
@salenabillington5757
@salenabillington5757 Ай бұрын
I Love how you stand up for yourself! We love you! Stay Strong! Your gonna shine, remember that!
@sk8rchickla
@sk8rchickla Ай бұрын
Continue to speak your truth girl! You are loved & supported by so many even if it doesn’t feel like it. ❤️
@AngelaWilliamson-ox3sl
@AngelaWilliamson-ox3sl Ай бұрын
You are such a precious soul and so is Emily! Praying you both receive alot of happiness 🎉
@Delaney.N
@Delaney.N Ай бұрын
Own your truth share your story ! 💜💜! Spill all the tea share everything you feel comfortable sharing !
@KirbieDerby69
@KirbieDerby69 Ай бұрын
We love you & we see you. Thank you for sharing something so vulnerable. ❤
@annaburgess5589
@annaburgess5589 Ай бұрын
Proud of you Sarah ❤️ you and Emily are amazing.
@nicholejordan1995
@nicholejordan1995 Ай бұрын
My truth and my story I don’t have the strength and bravery to share my stories , you are so brave to share your story , I know that feeling that people make you feel like you are crazy one my brother did that to me, he has mental issues, other things that I don’t ready to talk about
@kaleyheider3584
@kaleyheider3584 Ай бұрын
I relate so much about being an anxious communicator and how triggering an avoidant can be.❤
@jordanrenee5839
@jordanrenee5839 Ай бұрын
You deserve peace. Always remember you’re so loved by so many people around the world! We love you and Emily!
@rameylightskin2834
@rameylightskin2834 Ай бұрын
Aye I'm glad you were able to speak about your experience. Even if it wasn't face to face with someone I'm glad you're able to be at your peace
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