My Elective C-Section Birth Story | Susan Yara

[@naomicairns]

Delivering a healthy baby, regardless of how it comes out, is the only goal that matters. I applaud everyone who shares their birth story because, while you open yourself up to criticism and judgement from those who think they know best, ultimately you help other people who may be going through something similar. Susan, your little baby girl is a sweetheart. My daughter will be 18 soon and I just adore her - it’s so fun having a mini me to share things with. Enjoy her while she’s tiny. ❤️❤️

[@naomicairns]

I think it’s up to the doctor to determine if the benefits outweigh the risks of an elective C section. It’s definitely not up to you.

[@naomicairns]

Adrine S If a doctor says we can try for a VBAC but in my judgement it would be best to schedule a C Section than that’s what you can responsibly do. When someone like you interjects their own opinion then you just make people feel badly for something that they didn’t really have control of. I had three uncomplicated, unmedicated births and I don’t feel like I made smarter choices that led to that. I just was fortunate. Insisting on the value of vaginal births is like insisting on the value of clean water. It doesn’t really need to be said. I think anyone who goes through a C section and a vaginal birth will, without risk, opt for a vaginal birth. I mean no offence to you but you come across as preaching and while there is something to your point of view in a very generalized sense you cannot make judgement in individual situations unless you are part of the medical team!

[@naomicairns]

Adrine S I don’t think that you really understand the statistics that determine risk. C sections have saved sooooo many lives and it’s not for you to say that her C Section was unnecessary. It’s between her and her doctor. Unless you are an obgyn I’m pretty sure that you are not an expert on what’s best for Susan or any other woman. You are an expert on what’s best for yourself. That’s it.

[@naomicairns]

Adrine S Fair enough. I think I’ve made my point and I’ve no wish to belabour the point. Happy New Year and take care.

[@SB-dk1ty]

Adrine S I don't think anybody actually believes that a c section is the best mode of delivery for baby or mother and hardly any mums elect to have a c section for their first baby if it's not medically necessary. However, when you've had a situation like Susan (emergency c section for her first) it can be extremely stressful to think about trying for a vagjnal birth a second time when it went so wrong the first time. A mother's mental health must also be considered when deciding on 'risks' associated with modes of delivery. I had a 24 hr induced labour with my twins which ended in an emergency c section. I would so love to have a natural birth when we have our 3rd baby but I am really torn because of the fear of a repeat of last time, hence I am considering an elective c section. Just be aware of how your comments can really make a new mum feel guilty about choosing a c section when she's just trying to choose a mode of delivery that makes her feel most relaxed and positive xx

[@SusanYara]

Hope you guys enjoy this video! It was funny re-living my c-section and thinking about how I felt. Can I just say, I’m glad I’m not pregnant anymore and have a beautiful, healthy baby! It felt like I was pregnant for so long. 🤣

[@tkasham2044]

Congratulations Susan.... She is so beautiful. Yeah I understand that feeling of rejoicing that you are no longer pregnant. I am due in 15 weeks and girl am I nervous despite the fact that this will be my second Csection. Please I would like to see a video on coping with a toddler shortly after a csection or a day in the life of a mum of two. Thanks

[@waterrose9337]

Please a video about tips breastfeeding 🙏🙏🙏👏💕💎🌙🥀👑🌷🥰⭐❤🌹🌸

[@sailuna9195]

Congratulations, my story is the same, I would never ever recommend a C-section but when it comes to us that had to have 2 C-sections it is what it is, we have our babys and they are beautiful and healthy, I hope you're recovery is going good and that you rest as much as you can ♥️ P.s. I have the exact same pictures in the operating room😂

[@leslielee1118]

Can you link the silicone sheets you are using?

[@JennyLouRN]

I’m an RN for newborns/L&D/OR for c-sections. Yes, they do remove & replace some of your internal organs to do the uterine repair. Sometimes they have to remove (and put back) some of your intestines and sometimes your bladder. They usually have to take out the uterus to stitch it up.

[@sweetandsoursoup]

Pregnancy is such a personal thing-thanks for sharing this! It’s unfortunate that so many people judge when they hear the words elective c-section.

[@felishiarae332]

I would really love to see your recovery tips now that you've had two c-sections and any products that you think are helpful to recovery. I've got a toddler and my planned c-section is in a few weeks so I'm trying to prep as much as I can since, like you, I was unprepared for a c-section the first time! Anyway, thanks for sharing your story and the reality that comes with surgery.

[@numberone22459]

You explain everything so well! It feels like we were right in the operating room. You would make such a great author or writer

[@ak-li6nq]

you gave me so much peace of mind with me going forward with my planned C-section. thank you for sharing your story

[@alimakingmyway3006]

Every time I mention I'm getting a C-section I swear everyone's response is why? I'm like because it's my body and it's what I want... I'm a planner and I just feel more secure and less stressed knowing when she's gonna be here (well obviously if she doesn't decide to come out early lol) but yeah I don't like worrying too much.

[@Naturalista_i]

Amen

[@amberhill6329]

I’m only 7 weeks along with my first. So I’m new to all of this... so you got to choose to do a c section?

[@alimakingmyway3006]

@@amberhill6329 yep they act a little weird at first but stick your ground.

[@aimansteele]

@@alimakingmyway3006 the point is it’s your body, no one, NO ONE should have an opinion or make you feel bad about your decisions. It’s your life. I honestly hate when people think it’s ok to make you uncomfortable about the decisions you choose to make for yourself as if they have a right. As soon as you stop caring what others think, the better and happier your life will be.

[@m.m.9564]

I’m currently pregnant with my first & I have always known I wanted to do a c section. Thankfully my dr was understanding (she said she chose a c-section herself) and hasn’t tried to talk me out of it or weird about it!

[@katieohh6456]

I watched this video for my planned c section with my second baby and it helped me so much!!! Came back to watch it again for my third baby having another planned c section and tubal ligation in early Feb ❤

[@serialskincare]

Wow, pregnancy and birth are such a personal experience, especially choosing between a planned c-section, or vaginal delivery! Thank you for sharing your experience! I love strong parents coming together to talk about their experiences! ❤️

[@daraleick4147]

I’m a few days out from delivering my 6th son (3rd planned c-section) and I still enjoyed listening to your birth story. Getting super psyched! Thanks for sharing!

[@ThatsLuxe]

Thank you for sharing your journey! I had an emergency c section with my first born and now I’m due to have a planned c section on 2/2/22! This is so interesting and great to know the pros and cons you’ve experienced. Beautiful baby!

[@i_marap8197]

My OBGyn asked if I could feel anything and I said just a bit of pressure too, and she said that's because I started like 10 mins ago 🤣😅

[@zoyakleshchevnikova8781]

Lmao that's awesome hahaha

[@twinkletwinkle7459]

Ahahaha

[@katiebearden5958]

Thank you for posting this 🙌🏻 all of the memories from my sons c-section 10 months ago... all the feels!!! I’m crying! 😭😭😭😭

[@ariellandJP]

I had my son via an elective c-section due to breech position (and his big head). It was an amazing experience, mainly because I had all the time to prepare and research what was going to happen, and everything was pretty under control and calm. But of course I was blessed with an amazing pregnancy with no complications, and an incredible OBGYN

[@shouganaismile]

Ariel Lee my son is breech! And I’m 37 weeks and his head is in the 97% percentile 😂 so we are scheduling c section for 39 weeks 😩🤞🏻❤️

[@itsmenatty3252]

You're makeup looks beautiful! That lipstick looks great on you.

[@lyss1210]

I had a planned c section as well, about 2.5 months ago. A lot of the feelings were the same for me! It definitely had its pros and cons

[@tlizw87]

Thank you for sharing! My first was a very scary 28 hour labor that ended in an emergency csection. Since then I've lost two babies in the past year and a half. I'm now pregnant again and this has been a healthy pregnancy so far. I have so much anxiety about whether or not to have a second csection or to try another natural birth. I still have plenty time to decide, but I'm so scared that if I don't choose a csection that I will be risking mine and my babies life like what happened the first time.

[@shaygirl9174]

Thank you for sharing your story. I have a breech baby girl and watching positive experiences is helping me understand this process better. Everything happens for a reason :)

[@ivana0606]

Thank you for sharing- I have to prepare for c section as my daughter is no turning so this video helped calm me down

[@ednagarcia7223]

I'm going on the third c section in a few days and with my 2 previous c section I had great experiences, I would even say I recovered much faster with second one.

[@madhurireddy6439]

Hi Susan, Congratulations for baby Ayla, she is adorable. I am a mother of 4 month old....please let us know what birth control method u followed after having your 1st baby. Most of my friends have opted for Copper T anyways which has lot of side effects and is painful.

[@LyndseysNifty]

I am having a planned csection this time around as well. I am having my husband take off a month to help while I heal. I am also so happy that my first is almost 6 so he can be a helper too (which he is excited about). I used to want kids 2 years apart but so happy it didn't work out that way. Lol Thank you for your story!!

[@minniesmithy]

Wow. Your first emergency c section experience sounds exactly like what I had. I felt the same (that it was so fast! I was also on pitocin and epidural) and then had to have emergency c section. Pregnant with second now - so this was very insightful. Thank you!

[@erikamoulton]

I’m looking to have an elective C-Section so this was really helpful. Thank you For sharing your experience. ❤️

[@underated17]

I love your dress! It's gorgeous and I have never seen one like that! Also your hair is so shiny and I like the curls. Ayla is adorable!

[@FortheLoveofOrganizing]

Thank you so much for this perspective. Having a planned c section tomorrow morning! You helped ease my fears. Big hugs

[@shiyannacandace4292]

How did it go I'm suppose to have mine in 3 weeks

[@FortheLoveofOrganizing]

@@shiyannacandace4292 Susan’s advice really helped me stay focused. Everything went well, I was super nervous but feeling so much better day 2. Best of luck!!

[@yessicamalpica89]

I’m about to have my 4th c-section this Monday coming up and I am so nervous I didn’t have a choice regarding it but it is what is since my doctor said it’s safer because of my past births. This is actually the first time I think I’ll make my schedule c-section so this was very informative thank you 🙏🏼 I’m always going into labor way before the schedule and end up having the whole emergency c-section but with this one it’s going to be a different story since I have one more day and I go in at 5:30am to hospital 😊 on Monday. Thank you again ☺️

[@rochellebaby93]

Ahh im glad to watch this. Im going for a planned c-section as well in a couple of weeks! So anxious about the spinal tap and recovery with a 4 yr old and a newborn.

[@manjirachakrabarti2844]

spinal doesnt hurt more than a little prick. you will be fine

[@ashne9889]

How did it go for you I’m going to have a c section too. I’m nervous about the catheter like does it hurt going in or out and also do they check your vagina with there fingers constantly like they do a vaginal birth lol

[@rochellebaby93]

@Ash Ne the spinal tap didnt hurt like I was expecting it to be. They did a light injection of anesthetic (just a prick) before they did the tap to the spine. The tap to the spine just feel like pressure after the anesthetic. I started feeling my feet being tingly and then my leg and thigh being warm then numb... lol. Then they do the catheter so you wont feel that anymore. Getting it out just feels weird but not painful. They ask u to breathe in and as soon as u breathe out! Catheter is out. Best feeling ever after that lol! But when they were doing my csection, my leg felt so restless like I just wanna move it but i cant.. thats the only thing i hate about it. Like i just wanna kick! But i cant... i asked the nurse to reposition my legs but it didnt help... but you will be fine! About vagibal check??? They only checked me once when I got in, then they were like... yup youre ready! Were are doing your csection today. Oh and it happened earlier than expected.

[@aileencitaaa]

You should do a video where you talk about what you’re doing differently this time around.

[@estellebrunt1106]

I had a c section because my daughter was breeched and water broke at 35 weeks +3 days. I cried because it was not something I wanted to do but accepted it because I want what's best for my daughter and me. The worst part to me was the shot up my spine but the surgery itself surprisingly wasn't bad as I thought it would be. I delivered a beautiful healthy baby girl.

[@JYYB]

Happy recovery for you all 💓 I had a emergency c- section with my first and I was able do vbac for my second child. I was lucky to been able to experience both.

[@akeemaburno1638]

Well you made me more confident into having my second c section. I had to have an emergency c section with my son because his heart rate kept dropping and the umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck. They did give me the opportunity to try to see if anything changes so I can have a vaginal birth but I was running out of time because his heart rate would not stop dropping. My son came out perfectly fine I didn’t feel any pain during the c section but I felt a lot of pressure when they was stitching me up. I got pregnant back to back and I have a schedule c section this time around because I feel like my body isn’t fully healed to do a vaginal birth either way there’s risk. Thanks for sharing your experience‼️

[@isayanaaguirre9009]

Hello 👋 how did it go ? I’m on my second baby under 2 and idk what to do I’m a bit scared did your second c section was better ??

[@gotchaa100]

I m pregnant and there is something so relaxing about watching your videos.. especially the long ones :) love! And Congratulations 🎊

[@karinanambo4703]

I have a c-section scheduled next week. Not by choice, but because my baby is a Breech Baby and he won’t move downward. I try being positive because I had a different plan (like most moms) but this video does help! Thank you for making it 🙏🏼💗

[@isabelnieto5189]

Ahhh, I’m due for my third c-section in a couple weeks and my biggest anxiety is over the spinal (epidural) - but you give me so much encouragement with your confidence ☺️

[@megansampson5445]

That is always my biggest anxiety... I have so much water retention at the end of my pregnancy and they said that makes it harder for them to find the right spot, so I always get pre-poked with that massive needle so many times before the REAL poke. Seems to take forever. It also just freaks me out that I always jolt unintentionally and they tell you not to move or you can be paralyzed. JUST super freaky. I hope you c-section went well :)

[@marycarson9231]

That's what I always get anxious about also! I mean they are putting a big needle in your spine, yikes!

[@isabelnieto5189]

@@megansampson5445 I did a lot of praying and thank God my c-section went great and smooth! I had an amazing anesthesiologist and team in the OR that listened to all my concerns and held me through the whole process. I’m praying yours goes just as smoothly. :)

[@stephaniepuebla8487]

Love love love your videos! Straight forward and honest. I'm a first time mom and a C section is my biggest fear so heading this helped ease my nerves a bit.

[@Flower-yc7hr]

I’m pregnant with my first & may be having a c-section, this was sooo informative & comforting, Thankyou!

[@rachelcantu2987]

I had an elective C-Section after a failed induction and I am super excited to have a C-section with my next baby. Thanks for explaining your experience. You got a new subscriber in me! ❤️

[@fernandafelixschwarzbeck1120]

How easy is to have an elective c section?? You have to "convince" your obgyn?

[@corpselizzy]

@@fernandafelixschwarzbeck1120 no csections tend to be only used for issues or if you've had a prior csection. If you have no actual reason for a csection it's recommended not to have one

[@natasjailnyckyj2674]

@@fernandafelixschwarzbeck1120 depends where you live, in canada its optional, my first pregnancy rn and i was able to choose. i'm having my c section in a few weeks. also depends on the obgyn i guess (some will fight u on it)but legally here its up to the patient on their birth.

[@himanginaik2682]

Also shooting pain on one side is last stich of the incision on the fascia (sheath that holds all abdominal organs). This stich heals the last and is generally sewed super tightly to avoid hernia.( I.e when organs poke out)

[@peachxtaehyung]

*stitch

[@marwinnayoung]

Thank you for sharing. You're such brave MOM. All mommy should be respected for the way she had a baby because giving birth is not easy for our physical and mental health. Beside the ups and downs of hormones. Never been easy.

[@jahnidevilliers2201]

I had two emergency c-sections, elective was the dream for baby number 2 but my son didn’t quite get the memo! Baby Ayla is so incredibly beautiful ❤️

[@Bee-RoseMartinez]

Omg the way you’re describing the numbness is freaking me out lol you seem so calm. I want an elective c-section but to feel numb from the chest down is interesting.

[@lsohn829]

Thanks for sharing your story! I’m a ftm and I have my c section scheduled for Monday because my baby girl is breech. I’ve been super nervous about it and it’s helpful to hear the process from someone who has been through it before.

[@nica1404]

Thank God I stumbled into this video. I'm having a planned c section next wk and you eased my nerves about it 😊 thank you

[@mel_pnw]

This is so accurate to my experience of my elective cesarean. I so wish I would've known that it is NORMAL for babies not to cry as soon as they come out, that was the most stressful part for me (she is/was completely healthy). I remember recovery being the worst, she's almost 12 now. But I'm due in March and will be doing another elective cesarean. It was all worth it and I don't have any regrets from how things went the first round. And it's actually very calming to hear that the experience 12 years later is what I can still expect.

[@andreeav.6554]

Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. I'm going to go through a similar one and it's really calming to know in detail what to expect. Congratulations on your baby! She's so cute!

[@desormais22]

I’m having my second in early September this year, and I’m having a planned c section again this time too for some good reasons. My firstborn came via emergency c section too 5 years ago bc of preeclampsia @29 weeks. Grateful to hear your detailed experience with your planned c section!! It’s kind of what I had heard c sections are like in the states. Nervous still to have it here too bc with my first, it was overseas and they just knocked me out completely (which was nerve wracking, but it went really well). Really helpful to hear about your experience!! Thanks for sharing!!!

[@mollydegardin6770]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m not pregnant yet, but planning an elective for baby #2 as I had an emergency for my first. Congrats on the baby 👶 ❤️

[@meganschwan7848]

Thank you so much for sharing this- I’m having an elective repeat c-section in March and you truly helped me understand what to expect. I wasn’t sure what would be different than the first time. I’m super nervous about it but I do think it’s what’s best for me after my sons birth (he was also an emergency C after getting stuck and failed vacuum attempt- it was horrible!)

[@shazzy3141]

Same thing happened to me, how was recovery the second time with the elective c section. I don’t know what to do I’m 32 weeks right now and I really don’t want to be induced and then end up having a emergency c section again so was thinking to just opt for a elective one

[@silvernblack21]

I have to admit, I'm near giving birth all naturally for the 5th time...and the idea of a c-section appeals to me because the pain of natural birth is horrific. It's short for me, but incredibly intense. However, I know I'll be blessed to not need one and be able to recover quickly (within an hour I'm walking and feeling great). Thanks for sharing your story, I feel for everyone who gets a c-section, it can be scary and isn't as easy as it sounds.

[@The_C_Word]

Congrats Susan! She is such a precious little peanut! I’m glad it went well. It’s been fun being a new mom of two as well just seeing the differences between the kids! You’re going to love it!

[@krystalb753]

Congratulations on baby! I had two C-sections both planned. Just watch the pain and scar tissue i ended up with endometriosis and a mass of scar tissue that was very painful. Just had surgery in August to remove it. It was a quick surgery and back to normal now. It's apparently common to after C-section especially seconds.

[@marigeniet]

Please can you do a complete day in the life with both a newborn and a toddler? Love your videos!

[@jhasjhis9]

I just want to say that the idea of a natural vaginal birth being more beautiful is kind of a myth. It is idealistic and seldom as you imagine. Birthing is dangerous and has risks regardless of how you do it. Prior to modern era giving birth was the #1 killer of women. Planned C sections have the least risk because the surgeons know what they’re expecting and can control things. Whereas a vaginal birth often has complications just because of our modern lifestyle etc. There’s a lot of tearing and potential issues with placenta and the position of you baby, hemorrhage etc. With a natural birth as well.

[@lilymcmanaway]

a c section is major abdominal surgery- it is in no way 'safer' than vaginal birth. yes c sections save lives but that is ultimately what they are here for- if you are low risk, vaginal is in fact safer.

[@love_nyc_]

Planned C sections DO NOT have the least risk!!!! They are MAJOR ABDOMINAL SURGERY! Get your fact straight!

[@livingbreed]

Prior to doctors washing their hands actually.

[@silvernblack21]

C-section is more likely to result in complications and harm. Perhaps medicated vaginal births are also risky (they are due to the drugs and how it affects the baby and mom), but I've had 4 all natural births and it was fantastic...except for transition and pushing, which hurt terribly. But that part is pretty short. I didn't have tears that required stitches and had no issues, quick recoveries. My first child I accidentally had naturally because I got to the hospital too late. With my 2nd I got an epidural, and it caused nerve damage that lasted months after delivery. I don't think the anesthesiologist did anything wrong, my body just didn't react well to it. Thus for babies 3-5, I went back to natural birthing. The pain is terrible, but it's worth the very quick recovery and no complications in my experience.

[@ayah7219]

Having a healthy baby and mother is priority so any opinions negative should shut up. I had four natural births two were horrific and required me to have major surgical repairs and now 30 weeks pregnant and having c section as my body can’t give natural birth again to risky to me now. Stop judging people and be supportive Congrats and you look beautiful

[@kaitlinhoffman8721]

This made me feel a bit better I’m having my second but planned this time in 5 weeks.

[@lrachel2007]

MamaKandBabyE me too... My second baby planned c section due to preeclampsia in 5 weeks

[@kaitlinhoffman8721]

Rachel Wang that must be hard! I’m only having a planned because my first was an emergency.

[@lrachel2007]

MamaKandBabyE i am getting closer, yesterday my bp is up 144/108 at ob office. I got sent to ob ed directly luckily, my bp was stable and lab result was normal. End up discharged home..

[@montesfam5411]

Thank you for being so open and explaining everything so well. I'm considering planning a c section for this time. I also had an emergency c section with my daughter my first time around

[@mrshedinism]

Thank you!! My son will be 2 the week of my scheduled c-section with my next. I've gotten a lot of criticism about not trying for a vbac. The first time I had dreams of an unmedicated birth- did all the classes, planned perfectly etc and then I ended up induced at 42 weeks and an emergency C-section. It was traumatizing and I couldn't hold the baby until day 2 because I was so drugged up. This time a planned surgery feels a lot better to me, and that's all that matters but I admit I do have hurt feelings when people act like I'm "not trying" bc I've elected this time around

[@isayanaaguirre9009]

Hello 👋 how did your 2nd c section go ? And how far are your babies apart ? I will be 2 under 2 and soo scared 😳

[@sbmichele4440]

My last baby was an elective C-section where as the first 2 were emergency. It was a blessing to have it more relaxed and not an emergency situation! My husband even got to cut the cord and I got to do skin to skin. It was quite a recovery though since I had my tubes removed

[@Geini0]

So happy for you and your family! ❤️ I used to be “Vaginal is the only and best way to go!” when I was in college. But now that I’m older and I know more about both sides I don’t think I would be mad one way or the other. Listen to your doctor and don’t judge other mamas is what I say.

[@arlenerodrigues5816]

Omg I can relate to everything you said Susan...my first daughter was an emergency csec and second was elective cz both pregnancies were less than 2 years apart, except my husband wasn't allowed in the operating theater

[@queenanhle1258]

Love to see vlogs and updates about Ayla. What a beautiful baby! She even looks pretty already from birth ❤️

[@jessicagrant8157]

Thank you so much for sharing your positive c-section birth story.

[@poojabharadwaj7152]

I had a planned c section 10 months ago. I went thru the same exact things as you did. C sec or vaginal....the experience of having a baby.. Of becoming a mom is amazing😍😘😘 congratulations!

[@dominiquecurry6471]

I hard it was easier the next time around but Iv also see some woman have a vbac but I'm glad ur able to share that in for with us cuas I had a emergency c section the first time due to my daughters heart beat but every one was tellin me it gets easier the second c section

[@bridgetmcglone]

Thank you for sharing your experience! I had an emergency c-section with my first too.

[@musicartculture]

Wow she is sooooo beautiful! Such beautiful brows already! Congratulations once again! So happy for you!

[@donikatod460]

You do control what happens during natural birth. That's the whole thing - you become your body and your body does its job. Yes, there can be complications. Often they arise from the fears of not knowing what's coming or thinking you can't control things - of course among plenty of other reasons. It's great that we have the technology available to do emergency or planned c-sections. There is no need for judgement, but the truth also has to be discussed about what is more beneficial from a health perspective for the baby, and the mother. Otherwise, great story, thank you for sharing!

[@JennieDCuteThings]

Im not an OB but as an l&d nurse, i would always recommend an elective c section over a VBAC!

[@victoria.galvin]

Jennie Deng why do you not recommend a VBAC? Just curious.

[@JennieDCuteThings]

Victoria Hi! Sorry for the late reply! Because, during your primary c-section, your uterus is cut and open to get your baby out. Its a major surgery that looks so clean on the outside after youre nice and sutured up, but during the process, it is a MAJOR surgery. Since youre being “sewn” back up, your uterus is not as strong anymore. Imagine a doll being sewn up. Now, during a VBAC, you know how you’re pushing? Well, your uterus isnt as strong anymore so while you push, your uterus might rupture, or for a lack of better terms, “explode” during pushing because its held together by sutures from your c-section. If it does rupture, usually OB’s have to do an emergency c-section within 5-10 minutes and get the baby out. It is also dangerous for mom too, as you can imagine, because blood will be SPEWING out. Basically, during a VBAC, and im assuming that it depends on the hospital policies, most OB’s have to be IN HOUSE within a certain dilatation, or if the patient’s water broke, or if twins, etc. they also know how dangerous it is so they cannot be far from the hospital. Hope that answers your question!

[@mysonskeeper14]

Even though the ACOG prefers vbacs over repeat cesareans. But it's a personal choice either way.

[@robintorres3615]

I had csection in 2008 going to have another next week and I’m hoping that it goes just as smooth. I’ll take a csection over the screams I heard in the hospital any day. Your baby comes out a beautiful baby regardless of how they arrive.

[@farahali6024]

How numb do you get? I mean do you get to feel the scalpel moving on your skin, even if it doesn’t hurt? I’m asking because I’ve previously had small procedures where they numb me, and I can’t feel the pain, but I can definitely feel the scalpel pressing me, and I think with my nerves while I’m on the table, that would be too much for me to handle! I would freak out!

[@jsm8841]

Farah Ali in my experience, I was NUMB. As soon as I got the spinal, I couldn’t even lay back down I was so numb. No feeling at all until the end, when they were taking the baby out, I could very lightly feel them tugging to get her out but my husband told me later that they were shaking me to get the baby out and I had no feeling!

[@followingmyheart89]

Thanks for sharing this story. I had a VBAC this time around but I was given the choice as there was of course a risk associated with my VBAC for several reasons. I was definitely deciding what to do for a while.

[@JennyLouRN]

As an RN for newborn and L&D (including OR for c-sections), a c-section is NOT predictable. There is a much higher risk of hemhorrhage, emergency hysterectomy, sepsis, infant having respiratory distress, nausea and pain afterwards, cutting the bladder, scarring that attaches to your internal organs, and even death. Not saying don’t have a c-section, but for those who think it’s less risky is not true. Congrats on your VBAC.

[@DeeSea220]

How did your vbac go?

[@followingmyheart89]

Desiree' Cabiness very well. No complications. But because I refused to be induced to reduce the chances of a c section and because I previously had a c section I had prodromal labour for 2 weeks and then I was in active labour for 42 hours. I probably only knew because my scar was being pulled on with my cramping and contractions. But overall it went very well. She was born on her due date too.

[@AC-by4nf]

So happy you made this type of video! I too had an emergency csection due to anesthesia and baby’s heartbeat dropping. Also he was sunny side up which made it very difficult to bring him all the way down! What was the reason you had your first csection? Was it due to baby’s position since you mentioned you felt little girl in the same area as your son?

[@megana5658]

Thank you for sharing! I have to have a csection and I am very anxious. I appreciate hearing your story.

[@cheetahlillies]

Thanks for sharing your story Susan and always being so honest, I’m glad your getting better, you have a beautiful family!

[@violetakat1]

Congratulations! I had an emergency c-section August 28th 2019 due to I wouldn't dilate more than 8cm. Found out my baby had only 8 inches for an umbilical cord so he was stuck. He is healthy and happy and I love my OB for taking care of me. 👶💙👩‍⚕️❤

[@RealMomentswithNancyC]

Soooo glad to have watched this video today I'm usually a couple of weeks behind on videos. Im going in for my elective c section in on Monday and this is exactly what I needed to watch. My first was also an emergency C section and so I didn't feel any nerves until last night when it all started sinking in and this video help sooo much to ease my mind on the process.

[@silviadiaz1248]

Real Moments with Nancy best of luck to u & baby!! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️☮️☮️☮️☮️

[@aassttrrr]

I can’t believe we’re in the 21st century and people are still asking if they “take your organs out”. I can’t even. Lovely story, Susan! And baby Ayla is just precious! Congrats!

[@sabrinajazlyn]

It's because some obs say that they do. My ob has talked about removing the bladder??

[@aassttrrr]

Sabrina WHAT?!? Unbelievable.

[@arianatomayto4111]

Thank you for the very Informative video. At which pregnancy week you had the planned c-sec?

[@samanthasprague3296]

After my first two babies I've decided the next one would be best if we scheduled a c-section. My first was a failed induction. Second was a failed vbac. My cervix is lazy and doesn't like to dilate.

[@RobinSparkle2]

The mommy shaming is so real no matter what you do. I don't understand all the judgement for having a 2nd c-section or having one to begin with. If you already had one (which wasn't a choice), don't a lot of doctors recommend a c-section anyway? I know my sister wasn't given a choice for her 2nd birth since she had complications during the first birth and had to have an emergency c-section. Regardless, thank you for sharing your story so expecting mom like me can have an idea of what happens.

[@sabrina.natalie]

🦋✨ You look absolutely beautiful, and I hope your recovery is going well. Thank you for being so vulnerable, detailed, and thorough in this video. I currently don’t have any children, but in the future I plan to have some, and if I were to have a C-section, at least I’ll have a general idea of what to expect.

[@lindygraham8366]

I know this is off topic, but where is your beautiful dress from?? also congrats 🥰

[@melinam7216]

Thanks for sharing.. I had an emergency c-section as well, been weighing the options for baby number two. This video helped me have a different perspective!

[@JennyLouRN]

As an RN for newborn and L&D (including OR for c-sections), a c-section is NOT predictable. There is a much higher risk of hemhorrhage, emergency hysterectomy, sepsis, infant having respiratory distress, nausea and pain afterwards, cutting the bladder, scarring that attaches to your internal organs, and even death. I’m not saying don’t have a C-section, but just don’t be misled into thinking it is less risky.

[@melinam7216]

Those are all of my concerns which is why I’m leaning heavily towards a vbac. TMI but I have a hernia resulting from a tear in my c-section incision (site?). It gives me problems daily and I’m a year and a half out from my c-section. Idk as much as I want to have another kid soon part of me feels like I should wait but I think I’m as healed as I will be (which kind of sucks).

[@christengardner1466]

I know it's been a while but, can you remember where you got that dress it's beautiful

[@seilypawar2986]

We have the same story , one boy two and half old and baby girl 4 months , I also had emergency c section first time and second time elective c section and I can relate to you so much ,

[@chelseamoring8126]

Where is your dress from? Thank you for sharing everything!

[@chelseamoring8126]

Whoops-- it's in the video notes! Thank you!

[@jessicacoutts2941]

I had an unplanned C Section. It was not fun. But I will need to have another c section next time because I have an inverted pelvis and large babies. The spinal went up to my neck so I couldn’t feel myself breathe. It was terrifying. I will definitely tell them I’m sensitive to anesthesia next time!

[@emiliamarin9716]

Congrats Susan and Thank You for sharing your experience in your typical open and thorough way, really enjoyed the video!

[@cheried9390]

awww... she looks adorable. :) It was interesting to hear how it went. I had 2 children, both vaginal, and both difficult(because I'm small and they were big). I wish I had been given the choice of a planned C-section. Enjoy this time, it goes by sooo fast. Now I'm enjoying my first grandchild, much easier for me! :) I'm sharing your tips with my daughter, so keep them coming!

[@sarahivey4225]

This is good to know! I am very small, with a large baby coming and they offered me the choice.. I’ve been watching videos to get some clarity on what I want to do (my first baby). I’m under 5 feet and very petite and she will be roughly 10 pounds at 40 weeks. She’s 8 now at 36 weeks.. I also have gestational diabetes so this happens I guess, even if it’s well managed 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’ve always been athletic and fit

[@loopycosplay6867]

Thank you for this video! Im 20 weeks and am planning on a C-section! I had some trauma and lots of scar tissue from major tears from my 2 previous natural births and i really don't want to go through that again, I'd rather have the harder recovery 😅

[@miguelcortes04]

Ayla is a whole mood rn.

[@jennielane6139]

I have scheduled c section because my baby is breech and this is super helpful. Thank you!

[@mummybey534]

How was it? I'm in the same position atm

[@jennielane6139]

@@mummybey534 I had an amazing experience... and that's coming from a person who wanted a "natural" delivery with no interventions lol. The c section was very gentle, they pulled down the curtain so I could see baby as soon as she came out of me.. I held her the entire time they stitched me back up. Your nurse anesthetist is going to be your best friend during the surgery.. he/she will make sure you are comfortable the whole time. I was up and walking the night of the surgery, my nurses were amazing. Trust your care team. I chose to breast feed and my baby did not latch right away but her blood sugars were ok because we did skin to skin (isn't that neat?). She finally latched about 6 hours after she was born and we've been nursing ever since! No supplementing was needed because her blood sugars were good. Milk came in the second night. Something I wasn't expecting was the feeling of getting the catheter taken out and feeling like would never pee/poop normal again.. but it goes back to normal lol. And a perk of c-section that I wasn't expecting besides no risk of tearing was the little amount of bleeding that happens afterwards because your OB will clean up most of the blood before you are stitched up. So you will continue to bleed, but not as much as if you delivered vaginally. You got this =)

[@mummybey534]

Thank you for the reply very informative. I will be booked in for next week and just hoping for a smooth sail. Yes I definitely wanted a no intervention all so natural too but hey ho...baby needs to come out I guess. X

[@jennielane6139]

@@mummybey534 You're gonna do great!

[@emgmin]

I had an emergency c-section but I really really appreciate your explanation of a c-section (planned). There are some things about a c-section I can imagine that just aren't as... Lovely as a vaginal birth.

[@elasia.]

Thanks for sharing Susan and CONGRATS!

[@jaime5095]

I have a question so with a scheduled c-section do they still check cervix or no ? 🤔

[@DooDooMuffins]

I had a hemorrhage that almost took my life after my emergency c section. Now I'm getting ready to have another c section, and I am terrified.

[@botaqhead]

I love seeing more of Ayla and Nikash!

[@29051967]

I missed what you were saying for a good minute because your little one is so cute 😍 thank you for your informative video xx

[@selma4659]

How long was the C section from the time they started until the baby came out? Congrats btw, Ayla is gorgeous!

[@SusanYara]

My c-section started around 7:15am and she was out at 7:50am.