My Experience Escaping The Narcissists Underworld

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[@RICHARDGRANNON]

The narcissists are going to hate this one! 😇 On offer now www.richardgrannon.com/course/narcissistic-matrix-reintegration get the new course, plus a second course on recovery from the type of cptsd you develop from narcissistic abuse here, use the discount code shown on the webpage (next to the buy now button) - cheers!

[@RICHARDGRANNON]

Folks, youtube is not notifying people when I go live, please join the mailing list on my website richardgrannon.com - you get a free ebook on recovery and I dont spam, usually I email once every 10 to 14 days and its mostly just to say that Im going live. Other people on the list please confirm my lack of spammyness.

[@KatyYoder-cq1kc]

ATTENTION ALL WOKE NARCISSISTS AND PSYCHOPATHS: Cease and desist all death threats, chemical, political, spiritual warfare using malicious AI and energy weaoons: US Woke military, governments, Asia, Korea, China, Iran and Russia. I am not your property

[@pickle9753]

@@RICHARDGRANNON yes…lack of “spammyness” confirmed. Thank you for your time and thoughts ❤️💪🔥☯️🖖🦋

[@locaitaliana]

@@pickle9753Excellent! Spammyness is icky. No me gusta! 😊

[@nicholsomera4704]

u make me laugh 😂🙌🏼

[@Jen.K]

If the internet, youtube and Richard Grannon had existed when I was in my 20's, I wouldn't have wasted the majority of my life trying to please or help abusive people. I would have learned how to live my own life for me. I was born into a narcissistic family, and unconsciously continued my programming until my late 40's when I stumbled onto this kind of valuable information. I've spent the last 15 years growing up, recovering and learning how to take care of me.

[@CroisMoi]

It is painful to realize the time you wasted trying to please someone who is only there to take.

[@helenkay6628]

I hear you 🤗

[@gypsyruth6336]

35 years for me.

[@wildhorses6817]

​@@gypsyruth6336 Same

[@ginamac8136]

Me too!

[@mactine2k7]

I was trolled for a year over the phone about how wonderful my retirement in the dungeon would be..."come here, work from home" First year, strange, figured it was simply an adjustment period for me. Then the monster showed up. I learned there was no reasonable conversations or solutions allowed. I saw the satisfaction in the monsters face when they'd rage & scare me. Because my resources were zero. I could only pack quietly & pray. It was a beautiful clean escape. The rants were 🎯🎯🎯 I'm glad I can laugh now.

[@miharu00]

I can't believe how those experiences are similar to my situations. It has been pure scary horror film and the narc is still living in that world. I was very tempted to talk to the narc if he was aware that those videos were talking exactly about what they were. If they were not the real narcissist, they would be able to watch those videos but unfortunately the real narc refuse this video. They will ignore and start accusing people who talk about him or this type of video, condemning they are useless, cursed, all kinds of accusing words they can use. I am so relieved to see the other people who understand what I had gone through.

[@charlottesometimes7350]

My favorite line from Labyrinth is when Jennifer Connelly looks at David Bowie and simply says "you have no power over me." A perfect line, especially when dealing with toxic people.

[@gillianfrances]

A very good line to remember & repeat.

[@gillianfrances]

I look at the narcissist I was with & can't believe I ever gave away my power to such an awful, funny little creature who now reminds me of Gollum.

[@ricksanchez1406]

You are saving lives Mr Grannon. I thank you for providing this valuable knowledge that answers my suspicions. ❤❤❤

[@jessicashearing307]

He breaks it down so clearly. I love how he doesn’t hold back and is passionate when talking about what we all go through in these toxic relationships. It’s refreshing to just see someone talk about this with so much feeling. He knows what we are going through and what we have suffered. He gets us ❤!

[@gillianfrances]

And he's very funny too.I love that.

[@jessicashearing307]

@@gillianfrances yes he is hehe 😉. What I want to know if there are actual places for victims of narc abuse to like meet in person, share experiences, and form bonds. I feel so alone with my experience. I feel so alienated at times because barely anyone around me understands or has experienced what us victims have 😔.

[@ElizabethPenrod]

If I start commenting, I could go on and on... so, . Trust in God. He has a good plan. Not to harm, to prosper you in your future. Evil wants you to be confused... ❤

[@pansysutton4689]

It helps to hear others stories about being sucked in by a narcissist, then realizing the insanity of it and then ending it and doing the best you can to not give up on yourself for allowing it to happen or repeating it over again. I remember asking my husband at one point why he didn't find someone like himself instead of destroying me, his answer was oh no he didn't want anyone like him. Good God! That told me everything I needed to know! Thanks for the chatter LOL

[@Harteo3917]

It's because if he meets someone worse than him it could lead to an ego death and they're terrified of what that could do because they're used to living this way for years.

[@zerodeconduite804]

You break the addiction of unavailable people by being whole, in and of yourself.

[@Truthteller1s]

You have an amazing talent for painting extremely accurate depictions of what we go through in these relationships. Thank you so much.

[@TheMissSavage]

I remember once in a conversation with the narc director I felt this intense sense of self hatred and I knew in this moment that was his own hate of his self. It was so thick around them, like a dense black cloud. It was something else. I don't envy them.

[@user-dk6ro9bj2o]

We've been driven to be bloody psychotherapists.

[@rebeccalee2175]

For the first time I've laughed about it. Thank you Richard. Humor is the sugar in the medicine. God bless.

[@mats6504]

A covert narcissist seeks help for her anxiety, depression and feelings of shame. Will then her therapist 1) identify her as a C.N. ? and if so 2) inform/confront her about it? My cnex's therapist identified her as a "high sensitivity person". Out now since about a year. Thank you Richard for speaking publicly about narcissism. This topic is not enough discussed publicly.

[@infinitepeace3223]

The absolute gaslighting in my psychology degree about climate change is outrageous! The system is conditioning hard!

[@jakemelinko]

That was a jolly good time😂

[@KatyYoder-cq1kc]

ATTENTION ALL WOKE NARCISSISTS AND PSYCHOPATHS: Cease and desist all death threats, chemical, political, spiritual warfare using malicious AI and energy weaoons: US Woke military, governments, Asia, Korea, China, Iran and Russia. I am not your property

[@SuB-gy4rb]

Thank you for your rant today - really appreciate your take on things ~ I actually feel so much better knowing I’m not alone 😉

[@Ggfgg-m2w]

Nice brother...I was trapped in that "what if it's not her fault" trap, while being stabbed in the back after being punched in the face for almost a year...halas

[@katydid594]

This reminded me of the earlier years. You said what most of us are thinking. Thanks for being you, Richard. 😊

[@jenjen5911]

What a hoot!!! 😂 i haven’t laughed that hard for ages. I would happily sit through a whole video of Richards Rants 🎉🎉🎉😂❤

[@TheMissSavage]

I was going to suggest that too!

[@Avalonkenton]

They faked everything where they live,their family,their age I realised I had no idea who this person even was

[@justjulie43]

What's really nice is when you realize you no longer care. Then you get to the point you go weeks and don't even think of them...then it turns into years.

[@user-dk6ro9bj2o]

@@Avalonkenton me too 🤔

[@Avalonkenton]

@@user-dk6ro9bj2o not the same person I hope 😂

[@MM-dz9fk]

Same! 13 years. Mines never had any family contact her.. I believe they may have disowned her. Still have no idea if she really was who she told me she was.

[@PenninkJacob]

Do you ever stop and think how unprecedented it is to finally have the tools to see narcissism? I don't think the world has ever been in this position before, with millions of people discovering and discussing personality-caused suffering (finally!!!) 👍❤

[@miharu00]

yes! It is unbelievable in a way that these people who have been abused by the narcs are coming out and can share their experiences. I thought I was very attached and so close to the narc but it was series of scary events and curses. I needed escape in desperate state and I came to those channels. The time of the narc being 'most superior' and 'intelligent' might be over because those people who are aware of who they are are stronger than ever. We will not be fooled by their dirty tactics any longer. This video is so on point, exactly what I needed to hear!

[@RS-ov2st]

I believe all people have an internal sense of right and wrong. There is no excuse to be cruel to others for any reason. I feel we all have a right to defend ourselves, but not to be intentionally cruel. It’s inexcusable. Cruelty is evil in action. We all make choices and are in charge of our own behavior. Our personal behavior is our own personal responsibility. Narcs are evil in action.

[@robertataylor5794]

"An oubliette - a world that gets smaller and weirder..." Spot on metaphor, this is EXACTLY how I have defined the nature of the dynamic in the relationship with a Narc. My EX Person is a diagnosed ASPD person.

[@socol76]

Thank you. I chose the shorter , intense pain (to the point of feeling like I’m dying) after the breakup , it was hell for 5 months and then it quickly began to ease off. It’s the most difficult thing to realize and make yourself accept that you’ve spent two decades living in a weird dream state and it was all a lie.

[@ninjacat508]

🫶

[@rjlacroix3334]

When your soulmate becomes your cellmate ..and you experience ...... gas lighting ,cognitive dissonance, projection, blame shifting ,disloyalty ,pathological lies . I finally escaped my Machiavellian Sociopath.

[@edenkillswarrior9056]

JP actually helped me to find what is important in life You help me to understand narcissistically sick people, in order to avoid/manage them We all need each other

[@bevscooby1]

Yes, NPD said to me, ‘All you ever wanted was for me to love you.’ That was my clarity which catapulted me into healing big time. I’ve watched your KZbin channel for years Richard and the transformation you’ve gone through is so inspiring. Thank you so much 😊 It’s a different world now, I bloody brilliant one 😀

[@NifftyMelinoë]

Thanks Richard. Needed the reminder to keep my defenses sensibly up.

[@bluecandymsp]

F**king brilliant video, RG! 😂 The hardest thing for me has been accepting that my mother (covert narcissist, imo) didn’t love me 😢 I've come to understand how her childhood caused her to become the way she is, BUT, I'll never understand how she could treat a little child the way she treated me! Cold, cruel, self-centred b*tch! 🤬 Is it any wonder I believed the loving words & gestures (lies) & glitter-rolled bs an ex "soul mate" (😉) showered on me? The marriage proposal, amazing sex, etc etc. Any little girl's dream come true, right? I didn’t walk into a cold, dark dungeon. Before I entered, I fantastically gave the place a full light, bright reno and cheerfully bestowed a crown upon his head & handed him the keys to my heart & our magical future together! 😜 Uuugh! 🤦‍♀️ I've literally recently had to yell at myself, as you said, "Stop abandoning yourself!" It's what I've done all my life.

[@michelerooney5907]

Oh wow I can so relate to this.

[@biancavonmuhlendorf2608]

Limited selfworth drives the whole thing. So the empath takes fake love because he is so afraid of being not loved at all when this "compromise" is rejected. The empath takes this "impossible " love as a task to become an even "better person". The parents who lay that ground early on are a huge part of it still, unfortunately - even if people go no contact- the "programming" is not easy to resolve.

[@piotrk29]

it's like a haunted maze they take you to and you're left there alone

[@ninjacat508]

Very accurate analogy.

[@sarahhomes932]

Invaluable, this should be heard by everyone, at 6 pm on a Sunday. Seriously, it really should. Great stuff Richard, thanks

[@SA-un8nn]

lol happy to see this is new. Nice rants with the extreme truths in between. :D Do. Not. Stop. Laughing. Also, your dungeon is pretty interesting and entertaining.. dangerous. Lucky you keep the door off the hinges and are handing out universal keys. ;) All kidding aside, the point you made about how it's none of our business what the narcissist went through, etc., when it comes to being mistreated, is golden. Keep on rockin in the free world.

[@miharu00]

I have been in the narc's dungeon for decades and didn't know that it was so I was extremely frustrated. As he mentioned, it was exactly true that the narc 'programmed' me to choose his dungeon over heaven. They are like first class CIA agent who knows how to manipulate people. They can hypnotize you so that you make decision that you enter their dungeon and stay there and believe it is real. Now I know their script, I am almost out from it! It is one of the best things that I am going through recently.

[@eil9255]

Omg. Mine made a script from so many comments like these. He told me I was a narcisscist! That sent me down the KZbin rabbithole. After I got over the shock of seeing that he was playing this out TO A TEE (?)!, phase 2 was psychological fascination (short lived😅), phase 3 telling our therapist that I abused him!😮?!?!?, dramatic discard, phase 4 anger at myself for being duped, phase 5 forgiving myself and loooooooooong healing road, clearly still on it as I am here.

[@CroisMoi]

I could watch Richard do this every day. So funny, but helpful at the same time.

[@KathrynPea]

I was always told that I wasn’t normal. I was “un normal”. Every time I thought to myself, that isn’t even a word, but it still effected me greatly. My children weren’t normal either. In the beginning of recovery, I actually wrote lines over and over saying, “you are normal”, because that line, “you’re not normal”, played relentlessly in my head for at least a year post. And ironically, before him, I was, like a lot of people, proud of my individuality and not being “normal”. (ie: not like everyone else)

[@Harteo3917]

I get this all the time from people "you're so weird you're such a freak you aren't normal" literally said behind my back, right there whispering to each other, or right to my face from a lot of messed up people. I even had a new girl that was deaf in high school call me a bitch for not learning sign language for her when frankly i didn't understand much back then. These people love picking on neurodivergent people because they know we're more vulnerable not being able to "fit in" so well so less allies to run to and get help from. It's always been difficult being neurodivergent but people believe all kinds of preconceived notions and biases that are so false. If you're on the "gifted" spectrum they believe we can look at something just once and magically understand it all when frankly even someone with photographic memory sure... they can remember what they saw right away but doesn't mean they understand what they saw there's a difference between seeing and understanding. But apparently not to a lot of other people out there because they've believed in that idea of us for so long that anything we tell them must be us lying to them and trying to sabotage them so they could never be that, which is crazy because you can't just decide to be that so the jealousy is completely baseless and unfounded, clearly we go through struggles when there's THAT going on with people but they just say we're just complaining and should feel lucky. No i don't feel lucky when i'm met with people like that when i've had to learn to understand it all by myself because nobody would explain it to me on purpose so they could abuse me and whack me over the head with what i don't know or understand. I wouldn't change it for the world either though because of how frequently i even surprise myself and those are some of the best moments and the depth at which i can understand things is amazing. So no matter what anyone does never feel bad about being neurodivergent in whatever way you are no matter how people perceive it you know they're crazy.

[@callie2134]

My therapist always told me, can you change any of it, is it in your power to change this person. Eventually that led me to realize over time that I can only change myself and have to have boundaries, so I can protect myself from harm and the shortest distance to go to protect myself against evil people is not letting them in. Or at first letting them be. It took some time to come back to myself and make me the priority. Thanks Mr Grannon, you helped tremendously in staying....or becoming sane and more focused than I ever was. The inner process is still and will be in progress, but it becomes easier with all the peace and quiet you acquired from enforcing healthier boundaries

[@987sh]

I always remembered a line from my dad, a whole life ex-military guy, that sometimes the only way out of something is to go right into it. I like to visualise how surfers go under waves to get through them & out to the back when paddling out 😎

[@ninjacat508]

Indeed. The only way out is through.

[@williamthecaterpillar5091]

Ah, still can’t believe it took me 5 years to ask him to leave… nobody would believe the childish and malevolent stuff endured, I’ve accepted that it’s enough that I know in my own mind what went down. God bless you for sharing Richard, so helpful 🙏

[@fionataylor4269]

57/58 mins in spot on ! Thanks Richard. In the dungeon , reminds me of the Stevie Nicks video , I can't wait. We freed ourselves, and we found this crazy online community/outlet. My step mother once said you can't live somebody else's life for them. Keep well everybody.

[@ninjacat508]

Funny how many of us refer to it as escaping. I see so many people posting the time frame of their escape, like they do at alcohol support meetings. 3 months escaped, 6 weeks escaped, 10 days escaped etc ... It really does feel like a dungeon prison with no release date.

[@swandvrgrl]

The only thing the court cares about is if y'all can do what's best for the kids. And what's best is that children have experience and time with both parents.

[@melissabrzescinski494]

My ex told me he was a sociopath early on in the relationship. I thought he was joking. I should have run.

[@maggib3971]

When there are children involved it becomes more difficult to leave but more necessary in order to save your self and help them heal ❤❤

[@sofiaisabella3317]

A crazy person wouldn’t self reflect on the fact of being crazy and try to detect reasonably if it’s true. Because that’s sane.

[@bridgetteouhrabka8585]

Everything you've said in the last month or 2 has absolutely freakin saved me.. so for that I thank you sir ❤ I've escaped the dungeon and with my sense of humor in tact.. you're totes hilar 😂

[@srmll6217]

Have been following you for a month now. Thank you for your insights.

[@collie8]

Shakespeare has woken up tonight again 😀 in the great summer night

[@christinelentz1150]

😆😅🤣😂I SO NEEDED THIS 😂THE TRUTH WILL SET US FREE😂😅🎉❤

[@Intrepid7]

We are living in a computer programmed, simulated artificial reality. At some point in the past, a variable was changed and reprogrammed (hacked), and as a result of this, an alternative world (a fraudulent copy) was super imposed in exchange of the original. We are currently de-coding the fraudulent copy. ~ Philip K. Dick

[@niclucci]

Thank you for your persistence. Please keep doing what you’re doing. Love and hope, sir.

[@MamaBear888]

They'll get everyone to say you're crazy. This is their modus operandi. Operendi😂

[@rosablu5936]

Discovering who they really are it’s possible to evolve in a crazy mental state but you are giving us good advice to avoid Madness . Changing the narrative of the story is the key.

[@rebeccahowell6538]

Narcissism can so easily be confused with other mental illnesses, which is why it's so confusing. For example, my ex and his mother told me that he suffered from depression. His mother felt so sorry for him and thanked me for making him so happy. So- his moodiness I had attributed to depression. Because I was supplying him with love, support, and so forth- he was elated- happy and loving back to me. So when he was "moody"- it registered as depression. This is how we are so easily confused. I'm sure his mother is confused still. I got out years ago- but the damage persists. I'm feeling very happy and like myself- but you never really understand what was real and what was false. It takes years to not think about the narc. Thankfully- I've had many days where he doesn't enter into my mind, but for years it was constant rumination and trying to make sense of things.

[@jayTee-zp1jn]

I went into the oubliette. It was a cross between Room 101 and Narnia.

[@judy1angel]

Thanks Richard - great reality check! Bless you :)

[@JapJudee]

ha ha .. you are so funny ... Your sense of humor and comedy relief is brilliant.. Cheers

[@mandymckeown8625]

Walking away from my ex narc partners was easy even though at the time I had never heard the word narcissism I was in a cycle of if I’m not happy I’m out of here . But walking away from my own mother was hard and took me many years of my life until I realised what she was then it was necessary for my mental health and to me that came first .

[@thousandpetalsproject1494]

The first time i saw Bowie in labyrinth was the first time little adolescent me got turned on by a movie. The eighties were strange and wonderful. He did play with crystal balls, didn't he? And all that hair... Mmm. Dungeon? Yes, please!

[@corinamihai3802]

Thanks

[@marcimccann1109]

Thank you for finding some humor in such a dark topic. I haven't laughed in awhile. Watching this video actual made me laugh out loud as you were sharing your experience. You are such a precious soul.

[@zerodeconduite804]

David Bowie. When Jennifer Connely, as a female child, states - you have no power over me ❤ I would like to see you have a conversation with Tim Fletcher. I really like that you pointed out an exercise in empathy stepping into the shoes of the NPD/psychopath ... but, that is also part of the problem. This whole 'benefit of the doubt' concept. I asked myself why, why, why did they do this or that. There comes a point where the why is irrelevant. What matters is they did.

[@melissarafter1158]

Life is too short to put up with shitty treatment, yes.

[@KatyYoder-cq1kc]

Yes it is

[@kevinwalsh3352]

Forget Bowie’s balls….we’ve just been served some Golden Grannon nuggets here!! Thanks for the laughs!

[@Lauu_rra]

Dungeon vibes 😂😂😂

[@MPowerMPire]

You are the Best!!! Hands down ❤❤❤ Thank you, with my whole heart 💖💖💖

[@Fiona98-hb2sb]

Was informative. Thanks for sharing!

[@RICHARDGRANNON]

Glad it was helpful!

[@CaptainBlood-ge9zw]

Richard, I remember waxing poetic about how I felt like I was wandering blind through an unpredictable labyrinth, looking for treasure that might or might not exist. My person told me that was the best thing they had ever heard… Chilling

[@Iamjustvisitinghere]

This was the best! Humor and truth is how we heal. As a therapist in the USA - you are spot on! Keep up the good unfiltered work! 💃💃💃💃

[@sarayacobucci7311]

I remember, out of the nearly 3 decades I was in a marriage with a toxic person, who had a terrible childhood and I always gave him that as "Excuse" for his treatment me, I was slowly realising in the ladt decade, that I really needed to get out. I went to a pyschic fair with my girlfriends at a winery, and there was a lady who had a one card tarot reading you could do. The deck was the fairy tarot, and the card she drew was "Phooka". She looked at me, and said with all seriousness, "You have a VERY negative male energy around you and you need to get out, or this energy will destroy you". I knew it was true. But yet I stayed. 7 years later, he punched me in face bc the dog shit on the floor and he was mad. This wasnt the first time he had been physical with me, but it was the worst, up to that time. I called the cops on him, he was arrested, and I moved out, finally. It took him punching me in the face, to get me to leave. And my life keeps getting better every day! 🙏 Thank you for your cheeky humour and intelligent discussion of relationships with danaged people snd what it does to us ❤️

[@digitalfun59]

you are so correct, it is hard to believe what they did, the lies, the betray of trust, how do I tell the abuser I get what they did and I know it was on purpose ?

[@firehorse9996]

Kept waiting for you to call out to Clarice in your taunting Hannibel Lecter voice. All this talk of creepy dungeons and prisons gives me the chills!

[@michaelatkin9649]

Out of all the people I watch on podcasts, yt etc. Richard would be the guy I think I'd get along with the most haha

[@summergirl9302]

Great message as always. Thanks Richard

[@shelbyazure4201]

I came here from your cptsd series, love your videos. Your humor to!

[@d.c.9854]

"What are you threatening me with my freedom?" 😂 That was exactly my thought when she was threatening to leave me. It was a weak attempt at reverse psychology. I had been trying to leave her for years. I finally did. Whew I can breathe again.

[@audbod4140]

"Youre so ungrateful" omg that was my every day reality for years whilst trying to get my dungeon keeper to agree that it was indeed, a dungeon 😬🤣

[@elizabeththeofanous8715]

If only you knew in what time this video came into my life! You helped me make one of the most important decisions! Thank you so much! ❤

[@Karisbarlowe]

I love listening to the channel Thank you ❤ 🙏🥰

[@Thedisgardedoptimist]

Lol ok I'm convinced! I'll watch your lives and stay away.from spicy foods! Thanks Legend, that was a great hour!

[@Enlight-the-burbs]

lol you hash tag triggered me into a memory right at the same time … my mother kept me in her underworld and convinced me. Wa having the best time of my life

[@magentabyrne5238]

You are having far too much fun, Mr Grannon..... fantastic chat 😂😂😂❤❤

[@madelinehopeyasharal]

Whenever he gets asked about if he’s single or in a relationship; he changes the subject😂😅👌🏼that’s how I feel lately lmao

[@user-vn7ck4lf5j]

That's a great exercise! Very telling. I'm adding this to my tool box. Thank you!

[@faffrin5216]

Richard, when you said Oubliete I just knew you learnt it from Labyrinth too! 😂

[@t1sg]

What makes the NPD so evil is his complete mockery, invalidation, and disregard of my core self, which comes from God. There is no feasible excuse for his behavior. Yes, he will have to answer to the light. Sucks to be him.

[@tatacardona3271]

Allegory of the cave, yes! Thanks for the reminder!

[@kathleenwharton2139]

Peace through Forgiveness. “Forgive and you shall be Forgiven.” God Saved me from the Narc I married..before I knew such thing. He divorced me and married someone else. I was Safe and Free! 😊❤

[@AlgoRhythmmike]

It sounds like the relationship between the US government and the people of our nation.

[@Hi-Phi]

I think like most governments at the moment. They know they are losing power so they're going a bit nuts.

[@007Tinkins]

Thx for the humor. "A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down."

[@angiewheeler-11]

Very good!🤣🙌 I love laughing while continuing to know this is the reality!

[@maierflorin980]

uuweee the yelling while sleeping, messing up the nervous system... spot on.. if only somebody would send these guys to some desert island like.. Australia :))

[@debbiee.6333]

He had a narcissistic collapse and burned his house down, his car and then ended his life. Leaving me messages that I’m the one who’s going to pay for their collapse and pick up the pieces. Thank goodness my phone was on silent when they called for me to hear it happen. Tell me that’s not the most evil and grief and loss and pain. I’m getting to the stage where I can see how it was not real but abuse and insanity.

[@debbiee.6333]

I really don’t know how to heal from something like this.

[@ssentieri]

Hi. This is my 2 time coming back to your channel to leave and overcome the horrific emotional abuse. This is my 2nd narcissist. I think he is a narcissist sociopath

[@LindaAuriemma]

😂This made me laugh and then get more motivated…So authentic and real.

[@KatieHiggins-hc1ph]

Alternative reality ? It’s just the world according to someone who has no universally applied values or principles - no guidelines , no guard rails. Every thought, word , deed is in service of the narcissists “ feelings”. Lights on - nobody home …

[@michaelatkin9649]

Richard, years ago you were talking about depression and how to change your mind and after you explained how to break that it was like a religious experience haha because it was literally like flipping a switch and I've never been emo depressed again. It was the only time I've ever read someone, listened to a therapist or photographer and had thar happen with anything. Damn near everything I kinda already get. I say that to really push it home how significant it was and that I'm not just some idiot that doesn't catch onto things for myself. Thank you. You're way better than Jordan Peterson btw lol

[@angiedawn444]

I remember feeling "I'm getting some low key dungeony vibes" 😂

[@audbod4140]

I remember the day I was getting 'enemy vibes" and this was years before the blatant abuse started. My subconscious knew and was trying to warn me long before my brain was ready to admit it.

[@StormArrow-nv5vw]

OMG YOUR SO RIGHT 😢😢😢😢 WHERE WAS THIS KNOWLEDGE WHEN I WAS YOUNGER MY OWN FAMILY DID HURT ME

[@ranjaschuster6114]

Thank you! Learnt so much from your videos. So precious!