Can't steal from Peter without having to pay Paul

Over the years listening to your videos this is probably the most valuable I've heard so far! Tip top, couldn't be better! Definitely a video I will have to watch repetitively to continue to hone my notes!

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They can’t feel anything, but , they are very keen on sex -

Lol your neighbor

Run on

They only apologize when they’re under the gun… they didn’t mean it, it’s just another manipulation to keep you under their control…

I thike that god really dos not against god god said that if you don't keeped the word of wisdom then you body wish is you temple I if I send someexshual thing is hire on the web I don't showed that but tea the see ol of it and it is used against me

I’m working on being closer to and a woman of GOD. I don’t want to be ANYTHING like my ex narcissist. He can live a negative life on his own. That’s not me.

Thanks, that opened my eyes. ❤

Just walk away and take your life back.

How do you know all of this?

It’s a good explanation just don’t accept the invitation, don’t get in the mud pit with the pigs

Talking about eyes, yours are beautiful but hard to see with the captions on top 😅😉 On a serious note, I’ve been going to therapy for 7 years, still in the marriage of 34 years, I got stronger and found my voice, but any little shift on his energy and mood, I get triggered. Not as it used to be, but still do. I no longer feel scared but his voice is still in my head every time I am somewhere and think about doing something or buying something. So that voice is real. I’m very mindful of it and I’m working on stopping it but as you can imagine I’m still married to him. My guard is never down. He got better with the years, maybe because I set and continue to set boundaries. It’s tiring though

WOW!!!! amazing episode ! THANK YOU! ♥ here's to all heartbroken ❤‍🩹 people, I hope we'll get a second chance !

Yes what’s weird is you tend to like them as well not knowing they are mentally insane 😂

Yeah, everytime I listen to one of these I keep comming to the same conclusion. There's something horribly wrong with my mother. Especialy when you said "They want you to be overweight/underweight". I've been working a minimum wage shit tier job for almost half a year now. I lost 20 kilo's in those 5 months just working. At every point, turn my mother will scold me for starting to lose weight. I'll explain BMI to her. >Instantly hit with "You work so hard you must be a professional athlete and are above those rules", common eat some more (junk). Just because you're morbidly obese, mother. Doesn't mean I need to become fat to make you feel better about yourself.

My 40 yo daughter says "she can't remember her childhood ". Because if she did, she would know that I wasn't the bad parent. She would have bad memories of her father and his parents that she now idolizes. Their wallet is far fatter than mine.

can you please make a series for the smothered children of narcs? I am raising a teenager with my covert narc. No. I could not divorce. It took me many years until I had a name for his behavior, and he would have taken my child just to win (ant to get all the supply from him)

What will a narc do if you show her this video? Will she identify herself in it? Will she lash out?

If you poke holes in their Narcissistic view of themselves they will turn on you like a Viper and hurt you every way they can.

The problem is that we can't all Escape if we have nowhere to go and no one to help us. You can't win, you just have to try to protect yourself from their mind games.

But, even when you catch on to this divide and conquer method they deploy- and attempt to develop your own relationship with let’s say, their family, mutual friends, the parents from school- they’ve already groomed these people and shaped their perception of you. You are always, ALWAYS on the outside. That’s partly what makes an existence with them sooooooooooo empty. They know how to have fun with others because those people don’t live with them and experience them. It would leave me breathless how evil and cruel he was to me and how god damn helpful, considerate he was with other people as if they were the ones helping him through life. They want you to die- period. If not in-the physical form- it’s financial spiritual and emotional- they want you to be so down you stop doing anything and that’s why the discard- whether you do it or they do it- is so painful- you are devoid of your own identity by this point….😢 I can’t stand my ex now. 21 years and I am left with nothing but destruction while he lives it up-

Thanks!

Thats the best advice..live your life, do what you like and want. I dont want to be like them.. lm better than that. Thank you again!! You are doing a great work helping people in their awakening from the narcissistic abuse. ❤

Agreed

The horrible truth is I haven't been happy or felt like living since 2015 because of this one person it's insane to admit that

Or situations where they can get away with it... ie in a closed room - lair - with another covert narcissist.

One thing my narcissistic husband said he likes misery because he can't hold happiness. Being a positive person I really had no idea whom I loved a lot will eventually try his most to bring me down. He sucked a lot out of me indeed, but he failed to overpower my authenticity. I left him recently, my initial days were so horrible for me to bear, but no more stress and sadness, feeling betrayed. I've finally come to terms that he used love drama to use me for his own selfish agenda. Wishing him the best,I've moved on. Difficult, but possible.

Ur ao right ong my ex and his inlaws i been threw this it aint fun yea hes so right about this i pray for the narrascrist

In a world built on mandatory schooling, where illnesses are the only limit that authority will be forced to respect, children are programed with false truths all day long AND... being ill must be validated only by a doctor with the capacity to drug the kid up! How does that prepare anyone to grow up into a sane social and professional workplace?

He so right

As Dr Ramani has pointed out … how difficult it would be to try and change and coach a kind, lovely thoughtful person into narcissistic qualities … if you are still thinking a narcissus can go the other way … turning into that beautiful , deep thinking, empathic, kind and considerate person. It’s asking the impossible … change is challenging for the average person , even just changing their diets , giving up porn, stop hitting the kids… fill in this space.. how on earth is a n oppositional and difficult arse of a person ever going to achieve that. For those who want to try.. I really feel for you because you are playing with Lucifer. Leave your soul with the usher at the front gates of hell … too harsh???

Most of them are Freemasons

They seed their victims with self-defeating mind sets through repetition and trauma triggers that are extremely difficult to weed out. Example “Oh, you must miss your mother” (continues to say this on a regular basis), “you should give her a call”, (you call your mother). “You must really miss your mom”. “It’s been hard during this time away from your mom”. (You’re an adult totally capable of being on your own but now start to doubt yourself). “It’s hard being on your own” (limiting belief) (Call your mom more often and feel abandoned). (Begin to feel incapable of doing regular things and feel anger towards your parent). “Well, it’s a good thing I’m here to help you” Finally break free from the narcissists and start to feel like you can breathe again. (Feel proud of yourself for breaking free, realize as time passes how much manipulation was used and start to regain strength and belief in yourself). As time passes realize you don’t need your mother and it was all a mind game to cripple you, leaving you co-dependent and reliant on the narcissistic.

We as humanity must unit together , resist against this cruel system , there is much better way of living, they just don't want us to know it , because then they will lose their control over us

They are satanists as well

The ones I’ve known are incredibly intelligent and certainly had the capacity to choose self reflection

They have a disinterest in self reflection-it is a choice-

Rusija virus u našim mislima...

Never “loan“ them money; of any amount any number of times…Ever

A, s, jedne strane smo svi takvi...

Legalni psiho test prije političke karijere i psiho test prije donošenja zakona Al onda bi vladali psiholozi.. Hm Rudolf Stainer ima za sad u Zapadnom svijetu najbolji savjet za dobrobit ljudske rase.... Prošlo je 100 godina ..ooo gdje je On.. .

what about giving them a peace of chocolate exlax?

That kind of explains a male narcs attraction to working girls who 9 times out of 10 have zero self worth hmmm

God, so true

After 10 loyal years down the drain with the narcissist I truly did feel like trash when he left our family for someone younger. It's been 2 years now but he uses our children as pons to try to get back into our lives. When it doesn't go his and his narcissist girlfriend way I'm the villain and trash. But sometimes one man's trash is another man's treasure.

Im sincerely wishing that people stop following the gaslighting and falling into this bad behavior of self deprication and instead get therapy and healing and break that cycle

Thank- u Richard for not minimising trauma. Its very real for those who are in the thick of suddenly overwhelming emotions.

Yes, I had to do the career my narc mom told me to, I had to have the same distorted political views... You have to think and do the same things otherwise there's something "wrong" with you.