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[@MimiIkonn]

Thank you all for being vulnerable and sharing your failures in the comments :) I really enjoyed reading through them and getting to know you guys closer.... Much Love, xx Mimi

[@Patricia-il6eq]

one of my failure, not being courageous enough to say what I really want in my life. Picked the wrong subject in high school, struggled in it...almost choose the wrong course at university (UK) but I choosed to listen to my heart for the first time of my life my my reason. So I'm changing university and course at the moment for september. Hope I'll get accepted for a course I really want something. Thank for sharing yours.

[@angeldaughter9580]

Think u so much for your beautiful replies.. And best of luck to u for booboo☺☺

[@goodforyoudp]

+Mimi Ikonn thank you for this video. I always thinked you and Alex was succeed in every project. I have few failures in my life and this video give me motivation for doing other projects and maybe some will be success.

[@nmv215]

Young adults who are currently in college and watching this...DONT DROP OUT! If anything in college you will learn how to properly run a business, actually know how to do accounting, and you can proudly walk across the stage! Where would we be without educated doctors, lawyers, teachers, accountants?! Yes, school is not for everyone, but neither is a KZbin/entrepreneural life. P.S. I'm a teacher, speech-language pathologist, and a business owner...I went to college and I'm proud of it...going to get my doctorate soon. Never stop learning!

[@barbarabrumen3591]

I went to business school for 3 years and do not know anything how to run a business, dont know how accounting works…they do not teach you this in college and I repeat: they do not teach you. What youre left with is a diploma and a hunt for job, that you have to learn how to do at the workplace. I did graduate from food engineering too snd can say that same thing as I said about Business school.

[@MelissaLynn]

MIMI thank you SO much! I'm struggling with my university right now and realized I don't think I will be able to graduate. Just today I told my friends how I actually feel this is going to ruin my life. I completely broke down. They helped me feel much better after a long talk, and now you post this! I really look up to you, so I feel like this is a sign I'm going to be just fine and everything will work out for me in the end. I have so many dreams, aspirations, and passions and now after watching this I feel like I'm not such a complete failure and I will become something. Thank you thank you thank you a million times. Love you lots, Mimi

[@YurrahAlHadi]

I agree. I am completely broke and in my last semester.

[@konicalancea]

You'll be just fine honey. I was pushed back for graduation a whole year and I felt left out because everyone else who I started college with have graduated, but I realize that it was all meant to be a better journey because I needed that time to feel confident in the path I was on. Remember, your failures are stepping stones love.

[@MelissaLynn]

+Konica Roache thank you!! I definitely feel that way too 😔

[@ninamalovrh1274]

my goodness, don't quit uni just because some random egocentric is justifying their bad decisions all over the internet. Hold on, finish your studies!

[@MelissaLynn]

I never said I was quitting on my degree bc of mimi... i never even said I was quitting on it period.... I'm finishing my degree no matter what I just won't be able to graduate with everyone I started with. Thanks for you concern tho.

[@LilyFlower26]

This is why I watch you religiously. You are not just a beauty and lifestyle KZbinr, you truly enrich our lives. I love to see these videos because you constantly shift my perspective on things. You are such a treat to have on KZbin. Thanks so much for this video Mimi! Lots of love from California!!

[@cowsrock1q]

College isn't just about the "piece of paper", it's also about the experience, starting your independence, living away to your parents, the people you meet, the life long friendships. College makes you learn so much about yourself, your strengths and weaknesses. Just about life! Not all people get a degree and get a job in that field. It creates a path that opens many doors!

[@cowsrock1q]

Btw, I love you Mimi

[@petra8545]

Exactly. And in many fields there is simply no other way to educate yourself than go to the college. I think I understand what Mimi means, but Im very grateful for the fact that I have possibility to study at the university. It simply broadens perspectives in many different ways, and Im glad that Im not dependent only on online courses and self-help and personal development books (shortly said).

[@joabe1271]

+Petra di I agree!

[@Vicky-hc4su]

I think it depends on what you are going to study. She didn't have to get a college degree to do what she wanted. If you want to be doctor or a lawyer however, you have to go to college..

[@itsmints]

I think her point was more about it being a personal "failure" for her because she went there and realised it wasn't for her. As in her problem with it wasn't that college is shit for everyone but more so that it didn't fit her and her goals and aspirations. To her it would have just been a "piece of paper" because the knowledge that she needed/wanted wasn't something that she felt like she needed to go to college for, but rather to gain that knowledge elsewhere through more "real-life" situations :)

[@konicalancea]

One of my biggest failure thus far happened when I stepped out of my comfort zone to apply for a job at MAC Cosmetics. I got the interview and felt good, but during the second interview, which was a makeup application test, I completely lost focus and just did poorly. Moral of the story is I didn't get the job but was very proud of myself for launching out. Thanks for sharing your failures, Mimi. Xoxo ❤️

[@astrolight5000]

Nice!

[@darynayatsiuk]

but you tried! it's important!

[@faitht.p.5558]

Inspiring story, goodluck infuture endeavours.

[@konicalancea]

+Faith Tp thank you!

[@graitab.4945]

Mimi, the last part of the video touched me at the point that I felt you were talking to me. I felt like your friend, I moved from another country to California and after 22 years here, I feel so lonely and at time felt like a failure. I have been thinking lately, that as much as I felt this place like my home, maybe is not really my place and many doors will start to open once I leave and go back to my family and country....seriously I just found your channel yesterday and I am binging on yours and hubby's videos since then. I really like you both...you are good people 😘😘😘

[@MimiIkonn]

Thank you so much dear Graita:) It's never too late to change our life for the better :)

[@AnnalisaJ]

I share the same feelings as far as California being very lonely... I have my husband here with I adore and love, but friendships are very very hard... And sometimes not "real". Hang in there xoxoxo

[@graitab.4945]

Thank you 😀🙏🏻

[@ZoeyArielle]

Thank you for being vulnerable with us Mimi, you are such an inspiration! So proud of you and everything you have accomplished ❤️

[@balahatun]

Why are you degrading our efforts by calling diplomas "a piece of paper" That paper is the validation and reference of my knowledge and efforts. you picking an option in life, doesn't make the rest of the other options invalid. It may be better not to "air quote" your failures then you mean they're not real failures.

[@ciiolek1990]

It's a matter of your perception. To some people it is just "a piece of paper" because they are not really into the studies they do. I am now finishing my masters degree and really do not feel like it got me somewhere. I feel kind of proud of it though but still in the case of Mimi - she wanted to set up her own business and to do so you really do not have to have a degree which I know from example of my boyfriend :)

[@caramelo419]

I don't think she is degrading anyone's efforts. She constantly said "I believe", "in my opinion", "this is where I stand" . Her experiences are hers and she is sharing them, you can reflect on that and take it for what it is. Many people follow a path others create their own. I am one that followed the path got my degree and work in a top 50 Fortune company and don't like it but it is what it is. I can still appreciate and admire those that took at risk and followed alternate choices.

[@kalis856]

She's air quoting "failure" because failure has an unexpected meaning to her, not because they aren't "real failures." Also some would say you don't need the piece of paper to validate your efforts in life! Any option is valid as long as it supports your goals.

[@annagt6293]

I think that your knowledge (experiences) is the important, not the object, not the "piece of paper"!! I mean..you know, you already have the knowledge, before you have to take the exam.... :))) (sorry for my english)

[@SILVEto]

It's funny you think everything is about you. She is talking about HER experience and the decisions SHE made. If you are confident with your decision you will never feel that someone is attacking you or that you need to justify it. She herself went through the work so I doubt she would "degrade your efforts" as she knows very well what it's like, except she didn't get the "piece of paper".

[@sarahmavignierr]

Sometimes i feel like the lower you get in life,the farther you'll go someday. Often the worst moments of my life lead me to my greatest successes!! Without them maybe we wouldn't aprecciate things as much or know what things really matter! :)

[@Notmyr3alname]

Thank you for your honesty! I can't express how much better this makes me feel about so many "false starts" I've had in my life. It's true that to have tried is better than to never know. My failures in my career path have haunted me EVEN though today I am successful in my job. For some reason I couldn't let go of my disappointment in myself. You are a great example for your younger viewers! Please consider making that vegan boot one day in the future I know it will be fabulous!!! We need cuter shoes in the vegan clothing world!

[@StellaCharm]

one of my failures was when I started my teeth whitening business. I was excited and invested money for my supplies and my business flopped. I wasn't dedicating as much energy into it as well as marketing strategies. I realized I wasn't passionate about it and now I'm on a path to a deeper awareness within myself, figuring out what my passion is. I enjoyed taking a chance at it. and I learned and moved on!! :)

[@wannabehighlander]

Congratulations on being a step closer and good luck!! :)

[@ilovepurpleconverse]

I started my first small business in MaryKay, I took a leap, invested money, took my time. It's been almost a year since starting and Today was the day I shipped back all the products. I spent soo much money just to return it. I feel like a weight been lifted, but I definitely feel like I failed completely, and was embarrassed as well after talking to my family and friends over the months of how great I would do. It's gone now. You're right, onto something new.

[@MimiIkonn]

You live, you learn and then you move on

[@ilovepurpleconverse]

+Mimi Ikonn 😍😳🙈 my first time ever communicating with you, and you replied🙌🏽 On to better things

[@eatforhappiness6150]

Thank you for sharing. I recently had to admit to myself that the fashion business that I have been running for ten years wasn't the thing I wanted to do anymore. I failed to continue my business, but admitting it to yourself and taking a step to change directions in life is so incredibly liberating! Even though you're taking a jump into the unknown. After I quit my business I felt like I could breathe again. Spend time with family and friends. Pursue my passions of cooking and photography. Failing with my fashion business brought me a step closer to the person I want to be.

[@MimiIkonn]

I'm happy you were able to find the courage to be honest with yourself :) good luck on your journey! xx

[@Cheezxo]

This video says it all. I few months ago, I decided to drop out of uni. Being there felt wrong, and I was 99% sure I had chosen the wrong career path. My friends thought I was crazy, my mother was in tears and I was a mess, because society made me think that I was a big old failure (22 with no degree... to most parisian, that equals failure). But I had to do it. The first month was terrible, I couldn't sleep, I wouldn't go out... but now, I feel so good and so free. What I did was courageous. Sure, I might not have a degree this year, but that doesn't mean that I'll never have it. I'll come back to uni in a few years if it feels like the right thing to do FOR ME. Now, I'm planning so many things, I'm working and saving money. I'm actually very happy about what life has in store for me. Next year I'm off to South America, to live in a completely different city (I live in Paris). And I just can't wait. Failures are inevitable if you live life to the fullest. You learn about you, and it's a very important step.

[@nonazuri]

There have been so many failures, personal and business. I have failed over and over again. I recently went through a dark period where I was just feeling low but as I came out of it I saw the lessons in my failures. Most of my failures came from being "too optimistic" - if that's a thing - to the point where I ignored risks and created false expectations and goals without steps. I learned my lesson. Over the years I have also learned to prioritise my well-being, my goals, mind and positivity thanks to negative outcomes. Thank you for talking about this!

[@angelinapagano547]

You are so genuine and inspiring. I love your sit down talks!! My failures: losing touch with my near friends being too scared to stand up for myself too often

[@cathbiancacampanelli]

Mimi I love this ! I have had so many failures at school especially and I believe just like you that they are a stepping stone, they are necessary :) I was in science and realized that it was not for me, then I was in business realized again it was not for me and now I am in University in a completely different program where I belong and I feel like it was necessary for me to fail in order to end up where I belong :) I know I will have many other failures in the future and I am not afraid of it I embrace them :) Such a powerful message you are awesome :)

[@ifrog92]

Domestic financial and emotional abuse and a year of 'failures' made me think no self help video or book could help. But you and Alex have given me hope at every turn

[@AskKimberly]

Go Mimi!!!!! Such a great, positive idea for a video! 💗💕💗👏👏👏

[@joannjacquin4983]

Very encouraging and liberating, Mimi! Thanks for sharing.

[@mariane9817]

Mimi, I can't express how much I appreciate what you have done for me, even though we don't know each other, your videos always give me the courage and happiness to keep on going with my dreams, still trying to work on the confidence subject, but I'm on my way, I can't thank you enough! You are a light to me❤️

[@mariane9817]

Just to add, my biggest failure has always being to improve my health, talking about exercise and food choices, and now that I got into college, those things seem even more difficult to achieve, but I'll try till I get it for sure, and also I have failed in taking opportunities, to afraid to take them, anyway, your video makes me think twice about what I really want to achieve and what I need to get it.❤️

[@miafalco]

I failed miserably as a pharmaceutical rep. BUT-now I get to use my passion for wellness and educate patients on holistic health as a holistic dental hygienist. It is such a blessing many times when things don't work out. Thank you for this video Mimi!

[@namitaa]

PLEASE do a weekly chit chat videos

[@antoniakuhn2837]

Love this idea!

[@darynayatsiuk]

yeah, i would be nice!

[@priyasingh-oo4pr]

Yess that would be so greatt but i think we should think about mimi her workload will increase🌼

[@namitaa]

+priya singh yea I agree but it would still be really great to watch them every week! I just love seeing videos that are more than 10 minutes long

[@MimiIkonn]

I think I'll do them more often:) I enjoy them a lot also :)

[@KeishaDalis]

Thank, thank, thank you so much for opening up to us and make this video. I needed to hear something like this. 👏😊 Thank you.

[@yaneta1987]

Me too

[@kalis856]

It was great!

[@xnlx9748]

"Failure is an event, not a person. Yesterday ended last night." - Zig Ziglar

[@janisann1989]

Thank you for this quote.

[@xnlx9748]

+Janis Abraham It's just a beautiful reminder 💕

[@Taima89]

I moved to another country to live out my dream job working with animals which ended up in a huge failure! I was well travelled, educated and cultured at this point and you know what? I really just didn't fit in. Everything from the people, to the workplace seemed a little off. I trust my self-judgement immensely and I took a step back and decided I wasn't being treated properly in the workplace, neither were the animals and this lifestyle wasn't for me! I packed up, wasted a huge amount of money and almost missed out on Christmas! But returned home just in time. I own that failure and every time I look back and think of things I perhaps would have done differently I still think 'nope that life choice was not right for me.' Great learning curve!

[@AnnalisaJ]

First, I love your positive take on this and your energy!You are right, to have failed is to have felt alive, to have taken risks, and to be stronger and wiser at the end. People that don't take chances are stagnant and like to hold others back as well... Like you said, in their comfort boxes. It is always scary to take a risk, but it is also rewarding and thrilling no matter the outcome you always learn.Second, true California can be a very lonely place, I am from Italy and live in So. California and relationships amongst friends are very very different, I love everything else, but the loneliness part is very true.I love your videos, and love love your accent!!! Sending lots of love ❤️❤️❤️

[@madiredefined]

The biggest failure I can think of right now also being a cat owner. It still breaks my heart that after so many years we had to give our cat away. Like the Little Prince said you're responsible for those you've tamed. I made a decision not to adapt any pets anymore.

[@joyjoyoo]

Oh no..

[@madiredefined]

+Fabula Teka my newborn baby brother had a severe allergy

[@StellaCharm]

I gave my cat away to my cousin because I was working 3 jobs and going to school and I wasn't able to show her much attention and care. me and my fiance are still sad about it. and my apartment I was living in charged 300 a month to keep her smh

[@JustMe-td6dl]

Hi Mimi, love this topic and how you tackled it ❤️. I'd say that my failure this year was doing poorly in my third term as a sophomore in high school. My parents had decided to move overseas with me right in the middle of my school year. I went from being a 4.1 GPA in my old school to getting average marks on material that I had taken before in this new school, even after giving it my all. Also, while being super introverted, I have failed in making new friends. Thanks for the video, super inspiring ❤️

[@konicalancea]

I can definitely relate to you. But guess what? Those are just numbers; they don't determine who you are.

[@JustMe-td6dl]

Konica Roache Thanks, I'm trying to keep that in mind :)

[@darynayatsiuk]

friends will come, just be yourself :)

[@JustMe-td6dl]

Dear Joseph Danielle Classic thank you both for your support, i really appreciate it :)

[@katerinamarouda2737]

l love your confidence!!! Very few youtubers would upload a video with their failures. Your message is so important in a society that expect from us to be perfect. Very inspirational. You go girl!!!

[@souad0023]

This video is so inspiring Mimi! I have personally had so many failures throughout my education but they have made me into the person I am today and I have learned from my failures and my mistakes. I had this conversation with my dad when I failed two of my master's assignments but he reassured me that failure is the key to success. Every successful person has failed at some point within their lives and I have thankfully been given another opportunity to make my failures into a success and make myself and my parents proud. Thank you for sharing your failures Mimi

you were talking about Leyla by the end weren't you?

[@Kat-g3d]

I'm pretty sure she was talking about her! I wonder why she just didn't say her name :p anyway great video 😊

[@unicornsarereal434]

yes because leyla once made a life update video and said that she moved to LA because it was her dream and then she felt unhappy and came back, also she said that she met her husband there so..

[@yaneta1987]

I love Leyla

[@zahraalramadan691]

hhhhhhhh yah me too

[@11smilemouse11]

yeah I think as well it was Leyla, probably she wanted to use it as a general example. Anyway, it seems like everything worked out for both of them :)

[@samtracy8072]

It's amazing - you always upload a video with a message/lesson that I need right now. Thank you for your help and wisdom❤️

[@darynayatsiuk]

right, it's why i love it :))

[@gloriadiiorio2652]

Mimi, this video could not have come at a better time!! This year I have failed at both one of my creative projects and my beginners degree in psychology. Once I accepted that these were parts of my journey I was able to pick a new major towards a new interest ( health sciences ). I have faith that a creative project will come soon for me ❤️ thank you for this great content 😘

[@melaniecoffin3754]

mimi, I'm currently going through a hard time in life where i feel stuck. I am so fortunate to have found your videos that make me feel hopeful and remind me my situation is temporary. Even for a few moments of the day i escape and feel better afterwards, truly thankful for what you do, hello from Toronto!! ❤❤ pray more blessings always come your way

[@abigailburns1267]

When I become a teacher, I think I will show this video to my students. This is so important for EVERYONE to hear.

[@MimiIkonn]

Thank you dear Abigail :)

[@Sandyyyyy91]

Mimi, Thank you so much for posting this video! It's exactly what I needed to hear at this moment in life.

[@MimiIkonn]

My pleasure Sandy:) I'm glad you found it helpful

[@lifewellloved]

Thank you for always being so real Mimi. My failure is that I went to school thinking that I would become a veterinarian, but realized after getting an internship at an animal hospital that that absolutely wasn't what I wanted to do. I continued my education and received a Neurobiology degree and now work in the biotech industry, but I still feel like I am searching for what I am truly passionate about. I agree that life feels like failing your way to success a lot of the time, but I want to challenge myself to step out of my comfort zone more to continue growth in all aspects. Love inspiring and thoughtful videos like this, and your positivity even when talking about your "failures" 💞

[@StyleNectar]

Absolutely with you 100% on every single part of this... from viewing failures as stepping stones to a diploma simply being a piece of paper. While I am a college graduate I have learned SO much more by reading tons of books and getting involved in so many different businesses etc etc. I'd so rather create my own destiny than leave that up to society or an institution. Love to you both and keep up your amazing work! xxx

[@nouveaugrunge]

this is such an important subject. thank you so much for bringing it out, Mimi. love you with all my heart

[@misskhan4586]

So my failure is quite a few as well but one in particular that resonates with me and relates to your life as well is that everyone was on my case to go to college and get a degree so I decided to do so but after a while I hated what I was doing because it was so redundant and I dropped out and for many many years I felt guilty and my family made me feel terrible about not completing my degree but I finally decided to stop feeling that way and do something for myself that I would love and I'm currently in the process of doing so. Now watching your video only gives me more motivation and more encouragement to follow my heart basically, so thank you so much Mimi for being such an inspiration 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@darynayatsiuk]

i hope you will succeed in whatever you start! :))

[@misskhan4586]

Thank you 😊

[@miranthifernando]

Hi Ms Khan, can I ask, what are you doing now?

[@misskhan4586]

+miranthifernando real estate

[@2eyeluvmac2]

I love how humble and honest you are. You truly are an amazing person.

[@BlackThorndRose]

I love you Mimi! I love your honestly and how humble you are. Even though we do only see you on camera and not behind the scenes, it's so kind of you to share topics like this because, I can't speak for anyone else, but I learn a lot from your videos, not just what you speak about, but the way you speak about it, your positivity, your energy, and I would love it if you would do more videos like these! Thank you so much!!

[@mariai.3918]

I'm pretty sure that the "friend" at 14:40 who moved to California and then went back to her country is Leyla! And, no, it was not a failure, she's lucky enough to have had such an experience before settling down with Dimitri and Adriana!! :)

[@DeathAngleZoe]

All I have ever done in life is fail. I've failed hundreds of tests (literally) in school, failed to even graduate high school on time, am failing to find any job whatsoever, failing to lose any weight, failing at having any talent, and failing at achieving any of my goals and dreams. I don't know how to go on. I hate school because I have always failed at everything. I want to finish high school successfully but after that, I don't want to go to college. I want to become a business women just like you but how can a failure like me, with no brains, talent or money go anywhere in life? I've tried so hard to think positively and have lots of positive people around me, but I still can't seem to get anywhere in life.

[@Mangoberrylemon123]

Don't give up on yourself, keep trying! Failure will be a small part of the big picture. You will be successful if you keep trying. ❤️

[@mapisinalopecia2492]

Hey! I just what to let you know that you are blessed just by being alive! Don't be so hard to yourself. Keep trying and choose to beleive you can until you do. Sending you lots of positive energy!

[@Christylove222]

Don't think you have no brains, that's absolutely not true. Some of us have different ways of thinking, being and learning. Me included. Just try to find what makes you happy and how you learn best. If not college then learn, read and grow on your own schedule. Good luck, you can do it!

[@kyooreeuhs]

First thing, you just successfully wrote a paragraph. That may seem laughable, but there are plenty of people who struggle to put sentences together. It was easy to understand what you were communicating. Communication is a skill/talent. That tells me that you have potential to do even better in school than you're doing. I have the same problem of a past riddled with failure, and no success (although Mimi just convinced me to reconsider. Maybe I gave up at some point or failed but look at how I initially tried and put myself out there! Now I can begin to change the way I've labeled my past and myself). I also have always referred to myself in negative ways, like you did when you said, "how can a failure like me, with no brains, talent or money go anywhere in life?" Maybe our level of success is affected by the way we think of ourselves. Tell me, how could you succeed when you don't believe you are worth anything? Successful people I've known wouldn't talk down about themselves. They believe they have something to offer. They believe they can make their life enjoyable. If they can think that way, so can we. And imagine how much harder you'll try once you believe what you want is possible! You'll be unstoppable! I could tell you that you DO have talent and endless potential, but that likely won't convince you. No one else can do it for us; WE have to change the way we think/what we do. We can't try halfway and give up on ourselves. Sending so much love your way, I know you can change the way things are going.

[@Lara_GuidingStar]

Hi, I just want you to know that you are beautiful inside and out and that you've got so much to offer to the world. You have the power to make all of your dreams come true. Replace the negative belief "I always fail at everything" with "I am successful, strong woman and I can achieve any goal with grace and ease". I am sending much love and peace your way💙

[@lakshmimenon8053]

Hey Mimi, I am not usually into self help books kind of person so far you have been my sole inspirational talker. I am at a stage of my life which you call it living in the cage of comfort zone feeling as if i am running out of time yet not able to build up the courage to go and give my line of learning(architecture) a second chance. This talk has defenitely been very inspirational and i hope i make something of this pumped up state.

[@whatadaytobealive]

This is so true. I actually graduated with a bachelors degree and now I'm doing my masters. However, I'm making decent money and have great benefits off of a skill that required no college education. Skills, vocational schools, on the job learning and life experience is something that enables a person to be successful as well. No one should ever undermine the value of these things. College isn't necessarily the answer for everyone. It's a great thing but it's not the only option. Continue speaking out and being an inspiration to others. No one should feel like a failure because they didn't meet societies standards or so called norms. I admire you very, very much!

[@VVbloglife]

Nice video! But there a still a lot of professions where you can't avoid education - Doctor, teacher etc. I don't want my doctor to be educated by KZbin video)

[@hopeasha91]

Video is great n all but your pronunciation of failure as failer got me 😂🙈

[@reiloveable]

Thankyou So Much Mimi for being so vulnerable and sharing such sensitive issues about your life. Just listening to you made me teary eyed , you are so brave and an immense inspiration for everybody. Love you so much Mimi. Stay Blessed

[@jasminetambunga8230]

I love your perspectives! So many people needed to hear this! Failure is rubbish! Live your life, make your own decisions! Love you, Mimi :)

[@astylereel]

I always think it's funny that people assume others who have success haven't failed! The road to success is PAVED with failure!! Those who succeed just have TENACITY! LOL Thank you for sharing! xo

[@jmontoya84]

bah I can't get over how failure is pronounced

[@kyralarson1516]

Love love love your outlook on education Mimi!!! Going to traditional school, I felt very held back and that I wasn't learning as much as I could In the time I was in school, I decided to finish up my high school years through online classes & I love it!! It has opened up so many opportunities for me & I'm actually graduating a year before the rest of my class mates. So many people have negative feelings toward thinking outside the box. I just love your outlook on education and it inspires me to follow the path less traveled! Thank you!!❤️

[@charlottehollihan4985]

You should make this a tag!! This made me think about my failures (a lot of which are hilarious thinking back) and I really enjoyed the video. I always talk about my failures and weaknesses, getting them out of my head makes them so much less of a big deal. xxxxxx

[@WeaTheRgrlx0x]

Was the friend Leyla? Thanks for this video Mimi!:)

[@rengon9611]

Yup it was

[@WeaTheRgrlx0x]

r onzal Thanks:)

[@Mokshakoshka]

haha I caught that too

[@WeaTheRgrlx0x]

:)

[@jasmitdhaliwal3654]

I scrolled down to see if someone else thought this too ;) It could be Leyla or not :) Anyway we love both.

[@wge621]

mimi, it's 'fail-YURE'. not a big deal but was irritating me a bit

[@SheGrubs]

yeeees

[@natashanicole721]

It's her accent no need to correct her. I'm sure she knows.

[@wge621]

natasha nicole she's perfectly capable of making the "yuh" sound, I just don't think it's a word she says that often. if I was mispronouncing something, I'd want someone to let me know

[@KiwiSkarlett]

Just because you say it a certain way doesn't necessarily make it correct. People from different parts of the world with different accents speak and pronounce words differently. So long as you know what she's saying and receive the message she's trying to deliver, that's what matters ❤

[@wge621]

KiwiSkarlett it's not just me, it's the webster and oxford dictionaries. criticism doesn't have to be some horrible thing. actually, you'll never get anywhere in life if everyone just pats you on the back and tells you how great you are. the irony is this video is about mimi embracing failure but it's somehow uncool if i point out one of her mistakes in a civil way

[@afnanaldimasi]

Love this! It is very liberating to hear your "failure" experiences and how you are in peace with them. Thank you for sharing, Mimi!

[@MimiIkonn]

My pleasure! I'm glad you found it liberating

[@colourmyreflection]

Mimi, I always enjoy watching your videos, but today I felt extremely touched by what you were saying. I rarely leave comments but I just want you to know that I really appreciate you putting yourself out there and sharing your experiences; you're always an inspiration.

[@jeuryveloz6011]

Your view on education is a bit dangerous. People considering dropping out of college are usually not the forward driven and business orientated people you and Alex are (yes, I know Alex got his degree). For most people doing poorly in school, I'd imagine that dropping out is not a good alternative. Unless you have a plan and/or are filthy rich, please finish school and get your degree.

[@jeuryveloz6011]

And I realize she is talking about her own experience, but I just don't want people getting the wrong idea. It's one thing to have a goal, but don't drop out of college for a risky opportunity. If you want to start a business while in college, try and do both at the same time. If you find success in that business, drop out of college (if you really have to). If your business fails, continue in school.

[@Dori95Marie]

She said she encourages people to apply for college. (6:14) Every life is different. :)

[@eunicetham]

I don't like how she defined some of the personal "failures". Not being able to finish school due to other priorities in life is not a "failure". Not liking what you do is not a "failure" too. Otherwise, many people would feel very pathetic. Also, aren't those that you called "business" before you started Luxy hair "jobs"? Why made it so fancy and called them "businesses"?

[@nannalambert3980]

Thank you for being genuine and showing us this side of the story. You were very humble and modest.

[@sarahazadi2046]

I missed these videos!! So happy you made a talking sit down video 😘😘

[@thechositosgirl]

You are right my failure is not to open a KZbin channel I will love to but I'm afraid even to try it 😔😔😔

[@theazbuz]

upload a video and I will watch it✔

[@dunjahwierda2990]

Me too 😘

[@thechositosgirl]

+theazbuz thank you , you are so nice 😊😊😊

[@thechositosgirl]

+Dunjah Wierda thank you thank you so much for your support 😊😊😊

[@sabinaparsov1552]

Start it now! I've started 2 weeks ago and it's such an accomplishment feeling that I finally did something that I was afraid of (exposing myself to the world, in frot of camera lenses, letting everyone see my flaws etc). I'll subscribe your channel if you start it now! :)

[@csillastegmann8940]

Hi Mimi! You have so beautiful soul. This video gives me power to do what I always wanted. I love you so much. 3 Ps.: If you have time to travel, I can recommend you Hungary. It' s just an hour from London on plane and Budapest is beautiful. :)

[@rahilashabanova]

Hungary❤️

[@lorsyn]

yes,you definitely should visit Budapest

[@missarwen37]

Mimi, i see that it is with a lot of emotion that you tells us your experience. Do not see them as faillure, you put all your heart in what you wanted to begin. You learnt of his experiences , and you here is with a beautiful company !! Here is your success !! Be to trust there !! love you !!

[@CapeCodBelle]

Your video was really helpful and uplifting! I've held myself back in certain situations because I didn't know what the outcome would be, but now I'm feeling really motivated to try something new!

[@sarasalgado3724]

LOL that "friend" that she is speaking about who moved to California and moved back to her homeland is her sister, Leyla!!!

[@maryemabidi4152]

I really like the idea of the videos but completely disagree with the subject of univesity and studies.I think that completting the degree is really important. it can help you a lot in your business

[@picframe000]

important? yes. necessary? no

[@Lara_GuidingStar]

Thank you Mimi for sharing your personal experiences regarding failure. You inspire me everyday to step out of my comfort zone and be a better person🙂 You are so beautiful,you're just glowing,much love💛

[@lisaalymova3654]

Thank you Mimi for your words! You can't even immagine how supportive and encouraging it is.

[@louise160691]

I think she was talking about leyla at the end xx

[@margretrand8769]

I was looking for this comment, I thought the exact same thing :D

[@gizemc.9902]

Louise Butler who is Layla? :o

[@margretrand8769]

Gizem S. Her sister, who they used to have a youtube channel together.

[@janasanderova4914]

Thanks for this video Mimi. My reply to all those "pronounce failure" comments: I'm just wondering how do you guys pronounce "tagliatelle" or "bruschetta" ..and for those who are lucky to be born in English speaking countries, if you speak impeccable any other language. I understand that maybe you're trying to "make the world a better place" but it can sound pretty patronizing and unnecessary.

[@widadnemry7186]

oh my god the best video ever love how youre such an inspirationnal human love u

[@VeroFago]

THANK YOU Mimi for your integrity and honesty...thank you so much for being such an inspiration to me.

[@mxangelly]

Free online courses over studying at a university ..... Ok

[@ICantBreathe57]

If all you take away from this is her pronunciation of "failure" then you really don't get the point of the video

[@abrown5526]

My first two years at University have been a failure, academically, but I've learned SO much about myself and life while living through my failures. I'm stepping away from University to travel Europe for 4 months to a year (possibly) to clear my mind, find my passion again, and take a much needed break from academia. Thanks for sharing your story and for your positive words of encouragement. xoxo

[@kristinbrenkus7614]

I can not begin to tell you how much this video meant to me! So many things resonated with me. Thank-you for being you. Best to you, Alex, and the new bundle of LoVe!

[@melis6294]

Shallow, shallow shallow, she made a list of "failures" mostly about failed businesses and how she failed in keeping her cat. I thought she was going to talk more about deep stuff, and show more deep insights about her life, like relationships, day to day challenges etc. The title of the video is misleading. Failing a business is just part of life not all. I see her as someone who wants to be famous and make money at the same time through youtube, social media, etc but is afraid to show completely how she really is, and that shows clearly.

[@RinaBabyTV]

I love this video! It made me think of youtube... I've had a channel for years and it's never done super well so I felt like it failed. But now I realize that if one thing I do doesn't succeed there are so many other doors to open!

[@yueyue4911]

I can say this was one of the biggest motivations i've ever watched. Thank you Mimi a lot for this amazing motivational video!!

[@szederlekvar]

I love your videos, so inspiring! Every once in a while when I have time or feel stuck at something, I just sit down and watch one or two, and then I always feel better. Sometimes, because I realize the things I'm doing right and barely noticed, and oftentimes I find out what's been wrong, but thanks to your way of interpreting them, I don't feel ashamed, but inspired to change them. Thank you so much for your wonderful work! It's much needed.

[@sarahcummins8116]

Thank you for the honesty. A breath, a voice from inside my own head. From my perspective "Failure" aka "Growth" is a learning curve. THANK YOU!!!

[@tantiger1]

Yay!!! Finally!! Thank you so much Mimi!! please keep doing these 'sit-down' videos!

[@MyBackGarden]

Thank you for being a trail blazer and sharing this message. So many people settle for a mundane life free of failures.

[@lollypoppy56]

You're such an inspiration Mimi, I really look up to both you and Alex. I have faced my own failures, however at the age of 22 I'm trying to rebuild myself. Everything is starting to come together, and I hope to be just as successful as you are one day. Lots of hugs and kisses xoxo

[@togiiproductions]

dear mimi, I never comment on youtube videos but I just wanted to tell you how much you helped me! I was crying at the end of this video, this was really needed.I wish you a wonderful day, thank you so much!

[@farsta8]

Thank u mimi for this video. I am going through some failures... and i have been trying to stay positive. This made me feel better and "normal"

[@lifeonblackink]

Every failure after every try, in itself, is something to be studied and celebrated because every "no" is a step closer to your "yes." I'd rather fail, fail, fail than never try and never find out my own potential and successes. I've learned this lesson this year and your video, Mimi, is in perfect timing. Sometimes we need to hear others tell us things we already know or easily forget. And for anyone who's trying something and feeling/fighting fear in the process... I'd say you're headed in the right direction. Just as Mimi mentioned (Alex has touched on this as well in his channel), staying within your comforts only stifles and hurts you. Growth takes 'pains' and that requires new situations and challenges. Thanks again, Mimi! And everyone, good luck and just get back up after every knock-down! :D

[@anastasiazaf8594]

one of your best videos!!don't know why but i cried a little at the end.you are so right for many things.thank you for sharing this!

[@rosemarykahn1218]

Beautiful video, Mimi! Everything takes effort and labor of love. A "failure" as you describe it, is really just part of the process. You are showing us how reflective and pragmatic you are, and this in itself is a huge inspiration! 💜 Love, Rosemary

[@sukanya3279]

Mimi this video feels so empowering because of how gracefully you accepted your failures and opinions on it! Love you sooooo much

[@MariasJournal__]

I feel grateful for my failures because they brought me where I am today and led me to the right path. So many valuable things that you wouldn't otherwise learn... Thanks for this video Mimi, would love to see more like this. So inspiring and motivational 🙏💖

[@alainahodges3891]

Mimi, thank you so much for this MUCH needed video! It's so hard to see failures as stepping stone when you're experiencing them in the moment. I needed to hear your message today. Love to you, Alex, and BooBoo ❤️

[@emilywhited9200]

I failed to be accepted my first choice of Nursing School, but now I am at a different Nursing School (that I didn't think was as prestigious before) and I am SO GRATEFUL!!! It is the best thing that could've ever happened to me. I love my program and can't imagine if I went to the other school. I think failure opens the doors to where we are really supposed to be in life! Thank you so much for this video, thank you for being real and reminding us that you are a real person whose life isn't always perfect!

[@NadiaSetiabudi95]

A lot of my failures are actually me not doing what I want in fear of failure, like I still have yet to start posting videos on my KZbin channel because I'm scared people would't like it. I also almost didn't apply to Oxford because I was scared of being rejected, kind of thinking that if I never apply it can remain a dream but once I'm rejected it's all over. But then I decided that if I was rejected, I'd just find a new dream. Now I'm really really glad I applied, because I was actually accepted.

[@MatergaiaMary]

Thank you Mimi for this video, I think that failures are really steps of growth, we always learn something more. I could reflect about many things in which I feel I had failed but also see how that experience is so valuable and will help me to be better at what I am doing! Sending lots of love and blessings to you in all you are doing!

[@sairap7]

Wow Mimi, just today I had a major "failure" relating to my education. I felt terrible about it & tried to understand it but I didn't quite yet get there. After seeing your video I understood that any obstacle will always bring something good to it. Everything is made beautiful in its time! 💕 thank you so much for bringing peace to me today ❤️ love you Mimi😌