My Fiancee Is Accusing Me Of Trapping Her Then Neglecting Our Relationship r/Relationships

[@bricksloth6920]

Story 1: Homeless people who have only known each other a few months probably don't need to be engaged. Get your ducks in order. And stop sponging off your friends. Rent a room.

[@vampire9545]

How is paying rent and doing chores sponging? Am I sponging off my wife as I pay half n do chores too?

[@ttp513]

​@@vampire9545 not the same. They have no place. And having an established domicile like a rental isn't the same as paying a friend money for a room in their home. Either he stays with this friend and gives her money, or he stays in his car. Those are the choices he states. Why isn't renting somewhere a choice for them? Doesn't sound like he's trying to find a place for them either.

[@wildfyah]

​@@vampire9545 he's not being honest about the situation

[@ringluvr]

😂😂😂 I love your summary of the situation. Spot on.

[@Metal_Mouth]

Man, I remembered reading Story 1 when the update first came out and wow op really went out of his way to paint his gf as crazy and jealous while hiding details that showed how much of manipulative and conniving person he really was. Even his responses were slimy. Even if the gf was in the wrong, unjustly jealous, and yada, yada, you let her go when she wants to leave the relationship period. Hope second op is away from that man forever and learn to never move that fast ever again. She sacrificed so much for a 6 month relationship and she got played so badly, gf please take this as a learning experience.

[@k3upikachu]

Yeah I was on his side up until he talked about him ignoring her to go straight to his friends room after work and closing the bedroom door. Yikes.

[@imsleepy6211]

@@k3upikachu same. That ONE edit changed everything

[@HoodieHorizon]

I always end up actually cheering whenever I hear “this next story/update is from the OTHER SIDE”

[@pippo17173]

I love post with others coming in with their own update and destroy the lair post.

[@squirrel670]

I think it's extra interesting when the other side moves to defend themselves and they make themselves look 1000x worse.

[@pippo17173]

@Squirrel special mention the one story where op found her bully working as a teacher and she did the right thing and reported her. Cue the bully making it worst in the reddit comments and the update showing she went all crazy and destroyed her life.

[@squirrel670]

@@pippo17173 Fr, that one was great. Evil b

[@lisawhereisthecultjam]

You are not alone! Lol

[@tinywaterdrinker5136]

The crazy thing is that OP didn't even do a good job of leaving the info that'd paint him as crazy out. He admitted to closing the bedroom door to have alone time with his "friend" (lol did anyone actually believe he wasjust talking to her?) and not "letting" a woman who wants to leave go. He basically confessed to kidnapping in his own post bc what do you mean you won't LET her go?

[@sfsin3380]

Don't forget the part in the beginning were OP convinced her to give up her not great but existing housing and to move in with him when he had an apartment and a job knowing he planed to get rid of both very shortly. Once She gave up her carer position, She couldn't get that arrangement back. He knew that and took advantage of it to trap her in this situation.

[@flamantvert6916]

"I need her so I can afford a place to live." Or whatever he said Considering he said multiple times she was disabled/on disability, I'm really glad she managed to (literally) escape. Dude seemed to see her as an atm more than anything

[@JamaicanMonroe]

She was right to get out of there sounds like the makings of a financial abuse situation.

[@thesewinggeekmiri9029]

he sounds like a controlling a*hole--kept taking away her phone, wouldn't sleep without her there to make sure she didn't "sneak away", like wtf???

[@rubymeaddle]

Happens so often with disabled people 😔

[@sophdog2564]

Not letting her break up with him was already abusive

[@JamaicanMonroe]

@@rubymeaddle I know it's awful 😞

[@JamaicanMonroe]

@@thesewinggeekmiri9029 Absolutely insane!! So glad she managed to get out of there.

[@Ospyro3em]

I'm glad girlfriend got out. By her account, it sounds like OP was pretty abusive and practically imprisoning her there

[@RomanticGoblin00]

He goes to his friends room for an hour talk about their day!? Why not talk out with the girlfriend... wouldn't she want to know OPS day? This seems fixable if OP just did the bare minimum.

[@ACAB.forcutie]

Because he's in a relationship with his friend and his gf is just their maid

[@fallingawayfromthenorm]

Story 2 - Cheaters will always scream about their partner’s lack of communication while literally not having direct enough communication that their partner is aware they’re upset and feel neglected and it’s making them question the relationship. They always just jump onto whoever gives them the first bit of attention they think they deserve and don’t care about how wrong it is until they get caught, and even then it’s never their fault somehow.

[@paulinadeboer3604]

I am so sorry for the dog that is alone after this, dogs care about their pack and they are going to split it up. If she is so selfish that she does this to a dog just because, than she is really a B**** That is the same as a divorce and only take one child without co-parenting.

[@mikehilbert9349]

But, but, but he is the one throwing away the seven year relationship, right? She is just an innocent victim of him helping her financially.

[@invisible123-l9d]

So it's fine to neglect, and ignore, a partner, to use them as a source of free sex and housework, not to care if they are present or not, to do nothing when they need someone to be there for them? For communication to work, MEN need to LISTEN to women, and TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY. No wonder she looked elsewhere, as he gave her nothing, none of his time, no affection, no care, nothing. Cue the abuse as none of you have the balls to reply politely.

[@jimbobjones9330]

That first story, I was on the OP's side... at first. Then we got more and more and more information in an "oh, by the way..." way and it quickly changed to "runnnnn, girl!" At first I was like "Well, they're staying in the friend's house. A couple weeks isn't too long -- she (the gf) is being pretty ridiculous about that. And who _wouldn't_ help a friend who they were staying with?" then I reached the parts where he was like "I go into my friend's room the instant I get home and don't really even talk to my GF but I really need her around so I can afford rent" I haven't even gotten to the GF's post yet, but yeesh.

[@sfsin3380]

Thing is even in the beginning OP was AH OP talked around it but it sounds to me like he convinced her to give up her not great but existing housing and to move in with him when he had an apartment and a job knowing he planed to get rid of both very shortly. Once She gave up her carer position, She couldn't get that arrangement back. He knew that and took advantage of it to trap her in this situation.

[@jaymel4691]

Yeah he sounded like a hobosexual at least, maybe even abusive.

[@mindyschocolate]

S1: that whole relationship sounds like a train wreck. GF on disability, BF thinks they’re meant to be after SIX measly months, and they’ve spent most of their relationship living out of a car? And he works? Everything sounds super sus. And he goes immediately into friend’s ROOM directly after work? Yikes.

[@LovesGaming37]

How is being on disability a Trainwreck?

[@ACAB.forcutie]

​@@LovesGaming37 it adds to his position of control, imo 🤷‍♀️

[@Khaisz.]

4:55 this is the point where it goes from: "NAH, you just want a roof over your head and she is just worried, a natural reaction when you are somewhere new and she probably just need to get used to the new temporary living arrangements" to "YTA, she is clearly trying to alienate you and your GF by ignoring her and then dragging you into a private room to 'talk about the day', something that could be done in a living room unless you are hiding something else."

[@sfsin3380]

Thing is even in the beginning OP was AH OP talked around it but clearly he convinced her to give up her not great but existing housing and to move in with him when he had an apartment and a job knowing he planed to get rid of both very shortly. Once She gave up her carer position, She couldn't get that arrangement back. He knew that and took advantage of it to trap her in this situation.

[@janedoe885]

Story 2, OP is treating the ex-fiancé’s objections as valid when he absolutely shouldn’t. She is not taking responsibility. If she was unhappy, the adult response is to communicate that. It would have been better if she’d called off the engagement and left the relationship than to cheat. This was not OP’s fault and he shouldn’t be blaming himself. He can try checking in with future partners if he wants, but he shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells like ex-fiancé wants. She has been immature and inappropriate.

[@tamsel814]

You guys have been together for 6 months, living together in your car for 4 months and are engaged. You guys are moving way fast, maybe focus on finding some stability. Edit: so you both moved in (temporary) with your friend who does not want to get to know your fiancee. This sounds like a dumpster fire. Edit2: run girl run.

[@mattiekarwin3667]

"-because without her here, this all falls apart." ..because you love her so much? "-because I can't afford to live here without her." Aaaaaand there it is.

[@madarawijerathne276]

1st story what most scary about him was he said he can't let her go

[@thesewinggeekmiri9029]

"if I decide to become roommates with my friend" but...aren't you guys *already* living in the friend's place? Aren't the 3 of you *already* roommates??

[@NCAnon]

Story 2: OP has the ability to tell her "f*ck you and the horse you rode in on"

[@Jessidafennecfox]

Literally 😊

[@synber]

aussie hubby markee is back!! i've been following you for a couple of years and i must honestly say that i love it when your personality shows

[@jay2thaudy]

Glad you’re letting your personality show in the vids again and giving your opinions. Sounds like you’re having more fun!

[@christinacartter9784]

Haven't heard "Aussie hubby" for a while! Glad you're back to it.

[@LeggoMyGekko]

I was not prepared for Markie to call himself my Aussie Hubby, but now I hope he does it every video 🥺

[@kateemma22]

2023 is the year of Flirty Markee.

[@shootingcomet082]

Story 1: Even OP's own version made him seem in the wrong. Anyone who says "I can't let her go" is controlling and a red flag. It was clear with his updates that he was only with her for her disability check.

[@jerriewyatt905]

Story 2… It sounds like OP had a narrow escape ..the fiancée was a lying cheater.. Thankfully this happened before they married and had kids..

[@mercycunningham2813]

Story2: And this boys and girls is why you don't own joint property before marrige.

[@masterkyoogway3565]

Literally did a double take when you said you're out Aussie hubby.... I've missed that😌

[@nahbruh2613]

i KnOw ShEs ThE oNe 😂😂😂

[@tamsel814]

Cause she was willing to get engaged quickly, move in with him (in his car) Seemingly has no nearly friends and family Is disabled (so possibly less able to leave and can get income) Probadly missing some stuff.

[@psychickumquat]

Man, OP on story 1 is a straight up predator. Everything he does is meant to grind down his girlfriend until all the fight leaves her, then he'll have his meal ticket ("this whole thing falls apart without her, i can't afford an apartment without her". Hope he never gets another victim in his grasp.

[@alijones743]

I wonder if OP was hoping that the women would accept each other and he could live with both of them. Very weird!

[@colorlesscanvas1151]

Story one: wait when you get home from work you go straight into the old friends bedroom to chat. Not to your wife to chat.

[@kc_lee_ann]

I love that we have your personal commentary back again! Missed having that element!

[@starbird3939]

Story 1 Some of the commenters have brought up that Op might be on meth. He is also super controlling. “I CAN’T let her go”. “I WON’T let her go.” The girl is an adult, she can do what she wants. And yeah, living in a car? Nah

[@Ospyro3em]

How I've missed the "Aussie Hubby Markee" and the "basket of arseholes" phrases 😂

[@Tijggie82]

Oh I remember this one! Glad she got out of there!

[@maismais993]

I like the new transitions :) Also in case you're reading any of this: I watch your vids religiously. They're my comfort zone and I like your narration the most! Please keep up the good work and thank you!!!

[@thesewinggeekmiri9029]

lololol, listening to the update for story 1. I am soooo glad that she got out of that parade of red flags that was masquerading as a relationship.

[@Tyggs42]

Story 1: I was kinda "eh" on the fence until the OP started adding edits. Like, felt OP was naive but had no bad intentions. And then the edits came. Going to the friend's room straight from work and ignoringnhis fiance? WTF?! Then the (ex) fiance's edits just....ew, OP was disgusting and controlling and jealous. Story 2: oh, hun, she was using you for your money. That's clear. Also, NEVER buy a house with a partner you're not married to yet. ( unless you don't believe in marriage, but have some sort of long term commitment locked down between you and a plan for how to deal with the house if you separate )

[@pippo17173]

So the guy basically is trying to get a maid without pay. How hilarious he thought it work.

[@EternaMidnight]

Last one sounds like narcissism, unable to fathom herself having any responsibility for her own actions, and extremely hypocritical

[@mimiadams247]

First one also sounds like narcissism.

[@concrete-d5v]

Just wow been together for only 6 months engaged and trying to move in together, but their stop gap is living in their car for a while?? Yeah both the bf and gf were just making poor decisions from the get go. Glad she got out at least, and hopefully she can find a place more safe than a car to live in

[@Setulge]

I'm pretty sure I heardd Story 1 from the side of the GF... I remember at first saying she was jealous until the updates and people basically telling her to run.

[@ShebaMetaluna]

Story 1's op is just sus af Story 1 update. Yep still super sus, glad that the ex fiance was able to escape.

[@socialmoon]

Hey, first OP, you don't get to be 'reluctant to let her go'. If she wants to leave, you accept it & move on. She's not your belonging.

[@hvymax]

Moving into a CAR with someone you hardly know!!!

[@viktoriak4332]

Did i hear this right? The first thing OP does when he gets home is come to his friends room and tell her about his day? On top of that shuts his girlfriend out while doing so! And we arnt sopost to think something going on, ok.

[@petofthecentury2802]

The going into her room “right away” thing is fucking batshit. How can he not see how that is weird as hell.

[@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon]

Loving the new backgrounds, Markee!

[@soCyberWasTaken]

Another Markee video to make the work day that much better!

[@jakemarie828]

People who cheat on their betrothed: why? Why marry? Why plan a wedding while sabotaging the marriage? Poly is an option people stop doing this plz

[@Mglay556]

Story 1: I think that woman is the baby momma to the original poster and that baby is his.

[@kf338]

Most likely. Something was going on

[@BigRed1595044]

That guy is an emotion abuser

[@nousernamesarevalid]

I want. I want. I want. Even without the financial abuse, he doesn’t care for her.

[@kateemma22]

Cheaters that are like 'I cheated because you didnt pay enough attention to me'... what are you? A Tamagotchi? Do you die if I ignore you for three hours? Grow up, you're an adult, entertain yourself! Binge Netflix or pick up a hobby like a normal human.

[@carlrood4457]

6 months is way to early to move in with someone, even worse when it includes relocating to a place you have no friends/family and aren't financially secure.

[@sarahm9209]

Am I the only one that’s super upset that he’s willing to give up one of his dogs of the bonded trio to his ex-wife cheated on him? I was like let her take her horse and you keep those dogs.

[@surrealistgirlx]

Will definitely be adding basket of assholes to my vocabulary 😂😂😂

[@atlenvy5278]

First story honestly sounds like she's home sick. I was like that when I came to el paso from LA for the first maybe 4 months? Haven't seen the rest yet

[@khughes9574]

To the Ex GF of the OP: Your (ex) BF trying to keep you there/being controlling: I believe this behavior is called hedging one's bets.

[@ScragsP22]

Ummm….she should’ve gone to a neighbor and asked them to call the police so she could leave. Everything he said made it clear that she wasn’t free to leave. That’s called kidnapping. He had zero intention of letting his way of paying for his apartment/life get away under the guise of “needing” to be there to care for her as she is handicapped with no where to go. This guy is a psychopath and was taking advantage of her on top of physically kidnapping her/holding her against her will. He should be in jail!

[@kazzuo32]

#1 this is weird. What is with that "didn't let me break up" Nope is like "I'm out bitches" it sounds like he wanted her around for the stable income.

[@ajillofmanytrades8638]

He needs to learn to put boundaries on his job, communicate and pay attention to his partner or this will keep happening in future relationships.

[@invisigoth510]

Story one: he thinks her friends are sketchy because they live in HUD housing? Dude, you were living in your car before you moved in with your friend. The people in HUD housing are in their own homes

[@TarynBell]

Story 1: OP is delusional. He comes home and goes into this other woman’s room and stays there all day? Absolutely not. He’s not fully telling the truth about everything

[@HonorWillow]

Story 1: I agree with you because he and the friend ignore her, but I'm also not on the girlfriend's side. Asking for help isn't a romantic gesture (written pre update) After update: don't trust anything the abuser says. Poor girlfriend. Original OP is gross

[@ManyMonstersMedia]

Thank you Aussie Hubby ❤😂

[@owl7072]

Story 2: "I want to be with you so much 🥺" Then why are you going through with an engagement to someone else 🥺

[@LunaP1]

Oh. Markee gettin spicy brings me joy.😂

[@commiewhacker4033]

Woah. It's been awhile since hearing "Aussie Hubby:

[@theflyingace611]

Dude's cheating for sure, he's doing his fair share of housework, babysitting, and moving a chair. Might as well be a full on affair.

[@11darkraven11]

Return of the Aussie hubby!

[@carlrood4457]

What are the odds he actually IS the kid's dad?

[@mayaya1613]

What happened to the time stamps? :o

[@dominicwehrmann8515]

She asked to move a chair? That audacity! What a crazy beach, how dare she

[@randomusername3873]

He also ate another woman cooking! Like the guy has problems, but the girl does too A lot

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

I mean... considering the three updates. A lot seems to have been left out, even with updates. I'm not so sure the gf was entirely wrong. It seems like neither one of them needed to be in a relationship. Certainly not with one another

[@browniewin4121]

1) OP is an idiot for dismissing his girlfriend's thoughts and feelings on this matter as he is prioritizing his "friend" rather than his girlfriend. YTA. If he cares about his girlfriend he would leave there with her instead of playing house with the friend. What a selfish idiot. After update from the girlfriend: Good for the girlfriend getting away from this awful guy. He just wanted her for the added income and convenience and treated her terribly. What a schmuck. Congrats to this X girlfriend for not wasting any more time on this guy. 2) Oh my gosh, how terrible to learn at this point that the person he was about to marry was cheating, but better now than later. Obviously OP is wrong about "We never lie to each other." It's time to give her the boot since she is a lying, cheating, deflecting, person. He should immediately stop supporting her, she should take what is hers and get out. OP can decide if he wants to stay where he is or sell. I would suggest not making that decision when there is so much turmoil. After update: It seems OP realizes he did nothing wrong, and could not fix issues in the relationship that were not brought to his attention. Girl friend is just not a quality person with whom he should ever want to be. I think OP is handling this well and being more than reasonable, except he is engaging in conversations where she tries to spin her actions and blame OP, time to not let that happen.

[@AllistorMichelle]

story 1: with the added info of you going into the friends room to chat and excluding the gf yeah friend is trying to steal you op. its a red flag. never exclude the gf in favor of being alone with another woman\man. your gf is voicing her concerns and you're not listening

[@gailooo1895]

Story 2 - I would protest the 50/50 on the house…he hinted that he was paying for everything. It’s not like she was a stay at home mom to his kid. So in that case. How much did they each put down on the home. Did they each pay the mortgage 50/50 or one paid all utilities and taxes or other stuff to equal the mortgage 50/50. She already owes him $5000.00. She would also be responsible for half though technically she cheated she should be responsible for all wedding debt. This is no longer a relationship this is a business negotiation. Finish and end it the quickest way possible bc living together while doing this will be horrible.

[@sfsin3380]

For the house it generally don't matter in a lot of places if she put any equity money in and especially if she is on the deed the courts will split ownership 50/50 and because they aren't married yet the courts won't/can't force fairer deal threw. Way too many expensive drawn out court battles if Op doesn't accept that and take the loss. Where I live there's a local former couple who wound up in a situation like this neither will take the loss and so have spent over a decade spending far too much money trying to be sole owner while the house rots. The divorce process is awful to go threw but it's like that for a reason and nothing make that clearer than a situation like this and that local former couple. PS Never ever ever take rent from your SO on a property you solely own without consulting a lawyer. Odds are much higher that you live somewhere with the above rules and because you generally can't legally rent to someone your seeing romantically that "rent" will be viewed as equity payments. It's just not wort the risk. Don't do it!

[@OGK-1414]

I enjoy your commentry

[@TheDarwinProject1]

Disabled under 50, have an avg benefit of just under the poverty line (which is well below minimum wage & subterranean compared to a "living wage"). Many are homeless because even HUD housing (30% of income) is more than people can afford. Its often the case that we (disabled under 50), especially women, have to live in emotional & physically abusive homes to avoid the streets, where even worse harm could come to us. The threat of being kicked out or being separated from assistance animals (cats, for example) is always hung over our heads. I'm not at all surprised by the 1st story. I'm glad she had the funds to afford a hotel & travel expenses to a friend who could house her. It can take years to find a HUD home, though. In my county, its an average of 7 years waitlist, WHEN the waitlist is even open to apply. I wish her all the luck in the world.

[@mikehilbert9349]

Story 1: My GF thinks I am involved with my friend, I dont know why, oh, BTW, in my freetime I hide in my friend's room with her and we ignore my GF. Ya, the gf sounded nuts until the edits.

[@BurningheartofSILVER]

… “Aussie Hubby”? Me: Mom! I’m married and I’m getting on a flight to Australia to live with my Aussie Hubby! ✈️🌏

[@gcarr1089]

Homeless story - OP had me thinking gf was in wrong until he said he spends private time alone with single mum. He wants gf then move now a small flat or bedsit alone would be better. Gf is right single mum is after OP

[@pattsdannys6316]

Why are there no time stamps anymore in the description below the video?

[@Markee]

I’m trying out different things to make chapters work on my channel again and todays upload actually worked finally. 🙃 will add time stamps back to this one tomorrow.

[@wildfyah]

Was he trying to hold her hostage for any disability benefits?

[@sleepingkirby]

Story 1: Of course the OP's ex can do whatever she feels makes her happy. But I feel like there's something missing from both sides of the story. There's a few things that OP said that makes perfect sense (helping his single mom friend with household stuff because being a single mom can be tiring) and other's that doesn't (how a few days turned into months). But there's a few things that OP's ex said that doesn't make sense either ("He can just live with her for all I care." But also "He needs me to find a new place." These two are in direct contradiction to each other.). If I had to give a judgement, I would lean towards, their relationship was never going to work out. OP's ex is obviously the jealous type. OP is obviously can't his ex the attention she needs. I think everyone sucks a little here. I feel like if they had all just sat down together and talked it would, it would have reached a better conclusion. But it also sounds like none of them trusts each other enough to do that. My motto is, if you can't trust someone, don't get in bed with them (metaphorically and literally).

[@jdd9993]

If OP's girlfriend is so concerned about where they live, she should get a decent job and help them get a place to live. However, OP should make an effort to spend more quality time with her. Personally, I think OP is just using both of them.

[@xlr8436]

Does anyone know why so many accounts are “ThrowRA” as opposed to “ThrowAway” or something similar?

[@kf338]

If you make a new account for posting in relationship advice you it needs to start with throwra so it doesn’t get deleted. I think it is kind of silly

[@khushitiwari1147]

Where did you get the background, it's dope 👍

[@maureenheffernan5843]

There are so many red flags

[@cjandauntieyaya1446]

Story 1: Doesn't matter if OP was wrong or his GF. Either way they should break up. The whole situation sounds toxic. Plus, the trickle truth edits kind of send up red flags that OP is actually the wrong one here who is trying to change the narrative to make him the "good guy". However even if he IS one, he needs to let her go. She's not happy and doesn't like the relationship dynamic. IMO they are totally incompatible and OP sounds codependent. Also, there's a hint that he's using her disability check to help him buy his own place and I'm wondering if he'll put her name on the lease/mortgage.

[@fufufuaru]

wait i think i just heard about story 1 but from the girlfriend’s POV edit: oh the update was the gf’s pov lol

[@jameyregier8054]

I like the background

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Hey Markee 👋 Have a good night 👍 Have a great day/night everyone 👋🤗

[@GalliaUchiha]

First story, everyone sucks. Don't ignore your partner. Who the fuck gets home and goes to someone else's room to be private? What kind of friend ignored your partner? Edit: glad the fiancée left and didn't get trapped in that abusive relationship.

[@Asmodiusempire]

Dude my wife has all my attention when I get home op was the jerk here glad she left

[@imsleepy6211]

Heads up that disabled people tend to be victims of abuse - especially in relationships. People really think the worst in us and it’s easy to paint us as useless/ users. Yes some can be milking it but it’s a very small minority bc it’s too humiliating and most people won’t fall for it.

[@imsleepy6211]

Also tons of people expect their disabled partners to be live in maids.

[@draconicfeline6177]

@@imsleepy6211 and to be grateful for it!

[@imsleepy6211]

@@draconicfeline6177 yeah!! They think we should be so appreciative of their generosity of monetary care (my SSI covered my part of rent and food and I was driving them to work…) and the fact that they are sooooo good to even deal with someone like us UwU our saviors. Blech

[@JayeEllis]

She's not your fiancée anymore. Dude, you can't seriously think holding her hostage is a way forward in your relationship. She no longer consents, as is evidenced by not only her saying so, but her sneaking out during the night. You need help.

[@randomusername3873]

Story 2 Stop with this BS that the betrayed partner is somehow responsible for the cheating, is not true The cheated on person is 100% blameless The cheater is organizing a wedding while having an affair and claiming she loves someone else The other person behaviour is completely irrelevant, there is no chance of an honest relationship with a monster like that. They will cheat in any single scenario, no matter what the partner does

[@sweetluvgurl]

It’s crazy how delusional a lot of people are. Wow. Why are you engaged when you don’t even have a place to live? Priorities. Also, the boyfriend is super oblivious or just playing dumb. This is yet again why opposite gendered friendships tend to mess up relationships. Let’s not pretend one of the parties doesn’t consider things at some point

[@hagnat]

there are a lot of issues on the 1st story, from both sides. the Wife being outraged because they were sharing a house for just THREE WEEKS is bonkers! And OP clearly has issues of his own, and was trying to please the friend more than he pleased his own wife. I can't really say there are assholes on this story. Both may be suffering from mental issues due their extended time being homeless. It affects each of them differently, but it left an effect on them anyway.

[@HardcoreLevelingBaka]

It’s my birthday

[@jennieforthesox]

She cheated down... the comment is based on what? ...how he framed the story...we have no idea if he is a good or bad man...while cheating is 100% wrong it does not make him innocent in everything. If u think like this u'll just make the same mistakes in the next relationship