My Girlfriend Stole $40,000 From Me! (She Still Lives With Me)

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@Nardaa-ox3be
@Nardaa-ox3be 2 ай бұрын
If you’re a man and Dave calls you honey, the situation is serious 😢
@SpoonHurler
@SpoonHurler 2 ай бұрын
Not just Dave any southern gentleman calls you honey either you're doing something moronic or you best be ready to brawl... Or both, if are a grown man being called Honey. 😅
@zeal4god402
@zeal4god402 2 ай бұрын
@@SpoonHurler 😂😂😂first time I am hearing him call a dude "honey."
@WeeHooLIVE
@WeeHooLIVE 2 ай бұрын
That's how to know that you've just messed up, lol!!!!
@jmla29857
@jmla29857 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 best comment
@MfckingDye
@MfckingDye 2 ай бұрын
The dude on the phone call isn't all there in the head. He is clearly slow, Dave realized this, so he started speaking softly.
@joeriveracomedy
@joeriveracomedy 2 ай бұрын
She isn't the problem. Just a symptom. This guy needs a lot of help.
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 Ай бұрын
Indeed😊
@bubbajones4522
@bubbajones4522 28 күн бұрын
This is what happens when women raise boys with no male roll model.
@thesuperdingos
@thesuperdingos 2 ай бұрын
the dude can’t even handle the phone call by himself. Yet alone trusting this woman.
@zeal4god402
@zeal4god402 2 ай бұрын
😆 🤣 😂 WOOOOOOOOW
@MrMustangrick
@MrMustangrick 2 ай бұрын
Well you can’t fix stupid.
@quaithom3138
@quaithom3138 2 ай бұрын
@@MrMustangrick You don't know him, why call him stupid?
@chazzkramer7676
@chazzkramer7676 2 ай бұрын
​@@quaithom3138Think about it. Take your time, we'll wait!
@raymond_sycamore
@raymond_sycamore 2 ай бұрын
perfect prey for a female
@AviSpira
@AviSpira 2 ай бұрын
Never share account access with someone who you're not married to.
@siva47931
@siva47931 2 ай бұрын
How do you open a joint account with your kids?
@Bighomiezombo
@Bighomiezombo 2 ай бұрын
Just because you signed a paper and did a ceremony saying youre "married" doesnt magically make stuff good. A spouse can steal just as easily
@DuffyGabi
@DuffyGabi 2 ай бұрын
It took me a few years of convincing my buddy that he had to take away his wife’s access to transfer money from his business to her account! She’s something… but she can quote her favorite verses day and night.
@briangoodie3420
@briangoodie3420 2 ай бұрын
In this day and age, have separate accounts.
@ChrisV343
@ChrisV343 2 ай бұрын
@@siva47931 the topic is an idiot girlfriend, not kids.
@patriciavasara1051
@patriciavasara1051 2 ай бұрын
"I lost my job due to substance abuse", that's when this video started to make sense. Her GF has a problem too, the missing 40,000 went up her nose. Next week this kid will call again because "the friend in the background" stole another 40,000 and run away with said GF, they're both partying in vegas as I type this.
@MikeNapoli1989
@MikeNapoli1989 2 ай бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking. Drugs.
@pacluv
@pacluv 2 ай бұрын
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
@willgixer750
@willgixer750 2 ай бұрын
Meh, who knows if it was even the girl friend.....pretty good chance it just went up his own nose. Hasn't worked in months, got to be getting money some how
@roadrunner9622
@roadrunner9622 2 ай бұрын
Good point, the "friend in the background" is probably milking him too. Grifters can smell gullible & vulnerable a mile away.
@TonyCox1351
@TonyCox1351 2 ай бұрын
This guy said he hasn’t worked in 5 months and he’s a drug addiction…so how is he paying rent? Sounds like someone should check him for the “stolen” money
@kendrapratt2098
@kendrapratt2098 2 ай бұрын
“I have a low threshold for dating criminals”-George Kamel🤣
@luizcastro5246
@luizcastro5246 2 ай бұрын
lmao
@zeal4god402
@zeal4god402 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Cookieboy70
@Cookieboy70 2 ай бұрын
I actually did date criminals before, lol, made for some bad circumstances, but I survived. I remember being chased by the cops in Colombia because she was trying to score some in a bad neighborhood. The driver lost them though, but it was a wild few minutes.
@TJMoolTricia
@TJMoolTricia 2 ай бұрын
what about a smooooth criminal? ;)
@zeal4god402
@zeal4god402 2 ай бұрын
@@TJMoolTricia 😂😂😂not when they smooooothly withdraw funds
@BigRed2
@BigRed2 2 ай бұрын
If she was on account it’s not theft 😊 This is why you put nobody except your spouses on your account
@aolvaar8792
@aolvaar8792 2 ай бұрын
Account Transfer on Death, Otherwise, the Account gets locked till probate.
@PrincessLolly1
@PrincessLolly1 2 ай бұрын
He initially said she was "put on" the account. Does he have a disability, like a brain injury? Drug use can cause brain injury - with executive functioning. Why does he need all this help from friends? The guy sounds like he might be a vulnerable adult.
@PrincessLolly1
@PrincessLolly1 2 ай бұрын
Depends - put on as joint owner or as a rep to caretake the funds by the court administering the inheritance distribution? This might be financial abuse.
@zoukchata
@zoukchata 2 ай бұрын
lol dont even put your spouse on your account…
@mustangthings
@mustangthings 2 ай бұрын
This dude could benefit from TRT.
@oolala53
@oolala53 2 ай бұрын
I was impressed that Dave backed off when he could hear that this person was struggling. But he needed legal help, not Dave. This is not a budgeting problem or a debt problem.
@puclopuclik4108
@puclopuclik4108 2 ай бұрын
@@oolala53 This guy needs therapy.
@Wall2000x
@Wall2000x 2 ай бұрын
She is not your girlfriend. Get a lawyer.
@JonathanIvy221
@JonathanIvy221 2 ай бұрын
Dude is a drug addict, he can’t afford a lawyer
@suen5006
@suen5006 2 ай бұрын
Not worth it because the money is gone. She's never going to pay it back.
@Jenda-ld8dj
@Jenda-ld8dj 2 ай бұрын
@@suen5006 Correct.
@michaeltoland5170
@michaeltoland5170 2 ай бұрын
It’s gone . No lawyer will help .
@michaeltoland5170
@michaeltoland5170 2 ай бұрын
I think they both spent it . He hasn’t worked in 5 months
@mikeshaw4610
@mikeshaw4610 2 ай бұрын
Don't put a girlfriend on any account. Don't buy anything with a non spouse. Don't let her still live with her. If needed move today.
@suen5006
@suen5006 2 ай бұрын
They are both on the lease. This is why that is not a great idea.
@allydowning7697
@allydowning7697 2 ай бұрын
Bruh.....Step 1 Get her out of your house and out of your life!!! Step 2 Work on you and you only!!!
@Nardaa-ox3be
@Nardaa-ox3be 2 ай бұрын
Or he’s an active addict and she’s saying the money’s gone so his “friend”/dealer will leave them alone.
@oolala53
@oolala53 2 ай бұрын
@@Nardaa-ox3be If she's on the lease, he can't boot her.
@ericjennings853
@ericjennings853 2 ай бұрын
@@oolala53 the other guy mentioned this fact to Dave and Dave just cut him off
@carmenross1077
@carmenross1077 2 ай бұрын
Definitely
@carmenross1077
@carmenross1077 2 ай бұрын
@@oolala53yes by proving she stole money that’s one thing landlord can break a lease
@samwebster2441
@samwebster2441 2 ай бұрын
She took advantage of a clearly extremely vulnerable person. So sad all around.
@littleripper312
@littleripper312 2 ай бұрын
They're both sick people. This call really bothered me because this isn't a financial problem, this man needs serious help. He's recovering from addiction, he's unemployed, with an abusive woman. I hope he gets some help and gets better.
@OldManAndTheSeaOfTooManyCats
@OldManAndTheSeaOfTooManyCats 2 ай бұрын
I’ve heard and believe that addicts are incredibly manipulative and deceitful. Addictions almost always outstrip the addict’s means and they turn to wherever they can to support their habit.
@jamesmoody9363
@jamesmoody9363 2 ай бұрын
JOHN 14:6🙂💖
@ReceptiveKing93
@ReceptiveKing93 2 ай бұрын
😔
@jimmythegent45
@jimmythegent45 2 ай бұрын
Some men are just doomed.
@marcosct86
@marcosct86 2 ай бұрын
Feminist teachers, absent fathers, instant gratification culture
@dariuss.3500
@dariuss.3500 2 ай бұрын
U got some fathers l who are just as dumb ​@marcosct86 just like women be getting emptied l9l
@dariuss.3500
@dariuss.3500 2 ай бұрын
​@@marcosct86they might be drug addicts lol
@TyWerks
@TyWerks 2 ай бұрын
so true
@UTP504
@UTP504 2 ай бұрын
WEAK men, and simps are. This dude has a lot of issues and trauma he needs to work through, he’s a recovering junkie, she probably is too, that’s where the money went.
@daveblackman816
@daveblackman816 2 ай бұрын
Dang homie she straight up played you.
@Cqqyy54
@Cqqyy54 2 ай бұрын
A 40k play...whew. Not only would she be out but I would be on a mission to get it back. If it was $500 or 1k I would just take a L but not 40k
@raymond_sycamore
@raymond_sycamore 2 ай бұрын
Dang the black man knows
@zybard01
@zybard01 2 ай бұрын
Bro is letting himself be played. Like a woman that dates abusive BFs and wonders why she can't find better - cause she seeks those men out
@scottgoodson5132
@scottgoodson5132 2 ай бұрын
@@zybard01 Yeah, he seems like a marshmallow
@littleripper312
@littleripper312 2 ай бұрын
@@zybard01 That's a good example, its like you date an abusive person and wonder why they act abusive. The thing is though that these people including caller are often unwell and need outside help to fix their situation. If he cleans himself up he will hopefully have sense enough to say away from sick abusive women.
@autordijanaferkovic
@autordijanaferkovic 2 ай бұрын
Dave heard how polite and kind this fragile young man is, and he simply had to jump in and help him. That's why I love Dave. David, this is the beginning of your new pathway to a better life, we are all cheering for you. This will be great. Trust God and trust the process.
@greggpurviance7252
@greggpurviance7252 2 ай бұрын
Within a minute Dave knew the guy had serious issues & not just a dufus dude. Knew the only answer was serious individual help, he arranged immediately.
@redkobe5465
@redkobe5465 2 ай бұрын
Facts Dave recognized this immediately once he mentioned substance abuse. He started showing kindness. Geroge woulda kept going 🤦‍♂️
@RPisa2416
@RPisa2416 2 ай бұрын
@@redkobe5465yeah George’s sarcasm doesn’t really add any value to the situation. Getting weary of his sass
@azteca6695
@azteca6695 2 ай бұрын
​@@RPisa2416George has Napoleon complex
@RPisa2416
@RPisa2416 2 ай бұрын
@@azteca6695 oh noooo 🤣
@Mr.Rogers91
@Mr.Rogers91 2 ай бұрын
Bro this guy has his friend in the background. He cant even take hold of this phone call. Poor guy is lost.
@rare2find0918
@rare2find0918 2 ай бұрын
Along with the past substance abuse, I think he may be a vulnerable adult and she likely also has substance abuse issues (to steal and blow through 40K). I hope he gets rid of her, she certainly took advantage.
@misspiscesdreamz
@misspiscesdreamz 2 ай бұрын
💯
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 ай бұрын
Yep. And he needs to stay off computers and emails because he seems like the EXACT kind of honeypot international scammers are looking for. A cognitively challenged adult with a large inheritance
@actuallyterry
@actuallyterry 2 ай бұрын
If David cant even make this call on his own, he has bigger problems. She probably stole from him cause she thought he would be any easy target due to his past substance abuse.
@joesmith3590
@joesmith3590 2 ай бұрын
Yes he was an easy target for her lol.
@mom2collegekids26
@mom2collegekids26 2 ай бұрын
Her name is on the acct. she can legally spend that money. Since he hasn’t worked for several months, how is he certain that some of that money wasn’t spent on their rent, utilities, food and transportation?
@rr-ti2xp
@rr-ti2xp 2 ай бұрын
@@mom2collegekids26some of it might’ve certainly been, but 40k?? No.
@primekrunkergamer188
@primekrunkergamer188 2 ай бұрын
@@mom2collegekids26 nah thats 40k also she shouldnt be touching his money without asking. I dont know why this guy put her in his account though
@PepeToTheMooon
@PepeToTheMooon 2 ай бұрын
Joining accounts when you’re married is the only acceptable time to do so. Joining them while dating is setting yourself up.
@Jack-pd4ps
@Jack-pd4ps 2 ай бұрын
It can happen both ways
@Drkbardockssj
@Drkbardockssj 2 ай бұрын
@@Jack-pd4psyes but much less in one of those options
@Jack-pd4ps
@Jack-pd4ps 2 ай бұрын
@@Drkbardockssj one option comes with a payment afterwards .
@jakefranchise7463
@jakefranchise7463 2 ай бұрын
Don’t join accounts either dating or marriage. Things go south and keep your finances separate.
@TonyCox1351
@TonyCox1351 2 ай бұрын
⁠@@bobjames6622as a guy with 20 years experience in being happily married, I can’t tell you that you don’t need a lawyer, you just need to pick a good partner. Most men aren’t capable of it tho so YMMV
@elizabethdazell4426
@elizabethdazell4426 2 ай бұрын
He is an addict. That is why she was listed as the Payee. He was not trusted by someone to handle the money on his own.
@le_pepe_dale
@le_pepe_dale 2 ай бұрын
As soon as he mentioned his past substance abuse, that confirmed my original assumptions. That money’s gone and was blown on dope and she probably won’t ever get to quit before it kills her. On the bright side he’s going through this before he’s even 30 so there’s more than enough time for him.
@fauxbro1983
@fauxbro1983 2 ай бұрын
She found her simp
@mkwyche
@mkwyche 2 ай бұрын
Exactly this guy is a walking Mark
@davidglad
@davidglad 2 ай бұрын
When I saw the title I was scrolling specifically for this comment 😆 PS ouch on this caller having other baggage
@Primitive_Code
@Primitive_Code 2 ай бұрын
He's a substance abuser, not a simp.
@jarrettpierce5626
@jarrettpierce5626 2 ай бұрын
Chad has his money now lol
@jerrystauffer2351
@jerrystauffer2351 2 ай бұрын
​@front331 they're not mutually exclusive
@Rickyy_f
@Rickyy_f 2 ай бұрын
Dude at this point just accept your money is gone (past and future money) Bro has no backbone whatsoever
@misspiscesdreamz
@misspiscesdreamz 2 ай бұрын
💯
@MARINEJONFIT
@MARINEJONFIT 2 ай бұрын
ZERO.
@gabehoyer5410
@gabehoyer5410 2 ай бұрын
“And take her dog with her too” 😂
@roadrunner9622
@roadrunner9622 2 ай бұрын
The "friend in the background" is probably milking him too. Grifters can smell gullible & vulnerable a mile away.
@karenkramer3760
@karenkramer3760 Ай бұрын
Damn you're right
@michaelweyenberg6238
@michaelweyenberg6238 2 ай бұрын
Why does he have her on the account? If he's not a competent adult, the family should not have allowed him access to the inheritance.
@Nardaa-ox3be
@Nardaa-ox3be 2 ай бұрын
I think the girlfriend is the responsible adult and this active addict is trying to get access but she’s blocking him. Hopefully I’m wrong.
@fightsportspace7327
@fightsportspace7327 2 ай бұрын
@@Nardaa-ox3beso responsible that she stole $40k from him
@Nardaa-ox3be
@Nardaa-ox3be 2 ай бұрын
@@fightsportspace7327 He SAYS she stole it. She told him the money’s gone. Either she stole it, or she’s been paying for their living expenses while he’s been an unemployed addict, or the money’s still there but she’s hiding it so he won’t snort it all away. All depends on if he’s clean now.
@fightsportspace7327
@fightsportspace7327 2 ай бұрын
@@Nardaa-ox3be for her to say she doesn’t know where the money is says a lot. If she was using it responsibly why not let him know? Why lie?
@Nardaa-ox3be
@Nardaa-ox3be 2 ай бұрын
@@fightsportspace7327 Go talk to family members of crackheads and heroin addicts if you want to know why she would lie about the money. If he’s clean, then he’s telling the truth and she’s a thief. If he’s still an addict, you lie and say there’s no more money left.
@1jw298
@1jw298 2 ай бұрын
There has to be a digital trail of that money.
@amandasutherland626
@amandasutherland626 2 ай бұрын
Not if it was pulled out in cash. Vs used a debit card at the store whatever. No way to know who pulled it out in cash
@Lisi7412
@Lisi7412 2 ай бұрын
Im so happy Dave is helping him. It can happen to anyone to be on the bottom and then people need help
@Bighomiezombo
@Bighomiezombo 2 ай бұрын
This speaks about society so much. People want a partner so bad they put up with this crap
@jeep19
@jeep19 2 ай бұрын
Especially men, they're brains are filled with rocks 😂
@carolr7823
@carolr7823 2 ай бұрын
Dave was very compassionate and helpful to getting this guy back on track with his life. Hopefully he takes Dave's advice.
@gbb82
@gbb82 2 ай бұрын
A fool and his money are soon parted.
@aaronmeadows1667
@aaronmeadows1667 2 ай бұрын
He said she was legally put in charge of the money, most likely to prevent him from funding his substance abuse.
@jennetwhitney
@jennetwhitney 2 ай бұрын
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@stevengeorge8752
@stevengeorge8752 2 ай бұрын
Same here, my portfolio has been going down the drain while I try trading,I just don't know what I do wrong..
@melissamildred
@melissamildred 2 ай бұрын
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@herbertzoltan 2 ай бұрын
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@crystianadazi
@crystianadazi 2 ай бұрын
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@benildacora 2 ай бұрын
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@ajax8079
@ajax8079 2 ай бұрын
She smoked it all up, my friend.
@misspiscesdreamz
@misspiscesdreamz 2 ай бұрын
The fact he didn't break up with her with her speaks volumes! She knew he was an easy target! She finessed him. The fact she still lives there 😂 is wild. He's going to stay with her and she'll steal from him again
@dariuss.3500
@dariuss.3500 2 ай бұрын
They're drug addicts lol
@roadrunner9622
@roadrunner9622 2 ай бұрын
She's also on the lease. She isn't going anywhere. He'll probably be paying the full rent too, now that he "has money coming in."
@Primitive_Code
@Primitive_Code 2 ай бұрын
Needed John Delony on this call.
@KiLLED5639
@KiLLED5639 2 ай бұрын
in fairness, he was safe. He had his friend to help him out.
@greggpurviance7252
@greggpurviance7252 2 ай бұрын
@@KiLLED5639 dude, in defence of John when one works in mental health & abuse issues, that is a go to question that needs an answer. I know it has become funny & all, but it is not funny when you are in front of a bruised & bloody person (usually a woman but not always) on a domestic issue.
@hadenanderson563
@hadenanderson563 2 ай бұрын
Felony has waited all his life for a tagline.
@greggpurviance7252
@greggpurviance7252 2 ай бұрын
@@hadenanderson563 yah, that's what it is, a tag line. Sheese
@Ja50nkAt
@Ja50nkAt 2 ай бұрын
Why the F would you put your girlfriend on a bank account, there has to be receipts for withdrawals!
@BashSchroeder
@BashSchroeder 2 ай бұрын
I think theres a problem with the family that left inheritance with an admitting Addict.
@joesmith3590
@joesmith3590 2 ай бұрын
They died I don’t think it was a plan lol.
@289Mustang67
@289Mustang67 2 ай бұрын
But they made the girlfriend the "payee" (trustee)? And that didn't work out either, apparently.
@joesmith3590
@joesmith3590 2 ай бұрын
I thought she was the trustee also. But he said he got her off the account and didn’t mention lawyers and she is at the house. The whole thing is missing a lot of info. Normal for addicts to tell you the part they want only.
@BashSchroeder
@BashSchroeder 2 ай бұрын
@@joesmith3590 yeah you are not wrong no doubt
@cheriremily9360
@cheriremily9360 2 ай бұрын
@@289Mustang67 he made the GF payee which means he put her on the account.
@jayrome8245
@jayrome8245 2 ай бұрын
When dave calls you "Honey" boy u r n trouble!!!!
@Beverly-r2l
@Beverly-r2l 2 ай бұрын
❌️ Never have a joint account with someone you are not married to. ❌️ Never purchase a house with someone you're not married to.
@castlequay2327
@castlequay2327 Ай бұрын
they were renting
@MrMustangrick
@MrMustangrick 2 ай бұрын
Love it when Dave calls a dude caller “honey “.
@restandrelaxation4039
@restandrelaxation4039 2 ай бұрын
I’m gonna say drugs and parties.
@goforbroke2
@goforbroke2 2 ай бұрын
Stay away from DRUGS people. His girlfriend is a drug addict and so is he, they smoked or snorted the 40K. 😵‍💫 Damn shame.
@pinkfairydust83
@pinkfairydust83 2 ай бұрын
Really felt for this guy. He's obviously very vulnerable. I hope he gets good people around him.
@dacokc
@dacokc 2 ай бұрын
Have to wonder if substance abuse had something to do with the money disappearing…
@soni05131
@soni05131 2 ай бұрын
Awe poor guy, there's obviously more to this story.
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@mariannegirouard8746
@mariannegirouard8746 2 ай бұрын
What a shame! So sad when people do that kind of thing to one another!
@nitacollins9543
@nitacollins9543 2 ай бұрын
Dave calling him “honey” is FREAKING HILARIOUS !!!!!!!😂😂😂😂
@bloatedsodium7301
@bloatedsodium7301 2 ай бұрын
If she still lives with you, then I don’t blame her.
@lauren4078
@lauren4078 2 ай бұрын
Excuse me? So, because he's a sucker, that gives her sufficient justification to steal his money? That is so F'd.
@colmcille9669
@colmcille9669 2 ай бұрын
I do. I blame him for lacking the judgment to avoid this and to respond more decisively when it happened and I hope he learns, but I absolutely blame her entirely for being a thief and a traitor and his fault of naivety does not in any way diminish her greater fault of criminal immorality.
@Mareno33
@Mareno33 2 ай бұрын
⁠@@lauren4078 You didnt read the sentence, he meant if they still together then he dont blame her. Meaning gtfo or move on let karma do the work 😂
@Mancer1980
@Mancer1980 2 ай бұрын
No, she’s to blame, she’s clearly trash.
@lauren4078
@lauren4078 2 ай бұрын
​@@Mareno33 That's an odd takeaway from the original comment, but OK.
@iii9266
@iii9266 2 ай бұрын
I had a WIFE that went through 38k in a year (wrote bad checks). She very quickly became an EX-wife... this guy's a loser to start with and quickly going to stay that way.
@JohnSmith-gy8rc
@JohnSmith-gy8rc 2 ай бұрын
Dave is such a gentleman. Very kind and very gentle - good job Dave!
@mom2collegekids26
@mom2collegekids26 2 ай бұрын
The guy lost his job several months ago due to addiction. How long has he been clean? How much did HE spend on drugs
@mikedoyle5901
@mikedoyle5901 2 ай бұрын
Deserves every issue if he won't man up and throw this girlfriend out.
@georgeschindt1685
@georgeschindt1685 2 ай бұрын
He is lost and needs help. Men get lost too. It looks like Dave can connect him with some people can get him on the right path.
@whothou
@whothou 2 ай бұрын
Tbeir both on the lease so he really has to break it and move out.
@Success_65
@Success_65 2 ай бұрын
Once Dave calls you honey you messed up!!!
@Mike137dd-v4r
@Mike137dd-v4r 2 ай бұрын
Every time I listen to Dave's show, I feel great about my situation. My lord there are real troubled people out there.
@trvr82
@trvr82 2 ай бұрын
Of course he's from Minneapolis. That's Simp Central.
@MrMustangrick
@MrMustangrick 2 ай бұрын
Yeah just look at the mayor. Kamala suck up.
@MrMustangrick
@MrMustangrick 2 ай бұрын
Make that Governor.
@robertsquared2916
@robertsquared2916 2 ай бұрын
Every time I hear a phone call like this…… I always feel so much better about what ever problems I have.
@TCR2025
@TCR2025 2 ай бұрын
He mentioned how much money he had probably while drunk and she knew what to do.
@misspiscesdreamz
@misspiscesdreamz 2 ай бұрын
💯
@virginialangford6257
@virginialangford6257 2 ай бұрын
What makes you think he was drunk
@123___99
@123___99 2 ай бұрын
Dave brings tears to my eyes when he helps people that need it.
@FranciszekPawal
@FranciszekPawal 2 ай бұрын
Poor Guy,...Hey Dave, Wife and I are considering whether to retain $3 million in single-family rentals, we have $900,000 left on mortgages. We are now the possibility of maintaining $70,000 annual income by selling and investing in stocks and bonds.
@AnkurYo
@AnkurYo 2 ай бұрын
Real estate, while a solid investment, demands effort and lacks liquidity compared to stocks and bonds. Long-term market trends should guide decisions.
@Jennapeters144
@Jennapeters144 2 ай бұрын
The decision on when to pick an Adviser is a very personal one. I take guidance from ‘Monica Mary Strigle‘ to meet my growth goals and avoid mistakes, she's well-qualified and her page can be easily found on the net.
@AadhilaEesha
@AadhilaEesha 2 ай бұрын
Real estate isn’t as liquid as cash or cash-equivalents, or even stocks and bonds. I rather the latter. Just as you’re experiencing, real estate can be a lot of work.
@BenRovello
@BenRovello 2 ай бұрын
Strengthen other assets, consider reputable money market funds or mutual funds for emergency savings. Assess mortgage rates and allocate excess funds strategically.
@Muller_Andr
@Muller_Andr 2 ай бұрын
Please avoid "large ponzi schemes" dubbed as treasury bills and reassess the perceived safety of bonds. Engage a trustworthy financial planner for prudent decision-making.
@chuladina
@chuladina 2 ай бұрын
Big lesson to learn here I went thru that myself same age... don't ever feel bad or even jokingly do such a thing!
@iBryanDBrown
@iBryanDBrown 2 ай бұрын
I never realized how many simps exist in the wild.
@dariuss.3500
@dariuss.3500 2 ай бұрын
He's an addict it's funny yall comment on these but when women loses her money yall don't lol he's an addict
@iBryanDBrown
@iBryanDBrown 2 ай бұрын
@@dariuss.3500 ok then, he’s a simping addict. Hehe
@itsmekiaratee
@itsmekiaratee Ай бұрын
That’s what he gets for treating his live in girlfriend like his wife!!! Stop doing things out of order and maybe blessings would come your way instead of turmoil.
@LawfulNutral
@LawfulNutral 2 ай бұрын
Stupid tax
@JasonGroom
@JasonGroom 2 ай бұрын
She was on the account, that's not theft
@ajoyforlife1
@ajoyforlife1 2 ай бұрын
She was a payee which means she can be required to account for the missing funds. The funds were for his needs.
@pacluv
@pacluv 2 ай бұрын
Can this guy even get himself dressed in the morning by himself ??????
@robertthompson5908
@robertthompson5908 2 ай бұрын
At 2:21 Dave emasculates him by calling him “honey”. That is Davespeak for “you are not standing up for yourself in the way that a man would.” Also, I was thinking that this caller is not too bright and that Dave and George thought the same thing. This was confirmed when Dave said “there’s no one in this whole story that’s very smart.”
@KevinGonzalez33470
@KevinGonzalez33470 2 ай бұрын
Once again folks…YOU CAN’T FIX STUPID…..
@pistachiosandpopcorn7146
@pistachiosandpopcorn7146 2 ай бұрын
“I literally don’t know where you’ll be living “ lolol!
@FortuneSeek3rz
@FortuneSeek3rz 2 ай бұрын
That was an expensive lesson. It has been taught many times throughout human history.
@beloved1982
@beloved1982 2 ай бұрын
Upon reflection with him being a drug addict, we're not getting the full picture, especially as his girlfriend hasn't given her side of the story. His version is probable, but there are other possibilities to consider; to pay for their drugs (she may also be an addict) or the money may have been used for restitution towards herself and/or others. During his abuse, he may have committed crimes including theft, vandalism, public disorder, etc. Even rich people with addictions break the law. Perhaps she didn't tell him where the money went in order to protect him. I just don't think the most common conclusion in this section is necessarily the right one without all of the facts.
@c.d.willis4278
@c.d.willis4278 2 ай бұрын
Leave the weed, heroin, crack alone.
@robertperry814
@robertperry814 2 ай бұрын
To bad Delony's not on this call. Thay could have a simp-fest.
@hadenanderson563
@hadenanderson563 2 ай бұрын
Whoooooo!
@drn13355
@drn13355 2 ай бұрын
Dude needs to man up. First stop putting girlfriends on bank accounts. Second break up with scam artists. He keeps talking about all this stuff...bro just LEAVE HER.
@janeoleary8454
@janeoleary8454 2 ай бұрын
He's a friggin druggie
@kiki11974
@kiki11974 2 ай бұрын
0:48 he is a fool….
@gardengate4253
@gardengate4253 2 ай бұрын
To the caller I say respectfully, You don't need a girlfriend, You need God. He will wash you clean of the want for drugs & women. He'll make clear the path for your Highest Good. Be Blessed with inner strength, it's time for change.
@cutehumor
@cutehumor 2 ай бұрын
Simpin ain’t easy 😂😂😂😂
@richthepup
@richthepup 2 ай бұрын
Or cheap 🤣
@ST-rj8iu
@ST-rj8iu 2 ай бұрын
I call BS on her just randomly spending the money. This is all assumptions made by him. For all we know, she used it to pay things for him. He is unemployed and has a substance abuse past? He could have a spending problem and is blaming her. He needs to take her to court to find the money and where it all went, but she was on the account. Men blame women all the time on "spending too much". When it all shakes out, it was spent on rent, food, and frivolous purchases.
@brookiegremlin6660
@brookiegremlin6660 2 ай бұрын
There's something wrong with his story. A lot wrong, really. He doesn't even know how much money is "missing." He stated 30k-40k. Which is it? Why can't he figure it out? Subtraction is easy. How much is supposed to be there, how much is there now. I think she has used this account (which both their names are on) to cover their bills for the period of his unemployment. According to him, that's between four & five months, which means he realistically probably hasn't worked in at least six months.
@ST-rj8iu
@ST-rj8iu 2 ай бұрын
@@brookiegremlin6660 exactly! money goes fast when you have none coming in and time to spend what you have in the bank
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 ай бұрын
If she says "I dont know" and not "Spending on living expenses" than she is a thieving liar, but of course this incompetent adult is an unreliable narrator, so we will never know.
@ST-rj8iu
@ST-rj8iu 2 ай бұрын
@@airthrowDBT but he doesn't know either. so how can he say she is a thief? That is my point. He clearly doesn't know what time it is ALL the time. They both are not bright bulbs and they are together for a reason.
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 ай бұрын
@@ST-rj8iu If you weren't a thieving liar, why would you not say "Living expenses"? We KNOW why he doesnt know because the trust has declared him incompetent. So since she's the competent one, she knows what she spent the money on. Her not saying is because she's a theif.
@ucheofia752
@ucheofia752 2 ай бұрын
Na, he's not being honest, there's more to the story
@kanerlamar
@kanerlamar 2 ай бұрын
Huh??
@FreeAgent797
@FreeAgent797 2 ай бұрын
Right....
@percivalgooglyeyes6178
@percivalgooglyeyes6178 2 ай бұрын
Drugs
@enricopallazzo3244
@enricopallazzo3244 2 ай бұрын
Yes please
@cathyP1961
@cathyP1961 2 ай бұрын
Mental help
@steve2474
@steve2474 2 ай бұрын
Just when you think you've heard worst situation ever on The Ramsey Show Highlights along comes this guy. I can't possibly think of another call topping this one. This is sad on so many levels. I hope this guy is able to and succeeds at turning his life around.
@stephengamber6233
@stephengamber6233 2 ай бұрын
"I have a low threshold for dating criminals" !!!
@rabbitholereviews
@rabbitholereviews 2 ай бұрын
This guy deserves everything he's getting. Consider this a $40,000 life lesson.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 2 ай бұрын
Don't sign a lease with someone either
@BagsNBaguettes_327
@BagsNBaguettes_327 2 ай бұрын
Love when Dave takes calls! No one better!!! 😅
@MissDuke2012
@MissDuke2012 2 ай бұрын
When people end sentences with “right” as if everyone knows it’s correct is a red flag to me.
@trexxy9628
@trexxy9628 2 ай бұрын
This is one reason why some inheritances are best left in trusts
@kzgway
@kzgway 2 ай бұрын
Good for you to help Dave
@myfindependencejourney
@myfindependencejourney 2 ай бұрын
This guy really needs guidance. Not only he is getting his money stolen by the girl friend but he is also dealing with substance abuse. He has deeper issues.
@rebacarmack8335
@rebacarmack8335 2 ай бұрын
I couldn’t wait to hear Dave’s remarks on this one!
@ericajackson3969
@ericajackson3969 2 ай бұрын
"Tell her to take her dog with her" took me out😂. Nicely done Uncle Dave! This young man clearly needs a village or community to help him with life...
@suzettechristine8609
@suzettechristine8609 2 ай бұрын
Learning the hard. Never trust anyone with your money or joint accounts that you are not married to. You will not see that money again.
@bobmarker6812
@bobmarker6812 2 ай бұрын
" How do I get my money back?" is like asking " When do I open the parachute? " AFTER hitting the ground!
@johncameron4194
@johncameron4194 2 ай бұрын
The bank would show any withdrawals
@hadenanderson563
@hadenanderson563 2 ай бұрын
I hope this neighbor is a righteous man. I pray that good folks will rally around David.
@jakemiller4411
@jakemiller4411 2 ай бұрын
Why would you put someone you aren’t married to on your inheritance account?
@EstrellaMagnet
@EstrellaMagnet 2 ай бұрын
By the end of it I just fell sorry for him. Substance abuse is a wicked thing. I hope he’s able to get better 🙏🏾
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