My Wife Hid Money From Her First Marriage From Me

[@pm2050]

Call a lawyer and get the marriage annulled!!

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Yeah a friend of mine got his marriage annulled after a few months because she did not disclose her credit card and student loan debt.

[@sweetxjc]

@@blackworldtraveler3711that’s ridiculous why get married?

[@breanarich2901]

Couldn’t agree more, she knew and knows better and you deserve better.

[@jameslatimer4091]

Yes exactly

[@Yogastrong908]

You believe him? His story is full of holes.

[@godsdozer]

You are 23, get out NOW. It will only be more costly

[@johnwilburn]

That’s the best answer, but I hope they both fix themselves and go forward in a smart way, regardless.

[@godknowsimstupid7848]

Annulment is possibly still an option

[@tdgdbs1]

Best option.

[@stephengamber7000]

Yup. If he keeps her, he can't complain he didn't know when she does it again.

[@289Mustang67]

Well, he'll have to explain having an ex-wife to anybody else he gets serious with. Unless he decides to hide pertinent info too.

[@siggyxlegiit]

Hid money? More like hid the lack of money lol

[@BREEZYM6015]

As a guy you especially gotta hide your money after divorce. 😂

[@frequentlycynical642]

Yeah, bad title.

[@kbanghart]

​@@BREEZYM6015after divorce is too late

[@janeoleary8454]

She hid DEBT. Title is so wrong

[@MsJoyce31202]

😂

[@brandonyoung5037]

Was she married at 17 and racking up debt? Is she even 25? Was there really even a dog? I have so many questions.

[@benmoisio232]

She was married at 17 if you factor that she divorced at 25, she'd have to remarried him right away which would definitely be a big red flag too

[@smellybonk]

@@benmoisio232that was my first thought

[@mrshadenoughofallthis911]

Same! She tells one big lie, how can he trust anything else?

[@donaldjohnson-d6i]

You are right to wonder. Everything is on the table.

[@Desertbiker617]

She's not worth it. Married as teen, got divorced with that much debt? Cut the cord dude!

[@Essays4College]

Marriage is a business. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

[@zoeyredmond5501]

She got married at 17 and then immediately got into another marriage, she doesn’t know how to be an individual, let alone a partner

[@Essays4College]

@@zoeyredmond5501 The marriage is solely for financial support to her.

[@catherinewilke5583]

I can’t believe they are telling him to clean her mess. Dude, run away, this girl is a liar and a cheat. She played you like a violin.

[@stevenporter863]

Ya, no way! He doesn't even have the money to. He isn't even a banker, maybe works in a bank branch but more like a teller that hands you receipts at $23 an hour.

[@tonyngo9200]

If the roles were reversed they would tell her to run bare feet and never look back

[@JoeMattitas]

Yes, more terrible advice from Dave Ramsey. If the roles were reversed he would say to the woman "run!" The wife is a deceitful liar and that isn't going to change. The church can't fix bad character

[@tonyngo9200]

@@JoeMattitas Over looks the fact she is divorced, a thief and a out right liar but lets try to fix her at church..probably not her first "fix me up" at church

[@kaythegardener]

@@JoeMattitas Dave always pushes the church angle as first go-to, rather than give strictly secular advice like most other financial counselors. Sometimes it works, but many times it is irrelevant!!

[@JonSnowsGhost]

Hold on. She’s 25. And she just married this guy.. but she was married for 8 years before that?

[@skonew]

I caught that too lmao. Plus, even if the caller only has been married to her for 3 months, that means the girl was prob 24 when they got engaged. How did they gloss over the fact that she was probably married at 16

[@lmgam]

🤦🏻‍♀️

[@lmgam]

@@skonew yes, this!👆🏼

[@BREEZYM6015]

I'm much older so it wouldn't work out between me and her. 😂

[@Bees-knees99]

🤢

[@prwashin1]

Don’t waste your time with counseling, she’s showing you exactly the person she is! She’s drowning and waited for the right moment to pull you down with her.

[@tonyngo9200]

Exactly! she not marriage material as you can tell from her successful first marriage

[@girlygirl1890]

@@tonyngo9200 and her lying.

[@kaythegardener]

Get a very tough lawyer ASAP -- you might be able to even get an annullment on grounds of extreme financial fraud!!

[@Catlady8]

Counseling just buys them time until the next f-up you find out about. They will just find more deceptive ways of hiding their failures & they’ll gaslight and blame them on you.

[@JohnOBryan]

Forget marriage counseling. Bro you need to run as fast and far away from her as you can get.

[@dlghtfl1]

Dave needs to wake up with this counseling thing. Most churches won't offer counseling, nor should you take it if it's offered. You need to go to someone who has the credentials to understand what's at play and that disqualifies the church crowd.

[@michelpierre3153]

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[@henrymartino4283]

It’s the same talk everywhere but no one is saying how to get started?

[@michelpierre3153]

I work with a *Financial adviser;*

[@michelpierre3153]

*Donald Nathan Scott.*

[@henrymartino4283]

How do I reach him ;

[@michelpierre3153]

You can reach him by searching this names 👇

[@sarashain9884]

Caller is not listening to what Dave is saying - the marriage is in default way deeper than finances. DO NOT HAVE A BABY TO FIX MARRIAGE!

[@oneisnone7350]

That’s not hiding money, that’s hiding debt.

[@Vydio]

It is being deceptive. There are a number of calls to Dave over the years regarding people who were not forthcoming about their financial situation.

[@joycew.6531]

ya that's what thought too

[@DericAnslum]

​@Vydio ...right...deceptive about debt NOT money...as the OP said...

[@AnneCaulder]

Lying about debt. Because he said they discussed finances prior to marriage.

[@debbie7771]

The divorce rate for 2nd marriages is almost 67%.

[@djpuplex]

She's gonna get money from him too. That's how these women operate. The future ex husbands are a come up a investment they cash out at some point. The man married for love the woman married for a lifestyle and resources. The women will make every excuse for this look at the comments.

[@aolvaar8792]

Serial Divorcers

[@BREEZYM6015]

What about for 5th marriages? 😂

[@ugabuga1361]

Ya. A divorced girl is the biggest red flag. Not only is she not a virgin, she decided to have a wedding at at the first chance she said “im not happy” so eff that better for worse quote.

[@dreadpiratewestley8599]

@@djpuplexMen are in love and women are in business. 😂

[@Kysen10]

3 months, just get the marriage annulled.

[@tonyngo9200]

Right now hes "in love". Its the honeymoon stage and she is his everything...dont bother

[@Themoomabides]

This guy is not very bright. Sounds like they bonded over making $23/hr and got married after the first date.

[@random-nz7dy]

😂😂😂😂

[@Blessedandhighlyfavor]

Yup he put his emotional before his brain and felt really hard 😂😂

[@barbthegreat586]

She didn't hide money, she hid her debt. Get annulment.

[@alladreamwedreamed]

Deception is the perfect justification for filing an annulment. DO IT SON. She's playing you.

[@Jericho9696]

Bro is still defending her until the end of the call lol simps gonna simp

[@acd1168]

That’s his wife. That’s what people do with their spouse.

[@terriesmith2616]

​@@acd1168 Not if the spouse was being deceptive. If the spouse lies to you, you don't have to defend that spouse.

[@random-nz7dy]

Lol Dave trying to hold his laughter in at 3:09 and then "Oh Geezus" a few seconds later when this guy said he was a banker Looooool 😂😂😂😂

[@laserbeam-fx9qv]

This nieve boy is getting played... Son, you need to cut your losses divorce this woman and run. Especially if you don't have any kids with her yet.

[@drjlrust]

"Naive" -- but I agree totally with your advice to the caller!

[@tonyngo9200]

ATM until she decides he is.. abusive lol

[@pamsmith1665]

What is a nieve boy?

[@Mrjozz011]

She sounds like she likes getting screwed 😜

[@CokefishR]

@@pamsmith1665 just google it, man

[@JonathanIvy221]

Delony: are you safe right now 😂😂😂

[@JohnShreve-hw8zm]

@@JonathanIvy221 lolol yes

[@firefly9838]

Her thighs keeping his body safe and his mind off💀

[@girlygirl1890]

@JonathanIvy and...I want you to write her a letter, and then...hold her face close to yours and say "I love you...🤣🤣😂😂

[@todd2324]

"She wasn't honest with you... Have you grieved that?"

[@landshark7684]

“I want you to take yourself out to breakfast every Friday asking for forgiveness that you couldn’t go back in time and save her” 😂😂

[@robertthompson5908]

Caller tells Dave the dog died and Dave cracks up.

[@kendrapratt2098]

Because it’s like a country song, as he said

[@BREEZYM6015]

​@@kendrapratt2098I'm gonna write one just for this caller. 😂

[@dougholdem2898]

I did too! I laughed even harder when he said he's a banker!

[@reese85]

@dougholdem2898 why did you laugh harder at him being a banker? Being a banker could’ve meant anything

[@Fred2-123]

@@dougholdem2898 At $23/hr he is not a real banker--he is a bank teller. Glorified cashier.

[@PriestessHephzibah]

Calller: the dog died Dave Ramsey:😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@GinaBrittCo]

☠️

[@gessrinky9129]

I thought he was gonna say it was repoed too😅

[@pamsmith1665]

I think it was the irony of being in debt for the dog who has now passed

[@PriestessHephzibah]

@@pamsmith1665 yeah, it's definitely that 😄🙈

[@thundersnow93]

She probably had a life insurance policy on the dog. lol

[@lav7161]

The dog got out just in time. RIP Doggy 🐕🐶

[@cutehumor]

23 year old simp, damn the woman trapped him

[@BabaBlueJay]

You could hear it in the voice. Dude is spineless.

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

We all know either she’s hot or she knows what she’s doing between the sheets

[@BREEZYM6015]

I wonder what she looks like. Maybe love blinded him. 😂

[@snowdogmula]

Yeah he's too immature to be married.

[@JohnShreve-hw8zm]

@@BabaBlueJaythinking the same thing…the way these grown men and women answer “yes sir” over and over again in a meek little child’s voice makes me angry 😡

[@PrincessLolly1]

He's a "banker", she's a receptionist and they both make $23/hr. I think he's a teller, not a banker. It's a track to make good money, but takes time to get there as a mortgage broker.

[@kendrickb.9043]

Caller translation : “ Yeah, yeah. She lied and hid large amounts of debt from me, but I want to talk about how she got screwed on a car loan.” … just wow

[@MisterNightfish]

Savior complex. He just sees her as this poor victim and he doesn't realise that she's graduated from victim and is now passing her hurt (in this case financial hurt) on to him.

[@robertstanley980]

@@MisterNightfish”white knight” is the current term for this kind of behavior

[@Henrythoreaureincarnated88]

This guy doesn’t sound like the sharpest tool in the shed. He has an inability to answer even simple questions.

[@frequentlycynical642]

But he's a "banker!" I didn't even know bankers were paid hourly. At best, just out of college by a year, no MBA.

[@tonyngo9200]

@@frequentlycynical642 A bank teller maybe

[@frequentlycynical642]

@@tonyngo9200 Bank teller sounds right.

[@ashleeorwin3442]

Or sounds like he's trying to lie about himself. To make himself not look stupid😂

[@kaythegardener]

@@frequentlycynical642 Does he mean a teller or someone in customer service in the back offices??

[@ZaideZaide770]

Run while you can.....3 months or your future?

[@tonyngo9200]

He is in his honeymoon stage..he just playing superhero

[@289Mustang67]

A future that would require explaining to anybody you get serious with that you have an ex. And convincing said person that you weren't the problem.

[@Patrick-x1h]

Sometimes people do that out of fear or not wanting to burden the other person with old baggage.

[@WillParffit34]

Yeah, it’s a tricky situation. My first reaction would be to feel hurt, but maybe there’s more to the story.

[@Robby767]

I can see how that would be upsetting. Trust is so important in a marriage. But maybe this could be an opportunity to have a deeper conversation about your finances and how you both see your future together.

[@Sanchyfab]

My wife and I went through something similar. We had a big talk about it, and we realized we needed to be more open about money.

[@Sanchyfab]

We even decided to work with Aaron Morgan Bell our financial advisor, to help us sort through everything and make sure we’re on the same page financially.

[@Jonesmatsunaga]

Money can be a sensitive topic, especially when it comes from a previous marriage. My husband and I had a lot of discussions early on about our financial pasts. Working with someone like Aaron Morgan Bell can really help create a safe space for those conversations.

[@USMC6976]

Ask for an annulment.

[@Tarsarian]

She's looking for a Simp to pay her bills from the first failed marriage. Chances are, the first husband left for a reason! Now you are the guy picking up the problems. Leave her now while you still can, in time she will leave you and take your assets. Don't fall for the poor victim spouse who won't take responsibility. This story has so many red flags.

[@Jim_Curtis]

He should try to get the marriage annulled. This is why men need prenups.

[@aisherwasher6959]

Unless the man is a millionaire, that is not enough debt to justify a prenup. That'd just be a waste of money

[@Jim_Curtis]

@@aisherwasher6959 The fraud she committed against him is reason enough for the prenup. Without it, she can try to stick him with half the debt the longer they remain married.

[@katydid917]

The man doesn’t have anything to lose. Why would he need a prenup?

[@apersonontheinternet8006]

@@katydid917 Because in another 5 or 8 years he might be well into his career and have things to lose.

[@Jim_Curtis]

@@katydid917 He has nothing to lose if he gets the marriage annulled or divorce her now. If he stays married, he could suck with half her debt if it becomes marital by him helping her pay it off. This is why Ramsey advice on marriages is stupid.

[@FrankS111]

Can’t save a simp from being a simp 🤣🤣🤣

[@gooserich3970]

That "she did sir" at 0:41 had so much hurt, distrust, and panic all in a one second response

[@MichaelGillespie-MG]

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[@MichaelGillespie-MG]

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[@PickeringDeets]

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[@PickeringDeets]

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[@milakuzmanic3313]

Gabriel can not be helped until he's willing to wake up to reality. He is in for a LOOOOOOT more pain just to admit to himself what is the truth before anybody can help him.

[@Doctor.Dentista]

Was she a child bride? These numbers are confusing 😂

[@kendrapratt2098]

Maybe she’s older than she told him 😳

[@rvog6584]

​@@kendrapratt2098sur, cause women ADD yrs. 2 their reported ages. 😂

[@Ella-Bella2024]

If she's the age he's reporting, she would have jumped out of the first marriage and landed directly into the second one. This poor guy...

[@Yogastrong908]

It sounds like he’s lying here. Way too many holes in his story.

[@firefly9838]

You can marry under 18 in many states

[@anniegreen9966]

Poor kid. He's too young to even understand how to prioritize the problems in his life. I hope he listens to Dave.

[@KathleenMcNe]

If my spouse hid his pre-marital debt from me, I would divorce him. I would have zero trust in him and would always wonder what else he's hiding from me.

[@jeanlaubenthal698]

She gets out of an abusive relationship to being the abuser.

[@beemonique8466]

That's usually how it goes either way. The abused usually turns into the abuser

[@theresamc4578]

As a Christian, I believe this counseling is better starting with a lay marriage counselor. There are a lot of past hurts/problems that are behind this breach of trust. Stay in your church, pray, and get a psychologist to help you both understand how the two of you got into this marriage which seems to have happened after a short courtship. Money is not your biggest problem.

[@danieljohnson4418]

Failure to disclose material information is not lying (unless opposing representations are made); it is fraud.

[@Kaktus965]

Maybe. But the term “lies of omission” is definitely applicable here.

[@tonyngo9200]

Pretty much..this guy made his life harder in less than 3 months lol

[@thundersnow93]

Oh, you mean like all the bought and paid-for democrat supporting media these days?

[@frequentlycynical642]

Ditch her. She's dishonest. When I was engaged a few years ago, she and I laid everything out. A couple can't move forward well w/o total transparency.

[@laundrygoddess4]

Do not get counselling from your church. Get it from someone independent

[@UsernameUnkwn21]

100 %

[@sweetxjc]

He should do both.

[@airthrowDBT]

The Churches are filled with simps who coddle women far too much and don't hold them to biblical principles of THEIR responsibilities, but they sure demand men provide and break their damn backs

[@RandomVids519]

The dog died this is a country song😂😂😂😂

[@watervillegangmember]

No. Don't call the church for marriage counselling. Call a professional therapist!!!!!!!!!!!

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[@Saad-m5c]

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[@Jackn-d8s]

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[@Vanzee-fb2xb]

Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately

[@newsflash7609]

If you're making $23/hr, you're not a "banker". At best, you're a bank teller. A "banker" tends to make, well, "bank".

[@Dontrolling]

23/hr for a banker thats just entry level actually lines up well. He’s making the average salary in my state for bankers with less than 4 years of experience and I live in NY. They usually don’t make real bank until 4-6 years of experience. He’s 23 he’s got some time to build that salary.

[@reese85]

@Dontrolling he’s prob just a bank teller and just saying he’s a banker as away of saying he works at a bank. My gf works at a bank and if you ask what she does for work. She’ll just say she works in banking, unless you ask what it is that she does and then she goes into full detail of her job

[@famousamos1]

@@reese85you’re wrong a starting teller earns $18/hr these days prior to 2020 tellers were paid $10/hr. A starting banker does earn $23/hr full time that’s $47,842/yr and that’s without bonuses which usually is $3k-$6k/yr.

[@reese85]

@famousamos1 I never said that was his starting salary cuz idk how long he’s been at his job for and I’m sure starting salaries are diff at diff companies and depending on his experience, which we also don’t kno

[@reese85]

@famousamos1 again! My gf been working in the banking industry for like 15 yrs and if you ask what she does for a living. She’s either gunna say she’s a banker or that she works in banking and others that I meet thru her all say the same thing. Regardless of their actual position

[@brooklynzoo81]

After the call he continued on with no fix.

[@jasonrodgers9063]

If hubby is a "banker" that makes $23/hour he's at BEST a teller, more likely the guy that loads the coin counting machine.

[@rustyhowe3907]

YUP, this guy isn't 100% legit.

[@zunedog31]

"Sounds like a country song" never laughed so hard at a Ramsey clip

[@happyinparis]

😂 My dog died and my wife ran away ...

[@BREEZYM6015]

I'm single making $28 an hour. Life is good. 😂

[@dawnfire82]

I'm happily married with four kids making $52. Life is better. KZbin is full of bitter suspicious men trashing 'modern women' and bragging about being alone. But being happily married is better. Feel like I need to say that from time to time.

[@Neddie2k]

SIMPing gone wrong. Why is a 23 years old man married and married to a woman that is 8 years married. Option 1 work until you are 30 to clear the debt. Option 2 Fill and Run 🏃‍♀️.

[@JoeRNNE1]

The title should be "My Wife Hid Debt from Her First Marriage From Me." In some states, it is easier to get a divorce (or possibly annulment) for a short-term marriage such as this. Regardless, he should end the marriage. The wife's failure to disclose this is the sort of thing which should (key word) make it impossible for him to trust her again. It sounds like the wife was looking for a financial lifeboat, not a husband.

[@spencersmith312]

When he said, “the dog died”, I fell to my knees crying I was laughing so hard!!! 😂😂😂 Literally in tears!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@alex182618]

Another perfect example of why cars should be purchased with cash.

[@johnwilburn]

A better example of why clueless young people shouldn’t get married, but yeah.

[@HanginInSF]

And women should be leased

[@tonyngo9200]

Perfect example...leave the red flags to the Chinese government

[@georgewagner7787]

I've had 5 cars ( 1 a gift dads old car) and the total was 23k. Plus a little tax on the first one

[@georgewagner7787]

Cash only!

[@alaskadurf1918]

Why would you get married to someone who is divorced.

[@vjs4539]

No dog is worth 6 grand

[@StrawberryFieldsNIR]

Might have been an old dog, and all of it vet bills.

[@sarajacobs7603]

I love when Dave looses his composure and just starts laughing

[@kleindropper]

Do a background check before getting married

[@Saveahorse82]

Don't get married.

[@buckeyedav1]

It really does boil down to that now days know their financial situation it's almost like a resume when dating today. Anna In Ohio

[@aolvaar8792]

@@Saveahorse82 What if She offers: TWO Fully survivorable Pensions and Free Lifetime Family Heathcare.

[@DeboraGonzalez-h1y]

@@Saveahorse82amen to that

[@bigpicturethinking5620]

And a foreground check.

[@reginaldbrooks2981]

Not Dave laughing at the dog!!! 😂😂

[@darkforce7387]

HE'S GETTING PLAYED😂

[@judykeown]

He is gullible. She hid the debt but he totally believes everything she says about the debt and previous marriage. He needs to get an annulment.

[@JustinBeller]

Wait a minute! What about HER? She needs to be taking on extra jobs to help clean up this mess. Nowhere in this conversation I heard about HER playing a role in clearing up the debt. She doesn't get a pass. I know they are married and this is now his problem too, but she brought it and hid it from him.

[@landshark7684]

You mean you want her to accept responsibility for herself?!?!? What kind of craziness are you talking about?? This is the Ramsey show- he should be a real man and handle her debt bc that’s what a spineless, dickless man does 🤣🤣 (all sarcasm for those of you who can’t tell)

[@diceportz7107]

Don't you just love how all these people call in that got screwed on car loans? Never do I hear that the caller made a bad deal, always they got screwed. smh

[@dawnfire82]

Modern mentality. No one is responsible for their own mistakes or situations. Everyone is oppressed or defrauded.

[@TallyDrake]

Dave wants this guy to negotiate with the collections people? He better give him a script to follow, otherwise he'll end up paying more than he owes!

[@Linkaless]

Sorry my dude, if you're saying she got screwed by the car dealer, the vet, the ex, the bank, and who ever else, you need to start looking at the common denominator, because you just caught her screwing you. She seems to really not want you to have an open dialog with her ex... abuse happens... but you caught a liar, maybe both, but you need to start asking questions before you're the 'abusive ex' to the next guy.

[@laurastrout7588]

This guy is so gullible. Wake up dude. She's bad news

[@lindawilson4625]

Caller-listen to Dave or get divorced. What she did to you is a major breach of trust. Money is not the problem.

[@westbccoast]

Basically marriage fraud if you don't declare debt before getting married. It should be part of getting marriage that you both declare finances and debt. Not everyone is financially savvy enough to ask about debt, we just assume the person has no debt which is a mistake. I admit I never asked my Ex if she had any debt, luckily she didn't, but just not something I was aware of or smart enough to ask about. Now I think I will be asking about debt on the first date or 2nd. I dated a girl for 4 years and I never want to get married again, but I just assumed she was doing ok, but found out she was at least 20K in CC debt, I had no idea until she admitted it. Basically a house of cards.

[@yakfishin4912]

If she's gonna hide money she's gonna hide way more than that

[@frequentlycynical642]

Next thing, she' be playing "Hide the Salami."

[@yakfishin4912]

@@frequentlycynical642 They are in atlanta. Oh course shes playing that.

[@frequentlycynical642]

@@yakfishin4912 The only thing I can figure your comment means is pretty racist. Am I wrong?

[@yakfishin4912]

@@frequentlycynical642 Of course you are. 🙄 It means a huge percentage of the females in this area are well known cheaters and it's to be expected. How would you get racist out of my comment anyways? 🤔

[@yakfishin4912]

@@frequentlycynical642 Of course you are. How do you get racist out of my comment? If it were not already in you to start with you wouldn't get that from what I said.

[@stephengamber7000]

She's a lying liar. If you keep her, don't complain when she lies again.

[@gillm12]

Oh oh oh i know, get the marriage annuled and let her deal with the mess she made

[@mss888]

Wake up, Young Man!!! She'll drag you down the drain......further......End it!!!!

[@SherryEllesson]

He's a "banker" making 23K? He's a TELLER at a bank! Both of them have been living waaaay the hell over their incomes.

[@Bees-knees99]

$23/hour so about $45K

[@brendand3600]

$23/hour so $45-50k/year assuming they are working full time or close to it. Pretty sad when a bank is paying their employees the same hourly wage as a receptionist.

[@demetriusheastie2166]

I heard him say $23/hr, but maybe not

[@AlorsonDanseX]

Africans love to call themselves "bankers"

[@reese85]

@brendand3600 it’s not sad if he’s a bank teller

[@EricAndradeMusic]

People really just go out and get married these days. I knew my wife for 6 years before we went to Vegas and tied the knot on a random Monday.

[@sewerrat7612]

Depends on the person works for some of us was engaged within 3 months married before 6 months. Know a few people that were engaged in less than a week and married more than 40. Only seems to work if both people are blunt and straight forward have heard some horror stories as well.

[@Chet_24]

Get divorced. Dont let her drag you down with her.

[@DennisSoklov]

I was a late bloomer, but Abby Joseph Cohen helped me bring it all together. Now retired for 6 years at 72, my managed portfolio with Abby generates about 9k a month on average more than my RMD on my retirement accounts. Not real big, but together with SS we're able to live reasonably with 160k a year. Being mortgage free was imperative.

[@vickie_hearne]

He left out the part where she's smoking hot, and he's a dorky nerd. That's really the big ole problem....sad

[@tonyngo9200]

Its his first one..She touched him and he fell for her spell...and she dusted the dirt off her shoulders

[@airthrowDBT]

Yep. She was turned on by the abusive ex badboy and she ran to her betamale simp provider and got married fast expecting him to fix her problems...then she would start witholding the seggs from him because she was never attracted to him in the first place. Then she will tell everyone he's not "emotionally available" and blame him for her plan from day 1.

[@auctevia]

Yes get the marriage annulled . This will lead to your demise and major headaches

[@niveknospmoht8743]

My question is what else is she not telling him

[@OverlandUnderground]

Run. Run far. Run fast.

[@Hdhfhhdh]

Run forest run !!

[@Yogastrong908]

I want to hear her side of the story. It’s obvious something is missing here.

[@user-qj6vg9uv4s]

I'm 37 and never been married. I have no kids. A great job and I own a house. I have zero debt and I am happy that I skipped that step and yes, I am extremely happy.

[@samer_alawad]

-Where is the dog? -The dog died 😂😂😂😂

[@christopherstimpson6540]

Most men don't know the legal and financial obligations of marriage. There should be a class on marriage and respinsibilies in high school. Even police officers get caught in this legal web as most are not familiar with civil laws related to marriage.

[@GAFB1122]

Gimme a break. If I don't know something, I seek out information and learn. That's what men do. Boys whether they are under 18 OR over 18 are too busy playing X-box than to seek information. Never forget, this is the digital age and information is available and you can access it much easier than those who grew up in the 50s thru the 90s. I have to add, why does it seem that as machines get smarter, humans get dumber, lol. Again, I don't need to be handheld to at least start to seek information and learn.

[@Ella-Bella2024]

Women, too.

[@clarifyingquestions]

Husband sees wife as a victim - so he excuses and enables her. Good Luck with that Caller. Hope you listen to Dave - the problem is the LIE not what she lied about. It will keep on repeating as long as you think she is a victim and you enable this.

[@rustyhowe3907]

Yup today it's debt, tomorrow it's who's the daddy of his kids.

[@hjrogers]

Sometimes, you have to just cut your losses. Maybe can get an annulment for a three-month marriage. “Bankers” aren’t paid hourly wages any more than doctors are, but bank tellers are. A woman is 25 and was married for seven years. She is just a bag of bitterness at this point. She was a bad choice. This guy obviously had limited mating choices. He’s better off continuing to go solo than couple with trash.

[@GAFB1122]

LOL he is 23 and clearly doesn't know what he is talking about. I expect he is a bank teller but used the word banker.

[@bushmonster1702]

Getting married is Russian roulette.

[@stevengonyaw1617]

WORSE !!

[@MarkL-we8uk]

No. 1 reason people lie - they fear being punished for telling truth...

[@aaronmurphy8796]

Why do these people always say they got screwed on their car loan . Sometimes yes there’s stories where thI dealer sold it for wayyy wayyy over the market value to someone not wise enough to check. But it you sign a higher interest loan for a car because you want it …you did a bad deal . They didn’t screw you

[@markindy862]

If you are not religious, you may get marriage counseling. Not all churches/ministers are able to provide proper counseling.

[@warrensloan3467]

How long is the window for annulment?

[@rvog6584]

Wise question. Presumably varies by jurisdiction. Fortunately it neva came up as an issue in either of my marriages. 🙃

[@deancoronado4898]

"Sounds like a country song" just about laid me out laughing!

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

Can’t trust anybody nowadays

[@Jaycv-dq3rg]

He need divorce her

[@FirstLast-fc7dt]

@@Jaycv-dq3rgbut the lemon must be worth the squeeze😮‍💨😂

[@Msteve-nt5bx]

Annoying when people think yes and no answers are good enough when calling in...

[@dave2278]

Very little integrity these days 😢

[@Bees-knees99]

Wait - if my math is right, she was married the first time around age 16? Is this 1950??

[@aisherwasher6959]

Child marriage is still legal in quite a few US states 😅

[@Bees-knees99]

@@aisherwasher6959 highly disturbing that no one batted an eye about child marriage but $70,000 debt is the big deal? This whole situation is messed up.

[@reese85]

@Bees-knees99 nobody prob batted an eye cuz it’s not illegal and prob more common than we think

[@Bees-knees99]

@@reese85 that’s the disturbing part - that it’s legal. Even so, it’s disturbing if parents gave permission at that age.

[@reese85]

@Bees-knees99 I’m pretty sure that kind of stuff is big in certain cultures

[@Jenskem]

Man needs to man up and confront her up close and personal , quit protecting her and falling for her victim card . Toughen up and walk away 3 months , all the time in the world to get out with no problems .

[@frostgfx]

Divorce or annulment...