MY HAIR LOOKS HEALTHY BUT IS RUINED ‼️BIG CHOPPING AGAIN 😫

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[@rosieamelia5955]

Hey guys so I have mustered up the courage to do the big chop. My stylist did share some gems with me . My stylist keeps saying my hair grows fast so I decided I will stay the course and see how quickly my hair really grows. I am grateful that I have a very kind stylist, she comforted me through this process and made sure to be transparent with me what my journey moving forward looks like. I had the question today, that since I had been deep conditioning for some time, why is my hair still damaged? My stylist said really shaving my hair is the only way to remove all damage. The reality is damaged hair isn’t going to instantly get like new growth healthy hair. Once it’s damaged it’s damaged. My deep conditioning routine was to help with manageability of the damaged hair and keeping the new growth as healthy as possible. After stopping the gels I could really see the condition of my hair. I want to make it clear that my hair even though damaged will still look beautiful it’s very interesting. I have been incorporating deep conditioning, leave in conditioner and k18 once a month after finding those horrible split ends in April of this year. My entire journey is documented on my channel. Hopefully my experience will be helpful . I am very excited to start my journey, it won’t be perfect but I will share my ups and down in hopes of helping another curl friend. My hair is not perfect, and I am honestly kinda scared to see what happens when I wash my hair 😳.

[@Neesha242]

What made you stop using gels? I stop using them as well. Easy build up and I like to moisturize my hair everyday

[@AfrikanHairGod]

I know it really sucks but you are working this short Bob! I agree with your stylist on easing up on the protein 👍

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you 🙏, for being so supportive . Listen my stylist gave me some guidance.

[@SheReaDelSol]

Dang, this cut is FIRE, but sorry things had to happen like this. It's only up from here.

[@rosieamelia5955]

I appreciate that. Yes only up from here

[@camillecarr-yb3ln]

The same thing happened to my hair. I followed the bgc method for wash and go for 2 years. Got my cuts every 3-4 months. My hair always looked good. But my hair didn’t retain length and actually broke off in spots. I didn’t use leave ins or deep conditioner because I was conditioning weekly. And now I’m on the same journey trying to repair my hair. My hair was extremely dry after following them for 2 years. I really wanted to hear their solution when a couple of you came forward but that never happened. Oh well you live and learn. Thank you for sharing

[@rosieamelia5955]

I am so sorry. They are still defending this method and blaming clients. Most of us just needed to implement a clarifying shampoo

[@ohemmaAna]

Same, I was on a very consistent routine. I will say their methods really improved my shampoo technique and how I wash my hair. But, my hair was chronically dry and I retained no length in a year! So going back to DC treatments more often and using leave in again. I also prefer not to use raw oils but a light weight serum. Less wash n gos, and stretching my hair with twists/braidouts, cuz the single strand knots were crazy

[@farmerz97]

I definitely loved BGC. I learned to do my hair quickly. However I started to experience a lot of hair loss. I realized it was due to dryness. When on BGC lives, they would attribute breakage to how people were detangling. My red flag was they didn't do any self reflection and adjusting. They just double down. I still think they style nicely. I love the curl products they recommend. They are not good at haircare long term.

[@Mande30]

Same here. I was amazed and hooked by how quickly I would get through my “wash hour”. I’m back to wash HOURS, my hair thanked me.

[@rosieamelia5955]

🙈, your comment 🤣🤣🤣. Listen it was never no wash hour 👀!

[@rosieamelia5955]

🚩🚩🚩🚩, listening BGC action speaks. I have tons of women who have are too scared to speak but have extensive damage. Hopefully one day they will speak their truth.

[@brittanymilgan]

Those BGC people are ruining peoples hairWith their bad advice. Initially all the most people I saw who started the method, I thought their hair looked healthier and better before no oils and butters movement. The stylist still refuse to be honest about it

[@rosieamelia5955]

They will never be honest, it will always be the client who somehow did something wrong 😞

[@simplyshadrika]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us Rosie! It wasn’t until I saw your video about the damage and Shelly’s video that I started to connect the dots to why my hair was feeling so brittle and not holding my wash n go sets anymore and then realized it was from that method 😕. I’m so happy I found your channel and Shelly’s because now I can get my hair back in order. I know now for my hair that deep conditioning, leave ins, and formulated oils are a must ❤

[@rosieamelia5955]

I am happy our journey was able to help. Yes all that you mentioned is important for our hair.

[@adwoamk8918]

I have such mixed feelings about the BGC method because I learnt some valueable things on the other hand the state this method has left my hair, I almost wish I never heard of BGC. Even when my hair was neglected it was not this bad. Unfortunately I just can't see myself doing a big chop, although I will be trimming. The worse thing about BGC is how they made their followers feel like their experiences were invalid and wrong. Smh. If I listen to my own intuition I would have tweaked things sooner rather than later which may have meant may hair completely recovering.

[@rosieamelia5955]

I so sorry. The message to wash the hair is definitely valid. My impression is that the method was an experiment. They were receiving quite a bit financial from having so many women participate unknowingly that they were damaging their hair. They were also smart to dismiss and cast doubt on any concerns we may have had. Yes I had concerns and when I discussed them with my stylist I was given answers that didn’t make sense but again I am not a professional so against my best judgement I followed their instructions. My damaged could have been prevented. Listen please don’t beat yourself up about not listening to your intuition, I wish you the best in your hair journey.

[@ohemmaAna]

I don’t know what’s in the air but the girls have been needing a reset this past month 😅 me included. I’m excited to start this journey again, this time I’m focusing on fixing my dry hair problem, doing DC treatments and incorporating leave in again.

[@rosieamelia5955]

🙌🏾 I hope you success on your new journey.

[@shelly.v.247]

You look absolutely beautiful Rosie but what’s new??!! 😍 Although I love this cut on you I’m sad that you had to cut more of your hair off especially twice in 1 week! 😓 However, I’m with you, I want healthy hair. I don’t care how much I have to cut to get there either. Also, I hope everyone following understands that this process takes time. The only way to get instant healthy hair again is to shave your head. Other than that you gotta go slow and steady. Anyway, I appreciate you sharing your journey with us. I can’t wait to see where your hair is a year from now! 🙌🏽😍🥳

[@rosieamelia5955]

😊 thank you

[@Ag13463]

Beautiful you killing this look. Your hair looks amazing I must say. I am here to support and see you grow some healthy hair 🎉

[@rosieamelia5955]

😊 thank you

[@michelleej]

End papers! I can’t roll my hair without them. I’ve been wrapping my off and on since the 90’s. It takes practice. Be patient ☺️

[@rosieamelia5955]

😁, yes I have been using them forever. The new ones I got though are not as good as the ones I had before the rip very easily.

[@SimplyTamz]

You look amazing Rosie ❤… I’m so glad you were open about your issues Rosie. I was committed to the letter of the BGC method and it left me with a big chop as well. I know the cut was not planned but I can’t wait to see how you pivot from this whole mess. 😊

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you!!❤️

[@Finetextureglow]

If you love aesthetics go for the BGC method, if you want actual length retention and health stay far away from it...i will always die on this hill !

[@rosieamelia5955]

🙈 yes exactly.

[@tracispaulding9376]

Blessed to have a knowledgeable and kind stylist! That’s gold these days ❤

[@rosieamelia5955]

Wow, thank you! Yes she is amazing. I am so thankful

[@ossier2796]

New year coming up and a new journey. Can’t wait to see your results.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you. Yah to healthy hair journey for all my curly friends 🙂

[@tiffanydaneen]

That cut is banging you look beautiful! Before you know it your hair will be back if long hair is your goal again 😊

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you, 🙏

[@esthertjones]

Sorry that you've had to cut it so short 😔 But hooray for the journey back to healthy long hair!

[@rosieamelia5955]

Yes I am excited but scared to see what my hair will look like once I wash it👀

[@adaobieshi4297]

I had the same issues and cut all of my hair off to a fade. It’s growing back out and I’m realizing the Velcro ends are coming back. It’s because I still wasn’t deep conditioning and using a leave in. I’ve got at least 4-5 inches of hair all around now and I’m getting it pressed, cut and trimmed tomorrow. Gotta nip this in the bud now before I lose all the inches I grew this year. I’ve started using a gentler shampoo and I can already feel a difference

[@rosieamelia5955]

I hope your hair cut went well. I am sorry for your experience. I am excited for all my curl friends to grow beautiful hair. Who would have taught we would all be wearing TWA after these professionals take over and said all these years we were doing something wrong . I am back to basics listening to my hair, getting my trims and asking my stylist questions when I need help.

[@Zigzagnaturalcurl]

Yes Goodie!! Hair look great !! Here fir the journey with you!!

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@sherwood9917]

The hair looks great, Rosie. I love how it's styled.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you

[@bellasee1]

Yes weekly! Deep conditioning.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Agreed, it’s been very helpful.

[@RabielleParfait]

Can we first of all just appreciate how stunning you look?! My jawline dropped! 😍 It sucks so hard to do this step but I can’t wait to see you growing back your hair! It will be there in no time.❤️

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you ❤️. I am not happy that this journey is going to take time to have my hair healthy but hopefully my experience can help others 👀!

[@monicah8804]

It’s so pretty, and looks very healthy!

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you 🙏

[@deshaunclaytor8274]

The cut is gorgeous on you!!

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you ❤️

[@adaobieshi4297]

Red lip is so cute❤

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you ❤️

[@TWS1977]

I love that curl charisma conditioner.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Yes I really enjoyed it

[@lunaflowers7992]

I’m grateful for this video. I got a cut a few weeks ago and I have always kept up with trims. My ends are still scraggly and I know my hair will continue to thin out. I’m changing things up. My hair was doing very well but as many times as I tell my stylist my ends are not good, they never cut off enough. The curly cut is really not doing it for me other than giving me a great shape.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Yes exactly, curly cuts are for shape. So if you want a nice shape only, curly cuts will give you that!

[@MsRouge2000]

Very pretty!!

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you! 😊

[@ossier2796]

I rarely use the AG Balance. I mostly use the Innersense Hydrating Cream Hair bath and that’s the one my stylist recommends. My stylist also used Innersense Sweet Spirit spray leave-in conditioner.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Yes that’s a nice leave in especially since you do mostly wash n go

[@ossier2796]

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family Rosie.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you 😊

[@Neesha242]

For 4 type high porosity hair I know deep conditioners with coconut oil, olive oil, shea butter, & Behentrimonium Methosulfate usually as the first 5 ingredients works well. Examples Shea moisture intensive hydration, Camilla rose deep conditioner, Cantù, etc.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thanks for the tips! I do want to try the shea moisture Manuka honey deep conditioner. I am praying my cut removed most of the damage.

[@marshamazard5912]

Literally going through the same thing. Thank you for sharing! On the hunt for a more moisturizing shampoo not sure if I should start co washing more

[@rosieamelia5955]

I am so sorry 😞. Hopefully you can find a routine to get you back on track. It’s very hard, I am testing a few shampoos and co washes if they are worth sharing I will share. I wish you the best on your journey.

[@marshamazard5912]

@@rosieamelia5955 Thank you 🙏🏾 curl junkie daily fix is a good co wash if you want to check that one out.

[@starmaxx4]

Rosie I’m luvin this cut! 🥰💙.. thank you for sharing your experience/thoughts/journey with us! Can’t wait to see how your hair grows back 💙

[@adaobieshi4297]

Use a hair net and twist it around your head as you tuck the ends in! Tie your scarf over the net! It will keep it smooth if it’s too short to wrap your hair with pins

[@rosieamelia5955]

I am going to get a net actually a few. Thank you for your suggestion.

[@dimensionsbygina]

Good luck Rosie. I have paused on my Wash n go's sets. I'm dealing with an hair issue not entirely related to the BGC debacle. I have had to get some hair cut off too. Health over length is the way to go❤

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you 🙏🏾. Yes most are pausing on Wash and go. Yes health over length ❤️

[@Jakelan20]

I absolutely love the Camille Rose sweet ginger cleansing rinse its my go to shampoo maybe if you have a chance to try it you’ll like it too. I love the Bob!

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thanks for the tip! Funny enough when I first started this detox that was the shampoo I was using along with the conditioner. I even used curl maker for some of my first wash and go. The conditioner was amazing. I had gotten them from Sally’s, they had a 50% off sale ( Black Friday)

[@Jakelan20]

@@rosieamelia5955 which conditioner? Maybe ill give the conditioner a try bc i love the shampoo. I had also purchased the Design Essentials almond and avocado moisturizing shampoo and it felt like butter on my hair but I realized despite the amazing lather and moisturize i was getting from Design Essentials i kept going back to that sweet ginger rinse. I use to wash my hair twice weekly so I needed a very moisturizing shampoo so my hair wouldn’t dry out but now that I’m just washing once weekly that Ginger rinse is really the perfect balance of moisture and cleansing. What deep conditioners do you plan on using?

[@carlapd911]

Your cut looks amazing ! Have you tried pin curling instead of the rollers , it takes practice but it can help hold the curl

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you 😊.My stylist told me how to but I am too lazy and I am so tender headed. I only roll it if I have somewhere to go

[@mdcolors1574]

You look 👀 beautiful ❤❤❤❤

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you so much 😊, it feels good and I am more hopeful that I can get ahead of the split ends

[@ossier2796]

Your hair looks great. I’ve been oiling my ends.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Oh thank you! Yes it’s definitely helpful. Oils are beneficial when used correctly.

[@SheReaDelSol]

Hey! What made you start using oils?

[@Finetextureglow]

@@SheReaDelSoli wonder too...

[@pamulatransou847]

🤩🤩🤩🤩❤️❤️❤️❤️Beautiful and Wonderfully made

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you so much 😊

[@5016jay]

You have help me thank you and god bless ❤

[@rosieamelia5955]

I'm so glad! I wish you the best in your hair journey.

[@anneel8115]

Looks really good. Like you say, it's a shame because you partnered with a stylist but at least you get to start just in time for Black Friday. Briogeo Avocado, Camille Rose Oud and Pattern's Intensive are great DC. Great success in your journey😊

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you so much. Unfortunately most people who experience severe damage were partnered with a stylist!

[@anneel8115]

One question I do have is whether your stylist recommended a bond builder. I saw that a lot of the people whose hair got damaged were turning to K18, and so I was wondering what she thought about that.

[@rosieamelia5955]

So I am using one. We discussed that at my appointment, so I will continue as I have once a month. (K18)

[@Naturallyrose86]

KZbin just recommended me this video it must be for a reason. I am planning to go see a stylist but I haven’t been to the hair salon for over 7 years so am Not sure how to find someone with at will be honest with me loll

[@rosieamelia5955]

Your hair is beautiful keep doing what you are doing.

[@ossier2796]

I used a deep conditioner by Briogeo that was really good but I can’t remember the name of it. I used CurlMix 4 step shampoo/conditioner/moisturizer and gel.

[@rosieamelia5955]

Yes I have tried two of their deep conditioner and I like them both

[@priscaosuya]

❤you’re rocking the cut Does the mane choice deep conditioner foam up a little?

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you 😊. I will let you know about the deep conditioner.

[@meekstylz9962]

I loveeeeeee your hair. Straight and with the rollers. I can't wait to see the reversion. May I ask, how long where you following the method before you realized that your hair was changing? Also, would you ever consider getting a curly cut after you get a traditional one? Traditional cut to ensure you get all of the splits and then curly to give it the shape you want? Thank you for sharing!

[@rosieamelia5955]

Thank you 😊. I started 2021 , initially I used deep conditioner because that’s what I had. And my hair felt amazing. I didn’t start seeing issues until I partnered with a stylist. I started seeing issues after my 2nd curly cut. 👀✂️, no more curly cuts I foresee in the near future. Yes curly cuts are definitely useful for shape but I have been traumatized. I honestly can’t see myself doing curly cuts ever.

[@meekstylz9962]

@@rosieamelia5955 Thank you for the answer. Sorry this happened to you but thanks for sharing your experiences.

[@kimlaoconnor1]

Glad you were able to figure out some of the culprits to your split ends. In your past videos, I saw you using both shampoos and wondered how? 😳 I used that AG balance shampoo twice and knew that thing would jack up my hair. I used the Innersense Hydrating Cream Bath once and no ma’am. I returned that nonsense same day! Those were the worst shampoos I’ve ever used on my hair. My hair couldn’t take that.

[@anneel8115]

I ended up using the AG Balance as a clarifier. It was too much but since i had never 'detox' my hair, just figured it was me.

[@rosieamelia5955]

🤣🤣🤣, so the AG shampoo I actually love that shampoo. It makes my hair feel good 🤣🤣🤣. The hydrating shampoo on the other hand I didn’t care for. But definitely I am back to very mild shampoo and my hair is happy. But I love your comment because you are so In tuned with your hair. Lol, we drank the koolaide 🙈!

[@deshaunclaytor8274]

AG Balance was definitely drying my hair strands. I stopped using it earlier this year. The Innersense hydrating hair bath is still good for my strands. Trying to find a new cowash now.

[@MsRouge2000]

Please show us the back of your hair?

[@rosieamelia5955]

At the 45 second mark I showed a clip of the back of my hair