My husband blamed his cheating on me because of my underw*ar.

My husband blamed his cheating on me because of my underw*ar. -------------------------------------
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[@mcclure3510]

'I didn't want to offend you by purchasing lingerie for you' Ah, yes, because cheating on them is somehow less insulting

[@Nameless82284]

Yeah, I'm all like "WHAT?!" That doesn't make any sense. I wonder rather tell my wife that I don't like her underwear then cheat on her. And even if she says no to the lingerie I wouldn't cheat on her because I love her the way she is. There was this girl who kind of pushed me into buying an anime cat girl sexy outfit for my wife. I don't know why I bought it but I still did. I couldn't tell her so I just hid it from her. But she did found it at the end and she surprised me with it. After we finished she asked me why I didn't tell her and I explained that it was too embarrassing. She then explained that she was my wife and I shouldn't have hid it from her. I liked it when she wore that outfit but this made me realize that I liked her more the way she is so I decided to keep things simple. Then she told me if I ever needed anything I could have just asked her. Even though I was embarrassed to tell her I didn't cheated on her for someone who would and even if she said no I wouldn't cheat on her, I would just respect her decisions.

[@mat3271]

Cheating on someone is like eating a chicken

[@Nameless82284]

@@mat3271 What?

[@mat3271]

@@Nameless82284 You bake them at 400f

[@throwergirl966]

​@mat3271 umm, explain please??

[@TAC9_]

That grandma in the 2nd story is a legend and the grandpa is too, shes the rral mvp of that story

[@lamija-mc4et]

Grandma is savige

[@lubnasami511]

The guy didn't like your underwear and instead of communicating he decided to cheat 😅what an a$$hole. Also your response to him telling you to burn the lingerie was brutal 😂😂😂

[@Heydodoakskdkdjf]

right? it’s literally a hallmark of relationships: buying your partner something you want to see them in. It’s supposed to be fun and sexy but nah, this man warped it into some “offensive” issue to talk about it. Because cheating is somehow not offensive? 😅😂

[@thebean6731]

This isn’t him being an asshole. This is just his two single braincells working backwards on a good day.

[@chillichan]

This was 100% not about the underwear. Don't be obtuse.

[@Nameless82284]

My wife look beautiful whether she is wearing a lingerie set or normal bra and panties. She wears her lingerie set whenever we do it but you know what, a similar thing did happened to us. I wear boxers but my wife didn't like it so she told me that maybe I should wear tighty whities as she said it looks more attractive to her and so I did for her. She also said that if I said no then she would have been fine with it because she still loves me.

[@TheLuc224]

Hahahahaha. Why is this one so funny. He was like "idk man, your underwear is a turn off so I fkn cheat lol"

[@NothingToHelpMC]

His actions are beyond our understanding

[@BaeBunni]

I mean it's fair. What you think underwear is like some type of garment you can removed and changed to something else?

[@therarestphoenix5254]

That second story just proves the adage "Children deserve good parents. But not all parents deserve children..." These POS don't deserve to be parents. I hope OP becomes very successful in the future and his parents end up all alone.

[@dale9042]

bloodlust redditor 💀

[@randomloseranddull1560]

​@dale9042 ik it's unrelated, but I thought of that one scene in Hazbin Hotel episode 8 when Nifty was stabbing adam when I saw this comment.

[@Chickfillaforlife]

Blaming someone for cheating because of underwear.Thats like say "my boyfriend cheated on me" "how did you find out?" "He left the PlayStation on for the entire night"

[@Wheelchair_Sam551]

Erm actually 🤓 it’s supposed find not fund

[@Chickfillaforlife]

Thanks for the correction lol

[@UrLocalPotato2.0]

​@@Wheelchair_Sam551Is Your Comment Meant To Be Mean?

[@Wheelchair_Sam551]

@@UrLocalPotato2.0 no I was just trolling, everyone else does the same thing

[@UrLocalPotato2.0]

@@Wheelchair_Sam551 Ye But Everyone Else Seems Mean But I Was Just Asking I Wasn't Tryna Be Mean Either

[@whitehawk7082]

Story 1: LMAO. He cheated because of her undies?! Hun, that’s called blame shifting. Cheaters compulsively lie, trickle truth, deny, and shift the blame to their betrayed spouse. OOP’s STBXH is a pos.

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

Just reading the first story's title alone made me like BRUH 😐 The ridiculous excuse doesnt deserve any negative emotions nor tears- i would get out of that relationship flabbergasted and amused

[@vince.inthevoid8158]

Can you put in the titles that they’re multiple stories? I get exited about a long one just to be disappointed by “now onto another story” lol

[@jordanwardle11]

Especially when the title story isn't the main part of the video

[@DeIta687]

His KZbin banner is literally "One tale at a time" lol

[@vince.inthevoid8158]

Fr to everyone who’s commenting. I wanted to be more rude but didn’t want my criticism to go ignored.

[@ViralOtomo]

I like both the long form and multiples, but it would be nice to be able to distinguish them. Maybe just a (+) at the end would do.

[@jajajasputin8927]

Story 2: His Grandparents are real ones tbh

[@MrKrooper]

The second story about the guy whose parents played favorites because they wanted a girl instead of a boy was way more entertaining. Should have been the title story imo

[@cronic932]

Yeah first one was kinda weird tbh

[@Zeromegas]

1st story: wow! Cheating in his 2nd month of marriage because no sexy underwear, what a loser. 2nd story: What assholes of q parents.

[@dokuganryu1565]

And by the way she's describing herself in her normal underwear I have trouble understanding just what could he not possibly find sexy.

[@CristobalWatsonHernandez]

I've never understood the whole "sexy underwear" thing, I've always thought that the sexiest thing my wife could wear for me is nothing at all.

[@raven75257]

Different people have different preferences

[@tropicaldisaster8135]

Now I'm not a parent and on the fence about having one child with my bf but I can't see myself not giving both kids equal opportunities if they're both performing well. I'd at least try my best to prepare for both of them from the moment I had them. Really sad stuff. My parents have a girl (me) and a boy but I don't think they would've been different if my brother was a girl. Bless them for that

[@peagames2002]

It is quite hilarious how first story's woman was blame shifted over underwear... I'm sure she'll laugh about this divorce and state how pathetic excuse that was from him. If he wanted her to wear better underwear then buy a gift! Smh 😅

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

So saying you dont like someone's underwear is more hurtful than literally betraying the person, stabbing them even more, qnd twisting the knife?? Yep he's a genius... im glad she stuck to her guns.. I would've burned the lingerie gift but what she did was better than I thought.

[@alyssawalters7148]

He was desperate after being caught and wanted to get away with it. He figured if OP accepted the reason, she'd accept some of the blame and it wouldn't be 100% on him. I'm glad she saw right through it, don't understand the concept of having the balls to cheat but being a total coward for the consequences.

[@BaeBunni]

Story 1 controversial statement but honestly would probably find a wife sexier in plain vs sexy lingerie. Like yea it lingerie is sexy it's made to be sexy, but there is always something sexy about a woman willingly be more comfortable around me rather than always feeling like that have to try. Story 2 screw the parents. Especially after hearing the entire story they gave their second kid a dud because they couldn't accept not having a girl? Glad the rest of the family was around because that is some bs. Also the parents had the audacity to say it was Karma for their second son wanting a car. I would have given them an envelope for the price of the car. "if it matters so f*cking much to you then never talk to me again."

[@OKAYOKAY420]

That last text was absolutely deserved lmfao.

[@RavenSutcliffe]

Last text?

[@OKAYOKAY420]

@@RavenSutcliffe "I'm gonna use rhem next time I have sex."

[@badpiggs]

@@RavenSutcliffe watch video

[@Mischa21xo]

"I told him that I will wear them the next time I have s3x, think of him & thank him for the confidence boost..." 😅😅😅😅😅OMG- I spit out my water, & was dying laughing at that part! lololol.

[@blue_leafs]

grandma is an angel for real

[@mksmike]

He definitely wasn't cheating on her because of her underwear.

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

It sounded like he was cheating waaaay before and she happened to catch him. I have a feeling his family knew that’s why his mother called.

[@rainynight02]

I don't understand abandoning your children like this. If you're so disinterested in your children that you're going to neglect them, give them up to someone who actually cares.

[@sayatdegefu6322]

On the second story, it's really ironic that the favourite doesn't want to go back to his parents. Maybe this could be karma for the parents😂

[@Potatobowmaster9]

Grandparents are the coolest and most badass people to ever exist

[@SRKStar]

Story 2. People getting mad at him have no right. Sometimes you have to take handouts from narcissists to survive. The willingness to push for what he deserved shows his character. And I hope he fallows through with that for the rest of his life. When it come to family who treat you like shit. You just have to do what it takes to survive tbh.

[@gregorysmith518]

At this point if you live in America having a car is almost required now and it's ridiculous

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

What kind of excuse is that because underwear

[@BaeBunni]

Are you insane? You think you can just wear different underwear?

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

@@BaeBunni uh uh idk idk

[@Nameless82284]

Then he was all like "I didn't wanted to offend you by telling you to wear a lingerie set so I cheated on you with a woman was willing to wear a lingerie set because that's less offensive then telling her to wear one."

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

@@Nameless82284 messed up

[@Nameless82284]

@@rukiakuchiki6187 Yes, yes, it is.

[@RemiStardust]

2:30 She works out 1.5 to 2 hours A DAY??? If you work out 7-14h a week, you're an actor who has to be ready for shirtless scenes. That's NOT normal amounts of working out! Trust me: half an hour 3-5 times a week is plenty, if you push yourself. I've got visible muscles :)

[@simplesyrup97]

While she used the term “working out” she likely was thinking exercise. Not saying she doesn’t do any weight training, but I agree with you that she would be ripped. I was thinking she likely jogs/runs whether that’s outside or on a treadmill. And she might do half in the morning before work and the other half in the evening.

[@rainbowpride4766]

Maybe she is ripped. Everyone has different standards for work out. Maybe she is just using treadmill most of the time, and doing few weights or focusing on pilates or something

[@richardyorke9940]

You can tell the husband is scared that she will divorce him

[@Lena-Angels]

I guess he was insecure by her because she is so confident since he couldn't handle her he went to a person who has the same value as him he is low anyway

[@djmike9272]

Cheating because of underwear? WTF!!!😂

[@LadyZubat]

Story 2: OP is in denial, his brother is the golden child and he doesn't see that and apparently neither do the reddit comments.

[@imnotyourvillain]

1:30 Heaven forbid you communicate with your S/O & risk offending them, rather than just throwing it all to the wind so you can have a fleeting moment of depraved passion with someone else. Smh the mental gymnastics cheaters go through to justify their terrible actions

[@imnotyourvillain]

"Aren't you moving on too fast/making a rash decision? 🤓" So you think cheating is, what... A meticulously planned & well thought-out decision that isn't driven purely by emotions, rather than logic? Deciding to cheat over UNDERWEAR isn't a rash decision? The cheater broke the marriage with a rash decision. Leaving the person who just betrayed & hurt you, on the other hand, is a SENSIBLE decision. The partner made their choice the moment they decided to cheat, the betrayed spouse is just following through with it & anyone who pretends otherwise should invest in therapy.

[@SomewhatBaffled]

Why ask your wife to change underware if you can just change wife? It's what I do with my barbie dolls.

[@wiresculptor5951]

Choose better men 😂😂😂

[@LatinaGaming88]

If you dont get your kid a car and you can afford it, you're a bad person. You're just stalling your kid for a year and making them dislike you.

[@sanddagger36]

they caused the problem themselves by not even inspecting the car. If they had just done a better job of picking it they would not have had to be embarrassed twice.

[@bekleedee]

......underwear.....thats the reason he went with? Probably should have gone with the truth at least.

[@clamiyep7008]

Sorry but the first story just made me laugh 😂 I've heard weird stuff but this is just the dumbest reason ever, he should just be honest and say he was looking for an excuse to jump in another woman's pants smh

[@fumothfan9]

Op sounds beautiful (inside and out lol) and her husband was just a cheating a hole who threw a hail mary to try to weasel his way out. Hope she finds someone better (which she probably will).

[@fumothfan9]

2nd based grandparents and distant relatives. Yeah parents sound screwed in the head. Fucked up you essentially hate your own son because they didn't come out a girl. As if he even had a hand in that 😂. Nah but op 2nd did nothing wrong. Maybe just existing (which wasn't even his fault). I hope he knows that even if his parents are disappointed in him that his other family even brother still got his back. I thought it was pretty sweet his brother made the effort.

[@mechtim]

okay if underwear is the problem don't wear any at all, okay but seriously now the guy fucked up.

[@hark9283]

At what age do people move out of there parents in American or other places. In Australia everyone I know move out at 18.

[@JeanClaudeDescombes]

We all agree the cheating was stupid and no way back, but honestly the wife wearing grandmas undies is disrespectful or a real idiot.

[@Advark458]

The husband had it all and decided to be a weak lil baby

[@tofluffybunny6780]

He the one to blame if a woman wants to wear comfy underwear they can I have some and I love and I don’t care I love being comfortable

[@penguinpingu3807]

Bruh, if is your reason for cheating is because of underwear and not only that but with 2 months of marriage. Yeah, She has very right to get out of there, no need the trouble. Cheating is an instant divorce or breakups in almost every case.

[@pandorabird1817]

Nah they played everyone's favorite game pick a favorite and find out

[@kevinspacey5325]

Lol wut? No he's just a loser. My wife wears comfy underwear too. Duh! If I want her to wear something sexy I tell her. Simple as that. What is wrong with cheaters making excuses that are ridiculous?

[@tytoalba605]

Cheater is a tittle for a romantic con artist, not a example of a man or woman. Like this case how they explain it is like everything else a lie to have power over their victim, and to mess with their confidence. There are cases of similar which is the Casanova one night stand situation , But that's murky but still has a con artist manipulating a victim for their goal. Basically if we can be manipulated there are people who will. But in reality most of us arent romantic conartists.

[@NancyNanavati]

Me : is that cheating excuse even valid Op ex husband : yes

[@Ready-ForTheEnd]

I still by my underwear by the packet at walmart. Who gives a shit? It fits, it's comfortable, hooray. As women we have accidents on the underwear anyway from our periods so best not to just splurge on pretty cutesy and expensive panties that will just get bled on, washed over and over until its no longer cute. 🤷🏽 he could have bought what he wanted to see her in. I dont get the big deal when the underwear is coming off anyway.

[@fabianafagundezmuniz8119]

YES YED YES, GIIIRL sexy underwear is The worseee, having sports Bra is The Best when You have Big boobs, everything else is so uncomfortable, fuck this guy, just communicate, what's Worse? Talking about it and maybe offend her or just f- cheating?

[@BraunBuxe]

Based oma

[@SetariM]

Story 1: >Married < 2 months Yeah, I think there were some red flags from this guy she was glossing over before they got married lmao. This woman sounds absolutely beautiful. Her "husband" is an absolute donkey for cheating on that women, wtf. Story 2: Asking parents for a car is pretty entitled of OP, sounds like rich people problems lmao. My parents did plenty of shit for my younger brothers they didn't do for me, I didn't throw a goddamn fit over it.

[@albertszilveszter6718]

Idunno it shouldnt be 50/50 since it really feels like she didnt care about the relationship at all, +she even said the husband bought it (they both suck)

[@TripnotizeVM]

Story 1? How did she not care?

[@rainbowpride4766]

Which world do you live in?

[@albertszilveszter6718]

@@TripnotizeVMits not on him, its also on her, they both couldve communicated instead of acting like children

[@albertszilveszter6718]

@@rainbowpride4766 you shouldnt even talk with a name like that

[@rainbowpride4766]

@@albertszilveszter6718 I am not talking, I am texting and what's wrong with my name?

[@WilsonGodoyUmBrindeAEssaPorra]

I hope OP of the first story finds a real man one day who treats her right, then she wont even use the lingerie cuz her ex wont even be in her head anymore and she will just forget what she promissed, cheaters deserve to be forgoten, mot forgiven