My Husband Left and Came Back Home - Kim's Midlife Crisis Success Story #12

[@sjamesholland]

100% my story. Glory be to God for getting me through the worst of it.

[@jessicagarcia120]

Thank you for sharing, I was crying remembering the pain. I went through this painful process and was dragged through a divorce for 2 yrs until his affair partner finally got him to sign. Even though it's been 4yrs that my husband left after 25yrs i can say I will never forget that pain . God is so good that He gave me the strength.

[@TheWifeExpert]

It's never too late....pain is where we grow. thewifeexpert.uscreen.io/

[@becs0331]

I've been in the crisis for 10 years now. It's surreal. I remember feeling like her 6 months in thinking that I couldn't possibly do it for more than a year... And here I am still

[@eileenfuentes6975]

Him leaving like that for that long is spousal abandonment/desertion which is taken very seriously in divorce court. I'm sure he was clueless what he would have been in for had he done that. Thank you for sharing your story, it's like our hearts shatter into dust when we're blindsided and have no answers, not even the most basic ones. I just finished up a therapy where I experienced what they call "ego death" or "ego dissolution." It's so hard, but when you said "I'm good" at mediation when he was saying those things, that was so brave to go with it even though it was tempting to share your side. You're a brave woman, an iron fist in a velvet glove. ❤

[@TheWifeExpert]

Haha! Iron fist in velvet glove...I like that! Thank you!

[@IlaniCoetzee]

This made me cry.... am currently going through a divorce I do not want. Thank you for this testimony😢 pray with me

[@TheWifeExpert]

I'm praying. Don't give up. I can help: TheWifeExpert.com - I actually TALK to you! You have God on your side??? Be patient - You will get everything! come see me at my site? Join my videos and you'll get to be on my group calls and talk to me LIVE!!

[@mrsvickiemeyers]

I am too, sister…my heart and life is shattered in a billion pieces 😢

[@msdee2905]

Thanks for sharing this heartfelt story that I can relate to. The pain is real. 😢

[@TheWifeExpert]

You are so welcome! Thanks for your comments!

[@kathleenwallace8003]

Thanks for sharing your story

[@asamusicdude]

Amazing story. Praise God!!!!

[@TheWifeExpert]

Thank you!! You can always send me a cup of coffee!!! ❤️www.buymeacoffee.com/thewifeexpert.com

[@Swiss_Dots]

Excellent! A huge thank you to Kim & Laurie.

[@TheWifeExpert]

Our pleasure!

[@Eklectic_Afro]

So many similar things to my story. My Husband left 2 weeks ago. I am shattered.

[@TheWifeExpert]

@Eklectic_Afro - Oh no! UUUGGGH!! Come see me at: TheWifeExpert.com!!! ASAP!!! Or set up a call with me: [e-mail]

[@eileenfuentes6975]

Ashwagandha is amazing, I take a supplement in capsule form and it's great for rest and anxiety and a bazillion other things. My friend who is all into herbal stuff gave me some to try, I was like "ok..." best sleep and next day I didn't have that tight belt feeling around my chest, racing heart and tears behind my eyes. I'm so glad the tea she had gave her some relief. It's a tough thing to go through. It really is.

[@TheWifeExpert]

yes...I've heard it's good. I'm a chicken!

[@gypster2004]

This gives me hope. I’ve been so hopeless lately… I’ve been in hell since November 2023… and I don’t know if my husband will leave me or stay. He seems to keep making excuses and I sense his ambivalence… I’m just so sad because he’s having an emotional affair and it just goes on and on and on 😢 please god help me

[@gypster2004]

He told me that he wants a divorce and it’s all he talks about. He shows absolutely no affection for me at all, he’s told all his friends and family too but it still just lingers on and on and on. Everything hurts. Everything.

[@TheWifeExpert]

Ugh. Been there. Come see me? TheWifeExpert.com. Join my videos and come to my group classes. Support and understanding of what you MUST do. I've been there - I'm a great teacher! COME!

[@cheeks300zx]

Give him what he wants divorce him you'll thank me later ​@gypster2004

[@cpisarek4284]

Lost it when she was describing the pits of despair. I'm having *some* better days now, but, overall, I am still in the pits of despair as he told me last week that he wants to divorce. This is less than two months after finding out about his affair and three weeks of him coming home and "trying" to reconcile, which was an absolute disaster. We are still communicating, but he says he is much happier being at his dad's and seems set on divorcing.

[@TheWifeExpert]

Uuuuuhhh. There is no trying. Only doing. He's a mess. Don't listen. Love him and give him lots of space. Come see me - TheWifeExpert.com

[@sarahhoward7505]

This is what I’m going through right now I went to vacation and came home with my husband ice cold and wanting a divorce

[@TheWifeExpert]

I have questions. Reach out to me at TheWifeExpert.com

[@carolpoltorak9334]

I know that this is an older broadcast, but I had a question because I am going through the same thing right now. I am 55 years old and married for 28 years, our anniversary is this Sunday. We have three beautiful, sweet, smart and hardworking daughters ages 27, 23 and 19. My husband just moved out last Sunday. I do not know for sure if there is infidelity, but he does exhibit some strange behavior. My question is (I hope that it is okay to ask because it is a personal question) was your husband faithful to you throughout your marriage and separation? I want to save my marriage desperately, but if my husband has a mistress I strongly feel that that is a dealbreaker for me. It’s in God’s hands. Of course I did not watch the last 7 minutes when I wrote my comment. If I did, I would not have asked. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing a WONDERFUL heartfelt story. It meant so much to me and gives me hope and guidance.

[@TheWifeExpert]

@carolpoltorak9334 - Hi....you are funny. Why are you not on my videos???? Get on there quick. Let me guide you through this limbo crap show. Or if you can make it to orlando in 3 weeks - I've got a retreat that will give you all you need to get though this. Do it for your girls. And in the end - you are doing it for all of you!!! [e-mail] - email me today! why suffer - reach out to me. This is ALL I DO. And what I teach works.

[@janegriffin3872]

Yes this is good! Waiting and be working on yourself. Bit what if he has had a lot of issues? I guess still work on you and Pray for Gods timing- HIS BREAKTHROUGH!

[@TheWifeExpert]

AMEN!!! YES!! His break through an you keep working on living life well!

[@tishacucic2579]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I can really relate! What was the name of the second book that was mentioned?

[@TheWifeExpert]

Which one? Sorry...if there is something I said I'd put in the comments, and I forgot...eeek....help me??? Thanks for your comments!

[@kathleenwallace8003]

Should I be the one to reach out after 4 years of no contact

[@TheWifeExpert]

Maybe ....it depends. Reach out to me at thewifeexpert.com.

[@EneangEZ1]

How can we accept him back if he has s.x with other woman? No !

[@TheWifeExpert]

Oh...that's easy!! The word "No" keeps you stuck and angry and filled with boundaries. Reach out to me and we can schedule a session...but YOU have to be open and ready to learn.

[@Madhatterreborn2024]

My husband just walked out and i told me ,he said i want to do anything anymore . I just want to stay home which i dont . He has been gone nearly three months. I just dont think we are coming bank from this . We were very loving hand holding , kissing saying we love each other. But nothing anymore. I dont think he will come back .

[@TheWifeExpert]

Well if that's what you think..... that's what you will have. I teach things differently. Come visit me! TheWifeExpert.com

[@janegriffin3872]

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