Stages of a Mid Life Crisis To Help Recognize One

How can you tell if you are having a mid-life crisis? What works to get help?
If you feel like you are ready to take the next step in doing the right inner work for you on your midlife crisis, you can book a midlife crisis evaluation with me or one of our experts here:
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[@TowerofAboveandBelow]

I'm 43. My sense of self and identity just went poof a couple years ago. Gone. Everything I once liked, just became bland and intolerable. Leaving me numb and drowning in numbness, frantic for stimulation. Frantic for a name that is really my name. Frantic to find a me. I've been exploring and trying things to find what and who I am now.

[@Theeagleinstitute]

Hi Gideon. Looking for answers inside you is on the right track. Stimulation for the sake of it, unfortunately does not work. Many people try this, often wasting years or even the rest of their life, always looking for the thing outside of themselves that will finally make them happy. The ones that eventually reach happiness use techniques to go into the source of discontent. The discontent is the pathway to healing things that a midlife crisis is bringing up for you. The best tools for this are meditation, and inner child healing.

[@paigeferris4852]

Your video just changed my life… I am in tears, thank you for the comforting words from somebody who is in the midst of this and just now identifying it. With all my heart, thank you. 💚

[@Theeagleinstitute]

So glad that this video helped you. This process can be the most profound and beneficial change in your life, and you have to participate actively for that to happen. We have more resources on our website theeagleinstitute.com to help you succeed. Thank you for your kind words.

[@ablack9677]

Thank-you for that helpful insight. I'm 46 and my aunt suggested I might be going through a midlife crisis. I didn't even realize women go through it too. I see that I am and your advise is very helpful. I know it's exactly what I need to do to reset my soul. Life has been a challenge and it's not over yet. I want to be a lot more happier and content by the time I turn 50. So my health and wellness must be my priority.

[@Theeagleinstitute]

Thanks you for sharing. Now that you understand what the process is, you are in a great position to successfully get to the end. There are processes and techniques that can speed this process up rapidly, with a minimum amount of discomfort. Health & wellness should always be a priority, but that will not get you through a midlife crisis successfully. Midlife crisis is about inner transformation, which is different than wellness. We have free video classes and evaluations at theeagleinstitute.com. We also have processes that I have curated for being effective at doing the deep inner work that Stage 5 requires.

[@MidlifeCredo]

I'm finding my personal "midlife crisis" is similar to other life-change crises. Working through it a day at a time.

[@tamaramagdalene1000]

My mom is in midlife crisis and it should be called THE MOST IRRITATING CRISIS!!! I cant even deal with her in this stage.

[@Theeagleinstitute]

I agree that it can be irritating for everyone involved, including her, is she open to doing something about it?

[@priscillaaquino8678]

Im 29 years old and im having mid life crisis, im not happy anymore in my career and im having fears for my future 😞😞😞😞

[@tomfooleryalert5094]

I'm 35 and can say I've hit a mid life crisis. I know exactly why I feel dissatisfied within my life: I've always put work before everything else to be financially stable (as I support myself) and I'm burnt out and alone. I don't enjoy my career, it's high stress and I only do it for the money. I don't want my life to continue this way - I'm looking to transition to part time work for better life balance

[@GraceGrace-vy3yt]

Did you end up going part time? I went part time years ago, one of the best decisions of my life.

[@johnathanellis9010]

My wife has told me she never loved me, drinking everyday, smoking pot , doesn’t really feel proud of the kids which used to be her world , sleeping around, doesn’t care if she gets fired and is only 3 years away from retirement.Just living like a kid in college. Moved in with her 3 times divorced friend lives in the open dining room and they just become professional party bar flys

[@Theeagleinstitute]

Hi Johnathan, whether she is having a midlife crisis or not, the most important thing that you can do is to respect yourself and get over any mental or emotional pain that you feel from this situation. You can wish her well, but you can't change her, she can only face her own inner pain if she is ready. If you want resources to focus on yourself and what you can do to come out of this situation with minimal emotional pain, you can go to theeagleinstitute.com and book an evaluation with me.

[@lucygonzalez9618]

Thank you! This is insightful! I thought it was just me. Im at a point where I just want to break free, i dont care who likes or dislikes my decisions, i want to be happy in my own skin. Ive spent my life doing what everyone said i should be doing instead of listening to my inner voice and discovering not only who i was but who i wanted to be. At the end i will give accounts for me and i will have to live with the consequences of my actions not anybod elses

[@geraldkristjanson2109]

My wife is five years into this and wow!

[@Lost8888.]

A lot of people won’t do the work initially ..this is a selfish act that blows up families - all core and moral values are lost - deception and lies rule the day - kids get hurt and everything is about self ..Sure some work thru it and it’s not as bad - but what I’m going thru, and some friends have , are leading to divorce, financial ruin, and many regrets later for the mid life crisis person. This process takes years

[@Theeagleinstitute]

If people practice the right techniques, they can get to the end of a midlife crisis fairly quickly. Sometimes divorce is avoided for healthy reasons. It is interesting that you say that moral values are lost because a midlife crisis that is fully completed.erases karma to the end of the first stage of enlightenment, some go beyond that. I have seen these people have a higher level of morals and handle healthy changes with a higher degree of love than they could do otherwise. As for finically ruin, I have seen many that succeed at midlife crisis that I have trained make more, and have a higher standard of morals at the same time. As for time, I have trained many people that were done their midlife crisis in months, occasionally up to a year and a half. Some people never learn the lesson of the core theme of their personal karma, which is why people have a midlife crisis. The best way to avoid a midlife crisis is to erase your personal karma before the age of 37, where a midlife crisis gets triggered, or to practice the right techniques to erase karma as close as possible to that time. I have seen much less collateral damage when people do that. So you can shorten the time drastically, but it takes the right kind of practices that erase karma.

[@nnnnnnnnnataliem]

Wow this is so helpful!! Precisely what I'm going through. It has all been so hard but this video gives me actual hope because she lays it out so clearly that I have no doubt she knows what she's talking about and has experienced this and gotten to the other side 💗🌹 Thank you!!

[@Theeagleinstitute]

Hi Natalie. Thank you for your compliments. I have gotten to the other side, and I now help other people to do the same successfully. Check out my website theeagleinstitute.com for more resources on how to get through a midlife crisis successfully.

[@swiftkarma4436]

Yes she is amazing. I love her videos

[@katherinelydon7306]

For myself, I’m going to deep dive to heal my abandonment wound….

[@Theeagleinstitute]

That is a great start. Depending on your age, you might be dealing with midlife crisis as well. Wishing you a speedy healing.

[@lornaelizabeth6290]

Thank you. I am 43 two grown up children (I have been facing this since I got 40 - searching for me. I have been on therapy for 3 years now too! It’s been enlightening but very painful. So much shame and suppressed feelings coming to the surface. Massive questions of ‘who am I’ what’s the purpose etc etc. looking at old trauma, wounds, pains etc Thank you.. this gives me hope I am on the right path ❤️

[@Theeagleinstitute]

Midlife crisis is about erasing your karma, and a therapist can only do that if they are beyond enlightened.

[@Theeagleinstitute]

I made another video to help explain this. kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3qTY5-nYtWfqsk

[@LunaCreations]

Thankyou

[@Theeagleinstitute]

My pleasure

[@bobknudsen8346]

Thanks to you it make sense know.

[@charlenealexander3823]

what are the resources and where can I find them? Is it advisable to be accompanied by another person? Are therapists trained in accompanying women through mid life crisis? How can I ask them that question?

[@bobknudsen8346]

Its really hard. But your Insight is an accomplishment that I am trying to achieve

[@lizalim7252]

I'm going through the same thing. I'm 38 yrs old and I feel so bad that at my age, I feel I haven't achieved anything. I don't have an exciting career, have my own house and still single. I feel afloat in my life. I'm very introverted and it's hard for me to gain friends because I feel I couldn't trust anybody. I try my best to think positive but I still shift to the negative thinking. 💔

[@homewithellieb]

Sending you hugs!!!

[@lizalim7252]

@@homewithellieb thank you 💔

[@Theeagleinstitute]

I am so sorry that you feel that way. I think that learning a bit about positive mind would help you a lot because it is a very helpful stage of dealing with midlife crisis, although what you are describing is most likely the beginning of your midlife crisis years. The first level that I teach about midlife crisis is positive mind and how to take responsibility for the past and to forgive yourself so that you can look to the future positively. If you want to do an evaluation with me to see if that is a good next step for you, you can book a call with me here, and have hope because with belief you can manifest much more that you desire: calendly.com/kira-eagle-1/evaluation-midlife-crisis-or-stress

[@Vitalocaa]

I feel the same way. Your not alone!!

[@jasonkennedy3517]

How do I start the work to go through this transformation? I have 3 families members who have burned thier lives to the ground. I dont want to be like them. How do I start?

[@shanaziris1260]

Hi, great video - where can I contact you? the website link does not work? Thanks

[@winterflowers2314]

This is exactly how I feel right now and it’s been 2 yrs already. First i didn’t know what caused me to feel this way , and I after I looked deep inside of me I understand why. Even I face it solved it and still feel broken sometimes but I found the benefit of this is helped me grow up. Can I have your email please?

[@Theeagleinstitute]

Hi, go to theeagleinstitute.com, you can book a call or evaluation with me there. There are techniques to repair what feels like it is broken. I remember feeling like that, but there is hope and you can become whole, and your life will be much better as a result.

[@Krystaldoll282]

You make it sound glamorous of some sort. While transforming you are hurting your spouse, your children, destroying a career, finances are out the window. Having affairs etc. All to find your authentic self. But it’s worth it in the end! It seems like self destruction snd anyone in my path in going down with me. All do you can be a better person but the person that you are during a crisis is causing great havoc on those around them. But hey in the end all that matters is me.. I’m now me and I’m better for it. Who cares about the wake of destruction. Lol And those who don’t go through this is somehow missing out and you seem to justify your bad behavior on. So everyone should go through this to experience the authentic self. Guess what many can be authentic to self without going through fire. Your description makes it sound like it’s the only way to get there. Is this how you make yourself feel better about yourself?

[@Theeagleinstitute]

The people that cause the destruction are the ones that are not handling the inner work very well, or not doing it. In all the people that I have taught to completed their midlife crisis successfully, there was very little or no collateral damage. Marriages stayed together, unless they were abusive. People that are self destructive are typically staying in stages 2 and 3, occasionally getting to stage 4, but running back to stage 2. In every person that I have seen that gets to the end of stage 6, whether I have trained them or they did the right spiritual practices to successfully go through the full 6 stages of a which removes a person’s personal level karma, they have solutions to the core issue that was causing them to act destructive in most cases. Some people misinterpret a person setting appropriate boundaries as causing havoc, and it might be for the people that want to have inappropriate boundaries. People going through a midlife crisis that either increase or take up negative habits (or even positive ones that are obsessive) are avoiding their midlife crisis, and possibly other core issues. Midlife crisis is the first stage of enlightenment, it is erasing or balancing a person’s core personal karma, their core personal blind spot. After that, a person goes through (and either erases or balances) their family karma (2nd stage of enlightenment, at least as far as being karma-free goes), and the next level of enlightenment is ancestral karma to erase or balance. Transforming your midlife crisis into enlightenment, at least the first stage is empowering. For some people, they do feel better about themselves, other people that had personal confidence. It really depends on the North Node that a person is working with in this life. By the way, there are North Nodes where a person’s core transformation is about putting other people’s feelings first, just as there are North Nodes where people are learning to put their own needs first. Balancing karma, or erasing a person’s core karma is about developing the perception and the ability to act in the opposite way of their default blind spot. I am going to make a new video on this.

[@oluwafinestgabriel4173]

HI! I LOVE AND FIND YOUR VIDEO VERY HELPFUL...HOW CAN I CONNECT WITH YOU DIRECTLY?

[@Theeagleinstitute]

You can connect with me on LinkedIn here: www.linkedin.com/in/kira-leskew/

[@sunset33533]

The mindfulness book "30 Days to Overcome a Midlife Crisis" by Harper Daniels has been helpful. It's all in the mind.

[@Theeagleinstitute]

I am a Mindfulness teacher with more than 16 000 hours of meditation practice and Midlife Crisis cannot be overcome in 30 days even with the best mediation techniques. Midlife crisis is not in the mind, it is what you attract into your life so that you can evolve as a human being.

[@MYKEYCARD]

KZbin fork in the road with sheree Clark⛔

[@donnamari4259]

Did you see that spider 🕷 climbing down on the black bookshelf??

[@kyliesavage]

Please tell me how?

[@Theeagleinstitute]

You can watch this video to see what works for each stage of a midlife crisis:Midlife Crisis: How to Succeed at Each Stage kzbin.info/www/bejne/aaaue59jeLOBqrs If that makes sense to you, you can book a call with me here: calendly.com/kira-eagle-1/evaluation-midlife-crisis-or-stress

[@williams.1980]

Speaking of diamonds. This video has a couple.

[@cambridgelanguagecoachzimb6521]

I need help please

[@Theeagleinstitute]

You can book a call with me here, I typically work with entrepreneurs and influencers. calendly.com/kira-eagle-1/evaluation-midlife-crisis-or-stress

[@rhinaherrera1229]

My wife left me she said she don't know who she I she is going through that she is not happy anywhere she is can you help me

[@Theeagleinstitute]

I did another video on midlife crisis and relationships, however what you describe here doesn't sound like midlife crisis. kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3qTY5-nYtWfqsk

[@inserter400]

HOW CAN I SUPPORT MY WIFE THROUGH THIS ? ID HAS BECOME COLD AND MEAN.

[@Theeagleinstitute]

She has to want to do the work herself, however you can work on developing yourself and releasing the need to change her. That can be a challenging thing to do. If you want help with that, you can book an assessment at theeagleinstitute.com.

[@inserter400]

@@Theeagleinstitute THANK YOU

[@geraldkristjanson2109]

This has gotten me through her journey thestagesandlessonsofmidlife.org/the-six-stages-of-a-mid-life-crisis/?amp

[@prnajaf]

You repeatedly mention deep inner work, but you don't specify what that looks like. What's the next step?

[@Theeagleinstitute]

Hi Dunderhead, we have resources on our website theeagleinstitute.com. Inner work starts with determining the issues in your midlife crisis, then doing healing work to eliminate the patterns that are causing the mental and emotional pain that people feel with midlife crisis. We do this in different ways depending on your experience level. The best way to find out what is appropriate for you is to book an evaluation oat theeagleinstitute.com.

[@MissHallikeri]

Why is she wearing a leather jacket?

[@dsandoval2059]

The leather is rather suggestive of the subject matter lol

[@Theeagleinstitute]

I am over 6' tall, so the only professional jackets that I can usually get are leather. I have been wearing them since I started working full time.

[@MYKEYCARD]

KZbin fork in the road with sheree Clark⛔