My Husband Pays Me $100 A Week To Cook & Clean | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

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Күн бұрын

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@jillianm8958
@jillianm8958 Ай бұрын
It's one thing to live in a traditional relationship because you want to, it's another thing entirely to say that feminism was completely unnecessary. I don't care if she wants to live this way. It's the ideology behind why she lives this way that's problematic. The irony behind this is that she calls herself a tradwife and preaches all this stuff, but has a monetized KZbin channel and that is effectively a career. So she's not just a homemaker, which is what she preaches women should be doing. And the only reason she's capable of making the choice to do that or stay home or whatever is because of feminism.
@irissayshello
@irissayshello Ай бұрын
Mic drop 🎉
@alexislee5830
@alexislee5830 Ай бұрын
REAL
@BlueBabyAkaAj
@BlueBabyAkaAj 5 күн бұрын
Don't forget those military checks
@d716agq
@d716agq Ай бұрын
$100 is cheap!
@megganaki
@megganaki Ай бұрын
@@d716agq too cheap for all that work.
@TysonAmv
@TysonAmv Ай бұрын
A week?
@Mothermochi
@Mothermochi Ай бұрын
@@TysonAmvyes lol 😂 very cheap.
@TysonAmv
@TysonAmv Ай бұрын
@@Mothermochi well I'm from nigeria and that's what most people earn in 3 - 5 months
@Mothermochi
@Mothermochi Ай бұрын
@ a live in maidmakes anywhere from$27- $48 an hour where I live. I could break down the other services she is providing as well, I assure you he is getting a bargain… her? Not so sure about that. $100 a week won’t serve this young woman anything in the long term. The U.S. average for retirement expenses is $835,453 for 25 years and $1,003,548 for 30 years. All the credit, and financial resources are in his name and at his discretion. I’m not saying that these dynamics can’t work 100% of the time but in order for it to truly be equitable, the person forgoing building individual wealth needs actual provisions in terms of property, ownership and credit. You can’t love someone and also to care about what happens to them when they are no longer in your life. Courts only go so far. Lots of women in homeless shelters here due to this lack of understanding. I was a stay at home mom, but I understand $$$ no judgement from me one way or another. As my mother says if you don’t listen, you will feel lol 😅
@educator8236
@educator8236 Ай бұрын
The only problem with this is she is solely dependent on him. She has no credit score or income. There is value in being independent as a woman.
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 Ай бұрын
@@educator8236 enjoy the empty house and cats
@kylezdeath
@kylezdeath Ай бұрын
@@dabd8175 better than being a servant lol
@kylezdeath
@kylezdeath Ай бұрын
the problem is that she is a maid
@Isthisreal67
@Isthisreal67 Ай бұрын
@@dabd8175whats wrong with peace and pets?🤨 If thats what people want in life and thats what makes them happy let them do that
@up-uw4op
@up-uw4op Ай бұрын
@@dabd8175 the house isnt empty with cats in it
@SugarMe28
@SugarMe28 Ай бұрын
My mom was a stay at home mom from early 50's to early 70's. After we left for college, she went back to school, got a degree and had a white collar job until she passed away. It's a blessing that a mother can stay home and raise her children. Growing up we always had breakfast, dinner and supper together. The only time our dad was absent was when he traveled.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
I went to daycare, and my mom still made all my meals and we always had dinner together and my needs were taken care of. Let’s not act like working women neglect their children. What your mom did is very risky which is why lots of women go to college first.
@nowat4987
@nowat4987 9 күн бұрын
I would refuse to stay home I would protest by leaving the house a mess.
@emilybusby6922
@emilybusby6922 Ай бұрын
Do your thing girl, but also, know your worth and don’t be afraid to ask for it! You deserve more than $400 a month for all that work!
@Nkraka
@Nkraka Ай бұрын
She got a husband and a home. That's W for me. Most women don't have that in our today's world.
@millyofdaworldhola984
@millyofdaworldhola984 Ай бұрын
​@@Nkrakathat doesn't really make her situation any better
@mizzhllywd
@mizzhllywd 27 күн бұрын
😂
@ChrissyChris10188
@ChrissyChris10188 Ай бұрын
SO IF THEY SEPERATE SHE HAS NOTHING TO START HER LIFE OVER....GOT IT!
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
Yeah that's why there's Alimony and child support. Unless she signed a prenup, he'd be forced to maintain her lifestyle for the rest of his life.
@Mothermochi
@Mothermochi Ай бұрын
⁠@@dekev7503lol she is younger than him. Alimony for the rest of HIS life isn’t that long hahah
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 Ай бұрын
@@ChrissyChris10188 why would they separate? Why do you people always assume the worse is going to happen. If marriage is supposed to be for life
@ChrissyChris10188
@ChrissyChris10188 Ай бұрын
@@dekev7503 do you really think that anti feminists believe in alimony 😂😂😂
@ChrissyChris10188
@ChrissyChris10188 Ай бұрын
@@dabd8175 because we live in reality
@eliscore
@eliscore Ай бұрын
The only problem I had with this was that feminism was bad. It makes me feel like they lie about women trashing them for trying to live like this. Feminism has always been about female empowerment and if this is what she wants for herself good for her?
@TravelBug189
@TravelBug189 Ай бұрын
If she has a “successful” KZbin channel then she is working, she’s simply working from home. If she’s putting her KZbin money into a joint account but gets a $100 allowance then that’s pretty weird
@tyciendawarren2445
@tyciendawarren2445 Ай бұрын
Please watch the video, he asked her how much she needed to " have fun"! She gave him a price and they're good. I can dig what they have going on. They truly seem happy.✌🏿🖤💃🏿
@GabrielG80
@GabrielG80 Ай бұрын
Agreed
@notyourgrammascrafts
@notyourgrammascrafts Ай бұрын
@@tyciendawarren2445 I agree I have a traditional marriage for 29 years it works for some families I don't judge but I also don't like the comments I get on my videos 😞
@alaia-awakened
@alaia-awakened Ай бұрын
Feminism means women get to make choices. This woman is happy with her choice. 🤷‍♀️
@michaelalderman-uz2gd
@michaelalderman-uz2gd 8 күн бұрын
YEAH ONLY FANS FREEDOM
@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer
@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer 8 күн бұрын
Exactly! The problem was that she essentially called feminism, the very movement that encourages women like her to live freely, useless. And the 💩 on top of that statement was her stating men would've liberated us anyway... GIRL. WHY DIDN'T THEY DO IT SOONER THEN???
@mina6mina
@mina6mina 3 күн бұрын
Yet she bashes feminism and says we don't need it, when it's solely because of feminism that she even gets to make a choice. It's women like these that got the freedom to make their own decision, and then say women shouldn't have the that option and should do exactly what she chose.
@gem2148
@gem2148 Ай бұрын
Finally a woman getting paid for the unpaid labor she does around the house
@brianna094
@brianna094 Ай бұрын
😂 just at a pathetic rate...
@Lisalaliebre
@Lisalaliebre Ай бұрын
⁠@@brianna094better then no raise at all😅. I don’t get a dime 🤪
@brianna094
@brianna094 7 күн бұрын
@Lisalaliebre as long as you're happy and safe, I can't judge what kind of arrangement you have without knowing more
@AlissaPaige91
@AlissaPaige91 Ай бұрын
$100 a week? Maids get paid more than that!
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
Yeah, you forget to deduct the cost of rent, utilities, shopping for supplies, food, vacations, car payments, mobile/internet, entertainment, etc, that would've set her back a clean 60-80k a year if she was working and single ( judging by their lifestyle, the dude is clearly bringing in 6 figures). She wasn't wrong when she said that she made more now than when she was in the army
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 Ай бұрын
@@AlissaPaige91 she's a wife not a maid get it right Lib
@Feliciations
@Feliciations Ай бұрын
She's definitely a maid ROFL.
@865style
@865style Ай бұрын
Maids wouldn't live in the house, have a car, eat there, have all the bills paid etc lol.
@VikktheVick
@VikktheVick Ай бұрын
My mom gets paid 200 a month
@fair-folk-fae
@fair-folk-fae Ай бұрын
i would not be relying on only a man's money....we need independence from them especially now.
@VesaJay
@VesaJay Ай бұрын
😂
@Diamondr11Blue
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
No adult should be dependent
@nenep1872
@nenep1872 Ай бұрын
Omg you don't understand the video then 🤦🏾‍♀️
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 Ай бұрын
@@Diamondr11Blue interdependence is a thing educate yourself
@MissvirgoBabyy
@MissvirgoBabyy Ай бұрын
Make it 1000 a week and we gotta deal hubby😂😂😂😂
@nenep1872
@nenep1872 Ай бұрын
I thought that's what it said 😂😂😂
@DOEROCKSAH
@DOEROCKSAH Ай бұрын
Clap that shawty 🎉🎉🎉
@mariahjenkins8714
@mariahjenkins8714 Ай бұрын
1500 for me
@rabbitholegirl1
@rabbitholegirl1 Ай бұрын
Financial success isn't being a live in maid for 400$ a month. Also her husband seeing everything she buys & has 100% of the money is scary. That's not a safe thing to be in. If he leaves, cheats or dies young, she has nothing. Also the age difference is massive. Imo a major red flag.
@sotired9790
@sotired9790 Ай бұрын
Her life, her choice. And hopefully, the courts back her up if it ever came down to it.
@HISPANIC_G00BER
@HISPANIC_G00BER Ай бұрын
Off topic but if you don't wanna be judged online I'm not sure why you would put yourself on the internet to be openly watched by thousands of people.
@gwenx4400
@gwenx4400 Ай бұрын
She already lost me in the first 10 seconds. Honey, for me there will be no financial succes cleaning for just $100 a week😂
@megganaki
@megganaki Ай бұрын
Honestly thats too little, i would demand he tripples that😂
@Sew28
@Sew28 Ай бұрын
Haha!
@abby-a
@abby-a Ай бұрын
Exactly, I agree, but this is why I could never be a stay-at-home mom. I rather have a job and make my own money.
@NMaxne
@NMaxne Ай бұрын
But bills are covered
@megganaki
@megganaki Ай бұрын
@NMaxne 400/ month???? What does that buy though?
@PrettyLeoKitty
@PrettyLeoKitty Ай бұрын
​@@megganaki She set her price so it buys what she needs and if she's smart she saves some for just in case lol
@Dogwithoutaname
@Dogwithoutaname Ай бұрын
TRAD WIFE is so toxic. Feminism happened for a reason, they had no choices or options or freedom. This is odd.
@865style
@865style Ай бұрын
This is nature. Women and men are not equal. We have different roles. Only mentally ill people think men and women are equal. We should all be treated with respect and what not unless you don't deserve that.
@blurry.shmilez
@blurry.shmilez Ай бұрын
​​@@865style"we should all be treated with respect" * instantly tells women what to do * you're such a clown. but this woman higher is wrong too. if someone wants to be a trad wife or whatever it's called - let them. if someone wants to be free of men in their life - let them. freedom's gonna win
@YourOwnDa
@YourOwnDa Ай бұрын
They now have the freedom to choose this lifestyle or not. Stop trying to control women’s freedom to choose.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
@@blurry.shmilez She’s not even trad. She is a content creator and makes a lot of money doing it, and she cheated on her ex-husband with her new husband while in the military. She is nothing she preaches.
@millyofdaworldhola984
@millyofdaworldhola984 Ай бұрын
​​@865style you don't know what you're talking about. God made men and women equal.
@kylezdeath
@kylezdeath Ай бұрын
so she has a kink for being treated as a servant, and she has a kink for the progress of feminism being ruined or something?💀 honey, if he turns abusive there is no escape.
@alijane6675
@alijane6675 Ай бұрын
Feminist here. Stay at home moms are under our umbrella.
@kylezdeath
@kylezdeath Ай бұрын
@alijane6675 stay at home moms are just lazy women who put themselves in danger and romantisize centures of oppression
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
@@alijane6675 Only under choice. Other forms of fem don’t support it because of how regressive and dangerous it is. You don’t speak for all of us, and keep in mind this woman is anti-fem, so do you really want to support your enemy? Foolish.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
@@alijane6675 Only under choice-fem, and so you really want to support someone who is anti-fem? Foolish.
@kylezdeath
@kylezdeath Ай бұрын
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Exactly.
@heathers711
@heathers711 Ай бұрын
I dated a guy once who did the same thing to me. He wanted me to quit my job and stay home and he would give me $100 a week that being said I broke it off😂
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
As you should. $100 is nothing and as soon as a man starts paying for you in that way, they act like they own you. To each their own, but I rather make my own money and not deal with being someone’s bang maid 24/7. That’s what these relationships mostly devolve into.
@heathers711
@heathers711 Ай бұрын
@tiahnarodriguez3809 100% agree. I thought it was gross that her husband was talking to his buddies thinking it was cool he got a 20 something year old. Nothing but red flags. I hope she wakes up and realizes she deserves better.
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
When you deduct the cost of rent, utilities, shopping for supplies, food, vacations, car payments, mobile/internet, entertainment, etc, all that would've set her back a clean 60-80k a year if she was working and single ( judging by their lifestyle, home and the car she drives, the dude is clearly bringing in 6 figures). She wasn't wrong when she said that she made more now than when she was in the army
@africansister
@africansister Ай бұрын
KZbin pays her too
@elizabethdicampli8491
@elizabethdicampli8491 Ай бұрын
The Army absolutely pays more than $100/week.
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
@@elizabethdicampli8491 can you read?
@XKHRYSTORM1973
@XKHRYSTORM1973 Ай бұрын
I'd pay her 10,000 a week!! She's Beautiful!! And let her know she's priceless!! It ain't no thang. Handle yall businesses!! Keep it in the family baby!!!
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
She cheated on her first husband while in the military and is how she ended up with her second husband who was her superior 💀.
@stephwalker2114
@stephwalker2114 Ай бұрын
Her saying she earns more money now than when she had a job, when she earns only $100 a week, x 52 weeks in a year = $5.2K . . . is highly suspect. But if they are happy, good for them! Happiness is the most important thing. But IMHO, $100 a week is not enough. You can't hire a housekeeper for that, unless it's only for one or two days. BTW, this is an excellent idea for homemakers. If you give up your job to take care of the house and the husband or wife, then you deserve a salary.
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
You forget to deduct the cost of rent, utilities, shopping for supplies, food, vacations, car payments, mobile/internet, entertainment, etc, all that would've set her back a clean 60-80k a year if she was working and single ( judging by their lifestyle, home and the car she drives, the dude is clearly bringing in 6 figures). She wasn't wrong when she said that she made more now than when she was in the army.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
She send more cuz she’s an influencer and goes on podcasts trash talking women.
@charmeika14
@charmeika14 Ай бұрын
Girllll, a $100 a week is crazy work. Teenaged babysitters get paid more than that🤭
@AbimaelTurcios3040
@AbimaelTurcios3040 Ай бұрын
That's actually a Job and she definitely deserves to get paid. In fact she should be paid more.
@moparman2010
@moparman2010 Ай бұрын
That’s the red pill chick 😅
@리스Lys
@리스Lys Ай бұрын
People who stay at home to clean, cook, take care of the children and manage daily household tasks perform essential work that contributes to the well-being and stability of the family. Like any job, it deserves compensation.💖
@janmarchand7294
@janmarchand7294 Ай бұрын
It's a 24/7 job, and one of the hardest. You do it out of love, but boy, there are those days when you just want a quiet place where you can relax, by yourself.
@리스Lys
@리스Lys Ай бұрын
Absolutely! It’s a constant job with no breaks, and it can be exhausting. Taking time for yourself is so important, even if it’s just for a few moments of peace. Self-care helps us give our best to those we love.😇
@YourOwnDa
@YourOwnDa Ай бұрын
@@janmarchand7294 it isn’t a walk in the park of course, but “one of the hardest” is a joke… come on
@GirlWandering
@GirlWandering Ай бұрын
@@YourOwnDa Are you a stay at home mum then?
@GabrielG80
@GabrielG80 Ай бұрын
If it's working and they're both happy, then thats what you call a successful relationship. Happy for them 😊
@monicalogsdon
@monicalogsdon Ай бұрын
The only issue I have with this that she's only making $400 a month and she acts like that's a good living!! No way she only made that much in the military the math is not mathing.
@F95GHomestead
@F95GHomestead Ай бұрын
I have a similar marriage but I suck at cleaning so I do photography part time and clean part time 😅 my husband likes to clean so he helps a lot. It’s his love language to give service
@rebekahvlad8082
@rebekahvlad8082 Ай бұрын
You would think For a woman that’s much younger than him, he could offer her a bit more than 100 dollars week. But hey that’s what she settled for. Many house wives marry men who are older than they are yet still offer them a lot more than he does. If that works for them and they are happy then kudos to them.
@wanjirualice35
@wanjirualice35 Ай бұрын
She is a WORKING traditional wife,that's beautiful.With 185k on YT,she's making bank like most traditional wives do on social media.With online jobs these days, that spousal allowance,plus am sure she's gaining some skill online while managing her home,it's a better option than when she was employed in that her bank balance is better because of YT.
@mdliquid
@mdliquid Ай бұрын
A quiet and normal life well done we need to be like THIS
@chiponbloc
@chiponbloc Ай бұрын
i wish i could find this......... a traditional marriage where the woman is HAPPY to stay home- cook and clean and doesnt feel the need to freak out. this is such a diamond in the rough in 2024 in western cultures - 100$ aside or not who cares. he pays for everything for her in and out
@millyofdaworldhola984
@millyofdaworldhola984 Ай бұрын
The marriage is stupid. She underpaid and doing more then she should. She literally said that feminism is bad like girl... so is she saying we should go back to ahere women had to rights? Terrible please don't condom this.
@pinkfuture8275
@pinkfuture8275 Ай бұрын
Women shouldn't stay at home in this generation. If her husband leaves, she will have a hard time finding a job. She will have nothing and no friends too. No life too.
@alexislee5830
@alexislee5830 Ай бұрын
She’s very toxic, but it’s her choice to do what she wants with her life, but don’t put others down for what they do.
@takaogibson845
@takaogibson845 Ай бұрын
I think she is a good wife. But she deserves more.
@rosemarysantiogo291
@rosemarysantiogo291 Ай бұрын
This is truly sickening. I rather be fat, alone, and depressed then be considered a maid/nurse by the man I love. To hate on feminism when the whole point of it being created was to uplift woman since they had no rights and were considered property. Educate yourself.
@parlie13
@parlie13 Ай бұрын
I don't care what you do in your own relationship. But to claim feminism is bad because "men love women so much that they would've liberated us after they were fully liberated anyway" is a wild, stupid thing to say.
@onlyus1278
@onlyus1278 Ай бұрын
I don’t see the problem here. For years I paid my kids dad to watch the kids while I was at work. He cooked cleaned and took the kids to school. All clothes supplies food bills were covered by me. He used the money I gave him outside the house. The only difference is we didn’t call it a financial relationship but clearly that’s what it was. 16 years before we broke up.
@africansister
@africansister Ай бұрын
Ahh u gave that man an allowance 😮😮 plz for the next guy don't do it it s ridiculous.
@cholulalv
@cholulalv Ай бұрын
It's just rage bait, lol. No one would care if you weren't presenting it as though it's the right way versus your choice. Congrats in cultivating an audience out of almost literally nothing?
@taylor123lolz
@taylor123lolz Ай бұрын
I’m no feminist, because i know in this life we NEED men. They seem like a regular traditional couple. Not a red pill pushed agenda. I don’t like neither the feminist movement nor misogyny. I also believe if you’re traditional, continue to be traditional without bashing the women who doesn’t want to go that route.
@mizzhllywd
@mizzhllywd 27 күн бұрын
She thought his skin was attractive. Anyways why is he paying her instead of just sharing the bank account?
@MickeyGee73
@MickeyGee73 Ай бұрын
Theyre lucky they have a single income that will allow this..Clearly she hasn't done any real research into feminism and what it has achieved..
@andiepandy1234
@andiepandy1234 20 күн бұрын
I'm also a woman vet worked hard and now married living in a foreign country..stay at home married life usually is free but to have allowance is nice..we veterans are use to not needing alot of material things.im in Morocco near atlas mountains simple life but I shop but what ever I want but it's simple needs.this is for simple easy going woman..I happy for her
@janmarchand7294
@janmarchand7294 Ай бұрын
Men marry their new Mom. And that's all you need to know about marriage. 🤣🤣
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
And women marry their new dad 🤷‍♂
@janmarchand7294
@janmarchand7294 Ай бұрын
@@dekev7503I know men would like to think that, but it's just not true. Women are usually responsible for the whole household, including their new man baby! 😂😂
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
@@janmarchand7294 And men are usually responsible for providing for, protecting and leading the family, including the woman. Where do you think the saying "my money is my money and his money is OUR MONEY", originated from ?
@Diamondr11Blue
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
What
@Diamondr11Blue
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
​@@dekev7503??
@meghangantt717
@meghangantt717 Ай бұрын
I’m also a housewife and holy cow the tone of this video is SO whack
@match30xgaming
@match30xgaming Ай бұрын
0:06 the look he gives with the music drop 😂 💀👍
@Blissedx
@Blissedx Ай бұрын
She must be playing the longggggg game. 100/ wk is a joke. My husband gives me 10x more than that a month.
@RGisselle
@RGisselle Ай бұрын
The mom looks more of the age to date her husband. Anyway, good for her. But don’t try to say working women like me, are feminist as in hating men and not the way the word was meant to be which is women being treated with respect, have the right to education and be able to work without being dependent on a guy. She’s very critical of working women when working women are just doing them. My mom is a boomer and has been with my dad for 50 yrs and has worked before she got married through her retirement. This traditional marriage this lady is talking about is something that was normal before my mother’s time and she’s 75 yrs old. I love my career, my sister is married has kids, same with my sis in law etc. They are smart, do all the chores (split with the husband) and are super present in their kids lives just like my mother was. She’s ridiculous. I am do you boo but don’t try to put other women down.
@MohamadSimo
@MohamadSimo Ай бұрын
This man really lucky to find such as a wonderfull wife
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
Yes, he found her while she was cheating on her husband with him. So lucky.
@MohamadSimo
@MohamadSimo Ай бұрын
@tiahnarodriguez3809 where you found her cheating?? You was in the same room and you saw her cheating??
@millyofdaworldhola984
@millyofdaworldhola984 Ай бұрын
She literally said that feminism is bad... so I'm pretty sure that there both insane
@okayubeam
@okayubeam Ай бұрын
I see nothing wrong with this relationship. Thats awesome she gets paid $400 a month. That's like a allowance. My husband and I each get $100 of allowance each month from our budget. She must also have some income from her social media.
@notyourgrammascrafts
@notyourgrammascrafts Ай бұрын
I'm a traditional wife and honestly I think I get paid a little more than that😂❤
@mesaluv08
@mesaluv08 Ай бұрын
I wish this was possible in today's economy. I would love to do this with my husband. $100 is enough if everything else is taken care of.
@alisbea07
@alisbea07 Ай бұрын
The amount of envy I get for staying at home is delightful, a show of true colors. You do you and stay focused. ❤
@onnt758
@onnt758 Ай бұрын
Even $100/day is not enough. This guy is extremely cheap.
@Jodi800
@Jodi800 Ай бұрын
I wish everyone could see my marriage. Like a tree it took 17 years to grow. Many years were horrible. But the love we have now.. Was worth everything we went through. I'm in love for the first time. Its absolutely amazing ❤ Love really is a lot of work. I hope everyone gets there.
@deliam69
@deliam69 28 күн бұрын
This scenario is quite common in Asia. In one of the religions, there's even a principle that women should be housewives and excel at taking care of their husbands. Personally, I've had my own experience. At one point, I was offered $1,500 USD a month by a German man, just to have fun and enjoy life. He didn't even ask about my job, but I didn't love him, so I rejected the offer. I've dated a few men, and I once met a man who was raised without a mother, she had fled to another country and left her family behind. He said, he doesn't like feminists and wants a woman who can take care of him and isn't too smart, so she won't challenge him. In the end, I discovered that he wasn't loyal. On another occasion, I met a man with a high level of education and a good job who was raised in a lovely normal family. He prefers independent and smart women, he said those are attractive traits. So I think upbringing really determines your point of view in life, at least to some extent.
@krislic84
@krislic84 Ай бұрын
I ❤ this! I would do this! Don't have to leave the home, fight traffic and long hours. She can tackle tasks on her own schedule, and also be a stay at home mom. But she is also too young for him. In your 20's, you have no clue who you are, and by 30's, your outlook on life completely changes. I think she will want more than that in the years to come, and a better future for herself. I don't see this marriage lasting. He will be an old man, and she will still be young.
@rainydays0265
@rainydays0265 Ай бұрын
So it’s basically an allowance
@kefaylem
@kefaylem Ай бұрын
I think this is wonderful. She doesn’t want for anything, he takes care of all her needs and the £100 is for treats. Meanwhile he feels looked after and she enjoys nurturing her man and raising a family over making some other man rich. Office jobs suck. I’d much rather be at home all day. I respect it and I’d be down. Congratulations. This is a healthy home.
@Eva_H
@Eva_H Ай бұрын
If the dynamic works for these two specifically that’s cool. However, individuals choose to define their relationship in the more wider context is also down to them, in the end you just find what works for you is individuals and as a couple.
@hazzaplayz808
@hazzaplayz808 Ай бұрын
Thats cheap, especially with the cost of living. Yikes 😂😂
@YourOwnDa
@YourOwnDa Ай бұрын
She is getting all of her bills paid for, did you not watch the video?
@thetarotc
@thetarotc Ай бұрын
I was a stay at home in my 20s with 2 kids, it was hard! I was expected to not only keep up with the house but our 2 young toddlers. I felt like a single mom. I would never again want to be in a relationship where i am expected to do everything, but to each their own. I work as a nurse now, so i only work 3 days a week and get paid good still, but hopefully she has her youtube income in a separate account because alimony isnt forever and niether is child support, and both wouldnt sustain that lifestyle
@BFRIZZLE909
@BFRIZZLE909 Ай бұрын
I work full time so does my husband, he pays rent we split the rest. He'll hand me whatever amount of money I want whenever I want. I like it better my way honestly. But you go girl. Your hubby can lose his job just like a woman can.
@Liz__0062
@Liz__0062 Ай бұрын
I would do that for a payment instead of working too I must Say 😂
@Lorna1118
@Lorna1118 Ай бұрын
She may change her opinion when the babies here and her work load doubles
@kendrafawkes3644
@kendrafawkes3644 Ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with your husband giving u money and taking care of u.but he don't suppose to call it paying u to work in the house. That's the right thing for a wife to do when the husband is the one working and paying all the bills..
@darkseid9391
@darkseid9391 Ай бұрын
She makes 5200$ a year he pays for everything else plus content creation she’s winnning and they’re happy
@nicolebrokaw5758
@nicolebrokaw5758 Ай бұрын
Right she’s got it made
@Feliciations
@Feliciations Ай бұрын
I make $132,000/year and pay a maid. Who's winning now?
@africansister
@africansister Ай бұрын
She is wining 😊
@Feliciations
@Feliciations Ай бұрын
@africansister yes, whining, your spelling is spot on.
@dabd8175
@dabd8175 Ай бұрын
@@Feliciations your maid 😭🤣
@wrghty
@wrghty 6 күн бұрын
He's stuck in the Victorian era mindset, and she goes along with it. Get yourself a hubby that will treat you like a queen, not a skivvy
@icantwiththis
@icantwiththis Ай бұрын
She doesn't get money she uses his credit cards. So she can't save on the side.
@tiffanyhermidas5330
@tiffanyhermidas5330 Ай бұрын
He said how much do you need a week to have fun. Also she makes money from being a content creator.
@Jesslit101
@Jesslit101 Ай бұрын
Yeah not really a deal lol 😂
@TheJacali
@TheJacali Ай бұрын
Why would she need to save on the side? What’s mine is yours right. So his money is her money. They’re obviously smart financially and are investing and saving for retirement. She wanted a reasonable “fun” budget for the week. They’re working as a team. And if God forbid they ever divorce she’d get roughly half. If she works hard to save money, cook homemade meals, and have a reasonable disciplined fun budget. Then that works for them. Most people are in debt up to their eyeballs. I guarantee this couple is far ahead of most financially.
@bernadettedevereux4489
@bernadettedevereux4489 Ай бұрын
​@@TheJacaliIn case she ever needs to escape from him,for whatever reason.
@TheJacali
@TheJacali Ай бұрын
@@bernadettedevereux4489 $100 buys a taxi to her parents house... That said this is such a rediculous reason to have separate money. The percentage of this actually being the case is so small like come on. If God forbid that was the case then she could easily take a cab to her parents house. And divorce lawyers would take roughly half. Idk if you have an experience like that which would cause you to think that. If so I’m sorry. But honestly I don’t see why that would make a difference. If you go into a relationship with an abusive man then why would you stick with him?
@LizNeptune
@LizNeptune Ай бұрын
Typical Bird brain. I hate when people have a kink and just try and make it seem like it’s normal.
@AfroGoth_
@AfroGoth_ Ай бұрын
Why does he look like Tom Kenny, the guy who voices SpongeBob 😂 and his name is Tom! 😂
@2pigeons684
@2pigeons684 Ай бұрын
I have no comment on their arrangement. If it works for them power to them. But anytime someone talks abt "feminism" like that it just tells me they are not educated and are operating according to some antagonized read of feminism far divorced from what it actually is, both theoretically and as a historic and contemporary movement. She just looks ignorant. Yeesh
@scheenekendrick9009
@scheenekendrick9009 Ай бұрын
I don’t see why people are concerned other people’s relationship especially if there’s nothing bad going on
@millyofdaworldhola984
@millyofdaworldhola984 Ай бұрын
Did you hear the stuff they were saying? She said feminism is bad and stupid and they are clowns. He CONTROLS her and she doesn't even have her own bank card. The husband gets all the money and only gives her 100$ (which ik she said she only wanted that much) but it doesn't make it any less toxic.
@scheenekendrick9009
@scheenekendrick9009 Ай бұрын
@ that’s what she chose. She wasn’t so young dumb girl with no life experiences. She was literally in the military
@millyofdaworldhola984
@millyofdaworldhola984 Ай бұрын
@scheenekendrick9009 so what she was in the military? That has nothing to do with the life she lived now.
@ducatixclutch008
@ducatixclutch008 Ай бұрын
At least he pays her lol most wives do it out of love lmao
@kimscozyreads
@kimscozyreads Ай бұрын
*societal conditioning
@christinethemommy6094
@christinethemommy6094 Ай бұрын
Yea, 2 1/2 years lol I’ve been married 17yrs. Just wait, this will get old. I’m not a feminist by any means. I’m a stay at home mom that homeschools. However, we are equal and I have my own money as I run my business from home. Having ur own ability to survive if need be is important. Having ur own thing going on is important for a sense of purpose outside of taking care of others. Check back in 20yrs from now because this WILL drain you and leave you unfulfilled eventually. That said, you have a KZbin channel ya phony baloney lol Ur prob making more than him 😂 You found a topic that would annoy people and ur making bank off the fantasy.
@jamaicancutie5160
@jamaicancutie5160 22 күн бұрын
Single women over 30 always have something to say. When they see a happy couple let alone a happily married woman with a child on the way. Like these females today act just like men so masculine. I’m 27 in see this I’ve been married 2 years now 1 child and happy. I don’t get a $100 a week to clean my house up. And I still get nasty comments from women over 30 single because my husband Caucasian. I mean you can’t win with these depressed trolls behind these screens so continue living your best life. 🎉👶🏻
@Sinailionspride
@Sinailionspride Ай бұрын
Her makeup costs a lot. She gets other perks too. Go girl!
@Vogelnest77
@Vogelnest77 Ай бұрын
So I totally not agree with you guys. But if you enjoy living like that...pheu...why not? So you definitly shouldn't try to stop feminism, because for most women it's like that they like being indipendent, but kinda couldn't, because men were suppressing them. And were on a good way to stop that. But I feel like for you guys, you're both happy with your choice and thats ok
@feliciasjourney
@feliciasjourney Ай бұрын
Damn, I need to ask for a raise from my husband 😂 lol
@jillj2880
@jillj2880 Ай бұрын
I’ve wanted this my entire life!!! The only thing I would change is the rate of pay. I would need enough for me to have fun and invest in other ways in case it doesn’t last til death do us part. I absolutely love working for my family and hate working for and with strangers
@VesaJay
@VesaJay Ай бұрын
OMG, what is she doing on this channel. 😂😂 She's the last person I thought I'd see on here. Kevin Samuel's taught her well.
@tiffanyhermidas5330
@tiffanyhermidas5330 Ай бұрын
Who's Kevin Samuels???
@VesaJay
@VesaJay Ай бұрын
@tiffanyhermidas5330 Google. He helped her and could help you. Good day, ma'am
@auzangelful
@auzangelful Ай бұрын
She reminds me a bit of a young Alyssa Milano
@Brittany-fe3zh
@Brittany-fe3zh Ай бұрын
It's k as soon as baby comes everybody gunna wake up
@lizzyespo
@lizzyespo Ай бұрын
100 a week isn't much
@BigMoneySonny
@BigMoneySonny Ай бұрын
I don’t see anything wrong with this. In fact she should try to invest the money somehow. Salutes to them
@getitdonewithsiobhan
@getitdonewithsiobhan Ай бұрын
What’s amazing is they can afford a one income family.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Ай бұрын
2 income. She is a content creator and makes money off of it.
@getitdonewithsiobhan
@getitdonewithsiobhan Ай бұрын
@ that’s true. I was just thinking how he provides for her it seems like they only use his income.
@beckyrichter3170
@beckyrichter3170 Ай бұрын
I think people should do whatever makes them happy.
@idalarsson4729
@idalarsson4729 Ай бұрын
She’s selling herself short. $100 a week?! Does he provide her a savings account? What about retirement? Then there’s the fact that she is actually working - she’s a content creator! Hey, if it works for them that’s great! But some of us don’t want to go back in time, some of us don’t want to be married and have children! Happiness looks different from everyone, and to be honest I don’t feel like she is living her life to the fullest of her potential! But what do I know?.
@rosemarysantiogo291
@rosemarysantiogo291 Ай бұрын
What I find funny is how she says this is not about money, sure. Let’s talk about the age gap, that man is looking for a nurse for when he can’t function any longer. Who will be stuck taking care of him until his health is better? Who will be left widowed and be alone taking care of your children? In the end she will get the money, the house, all of his belongings. She’s doing all this so she doesn’t have to work and can be financially free. Good for you!
@alipakdin7372
@alipakdin7372 Ай бұрын
100 bucks isn't much of an economical relation,most wives spend much more than that.
@Skullpirate89
@Skullpirate89 Ай бұрын
Not my business, not my problem but girl get that raise with each kid because they want to eat and go places all day everyday.
@briiibriiibooo
@briiibriiibooo Ай бұрын
A boss who “doesn’t love you” would pay you way more than the man that does 😂
@sarahsmiles3271
@sarahsmiles3271 Ай бұрын
Whatever works for you! ❤
@JerseyGurlNolaGuurrl
@JerseyGurlNolaGuurrl Ай бұрын
I guess, but inflation is that thing so that $100 should be $200
@dekev7503
@dekev7503 Ай бұрын
You forgot to deduct the cost of rent, utilities, shopping for supplies, food, vacations, car payments, mobile/internet, entertainment, etc, all that would've set her back a clean 60-80k a year if she was working and single ( judging by their lifestyle, home and the car she drives, the dude is clearly bringing in 6 figures). She wasn't wrong when she said that she made more now than when she was in the army
@Imabeemee2
@Imabeemee2 Ай бұрын
I wouldn’t want to give so much control of my life to someone else…but that’s just me.
@demZetri
@demZetri Ай бұрын
How is she making more now than when she was in the military? There's no way they paid her less than that. If someone wants a traditional marriage, good for them. Do whatever makes you happy, but she needs to have her own accounts. It's just not healthy to have everything combined. Then, there is no independence.
@sotired9790
@sotired9790 Ай бұрын
$5,200 a year. Every woman gets to decide her worth.
@DressingUpDollyLady
@DressingUpDollyLady Ай бұрын
😅the comments got me laughing, but hey I'm next in line. Where my hubby at?❤
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