My husband wants a divorce because I'm more social than him, but I told him I won't accept...

[@SweetAlmondButter]

Almost feels like he used divorce as a manipulative tactic for an argument without realising how far it would go and now he's in too deep

[@Amenimun]

Seems like it

[@Maninawig]

I can see it being different ways... for instance, her story put all the blame onto him and painted herself as the perfect woman. When someone does that, it makes me question how they might be sugar coating things. For instance, she said that he accused her of ambushing his plans, which the word would suggest she asked to stay at the resort in front of their friends to weaponize social pressure in her favour. Add to that her claim that she's more social, and their fight might well be that she tends to prioritize time with others (like staying at the resort) over time with her husband (like going to a museum), then using all the time they spend working together as "bonding time." In the end, threatening divorce was still petty and manipulative, but he might be sticking to it not because he's in too deep, but because he's sill waiting for her to admit her own manupulations.

[@justroonhere]

​@@Maninawigawful take tbh

[@isaactheicemancombs7443]

@@justroonhereawful commentary tbh

[@pretzelicious4200]

That def seems more possible than just a "you're mor social than me"

[@ThatguyKC206]

How is she the jerk he wanted out and now i feel like he don’t want to seen no he knows what he would be losing

[@formanga8871]

For the first half as she aked 4 years

[@bluecraft2012]

Bruh OP's step daughter is going to watch her parents divorce twice in her life and she might be losing her mother a second time.

[@babygoddess2]

Everyone who called OP a jerk after the original post is stupid. He wasn't upset because he felt trapped, he was upset because she agreed. He either wanted her to fight and beg him to stay with her, or change everything about herself that he listed as a "problem"

[@konoeyoshito6105]

i honestly doubt that the reason he's asking for a divorce is him being less social than you ,also dude wants divorce yet still wants to keep the smashing ,is he stupid or just greedy

[@SSFighter1701]

To be fair - her wanting to be separated but still have all the legal benefits of the marriage isn’t too far from being the same thing.

[@magicalmomo9987]

He probably didn't actually want to divorce. He wanted her to do what he wanted and realized his mistake too late, started dragging his feet.

[@chessieray1465]

He really misjudged this decision and is backtracking hard.

[@mannydcbianco]

That's my impression too. Either he used the threat of divorce as manipulation and is now backtracking because she unexpectedly agreed to it, or he had someone else lined up, possibly an acquaintance from work (not unheard of when someone is away for work as much as he is), and he wanted to pursue the work acquaintance instead of staying with OP. Then that acquaintance fling fell through and now he wants to go back to normal and pretend like nothing happened. Either way he's for the streets.

[@pretzelicious4200]

The reason for him to ask divorce sounds like bs.

[@akiralyrics9590]

HOW ON EARTH IS OP THE JERK??

[@heyitsally7995]

How was OP the jerk here? Ig antisocial redditors can’t stand the idea of someone wanting to spend time with others.

[@killsowns]

OP was called out initially as a jerk for socially pressuring her husband into abandoning the original vacation plans, and for wanting to drag it out for four years despite him saying he wanted a divorce.

[@luke-il5nr]

What's that resource pack?

[@rahmatfarhan50]

as for now the account is deleted

[@lapure2220]

People are so stupid they believe her side of the story, she's lying to save her image. Hiding the true reason why her husband wasn't happy with her.