MY JOURNEY: THE STRUGGLES OF BEING A SINGLE MOM | BITTERNESS | THE REALITY | SA YOUTUBER

[@Tlc_lele]

To add on.....If you want to be free of social pressure, gaurd who you follow. You can't follow and live in shadow of a person with no child because our lives, responsibilities and routines are totally different. Wether we like it or not, them saying how happy they are childless will always sting a bit because it looks like you made the worst decision abd they chose freedom and they are better. We end up resenting ourselves because of such statements......All love to single mothrs/women 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@chapterswithkhanyi7309]

You literally touched on so many points that i can relate to but the biggest one is God is my co-parent (this is where I'm at). When I was making the decision of leaving the father of my child I was so scared of walking away because fear of raising a child alone or he's retaliation ey it's something i never thought I'd have to do for myself especially because I prayed for an active present dad and my dream was crushed. However so thankful to God He gave me the courage to leave because back then I was still very focused on how to be a better girlfriend or how to please him than pouring into my son. I am a BETTER mom yooh and i love it, i love the fact that my son gets to see this happy playful version of me than the sad always crying me. God has literally held my hand through it all still a bit bitter or angry towards him but unfortunately i cannot coach him to be a dad. Also started therapy and honestly I'm happy where i am Lol i have so much to say😂😂mara keh thank you for this❤

[@_baphiwe_]

Lol let me drag you a little about posting kids: it's not about pride or hiding them. This world is literally so dangerous. Plus putting out somethings on the socials makes you more vulnerable sometimes. Haha small story: old highschool mate always posted her kid on IG. She wasn't my friend just same grade. Never met the child. I'm walking in Gateway mall and I literally spot the child. I'm so shocked I even greet her by her name. Mind you I've never met her and mom and I are not friends. That could've easily been a kidnapping situation. I know the world is not all bad but even the bible talks about keeping somethings to yourself. Don't fight me please just sharing a story haha I love your videos. Keep posting ❤❤❤❤

[@anittanxusa]

@@_baphiwe_ Im glad you highlighted this because it’s a very necessary perspective! Thank you

[@ovayontlabati4341]

Nothing matures you like having umntana. Thank you for your transparency. You’ve put into words so many things I’ve felt. This journey is really not easy, but it’s so fulfilling.

[@nontokozochiliza2748]

I share the same sentiments, took my child to stay with me when she was 3yrs old (as a single mom myself) coz i wanted to be there for her on a daily as i was also raised by both my parents. She's 9 now and we're besties ♥

[@anittanxusa]

@@nontokozochiliza2748 Exactly sis! Thank you so much❤️

[@kekeletsoralake-pl4ph]

Being a single mom is hard. I had my baby at 39..thought because I am older it will much more easy. She’s the light of my world but it would have been better if the father was consist in parenting. Unfortunately most black men think financially supporting their children is parenting

[@Tlc_lele]

Hugs♡♡♡

[@MasandeTiwani]

I’m glad my mom pushed me otherwise I was never going to be ready, it’s hard sana but it’s doable. Siwa sivuka sobabini and I am proud of myself sana 🥹🥹

[@anittanxusa]

@@MasandeTiwani injalo mntase❤️ it just gets better with time🥹

[@Feziwemkhwanazi]

This video healed parts of me I never knew needed healing ❤️‍🩹🥺

[@anittanxusa]

Yuh🥹❤️🙏🏾 you have no idea how much I appreciate what you’ve said. Thank you

[@louiscanthyshakela88]

What's important is you are a happy child, you are working hard and you are achieving your goals and dreams❤❤❤❤

[@anythinggoes5118]

My child is 2 years and akamazi utatakhe because of his choice anyway. So if that will traumatised him then ngiyaxolisa because I’m a mom and a dad.

[@anittanxusa]

@@anythinggoes5118 you got this mama❤️❤️

[@annitam]

You are so well spoken ❤

[@DM-rm5ec]

So much truth in most of what you shared💯💯💯💖💖💖

[@anittanxusa]

@@DM-rm5ec Thank you for watching❤️🙏🏾

[@tshepisoaphane7591]

This is everything. Thank you. ❤️

[@vhonanipetla9079]

I literally wanted to DM you the other day to ask how you show up for so many things as a single mom because wow. Thank you so much for this video, being a single mom is a lot but like you said, God has us! I'd love love to start dating but the nerves, its a lot.

[@anittanxusa]

@@vhonanipetla9079 🥺🥹❤️🙏🏾 thank you so much! We have a very BIG and faithful co parent!😅

[@Mbalenhlechrissie]

Mem you are speaking nothing but the truth I agree with everything you said a child raised by parent/s has so much confidence and they know how to express themselves, my baby is 4 months old and I made a decision from the get go that I will stay with my child no matter what circumstances

[@anittanxusa]

@@Mbalenhlechrissie 🥹❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@michaelakayser8928]

from another single mom, thank you for this video❤

[@MphoSehloho-xx9qu]

Loved this video sis❤❤

[@anittanxusa]

Thank you for watching sis🥹🙏🏾❤️

[@mikhanyie.gmikhanyie.g3787]

Ey I’m so hurt! Mine this year akazingeni not present physically and financially sana it hurts my heart so much because umntana ungenaphi?

[@anittanxusa]

Yoh sana mntase it’s sad but it does get better with time🥹❤️🙏🏾

[@zee-zm1io]

Yazi for now coparenting is working but who know when they meet some woman if things will change or not. Eish

[@suenettematras7589]

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[@Leelubisi__]

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[@anittanxusa]

Love you loads🥺❤️🙏🏾

[@Tlc_lele]

New subbie here...Whether we have everything or nothing our children really love being around Umama. I feel like it gives them a sense of being protected and loved as long as mommy is home and around every night. They love that. To those who can, lets break this generational altar of not living with our children.😢

[@Fifi_seopa]

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[@leletunoda6381]

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[@nornomzizi5843]

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