When "Lazy Natural" is your default setting,. 🙋🏿♀️😅 Love your hair and aesthetic.
@LaToya_Ebony9 ай бұрын
😂 Yeeeeeesssssss. Less stress 🙌🏾
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
In watching this back, I want to make it clear that being low energy or in a depression doesn’t not necessarily correlate with choosing to be low maintenance with natural hair. On the contrary, I think taking a step back can be very helpful to those feeling overwhelmed. For me, however, being in a negative space did lead to a more pronounced “letting go” of perfection with my hair. It’s up to YOU to decide what level of maintenance you want with your hair. I personally tend to be somewhere in the middle of the hair maintenance effort, so when “letting go” turns into “neglect” I have to make a decision to pull myself out of my funk. It’s all about being self aware and everyone’s meter will be different. Love you and take care of yourself. ❤
@maryclarke42089 ай бұрын
I totally understand the moment. I had my braids in for three months. Upon taking them down, I knew it was time for a haircut. It's OK that our hair isn't perfect.
@cinnamondelight18999 ай бұрын
Love you back 💜🌹
@Tai-chan.9 ай бұрын
I agree. Taking a step back has really helped me with keeping with my hair, which has gotten longer and doing a lot is not working with me personally...my hair doesn't mind, but it makes me tired. So I feel you.
@Velvety1Vee9 ай бұрын
I have had to love my hair as is, since it has fallen out at the top because of menopause. 💜 your journey and your hair is beautiful as well as you are
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
I can imagine that has been difficult to navigate. I'm sending you a BIG virtual hug. It's beautiful to read that you're choosing to love your hair as it is. ❤️
@sharonk87589 ай бұрын
Nobody told me that menopause was going to thin out my hair to strings. 😢
@belindasanders17199 ай бұрын
Menopause is the devil☹️. My hair has started bouncing back. Don't become too discouraged.
@jciv2569 ай бұрын
Look into hormone replacement therapy
@alexiabailey69766 ай бұрын
Try burdock root, nettles, molasses- herbs that are natural HRTs, up your supplements. Rest, exercise and pray on my dearest sissy ❤
@TreniaP9 ай бұрын
This is the most relatable hair video I've ever seen. I've been natural since the late 90's and this is my approach to my hair, as little manipulation as possible and keeping things simple.
@daisyray80989 ай бұрын
Your content is so helpful to me. Your hair is so beautiful
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
Thank you! I’m so glad my videos are helpful to you ☺️
@daisyray80989 ай бұрын
❤😊
@disneytoysr4fun9759 ай бұрын
Um sis, not you being a whole secret actress!! The compassion in your eyes was fire in the second scene!
@rosieamelia59559 ай бұрын
You looked beautiful. I have been doing twist they are so easy and they are two styles in one
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
2-in-1 exactly! Soooo easy 😌
@Autumn9389 ай бұрын
I can so relate to where you are in your life and hair journey. ❤️
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
You know, I think A LOT of people can relate. We’re tired 😂.
@Autumn9389 ай бұрын
@@LaToyaEbonyHair So tired! 🤣
@advocartist75049 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful. Embracing every curl, and overcoming perfectionism. Our hair is already divinely created! Thank you for sharing.
@remikawilliams40369 ай бұрын
I have a similar experience but I realized over my ten plus years of being natural that simplicity works for me and my hair. I can work my ass off on my hair and it turns into a flop. When I have the least amount of effort my hair looks amazing 🤔 😂 Love your final look ❤
@yveje97209 ай бұрын
I’ve literally been doing the medium/large twists in a bun for years and I love what you said about just taking it out into a twist out when you need to go somewhere it’s honestly the best way to care for natural 4c hair in my opinion, if you are lazy and don’t wanna be bothered lol Pro tip you can turn your old twist out into a sleek ponytail with a puff just using some gel, and some got 2 b that can extend your next wash day, you’re welcome
@samiraj.1929 ай бұрын
You look beautiful & you’re continuing to show up for yourself while adapting to the current season. Exemplary 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽✨
@GetWhitItCo9 ай бұрын
What a beautiful updo style! Learning to love my natural hair as is and how not to FEEL like it needs to be "done" all the time. Some great tips here 🥰
@YoFonzz9 ай бұрын
Great story telling
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
❤️ Thank you. I'm glad you stopped by and enjoyed!
@Silkyslim489 ай бұрын
You did a great job with your hair. I have been a lazy natural from the start of my natural hair journey. I style my hair to fit my face and my hair texture. I just keep it simple sis...k.i.s.s😉😊🙋🏾♀️
@alisameireis36289 ай бұрын
I really LOVE how you used unraveled twists to create a beautifully elegant up-do. I’m going to try doing something similar with my hair as we go into Fall/Winter. Wash-n-go’s are not so good when it’s bitterly cold outside, know what I mean?? My hair has grown and I am now able to have twists that are long enough to “gather together” even after shrinkage. Thank you for sharing the untwisted style with us!!! I am SO going to try it!! Also - I had no idea you had been on Days of Our Lives!!! You really are awesome!!!!! 🥰
@cinnamondelight18999 ай бұрын
Agreed 💜
@LadyDee1509 ай бұрын
Girl, this is such a great idea!!! I think I'm one of the laziest naturals out there lol. This is why I microloc'd my hair in 2020, but it only lasted 3 years because of a chronic scalp issue that I battle with. Since I cut them off a few months ago, I fight hard not to neglect my much shorter 4b/c hair. Your hair is simply gorgeous, especially in the style you did for the wedding. It looks like you put a whole lot of effort in to get that beautiful style !!🤩🤩🌺🌺 As my hair grows out , I'm going to copy your present hair routine closely. Thanks so much for sharing💕💕
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
Keeping it simple is key in my experience. Sure I have lots of fun, but simplicity helps me maintain and keep my hair healthy. I’m wishing you much success on your hair journey!
@kisha7lynn7 ай бұрын
I really enjoy all of your content and commentary. You're a beautiful woman but its not even the best thing about you. Love the grace and style that you share with all of us.
@LaToyaEbonyHair7 ай бұрын
🥹 What a lovely comment! Thank you! ❤️
@LethalLemonLime9 ай бұрын
Wow you had natural hair back then too? And wow that's really cool that you were on TV as an actress.
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
Yes! It’s been a cool life’s journey. ☺️❤️
@ingridfromtoronto9 ай бұрын
You’re so close to semi free forming, sis. You would have bomb locs too. It’s a journey but the freedom is worth it. No combing, no oils, no fuss. Just beautiful, soft and long natural locs. Good luck and thank you for the content!
@belindasanders17199 ай бұрын
I've been leaving my hair in twists for the past three months. My hair is much happier.
@rener.77149 ай бұрын
Latoya, Thank You!! 🎉❤🎉 I get so frustrated and upset on Wash days because I Hate parting my hair! It'll take me 5mins to make a perfect part on one side of my head then 10mins or more trying to get the other side to match! 😢 and Forget the back half of my head, I sometimes just give up and put it in a bun! I have been natural around three years now and sometimes feel I still have No idea what I'm doing! Watching other KZbinrs get these perfect styles, it's intimidating! Thank You for showing me and I'm sure many others out there that it's OK not to be Perfect and Still be Beautiful ❤️🖤❤️ I wish you continued Success in everything you do!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾✨🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾✨
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
You are so very welcome. The truth is, I’m just sharing my reality. Life isn’t perfect and our hair shouldn’t have to uphold a standard we can’t even uphold in life lol! Perfectly imperfect 😌. Thanks for sharing. I have the same parting struggle, so if the style doesn’t really “need” it, I don’t even try 😂.
@dlstowe38602 ай бұрын
Thank you, thank you for this video. Your twists are beautiful. I wouldn't have separated the twists either. I'm not quite sure what grade my hair is; it doesn't stay twisted. You are so real, down to earth, and full of information. Love this video. BTW your "out the door" looks nice.
@LaToyaEbonyHair2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ifonlyicared9 ай бұрын
I just absolutely LOVE your hair! It's so HEALTHY & BOUNCY! And the thickness!!! Just BEAUTIFUL! Well done!! 👏🏿
@adesania9 ай бұрын
Beautiful hairstyle!!!
@shedori929 ай бұрын
So the real flex was the Days of our Lives flashback 🤌🏽 And can we just put it out there...no one makes Zoe glow like you do. 🫶🏾🥂
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
🥹 Thank you! Zoe has been through it this year, but I’m getting her back on track…slowly lol!
@shedori929 ай бұрын
@LaToyaEbonyHair you're welcome... give yourself grace sis.
@Tai-chan.9 ай бұрын
Whenever i do twist outs, there is always that twist who got away. Lol your hair is beautiful...maybe a hair accessory when the style feels like it needs more
@WTFVIDSok9 ай бұрын
Yaaaas! My hair is in twists like yours right now. And, when I'm super busy, yeah, I do the least to my hair. And when I have time, I pamper my hair like crazy.
@naturalcurls4life5768 ай бұрын
I think your hair was pretty and you looked great for the wedding. I love the low manipulation process you are using, tfs.
@Smartie1B8 ай бұрын
SUPER CUTE! You have proven that beauty comes from the spirit - it’s who you are that people respond to and appreciate. You’re allowed to be human and be “imperfect” - we’re all allowed. And, best of all, when you accept and embrace that fact, your hairstyle (and everything else about you) turns out just gorgeous anyway! You do you; unapologetically! Respect!
@LaToyaEbonyHair8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for those kind words!🙏🏾❤️ ❤️
@missfabidia9 ай бұрын
This is how it supposed to be simple, intuitive and beautiful ❤
@setapartaay9259 ай бұрын
Hey there! I just loved this video! I’m so happy you’ve shed light on wearing styles that are considered “lazy”. It’s definitely not lazy because it’s not the preference of most naturals and because you’re STILL taking care of it. I called that smart and simple. I’ve been living here for the past 3 years now and I absolutely LOVE it, and my hair speaks for itself. It’s healthy, it’s the longest it’s EVER been in life, and it’s super strong. I’m winning and so are you! Your hair looks absolutely gorgeous!😍🥇 😊
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
❤️👏🏾👏🏾
@kanyinojo838 ай бұрын
7:16 sent me 😅. You have amazing hair! 🥰
@11kwright9 ай бұрын
That hairstyle looks wow. Definitely into and gives rise to many ideas. 💡 too am falling in love with my natural 4C long hair which I put in styles that enhance its growth and the fact where I am in my life right now a sort of lazy period of doing hairstyles. As long as it looks representable although your hairstyle meets the mark to walk and sport your natural hair and show it off. Love this video.😊❤
@cheshiredj9 ай бұрын
I was wondering how you were going to keep your style together when you took of the hoodie? 😆 Looks like you did a great job. As long as you can easily manage your hair to go wherever you need to, you're doing fine. And were you talking to Stefano? 😮 I didn't even watch but I know who he is!
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
Yes Stefano!! Haha! He’s the OG of Days of Our Lives. ☺️
@homewithcrissy9 ай бұрын
Not sure if anybody ever told you this but you resemble Tia and Tamera Mowry so so much! I love that you are at the stage where you now embrace your hair Sis because it is very beautiful❤❤❤
@klrcreations9 ай бұрын
I feel you! I am a stylist and I’m still learning my hair will be 1 year new growth natural hair on Nov 9th. On journey of gradually cutting relaxer out which is almost out. I’m use to very long hair from my relaxer style and look forward to length returning. I’m About 5 full healthy inches long now. With all that said your videos are really helping me as I go thru my transition of ideas of styles and how to care for it on wash day and more. Thank you!😊Have a beautiful day!☀️🍁
@MyeishaShanell6 ай бұрын
I’m glad I watched your video. I’ve been wanting to texturize my hair. I’ve been so drained doing my natural hair. Maybe I will try to do twists like you and stretching them because my hair shrinks a lot and I still don’t know how to braid 😂I never did twist as a regular hairstyle for outside of home because I felt pressured to be able to part it evenly and always struggled with that. SN: I love the days of our lives flex yassss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@LaToyaEbonyHair5 ай бұрын
Go for it! Make it easy ☺️
@Meloyadina9 ай бұрын
That style turned out so beautiful 🎉
@starmaxx49 ай бұрын
Luv your hair LaToya! 🥰💙.. you are such an inspiration Sis 🤗😉
@shamch229 ай бұрын
Girl you look fabulous!!!
@RocknRollDina8 ай бұрын
omg you were on Days of Our Lives!! So cool!
@LaToyaEbonyHair8 ай бұрын
Yes! I loved it
@tobby63129 ай бұрын
Good to see you! I rarely use gel. I feel it is unnecessary.
@aishac9199 ай бұрын
I love this video! Thank you for articulating this sentiment. You have validated my feelings
@tarynmichelleart9 ай бұрын
This is more of a life tutorial than a hair tutorial 💯
@denyshadials57029 ай бұрын
Next time you don’t have time/energy for perm rods, try lightly dampening the ends and putting in hanging Bantu knots. Those are the only way I don’t get knots for a twistout.
@BionAvastar30009 ай бұрын
Lovely hair!
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️
@shareeminor91259 ай бұрын
And I bet it's thicker than ever. I'm 6 months in, but with mini braids. Touch-ups after 8 weeks.
@ericas89139 ай бұрын
Still beautiful and healthy
@Lady_Clare49 ай бұрын
Cute,neat,& sassy❤!
@Ladylew1229 ай бұрын
Fabulous 🎉😊
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
Thanks 🤗
@obsidyenneg43337 ай бұрын
I could never wash my hair in twist. I’d have a matted, tangled mess because of the texture of my hair
@LaToyaEbonyHair7 ай бұрын
It’s definitely a tricky process!
@einePerson7779 ай бұрын
OK... Washing hair, use conditioner, comb it throw, put moisturizer in it and doing twists! doesn't sound like "lazy" for me 🙈. That's more than the most woman I know do to their hair (me included).
@jaszlyyy9 ай бұрын
Am i the only type 4 girly that can not do non stretched styles without getting knots? idk what i’m doing wrong. i deep condition and trim and everything. my hair only doesn’t knot when i’m in braids or blown out
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
I get knotting all the time! The most hydrated my hair is, the less knotting, but I can’t completely escape them. I just try to be gentle with my hair and accept that it happens. It sounds like you’re doing the right things. ❤️
@jidoorifalcon9 ай бұрын
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@dimensionsofagemini9 ай бұрын
Baby when she sai three month i was nervous 😮 how much detangling qill she have to do
@adangadang59409 ай бұрын
❤
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
❤️
@miss_leetithia74539 ай бұрын
❤🎉
@LaToyaEbonyHair9 ай бұрын
🎉❤️
@mingtoiisaac46239 ай бұрын
❤❤
@VampireBlood19869 ай бұрын
great video but I'm wondering are Prego? you usually show your outfits ❤