It took me 2 1/2 years to get diagnosed with systemic lupus. I was told it was all in my head, I just wanted to be sick and I needed a good psychiatrist. I was hurt and devastated when all I wanted for help because I knew something was desperately wrong. I had three babies, one a newborn. 35 years later I have systemic lupus, rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia and Sjogrens disease. Now I’ve been diagnosed with Myelo dysplastic syndrome. I’ve really been struggling. My bone marrow is falling and not producing enough red cells, white cells or platelets. Bone pain, nausea, headaches, dizziness crushing fatigue, muscle pain. It’s horrible. I’ve been referred to USC Medical Center in Los Angeles for treatment. God bless you. Be kind to yourself and rest when you can.
@debranorton64344 жыл бұрын
I have a good friend who was diagnosed with RA around 25 years ago. He has been an inspiration to me, seeing him be a good husband, dad/grandpa, worker, and musician as he lives life to the full with the disease. He told me once that he wouldn't change what he's gone through because of all he's learned and how God has changed him through the struggle. I can see that same attitude in you. May God bless you and keep you in His perfect peace.
@RAandMyself3 жыл бұрын
I would have to agree too!
@jayp86893 жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed recently. First graves diseases 4 years ago and now RA and God has carried me through the struggle. I wouldnt change a thing. God Bless
@SusanDaschner2 ай бұрын
The tiredness, the waiting to feel better, the trying to heal with food..... these are all things I can relate to (as well as being super hard on myself because I'm not able to do what I used to). I have not been diagnosed, but I am afraid of this because 4 people in my family have R.A. or Shildren s or fibromyalgia.
@natashamckee69974 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, I also have RA and it began when I was 21, I’m almost 24 now and still learning to accept and understand it. It’s really difficult, both physically and mentally, and I feel that nobody understands unless they have it. Watching your video has made me feel a bit better.
@jasonh33194 жыл бұрын
I have RA too diagnosed when I was 22 I'm now 25 would love to talk to you I need friends who can relate
@iam.romiyo4 жыл бұрын
u r not alone her nat ive diagnosed with AS i can relate to ur situation im 25 now been struggling with life would love to know more from you!
@louiseaori4 жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed at 20 and it is hard ! I struggle to style my hair . All the best guys and take it easy, we need to fight this !
@louiseaori4 жыл бұрын
I am 22 years now
@iam.romiyo4 жыл бұрын
@@louiseaori may the god be with you!!!
@ozarks_onna4 жыл бұрын
It's so frustrating when you feel like your body is betraying you. I thought I was just getting older. I felt so lazy. So tired. It took years for my diagnosis. So glad you got your answer. ❤️ Thanks for sharing.
@EQOAnostalgia2 жыл бұрын
I know those feels, 2 years late but... my family had zero understanding of my anxiety that came on suddenly when i lost my cousin and best friend at the tender age of 25, and zero understanding about my lack of energy. But now that i know it's RA they might get it idk.
@yogkoshabyjiya5 ай бұрын
It isn’t our body that is betraying, it’s opposite. We betrayed it through stress, food choices etc.
@audreys16204 жыл бұрын
Your obvious strength will carry you through this! Chronic pain is NOT imagined.
@noabiby4 жыл бұрын
I got my RA diagnosis yesterday, I'm still processing and your video has been such a comfort to me. Thank you!
@anitangoma9922 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with RA when I was 19 and I'm turning 26 soon, it was a lot to take in and fathom in the beginning. Till this day I get a little overwhelmed by the thought but it definitely gets better with time you're a warrior you've got this❤❤
@mickefy2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know you but I hope you’re all right, at this point. I’m sending you a gentle hug. 🫂
@akc_forever44322 жыл бұрын
It gets better just make sure you are taking care of yourself. Sleep, exercise, eat a clean diet and try to manage stress so that you have less of it. I hope you are doing well🙏🏼
@kristiharvey72784 жыл бұрын
Courtney, my fiancé sat here next to me and kept saying “is she you?” I feel in my soul everything you said. I have RA and Fibro and unfortunately haven’t been in remission yet (diagnoses in 2016). But you are a light in my day and I so appreciate you. Thank you for sharing with the world. Thank you for being honest. Just thank you. ❤️❤️#rawarriors #autoimmunediseasestinks #spoonielife
@triceputnam78154 жыл бұрын
I found out the end of last year that I too have RA and Fibro!
@gustavjanwanggai16744 жыл бұрын
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@katgreen89762 жыл бұрын
Remission comes out of no where and you forget you even have RA. My remission ended last week after 3 years with none to mild pain or some weird symptoms. This flare up sucks worst because I'm almost 40 now. It started at 26. Hang in there and listen to your Doc and old folks remedies! You don't know how tough you are and good luck!
@jakihamiltonbrown04062 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed 4 years ago I’m 58 now my heart goes out to all you young people who have this terrible disease stay strong 💪 sending you all the biggest hug 🤗💛💛💛💛
@claudiapestana45692 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤗😘
@dianeglover1638 Жыл бұрын
Just watched this today. You are not alone. I've got a similar story...Runner...Adapted Physical Education teacher with Special needs students. Training for a half marathon and doing lots of trail running. Don't know what happened but my arms were aching and falling apart, thought I had Lyme's disease. NOPE...RA and Lupus. I was in my late 50's. Things got worse till we figured out the correct meds. I was no longer able to do my job which involved lots of lifting and positioning students so I retired. Fast forward 10yrs. Not running anymore but lots of walking, cycling, and weightlifting. Other then an occasional flare up life is good and full❤. Wishing you the best. Don't ever give up❤
@samanthaelizabeth83304 жыл бұрын
It hurts my soul hearing how you felt so sick and kept pushing yourself, and even worse how you were beating yourself up mentally. I hope you continue to get well both physically and mentally❤️
@ruthwebb87564 жыл бұрын
“Do more.” Oh man. I can so relate. I was diagnosed with RA in fall of 2018. I was working a full time job plus contracting on the side and trying to balance life in general. Woke up in the middle of the night with crazy pain in my wrist, out of nowhere. Went to the doc and I was lucky enough to be diagnosed right off the bat after doing aaaaaall the bloodwork. I started on Methotrexate and boy howdy, that was rough. And even then, the pain and exhaustion continued. So we upped it. Then we upped it again. And I just started hydroxychloroquine in addition to the MTX. I have good days and bad. And I have had to learn to slow the eff down and take care of myself on the bad days. I had to get rid of the “do more” mindset (although that’s still a work in progress). There are days when I’m still pissed off that there are things I can’t do or am too exhausted to do. But I try to make the most of the good days. Thank you for sharing your story. It really does help to know that there are other folks out there that are going through the same thing as I am.
@karenn9934 жыл бұрын
Roadback.org
@11tiquicia114 жыл бұрын
Have you heard about Dr. Thomas Pherson Brown. He was a rheumatologist. Him and his friens discover that RA is a infectious desease. They found Mycoplasma in patient with RA and treated them with antibiotic called minocycline. It is a very cheap medecine compared to other drugs so it doesn't profit to big pharma. You could purchase his book : The Road Back
@danarzechula37692 жыл бұрын
Push for dmards they make all the difference
@juliannaclayton35694 жыл бұрын
Same. Got a recommendation to see a rheumatologist early this year, didn’t go because of denial and the world falling apart. Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve honestly stopped watching a lot of videos about hair care, because it’s become too painful to fix my hair and it makes me sad. But this video..I clicked on instantly ❤️
@davinadecamp57692 жыл бұрын
My heart broke when you said you stopped cause of pain. I get it, I was injured in a car accident. I got off the opiates and switched to kratom for pain and it helped so much! Don't give up, hope is out there! Jesus brings me thru. He has changed everything for me. So when it's hardest, I do feel His strength pulling me up and thru. I'm praying you find the right answers!
@thingsilike6184 жыл бұрын
Chronic illness is HARD. Biggest lesson I learned was not to fault myself when my body needed a rest day.
@gallagrrr4 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with RA in February after months of joint pain, swelling, stiffness, and fatigue. While I knew right away that there was something wrong with my joints, I was in such denial about my fatigue that it was only once I found some relief with medication that I could begin to accept what I had been going through, and that it wasn't my fault. It's so hard to find personal stories from other young women, and yours really resonated with me. Thank you for sharing and best of luck in your journey!
@preetivishwakarma76172 жыл бұрын
How did you find this disease?
@EQOAnostalgia2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it kinda hit me when i was standing at my pinball table, i got this overwhelming fatigue. At first i thought it was just the roners from 3 months prior lingering but it never went away. I'll randomly feel the need to sit down and terribly drained. I have low blood sugar too so that might factor in idk.
@TheMissikissa4 жыл бұрын
I am a GP and I work with RA patients and I study Functional Medicine. Your story is a good reminder to me: The Diagnostics is the first step and then working towards health every means necessary: medicines and diet and everything combined. Ask your Rheumatologist for other treatments to have remission as soon as possible to avoid permanent loss of joint function. My thoughts and best wishes are with you.
@maureenmoran89983 жыл бұрын
Stumbled upon this video when doing a KZbin deep dive regarding RA today. (I was so shocked to recognize you.) I’m so sorry you have this diagnosis, it’s such a difficult thing to wrap ones head around. I’ve had it for five years. It’s been quite a journey. I’m hoping yours is under control. The Arthritis Foundation is an excellent resource.
@saranyaanju62403 жыл бұрын
Im having finger joint pain and stiffness during morning wake up in my 5th month of pregnancy.... now i lost my pregnancy 25 days ago. bt i am having the pain and stiffness.. is this arthritis????
@lindalolly63183 жыл бұрын
@@saranyaanju6240 I am Sorry to hear that
@kristincassaday4 жыл бұрын
So helpful Courtney!! I have RA and lupus as well. I’m telling you.. YEARS passed until I was officially diagnosed. I thought the exact same thing- I felt like I must have been lazy, etc. which made me feel so incredibly guilty when I couldn’t do all the things. I didn’t want my kids and family to think of me always having to rest or lay down, or “mom is hurting today”. There is help! 🙏🏻 There is support and encouragement! And God is bigger. Even when we hurt , even when we have those days where just getting going is such a difficult task. God’s got you, sister!!! Thank you for being transparent and sharing part of your story.
@chinwendutony33264 жыл бұрын
@Kristin miller how are you today?
@standfirm46943 жыл бұрын
Lupus...i heard a chiropractor say his little sister had lupus and he always wanted to grow to be a doctor so he could heal her. He said they discovered the origins was from parasites. I've read of people with RA that have found relief by parasite cleanses and eliminating certain . foods.
@graveart1105 Жыл бұрын
Rheumatoid arthritis, rosacea, dry eyes, eczema and gluten intolerance are all related. I had a similar experience and have been on medication for 2.5 years. I have all the above named conditions but I’m doing great now. I was diagnosed when I was 72 and I’m 75 now. I still work outdoors in my own business and can do what I want, for the most part. I’m 75 not 35 so I’ve accepted certain limitations. My advice is for anyone with crazy symptoms to see a health care provider and don’t stop nagging them until you’re referred to a specialist. Take the medicine and get back to who you are on the inside. Now I’m doing the Curly Girl hair method and have Courtney to thank! Never stop trying, never stop learning. We got this 💪🏼
@SwavyCurlyCourtney Жыл бұрын
Awe thank you! And yes, never stop trying and never stop learning! Love that! We DO have this!!!
@mikkidavidson80484 ай бұрын
What medication do you take
@graveart11054 ай бұрын
@@mikkidavidson8048 hydroxychloroquine 300mg
@meganb12824 жыл бұрын
I suffer from a couple autoimmune diseases and I completely understand living in denial. I think most sane people find themselves in a state of shock of some sort. Everyone responds to it differently and we have to sort of grieve, process it and move forward. It isn't easy, especially when these diseases can often rob us of our normal life. You are not alone. I hope anyone reading this knows they're not alone.
@reynavillarreal98484 жыл бұрын
I just got diagnosed with RA and feel very lost. Thank you for sharing your story!
@curiositystoryer4 жыл бұрын
@PartyLiteLouise Жыл бұрын
I have a holistic RA group if you're interested in other options and tips
@jessicapowers47744 жыл бұрын
I have had rheumatoid arthritis since I was 15 months old. I am 27 now. I'm currently having a horrible flare up again and go to the rheumatologist Monday. I cant wait to go and get help after not going for years. I am so glad your medicine is helping you!
@fayeberman92184 жыл бұрын
I have psoriatic arthritis, and multiple sclerosis, and I’m hecka stubborn, maybe because if it.
@paulachristie25084 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I was diagnosed with RA in 2000, at age of 36. I have had great doctors that made it so I could function very well 20 years later. You can do this. Just dont be too hard on yourself if you cant do everything on your list in one day. God Bless You.
@architluthra78113 жыл бұрын
What is the procedure to function well
@paulachristie25083 жыл бұрын
@@architluthra7811 get on medication that works for you. I am currently on orencia, which i have been on about 5 yrs. I am also on plaquinel.
@architluthra78113 жыл бұрын
@@paulachristie2508 tysm
@carmen-kdippenaar3820 Жыл бұрын
Your feelings about being lazy or crazy and that belief to just "keep trying harder" had me in tears - I have been battling with all these same struggles for 2 years, unable to function with the pain, the migraines, the numbness in my hands and honestly mental anguish! And every day - trying harder! I dont have the resources medically at this point to run all the testing etc, but your video made me feel so much less crazy, lazy and alone. Thank you for sharing your story!
@christine-joylovepaper31464 жыл бұрын
Diagnosed with RA and Fibro last June and still figuring out meds - thank you for bringing attention to this!!
@kimberlyguardipee4070 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing everything you said is to the point. I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid this year in 2023 March. I was getting the joint pain. Severely in my arms. Hands and wrists. And did not know what was going on. They ran tests and finding out what I had RA. I can't do the things I used to do not as much as I used to do like you were saying. Always thought of myself as a very strong woman a go-getter a finisher . It reminds me everyday. Fatigue. Achiness. Not feeling so great some days. And I had a migraine in the morning when I woke up first time I've ever had one in the morning like that. But I had migraines. At first I was very distressed but I try not to think of. Eat right. Do what I need to do. But I can't push myself like I just like you said. Keeping you in my prayers and all those that are going through this worldwide. That we all come in remission. And still in faith believing that my Lord has healed me.
@kylar45654 жыл бұрын
Girl, I feel you. I was diagnosed with fibro when I was 18. Autoimmune disease is the worst but you are strong, you've got this!
@WizzyMcNasty4 жыл бұрын
I spent 10 years being treated for wide spread RA only to discover (after MANY failed treatments) that my condition is a genetic connective tissue disorder called Ehlers-danlos syndrome (hypermobile type). I've dealt daily with chronic pain since I was 19, now 40 and THRIVING for the first time in my adult life. You'll probably experience an emotional crash after you can't do a simple task and it becomes life shattering. Just know, those moments of losing a simple functions will lead to a level of appreciation of the simplest tasks you can still perform. For example, I lost the ability to chew and talk for 6 months. Now the action of eating an apple becomes as satisfying as a weeks vacation. Just make sure to let the good outweigh the bad. Sending you gentle hugs!
@jennie34954 жыл бұрын
You make the 5th EDS warrior other than myself that I’ve found in these comments 🦓🖤
@fabulousdarling49954 жыл бұрын
WOW just recently had a RA diagnosis and you summed up how I have been feeling for the last few years ... I thought it was due to depression but I’m beginning to realise that the physical symptoms may be causing the mental issues ... I cursed myself for feeling tired and not ticking off the ‘to do’ list, for not feeling strong enough to stack 100+ bales of hay. So thank you for making me understand I’m not weak, I’m me and RA is part of me x
@debbiecornelius36694 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. So many people have this inflammatory condition. As a child I had psoriasis all over my body. After I gave birth to my son it internalized into inflammation in my joints spine and eventually my eyes. (Iritis) I am positive for the gene marker HLA-B27. Yes I used to run too but now I found ways to stay active without exhausting myself. It’s like having an inflammation gremlin in my body. It moves around to different joints so it never sits still for too long. Even my big toe had issues one time. Best advice is stay on the regiment your DR puts you on. They know best how to treat it. Wishing you well!!
@deniseeldred49014 жыл бұрын
Hey Courtney. I'm a Physucal Therapist and I have worked with a lot of RA and autoimmune disease patients. Very regular low level exercises for the joints that are not currently in an exacerbation period is very important for management. You may want to see a PT for rehab and management strategies.
@staceyrentschler99164 жыл бұрын
Courtney thank you for talking about your story and experience with RA. I feel so encouraged that someone else knows , feels, and have gone through this struggle too. It’s such a comfort when other warriors share their struggles and journey. It encourages each of us to keep pushing forward and to know others are fighting with us. From one warrior battling RA to another you are awesome and more than a conqueror. Keep up the outstanding job!
@yellowlilly95933 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing, I have been fighting doctors saying something is wrong since I was 16 and at 21 finally have an official RA diagnosis and they are starting to see how much pain I have been in. This was so encouraging and helpful seeing that other people have been diagnosed young because I felt like I was the only one!
@SwavyBlonde4 жыл бұрын
OMG Courtney, I'm literally crying. This video so resonate with me. I don't have RA, but I suffer from anxiety and panic disorder that trigger the IBS and insomnia. I tend to ignore this and just push myself to get through this and go further. I never allow myself just to be ill, just to experience that panic attack, just to sit with that anxiety. I just ignore it and pretend I'm totally fine. But I'm not and thank you so much for this video because it made me realise this.
@SwavyBlonde4 жыл бұрын
@@richardgranton8070 wtf?
@noulatsotsos52484 жыл бұрын
Found out I have RA today… This is on top of having Addison’s Disease and hypothyroidism… Thank you for your video… it has helped my spirits today as I was overwhelmed earlier.
@sagarsingharoy13113 жыл бұрын
please tell me can ra patient live a normal life with medicine... I'm just 22 & unemployed.. I can't understand what to do
@deathbycake76373 жыл бұрын
Im going to find out if I have RA on 8/20/21. I was dx with 3C Ovarian Cancer back in 2012 so I know what you're going thru.
@killuminatikilla32352 жыл бұрын
I am 27 and waiting for a diagnosis of mnd or als. I have all theses syptoms and left sided sensational and breathing loss with drop foot on the left. It all started with helibactor virus. I lay backwards and get shortness of breath and tingling up my neck and stuff. I listen to other people's systems awaiting my diagnosis but I know what is happening to me. I just pray that I have a peaceful death and it just scars me to not know what happens after death. ❤
@noulatsotsos5248 Жыл бұрын
@Sarah Madden Have you tried any homeopathic treatments?
@kellietunheim74514 жыл бұрын
I have been dealing with RA for several years and it is one of the things that led me to the Curly Girl Method and your videos. I could no longer use a round brush to blow dry my hair as it has greatly impacted my fingers. You do have to realize you have limits but sometimes you still push through to do the things you love. Find a balance. I too am finding great help from medication. I hope you continue to feel better and keep making such great videos
@tanyagunton77684 жыл бұрын
I am grateful for my chronic pain too. I see it that God is teaching me when to slow down and take care of myself. This is not an easy thing for me but I'm learning. You don't need to be superhuman. Thank you for your positivity and warm spirit.
@harmonypetillon43334 жыл бұрын
I am just like you, I never listened to my body and kept pushing. I learned the hard way that my body is my temple and that I should respect it. I will pray for you.
@lisazager93154 жыл бұрын
Adding my support for you, Courtney. This video shows your grace and dignity in the face of a great hardship. I'll pray for improvement and remission of your RA. I wish you many blessings.
@tserinapoynder-meares3458 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing ❤ I have found it really helpful to listen to. My 15 yr old daughter is struggling with severe joint pain right now and has had the symptoms on going for a long time, we're waiting for an official diagnosis. From the research I've done so far it is looking like she has RA however much I'm wanting to deny this. Hearing your experience has given me hope and reassurance that everything will be okay. It is the hardest thing being a single parent and supporting my daughter through this without knowing anyone else who has been through it and fully understands. I really appreciate your heartfelt sharing 🙏💖🩷💖🙏
@penelopebaggs35544 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Courtney! I also have an autoimmune arthritis and a go getter attitude. I was diagnosed when I was about 20 and have been living with it and managing it for about 7 years or so. It's always inspiring to hear other's stories, so I really appreciate you sharing yours! One of the biggest things that helps me is identifying what makes me happy. Could be as small as the smell of citrus or something like going for a hike. When I have those hard days where the pain is loud and moving is a chore, I try to refer to that list and do at least one thing on it. It helps lift my spirits when I feel defeated by my immune system.
@CML95018 Жыл бұрын
I just stumbled on your video and OMG your story really resonated with me. I used to run marathons, ten years ago I developed aches and pain on my right knee. I was told I had fluid in my knee due to running on concrete. I eat healthy as well but yesterday I went to see my GP for a sore finger. I'm waiting for some test results to which she suspects I have RA 🤦♀️ I've always felt fatigued and tired from low iron as well. Thanks for sharing as I am nervously awaiting test results 😮
@CarrieJessica4 жыл бұрын
I also have a chronic illness. It's so hard to find the balance of a treatment plan, a work-life balance, and a plan for how to handle things in a flare as well as how to hopefully avoid flares. It truly is like being chronically ill is an additional part-time job.
@arielle2224 жыл бұрын
I'm in the process of figuring out exactly what sort of chronic illness I have (i'm like 95% sure it's RA just haven't had the test confirm it yet) and I can SO relate to this. Helps to hear I'm not alone. Thanks for sharing
@lizziel90264 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the RA/chronically ill family! I was diagnosed with RA last year the week before thanksgiving. The fevers were my biggest clue that something wasn’t right since my body temp is normally in the 96-97 range. I also felt like the rheumatologist was going to see my age and kick me out of the office (I was 24 when I got diagnosed) but he was really awesome and listened and ordered so much bloodwork. I was definitely in denial about having RA until I noticed the meds were working and my husband could squeeze my hand without my knuckles feeling like they were getting crushed. On my bad days the saying “broken crayons still color” really helps me get through to the next day. I also have a really great therapist that helps me manage the mental aspect of chronic pain and illness. Thank you for sharing your story, hang in there ❤️
@curiositystoryer4 жыл бұрын
I love the quote you shared.
@corinnaflores4103 Жыл бұрын
That's was my first symptom... fevers 😔
@CherylLaReinee3 ай бұрын
bro i m 18 experiencing all this pain since past 3 years still everyone says it's all the vitamin deficiency but the dip joint pain and random tingling of palm & feet fingers and headaches , fatigue all the time , blurry vision and dry eyes and it goes away then pops up again!
@chunkymommysews73604 жыл бұрын
I love this sharing. I got diagnosed 11 years ago on my 30th birthday. I can relate to your struggles about not being able to do all the things in my checklist. There was a time that I couldn’t comb my hair and button my shirt due to the pain. I am on medication now but sometimes I forget and try to push myself again because there’s so much to do! So much to accomplish! But when I get a flare after pushing myself too hard, I am reminded to take a backseat. 3 years ago, I had a stroke, 3 months after my son was born. At that time, I admit I wasn’t being kind to my body and so it took a toll on me. This is my 2nd life now and hopefully I won’t “forget” to give myself a break. Especially now that I have a son to raise. Your story is very inspiring. It reminded me that it’s ok to have this disease and focus my energy on having a positive outlook in life. There are so many to be happy for. Hopefully, others who are struggling with the same or similar issues can get a little bit of sunshine watching this video to help them keep moving forward in the challenges they are facing. It definitely made mine so much brighter! :) Thank you Courtney!
@alexandriatorres64284 жыл бұрын
Oh man. I've been having aches and pains for about 3 years now, and knew from my chiropractor that I was most likely dealing with the onset of arthritis, at 24, but I was in denial and refused to do anything. Lately my energy levels are in the dumps and I've been getting headaches at least twice a week, and I used to never get headaches. Definitely going to make it a priority to go see my doctor. I too thought that I was just being lazy or making excuses and simply just try harder...
@lowcarbkitchen4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to some of your story having battled chronic fatigue syndrome many years. Thank you for sharing!
@Mfmf192274 жыл бұрын
Courtney you are amazing and it is incredible to think that you are not alone suffering this illness. I got diagnosed with RA 8 years ago and I felt the same way as you are feeling now. I found out when I was doing aerobics and the next day I couldn’t even walk my foot was hurting so bad and then the news that you have something that compromise your immune system it is crazy. Over the time and changing so many specialists I started with a treatment with leflunomide and I returned to my normal life. During this year because of the COVID my doctor suppressed my medication because I need my immune system now and good. I was crying again, I thought the symptoms will return but nothing yet. I stared to taking my vitamins D, Iron, Tumeric and Transfer Factor every day and I feel good. I started to workout again. Thank you for you video, it made me feel we are not alone.
@Drivehead1036 ай бұрын
Are you still off of the leflunomide? Ra is kicking my butt
@zsebikolos36143 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this, I've been searching for people on the internet who also have RA and I finally found you. The first signs of my RA came up when i was 10, now I'm 14 and still not cured. I'm getting treatment by meds which we have to inject with a hypodermic syringe every week. With that, I feel much better and the doctors say in 1-2 years I should be cured with it. :)
@chantehowe77982 жыл бұрын
I was told there is no cure for RA
@zsebikolos36142 жыл бұрын
@@chantehowe7798 there is no official cure, but with injection every week and some training.. overtime it might cure it
@kdseim4 жыл бұрын
Love your attitude and perspective! Thank you for sharing, being real and letting us be a part of this with you. Prayers and hugs!!!
@connierubel3790 Жыл бұрын
23:50 I can’t believe what I have just listened to. This sounds like something I would say, feeling lazy and crazy at the same time. I have searched for answers for years, but the RA blood test always came back negative. Then, finally, I had a set of labs that showed my inflammation markers off the chart. My GP called and said he had an appointment for me in a couple days with a Rheumatologist, who said I have Seronegative RA. Which means the RA test does not show positive. The medication has been very helpful, but I still have difficulty with fatigue and have to pace myself. One difficult thing is that we look healthy to others and it can be difficult for them to understand. Fortunately, I have a ver understanding and wonderful husband and family. God bless you and thank you for sharing!
@kathleenbuckner19272 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@kathleenbuckner19272 жыл бұрын
I am researching on my own but pretty sure after your video that our lives have paralleled (replace farm with So Cal busy, multiple jobs, PTAs, volunteer work, half marathons, and even a marathon). I go until a hit the wall and then recover and go again. You’ve inspired me to make an appt. And, I didn’t even know you could give thanks with dollars - but that is cool too. I hope you are well and have experienced remission!
@fox22xyz6 ай бұрын
I'm 24 and I just got my official RA diagnosis... This is my second autoimmune now... I've been really struggling coping, and it feels nice to see someone who's making it through it. Thank you for sharing
@SwavyCurlyCourtney6 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry! It is quote the journey! I have a few video's on this now posted, sharing my own journey! Hugs!
@lauramacbride81814 жыл бұрын
You are a truly brave, and sweet person. I know exactly what you mean about pushing more and trying harder. It's tough to realize our own limitations. Please take good care of yourself! All the best to you and your family!
@alysonknop83953 жыл бұрын
I've had this disease for 45 years and STILL push myself too hard, always. My husband is constantly having to remind me to rest.
@savannahnovotny87894 жыл бұрын
Your experience is so familiar. I have ehlers danlos syndrome. You find a new normal, after a grieving process. 4 years ago, my health went downhill. Now I've started biking and doing light weight training and I'm so proud of myself!
@jennie34954 жыл бұрын
🙋🏼♀️ EDS here too 🦓🖤
@marimart249ooo73 жыл бұрын
Today I got diagnosed and one thing I’m kicking myself about is not going to get checked out earlier. Like years ago. When my son was about 5 was when I just started feeling run down and my knees were hurting me (I just kept saying oh it’s being a mom with a 5 year old and toddler). Every symptom (the tingling the fatigue the joint pain the unreal back pain) I excused as something else. Now my son is 12 and daughter is 10 yesterday I just gave up. I stopped fighting my brain and looked at my life and realized hey there’s something wrong with you physically and you are missing time with kids (example they want to go on bike ride I’m in too much pain and exhausted to join) and I made an appointment with my family doctor and at 920 this morning I showed up and by 454pm I had my answer. Don’t wait to get checked out.
@alyssawoodruff6004 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this! I also have an autoimmune disease and struggle with pushing myself too hard and trying to keep up with what I think I should be able to do.
@maryormsby55554 жыл бұрын
I got my RA diagnosis around November this year! I had always had aches and pains that I assumed were from childhood gymnastics and dancing in musical theatre constantly. I was lucky in that I didn't have a crazy uptick in symptoms, and I never had red hot and swollen joints. I actually went anemic and my blood proteins levels became unusually high. I went through an immunologist (who gave me a blood disorder diagnosis), to a hematologist (who disagreed with that diagnosis and believed I had an autoimmune disease), to my rheumatologist who got a positive RA diagnosis. I'm on hydroxychloroquine as well and it has worked WONDERS for me! All of my markers are now in the normal range! But this whole thing with the meds has been so stressful! My pharmacy actually suggested to me that I switch my meds, which is ridiculous, especially since I'm so young (27), don't have a family yet, and the meds are working so well. Praying for all of us to continue to be able to get our medication!
@jasonh33194 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 with RA!! Need friends my age who can relate
@marifelllsales42484 жыл бұрын
I'm 26 with RA for for 6 years now..
@janettorres50632 жыл бұрын
How long did it take for you to see results ? 😞 it’s been a month I see no results
@maryormsby55552 жыл бұрын
@@janettorres5063 it often takes quite a while to see your levels even out. 6 months to a year or longer was what I was told!
@katherinewillcocks74944 жыл бұрын
My process of discovering the diagnosis was so similar! Two and a half years ago, I had ran my first half-marathon and was training for a full, when I started having knee pain - which escalated to most joints within two months, making it difficult to even hold a cup of coffee! Looking back, I'd had on and off joint issues for years. Anyway, after eight months off of running, I was able to run little bits at a time. This year, during confinement, I was able to run many half-marathons and completed my first full marathon two years after diagnosis! It felt great! Now back in a flare, but the running mojo comes and goes ;)
@katiescape2 ай бұрын
13:47 I recently been diagnosed and you describing knowing you can do a full list but your body not letting you is so real and made me burst into tears, Im on day 4 of a massive flare and trying to rest but also feeling like I am getting nothing accomplished / feeling lazy. I hate this disease.
@b.b73052 жыл бұрын
This video was very helpful. I’m 56 and has suffered for the past 8 years and I’ve complained enough to my dr. That she did blood work and my markers are high for RA and now I’m waiting for an appointment with a specialist. Like you I just kept butting it off thinking I was getting old but I left like I was 90, I was soar and stiff all the time and I would go to the dr they would take an x-ray and say you just injured it here’s some cream, I’m not saying it’s the Dr. Didn’t catch it maybe I wasn’t explaining my self right. We went on vacation and after sitting on a plain for 6 hours I could hardly walk off the plain I was so stiff and soar. I saw my Dr. The next day and told her how bad I was feeling and for years now that this could not be my life at 56, she did blood work and now I’m ready for the next step.Thank you for a great video.
@kathleenk7512 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed in my early thirties... it started with feeling like I broke my toe, and then it went away and then I couldn't bend my right pointer finger... I am sero-negative and have no family history. It took 3 years and 2 primary care doctors and 2 (kinda 3) rheumatologists to get my diagnosis... actually it took my daughter who was 9 getting a diagnosis for ME to push for mine. After 4 years of treatment I went into remission and spent 5+ years symptom free. Unfortunately I'm having symptoms again, and I've booked an appointment (which is 5 months out) with a new rheumatologist (my old one isn't accepting new patients, and I went too long between check ups when I was in remission to maintain my status as his patient). Best of luck with your treatments! It's a learning curve to think... is this RA? or am I really sick/hurt? every time I feel off or achy.
@RAandMyself3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. I have been living with rheumatoid arthritis for 17 years. You got this!
@kathischultz85914 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for this diagnosis in your world....but your voice to others will not be wasted! Your drive for life may be less in physical output going forward, but how you are able to connect to people’s journey by just being who you are (and Whose you are!) will be immeasurable! You are radiant! Thank you for sharing!
@doxielowrider6944 жыл бұрын
Im glad to hear your story, just today my doctor told me I tested positive for RA, on top of already being a Type 2 Diabetic. I will be seeing a Rheumatologist. Sad thing is it will take a while there is only 1 in our city. Cant imagine that! But thats the deal. The whole thing is scary and I am very upset. I totally get how your feeling. I will see what more tests show for me. And then get a game plan.
@northstar485111 күн бұрын
I live in Maine, near 2 “major cities” ha, and had to travel 100 miles one way after waiting 2 months to see a rheumatologist. I get you!
@aldelygonzalez8791 Жыл бұрын
I was one of the 10% of people with a RA into remission. It let live the best 7 years of my life! Unfortunately, it came back and hit me like a train. Is hard to see your lifestyle shatered by this disease and I feel nobody understand the impact of RA unless you have been throught it. Thank you for speaking out amd sharing your story. I am doing all the good things, hoping will go back into remission again❤
@eroneous39174 жыл бұрын
Starting watching you for the curls, but I knew there was something kindred in you that I connected with. Now I know! Thanks for sharing, hope you're feeling well today! God bless you Courtney!
@TheRealLadyMagnus3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this. I have fibromyalgia but I along family history of many types of arthritis. The pain is getting to much to handle, but I am being ignored. I need new practitioner.
@goodvibesgray3821 Жыл бұрын
I am struggling so badly I have been for years, but never experienced fever. I have for 2 years now been trying to figure out what has been wrong with me. I’m so glad you figured it out!! I got referred after testing positive for RA. I am hurting so badly but I am going soon. I hope you’re feeling better. I to, don’t like being lazy and like to get things done and so hard for me to just rest. But now my body won’t allow me to do skateboarding anymore and i am hurting everyday 😢I hope I can figure it out soon and I hope you’re doing better
@SwavyCurlyCourtney Жыл бұрын
It's a journey for sure! Hang in there! Hugs!
@ericapalmer49674 жыл бұрын
You make me want to do better. Things haven't stopped going wrong medically since I was 14, I'm 30 now. Fibromyalgia is just one of my problems, but man alive I know I can do better. You are an encouragement to be better. To stop letting it all just win and take from me. There are things I can do to help myself. It's time to do them. CG is step one in learning to care for myself better. I know that seems silly, but it really is. There is change in the air, what that is or even means, I'm not sure. You are such a positive person and I hope that you continue to feel better and that you can achieve remission. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
@akhileshkushwaha70453 жыл бұрын
How r u
@rachelbrand90784 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I also have RA and fibromyalgia and it is actually the way you described it.
@rendesignstudio3 жыл бұрын
Your story, is my story. thank you for sharing. I have been struggling with my diagnosis. I have hit wall after wall and it's been tough, because like you, I don't like to be on the sideline.
@levitatewalker81664 жыл бұрын
I'm being tested for MS/Lupus right now. This video helps a lot. 💙
@chinwendutony33264 жыл бұрын
Hey @Levitate Walker how are you?
@chhe86412 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your story! It helped me to see my RA once again with other eyes. I was a super woman for 55 years and still struggeling not beeing one sometimes. Even after two i still have to learn to say " no" and to hear better of my body. Stress is my worst trigger. All in all i have more good days than bad days and with all the medications i take i have a good life. All the best for you!
@maryrhino99522 жыл бұрын
Herbal medicine is the best treatment for Arthritis sister I’ve been living with Arthritis 😰…for more than 5years now but I got rid of it naturally after using dr Omo herbal medicine his channel 👉 @dromocure
@nataliedecker3543 жыл бұрын
omg I love you! thank you for sharing your story. I was born with RA and I know exactly what you mean when you feel like you hit the wall and can't go any more. I race cars for a living in NASCAR and its so hard to slow down and give my body a break. listening to you tell your story today was so wonderful and inspiring!
@sherimurdock28184 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing young woman. Please allow that to sink in.😊 thank you for being real and having a servant's heart.🙏🌹
@gloriawong8222 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey of RA, be encouraged that you are not alone! 😊
@SwavyCurlyCourtney2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I am amazed and thankful by the community here!
@joycerioux35564 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Listening to your story sounds like everything I'm going through. Went to my physician last week and going for all my blood work next week. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending positive vibes your way. 🕉️🌻
@alishamurtaugh92444 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on the diet the md recommended for you?
@karenn9934 жыл бұрын
Oh Courtney, I can commiserate. I was diagnosed nearly 6 years ago, but with markedly different symptoms than you. Started with pain in a single toe which was misdiagnosed 3 times. When some fingers became involved I saw my doctor again and she pretty much knew it was some type of rheumatic disease which tests confirmed. I was devastated. I worried all day long and waited for the freight train to hit. Until I realized that I had to make the best of the good times and stop worrying about what might not happen. I opted for non-traditional treatment but also took hydroxycloroquine for 3 or so years, but weaned off it 2 years ago. I continue with my non-traditional treatment and am doing well. I'm not without symptoms but I lead a normal life. Yoga has been good therapy for me and I'll bet it would be for you as well - whenever classes open up again! One thing about RA, symptoms come and go and you have to learn to deal with the unpredictability. Just remember that not everyone has severe symptoms, but I don't think doctors often tell patients that. If I can offer encouragement let me know.
@hollykirby26874 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you Courtney! This is so tough. I am praying that you do find total healing! I definitely needed to hear this today. In a place where I do feel like I need to do everything, and honestly I’m kind of failing. Thank you for the reminder of grace. But that’s not easy for me.
@Laura-px6ee4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! After years of things getting worse and worse for me I went into spontaneous remission. Who knows how long it will last but im thankful for the chance to try and get stronger again in case i have a bad flare up.
@karrihamlin90694 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you 😭 I am just starting. It been a month and I’m so overwhelmed. I really loved your video. I’m so scared of the side effects of medicine 😟 but we will see how it goes thanks again I don’t feel so crazy.
@cherylgratton79404 жыл бұрын
I do not have RA, but my mother did. I just want you to know that you are deeply loved by many people, and we WILL be praying fervently for you.
@ashleyroberts33253 жыл бұрын
Girl this is exactly my story. Just for my blood work back last week but thankfully have answers to my pain. But can’t get into rheumatologist for 6 months.
@SaraShire4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you have RA, but since you do - I am glad you know your diagnosis. I was finally diagnosed at 57 with a genetic connective tissue disorder called hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (hEDS). Not fun, but since I have had it since I was conceived, it would have been nice to know sooner! Finally, I can stop searching for what is wrong with me trying to find a cure. Now I focus on managing the symptoms. I’m getting better at taking care of my curls, but wash day is still pretty exhausting. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you do go into remission soon! Take care. ❤️
@flamboyant7312 жыл бұрын
Sending hugs!
@ninab43364 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, Courtney! I was wondering if they tested you for Lyme disease when they did your blood work? Every symptom you mentioned is what I went through (and a ton more) when I had Lyme. (Took seven years of treatment to clear.) “Lymies” OFTEN have one or more autoimmune conditions, as well as co-infections that come along with Lyme when bitten by a tick. With your history of living on a farm and being around horses, it would not be surprising if you had Lyme as well. Hopefully NOT, but thought I would ask. 🙏🙏
@margielong42144 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I can 100% relate. I see the rheumatologist tomorrow morning. I already know what she’s going to tell me. I’m terrified of how my busy lifestyle is going to have to change. And how my plans for the future are going to change. But this video gives me some peace. Thank you.
@BladeR20494 жыл бұрын
Any updates how are you doing?
@SpaceyFae4 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for you going through this. I’ve been there. Took nearly 10 years of doctor after doctor after specialists and so on, before we found out I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, POTS, and MCAD. That dark place of feeling like there is nothing left and you’ve searched for everything is a scary place to be. It’s all like operating on a battery that will only ever charge up to 40% if a good nights sleep and understanding my limits occurs appropriately. I’ve personally had a lot help from rehabilitative physical therapy focused on biomechanical alignment. This work saved me from having to have a back surgery (degenerative discs and severe herniation). Also, surprisingly, vitamin C. I watched a video that I was very skeptical of talking about taking it to gut tolerance. With Covid, I thought, ok I’ll try it, what’s it going to hurt (you flush it out if you take too much, essentially zero bad side effects). So anyway, I was managing to take up to 10,000mg a day (spread out!) and was starting to feel so dang good! I started to further research and found so much information supporting its use. So I will stand on vitamin c for awhile lol! But oof, do I relate to your push push push mentality. It is so hard to convince yourself that resting is just as important as getting things accomplished. That your value is deeper and more than the things you achieve. I relate so much. Gentle, invisible, hugs sent your way. You have a community of spoonies who relate. ❤️
@jennie34954 жыл бұрын
I totally understand... I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome too, as well as both of my daughters. Joint pain, dislocations, fatigue, etc. I have felt so lazy at times and frustrated because I want to do things but my body won’t cooperate. You have to give yourself permission to take care of yourself, physically and mentally. 💙
@shaunaferguson61024 жыл бұрын
Awe Courtney, thank you for sharing! I'm a physical therapist and have dealt with folks that have RA! Diet, exercise and proper medication are so important! Knowing what the name of something is that ails you and sharing your story is so healing! Bravo! Suggestion: keep exercising! It will just look different now....there's this amazing piece of equipment called a Streetstrider. It mimics running but is less troublesome on your joints. It's expensive but just a thought since you love to run! Obviously you need to heal, get your feet under you, I JUST want to encourage you!
@curiositystoryer4 жыл бұрын
If you don't mind, my eye always hurts when I start exercising, even for ten minutes. But I stay on my feet all day, typically, currently. Is that something I should just push through? Is that a sign to take it even slower? I don't know how "normal" it is. Any thoughts would be appreciated. This is very new to me.
@shaunaferguson61024 жыл бұрын
@@curiositystoryerUnfortunately I can't give medical advice without assessing you BUT I would NOT push through that as that is not a normal reaction to exercise. I would get seen by your primary care physician AND/OR and eye specialist. I would go to an opthalmologist vs an optometrist. An opthalmologist is a medical doctor who will be able to perform more specialized tests. Hope that helps!
@curiositystoryer4 жыл бұрын
@@shaunaferguson6102 Thank you so much! That was the perfect advice I needed. My doctor was unfortunately a useless visit. I just made an appointment with a rheumatologist and I'll look look into an ophthalmologist. Thank you so much!
@shaunaferguson61024 жыл бұрын
@@curiositystoryer you're so welcome! Yeah unfortunately so often that's the case! You're doing right by seeking out specialists! I would stick with it until you get an answer! You have to be your own advocate!
@curiositystoryer4 жыл бұрын
@@shaunaferguson6102 Thank you!!
@mite19814 жыл бұрын
You explained this so well, weaving in emotion and encouragement. Thank you for being honest and putting your self out for this video! It’s so helpful 💕
@brennieeliason35404 жыл бұрын
Wow. You literally just described everything I'm going through too. I was sick last week with a fever. My hands tingle often and I get migraines a lot lately. I even thought about arthritis being part of my issues. Definitely time to see a doctor. Thank you for posting this!
@mayasanders10463 жыл бұрын
Was the fever due to rheumatoid arthritis?
@Cailyn_Amanda4 жыл бұрын
I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrom, which is a genetic connective tissue disorder. I dislocate my joints on an almost daily basis, because the collagen that builds up these tissues is faulty. I experience a lot of these other symptoms too. Unfortunately the pushing yourself and saying "just try harder" stems from a lot of internalized ableism that is very prevalent, especially in American society. We have to be careful of pushing ourselves too hard, because we can end up making things so much worse. The amount of people that tell me "have you tried yoga? The only disability is a bad attitude" is outrageous. I hope your pain eases soon. Love you Courtney!
@jennie34954 жыл бұрын
I have EDS too 🦓🖤
@Kristag904 жыл бұрын
“You will not grow, if you do not have struggles” Love that so much! ❤️ Thank you for sharing your story! I’ve struggled with chronic fatigue for so long, amongst many other things. I have been to so many doctors the last few years trying to figure out what’s going on. It gets so exhausting. Bless you in your recovering health journey 🙏🏻. I’m glad the medication and diet changes are helping you feel better! I’ve been wanting to do a diet change for my inflammation, glad to hear it has great benefits and helps! 🤗
@jh52974 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I too battle RA and it's definitely not the "oh yeah, I have arthritis in my _____" that so many people think it is. What struck me even more than your RA story, was the negative image of your self-worth. Whoever made you feel that what you are and what you can do is how you measure worth was very, very wrong. A little quote: “You alone are the judge of YOUR WORTH and YOUR goal is to discover infinite WORTH in yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks.” ~ Deepak Chopra.
@lane5263able4 жыл бұрын
My struggle has been 15 yrs so far after 2 car accidents I now have chronic migraines, fibro, chronic fatigue and chronic insomnia with pain in my back mostly. I too still struggle with the mindset of feeling lazy and how others see me and you are right. We need to give ourselves and others grace. Everyone’s battle is different but very real. I’m glad you were able to get a diagnosis so quickly. Usually it takes months to years for some people. Then there’s medication tolerance issues. It’s been a LONG road but God is faithful and I trust him one day at a time. Thanks for putting yourself out there. God bless you and your family. ❤️
@sara23824 жыл бұрын
You're doing so great, Courtney! Thank you for sharing your journey so far. Learning where your limits are when you're newly diagnosed can be so hard, and it's really, a life long learning process. I'm still learning, over 5 years into severe chronic illness. It's especially hard to figure out when society ingrains in us that we ARE what we DO. Slowing down for your health takes guts, but you're doing so well in learning how to listen to your body. I hope you extend tons of grace to yourself as you continue to figure out new normals, and know that so so many people are supporting you and praying for you.
@318tester3 жыл бұрын
I can relate so much to your story. I too was a horse girl always push myself to the max could accomplish anything. And all of a sudden I’m couldn’t pretend to be ok anymore. I was diagnosed with RA yesterday. I’m happy and somewhat relieved to finally know what it is. I told myself the same thing, I must be lazy or crazy. So I can relate sister. Cheers to us and figuring all this out.
@lorryvlogshaastrup56102 жыл бұрын
Love this. I too was really hard on myself about what was going on with my body. But since my diagnosis of arthritis I now understand better what's going on.
@sarahskovranrdn42494 жыл бұрын
Oh Courtney, I am *so* glad you're following your doctor's advice on eating. I'm a registered dietitian and see so many clients who have tried to "heal" themselves with restrictive diets, and trust me, the recovery process from that (physical, emotional, and mental) can be a real bear.
@SwavyCurlyCourtney4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sarah! I completely understand what you're saying. I am absolutely not trying to "heal" myself with food. That power absolutely does not lie with me. Just working on eating foods that possibly might inflame my joints a little less. LOL!
@sarahskovranrdn42494 жыл бұрын
@@SwavyCurlyCourtney Of course! It sounds like you got some good advice from your doc.
@geekzgalore13 жыл бұрын
Dr. Brooke Goldner's protocol is restrictive but it definitely works. I track my intake most days and reach 90+ on most macros and micros.