My Scariest Experience in Botswana Africa 😭💔😭

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Queen Desta

Queen Desta

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@NeoKirchBaby
@NeoKirchBaby 3 жыл бұрын
I actually live in Botswana and let me say I am sorry you went through this. Botswana is actually the safest place I have lived in. I wouldn’t dare travel alone though, especiallly as a woman. Take heart, that was one rotten person and I blame the bus driver. He should have been the one to book you not give you to an animal. 😢
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thanks.. I am doing great now
@ndapiwasinyolo8133
@ndapiwasinyolo8133 3 жыл бұрын
So sad.sorry dear Damaris
@Carol0110
@Carol0110 3 жыл бұрын
@Neo KirchBaby we are coming to Botswana in July with my boss for avacation
@sasaskitchen2435
@sasaskitchen2435 3 жыл бұрын
Very true Neo there’s always a horrible and wicked individual in any Community and she should have called the Police and the Bus Company it’s so annoying to treat our visitors like that 🇧🇼
@umpe_travels3019
@umpe_travels3019 3 жыл бұрын
As a motswana and avid traveler am sorry about your experience. I agree with Neo that you met a bad guy.
@lizparadza8311
@lizparadza8311 3 жыл бұрын
I am Zimbabwean. I have been staying in Gaborone for 18 years now. It's unfortunate you had to go through that, but generally Botswana is a peaceful country on a different occasion you can actually love this country.
@nanaanani9511
@nanaanani9511 3 жыл бұрын
A very safe And peaceful country indeed. So sorry you went through this
@brucewayne-iy6jz
@brucewayne-iy6jz Жыл бұрын
the most amazing thing is that when you were the most scared, you were actually very brave. you have a strength inside you that is just inspiring.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much
@SizzlesDiaries
@SizzlesDiaries 3 жыл бұрын
My heart skipped a beat for moments like that Dama. As you started narrating i was continually praying for your safety. OMG I am literally in tears😓😢 pls do well to link up with the contact i gave you, your safety is paramount always.
@kennedymuriungi1760
@kennedymuriungi1760 3 жыл бұрын
Have been to Botswana about 7 times. I was actually there 2 weeks ago. I love the country and the people there. They are very friendly. It's quite unfortunate that you had to experience this. Be safe and don't let that person ruin your stay there. You will love the place.
@alanmusere4989
@alanmusere4989 3 жыл бұрын
I m originally from Uganda but I was raised up in Botswana for about 14 years before I moved to the US but what I would recommend you is to be very safe when traveling around Africa. Indeed Botswana is one of the most safest countries but doesn’t doesn’t rule out the fact that there would be some rotten apples who would be disrespectful esp a woman traveling by yourself, you should really consider traveling with a male partner or/ friend to be safe because this could happen anywhere not only Botswana. I haven’t been back to Botswana in about 11 years but i plan on flying back there with my wife in a year or two from now. I just stumbled upon your page and will keep watching your videos!!
@chadsesupi9886
@chadsesupi9886 3 жыл бұрын
U r nw lvn in UK..wow
@josephstephen2047
@josephstephen2047 3 жыл бұрын
@@chadsesupi9886 Nope its Us
@smendes2004
@smendes2004 2 жыл бұрын
She has the right to travel alone.
@pontshomasilonyane6842
@pontshomasilonyane6842 3 жыл бұрын
As a Motswana I'm ashamed of what you experienced....every society has such rotten individuals....
@damarisambia1154
@damarisambia1154 3 жыл бұрын
She had a good experience with the taxi driver from the border he was so helpful. I believe this was a rare moment you are right few rotten people in every society.
@junethekiso
@junethekiso 3 жыл бұрын
As a Motswana female, I could it is really shameful indeed. I believe we should not be comfortable to visit foreign places without making prior arrangement. We are living in a corrupt world with sick people regardless of the country.
@tabbymmokele2976
@tabbymmokele2976 3 жыл бұрын
We are friendly im suprised
@amilakenosi
@amilakenosi 3 жыл бұрын
Le nna 😭 we are very friendly shem
@WODEMAYA
@WODEMAYA 3 жыл бұрын
Stay Safe my friend!
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Yes i will.
@daviroza4700
@daviroza4700 3 жыл бұрын
Please don’t go to Botswana wife maya keep this place a secret
@goitseonebailey652
@goitseonebailey652 3 жыл бұрын
Please MAYA ls just one rotten tomatoe..I need you come to BW when am ready at my FARM PLEASE
@daviroza4700
@daviroza4700 3 жыл бұрын
@@goitseonebailey652 what’s bw
@goitseonebailey652
@goitseonebailey652 3 жыл бұрын
@@daviroza4700 Botswana
@jessesithole8531
@jessesithole8531 3 жыл бұрын
I am terribly sorry you had to go through such a bad experience, I am glad you were not harmed physically, I hope you recover psychologically.
@angelicastill7196
@angelicastill7196 3 жыл бұрын
My dear this is not about Botswana ...everywhere you go you will run into these types of problematic people .always travel after being well researched...ranging from your transport especially after arrival cos that’s when things get tricky..you can converse with strangers but to me you gave too much details for predators to lend an ear and worse off you should have be very strict about leaving him at the reception because you do not know him letting him through gives the people at the desk you are together ! Conversation you had was too long , learn to be direct in future if you want to travel anywhere as a solo and Goodluck .
@trish4845
@trish4845 3 жыл бұрын
I was just about to comment the same way but you said it all Cista … always research before travel …
@my_garden.secrets
@my_garden.secrets 3 жыл бұрын
Very true .Best is to travel with a male companion and ensure you have safe bookings .
@nunu19917
@nunu19917 3 жыл бұрын
Kana ke hoo Gee.. avoid unnecessary conversation with strangers. Batswana are peaceful people and love entertaining visiters. Always do your research before hand.
@cypriantertullian7495
@cypriantertullian7495 3 жыл бұрын
You may have to get in touch with the Botswana authorities (police), or someone from Botswana can show this video to the Botswana police so they can do some investigation. You can help save others from this predator. Botswana is generally a good and peaceful country, and the police are not as corrupt as police from many other African countries. Stay safe.
@afiyakemarafa1997
@afiyakemarafa1997 3 жыл бұрын
Terrifying. I honestly wasn't expecting to hear this horrific turn of events in your story😣 You'll pull through though. That experience can strengthen you, and help keep your third eye open to predators. Love you and bless up yourself 💯👊🏿
@cookingsection568
@cookingsection568 3 жыл бұрын
Please confirm that you will contact authorities or at the very least the Bus driver’s employer TEDDY’s EXPRESS !!!You might save a life of a future female traveler.
@CosmicRBG
@CosmicRBG 3 жыл бұрын
Wode Maya is a male and he still travels with other people. Your brave, it's incidents like these that turn a kind heart cold. Like you said your angel was watching over you and things didn't get out of control. To me it was a red flag when the bus driver kept touching you...and when two men(At Nite?) you don't know are talking concerning you and you don't know what their saying...BEWARE! Safe journey's
@edenm.6985
@edenm.6985 3 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that you are okay, Damaris! You handled the situation very wisely, thank God! Beware of those who approach you like they care ( like the driver). I can't understand the mindset of some people. It's disgusting!
@sirandula
@sirandula 3 жыл бұрын
The reason why it is not about protecting our daughters but most importantly about educating our sons.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
yeah that's a great insight.. or rather educating both genders
@sirandula
@sirandula 3 жыл бұрын
@Marilyn Willett, good luck.....
@neelomotlotlegi4578
@neelomotlotlegi4578 3 жыл бұрын
As a motswana I clicked to see whats the worst that could have happened,but I must say im ashamed and embarrassed you got to experience that,but all we know is our country is so safe and the men are.super protective and helpful to tourists didnt expect to hear.What you experienced wasn't good at all and am sorry you experienced this horror and alone for that matter.But generally our country isnt like that you had met the wrong people unfortunately😭😭😭If I could I would say visit again so we show you around🤗😊😘
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Am still around and am having a great time 😌
@neelomotlotlegi4578
@neelomotlotlegi4578 3 жыл бұрын
Owh wow,didnt think id hear you say.Hit me up if you want to meet up.Hope you are good hands now.😊💕
@sasaskitchen2435
@sasaskitchen2435 3 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this but Botswana is a safe country and I never knew we have Brothels in BW 🇧🇼
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Its surprising to many amazing Motswana
@listenup2882
@listenup2882 3 жыл бұрын
Is there a country on the planet without brothels?
@sasaskitchen2435
@sasaskitchen2435 3 жыл бұрын
@@listenup2882 is that legal in your country?
@jusplay7309
@jusplay7309 3 жыл бұрын
Wow such an innocent person
@veemandem7464
@veemandem7464 3 жыл бұрын
Brothels are not legal but they is no country without brothels
@Annaliisalove
@Annaliisalove 3 жыл бұрын
Ooo you are such a strong, courageous woman. I pray for you. Keep safe. Am glad God kept you safe
@arestaaresta9271
@arestaaresta9271 3 жыл бұрын
This is an unfortunate incident indeed. Now... Before you talk yourself out of it. Reclaim your strength by reporting it to the authorities. Makes sure your report is as detailed as possible. This will help them for other cases in the area of harassment/sequestration cases, disappearances etc... Your confidence will be restored by acknowledging the gravity of what you just survived. Talking it down is pushing it down. It will resurface in harmful ways in your life. So deal with it facing it. Report it. Also trauma hotlines are available online. Reach out to specialists that deal with this. You did very well by telling the world about it. Courage and keep exploring safely.
@tshepisobosupegile625
@tshepisobosupegile625 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, are you ok? I live in Botswana in the city. It's sad to hear you experienced that. Botswana is a beautiful place. If you need help s do say. I might be able to assist even with general advice or help you navigate safely. Batswana are very warm people for the most part. There's way more positive you can still experience here.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks... Tips on activities to do in Botswana will be appreciated 🙂
@itstheshygirl7048
@itstheshygirl7048 3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenDesta we have horse riding in Notwane at the Notwane Equestrian Centre. There's also an amusement park called lion's park where there is alot of activities you can do there like going on the rollercoaster, lion viewing and many more. Gaborone game reserve you can go there for game drives to see wild animals. The freak show you can go there for go karting(its in lobatse though). Gaborone yatch club(p.s I've never been, well yet ) a restuarant by the Gaborone dam with a beautiful view of the dam. Big valley game lodge in lobatse ,activities include lion viewing, game drives, ziplining, boat paddling and camping there's a few more. For quad biking you can go to offroad extreme Matebeleng. There's also paintball shooting in Kopong. There's also kgale hill were you can go there for hiking and exercise . The National museum and art gallery in Gaborone, learn about ancient Botswana. The three chief's monument in Gaborone at the central business district, a place to learn about the history of Botswana's independence. Mokolodi nature reserve also for game drives. You can also go watch movies at the malls e.g game city mall, airport junction, mass centre etc. For traditional food you can go to Jarateng Lounge and Botswana craft courtyard restaurant my top 2. I hope that helps make you're stay more comfortable and enjoyable but please look up these places first before going there for more information that I didn't cover . I hope you enjoy your sister ❤ and please be safe❤
@africanborn1851
@africanborn1851 3 жыл бұрын
Cheri ye maaka
@Rrangwane
@Rrangwane 3 жыл бұрын
@@africanborn1851 ware go maaka mang neh monna?
@maulainelson9807
@maulainelson9807 3 жыл бұрын
Thank God you are okay Damaris. I have grown so fond of you the time you came to Namibia. Stay safe mama. We love you..
@resegoseetemorakanyane3999
@resegoseetemorakanyane3999 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Unfortunately that experience is not an accurate picture of who we are as Batswana. I just hope you managed to report the incident to the police. Feel free to contact me if you need any help with taking this matter further.
@shamisomakuvaro9393
@shamisomakuvaro9393 3 жыл бұрын
OMG!This is so sad l am a Zimbabwean mother staying in Bots.Before covid we used to travel home and back will get to Gaborone in the wee hrs. But our bus crew will make each and everyone sleep on the bus then start travel to our destinations in the morning.And also Bots is not that bad for travellers you were just unfortunate to meet with the wrong people.And also not many Batswana are on your you tube channel.This needs to go out there thanks for sharing.Get out there enjoy Gabs and do what you came for good luck...
@primmycooks884
@primmycooks884 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for clarifying this Shamiso. Botswana is a great place. We aren't bad people at all. She went to the wrong hood
@tabbymmokele2976
@tabbymmokele2976 3 жыл бұрын
True im supriced this gul will spoil our country
@africaine4889
@africaine4889 3 жыл бұрын
@@tabbymmokele2976 oh please people will not stip wanti g to wxperience botswana. But thanks to her video people will becautious while trsveling. Not only in Botswana but in othee countries at well. When we are well receeived in countries and people are nice we tend to lut our guard dowm snd forget not everyone will want to do good
@centreflora5170
@centreflora5170 3 жыл бұрын
@@tabbymmokele2976 am sorry of this mentality, do you know she was emotionally and psychologically tortured...you should read and see what other empathetic people begin by apologising....what she underwent being new and at night is to be ashamed of your country for this one or two persons. She is educating the society though sure she came for for positive things but this is the welcome she received....
@dolapo4578
@dolapo4578 3 жыл бұрын
It's so sad that we still have lots of animals in human skin,am sorry about the experience,may God continue protect you and all other travellers. Please continue to stay safe. Much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@samsebozadventures9927
@samsebozadventures9927 3 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry for what happened to you in my country. I have travelled to Namibia several times and have been treated so so well to the extend that i consider Namibia my second home. I hope you are well and safe and exploring my lovely country. Botswana is amongst the safest places to visit the same as Namibia and probably Kenya as well...so so unfortunate that on your first day that had to happen.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. but it's well now
@biancak8701
@biancak8701 3 жыл бұрын
Soo sorry for your ordeal. How does one reach you if they want to connect? Would like to show you around Gaborone atleast to help with a good memory before you leave. Very unfortunate you had that encounter upon arrival. But I’m sure you’ll have good moments. Continue to take care always.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
You can mail me so i get in touch damarisnjengayt@gmail.com
@keziahkimani7166
@keziahkimani7166 3 жыл бұрын
Keep safe cuzo, don't trust anyone. Above all may God protect you. Keep reaching greater heights 👏
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear. I greatly appreciate your support
@themelanatedmr.mosley
@themelanatedmr.mosley 3 жыл бұрын
This really angers me that you had to experience this. I hope that this man is dealt with accordingly. Sista your safety is most important, and many of your followers depend on you to make wise and prudent decisions when traveling. As content creators, people view our work as inspiration, and may possibly travel the same way that you do. I'm glad you're okay now. Set strong boundaries, always have adequate methods of communication, carry anything that could be used as protection, and never travel alone.
@jbailey8697
@jbailey8697 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry bro, it was also stupid of her to follow a man she doesn’t know into a room as a solo traveler. This is just common sense, no matter if you’re in America or Africa. She came off really naive
@chantosmm8582
@chantosmm8582 3 жыл бұрын
Set strong boundaries 👍
@chantosmm8582
@chantosmm8582 3 жыл бұрын
@@jbailey8697 💯 correct. Just imagine.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
am well now.. I'll be more careful
@AfroMillennialMomma
@AfroMillennialMomma 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you kept your composure. God was with you that day
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
As always 😊😊
@cookingsection568
@cookingsection568 3 жыл бұрын
Please confirm that you will contact authorities or at the very least the Bus driver’s employer. You might save a life of a future female traveler.
@GettingItDone59
@GettingItDone59 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry my sister, please be very careful. I’m so glad you got out of that situation safely. But please take personal security very seriously.
@zarreaction8037
@zarreaction8037 3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry for your bad encounter with that guy😢,I pray you enjoy the rest of your stay in Botswana.You are so brave may the almighty protect you ❤️❤️❤️
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@matiyas27
@matiyas27 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my! Sorry that happened to you. You should report him to authorities and maybe have a tour guide to be with you for a while.. Thanks for sharing. Be encouraged and safe dear.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@otienomichael2955
@otienomichael2955 3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry my sister i love the way how you're strong girl keep pushing if it easy thing everybody should do it but not easy God always has with you
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much!
@rajeshkumaroberoi812
@rajeshkumaroberoi812 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I am from India , and new subscriber to your channel, and when I listened you story, was shocked, thank God you are safe.
@JustLuluTheko
@JustLuluTheko 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you went through that. I can volunteer to help you get around Gaborone if you need that.
@walkwithorr
@walkwithorr 3 жыл бұрын
Damaris I am screaming at you but I understand at the same time, here is my 2cents advice 'NEVER TRUST ANYONE' there are no saints in this world.
@bontlenawa
@bontlenawa 3 жыл бұрын
You are not okay and i would recommend you just report and get closure on this issue. Hope you get to experience Botswana once you heal
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. I reported it
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Am well now
@damarisambia1154
@damarisambia1154 3 жыл бұрын
Dama pls just be always careful and follow your instinct. Sio watu wote ni wazuri. You are brave to do this as a lady.
@sderese
@sderese 3 жыл бұрын
Pole Dama, big hug. Don't allow a fool to steal your joy and adventure.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much!
@Semira_Yasin
@Semira_Yasin 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you are well and safe my dear. You are one of the few female Africans who travel across Africa alone. Big up. By you talking about and exposing these issues you are creating a safer road for the future travelers. God bless and one love. 🌹
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. am doing great now 🙂
@Cecyk
@Cecyk 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭 You are a brave woman. It's so unfortunate that we are not safe as women, as you were narrating the story I was angry, angry at that man, angry at the world for seeing women as mere objects. Am glad you are safe, this is a lesson for all female travelers.
@berthekabwe871
@berthekabwe871 3 жыл бұрын
True its very unsafe for us women at night.
@fruitsarelife148
@fruitsarelife148 3 жыл бұрын
💛 We as women need to raise the boys differently. We birth them, which means we are powerful. We actively need to teach respect towards women.
@Cecyk
@Cecyk 3 жыл бұрын
@@fruitsarelife148 absolutely
@smendes2004
@smendes2004 2 жыл бұрын
It is not women who need to change, but men.
@thondombeha5996
@thondombeha5996 3 жыл бұрын
So sorry about what happened. Really sorry. Love from Botswana, Gaborone
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the love
@cmuli4328
@cmuli4328 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love 💕. It is terrible to hear of your experience. Take your power back you beautiful soul. Please take care of yourself 🙏🏾
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.. am well now 🙂
@keamogetsetladi7745
@keamogetsetladi7745 3 жыл бұрын
Soo brave gal!! Thank God you are safe and sound!!you met the wrong person in BW! Continue your journey without fear darls Botswana is very safe!! God protect you!!
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thanks.. Amen!
@keamogetsetladi7745
@keamogetsetladi7745 3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenDesta 💝
@segamatale8375
@segamatale8375 3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you had to go through that, as a Motswana staying in Gaborone. We as Batswana, like what most people here commented on, are very welcoming and peace loving nation. You were just unfortunate you bumped into such characters. As a traveler, it's always advisable to research about cabs at your destination, buy a sim card prior to arrival (you made a couple of stops, vendors sell sim cards), call your cab to let them know your ETA and your destination address. We're relieved you got safe. Don't be afraid for the second visit.
@RDCFemmes
@RDCFemmes 3 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear about your experience but from what I see other youtubers do is that they connect with other youtubers locally. Stay safe!
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. am well now though
@winniemutisya7119
@winniemutisya7119 3 жыл бұрын
Pole sana sis. May the angels of God protect you. May God cause good pple to come your way in Jesus name. May you b blessed. Pole
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Amen... Thank you
@Outspoken_1
@Outspoken_1 3 жыл бұрын
When the bus driver touched you on your shoulder, I thought that was too much. Too friendly 😡
@doreenonekalit9888
@doreenonekalit9888 3 жыл бұрын
I found it creepy too
@svb6594
@svb6594 3 жыл бұрын
And it’s sad that as women we’re expected to just be ok with it, to save ourselves from drama. Touching someone you don’t know is just way too much and personal, and some people just can’t get that into their heads.
@fionamokokwe6890
@fionamokokwe6890 3 жыл бұрын
They don't even touch other men like that
@brunoelliotmotsamai2090
@brunoelliotmotsamai2090 3 жыл бұрын
Am a Motswana....Sister Sorry for that haunting moments.....hope you fully recover mentally and get to explore more of Botswana.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. am doing great now
@thatgirlvapa
@thatgirlvapa 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite KZbinr
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@PurityMwakio
@PurityMwakio 3 жыл бұрын
I know this feeling its happened to me before. But i thank God i also overcame 🙏🙏it is well. God always be with you
@boitshokonengu7306
@boitshokonengu7306 3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you had to meet a rogue like that..Please be cautious and enjoy Botswana.I have subscribed as I would like to know how you are fairing
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the family. You will love it here
@ManKilits
@ManKilits 3 жыл бұрын
Manze aki pole sanaa, its a very sad experience, am glad you overcomed it
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot
@berthekabwe871
@berthekabwe871 3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you had such a bad experience. As a woman we sometimes become too vulnerable traveling at night alone. This can happen anywhere in the world and most time it doesn't end well. God was indeed on your side🙏🏿🙏🏿. Try not to be too trusting of people especially at night. Don't be discouraged, an experience like this will only make you stronger and more wiser❤
@berthekabwe871
@berthekabwe871 3 жыл бұрын
@@mrsplc5326 Thanks. I am African currently living in Canada and I think if this had happened here things would have ended badly. Don't think she would be here to tell this story honestly. Last summer I went for a walk around my home in the evening because it was too hot in my apartment, I was walking along the busiest street and there were few people around. Despite that I had a car follow me and I had to pretend to go to the nearest apartment building until the driver finally drove off. The driver looked mixed or middle eastern. I was so shocked and surprised that this could happen on the busiest street. That incident taught me a good lesson!
@korleisapp3301
@korleisapp3301 3 жыл бұрын
Damaris my dear life is the greatest teacher learn well. Any lessons not learnt will be Repeated. Always always listen to that inner self and be aware of your surroundings. In my country we say Trust No Shadow After Dark. Keep safe one love princess.
@martinmunguti8888
@martinmunguti8888 3 жыл бұрын
You are very brave to share the story coz it has opened our eyes on things to look out for when traveling examples on your video the time the driver was touching your neck it seemed to put you off and you said the driver was too friendly your instincts were right and even taking the taxi your instincts were still right am glad you got out of that situation .Something else that caught my hear is you said Gambling with your life i think you shouldn't think of it as that but a lesson to be for vigilant next time when travelling and always trust your instincts if it does not feel right take control of the situation fast before things go to far.Thank God that you are safe and sound
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. am grateful am safe too
@bogwasi
@bogwasi 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry you went through that. Wishing you a safer stay in Botswana.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thank you
@miyashita291
@miyashita291 3 жыл бұрын
Dear take care! You were so brave and you did a good thing getting away there.. this is a terrible thing woman have to go through... some men are terrible and think they can do whatever they want. God is great he protected you.
@FavouredLadyT
@FavouredLadyT 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in awe of your bravery. You are so strong. Keep going girl! Glory be to God.
@gabs2318
@gabs2318 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you had to experience this. All your travels from now do kindly take the advise below: 1. Always have place to lodge booked in advance 2. Never arrive in the night in a destination your not familiar with even if you are. 3. Never travel alone at night as especially as a woman. Please have a friend to accompany you or have local that has credibility to show you around or help you when you need help. 4. Contact your embassy in advance to tell them your coming, just for emergency situations 5. Always have internet and airtime in case you need to use it 6. Never trust strangers and be on the look for red flags Otherwise take care and stay safe.
@mwalimukimanimbugua8659
@mwalimukimanimbugua8659 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you had such a bad experience. When you do not where you are going please do not trust people you don't know.
@pepzotukile8756
@pepzotukile8756 3 жыл бұрын
Always have a power bank for ur phn not to switch off Police # Airtime Google acomodation around th bus station or trail station Ur embassy toll free # DON'T TRUST TOO MUCH
@afiyakemarafa1997
@afiyakemarafa1997 3 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna be here!!! After half a century!!!! 😪😪 I'm absolutely curious & having the jitters to hear your scary experience!!🥺 I trust you aren't too haunted by it🥺💙
@missreche
@missreche 3 жыл бұрын
Am Sorry for the scary experience dear take heart
@realtruth3731
@realtruth3731 3 жыл бұрын
Always listen to your inner feelings/voice; that uneasy feeling that you had initially was warning you of the danger to come. Don't let this incident stop you from reaching your goals, but learn from it. Wishing you the best!
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thanks.. am well now and will be more careful
@oloratogaetsiwe8393
@oloratogaetsiwe8393 3 жыл бұрын
What is that guest house called.. ?? Sorry that happened.. would have never thought it would happen.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
I only recall it's in G-West
@CherylBright
@CherylBright 3 жыл бұрын
As a motswana i am super dissapointed.im sorry you experienced this.i can imagine you were in a foreign land and just needed help.However even I dont take chances with strangers here coz people can be very shady.All in all Botswana is a very peaceful country.and im sure you will enjoy your stay
@primmycooks884
@primmycooks884 3 жыл бұрын
Im also disappointed in her for choosing G west only to put our country in a bad way. We are proud of our peaceful country. You just need to avoid certain areas
@CherylBright
@CherylBright 3 жыл бұрын
@@primmycooks884 exactly G West is not a safe area especially for someone who dsnt know their way around it.and you just cant go trusting random people at night.there are proper places around the city.research and pick
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
I already am having a great time
@pharoahmed7681
@pharoahmed7681 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Damaris, this is the first time I have come across your videos. I applaud you for your bravery and speaking about your encounter. My advice us for you to take your bus ticket and use it as evidence. Report that bus driver to his company, even go there in person. He us probably doing this to other women.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. I already reported the case dear and am doing much better now
@eluismael
@eluismael 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to experience that, don't let that douche bag ruin your adventure. Sending lots of love!
@davincikerr3942
@davincikerr3942 3 жыл бұрын
Damaris come back to the land of a thousand hills. Sorry for what you experienced in Botswana I am glad that nothing happened to you, thanks for sharing your experience.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will
@Stella-Shanelly
@Stella-Shanelly 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry 😢 about that my dear. Please be safe
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thank you. I will be safe
@primmycooks884
@primmycooks884 3 жыл бұрын
I cant miss this one. I just came back to Namibia from Botswana abd i almost asked you when you were in Namibia if you arent going to Botswana so that i can go with you. I was travelling with my son alone. I was in Namibia when you were here. I rushed there for 2 weeks
@africanprincessrams
@africanprincessrams 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry about what happened to you in my country but Botswana remains the safest place I have been to compared to the most countries I have been in Africa. I remember you arrived very late that time in rhe bus rank. But that tittlecseem ti be so bold and bad to sat about a country like Botswana. I have been to Namibia. But that time when we talked I suggested you a very safe place in the city and you turned it down. Hope you are safe though.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Am doing great now.. having a great time
@bennygati3612
@bennygati3612 3 жыл бұрын
POLE😢SANA..U HAD TO GO THRU ALL THAT DRAMA!PRAYING FOR YOUR SAFETY, FOR THE REST OF YOUR TRIP..WOOW 😱IM GLAD YOU ARE OK
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much.
@saratessema9064
@saratessema9064 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear girl! Hope you find a good local to help you to the rest if your journey.
@wamemogologolo6680
@wamemogologolo6680 3 жыл бұрын
I am really sorry that happened to you!.. I hope you enjoy the rest of your stay here
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thanks! am already having a good time
@nangulanghiyalwa8626
@nangulanghiyalwa8626 3 жыл бұрын
My goodness! I am so sorry to hear. Stay safe please! Try to book your accommodation well in advance and trust your instincts right away. So sorry to hear. I have been a lone traveler before but I have always tried to make contacts from my networks in the countries I travelled to before I arrive. Except for being dupped of my money once in a while, being overcharged etc, I wouldn't really say there was a time I felt unsafe. Except the driving late sometimes in some countries left me scared of my life and this one time having a traumatising experience of a cab I was travelling in Elmina Ghana hit a person . Stay safe please sis.
@dansonmwaniki1561
@dansonmwaniki1561 3 жыл бұрын
Omg the Holy spirit of God is always with you wherever you go, and i assure you nothing will ever happen to you Damaris.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@wellingtonzulu6373
@wellingtonzulu6373 3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenDesta Hie, there's an association for your County people here,kindly get in touch , I show you.
@willyemannuelwilliams8914
@willyemannuelwilliams8914 3 жыл бұрын
Well my sister, being a traveler caution should always be your first priority and it really wasn't your fault it really was the driver's fault! But then again always make sure that you paid for your room at the reception and collect the keys, let this be a lesson well learnt and don't worry God takes good care of his children! One Love ♥️ and God bless 🙏 you baby girl 💯💪🏽😇👑
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I learnt my lesson😊
@ekiamediambedeka5188
@ekiamediambedeka5188 3 жыл бұрын
Let us just say, you are a truly strong woman. You shall over come and blessings will come your way.
@antonymangu3458
@antonymangu3458 3 жыл бұрын
You brave girl, and stay strong, think like a lady BUT act like man don't be afraid ever when you out of your country
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@ogonebasiamang2163
@ogonebasiamang2163 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about your experience, I am glad that you were able to escape
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@rouilliewilkerson4955
@rouilliewilkerson4955 3 жыл бұрын
This is a month old, already, but I hope you realized how blessed you were at that moment. This could have rapidly escalated and you could have been hurt, drugged and trafficked. Don't trust strangers, especially when they are in your space, don't respect your bounderies, and try to establish (or force) rapport way to soon! Safety first and always! A nice guy would understand your apprehension. Your gut was giving you signs the whole time. I'm a mother and grandmother, and this hurts my heart to know such a lovely young lady could have ended up in a very dangerous or deadly situation. Take care! There's only one you. God Bless.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. The experience made me more conscious of the people around me and I assure you am minding my safety
@shathisophiri7156
@shathisophiri7156 3 жыл бұрын
so Sorry for what you had to go through, God will always keep you through. Botswana is relatively a safe place don't fear to go out during the day, people will be too friendly etc. so best to filter the types of people and the extant of help offered by them. befriend more ladies to keep company. and stay safe. welcome to Botswana. hope you leave with a better experience.
@dunamiswellness3736
@dunamiswellness3736 3 жыл бұрын
This is touching my dear. I would like to extend my apologise on your ordeal. Thank God for your safety. Much love🥰💐🌺💞🌼💕
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. am doing well now 🙂
@dunamiswellness3736
@dunamiswellness3736 3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenDesta That's wonderful. Have a blessed day
@tellatalewithnayomie2527
@tellatalewithnayomie2527 3 жыл бұрын
When people see videos of solo travelers, they think its a walk in the park. However the truth is it so scary coz someone can easily take advantage of you. It not only happens to females but also males. People are always looking for opportunities to rip travelers off. Be very careful who you interact with. Otherwise glad you are safe!
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah am glad too🙂
@AymanMohammed9920
@AymanMohammed9920 3 жыл бұрын
Your journey hve been amazing my dear, But are you originally from which country ?
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. am from Kenya
@pumpkin8277
@pumpkin8277 3 жыл бұрын
It's very unfortunate that you had to go through that. I'm a motswana living close to Gaborone, cities do tend to be dangerous I'm glad you're safe now.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah am glad I am safe🙂
@this_is_africa
@this_is_africa 3 жыл бұрын
Stay safe Dama and if you're heading to Zambia be sure to connect with Empress Tay and the Khumba guy.
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for the leads
@this_is_africa
@this_is_africa 3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenDesta karibu
@tiotutu6241
@tiotutu6241 3 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry you had to go through this ml😪❤ please stay safe🥺❤
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Am doing well now 🙂 thanks
@richierich5755
@richierich5755 3 жыл бұрын
I'd suggest you make security arrangements as you travel - this time, the Lord delivered you. I would make it a point to always land at a police station to introduce yourself and to make sure you can call them for help if you ever need it. Sounds like a pretty scary situation. May the Lord continue to protect you on your travels. God bless.
@mamapeppa3326
@mamapeppa3326 3 жыл бұрын
Where I come from, sometimes even the police are not safe!
@ruthmurimi
@ruthmurimi 2 жыл бұрын
@@mamapeppa3326 ...haha...
@anndwatson
@anndwatson 3 жыл бұрын
Stay safe that's most important. So sorry this happened to you. Take care of yourself.
@atiwe44
@atiwe44 3 жыл бұрын
Every vlog of yours is an inspiration and a challenge
@ancientevolution2603
@ancientevolution2603 3 жыл бұрын
Please Damaris, report the bus driver and it will help the police track the man. Please do something, reporting it on KZbin is important but taking a legal action is part of solving the solution. I am sure going to the police well help calling the driver out, calling the man out, you can also obtain his Identity from the payment he made to that brothel.
@benoniavah4811
@benoniavah4811 3 жыл бұрын
I am grateful you are safe. Learn from that experience and move on. You'll do great.
@thatommui7760
@thatommui7760 3 жыл бұрын
I really hope you get a great experience after this bad first impression cause honestly Botswana is a great place
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
am currently doing great😊
@tabbymmokele2976
@tabbymmokele2976 3 жыл бұрын
Very safe and peacefu country my country but this was bad for her
@albertimbufe16
@albertimbufe16 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Damaris!!! I pray God to continue protecting you! as you continue your solo travel adventures in Africa. You're truly a confident, strong, and brave young lady - clearly a bright star shining d African story to world. Keep up d good work you're doing, n never let ur guards down from potential predators who would prey on seemingly vulnerable young girls like you. Maybe you need a boyfriend with shared interest, to travel with you - just like Wode Maya n Miss Trudy! You deserve better dan d risky welcome treatment you got in Botswana. By d way, I watch n follow you from here in Ottawa, Canada. Stay safe, healthy, n happy!!!
@kahawainternet7739
@kahawainternet7739 3 жыл бұрын
pole sana. i have been in Botswana for now over 18 years. i would say its relatively safe compared to most countries in africa. If you need some one to guide you to some few places in Gaborone where am based feel free to contact me. let me also assure you that botswana police are very swift when called upon so any time you visit dont fear to talk to cops. they will always be on your side. Otherwise enjoy your stay in Gaborone. Tosh
@QueenDesta
@QueenDesta 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@neosjournal_
@neosjournal_ 3 жыл бұрын
Botswana is generally safe , but there are bad people ! you can’t ever trust a random bus driver especially as a visitor and even worse, as a female. I’m so sorry you went through that. Love and light to you !🤍
@nyelanyela1080
@nyelanyela1080 3 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry that this happened to you. Please be safe out there sister! Praying for safe journey!
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