My struggles as an introvert & things I want to change (INFJ edition)

[@gwennvy]

I'm an INTP and I understand. My introversion is so extreme and causes me to isolate myself. I shouldn't feel like a boomer this young

[@normalouis8593]

Intp here too, couldn't agree more

[@Jabbawokeez4]

Same here.

[@akibiyori]

I’m in INFP and I love being an introvert. Being an introvert doesn’t mean you have to be shy or that you’re anti-social. Being introverted means I don’t have to rely on others to have fun. Confident introverts do exist! :) But I must admit, I have lost friendships or potential ones because of my introversion. With that, I’m glad to have the friends I have now as they’ve accepted who I am and are not bothered for my need to be alone. There are two things I want to point out though. (1) You’ve probably seen a lot of INFJs despite them being a “rare” type because they’re most likely mistyped which is common if they’ve the 16personalities test. That test is incredibly intuitive biased and actually isn’t based on Carl Jung’s theory (aka cognitive functions) which is what Myers Briggs is based on. I have 4 friends who claimed to be INFJ because of that horrid test, but after learning about cognitive functions, only one is an INFJ, the others were ISFJ, ISFP and ISTP. But as you said, some people take the tests for fun which is totally fine. (2) Another thing is that one’s MBTI type actually doesn’t “change.” Your core personality stays the same but you may behave like other types depending on your environment, stress levels, etc. for instance, when I’m at work, I behave like an ESTJ (I’m an INFP).

[@camilanegrin4371]

I'm an INFJ too and I feel SO understood, I thought I was alone and that I'm the problem but it's nice to listen to someone that feels just exactly how I feel, I'm glad I'm not the only one

[@etherealisis3737]

As an INTP (Logician) I really related with everything you said! I’m glad I’m not alone :)

[@JavaBeanJean]

Makes sense why I like your videos n personality, I’m a INTJ. I can and had a lot of extroverted friends but with growing up I seriously didn’t care to be out and about. I feel truly blessed to have my husband as my 2nd best friend, next to my sister. Stay balanced love!

[@lex6819]

As an INFJ I find INTJs one of the easiest MBTI types I can relate to

[@lex6819]

I'm INFJ also. I got an MBTI test when a company I worked for was bought out by a larger corporation, and was dissolved. We got a severance and an outplacement package that included career counseling and an MBTI evaluation.

[@Hello-gf2og]

Btw i can relate to everything you said! Thanks, I feel so different to other people that I am like from another dimension. It gets lonely

[@Akhile_hope]

Love your content 😍 So sweet and as a christian its fun to see somone who is similar in faith❤

[@PatBTheOwlcaptain]

Just followed on Instagram! I'm an ISTJ, the logistician. Reading the description about it, it sounds super boring with words like "not particularly flash" and "sturdy, stable foundation". Personally, I feel like my biggest issue sometimes deals with the Thinking vs Feeling, as opposed to the introversion part. Thinking vs Feeling causes me to not really feel in the moment a lot. Lord knows how many dates and beautiful moments I've not appreciated enough because of my mind going a million miles an hour when I should be lost in the moment. Anyway, congratulations and good luck on your self improvement journey, even if it's sometimes just saying no one more time in a while. 화이팅!

[@IreneAura8]

INFJ too 🥹🥹🥹💕💕💕💕 i love youu

[@sauravlahiry6951]

hi sienna sis, nothing to worry. we humans always face problems

[@normalouis8593]

I also struggle with saying no or giving my critique, glad to hear it gets better as I get older.

[@sadboy1997]

I am an INFJ too and share the same concerns as you Sienna:( especially the saying 'No' part

[@Sakura-zu4rz]

😍❤Your channel is literally my comfort place. You make me so happy. ❤😁❤

[@siennahong]

ohmygosh thank you!!! It means so much

[@raquelfigueroa5539]

I’m also INFJ-A , and I don’t like to be the center of attention but because I tend to be a good listener people love to talk to me. Because of my Job I notice that I’m less shy but I still don’t like to be the center of attention.

[@Hello-gf2og]

Being stuck in an entry level, low skill job, as an INTJ is like suicide inducing. God help me.

[@user-nt5zv9ih5f]

Sienna thank you so much for explaining. My wife is exactly like you this video helped her alot making an effort coming out of her shell. Stay classy 👌

[@stevenpiper970]

I can't pretend a stranger is a long awaited friend.

[@neocherries]

omg i'm an infj too!!

[@kellymensah8181]

Omg, I find myself in your video. I don't know how to maintain friendships. And as a introvert, shy and someone with depression and it is hard.

[@eleniminas7742]

Ohh I'm an INFJ as well .Love from Greece 🇬🇷 ♡♡♡

[@raphaelyvens3974]

Thnks keeping up the Good work

[@pappa_panda]

self improvement is a false, temporary remedy, now self-destruction... that's the true way to happiness if ur willing to not be immediately judgemental and process what i'm saying

[@moa2222]

I’m ISFJ, Being an introvert sucks in this world specially career wise. the world is Build to have extroverts because everything is about connections , to get very far in life I think that you need a lot of connections or some.

[@kyopo18]

I personally try to be an ambivert. Thats me. You be you.

[@jonathanyuanyt]

The audio sounds a bit different from your previous videos. Just letting you know! :)

[@bhawnasingh]

Totally relatable.. INFJ things

[@MisterPenguin42]

I was shocked by the title given your jobs and this KZbin channel, but it's great that you recognize your areas of improvement and have an action plan. I myself am extrovert lite, so I'm outgoing, but have kind of a limit to how long I can maintain being social. I would say take baby steps; whether you realize it or not, you've outlined an action plan. Practice the things you want to work on, hit your goals, you're a fantastic person. Keep being awesome!

[@jeanettecooper20]

Intp,understand well

[@camila8031]

INTP here lol being an introvert is hard

[@user-lw5lz3fy4i]

Didn't you say you were leaving Korea?Why are you forced to live in Korea when there are many reasons you hate sexism/plastic surgery/sexual harassment?

[@sjin8896]

You're a hot chick, we will turn a blinds eye to any personality characteristic that is troublesome until it's too late. Guys are 100% visual, lust pushes logic to the other side of the room for us.