My VERY Unpopular Opinions (teen pregnancy, hbcu's, natural hair)

Hey guys! In this video, I will be sharing my VERY unpopular opinions. This video is a good one and I can't wait to hear y'all thoughts!
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[@ChocoLex]

If you’re the late friend, you cannot mix your household chores in with getting ready. You will literally be late every single time. These girls know damn well they have to do a full face plus hair but wanna wash dishes and do laundry when they have somewhere to be!! Make it make sense.

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Exactly!!! Why are we running errands in the process of getting ready in a small time slot😭

[@nubian77]

The vibe I'm getting is that some of these people have attention/concentration and sometimes even motivation issues. I can see how someone who has attention issues, would be generally overwhelmed, over extended and over-promising things when it's not realistic time-wise.

[@jrose1999]

Thank you I didn’t know that

[@P_eachie]

It’s not even that 😭 I can wake up early and get ready early , it’s just I take my time getting ready

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

@@nubian77 I think this is something I struggle with, its bigger than being deliberately inconsiderate its an internal issue. No excuse but its harder to deal with than someone else might believe

[@LoveAndSnapple]

A lot of Black people know that staying home and stacking their coins is the best way to go but sometimes family make it IMPOSSIBLE for you to have any peace. They want you to be financially an adult but biologically a child. And we understand that it’s their house and their rules so parents can’t get upset when we say, “you’re absolutely right, that’s why I have to go.”

[@sagittariusbeauty]

👏🏽😪

[@TikerrahYoung]

I told my parent that when they wanted me to go to college, 11years later no degree but in debt 😂

[@bridgettt.d]

said it PERFECTLY

[@javionriley8739]

This comment resonates too much with my life right now

[@lolabunny1157]

Exactly everybody doesn’t have the luxury of staying home. Shoot I didn’t have a home to stay at.

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

I cannot stand habitually late people. I realized that at 20 when I had a friend who was literally always late for everything, we would end up missing stuff or missing out on stuff because of it. It got irritating when I would rearrange my whole schedule to accommodate them or wasted my time waiting for them, when I could’ve been doing other stuff. I understand being late cuz you’re looking for an outfit or whatever, but doing it all the time, that’s irresponsible and selfish, especially once you hit a certain age. Don’t get mad when people stop inviting you to certain events because your lateness impacts a lot of stuff.

[@christinem8799]

I really don’t buy the amount excuses they pull for it either. How do you go to work? School? What do you do when you have an job interview? At a restaurant where all parties must be present to be seated? I just feel like it’s all about priorities.

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

@@christinem8799 as someone who struggles with being late its not a priority thing or trying to be rude. I think it has something to do with something deeper, mine could be because of depression idk. I struggle with barely being on time with work let alone everything else. I just move slow and lose track of time but I'm hardly ever super late like this girl

[@blablablaj]

@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 BUT are you also LATE for school/job/doctor appointment ??! No? - then its a you/your relationship issue

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

@@blablablaj yes I am. Did you not read my comment lol. I’m not in school anymore but I struggled with being late to that too.

[@asiam9033]

I was a teen mom myself and I agree with everything you are saying. While my son is a blessing, I preached to my nieces, nephews, and now him how precious your childhood is and to enjoy it because once you’re grown you’re grown forever. That should never be the norm although it does happens.

[@nevermindmyparentsimthepunk]

I always wanted to be a teen mom, but I decided to start dating an have my 1st kiss when I was 19. I had my son at 26 with my 2nd boyfriend& we've been friends since we were 14&16. but I am jealous of teen moms Ive always wanted a big family, an I had a c section because even though I wanted wanted natural birth I had to be induced since he was over due which since I'm half black everyone assumes he was Premie like I was. I am glad that in my 20's I started buying cloth diapers since I researched them since I was 15 an I love that choice I made because the designs are so spooky&cute. an at 24 I started buying baby clothes in our style along with different bands in baby and toddler clothes that we both like since we've been dating since we were 20&22

[@MAMakeupx]

That girl in the video she knew damn well she was gonna be late if you have to leave at 5 you should have all the house chores done by 2pm. And hair should have been done the night before. That leaves 3 hours for makeup, outfit and traveling

[@keyahninaylor4974]

Right

[@Vixhilia]

Fr it should not take you that long

[@blackwomenpowerbyalainaray4047]

You spoke the truth about Kanye West.💯 Kim Kardashian doesn't hide who she is from anybody. Kanye knew what type of person Kim was when he got with her. But now that Kim doesn't want him anymore. He's acting brand new and like a victim when he's not. Kanye and Kim both should've chosen better. Anyways, I agree with your other unpopular opinions as well.

[@nova6364]

I can’t stand when people are late all the time. It shows you they don’t care about others time.

[@yourcousinduchessrowena9556]

Or that they lack a perception of time

[@lifewithzaria8476]

@@yourcousinduchessrowena9556 literally what I was thinking!

[@ieatkidsuwu]

fr

[@lisad222]

Respectfully Kayne is not "my people" he's such a colorist man. I don't feel bad for colorist black men (especially the ones who compare black women to other races) who get what they wanted then wanna cry when the girl mistreats them later on. This is what you wanted. I bet Kanye doesn't even care abt the black community, its bull. He's just using that Kim's white and he's black thing as an attempt for sympathy, for help and support from us.

[@princesschanel469]

I literally love this comment

[@princesschanel469]

And omg you literally said what I was thinking. He didn't care AT ALL a long time ago that she's white. In fact didn't he say in a song "and when he get on he's going to leave you for a yt girl" now that yt girl is leaving him. So he wants sympathy

[@toiletpaper3730]

Hes not lying wen he said blm scammed yall tho

[@user-rm9nc2kv2g]

I HATE people that are late to everything. It’s really not that hard to be on time to things if you want to be on time. Time waits for nobody so people should take life more seriously. Being the “late friend” is nothing to brag about.

[@aniyamarie8370]

I agree with everything you said, especially the teen pregnancy take. Not only are these teenagers making such decisions but… they’re endangering their child when they publicize *EVERYTHING*. They’re so focused on the fame and financial aspect of this scenario that they tend to neglect the child’s well-being. They’re opening doors to predators and leaving their children very little room to decide if they even want to be on the Internet/tv.

[@ChocoLex]

Also, housing is a big problem at HBCU’s!! Some of these schools simply don’t have the space for ALL of us to go there. It’s sad that this is still a problem but it seems like every year, students are having to go above and beyond to get their housing issues corrected.

[@angelawilliams9088]

That's where Alumni 's come in, who graduated from a HBC'S SHOULD MAKE SURE THEY SUPPORT THEIR COLLEGES AS THEY CONTINUE TO BE VERY SUCCESSFUL!

[@lostandfond2163]

With my late friend we would always tell her that the plans were an hour ahead of what they actually were and she would still find a way to be late 😭

[@anyone1111]

It’s practically an art at this point that someone can still be that late T^T (I would know lol it’s happened before for school not a lot of events for/ with others thankfully)

[@lindalicious3398]

Maybe you should just start to do things without them. Like, invite them and stuff, but then when they don’t arrive at time, just continue on with the activity. They might realize then they should try to manage their time better, which could lead to them arriving in time. Then again, that’s just me.

[@jayhollow1550]

Ur statement on black students going to PWI is so legit I’m like why don’t they ever be donating to black students at PWI’s like we don’t need the money bc we do

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Because they really be playing with us😭 every time they're donating money it is NEVER to us!

[@princesschanel469]

And the black community even tries to treat you like you're a sellout bc you didn't end up at an HBCU.

[@tft10802]

Most PWIs do not allow donors to earmark donations for a certain race/ethnic group.

[@kameralkutie5594]

Why would black people give their hard earned money to black students at PWIs when black people weren't allowed to these PWIs? Make it make sense. The money would go straight to these PWIs.

[@analea6531]

I hate the “I can’t help but be late” thing people in general and black people in particular like to throw like it’s a normal thing. It’s so disrespectful to show up late I get it it can happen but you knew 10-30 minutes prior to the date that you wasn’t gonna make just tell the person and let them decide to reschedule or put their time to a better use. I ended so many friendships because of that and I don’t regret it. I’m not gonna be around people who have no respect and don’t value other people’s time

[@Keijiishi]

the teen pregnancy take is so spot on!! im not a mother, but i was a parent to 2 kids by 18 with one absent mom and its so much harder than these "OMG BABY FEVER I WANT ONE FOR THE CUTENESS AND MONEY" ppl make it out to be. i was going to my exams while making sure my newborn didnt get sick in the freezing cold or missing out on so many opportunities. dont do it, but if it happens thats okay, find ppl who support you

[@loafie_bread]

The thing about being late really gets me because I have ADHD and still manage to not be late to anything when I know people are counting on me being there. Time management is very hard for me, it can be difficult to get things done, and I sometimes feel like I don’t ever have time for anything. ⚠️THAT BEING SAID⚠️ I’m very conscious of that fact, and as a result I still make a genuine effort to value other’s time because I know how hard it can be to make my own. I put my own stuff on hold if I know I have a commitment I’ve already agreed to. No matter how messy my personal life gets, no matter how much I’m struggling with a neurological disorder that I’m likely to have for the rest of my life, I won’t be caught DEAD being the flaky person that you can’t rely on. Never.

[@beth7935]

Same! I have ADHD & it IS hard- I'll literally zone out thinking about random shit, like I'm not even aware of what's happening outside my head, then my brain switches back on & I've lost a whole 5 minutes 🙄 Or I'm panicking cos social anxiety & messing everything up, BUT! I hate the idea of inconveniencing people, so I try reeeeally hard & give myself ages to get ready, & I DO manage to be on time or no more than 5 minutes late.

[@morganozanne5819]

@@beth7935as the chronically late adhd person, i genuinely don’t understand how people are an hour or more late to something unless something major happens. my MAX is like 15 minutes late, maybe 30 if i’ve got something crazy going on. i feel like anything over an hour has to be intentional

[@mochababieee218]

I also want to say I agree a lot with what you say about bw hair. But also I think it tied in with our culture. Hair is important to us as black women. Just like native Americans value their hair as well. They let it grow and won't chop it unless someone they value/ love dies.

[@ToniBryanneTV]

And I definitely agree, but though culturally we’re connected, we’re all individuals. I truly don’t care what someone decides to do with their hair. Your body, your choice🤷🏽‍♀️

[@mochababieee218]

@@ToniBryanneTV true true

[@jelissasmith6971]

Also being pregnant more than once as a teenager is a choice.

[@mochababieee218]

You are very well spoken in a way that i can tell you think before you say. You really analyze the criteria you discuss and that's something I admire so much about you. You articulate everything to where it isn't offensive but just straight facts. You're so intelligent!!!

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Comments like this!!! I love when y’all recognize exactly what I try to do. Thank you soooo much!! Much love ❤️

[@user-mj3ux7gr9w]

Being late is 100% controllable. If you know you will be late then plan an extra 2hr ahead and plan in a way yk fits your time. But being late is just ignorant to the other person.

[@GeorgeGlass298]

I agree late people are hella rude. Can't believe it took her that many hours to get ready.

[@Jacesmith03]

"PWI black students be fighting for they lives." Truer words have never been spoken from. Sincerely, a Black PWI Anthropology graduate....

[@julietspalding2339]

i dunno maybe i’ve always been very opinionated but teen pregnancy was never something i fantasized about??? i remember the tv show “the secret life of teenage pregnancy” or something and if anything it scared the shttttt outta me!!!!

[@__CJ___]

I’m a late person, but I am working on it cause I realized it’s a very bad habit to have especially as a young adult. But honestly that girl was doing it on purpose… really? Washing your hair?? Doing household chores?? She had all day to get these done…💀😭

[@quitajohnson7640]

I used to have this issue! This is why i wash my hair and blow dry the night before! I braid my girls hair at least two days prior if my kids are going! It took a lot of discipline and pre planning but it works! Now we always on time!!

[@caribbeancurls1963]

Agree with all your points , well said and great to see u back in action x

[@ToniBryanneTV]

It sure feels good to get my flow back! So glad you enjoyed 🥰

[@Rue712]

I agree with the teen pregnancy one. The amount of videos I've seen of where a teen has multiple kids before 18 and started pregnancy around 13 or 14.

[@jrose1999]

Yeah as someone who used to get mad compliments on my natural curls but now I decide to be a heat trained natural I’m so tired of black girls over policing my hair. It’s literally hair. No big deal. You are not about to live vicariously through my hair 😂😂😂

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Emphasis on living vicariously through your hair because fr😭 I see it time and time again omg

[@tylachad6102]

As a late friend who struggles with ADHD, give grace to your late friends. YOU are able to plan your time out. As someone with ADHD, I can plan my time out, but my brain is constantly pulling me in a million different directions. Like she said, she never sat down, so she was moving from task to task. Some people use medicine to cope, but others figure out routines to help them with time management. If you have a random event that’s not in your daily routine it can become hard to manage that new time. It’s so frustrating and anxiety inducing when people rush me for situations where patience is an option because there’s really no rush. I learned people who are really strict with their time tend to also be very impatient 😅

[@morganozanne5819]

I’m the same way! I wish people would be more considerate of ADHD and how it impacts time blindness

[@bleeploughly6311]

I did the big chop a few years ago and the shit I got from my older family members…they got over it eventually but it was annoying having to justify why I wanted to cut my OWN hair

[@fatimahconteh3971]

I agree with the teen pregnancy one. Stop promoting this kind of behaviour please.

[@ieatkidsuwu]

fr 14 year olds are literally in 8th-9th grade, they should be hanging out with friends or smth not giving birth😒

[@denisewest3858]

💯 you with on most of your unpopular opinions. Especially the lateness. Why do some people think there time is more important than mine 😕 it's so rude and bad manners. Teen pregnancy in this day and age its so unessarary. With all the information out there about it can effect the children who are being rasise by children it just not a good choice. As for Kanye and the likes,these BM deserve what they get and shouldn't ask our communities for help when it goes sour. They know who these people are.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Rue712]

The natural hair one is absolutely true. I say let anyone do whatever they want whether they are natural or relaxed, wear wigs or braids.

[@bigbangontop6635]

I don't try to be late, but I always end up being so. It doesn't even matter how early I woke up to get ready. My biggest example is school. God damn I was late probably everyday. It's not again like I want to be late, or I took my sweet time. I really struggle and I know it's annoying to others. I constantly put myself down for this and get frustrated to the point of a break down. I have severe depression and ADHD, so I know now these are key things as to why I'm this way. What I find more rude, is not telling someone you might run a little late. Or not trying to understand why someone is late. I don't know, not everyone is doing it on purpose.

[@ashleyharper6408]

Girl I agree with all these 😭😭😂😂 new subscriber the natural one yess I always got backlash growing up for perming my hair I can’t

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Thanks for subbing! Yessss I literally never understood why people would care so much and this is coming from a natural girl😂

[@amandarayforever]

Nah that lady that had 4hrs to get ready and was still late is foul nope!

[@kkilliyyahh]

And teen moms should be shamed bc it’s too many birth controls out here, too much info on safe sex, its so progressive that getting pregnant at 14,15,16 is sad honestly. Also these little girls having babies to keep a lil boy, or they have them to have a “mini-me”, someone to love them. The next generation of children gone be so fucked being raised by lil ass kids that had the child for the purpose of being able to dress up their child.

[@shaylamckay1174]

Nobody do this fr not at no 14,15 maybe 16+ but usually as freshmen aint nobody planing for a child. And theres a plethora of reasons for accidental teen birth… they dont need to be shame the kids there the mistake and consequences have happened guide them rather than shame🤦🏾

[@toniyah5381]

Lets not shame them. Lets give them support and resources to be the best parents they can be.

[@material-cheshirekhatter2413]

Fr, in 10-20 yrs I can imagine how many kids of young or teen wanna be influencer parents, will come forward and explain how bad it was for them. even now there are ppl talking about how bad it was being raised by children who didn't love each other and weren't financially stable In the 90's and 2000's

[@cruz-anncools7739]

You always give good insight

[@ToniBryanneTV]

That means so much, thank you!

[@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736]

People love talking about capitalism (cough,cough) in the comments, but be the main ones shopping at SHEIN 🤨

[@kiyaaxo4]

5:03 this is my exact thought on how literally majority of people wants to become a nurse just for the aesthetic and looks. I understand that becoming a nurse takes a lot of hard work and I do appreciate the ones that works so hard but I feel like that it’s something a lot of them aren’t really passionate about. I feel that they are in it just for the pay and looks. They see the lifestyle that social media portrays it as and for the most part they glamorize it…

[@whatsonhermindblog123]

I definitely have been the late person...I've gotten better at it

[@dashiajames1882]

Basically all of what you said was true. Kanye already knew who Kim was b4 drop down on 1 knee. He needs to suffer the consequences on his own & stop begging for our help. And he needs to get his act together. I'm still 30+ yrs old living with my mom I see nothing wrong with that but I definitely want my own space. But you gotta learn how to deal with the bills, credit & etc. This totally reminded me of the old KUWTK episode, where Kylie was getting her 1st, but had no clue how to do the simple things ( iron, cook, wash clothes, sweep) & etc. I was like " How in the world does someone plan on getting their 1st house but doesn't even know how to do the basic everyday things..??" that was so funny. In conclusion I agree with basically everything you said...!!

[@d.champion9180]

I just subscribed and i love what type of videos u do it helps my 21 year old self to grow❤️☺️

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Awww you’re amazing thank you!!

[@naomicampana]

Facts. Facts. Facts. We need the 9 to 5.

[@amarjotsingh8455]

I hate late ppl too. I have coarse Indian hair too and I know how hard it is to style. So if I have plans I either do a blow dry the night before or go to the salon to get a blow out and then deal with makeup on my own. Just takes the stress of being in a rush to get somewhere

[@Raymoni1]

What is coarse Indian hair ?? You mean like type 4c ?

[@amarjotsingh8455]

@@Raymoni1 idk if you’re being sarcastic or not.. but Indian hair is difficult to style.. I even get told that at the salon

[@Raymoni1]

@@amarjotsingh8455 No, I wasn’t trying to be sarcastic. I never heard of coarse Indian hair… When I think of Indian hair I think of straight and silky, but I’ve never heard of coarse Indian hair.

[@amarjotsingh8455]

@@Raymoni1 no I’d say most Indian hair tends to be coarse. East Asian hair (Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese etc) tends to be silky. My natural hair is on the wavy side like 2C

[@hannahmaldonado3665]

Being late is rude and so is letting someone know plans last minute expecting them to be ready on time. If plans are set in advance I know what I have time to do because I hate being late. I hate when my friends let me know of plans last minute and rush me when I'm the friend that has a routine and is "high maintenance".

[@jaebyrd4608]

as someone with ADHD time management really is a struggle like you truly lose track of time where 1 hr feels like 10 minutes not sure if she has ADHD but for those who truly have a disability that makes time management hard for them please show a little empathy sometimes we really are trying our absolute best and we still fail and we feel really bad when we disappoint people and its worse when you lose friends or opportunities even though you know you tried you best. Like I can set timers to wake up early and prepare the day before a still end up losing time It's an everyday struggle even with medicine. Not making excuses but some people really do have a harder time with tasks that seems simple.

[@ssnhra]

3:41 absolutely shameful to see ppl smirk about being late to everything..im the friend thats usually always early, and the one who goes and PICKS UP THE LATE FRIEND(S) and its so freaking disrespectful. as teens we all had curfews obviously and had time crunches and this behaviour is rude and uncalled for. also i am someone who takes a lot of time to arrange stuff, so i ALWAYS decide what ill wear to events/places/hangotus atleast 1-2 days prior, i do my hair overnight if its smth big and i finish the chores BY MORNING. bcs i really dont wanna be the one who ends up disrespecting other ppls time

[@Hellomymelodyxo]

Okay with the being late thing I feel like that point is dismissive of those who have no conception of time due to adhd bearing in mind many people aren’t aware they have it :/

[@Tisha_Daley]

Loving this hairstyle Toni ❤❤

[@LoTheGoat]

You are so pretty!! Just subscribed 💛

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Awww thank you beautiful 🥹❤️

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

My mom is always late and I hate it she also is a shitty planner

[@incognitonegress3453]

Babygirl...thats depression n apathy. I kno, cuz I'm gonna b late 2 my next lifetime... But, its totally not intentional 4 sum of us. Yes, please hav sum grace 4 us.. 🙏🏽

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

I just said this in another comment

[@Kirakiracuremarine]

I literally have a disability that fucks up my time management but even I am on time most of the time

[@doragemz]

I’m enjoying your videos. You’re definitely speaking facts & in a respectful manner💯💯💯 ❤

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Awww thank you so very much it means a lot💕

[@jrose1999]

Me as a former black pwi student that dropped out after a semester because I couldn’t afford it 😅

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Girl you are not alone! I know way too many and it's honestly unfortunate.

[@julissadc6303]

You are so right people that alwys arrive late make me feel like they dont care

[@moustik31]

Not only Kim K is white, she is white from Beverly Hills. She was hanging out around Paris Hilton for heaven's sake. Kanye made his bed and now the time to lay in it has come.

[@haneeojimadu7846]

no points were missed!! a couple days ago I was speaking to a black girl and all she was doing was hating on me and another black woman because of what we do to our hair. She was like "before I got dreads I would only wear my hair natural, I don't know what's wrong with you girls". Said all this because we both like to flat iron our hair...as if her opinion even matters!!

[@morganozanne5819]

I’m late to almost everything and I agree that it can be seen as rude, although personally that is never my intention. I suffer from really bad time blindness and everything seems to take me 3x as long as it does everyone else. I wouldn’t say it’s as simple as “get better time management,” but it is something I and others in my position need to work to improve on. If it’s really important, you best believe i’m going to be an hour and a half early because I apparently have no in between. Edit: I should also note that I have ADHD so that is at least part of it. Additionally, I’m referring to the general happenings of my life. I don’t understand how people can be late to a hangout with friends or a date and not even let them know???

[@NikkiLachelle]

I strongly agree with all your points. Also the glamorizing of teen pregnancy really got worse when the show “Teen Mom” aired.

[@islandpersuasion4690]

I DO NOT hang with late people. If I know I'm going out, I plan & make my outfit 7-2 day's prior, do my hair the 2 hours before, sort & do makeup 1 hour before. All house chores are done at 9am, new sheet's put on so I come into clean sheets. If you're not ready 10 minutes before we need to leave it's, "I'll meet you there". Ain't got time for it.

[@yupp561]

If you're late than set your clock back 20-30 minutes. Easy as that you just have to care to

[@beth7935]

Yep, I have ADHD & my clock's 5 minutes ahead, & even tho I KNOW that, the time I see on the clock still registers in my head. I also give myself aaaages to get ready, & I'm only ever 5 minutes late.

[@leijaira2830]

wait... they're unpopular?

[@rachel1729]

As someone who is late to everything… I am very sorry it is a terrible habit. I find that this is very important in close relationships such as friendships but never at work… in my field nothing starts on time so me being reasonably late saves me from unnecessary lingering. Yet I do make it a point to not commit to a specific time or let people know at least an hour ahead of I am running late. If I am not on the road 30 minutes prior I will be late I know myself

[@itsniquenique45]

Being late to events is not an easy habit to break actually. Typically it’s caused by other issues like not knowing how to prioritize, or not having an internal clock, ADHD. It requires real work, have some grace or just stop associating with late people. 9/10, a person being late has no effect on most plans yall gotta get over it. Signed, the always late friend who is working on it.

[@Hellomymelodyxo]

That’s what I’m saying 😭 I have no concept of time so I could’ve been ready but still manage to be late on the basis of when I leave the house :/ so I usually suggest to stay at home since all these thing’s overwhelm me, but my friends are understanding and want me there and I’m glad they understand and are supportive

[@purpleviolet9046]

I want to do it for my family, friends, and boyfriend. I can be late to everything and I apologize for it. I find that keeping myself prepared the night before has helped.

[@Hellomymelodyxo]

@@purpleviolet9046 yesss I find that helps as well but at times if I’m already overwhelmed with life it can counteract the pre planning and I’ll end up late SOMEHOW

[@purpleviolet9046]

@@Hellomymelodyxo like today 😩 I was 11 minutes late today but still no excuse I’ll still have to do better next time

[@purpleviolet9046]

@@Hellomymelodyxo myself included lol

[@louisachalarca6494]

I love my hbcu and it’s tiny and our administration needs serious overhaul. The students deserve sooo much better

[@autumnmccullough8187]

I don't even do all this under painting and all the steps in makeup! i'm blessed with straight to wavy hair. I help my friends in getting ready !

[@niviaslife2419]

About the pwi’s. I can’t imagine what it feels like to be the only black woman in a class so I hope you find comfort 💘

[@merouanekhaznadji]

Why wasn't I expecting this last point at all 🤣 As for the girl who systematically arrives late despite her efforts, she should apply the "semi-lie" technique. At the exact moment she sets foot outside her home, she sends a text saying "I'm coming, I'm on my way" to the people she has to meet. A way to tell the truth and exaggerate at the same time. But to be honest although punctuality is very important it must still be said that it is very frustrating to be yelled at for being late when you have given everything, you are sweaty and that in your head you say to yourself "I literally deserve a medal for being only 50 minutes late" 😭

[@rucianapollard7098]

There is NO excuse for being habitually late!! Unexpected events happen to all of us from time to time, but always arriving late is not a good look. It is actually a selfish trait because what you are saying is ME and MY time is more important than everyone else. NOBODY Likes A Selfish Person!!

[@merouanekhaznadji]

@@rucianapollard7098 Of course. But some people just never have the peace of mind to show up on time. For example, I can give you the example of a person who, when he leaves, always feels the need to take care of certain things that he would never do in normal times.

[@deanna6742]

Absolutely not. On top of waiting for a habitually late person, now you have a liar. We know that “omw” ppl are just as frustrating cos they’re usually not actually on their way and even if they are, anything can cause a delay like traffic or wrong directions. You’d be waiting even longer for an already late person.

[@merouanekhaznadji]

@@deanna6742 Well that's the point of "omw". And I'm not even known to be a late person but I won't ever spit on someone as long as he or she is really trying to get on time.

[@ashleyharper6408]

The influencer One yessss … like most of them nobody is even interested in being influenced by them 🥲😂

[@niviaslife2419]

What I heard a black woman said that made me understand was: “my hair, my crown.”

[@LiahsWorldView]

Heavy on the teen pregnancy one.. I'm 17 and a junior in highschool. This one girl (we'll leave her name out of it) used to be my friend but she would do literally any and everything for attention and sympathy from lying about her parents divorce, to apparently getting kicked out and living in her car that she apparently had to even lying about being pregnant and miscarriage. (We found out she lied bc she admitted she was a virgin). But now that she really is pregnant with SOMEONE ELSE'S boyfriends baby and he wants nothing to do with her or the child I almost feel bad for her. She genuinely thinks that this is gonna be a cute cuddly dream but irl she's alone, a teen whose most likely going to have to drop out, she's sacrificing her undeveloped body AND HER LIFE to have a dead beat's child, and she's given up a huge part of her life not to mention all the kids at school I hear bullying her... it's truly a sad and traumatic thing to see unfold in front of my eyes.. and now that unborn baby has to be apart of this dysfunctional life. No stable income, no two parent home, no mother or father who is mentally mature enough for a child... I'm praying other teens don't idolize this behavior and realize that there's more to babies than them being cute and cuddly. Because when it's all said and done that's 1/10th of motherhood.

[@user-mj3ux7gr9w]

Me and my friend made plans with these other 4 girls to go to a mall and shop for dance dresses and we planned on getting there at 12 and meeting up at 12:15pm. We all agreed and then went. It was 12:30 and they still didn’t show up and we asked where they were and they said they didn’t even leave thier House yet. Not only that we all live in the country and it is a 45 minute drive to the mall. So long story short after a bunch of bs excuses they came at 4:30pm. We planned on getting picked up by our parents ts at 5. And when we said we had to go they got mad at us. EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE 4 HOURS LATE.

[@SELFCAREMODEL]

1ST PT SHE NEEDS TO ADJUST HER SELF-CARE ROUTINE. SHE HAS TO SIMPLIFY IT. 2ND PT I FOCUSED ON MY CHANNEL SO MUCH BUT I HAVE TO MAINTAIN MY WELL BEING 4TH PT TEEN PREGNANCY IS A NO. I HAVE A FEW FRIENDS THAT ARE STRUGGLING SO MUCH STILL FROM HAVING A BABY EARLY.

[@diamondsmith2691]

Why is she washing her hair the day she gotta go somewhere Yk we do that the night before 😂😂

[@ByNnenna]

Heavy on the black at PWI things for sure

[@kristenbailey194]

I feel the HBCU opinion was unfair and lacked nuance and possibly research. Here's why. 1. You commented that the donation is going to HBCU students, but it is going to the school. HBCU students rarely ever see the direct benefits of the donation bc there is so much to be fixed at our schools bc of lack of money. So in actuality, both students require support. Spelman College is the #1 HBCUs and still has housing, food, and resource crisis that directly affect the students. 2. Also, you commented that HBCUs don't give funding. Well that's bc most don't have money...hence why they need donations. Bc of the race gap in America and the difference in how wealth is trickled down for white families and up for Black families means, PWI schools often receive more alums/family and friend donations after a student graduates, which can happen on a yearly or quarterly basis. This is not true for HBCUs. Why? Bc generally, when Black people move up the financial ladder, their financial gains are used to support their parents, siblings, and other relatives, unlike our white counterparts. Therefore a significant amount of the donations received by HBCUs are by the wealthy, not alum. Therefore donations happen on a less frequent basis. 3. However, the statement/belief that HBCUs don't give funding is not entirely true. The real truth is that bigger private HBCUs don’t provide that much funding. (i.e., Howard, Spelman) However, there are 107 HBCUs, and many lesser-known private and public institutional actually give generous financing to increase their student body(i.e., Johnson C. Smith, Morris Brown College). 4. The true difference between HBCU and PWI students is the experience, not the financials. HBCU students go to school in an environment that is catered to support them, so even though we don’t have money/resources, we have genuine love and support from our administrators, staff, professors, and peers. And you can get that at any HBCU, not just the 3-5 that everyone knows about. I hope this comment gives some context into the real realities of HBCU students. ❤️

[@ravenclaw045]

Thank you!!

[@nadiamarie6958]

love your comment! i went to Smith though and wish i could agree about the “generous financing” but i can’t. in all honesty, it could use some work. nowhere near where it needs to be. can’t speak for others.

[@shirley444]

I mean she did say it’s her opinion so her opinion isn’t rooted in fact…… it’s based off of her opinion. So you typing all of that to debunk her opinion……. can be considered stating that her opinion is wrong when she never once clarified it to be right.

[@kristenbailey194]

@@shirley444 It is her opinion, but that doesn’t mean that opinions can’t be dangerous and harmful. Some people believe critical race theory is racist; that’s their opinion, but it doesn’t mean it’s not harmful and causes damage. I don't know what your point was in making this message other than to be confrontational and annoying. But have a good one.

[@euphoria4502]

I recently started college this year and I choose a high ranking PWI that covered 100% of the costs over a high ranking HBCU that wanted me to take out 20k in loans. I understand the culture and being surrounded by my people but cost is a very important factor in making a college decision. As someone that is very low income, I would never put myself or my family 20k in debt yearly just for an HBCU experience.

[@giaparmer]

Also, what is this idea that homeownership is some sort of requirement That everybody should be striving for? i’ve never understood that, I’m very comfortable, in saying I have no desire to own a home. My parents were not homeowners and it was not something modeled for me nor was it imprinted as a necessity in life. I understand the generational wealth aspect. I just think it’s kind of a fallacy, the idea of working your entire life to pay off a debt just to think that that is automatically wealth. if you pay off your house by the end of your life and are able to pass it onto your children, that’s wonderful but in that same span of time I could be renting and investing and building wealth for my children as well. Not only that, but it’s an inheritance that comes with plenty of caveats, with inflation MANY people cant afford the property taxes every year on that house they inherited from their parents. I also don’t agree with the notion that renting is “just throwing money away“, I see it as a trade off where I pay a little bit more every month to have the relative freedom to live and I please and have somebody else handle *all the maintenance and repairs in my home* After the housing crash I think the higher ups want us to believe that we should be throwing our entire lives into homeownership and that’s why we don’t talk about the benefits of renting! I was protected from eviction at a time when many people were not protected from foreclosure and if the housing market crash wasn’t enough to prove why the myth of home ownership is a smokeshow then the pandemic definitely was for me. Different people (and generations) have completely different ends to different means.

[@saraya_dem415]

OMG UR HAIR LOOKS AMAZING IM GAGGED!!! did you follow a tutorial or a certain style i can look up?

[@kelp_head1983]

Kim K isn't fully white. She's half Armenian. But she was definitely 'raised white' if you know what I mean. I mean she was raised in a white environment where she didn't learn her own personal culture.

[@maryhelenmoore9283]

I love your shirt.

[@sadie4373]

Could you do a video navigating financial aid for black college students?

[@blablablaj]

As long as the people manage to get to school or their job on time, I WONT forgive an excuse for being late on our dates regularly. They COULD have been on time but chose to be late. I won't take that disrespect, communicate it ONCE with them and if they still dare to be late the next time, I'll just leave and do smth else.

[@blablablaj]

Me as a german : I approve all your important expectations 👌👏😌- like being ON TIME is like O B V I O U S. S E L F - E V I D E N T. N A T U R A L. N. O. R. M. A. L.

[@FlamingCockatiel]

Sie begreifen das gut.

[@deeluther3108]

Good Video As Always Love that thumbNail Tho Your Pretty Self Nice Cheeks Structure Enjoy your Sunday Too Happy Marvelous Week Ahead Stay Bless N Be safe Always

[@yup_im_tiff]

She messed up by washing her hair at 1pm. That’s insane

[@victorybeginsinthegarden]

I agree with everything but the hbcu thing if you donate to a white school your dollars will be diluted not to mention hbcus are underfunded

[@ToniBryanneTV]

My point is to donate DIRECTLY to black students. I know what you mean, but I was talking about black students specifically lol

[@victorybeginsinthegarden]

@@ToniBryanneTV donating to black students directly doesn't bring the tax breaks #capitalism

[@ToniBryanneTV]

@@victorybeginsinthegarden mhmmm not a definite lie at all😭

[@kellyfinucan5729]

Just found you on you tube. Love you❤

[@iontheBOMB]

Sorry you had to fight for funding. In my experience of attending a HBCU--more often than not, your advisor, dean of your college, evenl a professor, SOMEONE would find the exact amount of money you needed and some lagniappe to put in your pocket.

[@Kymmietheboss]

PWIs have advantages that HBCUs don’t. It seems that PWIs have access to in house scholarships from what you stated. Trust there is a reason why. HBCU students are being donated to. (In my my most unproblematic and friendly way.)

[@MelMeltalks31]

I get what you’re saying about black hair BUT they know what the hell they’re doing with those tiktoks saying “oh I’m getting a perm” like they can hush too ! 😊

[@radiashahall2163]

I’m sorry I don’t support being grown before your time! Bye ! I can’t do it because their clearly doing it for others to feel soft and give money up!.

[@EllieValentineWong]

Yeah the home thing is a dummmbtake sorry but who cares if someone lives in the home until 30? If the doors are opened and you have a roof over your head you should be thankful, that’s so hypocritical don’t shame people who do live with their perhaps or don’t it’s that simple

[@9roselove9]

Girl you clearly have never had a neurological disorder/anxiety/depression or any mental health issues. Those conditions strongly influence peoples thoughts and their ability to time manage…do some research lol it’s your opinion but you can’t argue fact and that is a fact….

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Girl obviously if it’s a medical condition or neurological disorder that’s completely different like what do y’all even be saying😂 if you’re always late just say that do not put words in my mouth it’s lame

[@jennym732]

Could you create a channel for Hairstyles

[@twb8612]

The part about being late is a bit twisted. Bc your not a bad friend when you have ADHD or some type of mental disorder that can prevent you basic task such as being on time

[@ToniBryanneTV]

Now we all know if it has to do with a neurological problem that is COMPLETELY different. Let’s not do that.

[@twb8612]

@@ToniBryanneTV not everyone knows. So it’s a good thing to be aware of. I only was aware of this myself a year ago

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

Unpopular opinion: I’m so sick of people blaming their bad habits and behavior on mental disorders. If you offer no apologies, don’t even try to make things on time, don’t try to make it up, just show up hella late like “omg tehehe sorry it’s my mental health” every single time, you’re a terrible friend and irresponsible as hell. Y’all don’t even be trying, just will “I have ADHD” a mf to death. Then y’all get mad when people stop inviting y’all to certain events.

[@twb8612]

@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 definitely could I worded that better to counter attack instead of coming off as an ignorant being

[@seasonsgreetings7191]

Definitely … I have adhd but I hate being late. I know some folks with adhd are chronically early so I’m tryna get on that side of the coin 😹

[@Fuchsiababe]

If this isn’t adhd, I don’t know what is.

[@ToniBryanneTV]

What?

[@ssnhra]

"support a pregnant teen, not teen pregnancy."

[@LauriannaWhite]

Ask your PWI for some money sis