My Wife Disagrees With How I Spend Money!

My Wife Disagrees With How I Spend Money!
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[@TheRamseyShow]

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[@larrybud]

These people making 40 grand buying brand new cars. incredible.

[@riverdaletales8457]

I mean there’s almost new cars for 17k and making 40k a year you can very well save for it In two years .

[@JohnDoe-gc1kt]

@@riverdaletales8457 bro stop it your car shouldn't cost half your salary

[@larrybud]

@@riverdaletales8457 lol. Maybe if you are living in moms basement and have no other bills.

[@lunenoire7238]

😂😂

[@channell11]

@@riverdaletales8457 Problem is they aren't buying 17K cars. They're buying 30K and up cars because "they deserve it".

[@crosswingrobots]

Once you put together a budget, it feels like money appears out of nowhere.

[@Mosesusorer]

@@user-do9vo7zz4y 🇳🇬 scammer

[@glowiever]

@@Mosesusorer who? @[John-Paul Gignac] ?

[@Mosesusorer]

@@glowiever No. It was a 🇳🇬 clown impersonating Dave Ramsey and promoting some fake investment opportunity

[@kiaharper7172]

Yeah, Dave says that all the time.

[@eatpigsnot]

so many couples had a wedding yet don't have a marriage

[@jimroscovius]

Well said.

[@edhcb9359]

I don’t know why this caller and his wife would fight about money?? They don’t have any money to fight about.

[@haha-cm6pg]

😪

[@truegrizzlesfan2292]

Funny but so true.

[@lunenoire7238]

Well. Thats the issue 😂

[@bernieveillard939]

Lollll

[@musicalatv]

Because he wants to spend it all

[@daviedr06]

Jeez... not to hard to figure out he can't afford a new car lol

[@twincherry4958]

He can....in his mind

[@AnthonyAlvarado78]

In a world where there's no patience....marriage and kids take EXTREME levels of patience.

[@pjf3837]

Another good reason to have neither.

[@EmpoweredTravels]

@@pjf3837 This made me chuckle! You're not wrong. One day I may take the plunge on one of those but I will enjoy my single, kidless life while I can.

[@davidgoldsworthy1640]

Anyone else notice in both scenarios he blames his wife?

[@thetruth5635]

AO like I ain’t never getting married 😂

[@orangeblossoms88]

This was a really good one. This show always educates me and inspires me on what a marriage is truly about. I can only hope whoever I marry one day might be watching these too.

[@ajones8008]

I WONDER WHY DAVE DIDNT SAY THEY HAVE AN INCOME PROBLEM

[@gmarie3053]

Their marriage is their highest priority. They need to budget and get on the same page before anything

[@kashfortheking]

They don’t. They have a working together problem. Once they solve that, the money will come.

[@ajones8008]

@@kashfortheking they only make 40k a year, that poverty level

[@aolvaar8792]

@@gmarie3053 When there is not enough money, nothing else will do but more money.

[@truckingmoney485]

They wife makes at least 40k herself Anthony needs a math class or a calculator

[@kimmywimmy7305]

Dude is too impulsive and needs to focus on a plan.

[@bethanyboothe4817]

I love the stories about Sharon. Dave met his match with her! 🤣

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Always stories.

[@kara2162]

He's not making any money. He needs to be working 40-50 hours a week.

[@jenica1388]

Sounds like he needs to go get a second job....I can see why she is worried about money!

[@plants4thewin]

She sounds like the smart one. He’s trying to buy cars and “invest”. With a low income and a ton of debt. Bet she wishes she would have picked better. Not the sharpest tool. 🙄

[@plants4thewin]

And how many “weddings” is he booking. He needs to earn more.

[@meghanfaulkner4154]

@@plants4thewin Unfortunately, he does need to earn more. It does not sound like the wedding cinematography business is a full-time job, at this point.

[@opieutt9038]

"Sometimes I just go and fill up the basket even if I don't need food". I just love Sharon

[@katemiller7874]

That’s the mentality from being broke. It sticks with you. Now she splurges as she should.

[@maryjones6115]

I know that duuring our pre-cana class, our priest was shocked to see that my husband and I agreed 100% on the financial piece of the inventory questionnaire. Never had major issues in our marriage around $$$. Small spats but we survived, are debt free(exept mortgage), put kids through college debt free, early retired (and I homeschooled for 10 years). It can be done....takes discipline and sacrifice.

[@56TheAnimal]

That’s awesome 👏. Inspires me to work harder!!!

[@maryjones6115]

@@56TheAnimal You will do great.....stay focused and love each other.

[@hiddenprofits216]

You are a AMAZON WOMEN! So refreshing to hear there’s women out there 😊 ill keep working hard for my future wife!

[@jimroscovius]

Very similar to our story. We both worked - my wife still does and I work part-time. We haven't had debt for years and paid off our house three years ago. We put our kids through college, and they helped by working. We have a good retirement and are doing some traveling. Life is good!!

[@markg999]

Amazing how people dream of more debt while already in debt. The right dream is being debt free.

[@MSH3423]

I knew a guy … he married a gambling addict… she would spend $5000 in one night. This might be excessive example, but two people need to do it together towards the same goal. Becuse most of the time, you are spending time away from each other

[@markg999]

@@MSH3423 Yikes...yea definitely avoid someone that loves gambling and casinos.

[@sarahscroggins2793]

Right

[@charlesg7926]

This clown needs to get a real job. I love going to church, and being a worship leader at a church is nice, but that doesn’t pay the bills. That can be his SIDE / WEEKEND job. During the weekday, he needs to get a MAIN job- a REAL job- doing something that people are willing to pay a lot of money for. Like law, construction, medicine, accounting, car sales. A job that’s not fun, but it pays well. This guy has the work ethic of a bum but he wants to be rewarded like a princess

[@heathploski1819]

Mark why do you get to decide what the right dream for other people is ?

[@appleiphone69]

The only new car he should be buying, is a hot wheels.

[@hollyb6885]

He needs to get a more stable job where he makes a living wage.

[@thehamfamhomestead]

From a family that worked on a variable income like that, the only thing I can say is stop treating your side hustle as income. Live off of what is guaranteed and throw the "extra" at debt. Once you are debt free only budget for what you have already made, not what you project to make.

[@channell11]

Everybody wants the easy way out. They think they can do day trading or start a side gig and that's going to catapult them into a high-earner lifestyle.

[@Hustle_And_Grow23]

You HAVE to be on the same general page as your spouse, or you will not get very far with your finances

[@clarifyingquestions]

Simple question: what is your household income? Wife 2800 per month take home. Husband 15 per hour when I have work. No doubt they are fighting about money.

[@judymckee5992]

Sounds like he is not pulling his weight . light weight, LOL

[@agathachris9722]

And if he's not picking up around the house, she's about ready to pop.

[@ScottishJazzman]

Yeah, but church… therefore it’s ok to be lazy.

[@larrybud]

Yeah, time for the guy to man up and get a real job.

[@alphanoob7947]

This guy is more worried about buying a new car and putting himself further into debt then freeing himself of it. He's gonna have a long and stressful life. Dave should have gone harder on him. He needs a wake up call.

[@carolynjacobson190]

Dave Ramsey I'm absolutely love your testimony love love this!!!

[@Jane5720]

Yeah, guy you are too poor to buy ANYTHING. You need to make a lot more money than what you're making

[@dabd8175]

Call John. You guys obviously have communication issues. Thats the root of ur problem.

[@krz8888888]

These guys need the baby steps

[@dougprentice1363]

Have they even listen to Dave once? Make a budget.

[@nancyorkeithm1518]

How do people Not know their yearly salary BEFORE taxes? This never ceases to amaze me and probably one of the main reasons we hear these calls where peeps are all over the place. “Taking home 2k a month”sounds better than “30k” A year or whatever the math ends up being is my impression.

[@DiscipleSteven]

lol wow I just watched another clip and this guy was like "Colton somebody in Iowa yall talked about yesterday". What are the chances of clicking this one next. lol

[@SherryEllesson]

It sounds as though they've Not done a budget.

[@miriamstrauss]

*If they want to live a nice life with brand new cars, etc. they should also focus a bit on developing higher income earning careers! They would have less financial reasons to argue*

[@theresemeggitt8455]

Work harder & argue less....🙄

[@miriamstrauss]

@@theresemeggitt8455 Yepppp

[@gsquared2394]

A higher income would make it easier if and only if they got on the same page and agreed to a financial plan together. Because you can never out earn your stupidity. Failing to plan is planning to fail.

[@andrearedburn7345]

i don't understand why people want brand new cars. High Insurance Gas Barely will be driving it only to work and home and necessity places. why not save money and just get a used car lol

[@theresemeggitt8455]

To look wealthy but of course🤣. Keeping up with your neighbors yeah, God forbid it’s used🤣.

[@kaitlinobrien243]

Lovely to see Anthony 💕🌻

[@calebchristian404]

Dave is a heck of a good marriage counselor!!

[@amypruss8391]

I know it's been almost three years, but this guy was basically working just Saturdays and Sundays! There are five other days in the week!

[@ryant2568]

I would love a new car too but there are more important things we need to pay for as a family. needs first then if there is enough leftover you can talk about filling those wants.

[@RonJohn63]

Setting priorities and knowing where every dollar goes are the two priorities.

[@SWillibr]

He needs to man-up and take responsibility and get real work. That's his wife's issue. Her Hypergamy is kicking in and she's ready to leave.

[@michaelvanhorn3271]

"She is not yours; it's just your turn"

[@MillionaireMindsetClub]

Most struggles in marriages are due to finances.

[@grantarmbruster6591]

And Gen 3:16.

[@joeyt8256]

People think that, butusually financial issues are a representation of deeper issues. Financial issues correlate to so many others things as it is connected to everything and easier to measure.

[@crisc5890]

This guy needs a real job

[@ashleyb1091]

This marriage sounds like a headache, it’s the main reason why I separated with my ex. He did not want combine finances while I wanted to work together. Now I live on my own and make more money and have more money saved up then I did being with him. Learn to be independent and INVEST IN YOURSELF. I think that’s where his wife is getting.

[@droolalot5795]

Are you still single?.... 😁 👏 😘

[@unelectedleader6494]

She earns more than he does and they are nearly at the magic seven year mark. Don’t be surprised if she bails dude.

[@truckingmoney485]

It depends on weather the wedding business was his or hers coming in if it was his he likely make more but I agree with your assessment

[@channell11]

Hypergamy is always a factor, even if women (and men) want to pretend like it doesn't exist.

[@LokeronXAmor]

I’d recommend to get another job? If you don’t have a current steady income/job security to balance the payments out with the wifey??

[@daynashannon9679]

Fill up the basket!!

[@arleneisabela31]

I love the basket story!

[@lucybell1487]

I believe Anthony gets totally amazed by couple money fights

[@muckymucks]

AO is seeing second hand what trouble marriage can be when one marries the wrong person.

[@freebird7284]

shiny object is his desire for a new car not the fact that he isn't making any real money, she's distracted

[@LevelUpPersonalFinance]

Sounds like a couple poised for success in life but he needs more steady income during the work week. Then the wedding videos and workshop leader jobs can provide extra income.

[@elisacasasnovas2173]

That is so funny

[@BlessedbytheKingofKings]

Good Morning everyone. Financial disagreements cause many divorces.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

No marriage. No issues.

[@BlessedbytheKingofKings]

@BlackWorldTraveler true but being married can have its pluses also. I’ve been married and divorced and am doing much better financially and mentally on my own but not sure I want to be single for life.

[@TheFlyingZulu]

Frosted Flakes was my favorite cereal as a kid... dang...

[@lkj0822g]

Yeah, situations such as this is where the Ramsey "baby steps" and budgeting can really help. I would only budget for the stable income and treat any variable income as "bonus" money. Also, with variable income, the $1000 emergency fund isn't going to cut it, and that seems to be where the wife has a lot of angst. Use the variable income to build up the emergency fund to about six months of expenses and then use the variable income to pay down the debt.

[@Mosesusorer]

@@user-do9vo7zz4y 🇳🇬 scammer

[@HitmanChase]

That laugh at 2:08 lol

[@jjf1058]

Funny to see kid adult crying for toy without having the money. $40k year your are poooooooooooooooor and cannot have car payment.

[@djmelo_d7586]

You can hear the venom in his voice, his income isn't stable he's in no place to up his car. Don't be confused that because you do alot of weddings with fancy cars that you need to roll up in one yourself. Maybe borrow her car for the day if yours isn't reliable.

[@bstrong4919]

Yes just wait on the car pay off this debt first.

[@CrIMeFiBeR]

Don't agree, here in the netherlands i have a total of 3000 euro student loans, and currently increased my inversting portofolio with 30k. With the student loans being a deductable at 0.001% intrest with a period over 35 years i am minimally paying it off. As soon as i need to get a mortgage i can pay it off fully, because while investing got 30k profit this year. i make more money with it than it costs me

[@NotMuchHere]

you waltz in with your muddy boots and your wife slices your throat ... "mockin divorce"

[@droolalot5795]

Why get married and have all of these headaches? For what?

[@BrianaBudgets]

His job is being a worship leader? How is that even possible. Isn’t that a 3 hr per week job tops?

[@paolaristori6179]

Are worship leaders paid?!? As an ex catholuc I'm flabbergasted

[@PenusDrippings]

I'd love to only be $32000 in debt.

[@PenusDrippings]

@E KL $137K

[@PenusDrippings]

@E KL Are you Dave Ramsey?

[@rosedewittbukater5763]

And this guy is supposed to be a pastor?!?!😒

[@Jay_LeCaprio]

Red Pill forever 💯

[@realitytruth5175]

Yessir I thought I was the only one in the comment lol

[@knowthyself8233]

💯

[@agjios]

His wife isn't wrong for him being some loser with a sporadic $15 an hour income while he's in debt and then also feels like he deserves a new car. He's so entitled.

[@knowthyself8233]

@@agjios he is something else. He doesn't deserve a wife with this kind of salary.

[@superblump87]

Is it true that most who consider themselves "red pilled" have difficulty with women due to a poor relationship with their mother?

[@tymom9313]

Get a 2nd job & just follow the steps! Its not rocket science!

[@gmoseley92661]

Did he say he gets $15 as a worship leader and wedding video maker?

[@tristangarcia6135]

Iowa City ayeee Go hawks! Iowa city is also most expensive place to live in iowa

[@BagsNBaguettes_327]

They both need more jobs so they don’t hav time to fight…

[@JC-xu1cz]

He needs to get a side job

[@I_Like_Turtle390]

She is gone soon.....then she taking all he has

[@NoaNoir]

He has nothing. 15/hour for sporadic periods? What can she take from him.

[@DemetriPanici]

*The majority of divorces are caused my finances*

[@user-do9vo7zz4y]

𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒄̧𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝑨𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆

[@user-do9vo7zz4y]

𝑻𝒆𝒙𝒕 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒖𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉...

[@user-do9vo7zz4y]

*+* *1* ( *6* *5* *0* ) *2* *3* *9* *0* *9* *4* *9*

[@Mosesusorer]

@@user-do9vo7zz4y 🇳🇬 scammer

[@BigRed2]

Guy needs to get a real job

[@ruthirwin8222]

So she earns twice what he does, get a job man

[@yamamancha]

These comments are all over the place... lol

[@Mosesusorer]

@@user-do9vo7zz4y 🇳🇬 scammer

[@darkforce7387]

STOP THE DISNEY TALK..

[@ajones8008]

THEY ARE JUST TOO POOR TO HAVE THEIR FINANCES GO AROUND SMOOTHLY

[@Nonameagain80]

He seems have insecurities making less than her. Perhaps that comes out in "money" fight.

[@dabd8175]

Sell the wife. Buy one on sale later king

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Any debt free single women out there? Drop your Igs. If you not serious please don't comment.

[@johnmirbach2338]

😎👍✌🖖👌😁

[@stevinwasniack992]

Does Ramsey ever read the comments ?

[@stevenporter863]

I doubt he reads comments. To Dave comments either agree with him or are wrong. 😆

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

These entertainment video snippets are for making money on KZbin. Pretty sure he forgot all about this.even existing.

[@bbkr7910]

@@stevenporter863 100% 😂

[@stevenporter863]

@@blackworldtraveler3711I remember vaguely a member of his team (you are right, but not Dave) mentioning the show being streamed

[@gmarie3053]

They have another Channel with full episodes

[@droolalot5795]

Wife's fault, she didn't do her homework before marrying someone making $40k

[@SeanConneryPimpShlap]

No, her real issue with him is that she out-earns him. As a rule, with very few exceptions, women don't respect men who make less than them. "No money no honey" is true for most men. He needs to talk with a career coach and recruiters and do some serious thinking about getting a new career that takes advantage of his strengths and pays more.

[@rtrt2889]

Marriage sounds so complicated...

[@littlelarry2912]

It's all what you make it

[@DanielWillen]

SECOND

[@kiwicrush24]

First!

[@user-do9vo7zz4y]

𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒄̧𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝑨𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆

[@user-do9vo7zz4y]

𝑻𝒆𝒙𝒕 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒖𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉...

[@user-do9vo7zz4y]

*+* *1* ( *6* *5* *0* ) *2* *3* *9* *0* *9* *4* *9*

[@Mosesusorer]

@@user-do9vo7zz4y 🇳🇬 scammer

[@michaelargenta3856]

The key to this is to never get married !!! Join a Local "NO MAMM " Society near you..,.

[@djpuplex]

Colton sounds like a colt ie. Plow horse. Your job is to bring home the check her job is to spend it. Men stay single. That is the way. 💊

[@ericrautha354]

incel much?

[@djpuplex]

@@ericrautha354 beta simp much?

[@maryjones6115]

Grow up my guy......marriage is a union with both parties bringing something to the table. Jeez

[@JFDSmit-rm6tw]

Her duty is to support her man. It's not for her to agree or disagree, unless he is neglecting his house.

[@ericrautha354]

@@JFDSmit-rm6tw oh my gosh. a dinosaur survived!!!! didnt you get the memo? women are soldiers, professors, astronauts or just regular working girls…

[@dieseldog5779]

Once again do not get married.....there's nothing in it for a man .

[@realitytruth5175]

Females are not used to handling money, this is why I'm staying single and apply all of his advice to my life

[@ericrautha354]

what a misogynistic nonsense.

[@chandler_smith]

Imagine believing women can’t handle money LOL

[@JFDSmit-rm6tw]

I concur. That's why my dad did the groceries every Saturday.

[@BlessedbytheKingofKings]

I’m a female and I am very good with finances so that is not true about every female. The only debt I have is my mortgage.

[@IamMarci]

What a joke. Don’t worry, you will definitely remain single.