My Wife's Rules Only Apply to Me - Steve Treviño - Relatable

[@kelvinhan3088]

Many ladies were laughing so meaning we, married guys really go through this....

[@hermanlim8417]

Stop giving away the secret

[@princebanipal2657]

Not really he’s just talking nonsense. He really is a pussy

[@mikegrosso6171]

You will be surprise how many guys allow their wife to do that just not to loose the house.

[@ARTO540]

Many ladies were laughing because they know they put us throught this and all of them do it it's kinda why DV is a big deal cause they weren't that fucken useless till the ring hit the finger then it was just a shit show

[@returnofdarazz]

Oh she cheatin on him

[@mellamanangelic5549]

Its horrible how normalized this thing is... like.. Jesus, it’s a team not a jail... . I don’t want this for anybody.

[@jamesmcinnis208]

I have to confess to a little bit of schadenfreude with those who appear to get what they deserve.

[@steelbear2063]

Guys want to be tough and in charge, but they can't. It's not normalized, it's some dudes being pussies

[@DjurslandsEfterskole]

@@steelbear2063 Being abused is not being a pussy. We are responsible for our own actions, not that of others. It's not on you to be in charge to secure someone else treats you right. Lots of people actually, genuinely want to treat you well. Don't stay with the ones who don't. When men and women who call men in emotionally abusive relationships for pussys and laughs at them, they are putting the fault on the victim, and making it even harder for men to stand up to a bad situation and demand to be treated right. It's fucked. As you can hear, it's not just the partner keeping him in this situation. It's family and friends too. It really is fucked up how normalized this kind of treatment and abusive relationships are.

[@marinatedweasel5424]

Steel Bear That’s pretty toxic but whatever

[@steelbear2063]

@@DjurslandsEfterskole They are not. You don't like it - walk out. Who's keeping him, friends? Like physically holding him, tied him up maybe? No. Tell them to go fuck themselves. Nobody said it's easy

[@cisium1184]

I know this bit is supposed to be humorous, and it is, but it also makes my heart very heavy. This is precisely the reason I never married. My mom treated people like this, and I had girlfriends who did the same and know so many married men who got treated like this. Most of them got divorced but I don't believe in divorce. I wanted kids but I wanted not to be taken advantage of. These seemed irreconcilable, and gradually I just stopped looking. Not blaming anyone else, it was my choice, and it bothers me a lot less now that I am older, but once in awhile I see something like this and it bums me out a little.

[@shirin8609]

::hugs::

[@tayyabhasan]

Don't stop looking, you will find someone. You deserve happiness of having children in your life and i m sure that will change your and your partner perspective.

[@LonjeMarie7]

Cisium If you truly loved and married the right woman you can see the humor in what he saying . I hope you find a precious queen to love you unconditionally. You deserve it.

[@sdg954]

Lonjemarieswisdom Aina He stated that “he see’s the humor in this.” But jokes also come from a place of truth. I don’t blame him for not wanting to be married. You can love the hell out of a woman but she will still try to control you. If a man does the same to his wife then it’s considered an abusive relationship.

[@Rambutan.]

I don't want to sound cliché or cheesy or whatever, but there are literally women out there who don't behave like this. It seems any person who behaves like this tends to have insecurities, often such as feelings of inadequacy, trust issues perhaps from a previous relationship or if their parents were divorced (even a parent death can cause issues), a lack of self-defense and therefore any meaningful empathy, it could be as silly as a bad example from society/culture. Usually it's totally out of your control and would take basically therapy to affect, but it'll be a lot for you to have to endure also. Unless you have given your previous partners cause to lose trust in you personally, it's just a run of bad luck. Or common in your area. There really are a lot of people who don't want to be part of something like what he described. It's unhealthy for the person behaving this way also, as their insecurities would cause them a great deal of stress and they likely operate from a place of cynicism, likely to the extent that they can't aim for a joyful and healthy relationship because those goal posts might not truly exist for them. I often see the phrases 'be the change you want to see' and similarly 'be the partner you want to have'. I agree with this as a partner who knows how they want to be treated will know that the only way to achieve it in the real world is to find another person who also values those aspects enough that they are willing to provide them to their future partner. I don't believe it's possible or fair on yourself to try to change other peoples minds on matters as personal as this, especially when you don't know whether they truly want to change those behaviours. It's not your job to waste 10 years trying and hoping. So it's great that you have made the choice to not engage in unhealthy relationships. It has also been said that bad relationships ruin good people. I hope you will find what you're hoping to. It is rather common at least in my area that people treat eachother with common decency and a higher level of respect than what he describes.

[@melroydominicdsouza979]

He's is not cracking jokes,he is sharing his grief. *Thanks for the 1k likes. This is my first time.

[@404nobrakes]

Honestly less funny and more sad

[@fashionlife5348]

😂😂😂

[@art-tb3um]

Thats most comedians

[@lawrencedalimonte4420]

While I don't disagree with the statement made above, I have since come to learn Steve hosts a podcast alongside his wife. After watching that for a bit she seems pretty cool, but if you only listen to his stand up it doesn't paint her in the best light. That being said I feel this is a form of therapy for him. Who else can say they make a living complaining about their spouse? Lol!

[@mr.anonymous5501]

@@lawrencedalimonte4420 You'd think Josef Fritzl was a great Dad, if you asked his daughter infront of him 😂

[@russellfamilyfunnyfarm]

This made my day... I laughed so hard I cried! I miss the good ol days where people could just have a good laugh without anyone "being offended" or starting a lecture, rant, or therapy session. Everyone has to throw in an opinion & turn to negativity. Life is too short to not find humor in things, & be lighthearted, & happy for other people. If he was miserable, he'd leave the marriage. I'm sure his wife could rip on him for stuff too. Marriage is full of ups & downs, give & take, love & compromise, laugh & grow together. Finding humor in marriage is healthy & therapeutic. Laugh at each other together. Nobody's perfect, & no marriage is perfect. Don't be so quick to slap a label on everything as "toxic". Live. Laugh. Love.❤️

[@Neveryourhero]

I laughed hard at this. Thank you. No disrespect.

[@mannyaltamirano]

Is this not a lecture or a rant? Seems like you're part of the problem lol jk jk

[@monaita010]

I laughed too! It was soooo funny!!!! People think that these things happen on a daily basis etc, but it's standup comedy and all cramped into one sitting. I fully agree with you. Live, love, laugh. Some people nowadays can only focus on the negative and search hard to find it!

[@Jorgem1010]

It is funny. But real at the same time. We laugh because we can relate. Still explains how unfair some relationships are. We laugh because it’s real. Still wrong some women and men also are too controlling. Works both ways. Funny to a certain extent

[@twin60]

I agree 100% and if you listen to their podcast, the wife is just as funny as he is.

[@davebb36]

I had a gf living with me. She got mad at me and told me to sleep on the couch. I kicked her out of my house that night.

[@Hose-A]

Wow, the audacity! Go sleep on your couch sir lol

[@Venom-jc6sv]

Salute!!!

[@missmarisaferreira]

As a lady, I totally agree! Lol that's ridiculous, those ladies need to grow up 💁‍♀️

[@AndrewD624]

@Joel Gutierrez Alphas don't let their GF move in with them.

[@timallen643]

Dave BB : Consider this she was just a girlfriend and she already assumed she owned part of the house and could tell you where to sleep. Even if you had done something wrong it's still your house and not hers.

[@ChosenPlaysYT]

“You’ve never see a woman outside the salon talking to her man, but outside of every bar there is a man on the phone with his woman.” 😂

[@maylightbewithyou]

Cause women don't meet men at the nail salon to go have sex with 🤷

[@jamesmcinnis208]

WTF does "You've never seems" mean?

[@ChosenPlaysYT]

James McInnis fixed it was a typo

[@jamesmcinnis208]

@@ChosenPlaysYT WTF does "you've never see" mean?

[@anissacisneros4889]

Cuz bars and salons are the same lol ok you trippin

[@crkwhr1]

If this is your relationship with another person you don’t need that person in your life.

[@SKULLCRUSHERnr1]

True

[@gayaanimation8685]

True! That's emotional abuse he is describing there.

[@mikegrosso6171]

You won't believe how many guys allow the wife to do that just to not loose the house.

[@gretashapiro4118]

This is being a man married to a woman

[@ankitchordia2795]

You know what he describes is very common? It's only emotional abuse when the tables are turned. Sad but true!

[@lastsunofkrypton7950]

This comedy act would sound funny before I was married. Now it sounds like he just spittin truth after I got married and in the process of a divorce. Lol.

[@DjurslandsEfterskole]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope you find someone who treats you right. You didn't deserve that.

[@therealestj5326]

Wow that sucks

[@andrewshepherd5249]

My divorce was a blessing.

[@Moccalocca100]

How urs life now after divorce?

[@msflowers05Vlog]

How sad 😢

[@waqarhabib6595]

Change the roles in that situation and everyone will loose their mind.

[@tylerramsey9502]

Nah men have their own things too. Like they can sleep with anyone and be cheered for it. Women cant do not that. Also men give women crap about being gold diggers and want them to get a job and help but yet they still want a hot meal and clean house and it's still not a mans job even though they are both working

[@beamarie8041]

My husband calls me when I’m out aaaaall the time because he doesn’t know where anything is in the apartment 😂 It’s ok, there’s nothing wrong if it’s done with respect and love.

[@kandy5129]

Tyler Ramsey no tyler, not at all.

[@stealthgeek29]

@@tylerramsey9502 You've never been married, have you? I bet you've never dated either.

[@brrjohnson8131]

@@tylerramsey9502 you described what ended my last relationship. We both worked FT but I worked 2 hes OT each day. I'd come home & find him watching TV or playing games & pissed off because he was hungry & wanted me to cook dinner, immediately. He didn't want to cook. I hated it. [I'm a horrible cook, never learned] His unnatural objection to vacuuming was weird. No attempt to be partner in the home was made. I did his dishes, laundry, yard work, house cleaning. I even made the coffee for the next morning, while I cleaned up dinner dishes & he went to bed. He is still a pompous, narcissist ass, somewhere else.

[@Lilyofthevalley-1520]

He took reality and ran with it, that's what made this hilarious! He's very talented 👏

[@zkart8038]

Reality of an abusive relationship?

[@8Maduce50]

@@zkart8038 yep and because of feminism men can't say shit about it.

[@zkart8038]

@@8Maduce50 just leave the relationship

[@MommasBaby]

It's comedy...and if a man did this "routine" once a decade for me, he is a keeper. Marriage is 200%, both ways...It's NOT ABUSE.

[@RadiumHypochlorite-xd6ed]

There is a good chance this man's wife is cheating on him because she doesn't have any accountability and he turns it into a joke for women.

[@jhagestad]

Very rarely does my wife call or text me while I’m out with my friends, but when she does, it’s usually to ask “can you believe what just happened on monday night football?” She’s a keeper.

[@stevetrevino]

👍

[@adrianaolvera9166]

My husband and I just call/text each other every so often when out with friends or alone just to make sure the other is okay (:

[@lizzard8785]

You lucky bastard!! lol

[@emmabemma3100]

Sounds like you married a man

[@jhagestad]

@@emmabemma3100 You think I never checked under the hood before we got married? Come on now.

[@debbieexcell5088]

As a woman, I never realized that we were so controlling. I enjoyed the jokes but honestly, they had the feel of truth to them. In my country we say, 'Tek serious thing make laugh.'

[@shawnthesheep6832]

Sounds Caribbean 😂😂 love those sayings

[@ashang63]

Jamaican 🙌🏾

[@MikeKollin]

Because they are true... It's sad what he's saying...

[@codywebb5389]

Modern marriage is a joke. Modern women are jokes. No thanks.. a woman in america can literally cheat on you in your own bed and then file for divorce while being awarded the house, kids 2/3 of your money bc you WILL be also paying for HER lawyer.. its comical. Sad and screwed up.

[@sethreign8103]

These weren't even jokes. He was just venting and the vast majority of the women in the audience found it funny enough to drown out any other group of people that somehow thought any of this was funny.

[@Gymloverrrr]

I am an Indian and we used to think that only we are dealing with the problem of wife, after listening to you, I came to know that we are not alone, this made me feel very relaxed😎

[@RadiumHypochlorite-xd6ed]

There is a good chance this man's wife is cheating on him because she doesn't have any accountability and he turns it into a joke for women.

[@athena6307]

He is funny! To those of you that can relate to this my heart goes out to you. Nothing better than being free.

[@SonofaBlacksmith]

Of all this, your wife's voice is what kills me the most 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jessc8888]

It’s hilarious 😂 I have been doing that voice to mimic my step-kids lately and they really shape up and even laugh! The Treviños are geniuses!

[@SonofaBlacksmith]

@@jessc8888 they really are

[@stckyjoey1]

My wife tells me to hang out with my friends Or if They come over she wants to hang out with us and have a beer. She is a awesome

[@wasistlos9874able]

You have a supportive wife!!!

[@sugarnads]

Lol while youre off with your mates... Or shes lining up one of your mates.

[@soviethammer9111]

Same brother. Cheers

[@sadiemeyers6758]

So basically you have an actual partner? Good.

[@TheGreenbutsad]

I find these kind of women "male" attention seeker tbh, I let my Husband have fun with his friends, and if they are over, I say Hi, give them food/drink and leave them alone to chat.

[@mildchaos6037]

“Happy wife, happy life” is super toxic and ruined the mindset of a generation of women

[@bastionloveless939]

Happy wife, life of strife.

[@KurNorock]

Ruined a generation of women and men.

[@ida1620]

Yess

[@nicoledavis6344]

True, but at the same time if the wife is miserable the husband will be too.

[@mildchaos6037]

Nicole Davis I would hope the wife would be miserable if the husband is too. Wife’s emotions are equally, not more, important than the husbands. Both should be happy otherwise something is wrong. Wife isn’t the only one entitled to be made hapoy

[@markspearman5412]

“Do what you gotta do. Just let us know if we gotta go.” 😂

[@janicetownsend8413]

Over 40 years of marriage and my husband can relate to your stories very well. He takes very good care of me, his 2 nd wife.

[@mark7s980]

Watching married friends deal with this kind of bs is why I'm still single.

[@Brad__Gray]

I'm 37 man and I'll never marry. Girlfriends are enough to deal with. Couldn't imagine having a legal contract to fuck me even more. Seen my friends deal with some crazy shit to. Stay single my friend 🍻😉

[@merdith6]

Exactly

[@TheFakadinhas]

@@Brad__Gray yup in the words of Chris Rock, maried and bored or single and lonely.

[@Samurai31631]

@Ruben Dias I thought it was married and miserable...

[@TheFakadinhas]

@@Samurai31631 ahahah 😂😂

[@jasiriboards]

He’s describing an abusive relationship

[@mikegrosso6171]

I seeing this and way too often.

[@nickwilliams8302]

@@jessc8888 To be fair, Steve's most likely exaggerating for comedic effect. I mean, I'm _pretty sure_ the guy can get dressed and make himself a sandwich without his wife's supervision. Comics generally don't let the facts get in the way of a good joke. OP's point is that what Steve is _describing_ is an abusive relationship. As in, if a friend of mine came to me and told me that their marriage was literally like this, I would advise that they start divorce proceedings and that he have no further contact with the psychopath they were married to without the presence of friendly witnesses and active video recording. Regardless of the gender of the friend or their spouse (flip the genders here and see how funny you think the scenario is). But again, I'm sure these are just jokes. Any woman as controlling and capricious as he claims his wife is would have killed his dreams of being a stand up comic years ago. To say nothing of what she'd do if he told jokes like this about her in public.

[@Vikturus2k6]

You mean most?

[@cunniffe42]

@@nickwilliams8302 more common than you think

[@nickwilliams8302]

@@cunniffe42 Speaking from experience myself.

[@staggerlee2774]

You know why divorce is so expensive? Its worth it.

[@georgevause8641]

Absolute legend. And 100% agree

[@boho1926]

Cheaper to not get married. You get laid just as often

[@sdg954]

Bo Ho 😂. You probably get laid more being single!

[@kimberlyfry7161]

@@georgevause8641 0llmkmllm l

[@kimberlyfry7161]

@@boho1926mlllkkklm

[@joycelopez1]

He’s so funny. I’ve seen this so many times. I guess my husband has it made. I never call him when he’s out and I always tell him if he drinks too much to stay at his friends house because I don’t want him driving under the influence. I think when you know your value you don’t worry about what your man is doing because if he chooses To do something that jeopardizes your relationship then he doesn’t deserve you in the first place. I’ve been married 22 years, we have five kids.

[@Ddboyz465]

Great understanding wife. Lucky man, god bless you n the kids

[@RadiumHypochlorite-xd6ed]

There is a good chance this man's wife is cheating on him because she doesn't have any accountability and he turns it into a joke for women.

[@androidrulez444]

Straight up never heard of this guy before today. KZbin recommended me this video. Gotta say his material is great

[@jsixamore]

If your wife treats you like this then she has a problem and needs to learn to be an adult and treat her partner with respect.

[@Toxihex]

If your wife treats you like this, it's your own fault you lost her respect. This doesn't happen overnight, an adult should know how to set boundaries. If you end up being the subpar person your partner settled for, you either better yourself or you leave, but you don't blame others for not respecting you.

[@nkelherik]

Toxihex sometimes it’s not the mans fault but rather her sense of entitlement grows because she can’t be held accountable. As for blaming the disrespect on the disrespected, I suggest you open your heart and maybe understand that hurt people do not deserve the hurt inflicted on them.

[@seven9766]

@@Toxihex Your statement is about as useful as blaming the girls being raped for it. If and when a relationship becomes abusive in one direction (either one), it takes a whole lot of courage to stand up for yourself and end that relationship. You are right. People need to set boundaries. However from the dawn of time (and especially in the last 50 years) men have been told to accept any boundary they might or might not violate and still be in the everlasting fetch quest to win the "princess". That is not a healthy way to teach men and women alike that you have to learn to set boundaries, find compromises if those boundaries are not matching in reciprocity or leave if a compromise can't be found. Life is hard, and to offset that, unfair as well. For men and women alike, that's equality.

[@waterfallsdontsaymeow2917]

Calm down, everyone, he's just joking. It's a comedy show.

[@heartattackjack9349]

Unfortunately I know this is a comedy show, but it's also very familiar. Future self is single. Why? Because of shit like this. I was whipped. Not anymore. Singleness is a beautiful thing because of shit like this.

[@provessorkayoss9089]

Dude is brillant. Self deprecating men, fills seats with women. He will always have an audience

[@InvestLarge]

Training classes

[@palaceofwisdom9448]

No one ever went broke pandering to women.

[@bowlnow824]

Never understood this till I got married! Lol

[@LeighFlock]

First time watching him and I can't help but laugh at all his jokes. And DAMN Steve Treviño made my day.

[@tbewin1z143]

hes a p***yehipped b***h!!!

[@kratoscallofduty]

My ex-wife was a double-standard hypocrite, too. *Notice I said "ex-wife".....

[@moee123]

Same!

[@will1905]

My ex hates it when I told her to cover up more when she dress but doesn’t like it when I’m in shorts or tank tops, she tells me to take responsibility for my wrongs but she won’t do the same, she doesn’t like it when I take long to respond when she text me but when I text her she takes over half an hour to respond. It’s crazy bro.

[@jambajoby32]

Why would her phone be off when she’s w her friends? She’s cheating on ya bruh Edit: if she has zero accountability and it’s always his fault, she’s toxic 🗑 SO! for how aware she is about things, there’s no reason to have her phone off while she’s w friends.

[@margaridaferreira8029]

It has happened to me, because I'm a jackass and forgot to charge the phone. I miss the good old days when you did not need to charge the phone everyday (or even twice in the same freaking day).

[@eatSLEEPshitHONDA]

Some woman are like that kid..my wife will put her phone on vibrate and forget that she did that.. so calling her now is a mission, thank God my daughter begged me for a phone . Now I call my daughter to get to my wife.

[@boho1926]

Margarida Ferreira that’s what they say too.

[@margaridaferreira8029]

@@boho1926 because it's true...

[@SakuraMoonflower]

Yeah, that's... I mean, I've missed calls from significant others, but only because my ringer was low or off, and I missed calls from friends too. It was never personal. I also warned my S.Os in advance if I planned on hanging with friends so they'd know I was safe and not ignoring them as a personal affront. One particular ex was toxic, however, and made it a point to deliberately start fights with me on days he knew I planned on spending time with friends, who I only ever saw every few months. We're not together anymore, but I can't imagine being that way to someone when it's so shitty having it done to me.

[@ShreyasBharadwaj]

So true, I'm actually crying in sadness.

[@ceterisparibus8966]

Really? Why?

[@jamesmcinnis208]

"actually"

[@jasonarellano9470]

When I was married this was exactly true every point. Now I’m divorced and now I now longer have to go through all the protocols to just go out to lunch with a friend, or god forbid a sporting event.

[@bastionloveless939]

Good for you bro. Live a good life. 👏

[@williamgomez5876]

How weak can you be? I'm married I follow no protocols, you just need s pair that's all

[@indiag89]

My husband just makes plans and tells me about them later.

[@katierose1893]

Weak coward

[@lrdssshmru5471]

@@katierose1893 like your mom ?

[@eclipseshadowyt5917]

Wait he speaking the truth why are ppl laughing. Isn’t that toxic woman ?

[@drborn63]

The women are applauding cause they all do it and get away with it. It's crazy.

[@eclipseshadowyt5917]

Ken Cowman true, like they don’t consider toxic behavior but tell a woman a skirt too short or piece of clothing too revealing and we are the toxic males

[@sadielapiers1847]

I mean, you still shouldn’t tell women how to dress, but the way he is describing how his wife acts is noooot cool. Toxic AF. However, let’s hope he’s exaggerating for comedic effect (though I don’t really find it funny, personally)

[@omarcrespo77]

Although the girls that screamed at his comment was expected, I understand that while been true, he was been sarcastic the whole time. And true, this might be his real life he's telling us about, but regardless, he's getting paid for it so joke's on her!! [after been yelled at by the wife] "Thank you, 'honey'. That's some great material. I can't wait to use this on the next show!!!🖕😏🖕"

[@TaraWagner]

This is too true to be funny. Women like this are embarrassing. And the “woo-ing” from the audience is...wow.

[@soldierboy04262007]

Amen! All the women cheering like this is a good thing?! Absolutely embarrassing! Thats like if someone legitimately calls you a psychopath and you cheer and go yeah thats me.

[@ezws]

It's comedy you need to chill out ma'am.

[@tbewin1z143]

@@ezws nope, it's disturbing that women endorse that abusive behavior!!!

[@ezws]

@@tbewin1z143 comedy is not for y'all I guess

[@tbewin1z143]

@@ezws if a comedian joked about boiling bunnies alive i bet you wouldnt be laughing...some stuff just makes you realize how f'ed this society is!!!

[@MtnManMT]

The fact that this is so true, and that the women are laughing and cheering is proof that our society is screwed up. This is abuse plain and simple.

[@OoWhiteStaroO]

That is the thing that amazes me... the women cheering all the toxicty and celebrating it. Its absurd.

[@MihaiLucacs]

No, this is emasculated incompetent men at work.

[@ayothrills]

Couldn't have said it myself

[@bassethoundlove]

Grow up Wuss!

[@silverfazer8290]

@@OoWhiteStaroO yep they know exactly what they do.... its because men allow it end of story

[@chronicler6162]

The women cheering is just annoying

[@Jessicadeborahloves]

Right? This clip was heavy on my heart.

[@21Piloteer]

Lighten up Francis

[@J.B.1982]

Typical double standard

[@The_Greipist]

@Norm Meunier True, if this were a woman it would be considered the next Nanette, lol

[@cdreyes81]

They know it's true and dont care

[@lcifermorningstar191]

I love this guy's comedy, and I play his videos at home during dinner to show my wife and two boys what a "wussafied" man looks like. I've been married almost 30 years. My rules are simple: 1) In my home I always have the last word. 2) I will always support my wife and kids as long as they are doing their part. 3) I take it upon myself 100% to make sure that there is always a roof over our head, enough food to eat and share, provide educational opportunities and the bills are paid. 4) Zero tolerance for domestic violence. 5) Dinner is served as a family every night of the year. 6) Humor is daily. 7) Be charitable even when the only thing you have to give is your time. 8) Be kind and compassionate, but not religious. 9) Zero tolerance in my home on Sexism, Xenophobia, Racism or any other type of discrimination.

[@lcifermorningstar191]

10) The right of self defense is to be exercised by serving in the military, police or home. Fire arms are to be learned, mastered and utilized in sport, hunting, and self defense only. And as a last resort measure against agression or tyranny.

[@applehappyx-files2456]

Lucifer!?? 😂

[@flamenmartialis6839]

Rule 1 is the last words, yes dear?

[@thatruth8900]

Thanks for not being a wuss

[@stevedriscoll8175]

Rules are for pussies

[@PeacePrevails1975]

I just can’t laugh at of these episodes, THEY JUST REMIND ME WHAT I GO THROUGH EVERY DAY!!

[@agataolejarczyk1496]

These two people have such a strong relationship that they turned it into comedy. Steve is hilarious and Renae is very supportive.

[@marcmuwanga68]

Yeah right 😏😏😏 They have to be for the money. Most people don't even recognise abuse even when it slaps them in the face. They believe happy wife happy life is actually a virtue to live up to yet it's the most toxic thing ever.

[@trina8350]

I am a wife and I would never treat my husband like that! No respect. I don’t think I’m better than him and vice versa. We respect each other. Women that act this way are wrong and it gives other women a bad name! Still funny in a sad way. Thanks Steve and good luck!

[@tbewin1z143]

unicorn here!!!

[@crondawg101]

I’m not married and I’ve never understood this. Why would you invite a person into your life who places such restrictions on you? Unless you are into a master/slave relationship, I don’t get the point

[@shirin8609]

That's a really good question. I'm married and I am equally confused about this. I think it's important to remember that performers may also exaggerate or embellish their stories for comedic effect.

[@Chillipep]

Do you mean, "who places such restrictions on you?"

[@Toxihex]

Because it builds up. Notice how the friends of the dudes who have their wives act like that absolutely relate and the happily married people in the comments are totally confused because they don't have it nothing like this, and their married friends don't have that either? It's because of the mushy, sticky mentality that women are some kind of different species and "haha look, us men simple and dum creature". You can't put a woman on a pedestal, give her everything she didn't ask for and expect not to be treated as property. When I was a kid and didn't have a type, my first relationships were with basic dudes that did this - they'd treat you like a queen even though you 'd say you don't want it, then you'd say fuck it and agree to whatever they so desperately want to give you, and then you get used to it. Then, you find yourself frustrated without any respect for the person you're with and them accepting and justifying your disrespect as "just women being women haha, I'll never understand them" and their friends relating to it too. It's the mentality that you get more points the more you give and with that, the smaller the chances of her leaving become. It's the notion that you have to win her over and she just has to sit there because there's too much competition for you to feel secure with yourself.

[@jessc8888]

This is hilarious exaggerated comedy. If you haven’t done so, check out their Podcast and don’t forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell. Steve and Renae are fantastic! Comedy at it’s finest! Now remember it’s comedy, not self or couples counseling lol 😂 👍

[@IamINERT]

@Stephen Averbuck being alone doesn't mean being lonely

[@trip_2167]

As a woman, here is my advice if they have a wife that acts like that: Pack up your stuff and get the hell out.

[@Toxihex]

Yup. Best for both parties. Trust me, she has someone to stay with even if you kick her out.

[@Toxihex]

@jewleetube Oh wow there big, strong man. What a fantasy you have there. I bet if that happened to you irl you'd beg her not to leave like a little bitch. Deep down men realise any woman you get with automatically has an astronomically larger chance than you to get a partner that's just as good or even better simply because she's a woman. Male desperation either won't allow you to let her get away or will make you cry for her to take you back when you realise what you've done. And it will only get worse as you get older. But what do I know, maybe someone with temper issues that would throw out someone they supposedly love is very capable of making the right decision.

[@trip_2167]

jewleetube That works too.

[@tylerramsey9502]

@jewleetube wait wait wait but that doesnt fit the narrative. I have been getting lectured on how the courts and police side with the women. So wouldnt that mean you wouldn't be able to throw her stuff out? C'mon man get your shit together you're making the other people look like liars.

[@lrdssshmru5471]

@@Toxihex what is actually wrong with you ? Why do you hate men this much to spout this nonsense🤡

[@DelliHopp]

As a woman I don’t believe that it should only be the woman that’s happy. A relationship & marriage is a union of two people who need to work together as a team & not work against each other. Relationships aren’t a one way street. One partner shouldn’t be happy while the other one suffers. It’s not logical & unhealthy.

[@kenkaniff25]

Some of us are swooned into them, both sides. You put on a good show, and then somewhere along the way things change, and it's after a heavy emotional investment. Some have a better understanding, others are blindsided. Some have the strength to leave, others are not sure how to leave. That's why I believe in a longer courtship. If it's forever, what's a few months or a year to really get to know someone in a wide range of situations to see what your getting into. It's why they offer test drives in cars.

[@philipbyersoutdoors3295]

Sounds nice.. but feminism has destroyed good relationships!

[@tylerramsey9502]

@@philipbyersoutdoors3295 lol yeah what happened to the days where only women could be abused

[@philipbyersoutdoors3295]

@@tylerramsey9502 a typical ridiculous statement from someone who apparently has no argument. so what you just said was let's turn the tables so now women can abuse men and get away with it.

[@tylerramsey9502]

@@philipbyersoutdoors3295 no your statement was just absurd lol. Men abused women and still continue to but relationships werent ruined until women got a bit of power? Do I really need an argument against that? Lol c'mon guy. Before feminism, before they started standing up for themselves. Women couldn't vote, women couldnt get good paying jobs, which meant they couldnt take care of themselves from no fault of their own. So you're statement is marriage was ruined when women got the ability to take care of themselves and leave them.

[@Jahsurfer]

"Humor is just truth, only faster." Gilda Radner. The funny thing is that if you point out they are breaking their own rules, you are nagging and you are the bad guy.

[@hammerheadfxdwg2018]

The way he mercilessly roasts his wife makes me think she’s probably actually pretty awesome and gets a laugh out of it. Having said that..... it also sounds like a cry for help from a desperately unhappy man

[@chellepatino1675]

They have a good relationship

[@yupickmyusername]

They write the jokes together, so they're definitely fine

[@justinbowen1183]

Everything he said I can relate to, very true and on spot.

[@region015]

Funny. I know a friend who used to make fun of his friend who mas married, for going home right after work on time. And every time he was late even by 5 min, his wife would call and complain. Then he got merried and became just like him.

[@vincewainwright3802]

Yep

[@bastionloveless939]

Preach!!! 🙏🏻

[@oreogiri]

Hello. Greetings from Bangalore, India. This is so relatable, and I am saying it as a 64 year old woman.....it is so funny that it is sad what he has to endure in the marriage. This made me think back to our four decades plus old marriage just to see if I was this difficult....honest answer is “ more or less”...hopefully less. But we have had space for each other thankfully. I feel this is his sharing of his enduring grief in the form of comedy...laughing to be able to get through it. Wishing you and your wife all the best young man. Hoping that there are some enjoyable aspects in your marriage too. Thanks for the video..

[@BaptisteC1995]

I thought I was the only one in this situation, until I got into a dad’s group and sends videos like this 😂😂😂😂 I feel much better now

[@m.a.droofer4185]

'there's paperwork involved'

[@TeslaRifle]

The only paperwork he needs is divorce papers

[@MohamedAliSingapore]

@@TeslaRifle Sadly, even then he might come out on the losing end, through no fault of his.

[@bastionloveless939]

@Mohamed Ali A little pain in divorce is better than a life of pain. Give me liberty or give me death! (Also there are ways of saving your assets in divorce)

[@loganfoco1184]

Everything he said... telltale signs she is cheating

[@andresrosa2352]

Right? Yup.

[@ryguy898]

Yea calling about "how to play a DVD?" was basically "how many more hours do I got w this guy?"

[@IamINERT]

👌🏽

[@sugarnads]

You know it.

[@Patriotsounds]

Yep. She's riding some other guy like a pony.

[@butcherbio]

I feel this guy! I've been in a relationship for almost five years and I just left when I saw how much she could control everything and me nothing... I still have hope to maybe find someone who will let me live!

[@morarim]

Yes, find a good woman but it's also your responsibility to not allow bs behaviour.

[@veronicarhodes8225]

That DVD player is hella true! I can never work the downstairs tv when my husband is gone. 🤣

[@joelt2002]

Went and watched him live with my wife a few weeks ago in California, hilarious for the entire act.

[@bigwon5883]

This is hilarious because I know dudes that have women like that.

[@theSilvioRoesler]

I went to one of his shows, never laughed so hard in my life

[@stevetrevino]

Thanks for making it to a show.

[@jessc8888]

Can’t wait!!! Steve is hilarious 🤣 I mean just look at all the comments haha whether good or bad he strikes a nerve. He strikes my funny bone! Love your Comedy Steve and Renea Treviño.

[@michaelboyle9512]

All those women cheering like this isn't real. This is why men keep leaving controlling women. That's every woman I've ever dated. Happily single!

[@SvenPrime]

They are cheering *because* they know this is real. Some have relationships like the one this wimp comic is describing. Others wish they could rope others into such a relationship of male servitude.

[@ceterisparibus8966]

@@SvenPrime Male survitude is a myth.

[@bastionloveless939]

@ceteris paribus Yeah... your myth theory, is the real myth.

[@tylerramsey9502]

It's always funny how they arent controlling until after the relationship is over.

[@Faith_and_Hope_07]

Way too funny! Lol I love how people are using this now on Instagram but there’s nothing better than coming back to the videos here. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love your wife! Girl power! LOL 😂

[@zadkiel242]

"I'm afraid of my wife. Let me make jokes about it."

[@randyvivs9965]

Love it. Just so nice. And here you got a man who understands women.

[@k.c.s.4455]

never understood relationships like that.... just let me know your still alive every few hours and were good

[@streetskyglider716]

You're an angle

[@triciaciraulo1054]

This was the first clip of you I saw on FB that won us over as fans! Still can't get enough of this show. LOL

[@GabrielSweetSmith]

I’m not even married and I could relate to all of this 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@xxoMIKoxx]

I hope he’s exaggerating, otherwise it’s kinda sad. I am a woman and I’d never treat someone like that.

[@philippbrogli779]

Are you married?

[@omars1946]

I have a lot of friends saying the same, so he is not telling jokes. This is one of those show when you can Say: is funny because is real

[@KTown_Painter]

Its real. Promise.

[@xxoMIKoxx]

Philipp Brogli no not married. But this sounds like controlling and bullying someone which I have never done.

[@philippbrogli779]

@@xxoMIKoxx That's a good start. Even though bullies don't always notice when they bully. And there are few peoples being proud of being a bully and openly admit it. But I've heard that people in start to behave differently once they are married. That's because both the bad and the good behaviors are magnified in a marriage. If you are a little bit controlling to your friends or siblings, you will be more controlling to your husband and kids. That's why observing yourself in many different situations is important and listening to friends about your weaknesses is also helpful. Even if you think those weaknesses are not that bad. I personally try to remove a few of my most problematic bad habits before I even try to get a girlfriend. At the moment I'm just not ready. It's not like you can't improve during a marriage, but sometimes the bad behaviors even make us choose unsuitable partners. So cleaning up the life before the search of a partner is a really smart thing to do. By the way I don't claim that you have major problems. But chances are that there are still things in your live that should be solved. If not then you are one of very few people. And one of the best hints to judge if you have some bigger problem is to see if your own parents had some bigger problem. Children often subconsciously mimic exactly the same behaviors and if they are abused, they even subconsciously seek a partner that abuses them in the same way that they experienced with their parents. This is not something that can't be solved but it should not be ignored.

[@dr.piyaldeb]

This guy is right... So right that it actually hurts.. I couldn't laugh at his jokes cause truth hurts.

[@yeboyvaporeon4731]

Yo, get out of that relationship man

[@jamesmcinnis208]

"actually"

[@tylerramsey9502]

@@fabiankaufmann6213 I'm sorry your mother was mean to you. Mine is actually wonderful. Dad was mean though

[@mlucas7837]

That describes all my friends. Bunch of wusses. We went camping once and had to pack up and leave in the middle of the night, a 4 hour drive because he was worried she would be mad.

[@nkelherik]

Pathetic

[@ericdunn5018]

Lol really?

[@chazlyle41]

Young men, if you’re in this relationship and about to commit... do. Not. Haha How do y’all give away so much of your life for nothing? Sad state, man. Find a wife who’s amazing and be a man who is worth her time. Dumb dumbs haha.

[@humdrumfeast]

I was a dumb dumb in my early 20s and I have no answer for it. I think most young men in the military wanna grab onto...I dunno, man, the feeling that someone loves them somewhere. Someone is waiting. Its a lot to ask of a person, and only a select few military husbands/wives are strong enough for it. Leads to a lot of stupid shit most relationships don’t deal with

[@chazlyle41]

@@humdrumfeast People are resilient and there's always hope in life, amigo. Whether you stick to it and make it work (be patient and endure!) or find a new path, I wish ya the best! It's never too late to make life more meaningful and make personal changes. Good luck!

[@tylerramsey9502]

@@humdrumfeast lol military marriages are a different animal. It's about the benefits over the actual relationship. I've seen so many people get married in a few weeks are months because of the benefits.

[@humdrumfeast]

Tyler Ramsey that too. Getting out of the barracks was the ultimate goal for a lot of guys

[@thetruthonly2259]

I responded with this on a KZbin video about wives making rules that they didn't have to follow. My soon-to-be Ex-wife is like this. Always two sets of or rules or the rules would get made up on the spot in her favor. Being an Army veteran, I’d sit her down and beg her to agree to a “standard” that BOTH of us had to adhere to.... Her: Why does it always have to be about standards and agreements? Why can’t we just go with the flow? Me: Because YOU going with the flow is what got us here.

[@Subaruleone69]

This was me yesterday 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 trying to show her what to press and what not to press 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@AnthonyWright-kf7wo]

He's also making fun of himself I definitely like this guy lol everyone gets a shot to the funny bone

[@cuchulain1647]

Sounds like he shouldn’t be married to that woman.

[@jamesmcinnis208]

Or anyone else with a pair.

[@jlim9411]

But then where would he get his stand up material?

[@swigittyswooty6908]

May he should stop being a beta bitch

[@Jefff72]

I learned when we started living together, she comes into the room and I’m watching Something interesting, stop and listen. I come into the room and she watching something, “shhhh I’m listening to this.”

[@marcroberts5251]

The mf'n truth.

[@kaiolani133]

I never laughed so hard hysterical

[@DSmilezB]

This is the most relatable comedy I’ve heard in a LONG time

[@parkerjohnson9814]

Freaking hilarious. I love good comedy.

[@oORegularKevOo]

I did not laugh once because it's not funny, it's true. This is why men should get married? Does he sound remotely happy? And all I hear in the crowd is women laughing... Smh

[@magpieash]

Well... you gotta pick better women then the ones in the audience lol

[@haydenandrews3694]

Joshua Carrillo - There is still no benefit for man to be married. That’s the woman’s voice you hear trying to convincing you.

[@magpieash]

@@haydenandrews3694 First of all: Im not a woman, secondly thats true. Except taxes and stuff, marriage is utterly useless

[@blythe2732]

@@haydenandrews3694 statistically married men live longer. Married women don't tho so if anything women shouldnt get married

[@haydenandrews3694]

Blythe - it’s not really the length of the life but the quality of the life the woman ganes when she’s married. It increases and even more so once she gets divorced she can walk away with at least half of his assets. Great motivation for her to marry and then break up the marriage in anyway possible.

[@craigjervis5652]

The comments are very telling, of the reality of society, and relationships these days.

[@ericnorton5454]

Glad I’m not alone in this. My wife just did the hang up on me thing yesterday and I thought I was dead already.

[@anthonyyah]

I almost died when Steve said, "There's always a man outside of a bar on the phone." lol

[@fooanonymous]

"You're not a man until you have a woman telling you what to do." - most succinct description of the blue pill mindset I have ever come across.

[@TheUKNutter]

oh definitely

[@aurakireina3291]

Blue pill af! I shall call him doormat from now on...

[@ajakennedy6072]

Wow, I expected something completely different in the comments. I got the impression this guy is a happily married man. He's a comic so he roasts his wife. I do that with people I love. To me it doesn't sound like she's actually abusive, he's just picking out certain parts of small things she's done, embellishing a little bit and telling it in a way that makes the story humorous. He's not going to insert all the times she was incredibly loving and saved his ass, that breaks up the comedic timing. I tell tall tales all the time about my SO for a laugh when I'm with my sisters because all we do is crack jokes nonstop.

[@morganbagert]

You must be his wife

[@ajakennedy6072]

@@morganbagert hahaha. Could be!

[@Tome4kkkk]

Persistent, long-term psychological abuse is funny to women apparently.

[@palladium607]

Womp womp womp. People treat you how you let them, remember that. Everyone has choices and free will.

[@seofutbol]

Joshua Carrillo perhaps he chose his life partner correctly 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@leevikv]

They are jokes tho

[@seofutbol]

K-V there are no jokes anymore. Everything is a life lesson. Buckle up, son! 🥴

[@slowburn1988]

I mean... He's a comedian. To me it would be pretty disrespectful (and pointless) if he was doing his sketch and the entire hall was silent. You know what a comedy show is, right?

[@brt432]

There's a simple solution to all your woes... DON'T GET MARRIED !!!!! 😂

[@MitchellBahamas]

This. Is. The. Realest. Shit. I’ve. Ever. Fucking. SEEN! Hoooooly SHIT! Are we married to the same person!?😩🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@charlieodom9107]

We are ALL married to the same person!

[@twsdlbh]

I'm so happy I'm not married to one of those people. I would marry a fish before being stuck with that.

[@jacksonsmith8404]

He explains relationships actually so well

[@angcil88]

Isn't that some kind of toxic relationship? Or is that just the normal relationship that many people have?

[@adamkoehler5747]

Mahesa Rangga that shit’s toxic. Healthy marriages don’t work like that.

[@insanity9329]

Looks like someone doesn't know how to put other human being in its place. This is an abusive relationship and there is no justification.

[@EduardoSanchez-un2hh]

It's his job to make something that sad sound funny.

[@jameslaiola4976]

This is Soo GREAT

[@jseance]

It's funny because it's true. I dumped my last girlfriend cuz she tried to pull that on me

[@katierose1893]

Turn gay

[@Atomic_Mayhem21]

I can never be married.... I like making decisions to much

[@angcil88]

Similar to me, I like to have more control 😅 Not trying to abuse it to satisfy my ego but to me, having control is freedom 😂

[@countertop915]

Too**

[@Atomic_Mayhem21]

AvengeVoltaire You are a GOD!!!! A God I say!

[@shirin8609]

Don't marry an obnoxious, controlling twat, then. I understand that feminist brainwashing makes that rather difficult, but I think there are still down-to-earth and marriageable women out there.

[@shirin8609]

@Car Ramrod I am also Texan! Congratulations on your engagement! Many blessings to you and your family. :)

[@ocmetals4675]

I’m sorry but no. No adult should put up with this no matter the gender.

[@alexmontgomery7993]

Sex though

[@ocmetals4675]

Self Respect doesn’t come without the help of your hand 🖐

[@Toxihex]

It always cracks me up how some people let themselves lose the respect of their significant other and suddenly say "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, YOU WON'T TREAT ME LIKE THAT ANYMORE" like a toddler's tantrum.

[@TylerDurden-td2yg]

@@Toxihex You made your point clear in the other 5644 comments in this thread

[@Toxihex]

@@TylerDurden-td2yg Why have you been looking through all the comments?

[@heidicampbell79]

Why would anyone unlike this?! It hilarious and so true!!!!!!

[@cicinomaden]

Watched this, read the comments...and realized why my pre teen daughter said our family is kinda ideal bcs my husband and I have never yelled at each other even when we argue; we just let each other know where we r going and if we are late getting home we just say "ok, be careful."; we have extremely opposite personalities but that just means we can have our own interests and pursue it. I mean why get married and torture each other? Life is hard enough as it is. Btw...we got married thru an arranged marriage. We fell in love in marriage, simply be kind and treat each other gently.

[@MajesticFerret]

I'm married and this isn't how my wife treats me at all. Sounds like this guy is a doormat that married a girl out of his league that barely tolerates him.

[@MajesticFerret]

@Kenneth Dennis a LOT of married men are this whipped by their wives. It's prob more common than uncommon in the X genners.

[@lynskyrd]

sounds like you know NOTHING. Glad things are working for you...now.

[@MajesticFerret]

@@lynskyrd I know plenty. 50% of marriages work out. That is an equal probability of failure and success. So yeah, marriage can work out, you just need to be very careful who you marry.

[@MajesticFerret]

@FujitoraTheGreat while I mostly agree this is the case, try to marry a rich girl dressed like a poor man using just "good energy" and see how that gets you. Or hit on a really hot girl when you know for a fact you're really ugly, same principle.

[@russellstephan6844]

Oh, just give it a half dozen years or so...

[@matthewbeck1824]

Super unhealthy and co-dependent. Once a partner starts referring to their significant other as ‘the boss’, it’s time to grow up, put on the big boy pants, and walk away

[@MusickopatH]

No miracle theres more singles more and more. Actually, woman is never single, theres dogs, cats, fistful of beta males chatting....something to dominate.

[@taylorjohnson1700]

That’s the funniest thing I’ve ever seen

[@oba_kinbo]

Absolute legend! Thank you! All is right with the world again.