My Younger Sister LIED About My Older Sister's Boyfriend So She Could Steal Again r/Relationships

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

There’s another update on the second story. TL;DR - OP was all for giving her fiancé a second chance as he promised he would go LC/set boundaries with his family but after speaking with them he changed his mind and sided with them so OP broke things off and now she’s getting harassed by his side to take him back. OP is looking to get a restraining order on her dad and he’s keeping a low profile while still trying to reach out to OP. Sis is completely against him and J and blasted them on SM and when she came across them in public they had a screaming match where J assaulted sis. Their reputation took a hit, sis is now NC, and people are getting off OP’s back on that front.

[@lina9535]

Thank goodness OP broke things off with the fiancé. I had a feeling that it wouldn't take long for him to "switch sides" again, be that by manipulation from his family, financial shenanigans, or something else. Dude needs therapy to stop being a people pleaser for his family.

[@avaphynx]

That's insane it had to get to that point. For people to leave OP alone.

[@ChaoticNalilitoMC]

And in happier news, OP found a therapist and even got a kitten!

[@funtimegenshin6973]

All hail little animals they are absolutely the best

[@macylouwho1187]

Thank you for letting us know, I was hoping she’d dump that douche.

[@tartlynerdy]

Story 1 - I'm with op. Op did the right thing blowing the cover on Jess's secret. She didn't deserve to have a happily ever after when everything was based on her lies. Op saved the guy from a manipulative woman and years of unhappiness. Op also nailed it on the head saying that if Jess's relationship was strong it would have survived or endured the truth.

[@lina9535]

I agree, also because I'm a big subscriber to there being truth and honesty in a relationship. Those two things are like the best foundation to build any relationship on. Jess's relationship is essentially built on a lie. Which the dude deserves to know. At least imo.

[@fiaj3616]

It’s satisfying to know that Jess hot what she deserved. Haha And like OP said, if the relationship is strong, it could survived OP's comment. Also, Jess is toxic & a jealous b, stealing K’s bf/ crush

[@ElfInTheFlowers]

Nah, this is a betrayal as bad as cheating… or even worse. The foundation of the relationship was built on lies and betrayal. They might have recovered, but it would have taken an extremely strong bond and LOTS of therapy.

[@league-of-shadows]

Story 1: OP was right to reveal the truth. Jess was jealous of Kay from an early age. Even if she married Matt, she still doesn't want Kay to be happy so the next time Kay brings a new guy to meet her family Jess would have done something to ruin it. I'm glad Matt broke up with Jess, their relationship was based on a lie and he can't trust her. We love this ending for Jess.

[@WhitneyDahlin]

Yeah the ONLY people against exposing cheaters and traitors are cheaters/traitors themselves. You cannot claim to love your family member or friend and yet keep it from them they're being cheated on (or otherwise betrayed). Once the truth inevitably comes out and they find out you knew all along you're a traitor too and will be cut out of their life. People end themselves and others over cheating allll the time. Every minute of everyday. It isn't something to keep from someone. Exposing a cheater is ALWAYS the right thing to do. Peoples health and lives and fertility is at risk. I know that story wasn't technically about cheating but the sister betrayed her own sister. That's in the same ballpark honestly

[@danielwarren7110]

yeah this ^ I would not be surprised if Kay was in something serious Jess would try and sleep with or lie about sleeping with Kay's or do it in secret to know she has one over on Kay. Or heaven forbid Kay gets pregnant first.

[@lalalachris]

Story with the deadbeat father: “stop giving me consequences for my actions! I ate my cake, now give me more cake!” Also the fiancé? Red flags galore “You’re a b%^*#!” Also cries when she leaves

[@lucariomew365]

There's another update. L spinelessly caved to his family's demands again, proving commenters' predictions right, and OP 100% broke up with him cause she now knew that (like EVERYONE said), if they did have kids in the future, L would take the kids to see his family and OP's Dad & J behind her back. OP's sister blasted J in social media-which included stuff that OP didn't even know about-and J eventually found OP's sister and physically assaulted her in public. So now OP is getting a restraining order. And being a small town, everyone knows about the second assault and are gossiping about the Dad and J.

[@JamaicanMonroe]

"You and the couch are in the naughty corner" 🤣 cracked me up!

[@theconfusedvampire]

Oh god, I thought that's what I heard. 😅 Stop bringing up the couch, Markee! Nobody wants to remember the couch! It's time to stop! Get help. 🤣🤣🤣

[@ZombieSazza]

NOT THE COUCH, ANYTHING BUT THAT COUCH

[@krystalfloods6197]

OP really did do the right thing and I’m glad they spoke up. The sister is a freaking monster for what she did.

[@lina9535]

Story 1: "They are perfect for each other." and "his love for Kay can't have been that deep." Both of these things are stupid. Jess manipulated Matt by steering him away from Kay. And any decent person would stop trying to show that they are interested in someone when they learned that they have a partner. Kay saying "it was meant to be" about Jess and Matt is disturbing, because she doesn't know that Jess went in between them.

[@90charmedndangerous]

Exactly, and considering kay told them everything about matt jess probably used that in manipulating him which he must have thought was destiny or something.

[@MoonWomanStudios]

Introverts always say "they've taken me out of my shell" but in another year they'll really want that shell back

[@OKAYOKAY420]

Yep. They don't realize how draining their partner can get until it's too late.

[@kittikats]

I've helped my partner out of his shell ... but like as a proper turtle. So his head and legs come out and can connect with the world as he wants / feels comfortable with but he's free to go back in whenever he wants and doesn't need to be away from his shell at all. Or in people terms people get invited over, small groups not too often and people he already knows and is familiar with. He's free to leave the socialising and go chill elsewhere. When he does socialise it's normally a one on one thing. When extroverted people want to "bring you out of your shell" they normally mean fully out, naked turtle and shell in a different room. Its not healthy or sustainable for your turtle introvert.

[@zelbel5043]

@@kittikats YOU ARE DOING IT THE CORRECT WAY. Thank you for understanding introverts

[@kittikats]

@zelbel5043 even when I was younger and had bigger parties (10-20 people) there were different areas. Like the nosier bunch would be playing sing star, guitar hero or buzz near the TV, the back of lounge some people could be watching and casual chatting and others hanging in the kitchen or backyard and just chatting quietly.

[@zelbel5043]

@@kittikats this is honestly brilliant, because you have some space for those that need to recharge or can't handle the overstimulating abundance of attention and energy. Well done 👍

[@ronamayday]

Story 1: her sister made him quit his job to keep him from finding out the truth

[@kanelovec4315]

If jess lied about this what else did she lie about. Like what has he changes or got rid of due to jess telling him something. Like she made it look like her older sister was a cheater or was leading him on. What other people has she lied about to get people away from Matt and have Matt be more dependent on her?

[@lina9535]

The fiancé who had a vasectomy, I'm guessing is one of those that don't go to their follow up check ups to make sure that the surgery was a sucess. OP should just break it off from this dude.

[@rubymeaddle]

That happens so often too, so many kids are fatherless because a dude couldn't be bothered to go to a follow-up

[@9davcal]

One of my hobbies is warhammer, one day I caught my partner trying to clear some space. When I asked her why, she smiled and said "so we can display your army!" Thats a real partner, that OP who hid her husbands personality is just awful.

[@chickensandwich8808]

Absolute keeper! By the Emperors decree!

[@ebagentj]

Story about the guy sleeping with his wife's twin: I was also focused on the three year old daughter in this story, especially because of this from experience: I have identical twin cousins. When I went to the first birthday of the daughter of one of them, they demonstrated that she would mistake her aunt for her mother whenever her mother was no where in sight, but she could totally pick which one was her mom when they were together. I don't know when she outgrew that, but with children that little not really understanding death, I worry about OP's daughter thinking her mom is back. The twin needs to go away (or OP does) for a long time so that she stops getting the little girl's hopes up. Story where OP is taking (ex) husband's affair child: I am with everyone else saying this woman is remarkable. It was one thing when she planned to stay with her husband and it was his responsibility, and she was already doing leaps and bounds better than anyone else in her situation would by thinking of that little girl first and foremost and not holding the circumstances of her existing against her, but to decide to take that child with her after the divorce? That's some next level good karma. I hope she finds a handsome, wealthy, ripped, professional man who loves kids and wants to treat her like a queen and see that the kids get whatever they need.

[@Cece9090]

I'm going to say if the trauma from the abandoning was strong enough for OP in story 3(?) To not even go to her sister's wedding or baby shower then it might be a little worse then she is letting on. She has absolutely every right to not allow him in her life but it also sounds like she could really use some help processing it, therapy might be good for her.

[@katie6731]

Agreed. I'm also wondering how her sister felt about OP's decisions to abandon her for those important milestones.

[@rubymeaddle]

Ok so, OP had no problem being in the same room as the dad. The issue is he would regularly try to hug her and reconnect. That's why she doesn't go. Sister had a choice: OP or their dad and she picked their dad.

[@danielwarren7110]

the guy who lost his wife and has started something with the sister... is missing something... she came to help with the child... how much will this f'up the child who has also lost her mum. if sister is there so much aunt becoming mum who looks like mum and sounds like mum and acts like mum, how is this going to help the child with grief. NO ONE IS MENTIONING THE 3 YEAR OLD... this is soooooooooooooo bad for the child.

[@ZombieSazza]

15:57 “you and the couch are in the naughty corner” BRO NOT THE COUCH NOOOOO

[@LadyWolvie82]

OPs 1 & 2 understood the assignment. They knew their respective situations the best, and by following their gut, they got what they wanted in the end. I'm proud of the OP who took in the affair child as if they were her own. She is such an amazing person.

[@sherahnah]

"I'm tried of hearing about you through other people and I've given you enough space...." RESTRAINING ORDER.

[@ladyjpolite]

Exactly!! How do you demand access to my life as if he's entitled to it? 🤯

[@intetx]

Jess is a psychopath who just did it to hurt K.

[@dre1978]

I will never understand the partners that don't let their SO help with decorating their shared space. That's their home too. Just steamrolling over your partners decor ideas because you don't like it just seems so mean and disrespectful to do to someone you're supposed to love

[@WhitneyDahlin]

Yeah it's a MAJOR red flag for a control freak! I can't imagine being with someone so nitpicky and controlling and who truly believe they have the right to micromanage you in your own home. She has some major problems and if she doesn't get help she will be a nightmare mother

[@Raja-bz4yw]

Oooof that story on the dad was intense. He ruined the agreement and now things probably wont be the same. Honestly if he just agreed and did everything they agreed on things would've gone differently. But now i bet that daughter will never try to reconcile with him. Smh.

[@yamairad1]

If you ever think that your loved one will "get over it" YOU WILL END UP ALONE. It doesn't matter if it's your kid, parent, sibling or spouse. Nobody wants to be with a person who completely disregards them. IT. NEVER. WORKS. Get therapy!

[@northeastoperations]

Telling Jess first will allow her to twist the story and make herself a victim. She has proven that she is dishonest. Expecting people to go against their proven nature is stupid.

[@susioeandno1else]

Op1 is so petty... I want to be best friends with her

[@LordGertz]

My mother grew up in an extremely friendly small town, and yet she could list at least 3 pairs of people that would have absolutely nothing to do with each other.

[@raritysmith957]

2nd story Dad is 100% a narcissist, he will NEVER leave her alone as he cannot stand that she sees him for what he is and lets him know, real narcissist work hard to hide who they really are and are threatened when someone sees them without their "mask".

[@Sydney_With_A_Why]

Last story, get up early Monday and leave him a note that says you had to go in early but hope he worked out something for the week like you told him he would have to multiple times for a few weeks. Your phone will be off while you're in meetings, but you'll see him when you're done with work Friday. XO, OP Then sleep in your car, shower at your gym, and focus on your job this week. He's got it.

[@rubymeaddle]

Vasectomy story: I get the dude's knee jerk reaction but her reputation was publicly dragged when she was innocent. The first thing he could have done was go to a doctor and have his count checked. Trust your partner but verify yknow? OP should leave because yeah that's hard to get past. She was innocent.

[@peggyseabrun4829]

Douchbag dad story if ever there was a walking example of eating his cake and wanting to have it too

[@catpool94poolcat24]

Why did we gloss over the fact that Kay, who was 15 had a boyfriend who was 20? And then the boyfriend got with a 13 year old little sister.

[@ajzephyros7454]

No Jess was 15 when she stole the 20 year old boyfriend

[@catpool94poolcat24]

@ajzephyros7454 that's still bad, but thank you for the correction

[@dianecheney4141]

This is going to sound sanctimonious as hell, but if you don't let people be responsible, you stunt their growth. It's adversity that helps us grow. You need to let him be the father, not the Disneyland father, but a real and complete father

[@lindalehr1551]

Trad Wife story. If OP really wants to play hard ball, he could tell his wife that since they are Muslim and she wants to be "traditional " he will be looking into adding a second wfe to the household. 😂

[@chickensandwich8808]

Seriously. Especially since "trad wife" is specifically trying to mythologies that 1950/60s American ideal that never existed. What's more, EXACTLY about Muslim traditionalism. The wife is electing to make it Traditional American, but that might not be as culturally sound. I don't think she quite understands the scope of what she is asking, she is just hearing about an ideal from social media and running with it.

[@kokonautus5343]

Also, no more showing skin or hair in public. Get her a nice burqa.

[@toria9799]

2nd story... Anytime with someone avoids accountability, avoids addressing their part, deflects, tries to force you, isn't sorry... RUN!!

[@datmanydocris]

Story about the friend manipulating: I'm sick and tired of OPs in posts like this never taking accountability for their own actions. The fact that OP is saying that the friend manipulated her into believing that her husband was cheating on her, blaming everything on the friend is downright disgusting and shows that she refuses to take accountability. I'm sorry, but if all it takes for your friend to "manipulate" you into believing your husband cheated is show you a blurry photo with no visible faces of a woman with a man wearing a watch and holding a tie that your husband, along with likely thousands of other men have, your friend didn't really have to do much "manipulation" to convince you, which tells me you already didn't trust your partner and thought they were a piece of trash. If anyone came to me with a blurry photo with no real identifying features and claimed it was evidence of my girlfriend cheating one me, even if it was my best friend, I would tell them that I trust my GF and unless they could give me _actual evidence,_ I just wasn't going to believe them. The fact that she just believed her friend wholesale, never asked to see the actual messages if her friend was supposedly able to crack the phone, never asked anybody else, never tried to look into whether the friend's "evidence" was legitimate, never even tried to talk about it with her BF, it all shows she is at fault here, almost entirely. And then the fact that OP continued to believe that he cheated on her even after seeing his response to her accusation, no blowing up, no screaming at her, just simply telling her he did not do that, saying that if she didn't believe him then they were done, trying to comfort her when she was sad, and leaving without issue, things that someone who actually cheated probably wouldn't do, just goes to show even more that the only reason the friend was able to "manipulate" her was because _she wanted to be manipulated._

[@Rudthxxxx]

Op1 Be careful and don't let her get pregnant again as a staying home. If anything, cut back on your work. She needs some problems.

[@kirashepard5942]

Markee pls put timestamps, sometimes i have to stop using KZbin and i lose track of the part of the video i was at ;-;

[@OmgaCuteCatPic]

Op to her fiance: Hmmm, my. Father chose his other family over me and I went nc for decades, Are you really choosing his other family over me too? Father keeps getting involved in op's relationships and ruining them. His involvement is going to leave her with no one and he knows this.

[@dianecheney4141]

When some one says they promise to never do that again you have to ask them what they are promising not to do again because what they understand and what you understand are two different things

[@amashizaino]

IDK why but there's a lot of the channels I've subscribed to for like reddit reads or nosleep with Markee or Mr. Creepypasta that don't come up in my feed when I reload my main KZbin page. I have no idea what's going on... >_>

[@dianecheney4141]

Boyfriend just doesn't want to pay child support

[@littlewifelora2182]

Don’t divorce but definitely teach her a lesson. She doesn’t respect your feelings or opinions and that needs to change in order for the relationship to work

[@breannashell3799]

I broke up with an ex because he asked me to marry him and I said yes then he turned around and asked me if he could have a mistress on the side.

[@dianecheney4141]

You know the next guy is going to ask why her previous relationship ended. That's going to be an interesting conversation. I stole my boyfriends work phone and gave it to someone to hack for me

[@lalvarez5151]

Story 2-NTA. The second the dad said his other family was priorty it was over. The Op went No contact. So why is the fiance trying to blame her for not trying? She went NO contact

[@kp2223]

S2 is just so sad

[@morganleanderblake678]

1:12 It feels like she adheres to the idea that there's a "right" way to decorate and a "right" way to have a home; ergo breaking that is a concession.

[@chaupham1028]

"I like HIS room the way it is". ??? Is that HIS room?

[@IzzyPR2010]

Op fiance mentioned that his father and OP's father were friends, does this mean OP's father arranged with his friend to have the guy's son hook up with OP so she can later be manipulated long distance by dad? Regardless it's a red flag that the fiance takes the father's side automatically against the person he's supposed to be in love with. OP needs to dump this loser and not look back.

[@dianecheney4141]

You know you'll end up paying more in child support

[@themorbiddoll]

At some point Jay became Jess and I got really confused. I wonder if Jess is the real name and Jay was supposed to be the alias.

[@dianecheney4141]

When you get a vasectomy they tell you to check it from time to time to make sure it still works. They aren't 100% like a tubal ligation

[@loganphillips2166]

Story 1: I was against telling until he mentioned that it happened before.

[@annem7806]

MATT need to know he was lied to. Send him a note w/o a signature.

[@annem7806]

Your fiancee took a bribe from your father. GOOD BYE. Tell Dad he can tell fiancee the wedding is off & its bc of the two of them. Dad is a narcissist

[@annem7806]

Get for charges. Go press charges & get videos from restaurant & statements from witnesses.

[@annem7806]

If you marry, ELOPE

[@annem7806]

Do not financially abuse your unborn child!!!! Get child support set up before birth.

[@vetaroberts3333]

Nta, your sister is willing to accept any thing from him

[@MariMotherofGoblins]

Guys my husband had a vasectomy last year and I'm now very anxious THANKS

[@Phantombucketmouse]

Markee outrage gives me life.

[@theresaschuebel5151]

My dad had a vesctiomy and didn't wait for the first check up.and I got a baby sister 13 months after I was born. Me December of 1969 and her February of 1971

[@icarussisyphus]

Markee, I love the way you put things without sugar coating thigs.

[@wheelsndealz]

op still owes his gf an apology. he used her. ruined her first meeting. this really shows a lack of respect for his own relationship. he's willing to do that with no regard for his partner at all.

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

What post are you referring to?

[@wheelsndealz]

@@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64 the first one where op used his parents meeting his gf for the first time as an excuse to call her out.

[@dre1978]

Honestly, I kinda agree but kinda don't. If I was in the gf's shoes I'd just be confused. OP needed to tell ASAP so no one lost any money on wedding stuff. I don't really see how this translates to a lack of respect for his relationship; op definitely should've warned her about it but it's an unusual situation to be in and I can see someone not thinking clearly because of this

[@wheelsndealz]

@@dre1978 you heard him. He said he planned it. So instead of it being about his gf meeting his parents it was about that stunt. You may not find that disrespectful but I certainly do. It shows a clear lack of respect. It shows he doesn't care about the relationship if he's willing to use her as a reason to drop that bomb. She is an after thought. He could have either told her about it first and asked if she wanted to be involved or not. What if things got violent? What if she doesn't want her first meeting with his family to be about drama. That's something that is never gonna change now. I really don't see how it's not incredibly disrespectful to her and their relationship.

[@lounirs]

They probably talked about that together before, I'm sure they had she was okay with this... Ever heard of communication?

[@cookiecrumbs4525]

At first I didn't look at the video and was jusy listening to it while doing work But lemme tell u the laugh I laughed when I looked up and saw markee wearing the pirate hat and eyepatch IM DEAD

[@carlrood4457]

If it's a work phone, then he probably doesn't own it. That means OP stole his company's property and he could face consequences.

[@MikeM-n2r]

Redecorating. I’d completely redecorate and redesign the entire house in MY style…. What a Karen

[@stampandscrap7494]

The fact that the dad sneakily paid for the wedding is proof that he does not care about how she feels.

[@glenpersinger3390]

She should sue for damages against friend over fraud phone

[@markbizinski6425]

The Jess & Kay Story ; I Would Have Waited For The Wedding Reception, and SPILLED ALL THE BEANS in My Congratulary Speech . Then Again I'm an A_S - HOLE Like That .

[@DJJewelz13]

Im a vasectomy baby. Im 41 years old now, nothing but a woman having her uterus taken out is permanent.

[@vetaroberts3333]

I would tell him he you choose his second family, walked away from your first family. He wants his cake and eat it too.

[@dianecheney4141]

How do you see the court going? I don't want to be the sole support of my family

[@dianecheney4141]

Nah go ahead to the mosque for couple counseling. That should work in your favor

[@mrsangelafisher]

Even if I started talking to my dad I'd leave the fiancé. What a douche bag. Lying about his family paying for the wedding stuff when it was OP's farther? Geez what a POS.

[@joeyjojojrshabadoo7462]

The tradwife? Rad Wife! I guess she's just going to be doing tricks and Ollie's when he's at work at the skatepark.

[@vampire9545]

Telling the truth can NEVER make you an AH

[@StarWizardGanymede]

If my husband slept with my sister after I died, I'd give them both nightmares until they followed me through the veil. Reason: both my sisters are vile people and my husband despises them.

[@shadowcollins4589]

Wtf is wrong with the person who said it wouldn't be ok to tell Matt without the sisters approval. That's bs

[@tinamelton6491]

Put the truth out into the air and let it lie where it lies

[@thotimusprimeofficial273]

on the ticket story - so confusing, if you want to use the tickets for a friend and yourself… then buy/pay for both tickets? so you can go on the holiday and she isn’t subsidising your mate??? just for breaking up with you?? so weird. or vise versa have her pay for the airbnb? I think op was being difficult for like no reason imo if he was bringing a friend? idk maybe i didn’t follow it correctly 💀

[@Elrigger]

Story 1. I'm not saying this is the same story but I've read one where the daughter had changed all the facts of the story to fit her narrative and made dad out to be worse n then he was. Granted the father did have an affair but only after years of not having a loving relationship with the wife but the oldest daughter wouldn't accept the truth that mom and dad were getting a divorce. The daughter would self destruct everything to make her father look bad. She wasnin self denial.

[@rubymeaddle]

He had an affair. That makes him wrong 🤙 Her "changing the narrative" is inconsequential at that point

[@tkherman7145]

No one seems to think about the fact that NO ONE expects their best friend to lie to them? The 1, 2, 3, list doesn’t even consider this. When someone finds the cheering on the phone it’s fine, but when they don’t they are a thieving ahole

[@theresaschuebel5151]

I worked 30 hrs a week, went to school online and did all the house work and cooking and Dr appointments with my girls and volunteered at their school So that wife who wants to be a stay at home mom is nuts. I wad an online student from 2006 to 2014

[@Globbronglobgr0d]

Larry isnt worthy to have the same name as larry THE LOBSTER!!!!🦞

[@stardominguez84]

Jesús! Are people really blaming a 15yr old for a 29 yr old taking advantage of her??? I don’t give a damn what she did/said??? She was a child!😳🙄

[@happilyevernever4289]

No. But they are showing she has had a pattern of stealing bfs. The fact that it's a pedo bf is besides the actual point OP was making about the sister's behaviour. Something that she shouldn't do and should've grown out of as an adult.

[@dorianleakey]

The age makes him a villain, the fact she wants to do it again and hasn't grown up since 15 when she was immature and easily victimised makes her a villain. What you are doing isn't seeing nasty people dismiss predators, you are seeing a gap in what people discuss, and absence of focus on that and thinking it gives you a chance to interpret that in a way that makes you feel superior, by pretending that means everyone blames her for it.

[@QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse]

Thank you!!

[@QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse]

@@happilyevernever4289 what exactly should she have grown out of?

[@QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse]

@@happilyevernever4289 excepts she does not have a “pattern of stealing boyfriends” unless you are asserting that the 15 year old child was at fault for “stealing” the adult pedo who assaulted her.

[@readerunite]

What the heck?! I am soooo tired of these comments that stay at home parents lie around and do nothing. It is super hard work. It is 24/7 and no one appreciates what you do. Maybe the wife is fricken tired of having two full time jobs - she works full time at work to come home and cook and clean until who knows what time to go back to work again. Maybe the wife would like a life like her husband where he comes home and has it all done for him while she might like to try and finish up before he gets home. Even if the children go to school, if you can have someone at home while you have teenagers, do it. Teens are tough. I hope you haters get a taste of how hard it is to be a full time stay at home mom. It absolutely isn't sunshine and roses especially when you are used to having your own money and now you have to "ask" for it.

[@tinamelton6491]

Send it to each and every one of them anonymously

[@mandykawaii1646]

“ if it’s meant to be, it will be” ah no? had any of you communicated back then; either one of you confessing by saying something like: “after I found out you had a boyfriend, I thought you were playing with my feelings” OR “after I brought you to my party, you completely ghosted me. I want to know why.” things would’ve gone differently and your sister would’ve been found out waaaaay earlier. When people are plotting against you so it’s “not meant to be” you need to do something. Communicate.

[@FanFicnic]

Why do these long ones have no chapters?? They it really sucks

[@wenhall6258]

Story 1 NTA she playing games she needs get job not put playing around with you . She needs to work 25 to 30 hours a week. Her kids not babys . Like others said cut her money off . Dont let her walk all over you .

[@dianecheney4141]

You know that his display just needed to be displayed correctly. You think you're a designer and have better taste than him when all you had to do was find a better system of display. But even if you put it back it doesn't change the broken trust

[@starbird3939]

Story 2? I definitely need to hear all the stories because it feels weird EVERYONE is against OP.

[@ronnieferguson9337]

There’s absolutely nothing weird about it. When EVERYONE around you, has a horse in the race. Of course they’ll want you to do what works out for them, even if it’s not what’s best for you. Heck, parents and family, do it to their own kids/family; all the time and in the name of concern and wanting what’s best for them.

[@rubymeaddle]

Conservative small town, dad is rich and a pillar of the community despite cheating on his wife. Seen it happen, small towns are hell.

[@joeyjojojrshabadoo7462]

Everyone else including her mum) wasn't willing to cut him out for their over it. Op was willing to basically go into self-imposed exile over it.

[@emperorwai]

The astranged dad/daughter story got under my skin. I'm currently dealing with the reality of no longer seeing my father as family. Granted, i am in my 30s but his new family was so much more important, he neglected so much and did some really shit ass things. He thinks 'we can get through this'. Nah, chuckle fuck, there's no 'we'. Not any more. Shit dads like to think they know their kids so well. He doesn't know a thing. The OPs dad tried but literally said 'i have to take care of my family' TO HIS LITERAL CHILD. WHEN THEY WERE A CHILD. Nope. Just fucking nope.

[@dieitra6184]

Makes no sense but heyo: Watertown is free and clear for me and mine henceforth, let’s make the place a community folks ✨🖤✨

[@feministawry1600]

People saying that it would be a "test of their love" is soooo dumb

[@Noilamall]

WIBTA if I told my younger sister's fiancé that she lied about my older sister when they first met? Story: 0:00 Comments: 2:56 Update: 8:10 Comments: 11:09 Update in Comments: 12:31 Comments: 13:47 AITA for refusing to have my dad in my life after he chose his new family? Story: 16:41 Comments: 19:22 Update: 22:28 Comments: 24:35 Update 2: 28:13 Comments: 34:54 Update 3: 37:26 Comments 43:14 AITA for threatening my wife with divorce after she quit her job to be a "tradwife" Story: 48:26 More Information: 52:19 Comments: 53:19 Update: 56:49 Comments: 1:01:15 I threw away my husband's collections and now he wont speak to me Story: 1:05:20 Comments: 1:07:14 Update: 1:08:16 Comment: 1:08:33 Update: 1:09:11 Comments: 1:10:04 My "friend" (36F) manipulated me (28F) into believing my boyfriend (27M) was having an affair Story: 1:13:26 Comments: 1:17:32 Update: 1:20:18 Comments: 1:20:58 AITAH for still not forgiving my fiancé? Story: 1:25:59 Comments: 1:27:55 Update: 1:32:42 Comments: 1:34:17 Am I wrong for finding comfort in my late wife's twin sister? Story: 1:39:45 Comments: 1:41:17 Update: 1:47:46 Comments: 1:48:10 My husband's (36M) affair daughter (5F) was dropped off at our house two weeks ago and it's causing issues in our marriage. Is there anyway to salvage this? Story: 1:49:50 More Information: 1:54:46 Comments: 1:56:10 Update: 1:59:18 Comments: 2:02:45 AITA for refusing to pay for half of my ex-girlfriend's flight that she can't use because we broke up, and now possibly not even mine Story: 2:05:30 Comments: 2:08:41 Update: 2:12:04 Comments: 2:14:09

[@stampandscrap7494]

Mother could have issues in childbirth and end up unable to work. Whos going to feed them then

[@katbird5872]

Story 3 (?) with the dad that moved 10 hours away- if he truly loves OP and cares about her then he would respect that she wants space instead of trying to force a relationship.

[@Clothilde7]

36:30 he never said that she was his family no more. He said he had to take care of his family. And knowing that he broke up her family she interpreted that as she no longer part of his. And yeah the formulation was not gods like definitely and yeah the situation created a wound on abandonment in her. But it’s not like he didn’t try to reach her over the years, she was h time refuses to keep contact with him. And I understand her pov as a child of divorce to. But keeping this wound open at 30+ years old is really dangerous for her, her family and future children. Cause she is not able to see the consequence of her action nor being empathetic to the situation cause she has so much rage in her that she didn’t deal with. I don’t mean for her to shut up and let go, I say to go to therapy for herself to understand and make peace with herself or it will eat her up and her children and husband (not necessarily her present fiancé) will suffer from it. And fo the father, even though his daughter was, rightly so, against his partner (they broke her family) not explaining to her the situation at the moment was THE mistake. Teens are not dumb, children either. As a parent and an adult you cannot leave your children in the dark like that and expect them to understand the situation. You can’t force yourself upon them because YOU want to mend your past actions and think they will welcome you with open arms. The both of them are really similar in behavior, her to force distancing and him to force closeness. It’s a good thing he is in therapy and propose to her to come to some sessions but the problem want get better if she don’t work on herself either, or is willing to. And for the fiancé, he thought that let his FIL pay for something’s would help her see that her father is not that bad and he’s trying but the discord is to deep for those “simple” gestures to repair the relationship father/daughter. I just hope that she will be able to see that her fiancee is not her father and he did this for her. So she won’t go away because of her wound of abandonment. Edit: Yeah, the father is an idiot. He needs to back off and understand what people say. Not what he wants to her.

[@yeighseph1976]

The failed vasectomy story is a big part of why I'm an advocate for mandatory paternity tests. One of the commenters stated he could have done things differently. One thing he mentioned was HE could have asked for a test. If he did that it would have been the same outcome. She would have felt he was accusing her of cheating.

[@dynoooomite6936]

Not necessarily. He had a vasectomy, he had actual reasons for doubting, so asking for a test would have been the reasonable response. There's a big difference between randomly accusing your wife of paternity fraud out of nowhere and this.

[@yeighseph1976]

@dynoooomite6936 yes, but women are usually emotional thinkers not logical. So "hey, I had a vasectomy and want a DNA test" I've listened to enough of these stories that it would have ended with her upset over her partner not trusting her.

[@dynoooomite6936]

@@yeighseph1976 I've also listened to enough of these stories to know what you're referring to is men randomly out of nowhere asking for paternity tests with literally no hint of impropriety on the part of the wives. In which case, any woman with an ounce of self respect will be done with that relation. That isn't just a last of trust, that is an accusation of paternity fraud without any cause. That is not emotional thinking, its just plain self-respect. Having a vasectomy is reasonable cause, having a wife who's had or is having an affair is reasonable cause, suspicious relationship timeline is a reasonable cause. Accusing a wife or partner who has never been unfaithful or had any suspicious activities of paternity fraud is the end of any relationship.

[@yeighseph1976]

@dynoooomite6936 is not always our of no where. To many stories of, "Oh I have a perfect marriage, and a perfect wife... Update, she was cheating on me." No matter how well you know a person, you will truly never know that person.

[@angelabailey8130]

⁠@@yeighseph1976Are you a woman? If no, how do you know she would’ve reacted like that? If yes, still how do you how she would have reacted that way? Just because you feel you would react that way, doesn’t mean everyone would. You’re not the spokesperson of women, people feel differently. It seems like you’re just assuming the worst.

[@Akemi.24-45]

おはよ〜、Markee! Have an excellent week ahead. ♥️🤗

[@kennethsjvold9212]

Second story has 9 updates

[@nerdygeekgamer5528]

If Matt was so easily fooled by that one little white lie that Kay's baby sister Jess started all to have him to herself than KAY really doesn't need Jess's SLOPPY SECONDS

[@jrod1591]

That second story…. You missed your sister’s wedding because of your hate for your dad? That’s sad and honestly seems unreasonable. You didn’t have to talk to your dad but I have a feeling that you made that wedding about you by refusing to go to your own sister’s wedding…. Edit: yea I’m sorry but the daughter needs a therapist because she is unreasonable. I knew everyone around her was not crazy, she is.