6 Surprising Barriers To Finding True Love | Myesha Chaney

[@haggaispeaks]

Hey everyone!! A scripture that comes to mind is trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding in all your ways submit to Him and He will make your paths straight..... Proverbs 3:5-6. Knowing who I am in Christ and what/who Christ wants for me

[@detricegaines1889]

Ive done all of this in my dating days lol!! Once I think back chatting with my friend! I was kinda coming off too clingy and slight desperate some!! Been in my relationship of 6 years !! It wasn't easy getting here! Being single from 2005 to 2017 was really hard trust me!! It's all in god's timing!! Yes I was really lonely at times!! But no one was fitting my standards!! Wasn't gonna hook up with any man just to say I have one!! Knowing yourself and want you deserve and being patient is all you need!! Yes date around and see what's out there!! Your person is out here!! this video is right on point!!

[@Myesha]

So good. Thank you!

[@RMW22222]

Healing first is so necessary! Excellent advice! ❤

[@Myesha]

Thank you!

[@Silviaboss41]

Myisha you have no idea how long time your divorce is in my life. As crucial as that sounds and harsh at two and currently going through divorce been separated over two years my divorce is hopefully almost final there’s nothing really to settle between about those besides our children so we’ll see how that goes. But some of the situation, where everything looks so good on the outside than inside I was suffocating, suffocating from lack of love lack of compassion, lack of leader ship, lack of so many things, self-esteem. Self-worth self-preservation I can go on and on and on. Your short videos Maria had I absolutely love that these are short videos. I cannot stand a 30 minute an hour two hour long podcast video on these topics and lose interest rather quickly.

[@Myesha]

So happy you are here!

[@red6hot1913]

I agree with it all except.. we have to be realistic. Your advice is good for younger women probably like yourself. As a 40 something, the stakes are higher. We're established in our careers. Homeowners generally. Many of our counterparts at these sports bars are very taken or divorced and jaded.

[@Myesha]

Thanks for this insight!

[@artistryarticle6859]

Ummm, she's 40 and her advice is spot on for us even in our 30s. You have to declog all of that stuff older women have sprayed and things men on social media says

[@ntombifuthishabangu]

But that's not true. It's just propaganda that when we reach the 40s or after 40, it is hard to find love. THAT IS TIME FOR LOVE WHEN YOU have accomplished

[@ntombifuthishabangu]

What's stopping us isn't believing in love. We limit ourselves by being in the past and believing in the shortage of love

[@mariemessi2303]

I find difficult to let go of the past hurt

[@mphodingiswayo3282]

Baby steps my dear, allow yourself to heal , be kind to yourself and trust the process

[@Myesha]

You are doing the best you can. Little by little.

[@MarybethThomas-v1c]

I live in New Jersey, everyone hates me, I'm getting intentional hurt, when I think say this not the thing I need,being watch, crazy,insulted

[@mariemessi2303]

This is the stage I am at

[@Myesha]

Keep going!

[@cristinazoli]

After my divorce i didnt want to find nobody ..i wanted to love me. Discovered me.

[@Myesha]

So true

[@arlenemoore2283]

I have been married for 22 years this June my husband did something very wrong and I confronted him about it an he pack up and left no phone call no address that happened 2 years this August he just disappeared 😮

[@Myesha]

Unbelievable. Thank God that happened now and not later.

[@shvonda29]

Hi everyone I’m ready to get out there, but I’m scared at the same time. I’m Finding it hard to want to invest in the process. It’s been 15 years since I dated. That was with my ex husband. Have a friend but it’s just that a friendship. I need confidence to get out there. I definitely have my antennas up to weed out the those that just playing the game.

[@Myesha]

You are such a beautiful person. Trust yourself.

[@MarybethThomas-v1c]

You seem very smart, have God, I have no experience with God just alot bad rumors, and

[@ricardomayo8337]

I saw a just for men commercial, but Ill pass. Do they share episodes? Or am I just blowing the bush to see it degrade?

[@MarybethThomas-v1c]

I'm so upset I can't live, being rejected, my son needs a healthy mother I think I heard someone say God wanted me out the kingdom of God, to get out stay out

[@anderiahutchinson6456]

You move forward by let ing go of past😂

[@Myesha]

Good one!